I’ve been feeling SUPER lonely lately but i saw a quote yesterday that read *do not confuse boredom with loneliness* and I realised that I had been doing exactly that! I’ve just finished school and my brain has been completely overstimulated for the past year that now that I’m not, I felt lonely. But I’m not I’m just bored and I’m excited to feel bored because *boredom breeds creativity* ! With love from Liverpool, U.K. !
It starts with yourself, building a good relationship with yourself, loving and valuing yourself, understanding that the relationship with yourself is the most important relationship we'll ever have. We don't need anything or anyone to fulfill us, we don't need to seek for appreciation.
I'm from the UK. The loneliest I have felt was during my university years. My mental health issues made me feel as though I was living my daily life in a box. I definitely agree that the sense of fulfilment comes from within - we rely too much on others and external factors for our happiness.
im currently studying in the UK for uni and this has been the loneliest period of my life so far. im also struggling with some mental issues so everything's going to shit basically haha. any tips for surviving uni? everything is just so lonely. my family and friends are also not in the UK.
Im from the UK too and i dont have any good reliable friends. I dont speak much to my family because they take stuff the wrong way. I hope i will feel better soon.
All of your videos are always perfect timing with what I’m feeling !! I’ve always loved spending time alone and I’m finally at the point in my life where I stopped searching for a partner and want to just let it happen naturally. People think that’s so weird that I’m not on dating apps, some people say it’s just because I’m afraid to be with someone. Which is so disrespectful because it took me forever to get to this point and I’ve been through so much shit. It’s rare that I meet people who love solitude, I need more people like that in my life
Hey love! I’ve recently been on a self love journey and I am trying to find ways to feel comfortable being by myself. What are some things u recommend I do to be in a relationship with myself?
Dolly I think it all began when I started meditating. Having time to just calm your thoughts and appreciate life. It’s weird and scary and maybe a little boring at first but it changed my life. My thoughts used to control my life, but eventually I realized I can control my thoughts and that made me appreciate how much power I have and love myself. I also created special rituals like pampering myself at night or playing some music and reading or making your favorite meal. It’s just little things at first and then eventually you can get to the point where you can go to concerts by yourself or eat a restaurant alone. Just do what you love not for anybody else but for YOU. The main thing is to stop overthinking and stop caring what others are thinking. Sorry I ranted lol but I really hope this helped and you have a beautiful journey
This kind of content makes me realize i'm normal. Honestly, i felt lonely so many times around people i considered my friends and still. But actually, being alone makes me feel better though being lonely makes me feel not worth enough for people. Thank u amy, i needed something like this. Lots of love from spain♡
Meditation is such a great way to look within yourself. My favourite quote is 'You should sit in meditation for 20 minutes a day, unless you're too busy, then you should sit for an hour'.
Good afternoon Amy,As a teenager I was used by many people,I used to get phone calls here and there when they needed something from me.When something happened to me,nobody except for family was there and best friend.I don't talk to any one anymore because I would rather have true friends than alot of fake friends.
@Sidney Heyuri I will also be here Sidney,I appreciate you my Brutha.F.Y.I. I am asian (filipino) but I was born here in Canada.It's all good.Thank You ! 👍
Your videos are actually so uplifting. I deal with anxiety and depression on the daily so its actually so refreshing seeing someone that is so honest and genuine. Nice to meet you Amy Lee
How did you overcome it? I havnt got any good reliable friends, and my family dont understand a lot of things they just take stuff the wrong way, so i dont really speak much to them. How can i feel better ?
This hair colour with skin tone is PERFECTION. shout out to your hair stylist. I use to think I was an introvert but I've realised I feel my most happiest when I'm with the right people. I'm an extrovert that's really picky about who I spend time with since I'm so OK with being by myself.
