As painful as it is , it's a neccessary step for growth. I'm approaching 4 months no contact whatsoever and I still think of her often throughout the day. But I'm clear headed now and I'm happy I don't have to worry about where she's is at night and etc. I've built my self up physically and financially. And I have dating options. Nice one's I might add. Stay the course fellas. Eventually you appreciate the distance. These new age women are cold and what applies in one moment, doesn't necessarily apply to next. Hypergamy is undefeated.
@@vincez8563 I have a beautiful new woman in my life now that runs circles around her in EVERY SINGLE WAY. And I wasn't even looking for her. The universe set that whole thing up. So to answer your question, I'd calmly in villain mode ask her to never contact me again and wish her the best.
Well done! I’m currently in NC and walked away from him. It will be 1 month NC December 2. He called me on Thanksgiving and left me a voicemail but I got to keep pushing forward.
Mistake you can’t make. Don’t walk away with spite or anger you’ll end up regretting and self reflecting on your decision like I made. Make sure you do everything in your power to make it work and show your true intentions to her, and if it’s not reciprocated then you have to walk away to gain the respect for yourself back.
It’s not easy, left my girl after 6 years together. 3 years on and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made lmao. 3 years of focusing on myself and business has changed my life.
I feel like nowadays walking away from someone who broke up with you is the best choice to help focus on yourself. I never knew this, I used to pled, begged, was clingy, etc. I feel so much better after learning from all of these break coaches that made me feel a better man than ever. Women boost their ego by walking away. Now today, after me keep working on myself I don’t really care about my ex if she is with someone else or not, because I feel important and blessed, and I am the prize, not her. I wanna say thank you Black Book Basics and other break up coaches for all of these tips and I will keep watching all of these videos to learn more new things so me and other people who are going through this situation become better versions 🙏👍
They walked away. U need to do the same. But if a chick leaves u for another guy I say charge it to the game and get a better looking female. No hard feelings toward her tho just heal and move on.
It was hard, probably one of the worst internal pains I had at the time. But our self respect should be more important. Walk away with your head held high, especially if you did let her know you wanted to work things out, but if she then declined, you now all the reason to walk away without looking back.
Anyone that is still making it about them during a difficult time is not worth it! Focus on healing bc YOU GOT THIS and find your peace in the middle of your storm. That person was a enemy in progress and selfish. Don't give up💚💕
And if you just walk away...and never contact them, it will hurt like hell but it's absolutely true that you'll have your dignity and integrity and nothing or no one is more important than that. And more often than not, if they ever come back around, you'll notice you don't even want them anymore because you are de-toxed and behaving more from a place of logic than emotion.
Brothers all i can say is God blessed yall when yall were born . Nothing but God like advise from you both , please all respect the Murphy 2.0 , make yourself shine I've done all the stupid sh#t after the break up , went no contact and focused on myself , now happier every day money , looks , status ... all you'll ever need to make YOU . Always appreciated for your vids and always a thumbs up . Thanks again brothers
You two are truly Gentlemen, Gentle Men. Strength though gentleness. I’m going through a pretty tough time at present, and you Gentlemen are helping me to realise the strength I have. Thank you for walking with me
It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do although I still think about her I found a new strength within myself I look forward to your videos very helpful to know I’m not alone on this journey there are other people who feel the same as me..Thank you guys..🙏🏿
Yea that helps known others have gone through the same pain. No question about it one of the hardest things. I have lost family members and its a different type of pain.
Mfs walk away when they have someone to step in your place 80% of the ppl aint to many ppl walking away for they self to be free they put he or she in your spot 💯
One of the most stressful, and disappointing experiences I'd ever had. I know how it feels to have walk away from someone you deeply and truly care for. She broke it off with me but wanted to string me along, not realizing that the longer she did that, the more it was taking away from us having anything in the future. Once my view changed of her and I went ghost, she started trying to come back in my life. It was too late. I wanted my peace of mind and had some of the best experiences in my life once I moved on, and now she can't cope with the fact that I'm the first ex she had that doesn't want to have anything to do with her, and she stated she doesn't know how to cope with it. We broke up in 2011, and that was a conversation back in 2018. I had to block her on social media and change my number.
@@amv._yxor exactly, like you pushed me away and I got to a point that once I saw her for who she was, it was over. No way I'd ever let her back in my life.
@@maybugz and to be the one who had ended the relationship, it'd showed me that she had not grown at all. I cut her off in 2011 and she kept trying to force herself back in my life. I'd say that you were right, and for her to have been the one that ended the relationship, it's very telling. She has two children with another man that she met some time after me and was still trying to contact me and talk to me.
