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  • @wholesomesimon
    @wholesomesimon  2 ปีที่แล้ว +783

    more writing: www.wholesomesimon.com
    :)
    Much love!
    -Simon

    • @joehernandez3492
      @joehernandez3492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes sir

    • @oscarthenotsogrouchy
      @oscarthenotsogrouchy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      bro we fell in love in october is such a banger !! i recommend the loser by verzache 🔥

    • @vidprimorac8468
      @vidprimorac8468 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My man I understand you completely and I want you to know I love you too and I love all people without exeption even when the people I love so much hurt me or make me mad I am not mad I am just frustrated that I cant love them so that even when they hurt me I show them love. So please you who is reading this (Ana lucas prehaps you) show your love twords all even the ones that hurt you

    • @bennyheadofthechairmen8808
      @bennyheadofthechairmen8808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pain is the thing that keeps us going, and what gives us purpose.

    • @ghijbvhiigvh3940
      @ghijbvhiigvh3940 ปีที่แล้ว

      you haven’t been through anything

  • @Seekoiah
    @Seekoiah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6171

    Watching this video 2 years later, then clicking his account and seeing he’s travelling the world after saying he wants to but it’s impossible, is just so reassuring and lovely

    • @shap9148
      @shap9148 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      yes

    • @hare_krishn.77
      @hare_krishn.77 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yepp!!! :) Travelling the whole world is my dream too... And ik it's kinda impossible for cuz I'm from a middle class family!!!🥲 So I'm just dreaming but i really wanna explore this world!!!!

    • @janewambui2065
      @janewambui2065 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@hare_krishn.77you can travel the world if you want to there are so many ways to travel and make money

    • @glimmerybubbles
      @glimmerybubbles ปีที่แล้ว +3

      oh... that warms my heart

    • @Nia-020
      @Nia-020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I swear I love things like this

  • @MashalaT
    @MashalaT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4368

    “ it doesn’t get easier, you get stronger “
    Life works in circles, happy, sad, angry, scared, and all the way back to the start, trust it will always come back around to happiness

    • @ariebakhuizen5486
      @ariebakhuizen5486 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’m starting to realize that, thank you. And when you get older these ‘small’ (what first a ‘big’ thing was) things doesn’t bother you that much anymore so you are more likely to be happy (for a longer period if time) :)

    • @VoidMySoul
      @VoidMySoul ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Make sure you get stronger in a healthy way tho. Ive been taking the wrong route for a long time but reconnecting with family helped ground me again and realize some pain is good for you

    • @aoifemagee5447
      @aoifemagee5447 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s a great way to put it. And it’s true. You build resilience and realise that if you’ve got through difficult things before even if you don’t know how you managed to get through, it gives you hope that you can get through pain you might not think your capable of in the moment.

    • @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301
      @beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 ปีที่แล้ว

      So, i feel like it's getting harder for me or am i just getting weaker?

    • @MashalaT
      @MashalaT ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@beatlesqueensabbatheclashc6301 I promise you it gets better, there was a time I could genuinely not see a future for myself and now I do, it took time and I know that’s daunting but if you try your best to have a positive mindset even when it seems impossible everything will start to make sense, stay strong and remember that you are human and it’s okay to have ups and downs and it’s actually completely normal and healthy

  • @DaniaMihaela
    @DaniaMihaela ปีที่แล้ว +5003

    Sitting in my bed crying and can't think of any way life could get better but your video just helped, I cannot explain how but it came like a bandage on an open wound

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      God can help you! I’m praying for hope and peace in our Lord Jesus Christ name🙏❤️

    • @angelica11
      @angelica11 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      you deserve to take care of and be kind to ourself

    • @BiggestAzzHoleEver
      @BiggestAzzHoleEver ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@westonlord4214 god can do waaay better tbh.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i felt the same way, it felt like i had nothing until i saw this video and felt touched :) crazy how someone can help other people so much

    • @Moonmagic81
      @Moonmagic81 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BiggestAzzHoleEver way to ruin the damn moment...

  • @jazme_
    @jazme_ ปีที่แล้ว +1885

    "You know what? Maybe life isn't so bad after all"
    💗

    • @SnighdhaHalder
      @SnighdhaHalder ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ❤️yes maybe we can do it .

