1 dont harbour hate 2. you cant heal someone who is destroying you 3. shame keeps you quiet frim experiences 4. they will stop hurting you when you stop giving them opportunity 5. real genuine love is waiting for you 6. you unsubconciously seek out patterns 7. work on accepting real love 8. their power relies on how much you think of them 9. family are there for you not by blood 10. God k
Dearest Alessia, I cant describe the amount of love i have for you even though i never met you. At the end of video,when you said that you are sending us love,i really felt it all through video. I felt genuine,sincere,light and comforting aura whole time,your emotions being so strong that i felt them too. Ive never been in relationship yet somehow this video speaks to me. Its like i can hear your soul talking and it makes me wanna cry. I comfort watch you alot but i feel like this video will be the video ill watch for years to come. I truly love you and pray more and more blessings come into your life,you deserve them all. Thank you for existing,for fighting and being here for us. I promise we as your community will be here for you too.
My heart 🥹 I am so grateful that you could feel it because this was my intention. Thank you so much for all of your love and support, thank YOU for existing 🤍 I love you 🤍
I started crying at 1:30 because this is what I’m going through right now and I’m 22. this video felt like to me as if I’m talking to my guardian angels. thank you alessia.❤
I come back to this video whenever I have a hard day and hearing everything she says feels so validating I always cry, she rlly is an amazing person who’s helped me sm
I really really really needed this. The love you showed in this video is so generous. You don't even know me but you take compassion for me through a screen. I'm only 15 years old, ive been through every type of abuse and Im trying to get over a toxic relationship. This is really huge for me thank you so much
this video had me crying omfg, when she talked ab how she'd beg god...i felt it in my soul. and when she said i see you, and i believe in you, and i love you, i was literally bawling and saying "no please dont do this to me." she gets it, istg she does, and im so happy i found this channel omfg !! we got this guys
i just know god is so proud of you right now because after all the things he tested you with you still didn’t lose hope and STILL turned to him. I can‘t even imagine how proud he must be 🤲🏼
Ik but that's the only way to evolve and become a better person. If a narcissistic parent act like good parents, the child might also become a narcissist. But if you get abused etc, you become grounded..so whenever you find an abused person etc, you listen and validate their feelings. @@ratdog6317
i want to heal but not from "romantic relationship" but "relationships in general" and i truly believe that you're video will definitely provide me something! as they always do , i hope you are doing good too 💕 I absolutely love your channel 💗
I went through a lot of abuse with my toxic adopted family. This is exactly how I feel and I thank you for speaking this to all who need to hear this because it is 100%
Thank you so much for this video, Alessia. I'm going through a really tough time yet this video made me realize that it's actually because I have the strength to handle all this. I'm really thankful for you, but also really proud of you for being able to forgive, and to turn your pain into compassion. Thank you for being here for us, we all appreciate your efforts 🤍
Thank you for making me feel not alone. I hit my breaking point after a horrible relationship ended. All my traumas that I've suppressed have bubbled up and it's been a wild time. I'm getting professional help and I'm determined to get better and give myself the best life I've always deserved. Your videos are helping so much along my journey. Thank you for sharing 💗
this is the first video i watch of your channel and it made me feel so much better and i felt like every word u said was about me and made me realized how toxic my bestfriend was and made me more glad that i broke my relationship with her. this video made me feel so much better thank you so much ❤
thank you for this video Alessia. i lost my parents, there is a war in my country and I am in an abusive horrible relationship that I cant get out of yet because I am dependent on my partner for documents. when I cry at night I watch this video and it gives me hope that everything will be ok one day.❤
Thank you so much for this. I got out of a toxic relationship, a year ago. I really someone who would understand me and say these to me a year ago. It still hurts. But getting out of it was the best thing I ever did for myself and never have I ever once regretted the decision. I’ve been single ever since and it gets lonely sometimes but it’s so much better than all the emotions, anxiety, and pain I was put through. If anyone who’s in a toxic relationship is reading this rn. I am telling you please leave. You are worth so much more. The universe is abundant. They are not the last person on earth, you deserve so much more and you’ll meet people who are willing to treat you so much better and love you for you
I needed this so much to the point that I'm crying while watching this video. Your intuition is insane. Thank you and I love you so much. You are truly sent to be our guardian angel. Please keep protecting your pure heart. I wish all the blessings in the world to enter your life. ♥️
I was in a toxic abusive relationship for 3 years, only two months ago he changed drastically and started to apologize about how badly he treated me and saying that it will never happen again. Mind you I was head over heels in love with him and when I heard that he was willing to change it gave me hope. Last month I had to break up with him.. because the sudden change was cause by him somehow going crazy because of excessive weed consumption. It feels weird how I thought that everything was going to workout. We had such a lovely night the day he told he was willing to change.. but that wasn’t even him talking. It was just whatever of him was left there. I guess I am still tangled in the web of this breakup. But this video helped me somehow :). Thank you Alessia
they never change, ever. im happy you had strength to leave, i have the same story.. also 3 years. i cant believe how some people can do these things to another human being. just sad..