Its very unfortunate that these woman do this. What alot of guy don't realise about female nature is that the women always want the bigger better deal, doesn't matter how great u are. I've been inna relationship for 3 years. We been broken up for a year and some change. She broke it off. Blocked me once i didn't show her I was chasing her. She felt she needed to control the situation cause, she thought I was gonna be beta and reach out emotionally, hell naw!!!!, Never let these women manipulate u, gaslight u or discard u. Red pill⚡
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My ex fiancé who I dumped and still in no contact over two weeks now, said i deserved cancer I have and said I will be a loser and will always will be a loser! Started chemo yesterday after doctor told me I had three months to live I if I do nothing. Thank you both for the honesty!
God bless you bro Stay strong Theses women ain’t worth the stress a lot of us men are going through madness with theses women now days it’s like a pandemic. Why is this topic do big recently There’s something in the air. Last days bro Anyways hope everything goes well with the chemo God is real
Before I dated the love of my life/my husband Frank, prior I had known a guy who mutually loved and treated me well, but I eventually realized that I didn’t want to settle for him. So as painful as it was and I confess still is, I decided to make the tough decision to reject him and I’m so blessed and glad that I did. Unlike most women, I never went back nor contacted that guy again and in turn, it lead me to refocus on God and what I needed in a potential husband. Eleven years later, I have now met another man (my husband) and we are now on our second wedding anniversary and getting ready to start a family together. As for that guy, I found out he had a child by another woman whom he left them for and tried to pursue me. I know some people are for polygamy but I’m not interested in that shit nor do I want anything to do with it. So I thank God I left when I did.
Glad i came across this... i remember breaking up and walking away from someone i completely was still in love with.. deeply in love with and had planned something so beautiful and one moment took all that happiness and what we had away.. it was so hard and i had to heal and go through all those rough emotions..i also did make a few mess ups as well which time helped me be aware of that which was painful to but i did everything to get better and improve and i am still getting better.. working out.. investing financially for my little family.. blessings and money coming in.. and although i hit some bumps.. i looked back and i am glad i walked away.. i never wanted to and that person was my heart but i needed to for my health and to grow and to never be in a crazy situation like that.. and it helped me to see that person and how they handled the break up and how they rushed into things and acted like well it doesn't matter now.. all i want is to do better and wish any past people well.. it hurts more than they know.. but life is what you make it and i hope we all win and i hope everyone thats hurting gets someone who truly.. deeply.. loves them.. no manipulation but pure.. loves them with flaws and all
It’s freakin brutal. Dealing with it now. Lots of hot and cold over the last few months with her. Had dinner a month ago and things between us seemed to be improving and then I got an incredibly shitty message from her yesterday. Didn’t even respond. Went straight to no contact. She comes back around now, she has to earn her way back. Apology isn’t going to cover it. And really, I haven’t done much in the way of bad stuff this time. Apparently some new dude in the picture. Let the rebuilding begin. No plan to date for the foreseeable future if at all.
How many months since break up and when did y’all start talking again after break up I just smashed 1st time after a month whole time she on silent mode 🤐
Massive respect to you guys, you are both way younger than I. I'm 61 nearly 6months since I went completely no contact! I've done all the self improvements you promote. Running ,gym, more muscle more investments, better car new house & new relationship. You guys are the BEST With all that you say you've helped me so much. & I still check in & watch your vids. You are I believe keeping especially guys like me ALIVE!! Everyone admires me & my efforts these last 6months they all think I have it all together! I can tell you I DONT!! But iam getting there my head is clearer I wouldn't want her back! It's still tough but I will succeed and now have alot more positive thoughts & days. No matter what age you are guys. Please don't crumble or quit believe me if you work on yourself. You will be fine,you will heal & you will be at peace, & happy again. THANKS GUYS Great advice.
Man I’ve been watching all your videos but this one is some real shit I needed to hear this I was literally so down for the past 3 weeks we have a kid together tho no lie it makes it a lil difficult
Followed all the rules of silent and walking away, 2 months down the line, she texted me, "nice Dp".. I did not get anxious, just paused for a while like an hour then I replied, I made my reply to be short and simple, even though she was starting to say that she is not fine but hope she will be OK soon, I did not mind that. I told her that now I'm busy with work here, maybe next time, just be positive and enjoy your day.
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Recently walked away from the love of life after 5 years together. Absolutely one of the most difficult things I’ve ever had to do...especially since she continues to reach out with all the I miss yous & I love yous....but she became disrespectful & ultimately made a life choice that I can’t accept.
Hi Hifidelics ...I need advice if can help me out.. My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 22days She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age… Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ? I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own.. How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ? Today is Day 23 No Contact She said if she miss me she will contact me
Hi Corie I need advice if can help me out..I love my gf too much but she broke up with me twice.. Today is Day 22 of No Contact time 3rd time she didnt say she is breaking up with me ...but say if she miss me she will text me... Is she pulling away and technically Not a breakup but a break? Setting a wishlist of boundaries we fall back to the same argument and we still blame each other.. it is hard for me to forget how she cruelly break up with me though she was went mentally crazy during every breakup I still confuse what is the right course of action getting my gf back from breakup I had tried 2 month to be fun and playful but the Honeymoon soon became she having too much ..I dont understand what I do next …give space let her come back and then repeat the fun and playful then Hot and cold again…will this become mentally unhealthy for her and me ? Is spending good dinner and good lunch with her putting her on Pedestal? Is holding her hand and the one to ask for a kiss become a Beta Needy.. How do I make her have a Crush and be submissive instead of her sitting there waiting for me to lead
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Glad to see I'm not alone in this situation. It's been 4 months. Work was the killer. I had to work interstate which made the break. I keep busy. Working out 5 times a day. Got a good job, good financial. Moved into my own place. Even got a motorbike which helps heaps when on the road. It's not an easy path. Thank you guys for being here for support.