I get the same way when I look at the night sky! It’s calming and makes me feel like my problem is so small when I realize how big the universe is and how short human lifespan is also. It brings me back to the present and appreciate the “now” and not let my anxiety and fear of the future take over in my head.
i just moved to bangalore, india from california. left behind all of my family and friends and i’ve been so homesick lately. this am with amy could not have come at a better time. love you so much, you put so much good in to this world. you’re truly a blessing
Your videos literally... so beneficial and aesthetic and fun to watch. I really feel better about myself and ready for the things I am gonna do in the day when I watch your videos. :) Thank you. You give us gifts every each time you upload videos. Have a nice... day or night? ^^
Lonliness has been following me all throughout highschool. I always find myself coming back to this video for comfort, I'm glad people are talking about being lonely and normalizing it because it helps others feel less like the odd one out in what they're going through.
Im fron seoul, korea. Tbh im not feeling lonely or alone But i think I'm just lost somehow.. I'm stuck and don't know what to do next for my own sake...😥
I have definitely felt more lonely and unfulfilled within a group of people. Sometimes it’s truly better to be alone than with someone just for the sake of not being alone. One of my friends spends so much time alone and I asked him if it bothers him and he said “no, I love hanging out with me.” To combat feelings of loneliness I try to view myself as another person separate from myself and try to engage that person and learn about that person. Boredom really is a surefire way to a lonely spiral so don’t wait around for other people to do fun things, do fun stuff with just yourself!
AMY. This video is so eye opening for me. I have been struggling with loneliness and just this week had a breakdown because of this. I truly needed this video.
I was so lonely.. I didn’t know what to do.. I even thought of harming my self at some point.. which is so unlike of me.... it’s just the pain causes you to do anything to stop it.. but thanks to god instead I searched ‘lonely’ in youtube.. after bunch of songs your video popped up... after watching it I feel so much better I have tears in my eyes. I evaluated my self and realized I’m not fully present in the moment. I wanted to say thank you so much. I’m a guy and I don’t know much about make up but you’re beautiful from outside and more importantly from inside. ❤️
UGH I LOVE YOU this is so relevant especially right now. I’ve been talking about this with my friends and reevaluating so many relationships and moments in my life realizing that I am not genuinely happy in a lot of relationships and often am with people to have plans and pass time
For The Record: I’m 22 and AM with Amy is my favorite segment on your channel. It literally reminds me to seize each of my moments and that I’m not the only one still trying to figure s**t out. We all are and we constantly will be; but that’s the beauty! Also this makeup look was fire 🔥 Thanks for another upload ⭐️
I love the water also. Every summer I make sure I live up to being a beach bum. An open body of water is like freedom, a free spirit, and that gives me happiness.
I def believe that social media has really separated all of us. For something that is efficient and helps people connect, it has done the opposite in terms of harmony and openness
I am the same kind of extroverted/introverted mixture that you are!! it's nice to know that someone else feels that fulfillment from being alone and that loneliness from being around people, but has a lot of extroverted tendencies.
I was trying to find a video that would stop my loneliness and I couldn't until I found your video. It makes me feel so much less lonely now that I realize the root problems, why I feel lonely.
Love yourself everyday. Self love is wonderful. Do the things that give you joy everyday don't rely on others to fulfill you and your needs. Take care of yourself because no one else is going to do it.
You are such a beautiful, quiet force. I love your AMs with Amy so much because they help me recenter and ground myself so that bring it back to something of more equilibrium. I appreciate you!
i think the worst kind of loneliness is lacking understanding from people around you. to not feeling seen. i love listening to you talk amy, you should really consider making a podcast. love x
This made me literally cry because I have lost my old roots of thinking and staying present and getting to know myself in my own solitude. The way you speak resonates so well with me and you have a beautiful soul
Needed this so bad, literally been so wrapped up in my misery of not having people around constantly that I just need a reminder to be in tune with what I have or what I am by just being with myself. It's so hard to yet so important to tell yourself your own worth because without that gurrrrrl I would have forever been a people pleaser, for which it's a noooo thank you lol
For me personally, having more friends and being able to to travel would make me less depressed because then I would be distracted, enjoying life, and less lonely. If you actually have good friends please be grateful. Some of us dont have any friends or our friends dont live near us. People need to put themselves in others shoes. Money does buy happiness. I'm the type of person that would be extremely grateful if I ever got a car or something. But people just get things handed to them and they dont realize how fortunate they are.