    • @xuyezheitch
      @xuyezheitch ปีที่แล้ว +5

      got a hold a little bit y'all got this

    • @aminedorbane3862
      @aminedorbane3862 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      maybe

    • @ClairDeLume
      @ClairDeLume ปีที่แล้ว +3

      maybe it isnt

    • @schqrr
      @schqrr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yes.

  • @cypherjash
    @cypherjash 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    “it's okay to be lost” thank you, man.

  • @birdmankeigo5048
    @birdmankeigo5048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3882

    I felt like crying when he said 'it gets better' because my sister once told me 'it always gets better' when I was at my worst (I think). Thank you, Simon.
    -A struggling minor

    • @luvv985_
      @luvv985_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm sure your strong, and you can pass your struggles, you CAN do it

    • @manalbouanane2463
      @manalbouanane2463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I really hope you overcome this struggle soon ❤

    • @ive5773
      @ive5773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lmao 😂

    • @birdmankeigo5048
      @birdmankeigo5048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ive5773 I'm- what is this supposed to mean? Genuinely confused 🤭

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves you so much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @777hailey4
    @777hailey4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    We’re all the main characters of our own lives, why do we make it so embarrassing to put ourselves first?

    • @briana.hinojosa
      @briana.hinojosa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this !

    • @Revelation.21.4
      @Revelation.21.4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because that’s not what God says, but of course there are specific circumstances where we need to put ourselves first. For example, when we’re struggling with our mental health, with others, or just struggling. The most humble people will be rewarded the most.

    • @bambi9703
      @bambi9703 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Revelation.21.4that’s why there’s balance. God wouldn’t want you to be too selfless and putting yourself in the backseat of your own life. if you need it, put yourself first. if you’re okay, put others before you

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Revelation.21.4It's not selfish to want to be a main character.Even God would want you to be a main character of your life,of course,he stated in many verses that you are his child you are his prince or princess,and that doesn't mean selfishness.Being a main character means treating others equally with respect

  • @mac-jr8vp
    @mac-jr8vp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9997

    I would trust Simon with my drink at a party

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1903

      😭😭 the biggest compliment everrr

    • @bigworm68
      @bigworm68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      everything led me to holding YOUR drink

    • @thefilirivera
      @thefilirivera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I wouldn’t. He tries too hard to get your trust.

    • @glitchingberror1717
      @glitchingberror1717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The biggest compliment!!

    • @hongwonie
      @hongwonie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fr

  • @Introvert__queen
    @Introvert__queen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The only reason i want to learn driving : whenever i am anxious , sad , or in a bad mood i can just take out my keys and drive for 2 hrs and going to a place that nobody knows ........ a quiet place in which nobody can find me .

  • @verity-gv4cz
    @verity-gv4cz ปีที่แล้ว +324

    Crying so bad right now, don't know what to do with my life, but i guess its okay not to be okay sometimes:(

    • @adibajannat334
      @adibajannat334 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seems like you exactly wrote my situation

    • @zoemolloy1692
      @zoemolloy1692 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This may sound beyond cliche… but trust me when i say everything works out in the end. The best thing about not being ok, is you learn that you need to be there in order to get better, onwards and upwards. Hopefully this comment finds you in a better place. Go enjoy a sunset, your favourite meal and take time for solitude. You are the only person you can control, some days that is shit to hear, but there is so much freedom in it. Sending love

    • @sweetestaphrodite
      @sweetestaphrodite 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I feel it so badly. I am so burdened by decision. I’m so burdened by myself. I am so so so so so burdened. Things happen for a reason but what if my life has a horrible ending? Some people just don’t get good lives. Some people die fucking horribly. What if I’m one of them? I hate everything.

    • @Thekingkhari
      @Thekingkhari 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sweetestaphroditeyou will live. Believe in your self and try focus on that elusive good you know exists. Because you belong. We belong, even when we think we don’t

    • @GokuKakrot-ic3wz
      @GokuKakrot-ic3wz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I will come back here 2 years later

  • @kenntmannichtt
    @kenntmannichtt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1088

    its incredibly calming to see ppl enjoying life with the smallest actions

    • @kenntmannichtt
      @kenntmannichtt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it actually gives alot of hope

    • @xerilaun
      @xerilaun ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

  • @Tmntluver
    @Tmntluver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2697

    i lost all my friends and because of that i'm finally able to be the real me and express my actually style and just be overall free. i love your vibes and mindset simon bad weeks, months, or even years happen, but there are good outcomes so please keep it wholesome and keep pushing :) im proud of you. thank you and thank you over and over again simon.
    keeping it wholesome, also love that you listen to girl in red

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      Keep it wholesome :)

    • @shaylav.8521
      @shaylav.8521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      We got a girl in red stan 🫶🏻❤❤

    • @Blk_N_Bleu
      @Blk_N_Bleu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah i was wondering what that song was. I finally found it here, and i love these vibes. It means a lot to me.

