HOW TO TAKE YOUR POWER BACK AND LEAVE A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP! "THE ART OF WALKING AWAY"

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  • Hey Yoni Tribe!
    In today's video I give you 5 tips on how you can leave a toxic relationship behind and regain your POWER back. I teach you the art of how to walk away!
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  • @Callherbianca
    @Callherbianca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Yo i love this!! I just left a toxic - ass bum and it’s so crazy the smoke cleared from my eyes. It was abusive in every sense! So much stuff I allowed for the greater good and I’ve never been so happy and at peace. God will deal with him not me. On to bigger and better. Got a new job, started a clothing business & around my family again💅🏽

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm walking away from everything that doesn't serve me. I'm alone a lot more but I'm content.

  • @user-hl5fw1nw9l
    @user-hl5fw1nw9l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Embracing yourself after forgiving yourself is honestly so beautiful. Nothing like a word of confidence from the one person that knows and loves all your flaws. Esp when that person is YOU 💞💙🦋

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just got out of a toxic relationship earlier this year and I feel like I can finally breathe. He was trash and I don’t know why I was with him. He was doing nothing for me and I’m glad I finally realized it. Thank you Yanie 💗

  • @ladybug6055
    @ladybug6055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You need to get rid of the people who are not healthy for you out your life. I had a friend tell me to get them the hell out of my ear and business. You don't need their posionous habits and words because you are trying to rise after the depression they caused. You find yourself always trying to win yourself back after Narcissistic abuse and attacks coming from other but going back it's probably because the very people you need out of your life needs to be gone.

  • @Kdivinity_
    @Kdivinity_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I literally just left one because of codependency. I felt so broken after ward because it felt like I was asking for to much and in a way he made me feel like wasn’t enough because I was codependent. I walked away and everyday I miss him. Honestly this is hard to do . I’m trying to heal and see the bigger picture and let myself heal but everyday it’s like my mind always goes back and trying to analyze what happened. I can’t wait to get back to loving and just focusing on my self, it’s been like 3 months and I just want this to be over.

    • @unabashedwoman2933
      @unabashedwoman2933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It takes times but you will feel stronger and be able to get past those feelings. I didn’t think it was possible but it happens.

  • @zarai2547
    @zarai2547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Walked away after he said cheating makes a relationship strong. We literally just started dating and I just walked away , wasn't easy but ug whatever

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You dodged a bullet

    • @zugootsprevasio6595
      @zugootsprevasio6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh this y I can’t stand women like you. Now you know you could’ve stayed & let that man waste just a few decades of your life. Ugh I hate women with common sense. Y’all make me SICC !!!!! Btw my name is Felondarius.

    • @zugootsprevasio6595
      @zugootsprevasio6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FreedomofSpeech865 You sound crazy. This is exactly why I had to leave my baby mama cuz she was toxic. She gone ask me to stop cheating on her. Then got the nerve to ask me to get off my lazy sorry stankin ass n get a job. Bish bye. I’ll never stop being a piece of 💩

  • @jasmyneperryman9629
    @jasmyneperryman9629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Just decided to walk away and get out of an emotionally abusive toxic relationship with a man that would constantly call me fat whenever he got angry and say horrible things to me and cheated on me multiple times we were together 5 years and have been broken up for about 2 months now this video was very relatable and helpful to me thank u yanie
    Also a self care routine video would definitely help as well you are awesome! 🤗

    • @yanieiisha
      @yanieiisha  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you! I'm so happy for you! Congratulations boo because this is not easy. 😩

    • @Callherbianca
      @Callherbianca 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yass sis I relate 💕

    • @anthonyj5416
      @anthonyj5416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      okay I don't really know where to go for this but I like this boy he was my first everything we been in a relation ship for a half a year he real nice and every thing I want I met his parents and everything I'm 16 and gay soo yea he moved and we been so distracted with our own life but we made time for each other but I feel like he the right person but this not the right time and I cant see my self without him a this point and he fells the same way we don't want to hold each other back like I said we can't see our life's without each other I came here cause the best advice u can get is form grown black woman's.

  • @SupaStar100
    @SupaStar100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love Halle Berry early acting days especially in this scene of "Boomerang". It felt too real!