Dealing with leaving a 4-year relationship, fucking difficult with tons of emotional waves. In the morning I'm like "I"m a warrior, I'm Xena" and then by the afternoon, I can't even walk through a grocery store without crying. Surprisingly, unlike other break ups, I don't immediately try to hook up or people contact.
You are very wise. This video truly helped me handle my loneliness at the moment. I'm going to apply some of your coping skills in my life going forward. When you said to be kind and compassionate to yourself that really resonated with me. I tend to double down when I have feelings of loneliness. The tiny voice in my head taunts me. It tells me I'm by myself because I'm boring, I'm not smart enough or witty enough or interesting enough for other people to want to hang out with me. I've also dealt with social rejection a few times so I would tell myself I'll never be accepted, I'll never find my crowd. And then it all starts to feel pointless and I wonder what I'm doing in this life. Am I just here existing? And for what? What am I actually doing? I've got no friends, no close connections, my sister has her own family she's building and I just work and come home. It makes me really sad and depressed at times when I'm not occupying my brain with other things. This is so hard at times, it's so freaking hard suffering in silence. But I'm going to try. I'm going to try to do better. I'm going to try to be kind to myself in times like this. Thank you.
I know this is an old video but I wish I would have been able to watch this on the date it was posted...it was posted on my b-day and it was a particularly difficult day...this would have helped. You have a good message.
Amy, girl, you don't know how much I needed this video!!! Lately, my life feels like it's been one existential crisis after another. Having an anxiety disorder never makes things easier. I love your positivity and your way of explaining life's ups and downs. It always brings me back down to earth and makes me realize that I'm not alone. Love you! xoxo
I feel like I am naturally content and happy alone (because that's how I used to be), but years of everyone (parents, relatives, ppl in general) insisting that I'll be miserable if I'm alone have convinced me that I need other people around to be happy. Now I cycle through weeks of loneliness/depression with brief periods of contentment. I am working on regaining my former unbothered self. Luckily, I am in college now and will soon move out and live on my own. I think a clear environment, not surrounded by people insisting relationships are the key to happiness will be good for me.
I feel as though i still havnt met the right type of people in my life. Most people i met were fake friends to me, so i cut them off. I just hope i do meet the right people in my life soon.
I'm an Australian, living on my own in the UK this year - last Thursday was my 6 month milestone! I get bouts of loneliness all the time here, being away from family and friends. But then I have a great day at work or get to travel somewhere new and that loneliness is completely forgotten. So I try to look at my feelings of loneliness as a reminder to get out and try something different, and find some fulfillment in each day :) Or I see it as a reminder to come and watch some of your videos, since they always cheer me up :)
Thank you so much for this video Amy, you make all of us feel less lonely and depressed by showing us that the unfiltered version of reality and life on its own! I really needed this and its been so much help than you can ever imagine!
Hi from Portugal! Just wanted o say that I love your videos and they help me so much when I'm down or feel lost. The way you talk about various topics and opinions always help me come to my normal self and find the strenght I need
Heyy Amy, I too struggle with loneliness but what keeps me strong and brave is knowing that out there in the universe, there are also people just like me. You just gotta stay true to your inner feelings, I am from singapore by the way.
Ive been in a really lonely place lately and this video was so timely. Thank you for always sharing your thoughts and opinions on this platform. You are a beautiful human being inside and out! Thank you for doing what you do Amy :)
I'm depressed and extremely lonely and my cousin the only one who listens and knows what it's like but she moved. And now every day I wonder whats the point of getting up I don't wanna do anything anymore I'm just tired of these boring old days, but I don't wanna bother my loved ones about it. But then i clicked on this video and im like someone actually understand me :)
Australia! (and just knowing that letting you know makes you happy, makes me happy. I also suffer from regular feelings of loneliness/sadness/depression/bipolar disorder, so i can 100% sympathise to what you go through at times. I know it sounds cruel, but just knowing that someone else feels lonely like me, makes me feel an inch better in this world, because i'm not alone).