    • @noseokjinnolife2219
      @noseokjinnolife2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I also lost all my friends 💀💀

    • @jasoncushing5561
      @jasoncushing5561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You’ll always have a best friend… Have you tried talking to God/Jesus? He loves vou so
      much and can work miracles in your life.

  • @Its_semio
    @Its_semio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    "I feel kinda lost" to "oh btw do you like my crocs"😂; love the contrast haha. Love this video & you're really talented!

  • @silverkeymusic
    @silverkeymusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You are one of those rare people that you can find in the world who just needs to be protected because you're so special. I love your mindset, and it's so inspiring. Keep it up

  • @videocevirilerim
    @videocevirilerim ปีที่แล้ว +114

    "it's okay to feel lost" I NEEDED THIS. IM GONNA GO OUT NOW AND TRY TO REFRESH MY MIND, THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @takemehome.9729
    @takemehome.9729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    The beauty about this world is knowing someone is also feeling the same way as you.. and for the first time, you're no longer scared to go through another day.

    • @div-ineee
      @div-ineee ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactly, it makes everyone feel safer knowing that you aren’t alone and can relate to other people

  • @joneyor6595
    @joneyor6595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    Its okay to feel lost, just never forget where you're going.

    • @Jaxzee0122
      @Jaxzee0122 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve never heard that before what a good quote

  • @diannecastro5640
    @diannecastro5640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1441

    Cleaning and listening to this makes me so motivational

    • @diannecastro5640
      @diannecastro5640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My life is now complete🥺

    • @aaronemerich383
      @aaronemerich383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Funny enough, 2 years later, I'm cleaning and listening to this video that I put on my "Watch Later" list relatively recently

    • @aicha1031
      @aicha1031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here 😭😭

    • @Dhead-io4om
      @Dhead-io4om 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same cleaning/rearranging lol

  • @lejukaa
    @lejukaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    I'm turning 19 tomorrow and let's just say this video helped me a lot. I've been feeling scared and confused about what the future holds. Thank you for this!

    • @FWyatt
      @FWyatt ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I've ecently turned 64 and your (L3juka) comment is how i feel. I'm scared of my "Tommorrows" my future. I lost my wife of 40 years and i get scared of life most days. But thanks for this video. I just cvame in from being at church and afterwards coming home i was feeling so lost. I turned on my computer to get some music and this was on the tope of my feed todsy. Thanks again.

    • @wookie6943
      @wookie6943 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hows it going bro

  • @crimson8017
    @crimson8017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    “It’s okay to feel lost, it’s okay to be hurt,” hit harder than it should’ve 💀

  • @noheflog
    @noheflog ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I confess that every time I feel lost and tired, I come here because this video makes me feel that I am not the only person in the world who feels lost with life

    • @austinglass1916
      @austinglass1916 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm right here with you, keep your head up fam.

  • @yuk1r0_33
    @yuk1r0_33 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    "i cant help but feel like if we die without experiencing all these things of people that we share this planet with do we really know what its like to be human" ill think about this forever now, in a positive way. I know wanna try even more, i wanna see the world, try being positive and maybe humans arent so bad after all?

  • @priscillaaa_j
    @priscillaaa_j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    "maybe parking lots are the cure to depression" my goodness it is

    • @pastaslut
      @pastaslut ปีที่แล้ว

      PLS

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus is the cure for depression🙏❤️

    • @nahrafe
      @nahrafe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@westonlord4214 sure, God (your context is Jesus, it's different for me) is one of the cure of depression. But in places like parking lots, you could feel His presence better.. at least for me. I feel the chaos of life that i felt has strayed me from God, maybe that's why some religions have daily prayers.