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Me and my ex broke up 5 weeks ago now. I haven't reached out once. Went straight NC. She text to wish me happy birthday 2 weeks ago and that's it. It still hurts like hell though.
Orale hermanos! You guys there when I need it. Marathon not a sprint. I do want me ex. I know why she left, it was the LDR, that situation. Became too much for her. That over now. I headed home. Gotta give her space. She reach out first. My turn I...I think
@@musicisgood52 ...that sucks. Did she ever reach out to you or did you try to reach out to her? As one of boys put it, nothing written in stone, you not dead yet and she not married...you got a chance. Hope my boy right.
I think a video about ending on good or bad terms would be straight. Cause oddly, I have/had hope because of ending on bad terms. Maybe it’s the ‘fixer’ mindset us men have
Yeah; I unguarded my heart ♥️ unfortunately I didn’t think of the consequences. I took me about 1 day to start realizing that my heart ❤️🩹 was hurting me That one day, It felt eternity. Unbelievable challenge Second day, I felt 80% recovered. By watching ur videos by day 3 I was back to normal. I always guarded my heart ♥️ don’t know how this one sneaked in Thank you to your videos. Might GOD bless you. Peace ✌🏿
Sorry for hearing what happened. But their advice was about getting you back first. When you get yourself back, you'll be fine. Hang tough and all the best, man.
Yo, this is my therapy blog here with you guys. It's been almost 2 months and I'm doing great. Went on a date last week and heading into another tomorrow. Theres little bits of missing this person, but only when I visit places. I don't stalk her on social media and truly don't care what the hell happens with her at this point. She can screw anyone as I'm saying this and I won't speak ill of her. Yesterday she gave me a call out of the blue and started fighting me over how I'm "giving my version of the breakup" and I said: "Stop right there, if you just called me to give me a hard fucking time, you can fuck right off. I am doing me and I don't mention you for nothing, not even my friends. I don't speak of you". Then she proceeded to unearth the last interaction we had like almost a month ago, where I was "bitchy" and I said: "I was how you wanted me to be; I'm not letting you stomp me and spit on me like trash (she was very rude on those last days)". Then, none of that shit stuck how she wanted so then she asked me about my birthday (it was last weekend and I swear to God, last thing I wanted was for her to call me). I said I had a great birthday, then she asked about my family and I said "Good" Then asked me if I landed a Job and I said: "Yes." And lastly, I said: "Any other questions? I have to run" She said: "No" and I hung up. Like I tell my friends every other day: "She could meet, fall in love, see new people, experiment, drink, use drugs, get laid, but I'm sure as hell none of those things would make me angrier than of she tries to contact me. Like Nate Diaz says: "Don't be scared, homie" after you decided to do all of this. She wasn't a part of my depression, and raise, I don't want her to be a part of my success either.
Walked away for good 2wks ago when she said she wasn't ready for a conversation. We kept contact initially for a month after we split. Just wondering if I did this all wrong or is it salvageable.
This video dropped at the rite time, will walking away steer up attraction and POSSIBLY get my ex back when I was the one who did the break up? 3 weeks after the break up she started seeing someone else. We we’re still attracted to each other when we seen each other, we would hug and kiss like we we’re together again. Then I found out she was playing with me, she was seeing me and TWO other dudes at the same time. So I confronted her and she said she doesn’t wanna be with me anymore, and she’s over me. After that happen I stopped all contact. In a way I feel like she broke up with me lmao. That’s how bad she was playin me. 🤦🏽♂️ you think she’s thinking about me during the no contact?
Honestly, you played yourself. If I knew my ex started seeing someone 3 weeks after our breakup. (Red Flag!) I would cut all ties and leave her in the rearview.
If my ex is posting things to make me jealous and deleting them and stalking my social media watching everything I’m posting is it safe to say that no contact is working? Is this showing she is starting to miss me?