Hi, Amy! I'm from Brazil and I have been living alone for a short time now and your vids are really helping me to be distracted! I was feeling a lot lonely this days and this video was the all that I needed to see! Thank you! 💕
This upload is seriously perfect timing. My boyfriend told me he’s been feeling lonely and he’s not one to be in tune with his emotions. He couldn’t explain why and how he’s lonely. You explained it so well and I hope I can take your tips to help him find himself. Thank you soo much Amy!
Thank you so much for this video, I’m struggling a lot with loneliness and depression right now and it helps just to know someone else feels the same way. This helped me so much thank you
I am subscribed to so many people, and I forgot that I was subscribed to you! I clicked on this video really curious and I am so thankful I did, you are a hidden gem within TH-cam. This video is so important and refreshing, thank you so much for talking about this and being so open-minded
something really unexpected happend in my family recently, and it has really been breaking me down. I haven’t been eating or sleeping well, and i’ve cried way more than I should. but funny enough, after i got told the news, your videos about loneliness started popping up in my recommended. i relate so much to your videos, and especially these times more than ever. thank you.❤️
Girl, your videos are amazing and so honest..love also the way you express yourself and communicate!! I'm glad I discovered you almost a year ago....your videos are like lil therapy sessions. Aometimes all we need is someone from outside to make us realize we do not take care of ourselves and we need to look inside... btw, cool make up, the bluse eye shadow looks amazing!!!
Hello from Germany 💜 thank you for your videos. I searched about self love, body images and found your Chanel and it literally blowed my mind 🙏🏽 thank you so much for giving us the opportunity to learn more about ourselves and why we feel how we feel. Your videos really just give me comfort and I love your energy you are radiating 🙏🏽💜
My god Amy, this video is just what I needed right now. Thank you for emphasising on the importance of self care and awareness. I tend to forget to check in with myself and to remain in the present sometimes. Again, thank you! 💕
Amy. PLEASE write a book. Tell me you’re working on it. I would buy, preorder and literally recommend to everyone I know. We think SOOOO similarly but you articulate the ideas so well. NYT best-seller in the making. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This did make me feel better thank you Amy ❤️ it’s week 15 of the quarantine and I’m loving alone for the first time and it hit me unexpectedly. This content just warmed my heart!
i love your attitude towards life. you always think so positively. i know that's what is portrayed, and you have dark times as everyone does, but you're so self aware, intelligent, and insightful. i love how you describe so many things as beautiful. i can tell you have such an admiration for life. i love your content, amy. keep it u. thank you.
I just lost my best friend, to addiction. I'm adopted and always felt a little bit outcasted by people in my family...besides my mom. My only sister is very narcissistic at times and I can't talk to her when I'm feeling down because she will immediately turn the conversation into how she's got it worse than me. I just ended a 4 year emotionally and mentally abusive relationship, and I really feel I stayed because of my fear of lonliness. I'm lost...this video helped a lot. If anyone's needing a friend I understand how it feels
I absolutely love the energy you have in the video. Been going through a period of loneliness or feeling lonely lately and watching you and hearing your thoughts on the subject made me feel way better. You seem like such a beautiful human being :)
Hello from Michigan! I love watching your videos because they give me something insightful that I don’t see in my everyday life. Thank you for having these conversations!
girlll i clicked right away cuz this passed weeks I've been feeling so lonely
Dee Dellimore this one’s for you then 💕🥺
same girl same
ugh same here :((
Same girly :(
I personally feel less lonely when I hear someone going thru the same thing as me. Thank you for making this video.