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nahrafe Yes, John 16:33 is a great verse for this; this world will throw things at us that can bring us farther from God but it’s a very important thing to stay close to God through the bad times because he’ll always stay right by you through them🙏❤️

  • @NiveaKhondaker
    @NiveaKhondaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Loved how Simon's videos aren"t really planned, especially this one because it feels like you're talking to a friend

  • @raiderng
    @raiderng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +785

    This guy is actually a mobile therapist, my dad has COVID and was told this morning he might not have long left, I can’t slow my breathing because I freaking out, I’ve never had someone I’m close to pass, I looked up how to deal with stress you’ve never felt before and he came up. I’ve only watched 4 videos but I feel so much better, truly thank you to this guy he really helped me in only 2 hours
    Edit: to put it in context, just last week I was going fishing with him and helping him pack his house so he can move, he moved 5 days and then I got a call from him telling me he has COVID, I thought nothing off it, then just yesterday my mom rushed home from work crying telling me and my brother to look at the face time cuz it might me our last chance, then this morning I was told again that he doesn’t have very long left, I can’t even see him because the doctors won’t pick up the phone because they’re busy and I can’t see in person cuz he’s 3 states away

    • @goldensaddle1361
      @goldensaddle1361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      It's been a long time since you posted this
      How is your Dad doing now ?

    • @wophle
      @wophle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      i wish you the best and for your dad’s health❤️

    • @thegnome9529
      @thegnome9529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      How are you doing now?

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@goldensaddle1361 he past away on October 5th

    • @raiderng
      @raiderng 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@thegnome9529 doing good

  • @Agent87.647
    @Agent87.647 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    “Maybe parking lots are the cure to depression” - Simon

  • @aidanngarrettt
    @aidanngarrettt ปีที่แล้ว +50

    you really are something special, you were put on this earth for us to see. No religion or politics involved, no hatred just pure content wether its 2 weeks ago or 2 years ago your content is beautiful

  • @taliar8115
    @taliar8115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    it's currently 4:30am, I just finished watching the video and proceeded to bawl my damn eyes out (the acoustic version of heather at the end put me in my feels so bad). this video really made me think and I am so damn grateful for it as well as all of the amazing content you put out there. keep it wholesome and pls keep making me bawl my eyes out

    • @sledge2105
      @sledge2105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And? No one cares attention seeker.

  • @loukes116
    @loukes116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    this just randomly came up on my feed 2 years later and me feel a whole lot better :) love your mindset bro

  • @sayantani3374
    @sayantani3374 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    His vibe is so peaceful

  • @lucycooperofficial
    @lucycooperofficial ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I want a friend like this 🥺 I wish more people got deep and realistic like this, thank you.

  • @tommy_swim243
    @tommy_swim243 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Dude. I’m literally feeling exactly what you’re feeling. I felt like I had everything and lost it. I don’t know why or how I lost it and I don’t know how to get it back

  • @fayejackson1524
    @fayejackson1524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I had this sudden feeling of coming back to this video to comment. My whole life quote and what I’ve always been preaching to my friends is “everything happens for a reason”. However, for a couple of days I’ve been feeling empty, I have had panic attacks and cried hard. I have no idea what the reason is and it seemed like I couldn’t pull myself out. I was so obsessed with the thought of “being happy again”. Which made me feel bad and mad at myself for not being able to feel happy.
    Right now, I’m at more peace. I’m breathing, keeping myself busy and letting everything go. Good things, good days will come.

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ive been feeling the same exact way, thank you for sharing how you feel because it made me feel a lot better about how i’m feeling and knowing you’re okay makes me so happy and gives me hope that i will be okay as well :) we can get through this❤, i am also always saying that “everything happens for a reason” or “it was meant to be this way” to my friends but weirdly i never believe it myself. it’s important to remember that what you would tell a friend or people in general is something you should say to yourself

  • @goodbyesam7564
    @goodbyesam7564 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    my dad passed away 2 months ago and I was freaking out today because I took a semester off for college and now I don’t know if I even want to continue, I’m literally a freshman. I was having a mental break down today and I saw this vid in my recommendations and it rlly comforted me

    • @TeaganAnn
      @TeaganAnn ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You’ve got this hun. I believe in you.

    • @hehehe4753
      @hehehe4753 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You got this. My father passed away 5 months ago still don't know how to deal with this life now. It's still hard to digest the truth but it is what it is. You gotta be strong and acceptance is the key to feel at ease, it takes process but you'll got this.

    • @latifaalrajhi3255
      @latifaalrajhi3255 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Continue don’t give up it will get easier and you will get out of it stronger ,strong heart.