What to do when it’s there foult but they think it’s you so they get nasty with you. I just walk away. But she said I can’t go to her house or call her so I haven’t but I so want to to call to sort stuf out she so stubborn what shall I do please
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Dated my ex for 7 months and she broke us up due to external circumstances and me saying it's too soon to say whether I loved her or not. I end up writing a letter to her I did love her and blew up her phone for a bit and brought her flowers to her work. She rejected me when I brought the flowers so I stopped contacting her for awhile before I reached out again, apologizing for how I handled the break up. Slowly I reached out to her more often very playfully and she was very reciprocated. Eventually I got pressed when she started taking longer to respond and on our last call I said I stilled loved her and she told me she loved me too. Next week we were supposed to call and she stands me up. 2 days later she says "Sorry I've been gone, but I need distance to work some things out for a bit" I told her "That's cool, Good luck" and have been working on myself more than before. She watched my stories and we've been silent. I realize I became a bit needy and clingy and now I'm trying to redevelop the idgaf attitude from when we first dated. Is there still a chance or have I gone too far down the rabbit hole? 8 days since we've been silent.
It's not too late buddy, stop contacting her, work on yourself and try to be positive. She knows where you stand balls in her court. If it's meant to be she will reach out if not she wont. Try not to get strung along if she reaches out. I'm 3 months post break up had no positive contact from my ex but I honestly feel good, still think about her now and then but not with rose tint glasses on. Listen to these guys 🤟
@@jimihendriixx cheers bud, I'm in an ok place. Nearly 4 months post breakup and I feel ok. Think of her now and then but not as much as in the start of the break up. I've improved a lot since split but for me not her. If she wants me she knows how to get me and if not I've got other options. Balls in her court. Appreciate the support i try help other guys in my situation out too. Personally if she been with someone there ain't no going back for me. We all different but f that 😂🦈
@@malcky9696 I wouldn't be saying balls in her court 4 months after a break up. Work on yourself and get dating when you feel ok to do so. Women always have a back up guy. Their egos need it.
@@everready2903 totally agree bud. Most peoples loyalties lie with themselves these days. They are with you for what you can offer not love as that fades when the excitement does.
Yo so my wife wants to split we are separated right now. For about 2 months. She wants a divorce but. I’ve been going no contact. She called me out the blue about something stupid about our driveway. First time she called me in 2 months. Is that weird or am I overthinking it.
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As painful as it is , it's a neccessary step for growth. I'm approaching 4 months no contact whatsoever and I still think of her often throughout the day. But I'm clear headed now and I'm happy I don't have to worry about where she's is at night and etc. I've built my self up physically and financially. And I have dating options. Nice one's I might add. Stay the course fellas. Eventually you appreciate the distance. These new age women are cold and what applies in one moment, doesn't necessarily apply to next. Hypergamy is undefeated.
Right there with you
Gotta ask. You probably did alot for her, but if she reached out too, after days, or weeks of silence. How do you respond to her?
@@vincez8563 I have a beautiful new woman in my life now that runs circles around her in EVERY SINGLE WAY. And I wasn't even looking for her. The universe set that whole thing up. So to answer your question, I'd calmly in villain mode ask her to never contact me again and wish her the best.
Well done! I’m currently in NC and walked away from him. It will be 1 month NC December 2. He called me on Thanksgiving and left me a voicemail but I got to keep pushing forward.
Love this.. and hope it gets better with time.. and everything works itself out
Real talk, had to leave my ex. She never loved me and was one sided so I had the strength to leave. It’s hard asf but it worth it 💯
The hardest things are definitely worth it.
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. SHE WASN"T THE ONE. OR YOU WOULD STILL BE THERE.
For real.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Very similar to my situation, I walked away from a one sided narcissist.
Mistake you can’t make. Don’t walk away with spite or anger you’ll end up regretting and self reflecting on your decision like I made. Make sure you do everything in your power to make it work and show your true intentions to her, and if it’s not reciprocated then you have to walk away to gain the respect for yourself back.
It’s not easy, left my girl after 6 years together. 3 years on and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made lmao. 3 years of focusing on myself and business has changed my life.
Congrats
Did she ever reach out ??
I had a heart attack and quadruple bypass surgery. That was a hundred times easier than losing my wife to divorce.
Wow.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Heartbreak 💔 is one most difficult thing ever to deal with..😢😢
Trying to walk away after being together for 7 years …💔💔
I feel like nowadays walking away from someone who broke up with you is the best choice to help focus on yourself. I never knew this, I used to pled, begged, was clingy, etc. I feel so much better after learning from all of these break coaches that made me feel a better man than ever. Women boost their ego by walking away. Now today, after me keep working on myself I don’t really care about my ex if she is with someone else or not, because I feel important and blessed, and I am the prize, not her. I wanna say thank you Black Book Basics and other break up coaches for all of these tips and I will keep watching all of these videos to learn more new things so me and other people who are going through this situation become better versions 🙏👍
They walked away. U need to do the same. But if a chick leaves u for another guy I say charge it to the game and get a better looking female. No hard feelings toward her tho just heal and move on.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Ain’t about looks my boy . Looks fade
@@krest2012 normally after a breakup with an ex guys usually end up with a better looking female. I did every time.
It was hard, probably one of the worst internal pains I had at the time. But our self respect should be more important. Walk away with your head held high, especially if you did let her know you wanted to work things out, but if she then declined, you now all the reason to walk away without looking back.