Me too! It’s crazy
same
"I don`t want to run from myself, I want to run towards myself."
resonates deeply with me, thank you amy
I’ve been feeling SUPER lonely lately but i saw a quote yesterday that read *do not confuse boredom with loneliness* and I realised that I had been doing exactly that! I’ve just finished school and my brain has been completely overstimulated for the past year that now that I’m not, I felt lonely. But I’m not I’m just bored and I’m excited to feel bored because *boredom breeds creativity* !
With love from Liverpool, U.K. !
Omg I never actually thought of that. Thank you so much for sharing that quote!
wow.. thank you for sharing that quote, you kind of just nailed exactly what I myself was confusing over the past few days!
Great comment, super helpful to keep in mind! :)
Wow that was a good explanation!
thank you for writing this it really helped me. i needed this
It starts with yourself, building a good relationship with yourself, loving and valuing yourself, understanding that the relationship with yourself is the most important relationship we'll ever have. We don't need anything or anyone to fulfill us, we don't need to seek for appreciation.
Erika K very true 💛
I'm from the UK.
The loneliest I have felt was during my university years. My mental health issues made me feel as though I was living my daily life in a box. I definitely agree that the sense of fulfilment comes from within - we rely too much on others and external factors for our happiness.
im currently studying in the UK for uni and this has been the loneliest period of my life so far. im also struggling with some mental issues so everything's going to shit basically haha. any tips for surviving uni? everything is just so lonely. my family and friends are also not in the UK.
Me too! I’m a freshman and my metal health is slowly declining
Im from the UK too and i dont have any good reliable friends. I dont speak much to my family because they take stuff the wrong way. I hope i will feel better soon.
All of your videos are always perfect timing with what I’m feeling !! I’ve always loved spending time alone and I’m finally at the point in my life where I stopped searching for a partner and want to just let it happen naturally. People think that’s so weird that I’m not on dating apps, some people say it’s just because I’m afraid to be with someone. Which is so disrespectful because it took me forever to get to this point and I’ve been through so much shit. It’s rare that I meet people who love solitude, I need more people like that in my life
Hey love! I’ve recently been on a self love journey and I am trying to find ways to feel comfortable being by myself. What are some things u recommend I do to be in a relationship with myself?
Dolly I think it all began when I started meditating. Having time to just calm your thoughts and appreciate life. It’s weird and scary and maybe a little boring at first but it changed my life. My thoughts used to control my life, but eventually I realized I can control my thoughts and that made me appreciate how much power I have and love myself. I also created special rituals like pampering myself at night or playing some music and reading or making your favorite meal. It’s just little things at first and then eventually you can get to the point where you can go to concerts by yourself or eat a restaurant alone. Just do what you love not for anybody else but for YOU. The main thing is to stop overthinking and stop caring what others are thinking. Sorry I ranted lol but I really hope this helped and you have a beautiful journey
“Stop eating poorly when you feel bad”
me: suspiciously looks at handful of popcorn I was about to shove into my mouth
😅😖😹
I ordered a regular sized pizza and ate it by myself lmao
literally me too!
Shut up
This kind of content makes me realize i'm normal. Honestly, i felt lonely so many times around people i considered my friends and still. But actually, being alone makes me feel better though being lonely makes me feel not worth enough for people. Thank u amy, i needed something like this. Lots of love from spain♡
Meditation is such a great way to look within yourself. My favourite quote is 'You should sit in meditation for 20 minutes a day, unless you're too busy, then you should sit for an hour'.
Good afternoon Amy,As a teenager I was used by many people,I used to get phone calls here and there when they needed something from me.When something happened to me,nobody except for family was there and best friend.I don't talk to any one anymore because I would rather have true friends than alot of fake friends.
@Sidney Heyuri I will also be here Sidney,I appreciate you my Brutha.F.Y.I. I am asian (filipino) but I was born here in Canada.It's all good.Thank You ! 👍
Aight,I really appreciate that Sidney.So Where In Canada Are You From ? If You don't mind my asking.You Down Ta Get Yo Mack On ? ✊ 😊
Aight then let's do dis then,just always know that some "Flip" honiez are snobs. 👍 😅
All the flavors have snobs.