I had this toxic relationship also for 3 years, I finally got out of it, but it deeply affected every single one relationship I had after him. It's like I can't feel love anymore... but we will get through this, let's be strong.
Yes Alessia! Me too I was thinking about my past toxic relationships recently and it has been affecting me so badly. I thought I have gotten over them but I actually haven't, because it's still resurfacing and I still feel awful. Thank you for this, your intuition really is very powerful ❤🙏
Not long ago I was still living with the toxic side of my family. Now, I live with my dad who loves and supports me like I deserve, makes me feel safe and worthy. To anyone out there who is still struggling, there is hope and there is a way out!
I really have trusted many wrong people in my life at a very young age. Marriage, love, friendship was something I always loved. I am such a lover. But the person I was in love with didn't care about anything but the power he had over me . I was way too beautiful for him. He knew it . That gave him the audacity to treat me like shit . I regret so many things honestly . I am hurt to a point where I can't trust anyone anymore . I don't want to. For Someone who was all for love to suddenly becoming a person who don't believe in love anymore . I don't know when will I recover from this . When will I be able to love again ? But one thing for sure, this has made me realize that the greatest relationship I will ever have is with myself . I am learning to cherish this fact for now.❤
Alessia ik sorry for what happened to you in your past...you are such a great role model for all women going through bad things... thank you for helping women 🙏❤
You're the sweetest soul ever! The family part made me cry, we have such a similar childhood and teenage years. I'm 24 now I started to believe the God again because of the similar reasons you told. Thank you Alessia! Your contents always make me feel better. God bless you. ❤
Hello, Alessia. I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. This video reached me and touched me so deeply that I'm sitting here in my room crying while watching it. I struggled with so many things throughout my life, from abusive parents to bullying at school, and I tried to reach out for help but never received it. And even today, when I talk about my trauma, people try to downplay it by saying that what I went through wasn't that big of a deal. Despite all of this, I started to notice my own feelings more in the past few years and I realized that I was raised to believe that suffering was my purpose. That I needed to suffer in order to be a good person, and that all good people go through hell with a smile. But that's not true, I don't need to suffer in order to be a good person or to be worthy. I will start unlearning all of these beliefs that I've grown up with because they are wrong. It will be a hard journey, and I might even ask myself if it's worth it to go down this path. But I know that I deserve to feel happy and peaceful, and that love should be a supportive and nurturing experience, not painful or hurtful. Thank you, Alessia, for giving me the courage to speak out and for helping me see that my feelings matter. You've inspired me to start changing my beliefs and I won't stop until I feel true happiness in my heart.
Ngl when Alessia said 'it's not your fault okay' her words literally bring tears in my eyes cuz there is no-one who ever said this types of words to me. She is my big sister. I love you Alessia 😭💗
Thank you so much Alessia, throughout all my relationships I never felt loved nor truly accepted for who I am, and i just can't and wont accept this anymore. I am forever grateful I found you❤
Yes Alessia. I could feel the love you sent. I even got tears in my eyes at the end. Thank you so much. I believe you play a huge role in my journey, even though you don't know me. I believe in better times coming for me. No hardness, no painful obsticle can make me stop or change my heart. No hard period of my life could ever make me stop going forward. Never. I will always go, I will always do and I will always believe and hope. Thank you my angel🤍🤍🤍
I needed a video about toxic relationships, as I'm struggling in a healthy relationship because of trauma from past toxic relationships with family and exes, love u
Thank you I really needed this. I have parents who think that I'm their 2nd life. They don't let me make any choices. But thanks to your videos I stay strong
Alessia, you are an angel! i also live in germany and i secretly hoped you live somewhere close as i wanted to be friends with someone like you for the longest time. either way dear Alessia thank you SO MUCH for this video. i dont know you personally but i wanted to say i love you, as a woman who has had a similar experience i cant help but cry. your soul is so tender. may God protect you, and bless you. this video is like a warm hug from a dear friend.