  • @ceceelle8599
    @ceceelle8599 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It definitely takes a strong level head to this… I admit I am guilty of letting him back in once, twice, three times etc… I failed to trust myself and my instinct until I got hurt really bad… Lesson Learned 101: TRUST YOUR DEEP GUT INSTINCT/TRUST YOURSELF! The sooner you can leave, the better! Peace & blessings to every queen!❤️

  • @noroxxx2349
    @noroxxx2349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    sent a goodbye message few minutes ago. I am done 🙏🏾

  • @jackiewilliams11
    @jackiewilliams11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It’s been 5 weeks since I left a toxic connection and I feel great!! It was so hard I tried to do it so many times and felt like I literally couldn’t live without him so I’d run back.. smh. Run back just to get cheated on, lied to, degraded, disrespected... he had narcissistic qualities to himself whew he played that mind game well. he really took a shot at my self esteem so I felt like without him I was nothing because that’s what he would tell me. I’m not sad anymore or mad because this taught me so much. This was just apart of my journey and in this relationship was many lessons I still needed to learn. It opened my eyes to myself! I’ve been in my solitude and I will continue to do so because I really want to sit down with myself and learn and see everything God wanted me to when he put me in this connection. All the feelings are rough sometimes but I know I need to feel them. It’s actually been nice to be connected in myself in this way because I’ve always been a feeler and in tune with my emotions, but in that connection he always told me I thought too deep or felt to much so I kinda shut that aspect of myself off just for the sake of saving myself from an argument. Still in the process of letting go.. my tarot readings and meditation and yoni steams have been helping a lot!
    A self care video would be wonderful Love!
    Thanks for sharing 💖 this is such valuable information as toxic relationships I truly feel are just apart of all of our journeys as we grow into who we are supposed to be.

  • @mrs.haynes-r5z
    @mrs.haynes-r5z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That movie was a good example he did not want halle even after she picked up when he was down he didn't deserve to get another chance with her again

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts!! Idky why she took him back 🙄😂

    • @cydneyche1
      @cydneyche1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RealTalkWithYanie Issa movie y’all lol 😂

  • @emzymedford8791
    @emzymedford8791 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sending positive n healing energy 2 every1 in these comments.
    Only thing a bad guy does is keep a good guy away !!!
    Its takes a while 2 break the spell.
    No1 can make u relize, u know when its enough !!!
    Everything happens in define order,its painful n u kick yourself about the time u feel u wasted 💯.....Everything happens 4 reasons 😅 u had 2 learn the lessons.
    4give yourself u stayed out of luv n different circumstances.
    Your out of it it now or slowly but surely making your moves,your where u should be.
    His/her poison is wearing off,trust n believe u will break the spell.
    When u do itll be right on time.
    Speaking from experience, your gonna come out the otherside, stronger 💪🏽 🙌🏽 desearnment n healing energy 😊1000 to absolute every1
    Luv all beautiful souls.💕

  • @Thatianaa
    @Thatianaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    It’s time to walk away and regain your power! Yes !!! Time to lose weight : time to invest in yourself time to regroup and work on you . If you have faith and pray your king would come . Focus on you ❤️🙏🏽 love this

    • @emzymedford8791
      @emzymedford8791 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @FairlyWellDarling
    @FairlyWellDarling 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bay bay.....that 👏🏾STAY👏🏾THE👏🏾FUCK👏🏾OUTTA👏🏾MY 👏🏾LIFE part!

  • @germoni11
    @germoni11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes to the self care routine!

  • @true4585
    @true4585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A HEALTHY outlet is sooo important! Please ladies...please look for this. I learned the value of this. Preferably one that helps you release and you enjoy. For me: dance! So SO important!
    This video applies for any type of toxic relationship. They don’t even have to be narcissistic necessarily. Great tips!

  • @queendivine3044
    @queendivine3044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Be careful not to keep family members who was also negative and toxic towards you during that relationship as well. You will never be able to fully heal around those who broke you and also did things to you that you didn't deserve. Family can be toxic and hide behind lies as well. You deserve peace and healing and don't allow those who have hurt you tell you how, when and with whom you need to heal. The one who caused the wounds can't be the healers and beware of those who uses religion to manipulate you to believing that you should do more than forgive those people you have a say and a right to not want to be in contact with people. Anything bothering you and harassing you about these people or person and people understand that's harassment and against the law. You have a right to be mentally protected and have peace in your life even if that means getting help to get people out of your life you should never have to endure further abuse until you give your abuser or abusive people the response or respect that they feel that they deserve.

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Family can be toxic. Religion can be used to keep you bound and tied up in an unhealthy relationship.

  • @asiajones9458
    @asiajones9458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m currently in an emotional relationship & i’m so glad i came across your channel. Hearing you speak has really helped me realize that this situation is not the end all be all. I thank you so much for your wisdom❤️

  • @Nmsss760
    @Nmsss760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sadly I have a relative who keeps going back and this is a constant cycle this man has done everything to hurt her and she keeps going with him and he is broke smh with no goals or plans

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am healed from this heartbreak ...I am healed from this seperation...I want him to heal to we just are not meant to be

  • @onlylikemindedbw
    @onlylikemindedbw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ladies ...walk away... ( ya probably shouldn't have come in the first place)

  • @nelleloves3
    @nelleloves3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Yanie!!! This really helped me , thank you

  • @YahLoverDOMMY13
    @YahLoverDOMMY13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have two kids and am pregnant by the one I'm trying to let go. I wish there was more on if you have kids and really thought you all would be together as a family. It's been so hard to let that go. It's hard not to hate and blame myself for it all coming to ruin. I just wish there was more help out there for this sort of thing!