Anyone that is still making it about them during a difficult time is not worth it! Focus on healing bc YOU GOT THIS and find your peace in the middle of your storm. That person was a enemy in progress and selfish. Don't give up💚💕
And if you just walk away...and never contact them, it will hurt like hell but it's absolutely true that you'll have your dignity and integrity and nothing or no one is more important than that. And more often than not, if they ever come back around, you'll notice you don't even want them anymore because you are de-toxed and behaving more from a place of logic than emotion.
Brothers all i can say is God blessed yall when yall were born . Nothing but God like advise from you both , please all respect the Murphy 2.0 , make yourself shine I've done all the stupid sh#t after the break up , went no contact and focused on myself , now happier every day money , looks , status ... all you'll ever need to make YOU . Always appreciated for your vids and always a thumbs up . Thanks again brothers
We appreciate all your post and your support Cory. Hope all is well with you !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
You two are truly Gentlemen, Gentle Men.
Strength though gentleness.
I’m going through a pretty tough time at present, and you Gentlemen are helping me to realise the strength I have.
Thank you for walking with me
Our pleasure to walk with you Gordon.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@@GordonPavilion do you actually need help
@@GordonPavilion message him on WhatsApp
@@hellodestiny3546 bogus
It’s been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do although I still think about her I found a new strength within myself I look forward to your videos very helpful to know I’m not alone on this journey there are other people who feel the same as me..Thank you guys..🙏🏿
Yea that helps known others have gone through the same pain. No question about it one of the hardest things. I have lost family members and its a different type of pain.
Hopefully we all get better.. with time
Mfs walk away when they have someone to step in your place 80% of the ppl aint to many ppl walking away for they self to be free they put he or she in your spot 💯
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
RIP Opus 🕊.
One of the most stressful, and disappointing experiences I'd ever had. I know how it feels to have walk away from someone you deeply and truly care for. She broke it off with me but wanted to string me along, not realizing that the longer she did that, the more it was taking away from us having anything in the future. Once my view changed of her and I went ghost, she started trying to come back in my life. It was too late. I wanted my peace of mind and had some of the best experiences in my life once I moved on, and now she can't cope with the fact that I'm the first ex she had that doesn't want to have anything to do with her, and she stated she doesn't know how to cope with it. We broke up in 2011, and that was a conversation back in 2018. I had to block her on social media and change my number.
Had the exact same situation. Girls get surprised when they get a taste of their own medicine or get told "No".
She still was hurting after 7 years?!
@@amv._yxor exactly, like you pushed me away and I got to a point that once I saw her for who she was, it was over. No way I'd ever let her back in my life.
@@maybugz and to be the one who had ended the relationship, it'd showed me that she had not grown at all. I cut her off in 2011 and she kept trying to force herself back in my life. I'd say that you were right, and for her to have been the one that ended the relationship, it's very telling. She has two children with another man that she met some time after me and was still trying to contact me and talk to me.
Its very unfortunate that these woman do this. What alot of guy don't realise about female nature is that the women always want the bigger better deal, doesn't matter how great u are. I've been inna relationship for 3 years. We been broken up for a year and some change. She broke it off. Blocked me once i didn't show her I was chasing her. She felt she needed to control the situation cause, she thought I was gonna be beta and reach out emotionally, hell naw!!!!, Never let these women manipulate u, gaslight u or discard u. Red pill⚡
When you leave her,you gain inner peace instantly..The content these 2 gentlemen present is hiqh quality and 101% accurate..
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“No one comes before me...my self care is paramount.”.I live by that code.😎
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±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Shut up, you wouldn't be watching this video if that was the case
Right on time. Literally what I’m dealing with now.
Stay solid Lex 👊🏾
Same bro
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
My ex fiancé who I dumped and still in no contact over two weeks now, said i deserved cancer I have and said I will be a loser and will always will be a loser! Started chemo yesterday after doctor told me I had three months to live I if I do nothing. Thank you both for the honesty!
Our pleasure Michael. Stand strong! 💪🏾
God bless you bro
Stay strong
Theses women ain’t worth the stress a lot of us men are going through madness with theses women now days it’s like a pandemic. Why is this topic do big recently
There’s something in the air. Last days bro
Anyways hope everything goes well with the chemo
God is real
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Sending prayers for u.
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I really needed this video. I walked away after her trying to string me along. Woke up really missing her. Yall keeping my head up right on dudes
Done the same bro. Upwards and onwards gets easier 💪🦈
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Before I dated the love of my life/my husband Frank, prior I had known a guy who mutually loved and treated me well, but I eventually realized that I didn’t want to settle for him. So as painful as it was and I confess still is, I decided to make the tough decision to reject him and I’m so blessed and glad that I did. Unlike most women, I never went back nor contacted that guy again and in turn, it lead me to refocus on God and what I needed in a potential husband. Eleven years later, I have now met another man (my husband) and we are now on our second wedding anniversary and getting ready to start a family together. As for that guy, I found out he had a child by another woman whom he left them for and tried to pursue me. I know some people are for polygamy but I’m not interested in that shit nor do I want anything to do with it. So I thank God I left when I did.