Yesterday I saw my toxic ex with his new girlfriend (who used to be my friend) and I was Overthinking it the whole night and I opened yt and saw this. Ur intuition is the best
when u said “ u weren’t made to suffer” and things like i promise it’ll get better and that u deserve someone to love u the right way i cried.. i feel like this will forever be my comfort video i know i will watch this again when i’m feeling down Everything u said about toxic relationship reminded me of that 1 person knowing that my memories with that person was bittersweet.. I feel like that video is so powerful and sad at the same time it just made me feel certain type of feeling watching it.. I feel like i’ll never forget some things u said in this vid it just reminds me of a person i know i’ll never completely be over them a person I never gave up on.. thank u for this. i just know u get it.
I am 16 and I have been going through hell and I could have never imagined that this video would help me and relieve me this much...I normally watch all your videos as soon as you drop them, and i take notes bla bla but for this one I delayed to watch it constanly cause my intuition said so. Now I understand, it was cause this is the time that I need it. I am really hurt, was about to break down and even started crying when you said I am worth loving cause I needed it so much. You are the guardian angel of mine and you will forever be my idol Alessia. Thank you for existing, thank you for everything.
I cried at the end of the video not gonna lie. Alessia is so kind and loving. If you read this Alessia, just know that you helped me so much. I love you and thank you
I am so proud of myself for living this one guy whom i liked . I liked him ( but it isnt easy to just get into a relationship instantly) when he was the one who needed it at instant . As first month passed he became toxic , abusive and a big critic who use fight everyday for the type of person i am for not making enough efforts or for talking24/7 . It became so much worse in second month , i felt stressed all the time , i use to get destructive thoughts which is when i realised it was so toxic . Just because i liked him doesnt mean i ll settle for his everyday trauma . A part of me was gone (the happy side ) which everyone around me noticed . Thats when i realised and decided to block him. I had to fix myself . I had to let it go . Because i deserve happiness and peace . I ll settle for the man who brings me peace and a safe place not a critic and abusive man. Thank you so much for making me realise it one more time ❤️🙌
Amazing! At your age and already so wise, I congratulate you. I went through the same but I married that narcissist and had kids with him and now I have to coparent with him. Lesson learned and healing daily. Thank you for your video ❤
Thank you Alessia, you are a real inspiration for me. I want to talk to my mom about this: my father mentally and physically abuses her and us (his children); she always says she is going to leave him, but she never does.
Sometimes I think that I'm just being paranoid about my past. And just not a "big deal", I over react and being a dramatic. But when I watch at these kinds of videos I realized how damage makes me this person to me. I need to heal and never again make the same mistake
Thank you so much alessia i really needed that I'm also living with my toxic family but im trying to move out and healing from a toxic relationship its had sometimes seem but after listening to you i have gained strength i love you❤
You wouldn’t be here anymore if that’s the case. You have hope left in you and even if it’s just a small spark, use it. I know exactly how it is to feel so trapped that you don’t see an exit but trust me, there is one. But you have to be willing to go through it. I send you all the strength you need to overcome whatever you may face right now 🤍
Thank you so much for the content you make and for putting yourself out here on this platform speaking about your experiences and your understanding of it. Coming from a person who had similar life experiences as you, it helps.
You're the big sister i never had. Thank you, I needed this video because i live in a toxic household and theses times it's so complicated, but all my faith is in God, as you said this video was recommended for someone who needed it, your intuition is very strong.