Your videos are actually so uplifting. I deal with anxiety and depression on the daily so its actually so refreshing seeing someone that is so honest and genuine. Nice to meet you Amy Lee
I’m so lonely that it’s not even funny anymore and I’m starting to enter a depressing state
Please see a therapist ASAP. No one deserves to feel that way.
❤️❤️❤️
Heather Saxton I’ve gotten better. I commented this a while ago and I no longer feel this. Thanks for the concern.
How did you overcome it? I havnt got any good reliable friends, and my family dont understand a lot of things they just take stuff the wrong way, so i dont really speak much to them. How can i feel better ?
@@liarenne9087 aw, nice to know that. I still feel this way to be honest. I have a dysfuctional family.
Honestly, you make me feel so grounded right now. Thank you so much :)
This was a great way to re-frame my own thinking about loneliness. Thank you for this video.
This hair colour with skin tone is PERFECTION. shout out to your hair stylist.
I use to think I was an introvert but I've realised I feel my most happiest when I'm with the right people. I'm an extrovert that's really picky about who I spend time with since I'm so OK with being by myself.
this feels like therapy and i love it so much
the am with amy is like a school lecture, but just that i actually listen and look forward to
I get the same way when I look at the night sky! It’s calming and makes me feel like my problem is so small when I realize how big the universe is and how short human lifespan is also. It brings me back to the present and appreciate the “now” and not let my anxiety and fear of the future take over in my head.
This is beautiful, Amy. I hope you realize that so many people needed to hear this, thank you!
i just moved to bangalore, india from california. left behind all of my family and friends and i’ve been so homesick lately. this am with amy could not have come at a better time. love you so much, you put so much good in to this world. you’re truly a blessing
Your videos literally... so beneficial and aesthetic and fun to watch. I really feel better about myself and ready for the things I am gonna do in the day when I watch your videos. :) Thank you. You give us gifts every each time you upload videos. Have a nice... day or night? ^^
Nida Erdem wow! thank u so so much
Lonliness has been following me all throughout highschool. I always find myself coming back to this video for comfort, I'm glad people are talking about being lonely and normalizing it because it helps others feel less like the odd one out in what they're going through.
Im fron seoul, korea.
Tbh im not feeling lonely or alone
But i think I'm just lost somehow..
I'm stuck and don't know what to do next for my own sake...😥
로미언니RomiUnnie What do you want?
Girl I understand the same thing happened to me
What do you mean? Like career wise?
Glad I found you from North Carolina . Feeling lonely sucks especially not having a whole lot of people to talk to .
I have definitely felt more lonely and unfulfilled within a group of people. Sometimes it’s truly better to be alone than with someone just for the sake of not being alone. One of my friends spends so much time alone and I asked him if it bothers him and he said “no, I love hanging out with me.” To combat feelings of loneliness I try to view myself as another person separate from myself and try to engage that person and learn about that person. Boredom really is a surefire way to a lonely spiral so don’t wait around for other people to do fun things, do fun stuff with just yourself!
just discovered you. you're so insightful. thanks for the beautiful commentary
AMY. This video is so eye opening for me. I have been struggling with loneliness and just this week had a breakdown because of this. I truly needed this video.
PLEASE NEVER STOP DOING THE AM WITH AMY !!!!
Its crazy to see all the different people from all over the world that watch your videos!! Youre very inspiring. Love from Canada.
I was so lonely.. I didn’t know what to do.. I even thought of harming my self at some point.. which is so unlike of me.... it’s just the pain causes you to do anything to stop it.. but thanks to god instead I searched ‘lonely’ in youtube.. after bunch of songs your video popped up... after watching it I feel so much better I have tears in my eyes. I evaluated my self and realized I’m not fully present in the moment. I wanted to say thank you so much.