Glad i came across this... i remember breaking up and walking away from someone i completely was still in love with.. deeply in love with and had planned something so beautiful and one moment took all that happiness and what we had away.. it was so hard and i had to heal and go through all those rough emotions..i also did make a few mess ups as well which time helped me be aware of that which was painful to but i did everything to get better and improve and i am still getting better.. working out.. investing financially for my little family.. blessings and money coming in.. and although i hit some bumps.. i looked back and i am glad i walked away.. i never wanted to and that person was my heart but i needed to for my health and to grow and to never be in a crazy situation like that.. and it helped me to see that person and how they handled the break up and how they rushed into things and acted like well it doesn't matter now.. all i want is to do better and wish any past people well.. it hurts more than they know.. but life is what you make it and i hope we all win and i hope everyone thats hurting gets someone who truly.. deeply.. loves them.. no manipulation but pure.. loves them with flaws and all
@4:25, truer words have never been said enough!! THIS needs to be taught in K-12 school folks, just my opinion.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
It’s freakin brutal. Dealing with it now. Lots of hot and cold over the last few months with her. Had dinner a month ago and things between us seemed to be improving and then I got an incredibly shitty message from her yesterday. Didn’t even respond. Went straight to no contact. She comes back around now, she has to earn her way back. Apology isn’t going to cover it. And really, I haven’t done much in the way of bad stuff this time. Apparently some new dude in the picture.
Let the rebuilding begin. No plan to date for the foreseeable future if at all.
Let her earn it…and by that time, you might not even want them back.
@@opusandtarquez it’ll just depend on what stumbles across my path in the mean time. Already have 3 plates.
What she say ?
How many months since break up and when did y’all start talking again after break up I just smashed 1st time after a month whole time she on silent mode 🤐
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Much luv bros, Do a video about second break ups with no contact. Im Sure we all been thru that
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Massive respect to you guys, you are both way younger than I. I'm 61 nearly 6months since I went completely no contact! I've done all the self improvements you promote. Running ,gym, more muscle more investments, better car new house & new relationship. You guys are the BEST With all that you say you've helped me so much. & I still check in & watch your vids. You are I believe keeping especially guys like me ALIVE!! Everyone admires me & my efforts these last 6months they all think I have it all together! I can tell you I DONT!! But iam getting there my head is clearer I wouldn't want her back! It's still tough but I will succeed and now have alot more positive thoughts & days. No matter what age you are guys. Please don't crumble or quit believe me if you work on yourself. You will be fine,you will heal & you will be at peace, & happy again. THANKS GUYS Great advice.
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
This the one video that i felt that it was calling me 💕🖤
Thank you Chanty 🤟🏾
@@opusandtarquez thank yall yall really help alot of us through fu**ed up times 🙏
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Man I’ve been watching all your videos but this one is some real shit I needed to hear this I was literally so down for the past 3 weeks we have a kid together tho no lie it makes it a lil difficult
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
Followed all the rules of silent and walking away, 2 months down the line, she texted me, "nice Dp".. I did not get anxious, just paused for a while like an hour then I replied, I made my reply to be short and simple, even though she was starting to say that she is not fine but hope she will be OK soon, I did not mind that. I told her that now I'm busy with work here, maybe next time, just be positive and enjoy your day.
Nice reply 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
Had to follow the steps carefully as I continue to build myself. It's hard atimes but one must focus on yourself first.
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
My ex was a narcissist 4 yr of absolute hell i finaly got the strength over a yr ago best thing iv ever done findung myself again🙏
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,....
Realllllly needed this today. Thanks fellas 👊🏻😎
Our pleasure Michael 👊🏾
This came out at the perfect time
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Recently walked away from the love of life after 5 years together. Absolutely one of the most difficult things I’ve ever had to do...especially since she continues to reach out with all the I miss yous & I love yous....but she became disrespectful & ultimately made a life choice that I can’t accept.
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Hi Hifidelics ...I need advice if can help me out.. My on and off Gf couldnt sleep at night , and affecting her mental health….should I pull away or show my love or care by initiating contact? She didn’t text me for 22days
She also having problem with Neck Degeneration and back pain..she is in her Menopause age…
Should I be more caring like a Beta or I should Dont care like Alpha to just respond only when she reach out
She want to do her own thing and I wonder whether am I the part time bf or she only need me when she want to ?
I tried to arrange appointment with Doctors…she rather go on her own but medicine or gynae or chiropractic couldnt help her …she blame me is the source of her Mental Stress by me wanting her to put more effort on our relationship she feel pressure till she break down telling me she need rest..i told her she need Love but she said she want peace and to heal on her own..