I literally needed this I cried so much after watching this and am so thankful that you made this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I related to her so much and those words needed at this point so much to me and hearing you was making me feel like that you were talking to me thank you so much ❤😢
alessia, you literally feel like an older sister to me. the one who hangs out with you talks to you while your family fights in the background the one person who's anxious because of them but doesn't let that reflect on the younger one. i really really needed this video thankyou so much 🤍
i need this so much i was depressed by my family this video give me a good level of knowledge what i want to do in my life thank you angle to save me ❤ love u sister
im crying so hard rn... the words she says in the end of the video "i believe in you and i love you"... i've never heard it beforefrom no one. i know i love you so much alessia
alessia, you make me feel the understanding that i long craved from others. You lift me up so much in both my strongest and weakest times. Thank you so much I love you
perfect timing Alessia:( i am going through a painful 3 year breakup. it’s so difficult. i don’t know who was the toxic one. i am struggling to move on
dear alessia, this truly made me cry and this helped me, i've always wondered why i had to go through so much even though i was just a kid and even now my life feels like hell, thank you for reminding me that i am in the the end just a teenager and all the suffering that i have to go through will some day end. regards, someone you helped.
Thank you for sharing this video with us, you are wonderful, a light in the life of each one who watches it, thank you for the words of support, thank you for this beautiful affection that you pass through the video, this is beautiful, again thank you dear, I love you ❤❤
Wow yeah I’m sorry for your past life but I’m so happy for you for fighting through all that and still be able to show love to all of us I really want you to find love someone who can meet all your needs you deserve it I was feeling the same way my real dad sucks but I am grateful for my mama and for you too I’m healing with you also keep your head up strong I love how powerful and beautiful you are I also feel the same way on why give love a try again but il try ❤ much love from me to you ❤
Alessia and Liz>>>>
"Narcissist people think they love you,but they love the power they have over you" it's sooo truee💞✨
We all can agree that alessia was the reason our life changed and we were able to heal. Love you alessia 💗🥺
I love you too 🥹🤍
@@Persephonesmind❤
You were the main reason. If you didn’t want to change, anyone’s help wouldn’t reach you. Give yourself more credit.
I literally started my healing journey because of her 🤍
@@honeymoonavenue97 yes I already do that but Alessia was the source and she deserves to be thanked and appreciated for it 💗
if love was a person, i believe it'd be you. you're so genuine 🩷
1 dont harbour hate
2. you cant heal someone who is destroying you
3. shame keeps you quiet frim experiences
4. they will stop hurting you when you stop giving them opportunity
5. real genuine love is waiting for you
6. you unsubconciously seek out patterns
7. work on accepting real love
8. their power relies on how much you think of them
9. family are there for you not by blood
10. God k
I cried watching this video when you said that we were maybe meant to go through pain to become a guiding light for others. Thank you ❤
She's a big sister for everyone 💛 i looveee herrr so much 🎀
Dearest Alessia,
I cant describe the amount of love i have for you even though i never met you. At the end of video,when you said that you are sending us love,i really felt it all through video. I felt genuine,sincere,light and comforting aura whole time,your emotions being so strong that i felt them too.
Ive never been in relationship yet somehow this video speaks to me. Its like i can hear your soul talking and it makes me wanna cry. I comfort watch you alot but i feel like this video will be the video ill watch for years to come. I truly love you and pray more and more blessings come into your life,you deserve them all. Thank you for existing,for fighting and being here for us. I promise we as your community will be here for you too.
My heart 🥹 I am so grateful that you could feel it because this was my intention. Thank you so much for all of your love and support, thank YOU for existing 🤍 I love you 🤍
@@Persephonesmind ALESSIA🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭you made my day by posting and then made it even more again😭💖💖💖you are truly an angel💝
I started crying at 1:30 because this is what I’m going through right now and I’m 22. this video felt like to me as if I’m talking to my guardian angels. thank you alessia.❤
ur intuition was right, today i got severely abused
Update?