    • @gagank143
      @gagank143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you ok?

    • @nitiaarethiya6811
      @nitiaarethiya6811 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know you can do it! Make your dad proud!!

  • @Asticii
    @Asticii ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Bro, for anyone struggling, don’t ever give up on life. There are so many things that you still haven’t done yet and you would be missed so much. You are surrounded by people who love and support you and you shouldn’t ever hesitate to ask for help. Life gets so much better. Trust❤️

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 ปีที่แล้ว

      Needed to hear this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaysouthmusic8230 glad I could help bro🙏

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 ปีที่แล้ว

      Needed this

    • @aesqueth2815
      @aesqueth2815 ปีที่แล้ว

      Needed this

    • @Asticii
      @Asticii ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aesqueth2815 that’s great to hear man, glad I could help

  • @Hoi2012
    @Hoi2012 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    This video changed my mental health. A few months ago i was extremely depressed and i had alot of anxiety. Your videos relieved so much of my stress. I'm no longer that negative person i once was, i'm starting to become alot more positive.
    Thanks you so much Simon

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this gives me hope for myself :) thank you for sharing your experience

    • @radieschen_tv3985
      @radieschen_tv3985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      W

    • @makenfenix
      @makenfenix ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember this comment bro❤

  • @sukriti2316
    @sukriti2316 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Read this in some book :
    Everytime you feel lost, be grateful. Because being lost in life, is a sign by the universe that you've grown. Everytime you grow and head towards a new chapter in life, the universe throws a new hurdle at you. Each bigger than the last. And that's just the beauty of it. The proof of your growth. And that a new, better you is waiting for you to overcome those moments where everything appears to be juggling with your sanity "

  • @amyzhu5187
    @amyzhu5187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    After 3 years, and going through a very painful heartbreak. This just hits.

  • @AlexSharbono_
    @AlexSharbono_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    so crazy how im going through horrible stuff rn and I wound up finding this video in my recommended 2 years after you posted it:,) thank you for this simon

    • @grain9640
      @grain9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Something bad happened today and I found this video tonight

  • @almondmelk5830
    @almondmelk5830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I completely and totally agree. The ability to find peace and beauty in the smallest and randomness of things is what brings the world to life. It's easy for life to speed up and for you to look over the small details, but noticing and appreciating little things is what makes me happy :)

  • @IngloriousMedia.
    @IngloriousMedia. ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Im suffering from probably the worst mental health I’ve ever had in life. Anxiety through the roof all day everyday starting the moment i wake up. I watched this video probably about a month or so ago and it rly opened my eyes on my current issue. I feel like we all need to hear that its going to be okay every once in a while. Thank you

  • @deepti-u8p
    @deepti-u8p 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video makes me feel better always, I’ll be crying, sad, etc and after watching this video I’ll just feel wayyyy better. Thank you :)

  • @pri10101
    @pri10101 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Since 2021, this video has returned to my recommendations every time I need it at the right time, I take it as a sign because every time I see it it makes me get back on my path. Thanks algorithm

  • @rebecabittencourt9398
    @rebecabittencourt9398 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    it’s such a warm feeling to hear that someone is feeling lost and trying to find themselves when you’re going through the same thing. being me just feels new, and see that there’s other people that is trying to figure out the way of their life it’s comforting. thank you a lot, simon

  • @mikithealien
    @mikithealien ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey man, whatever you’re going through, stay strong king. And thank you, I really needed this video.

  • @astheearth
    @astheearth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My mental health isn't that great lately but this is helping me so much, Thank you for this amazing and inspiring content! You feel at peace in a parking lot, I feel at peace when I'm watching your videos at 1 am in the garden :) I really think your videos are gonna change my live

  • @DollyRose-ne1ch
    @DollyRose-ne1ch ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bro literally IS the main character.

  • @isha_121i4
    @isha_121i4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this after 3yrs without searching for it makes me think about everything DOES happens for a reason, but clicking in your channel and seeing your recent videos travelling the world proud of you boy!! This subscriber is clapping for you!!
    wishes buddy!!

  • @allisonblakely8345
    @allisonblakely8345 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    this felt like a big ol' hug. thank you, stranger on the internet. sending you lots of love, many, many months later, from across the world.