How to save the relationship with a gf having Menopause and Medical and Mental health ?
Today is Day 23 No Contact
She said if she miss me she will contact me
Great video! That instrumental go crazy!!
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What’s good beloveds.. miss y’all choppin it up
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
I walked away from my ex girlfriend and disappeared. And it was not even 2 weeks she constantly texting me.
Hi Corie I need advice if can help me out..I love my gf too much but she broke up with me twice..
Today is Day 22 of No Contact time 3rd time
she didnt say she is breaking up with me ...but say if she miss me she will text me...
Is she pulling away and technically Not a breakup but a break?
Setting a wishlist of boundaries we fall back to the same argument and we still blame each other.. it is hard for me to forget how she cruelly break up with me though she was went mentally crazy during every breakup
I still confuse what is the right course of action getting my gf back from breakup
I had tried 2 month to be fun and playful but the Honeymoon soon became she having too much ..I dont understand what I do next …give space let her come back and then repeat the fun and playful then Hot and cold again…will this become mentally unhealthy for her and me ?
Is spending good dinner and good lunch with her putting her on Pedestal?
Is holding her hand and the one to ask for a kiss become a Beta Needy..
How do I make her have a Crush and be submissive instead of her sitting there waiting for me to lead
Well said and well put
great video
The grandma line😂😂
This channel is so fire 🔥
Thanks guys !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
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Glad to see I'm not alone in this situation. It's been 4 months. Work was the killer. I had to work interstate which made the break. I keep busy. Working out 5 times a day. Got a good job, good financial. Moved into my own place. Even got a motorbike which helps heaps when on the road. It's not an easy path. Thank you guys for being here for support.
It sounds like you’re doing good brother, keep it up and stay strong. Pain is temporary…
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Me and my ex broke up 5 weeks ago now. I haven't reached out once. Went straight NC. She text to wish me happy birthday 2 weeks ago and that's it. It still hurts like hell though.
@Belinda. Faith bye bye Belinda…quit it with your bs spam.
Good job kings
Orale hermanos! You guys there when I need it. Marathon not a sprint. I do want me ex. I know why she left, it was the LDR, that situation. Became too much for her. That over now. I headed home. Gotta give her space. She reach out first. My turn I...I think
Hi Charles Finley
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±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@@musicisgood52 4 years
same time for me and was too much for her also
sucks
@@musicisgood52 ...that sucks. Did she ever reach out to you or did you try to reach out to her? As one of boys put it, nothing written in stone, you not dead yet and she not married...you got a chance. Hope my boy right.
I think a video about ending on good or bad terms would be straight. Cause oddly, I have/had hope because of ending on bad terms. Maybe it’s the ‘fixer’ mindset us men have
You guys should host some seminars I’d pull up for sure 💯
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±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Granny never saw that right hand coming 😂
Well said 👏🏽 👌 👍🏽 🙌🏾
Yeah; I unguarded my heart ♥️ unfortunately I didn’t think of the consequences. I took me about 1 day to start realizing that my heart ❤️🩹 was hurting me That one day, It felt eternity. Unbelievable challenge
Second day, I felt 80% recovered. By watching ur videos by day 3 I was back to normal. I always guarded my heart ♥️ don’t know how this one sneaked in
Thank you to your videos. Might GOD bless you. Peace ✌🏿
Much respect
Great video guys 🤟🦈
Thanks homie !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
My wife cheated and filed for divorce. I just did all the stuff y'all said not to do. Been 6 months. She not coming back.
Sorry for hearing what happened. But their advice was about getting you back first. When you get yourself back, you'll be fine. Hang tough and all the best, man.
🙏prayers.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Yo, this is my therapy blog here with you guys. It's been almost 2 months and I'm doing great. Went on a date last week and heading into another tomorrow. Theres little bits of missing this person, but only when I visit places. I don't stalk her on social media and truly don't care what the hell happens with her at this point. She can screw anyone as I'm saying this and I won't speak ill of her. Yesterday she gave me a call out of the blue and started fighting me over how I'm "giving my version of the breakup" and I said: "Stop right there, if you just called me to give me a hard fucking time, you can fuck right off. I am doing me and I don't mention you for nothing, not even my friends. I don't speak of you". Then she proceeded to unearth the last interaction we had like almost a month ago, where I was "bitchy" and I said: "I was how you wanted me to be; I'm not letting you stomp me and spit on me like trash (she was very rude on those last days)". Then, none of that shit stuck how she wanted so then she asked me about my birthday (it was last weekend and I swear to God, last thing I wanted was for her to call me). I said I had a great birthday, then she asked about my family and I said "Good" Then asked me if I landed a Job and I said: "Yes." And lastly, I said: "Any other questions? I have to run" She said: "No" and I hung up.