@@basicinfo2022 i decided to make money and be financially stable first. hopefully this year or next years jan/feb i'll be out
Same
I hope you’re okay and safe now
update plz
I come back to this video whenever I have a hard day and hearing everything she says feels so validating I always cry, she rlly is an amazing person who’s helped me sm
I really really really needed this. The love you showed in this video is so generous. You don't even know me but you take compassion for me through a screen. I'm only 15 years old, ive been through every type of abuse and Im trying to get over a toxic relationship. This is really huge for me thank you so much
this video had me crying omfg, when she talked ab how she'd beg god...i felt it in my soul. and when she said i see you, and i believe in you, and i love you, i was literally bawling and saying "no please dont do this to me." she gets it, istg she does, and im so happy i found this channel omfg !! we got this guys
Same here
i just know god is so proud of you right now because after all the things he tested you with you still didn’t lose hope and STILL turned to him. I can‘t even imagine how proud he must be 🤲🏼
This comment made me tear up. Thank you so much 🤍
"testing" a child like that is something that only an evil, sadistic entity would do
Ik but that's the only way to evolve and become a better person. If a narcissistic parent act like good parents, the child might also become a narcissist. But if you get abused etc, you become grounded..so whenever you find an abused person etc, you listen and validate their feelings. @@ratdog6317
i want to heal but not from "romantic relationship" but "relationships in general" and i truly believe that you're video will definitely provide me something! as they always do , i hope you are doing good too 💕
I absolutely love your channel 💗
I'm.crying watching this bc its me rn
thank you, I was crying because I still can’t forget about my trauma and what a perfect timing, you are here to save the day❤
Alessia my heart will always be with you, I also had the unfortunate luck of getting with a narcissist. I admire you, you’ve come so far
Crying rn
I went through a lot of abuse with my toxic adopted family. This is exactly how I feel and I thank you for speaking this to all who need to hear this because it is 100%
tearing up right now. love you. thank you for this. may you be blessed beyond your wildest dreams.
Thank you so much for this video, Alessia. I'm going through a really tough time yet this video made me realize that it's actually because I have the strength to handle all this. I'm really thankful for you, but also really proud of you for being able to forgive, and to turn your pain into compassion. Thank you for being here for us, we all appreciate your efforts 🤍
Thank you for making me feel not alone. I hit my breaking point after a horrible relationship ended. All my traumas that I've suppressed have bubbled up and it's been a wild time. I'm getting professional help and I'm determined to get better and give myself the best life I've always deserved. Your videos are helping so much along my journey. Thank you for sharing 💗
this is the first video i watch of your channel and it made me feel so much better and i felt like every word u said was about me and made me realized how toxic my bestfriend was and made me more glad that i broke my relationship with her. this video made me feel so much better thank you so much ❤
thank you for this video Alessia. i lost my parents, there is a war in my country and I am in an abusive horrible relationship that I cant get out of yet because I am dependent on my partner for documents. when I cry at night I watch this video and it gives me hope that everything will be ok one day.❤
your speech touches not only my heart even my soul as well ! thank you thank you thank you 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
Thank you so much for this. I got out of a toxic relationship, a year ago. I really someone who would understand me and say these to me a year ago. It still hurts. But getting out of it was the best thing I ever did for myself and never have I ever once regretted the decision. I’ve been single ever since and it gets lonely sometimes but it’s so much better than all the emotions, anxiety, and pain I was put through. If anyone who’s in a toxic relationship is reading this rn. I am telling you please leave. You are worth so much more. The universe is abundant. They are not the last person on earth, you deserve so much more and you’ll meet people who are willing to treat you so much better and love you for you
Alessia your intuition is crazyyy! Like when you go to our group chat and say something out of the blue I actually needed to hear that❤
This was so much needed, thank you for being here for us when no one except god is Alessia ❤️
I needed this so much to the point that I'm crying while watching this video. Your intuition is insane. Thank you and I love you so much. You are truly sent to be our guardian angel. Please keep protecting your pure heart. I wish all the blessings in the world to enter your life. ♥️
I was in a toxic abusive relationship for 3 years, only two months ago he changed drastically and started to apologize about how badly he treated me and saying that it will never happen again. Mind you I was head over heels in love with him and when I heard that he was willing to change it gave me hope. Last month I had to break up with him.. because the sudden change was cause by him somehow going crazy because of excessive weed consumption. It feels weird how I thought that everything was going to workout. We had such a lovely night the day he told he was willing to change.. but that wasn’t even him talking. It was just whatever of him was left there. I guess I am still tangled in the web of this breakup. But this video helped me somehow :). Thank you Alessia
they never change, ever. im happy you had strength to leave, i have the same story.. also 3 years. i cant believe how some people can do these things to another human being. just sad..