    • @amira-jx7hy
      @amira-jx7hy ปีที่แล้ว

      i just experienced the same feeling!!
      you seem so sweet btw 🫶🏻

  • @ashlynx1042
    @ashlynx1042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Your voice is very calm and I love that

  • @1soap_2soup
    @1soap_2soup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I’ve body shamed so many times on my life and insecure about myself. And I’ve lost so many people but that those moments made me stronger and I’ve been trying to focus on myself i and I found a lot that I didn’t know like I’m really good and writing and drawing. And I want to thank you for making these video cause you helped me so much. Love you Simon and as you like to say, keep it wholesome✨

    • @sunny_dummy833
      @sunny_dummy833 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know this is from 2 years ago but I want to say that,thank you for posting this comment.Maybe you think no one cares but I do,even if it was from years ago.Maybe you're fine now but idk.

    • @arcanum814
      @arcanum814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "I've body shamed so many times." Ok hear me out, I mean no disrespect, but when I read this I thought that you were the one body-shaming people, I got confused. Sorry, Lol. Great comment!

  • @hazelxtaliahazelxtalia9975
    @hazelxtaliahazelxtalia9975 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Every once in a while this video comes up on my fyp and I am so incredibly grateful that it does because for me it reiterates the good and healthy parts of my life!!! I love you all!!!

  • @harryvlo909
    @harryvlo909 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We have so much to say when we're alone
    But lots of us can barely think of anything to say when we're with someone else

  • @lester7087
    @lester7087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    You seen like such a nice person to be around btw love your TikToks and videos

  • @dontleavemehere
    @dontleavemehere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I think i am gonna cry, i just need a hug. I love u and ur videos so much, keep it wholesome Simon!!

  • @rebeccaa5371
    @rebeccaa5371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Been having some pretty rough days lately. I’ve never watched any of your videos before and suddenly this one appears on my timeline. Made me feel good. You seem like a cool dude, keep doing you

  • @JoedsonSantana
    @JoedsonSantana ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3 years later and this video is talking so deep with me. Thank you so much for share this with us.

  • @KumaliKuruppuarachchi
    @KumaliKuruppuarachchi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Maybe life isn't so bad after all..." yeah I love that part❤

  • @marialuizar.martins2425
    @marialuizar.martins2425 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I'm literally crying here but I just wanna say thank you for all your videos

  • @sunflowerstitchery
    @sunflowerstitchery 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You have a 'soulmate' essence. I resonate with this video so deeply.
    I've never seen any of your other videos before, but I'm definitely going to be checking out your channel.

  • @marialourdesmalipol
    @marialourdesmalipol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you. I was having anxiety and felt like my depression will crawl out anytime soon. This video calms me tonight. Thank you.

  • @talktoastranger
    @talktoastranger ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is the kind of down to earth, time-slowing message that puts life in perspective. Thank you.

  • @cherthefairy
    @cherthefairy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    here’s a virtual hug for you🫂💓 God loves u and i do too ! praying for ur healing and peace

  • @rainwater375
    @rainwater375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    :) GIRL IN RED IS ELITE also downtown by peep will be a vibe. Love you Simon, keep it wholesome.

    • @wholesomesimon
      @wholesomesimon  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!!! Love ya liz! Keep it wholesome

    • @oliveee
      @oliveee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ayyyy a girl inred stan letss goooo + wholesome fan = PERFECTT

  • @ChristelleCloud
    @ChristelleCloud 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Yes, everything does happen for a reason. Because here I am watching this video 2 years later on a day I'm really needed to hear this. :')
    Thank you! ♥️

  • @miyajwrites7550
    @miyajwrites7550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I agree there is something therapeutic about that.. Me and one of my close friends were at my best friends sleepover and so we joked we were going to my house to grab a sucker from my van because I guess we are like that always silly.. We and two others walked for almost a mile and then turned around to go back me and my close friend laid in the middle of the abandoned, quiet street and just watched the stars for a good ten minutes. We talked about life and love and deep stuff like that, under the stars, in the middle of a road where literally anyone could come and snatch us or run us over yet there was something soothing about it. Of course we could hear a vehicle from far away so we would get up and go hide in the grassy ditches until they passed then we would go lay back down, the warm asphalt against our back seeping through our clothes. It was an amazing experience!

  • @yeaitsabsolutelyme1586
    @yeaitsabsolutelyme1586 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'll come back when all the mess that i'm facing right now ..changes into my best experience ever.."it's okay to feel lost sometimes..''