Like I tell my friends every other day: "She could meet, fall in love, see new people, experiment, drink, use drugs, get laid, but I'm sure as hell none of those things would make me angrier than of she tries to contact me. Like Nate Diaz says: "Don't be scared, homie" after you decided to do all of this. She wasn't a part of my depression, and raise, I don't want her to be a part of my success either.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Sincere thanks from all of us going through it! Y'all support and advice helps a ton ✊🏾 🦈
No thank you homie !!! Your support and yourself improvement is all we want in return !!! Opus
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
Making the right decisions are always difficult. This is no different except, now you are not going to get laid for a while.
Can y’all do a video about being too comfortable.. I became too comfortable because I lost love for myself and was only focusing on her
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
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±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
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Walked away for good 2wks ago when she said she wasn't ready for a conversation. We kept contact initially for a month after we split. Just wondering if I did this all wrong or is it salvageable.
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
This video dropped at the rite time, will walking away steer up attraction and POSSIBLY get my ex back when I was the one who did the break up? 3 weeks after the break up she started seeing someone else. We we’re still attracted to each other when we seen each other, we would hug and kiss like we we’re together again. Then I found out she was playing with me, she was seeing me and TWO other dudes at the same time. So I confronted her and she said she doesn’t wanna be with me anymore, and she’s over me. After that happen I stopped all contact. In a way I feel like she broke up with me lmao. That’s how bad she was playin me. 🤦🏽♂️ you think she’s thinking about me during the no contact?
Honestly, you played yourself. If I knew my ex started seeing someone 3 weeks after our breakup. (Red Flag!) I would cut all ties and leave her in the rearview.
Has to be done
Absolutely
If my ex is posting things to make me jealous and deleting them and stalking my social media watching everything I’m posting is it safe to say that no contact is working? Is this showing she is starting to miss me?
She’s just playing with you. Block her or you’ll never stop thinking of her. I was in the same position as you. Felt peace after blocking
Yes it's definitely working. Continue no contact and eventually she'll crack
I had to walk away from mines she broke up with me, got with another dude and got pregnant soon yeah duces babygirl
How long do you suggest for no contact?
Forever.
Hey bro I know you’re trying to make us feel better by listing off all the things we’re not gonna do with them anymore but my God you can stop now😂
What to do when it’s there foult but they think it’s you so they get nasty with you. I just walk away. But she said I can’t go to her house or call her so I haven’t but I so want to to call to sort stuf out she so stubborn what shall I do please
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Amen!
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
What if shes pregnant ? But doesn't want a love relationship with you
If it’s your kid keep in mind she’s not going anywhere for the next 18 years. Don’t rush anything with her. It’s a marathon not a sprint.
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Dated my ex for 7 months and she broke us up due to external circumstances and me saying it's too soon to say whether I loved her or not. I end up writing a letter to her I did love her and blew up her phone for a bit and brought her flowers to her work.
She rejected me when I brought the flowers so I stopped contacting her for awhile before I reached out again, apologizing for how I handled the break up. Slowly I reached out to her more often very playfully and she was very reciprocated. Eventually I got pressed when she started taking longer to respond and on our last call I said I stilled loved her and she told me she loved me too. Next week we were supposed to call and she stands me up. 2 days later she says "Sorry I've been gone, but I need distance to work some things out for a bit"
I told her "That's cool, Good luck" and have been working on myself more than before. She watched my stories and we've been silent. I realize I became a bit needy and clingy and now I'm trying to redevelop the idgaf attitude from when we first dated. Is there still a chance or have I gone too far down the rabbit hole? 8 days since we've been silent.
It's not too late buddy, stop contacting her, work on yourself and try to be positive. She knows where you stand balls in her court. If it's meant to be she will reach out if not she wont. Try not to get strung along if she reaches out. I'm 3 months post break up had no positive contact from my ex but I honestly feel good, still think about her now and then but not with rose tint glasses on. Listen to these guys 🤟
@@malcky9696 9/10 they reach out when you are over them. Work on yourself it's the best thing you can do honestly.
@@jimihendriixx cheers bud, I'm in an ok place. Nearly 4 months post breakup and I feel ok. Think of her now and then but not as much as in the start of the break up. I've improved a lot since split but for me not her. If she wants me she knows how to get me and if not I've got other options. Balls in her court. Appreciate the support i try help other guys in my situation out too. Personally if she been with someone there ain't no going back for me. We all different but f that 😂🦈
@@malcky9696 I wouldn't be saying balls in her court 4 months after a break up. Work on yourself and get dating when you feel ok to do so. Women always have a back up guy. Their egos need it.
@@everready2903 totally agree bud. Most peoples loyalties lie with themselves these days. They are with you for what you can offer not love as that fades when the excitement does.
Yo so my wife wants to split we are separated right now. For about 2 months. She wants a divorce but. I’ve been going no contact. She called me out the blue about something stupid about our driveway. First time she called me in 2 months. Is that weird or am I overthinking it.
Breadcrumbing,stay the course its slowly staring to work
@@craigstephens1344 do you actually need help
@@craigstephens1344 do you actually need help
Gg
±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
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±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
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