@@adenise__122 Indeed they never do, I’m glad we are both healing! Only good things await hopefully :)❤️
I had this toxic relationship also for 3 years, I finally got out of it, but it deeply affected every single one relationship I had after him. It's like I can't feel love anymore... but we will get through this, let's be strong.
YOUR TIMING , LOVE YOU 🤍
I cried while watching this video yesterday and I cried thinking about it today I'm here to watch again😓
this is one of my favourite videos on TH-cam, so raw, relatable and eyes opener. Thank you so much for sharing 💗
"it's not your fault, you have the strength to overcome this and things will get better"
Yes Alessia! Me too I was thinking about my past toxic relationships recently and it has been affecting me so badly. I thought I have gotten over them but I actually haven't, because it's still resurfacing and I still feel awful. Thank you for this, your intuition really is very powerful ❤🙏
I feel that I'm not alone. thank you Alessia for this warm reminder
Not long ago I was still living with the toxic side of my family. Now, I live with my dad who loves and supports me like I deserve, makes me feel safe and worthy. To anyone out there who is still struggling, there is hope and there is a way out!
I’ve seen hundreds of videos about abuse and HR and how to be stronger and the voice who reached my core and satisfying me is this blessing Video ❤
I really have trusted many wrong people in my life at a very young age. Marriage, love, friendship was something I always loved. I am such a lover. But the person I was in love with didn't care about anything but the power he had over me . I was way too beautiful for him. He knew it . That gave him the audacity to treat me like shit . I regret so many things honestly . I am hurt to a point where I can't trust anyone anymore . I don't want to. For Someone who was all for love to suddenly becoming a person who don't believe in love anymore . I don't know when will I recover from this . When will I be able to love again ?
But one thing for sure, this has made me realize that the greatest relationship I will ever have is with myself .
I am learning to cherish this fact for now.❤
You’re so beautiful inside and out 🤍👼God bless you angel … everything you said is very true 🫶🏻
Alessia ik sorry for what happened to you in your past...you are such a great role model for all women going through bad things... thank you for helping women 🙏❤
You're the sweetest soul ever! The family part made me cry, we have such a similar childhood and teenage years. I'm 24 now I started to believe the God again because of the similar reasons you told. Thank you Alessia! Your contents always make me feel better. God bless you. ❤
Hello, Alessia. I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. This video reached me and touched me so deeply that I'm sitting here in my room crying while watching it. I struggled with so many things throughout my life, from abusive parents to bullying at school, and I tried to reach out for help but never received it. And even today, when I talk about my trauma, people try to downplay it by saying that what I went through wasn't that big of a deal.
Despite all of this, I started to notice my own feelings more in the past few years and I realized that I was raised to believe that suffering was my purpose. That I needed to suffer in order to be a good person, and that all good people go through hell with a smile. But that's not true, I don't need to suffer in order to be a good person or to be worthy.
I will start unlearning all of these beliefs that I've grown up with because they are wrong. It will be a hard journey, and I might even ask myself if it's worth it to go down this path. But I know that I deserve to feel happy and peaceful, and that love should be a supportive and nurturing experience, not painful or hurtful.
Thank you, Alessia, for giving me the courage to speak out and for helping me see that my feelings matter. You've inspired me to start changing my beliefs and I won't stop until I feel true happiness in my heart.
What a timing 💯
Ngl when Alessia said 'it's not your fault okay' her words literally bring tears in my eyes cuz there is no-one who ever said this types of words to me. She is my big sister.
I love you Alessia 😭💗
😞Needed to hear this, 💗💗 Thank you, I am currently trying to heal from my toxic relationship and learning to understand what true love is.
Thank you so much Alessia, throughout all my relationships I never felt loved nor truly accepted for who I am, and i just can't and wont accept this anymore. I am forever grateful I found you❤
ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا.
🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be human
Yes Alessia. I could feel the love you sent. I even got tears in my eyes at the end. Thank you so much. I believe you play a huge role in my journey, even though you don't know me. I believe in better times coming for me. No hardness, no painful obsticle can make me stop or change my heart. No hard period of my life could ever make me stop going forward. Never. I will always go, I will always do and I will always believe and hope. Thank you my angel🤍🤍🤍
I needed a video about toxic relationships, as I'm struggling in a healthy relationship because of trauma from past toxic relationships with family and exes, love u
Thank you I really needed this. I have parents who think that I'm their 2nd life. They don't let me make any choices. But thanks to your videos I stay strong
Alessia, you are an angel! i also live in germany and i secretly hoped you live somewhere close as i wanted to be friends with someone like you for the longest time. either way dear Alessia thank you SO MUCH for this video. i dont know you personally but i wanted to say i love you, as a woman who has had a similar experience i cant help but cry. your soul is so tender. may God protect you, and bless you. this video is like a warm hug from a dear friend.
Yesterday I saw my toxic ex with his new girlfriend (who used to be my friend) and I was Overthinking it the whole night and I opened yt and saw this. Ur intuition is the best
when u said “ u weren’t made to suffer” and things like i promise it’ll get better and that u deserve someone to love u the right way i cried.. i feel like this will forever be my comfort video i know i will watch this again when i’m feeling down
Everything u said about toxic relationship reminded me of that 1 person knowing that my memories with that person was bittersweet..
I feel like that video is so powerful and sad at the same time it just made me feel certain type of feeling watching it..
I feel like i’ll never forget some things u said in this vid it just reminds me of a person i know i’ll never completely be over them a person I never gave up on.. thank u for this. i just know u get it.
I am 16 and I have been going through hell and I could have never imagined that this video would help me and relieve me this much...I normally watch all your videos as soon as you drop them, and i take notes bla bla but for this one I delayed to watch it constanly cause my intuition said so. Now I understand, it was cause this is the time that I need it. I am really hurt, was about to break down and even started crying when you said I am worth loving cause I needed it so much. You are the guardian angel of mine and you will forever be my idol Alessia. Thank you for existing, thank you for everything.
I cried at the end of the video not gonna lie. Alessia is so kind and loving. If you read this Alessia, just know that you helped me so much. I love you and thank you
This is exactly what i needed and i just started searching something related to this situation and your video popped up in 26 secc
Yess i felt the love you sent me ❤ thank you ❤❤❤❤
i love her. i can't help but notice the teary eyes and the sheddy voice broo. she gets it.
I am so proud of myself for living this one guy whom i liked . I liked him ( but it isnt easy to just get into a relationship instantly) when he was the one who needed it at instant . As first month passed he became toxic , abusive and a big critic who use fight everyday for the type of person i am for not making enough efforts or for talking24/7 . It became so much worse in second month , i felt stressed all the time , i use to get destructive thoughts which is when i realised it was so toxic . Just because i liked him doesnt mean i ll settle for his everyday trauma . A part of me was gone (the happy side ) which everyone around me noticed . Thats when i realised and decided to block him. I had to fix myself . I had to let it go . Because i deserve happiness and peace . I ll settle for the man who brings me peace and a safe place not a critic and abusive man. Thank you so much for making me realise it one more time ❤️🙌
Up until this point, I had no idea how much I needed to hear these words.
This video came at the right time...I relate so much with your stories
Amazing! At your age and already so wise, I congratulate you.
I went through the same but I married that narcissist and had kids with him and now I have to coparent with him. Lesson learned and healing daily. Thank you for your video ❤
Thank you Alessia, you are a real inspiration for me.
I want to talk to my mom about this: my father mentally and physically abuses her and us (his children); she always says she is going to leave him, but she never does.
SHE IS LIKE THE ELDER SISTER I NEVER I HAD 🥺❤ LOVE YOU SP MUCH ALWAYS GONNA SUPPORT U 🤍
This video was different, i could sense all those strong feelings, and see how heavy you're heart was. I love you so much
Sometimes I think that I'm just being paranoid about my past. And just not a "big deal", I over react and being a dramatic. But when I watch at these kinds of videos I realized how damage makes me this person to me. I need to heal and never again make the same mistake
Thank you so much alessia i really needed that I'm also living with my toxic family but im trying to move out and healing from a toxic relationship its had sometimes seem but after listening to you i have gained strength i love you❤
She literally posted what I needed the most
You're an angel. I felt understood hearing you and I feel sooo embraced now. Thank you so much ❤
I have given up to the point where these inspirational videos don’t give me hope anymore
You wouldn’t be here anymore if that’s the case. You have hope left in you and even if it’s just a small spark, use it. I know exactly how it is to feel so trapped that you don’t see an exit but trust me, there is one. But you have to be willing to go through it. I send you all the strength you need to overcome whatever you may face right now 🤍
@@Persephonesmind you are an angel. Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much for this, you are sparkling my hope in God once again, thank you.