  • @pondwoes
    @pondwoes ปีที่แล้ว +112

    ive been having i think the worst weeks i’ve had in my life so far, i couldn’t even work up the courage to go to school today because i was freaking out so bad, i just came on youtube for a distraction and i saw this video and now i’m crying hahahejf thank you for this man

    • @melanie0223
      @melanie0223 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      been feeling the same way as well, i had to leave school today after not even an hour of being there because of an anxiety attack🥲 but we have to remember it’s okay to go to school and it’s okay to be feeling sad as well. times like these are normal and it will pass:) i hope everything is great for you

    • @jjo.joey_
      @jjo.joey_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      real

    • @xozellet
      @xozellet ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jjo.joey_same

  • @sillychurl6502
    @sillychurl6502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you! I heard the words I needed to hear. Sending all of my love, and support to every and each of you guys.

  • @itsyoupeaches9780
    @itsyoupeaches9780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so pure and wholesome .... thank u for that

  • @-_World_-
    @-_World_- ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I truly think this is a sign as I lay on my bed at 4:00 am watching this video I am at the lowest that I have been in a while and this video just happens to pop up out of nowhere and the message in this video really stuck out to me, especially right now, so I thank you for giving me a little bit more hope and a new perspective

  • @relzz211
    @relzz211 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video was recommended on youtube, and i can not explain how much it has actually impacted my life just watching it, for a while now i have been lost too, with no way of figuring out how to move forward and whenever i try to the self doubt just kicks in and im just hard on myself. This is really soo inspirational thank you soo much.

  • @tzuyu1671
    @tzuyu1671 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dont know why I cried so much after watching this video, after hearing all the inspirational sentences he said

  • @linhquach535
    @linhquach535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m just happened to see this video. And well idk but it is what i need right now. since i felt kinda lost lately, living away from family and got no friends around to share thoughts. Every second of this is so healing and therapeutic. Thank you. that was so motivated. For myself and everyone feeling lost right now, dont give up and keep it wholesome 😊

  • @grace7skz6
    @grace7skz6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can’t tell you HOW MUCH you’ve helped me, Simon. You make me so motivated and make me realize that the world is not on my shoulders; like you said, “you realize that the world actually goes really slow.” That is so meaningful to me. You helped me through life, gave me love, taught to love the darkness, and love myself, and I thank you so so much❤️. (Plus helping others) What your doing in this video(driving around and chilling, walking around and seeing life), I have always wanted to do that. I’m not old enough yet to drive and even go on a walk just by myself because my parents don’t want me to be lost or get hurt(I also live in a safe neighborhood), but it’s understandable. The closest I can be free outside is on my driveway. I can see the nature and stars so clearly, like your free, you feel amazingly calm and happy. It’s so nice to do it. Again, thank you so much and I hope you see this. Thank you, and I will support you forever❤️❤️.

  • @Lifefromindia
    @Lifefromindia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This video is such a vibe to be in . I love such content creators who make people feel good about themselves ,even when things don't go well ...stuff like this is like a warm cup of coffee or a pause to be taken in mental chaos and comparision ⭐

  • @madilyn.elli0tt
    @madilyn.elli0tt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video just
    saved my life
    truly

  • @alinasonia6592
    @alinasonia6592 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was watching these videos when I was so down, in such a terrible head space and had faced too much exposure to solitude. And I really needed someone, something, anything to understand & give me a reason to keep going in this life. You’re such a savior to me & so many people. YT can really be a toxic place to an extent but ppl like you using it to relate & spread love is amazing. I just had to come back years after I’ve watched this & say thank you. Thank you so much.

  • @teodortodorov1662
    @teodortodorov1662 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    1 year ago I was lost like you! I procrastinated all my days! Then I started something new and made ambitions. I started "Self-improvement". Still feel sad and guilty sometimes, but I feel happy most of the time :)

  • @MiniGod111
    @MiniGod111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Recently in my country Iran
    Everything is so bad ...
    But your video did calm me down now at least a little
    "Everything happens for a reason"
    I needed to hear it
    Thank you.

  • @isabellamargariti2591
    @isabellamargariti2591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For some reason, it feels nice sharing your thoughts with people online. Even if you may never see them in real life. It just feels comforting knowing that random people around the world are sharing the same problems with you. Venting like this.