  • @cateyes-km3lm
    @cateyes-km3lm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm finally subscribe. You Ms Ma'am be speaking allot of truth. You have conversations that most women don't want to have. Thank you!!

  • @user-hl5fw1nw9l
    @user-hl5fw1nw9l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just subscribed. Always love how you address solutions from different points of view. Advice for women with children, women in living situations, people who may be religious, etc. Love this!! 💙🦋

  • @alexisamos6533
    @alexisamos6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have no idea how much I needed this! It's going to be hard though, especially with the holidays coming up 😭💓

    • @piperhaser558
      @piperhaser558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just remember that toxic lover probably made the holidays toxic too

  • @lifeofsemya7976
    @lifeofsemya7976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I already love what you talk about on “real talk with yanie” so i already know there’s gonna be bangers on here love you💕 just subbed

  • @laurainem8314
    @laurainem8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i just found your channel out the blue and im so glad i did new sub

  • @aaliyahbagley7517
    @aaliyahbagley7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed to hear this, thank you ❤️

  • @riceshineshow
    @riceshineshow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! Putting yourself first is OKAY!

  • @SheExudesConfidence
    @SheExudesConfidence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is golden ✨💛

  • @sunbodygoddess50
    @sunbodygoddess50 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully Said❤ Thank you 🥰

  • @autumnjohnson2068
    @autumnjohnson2068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I knew there was a reason y i liked u awesome video.

  • @cajunnbeauty
    @cajunnbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesssss I’m here for the uploads!!!! Keep up the hard work yani😩‼️

  • @ScorpionMaiden75
    @ScorpionMaiden75 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you I needed to hear this ❤🔥🙏👑🙏🔥❤

  • @Libragirl95
    @Libragirl95 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know I'm a little late but I'm very thankful that I came across this video , thank you sis so much I didn't wanna cry or feel any emotions because I thought that it was weak and I just ignored it but I'm going to have to let everything go thank you and happy new year 🎉.

  • @jayviensam2001
    @jayviensam2001 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If i notice early signs, i walk away

  • @Kdivinity_
    @Kdivinity_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yea sled care routine please ✨💖

  • @nicestar2198
    @nicestar2198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your channek i didn't even know you had another channel about femininity and lifestyle i watch your reaction channel alot

  • @_Demii
    @_Demii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay! Thank you for this.

  • @VictoriaLaShay
    @VictoriaLaShay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yesssss 🥰🥰🥰

  • @lovetee2144
    @lovetee2144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Yani! I had no idea you had another channel! Definitely subscribing and thanks for the advice 💕

  • @Ohsnapitzann
    @Ohsnapitzann ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the film boomerang Halle Berry did a great job

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl I was you were close by me cause I really need someone to help me get through this

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tend to stay because he tries to make me feel bad/guilty...I am vulnerable at this me and need to heal...he takes advantage of that...lost my mom and brother within 3 years and I am having a rough time trying to self heal...so I tend to stay around...but I want out...I need help...and yes I have stopped doing me due to him...even pulled me away from family and friends

  • @chooselife8527
    @chooselife8527 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you still made videos on this channel!!

  • @ebonyadams6100
    @ebonyadams6100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty ty I'm gonna go fo my letting go prayer right now ty

  • @tiatobias2165
    @tiatobias2165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️ just subscribed

  • @jennychan6388
    @jennychan6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dont really know how to leave or if i really can,m so dependent on his love snd this marriage,but not healthy anymore,been suffering for a very long time...😭😭😭

  • @kathryn980
    @kathryn980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!!!!!

  • @EarCandyAsmr
    @EarCandyAsmr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Come back plzzzzzz

  • @tiarabutler12
    @tiarabutler12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey YANIE. I’ve been subscribed for a while now. And I was wondering if you give personal advice?

  • @postwoman1802
    @postwoman1802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Yanie ! Please what is the intro song ? Thanks in advance

  • @TeresaArriaga-xj1pl
    @TeresaArriaga-xj1pl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How do you leave do I block him

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FIGHT LASHAWN

  • @wizkidwizkid8582
    @wizkidwizkid8582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She literally said ALL OF That to Say NOTHING!👎👎🗑😩

  • @TeresaArriaga-xj1pl
    @TeresaArriaga-xj1pl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who do you leave when he keeps texting you

  • @missk4021
    @missk4021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️

  • @shakirascott9534
    @shakirascott9534 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't want your peace.

  • @cocaina4870
    @cocaina4870 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I find it funny how you were against feminist content before.. now you’ve hoped on the wave 😂

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is not a feminist movement channel and clearly you haven't watched my feminine energy series that I did almost 3 years ago. It's on my old channel I don't hop on waves I create them. 💅🏽

    • @whitneylynn4166
      @whitneylynn4166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feminists and Feminism content isn't the same thing.