Thank you so much for the content you make and for putting yourself out here on this platform speaking about your experiences and your understanding of it. Coming from a person who had similar life experiences as you, it helps.
Thank you so much for this. This is exactly what my inner child needeed 🧸
You're the big sister i never had. Thank you, I needed this video because i live in a toxic household and theses times it's so complicated, but all my faith is in God, as you said this video was recommended for someone who needed it, your intuition is very strong.
I relate to your life story, one big trauma
@@datingandlifeadvicechannel7534 it will change trust me
im crying rn god blessed u 🥺🤧💕💕💕💕💕
alessia truly thank you
you are an angel thank you for making my day better
I literally needed this I cried so much after watching this and am so thankful that you made this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I related to her so much and those words needed at this point so much to me and hearing you was making me feel like that you were talking to me thank you so much ❤😢
I dont normally watch your channel but you popped up in my recommendations again so I clicked, noticed this video and the message is wonderful :)
alessia, you literally feel like an older sister to me. the one who hangs out with you talks to you while your family fights in the background the one person who's anxious because of them but doesn't let that reflect on the younger one. i really really needed this video thankyou so much 🤍
i need this so much i was depressed by my family this video give me a good level of knowledge what i want to do in my life
thank you angle to save me ❤
love u sister
im crying so hard rn... the words she says in the end of the video "i believe in you and i love you"... i've never heard it beforefrom no one. i know i love you so much alessia
I love your videos sm..your voice feels so calm for some reason, feels like a warm hug idk..i feel love (yes i mean it) ❤
alessia, you make me feel the understanding that i long craved from others. You lift me up so much in both my strongest and weakest times. Thank you so much I love you
I love you too 🤍🥹
perfect timing Alessia:( i am going through a painful 3 year breakup. it’s so difficult. i don’t know who was the toxic one. i am struggling to move on
You got this queen. Things will become brighter,just hold on💖remember you are loved!!
@@fangirlinneverland6335thank you so much 🥹🩷
Don’t ever doubt yourself u got to be stronger than him he ain’t worth it. Remember to never give up ❤
alessia i cried so much because i felt heard, and not alone.
dear alessia,
this truly made me cry and this helped me, i've always wondered why i had to go through so much even though i was just a kid and even now my life feels like hell, thank you for reminding me that i am in the the end just a teenager and all the suffering that i have to go through will some day end.
regards,
someone you helped.
This video came to me at the right time. Thank You so much. May God bless you 💕
who doesnt love you ? aalesia look at you ... u r a snow white - animals always around you . we love you . u r a beauty
Thanks sis your words really motivated me ! I send you so much blessings and love!
Thank you so much Alessia. It means alot.
thank you very much im crying right now because it really hits deep thank you for those important messages
Thank you for sharing this video with us, you are wonderful, a light in the life of each one who watches it, thank you for the words of support, thank you for this beautiful affection that you pass through the video, this is beautiful, again thank you dear, I love you ❤❤
Wow yeah I’m sorry for your past life but I’m so happy for you for fighting through all that and still be able to show love to all of us I really want you to find love someone who can meet all your needs you deserve it I was feeling the same way my real dad sucks but I am grateful for my mama and for you too I’m healing with you also keep your head up strong I love how powerful and beautiful you are I also feel the same way on why give love a try again but il try ❤ much love from me to you ❤
You're amazing,Alessia. I dont think you know how important and helping you are. Love ♡
u are so strong. thank you for putting this into the world. im so proud of you. i love you. thank you 🥺💕🎀💗💌💘
i did broke up with him months ago but i don’t know why i feel like im never gonna be able to love someone that deeply again