  • @ravishmeetaroo9934
    @ravishmeetaroo9934 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some moments will push you to do things out of the blue. How crazy it might be. Its another kind of moment, just being there alone, all by yourself, living the moment. I dunno, but life feels easy when its all silence around, obviously you’re scared, but its another kind of peace. It feels ethereal. Just you, your thoughts and what you want, wanna express. No filter, no one to obstruct you. Its just you in the moment, you connect with your deepest self, you feel at peace, you imagine your future

  • @tosinboluwaduro2403
    @tosinboluwaduro2403 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Crying so hard because life has been so sad for me for so long now.
    This helped.
    Thank you so much, Simon.

  • @yostelle
    @yostelle ปีที่แล้ว +3

    3 years, still calms me down :DD

    • @justabookwormhere5940
      @justabookwormhere5940 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here ❤, a lot of things have happened since I first watched this.

  • @wholesomesean3760
    @wholesomesean3760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    100% would vibe in a parking lot with Simon

    • @lasole2075
      @lasole2075 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same!! also love ur name haha

    • @westonlord4214
      @westonlord4214 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jesus Christ is our savior, he died on the Cross for our sins. Putting your faith in Him is the only way to get to Heaven when you die.❤️🙏

    • @Tomppsu
      @Tomppsu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@westonlord4214 no

    • @iCookCrystalMeth
      @iCookCrystalMeth ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@westonlord4214 Bless you weston

  • @averybadenhop845
    @averybadenhop845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don’t have a great past and I have a lot of emotional damage and listening to these just makes me feel like I want to keep living...I’m so glad I found this page

  • @Ani-gz4sl
    @Ani-gz4sl ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video saved my life.

  • @gigihadid-gx8ol
    @gigihadid-gx8ol ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "you know what, maybe life isnt so bad after all, think about that"

  • @whycryforthem
    @whycryforthem 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is one of my fav video of yours.... I always come back here when things go wrong 💕

  • @Smile_Easy
    @Smile_Easy ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sitting on my bed crying , just starting college at 23. It feels overwhelming,I feel behind cause my friends have graduated

  • @hanna786
    @hanna786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s 3 AM here right know. I needed this

  • @ayulaksitapramestikiranaki4007
    @ayulaksitapramestikiranaki4007 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thankyou for making this video, It’s so soothing to hear that it’s okay if you still haven’t figured things out

  • @tonja100
    @tonja100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video means so much to me. every time i feel a bit lost in live i come back to this video and watch it all over again. for some reason it feels so comforting. thank u so much simon, u really helped me alot.

  • @suvasuva4915
    @suvasuva4915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like how you talked about how you felt so lost but you still find love in the tiniest parts of living. I feel like we should remember that those things aren’t exclusive. you can be lost and unsure and you can still love everything about the world, you can still find joy in those things. I feel like that happens a lot when you tell people you have depression, or you’re struggling mentally. depression doesn’t mean you can’t be happy. it doesn’t remove that fact. nothing is ever on its own, most things are better off described as mixtures. I’m happy I came across this. life is a mixture of things. you are lost, but you love. regardless, regardless, regardless.

  • @Sammy-wh3vo
    @Sammy-wh3vo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We all need a person like Simon in our life & that’s a FACT

  • @michaeldost8155
    @michaeldost8155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Girl in red legit has those LiS vibes. A game which truly made me learn to appreciate life and stop taking everything for granted. To actually live, love and laugh. To form beautiful relationships and to find the deeper meanings in things.

    • @Octa
      @Octa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Girl in Red is the only artist that really manages to make me feel down and happy at the same time a really weird mix that I somehow like

    • @leyligoshayeva324
      @leyligoshayeva324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yeaaah, i love LiS😭😭😭

    • @margo111
      @margo111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omg yes I love Lis sm

    • @DavtheDartrix-723
      @DavtheDartrix-723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ready for tje moshpit Shaka brah

  • @naeengmyon
    @naeengmyon ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i felt like i wasnt worthy of life. today. yesterday. this week, this year, the past 365 days. i lost so many people, and as a spreading affect, people who left me spread things about me that made other people avoid me. i knew i was not valued in this world, and other people knew it too. but you're right, everything happens for a reason. this video made me feel more human, and a little more valued. thanks :)

  • @aanya023
    @aanya023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    his voice 😭✨

  • @Julia-mo4um
    @Julia-mo4um 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every time I feel bad I come back here, and this video is definitely a part of my life, thank you, Simon, this is so lovely, I love souls like yours.