I’m a guy and I don’t know much about make up but you’re beautiful from outside and more importantly from inside. ❤️
i wanna hug you
Rewatching your older videos because you’ve given out some gems over the yrs. I wish you would start a podcast so I could listen while driving
UGH I LOVE YOU this is so relevant especially right now. I’ve been talking about this with my friends and reevaluating so many relationships and moments in my life realizing that I am not genuinely happy in a lot of relationships and often am with people to have plans and pass time
For The Record: I’m 22 and AM with Amy is my favorite segment on your channel. It literally reminds me to seize each of my moments and that I’m not the only one still trying to figure s**t out. We all are and we constantly will be; but that’s the beauty! Also this makeup look was fire 🔥 Thanks for another upload ⭐️
I love the water also. Every summer I make sure I live up to being a beach bum. An open body of water is like freedom, a free spirit, and that gives me happiness.
I def believe that social media has really separated all of us. For something that is efficient and helps people connect, it has done the opposite in terms of harmony and openness
Self care and taking time to be within is powerful. Disconnect in order to recharge x do what ya love and love ya self xx
I am the same kind of extroverted/introverted mixture that you are!! it's nice to know that someone else feels that fulfillment from being alone and that loneliness from being around people, but has a lot of extroverted tendencies.
I was trying to find a video that would stop my loneliness and I couldn't until I found your video. It makes me feel so much less lonely now that I realize the root problems, why I feel lonely.
Love yourself everyday. Self love is wonderful. Do the things that give you joy everyday don't rely on others to fulfill you and your needs. Take care of yourself because no one else is going to do it.
in order to feel more present i've just been binge watching your videos whilst cleaning/rearranging my room~it's working
You are such a beautiful, quiet force. I love your AMs with Amy so much because they help me recenter and ground myself so that bring it back to something of more equilibrium. I appreciate you!
i think the worst kind of loneliness is lacking understanding from people around you. to not feeling seen. i love listening to you talk amy, you should really consider making a podcast. love x
This made me literally cry because I have lost my old roots of thinking and staying present and getting to know myself in my own solitude. The way you speak resonates so well with me and you have a beautiful soul
Morning from Saudi Arabia! Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us beautiful! We love u so much
your raw and vulnerable side really make me less alone, ily ❤️
I am from Colombia and I really appreciate the way you show yourself, so transparent , so real . Thank you.
this is the most wholesome video I've seen today
Needed this so bad, literally been so wrapped up in my misery of not having people around constantly that I just need a reminder to be in tune with what I have or what I am by just being with myself. It's so hard to yet so important to tell yourself your own worth because without that gurrrrrl I would have forever been a people pleaser, for which it's a noooo thank you lol
I am from Germany.
PS: I love that you are so open and real about your struggles. I think you help a lot of people with that.
Paris 55555 wow hi! and thank you!!
Do u have a video on how to make meaningful friendships? +maintain them
For me personally, having more friends and being able to to travel would make me less depressed because then I would be distracted, enjoying life, and less lonely. If you actually have good friends please be grateful. Some of us dont have any friends or our friends dont live near us. People need to put themselves in others shoes. Money does buy happiness. I'm the type of person that would be extremely grateful if I ever got a car or something. But people just get things handed to them and they dont realize how fortunate they are.
I love watching your videos from paris ! You're so beautifull Amy !
Dealing with leaving a 4-year relationship, fucking difficult with tons of emotional waves. In the morning I'm like "I"m a warrior, I'm Xena" and then by the afternoon, I can't even walk through a grocery store without crying. Surprisingly, unlike other break ups, I don't immediately try to hook up or people contact.
You are very wise. This video truly helped me handle my loneliness at the moment. I'm going to apply some of your coping skills in my life going forward. When you said to be kind and compassionate to yourself that really resonated with me. I tend to double down when I have feelings of loneliness. The tiny voice in my head taunts me. It tells me I'm by myself because I'm boring, I'm not smart enough or witty enough or interesting enough for other people to want to hang out with me. I've also dealt with social rejection a few times so I would tell myself I'll never be accepted, I'll never find my crowd. And then it all starts to feel pointless and I wonder what I'm doing in this life. Am I just here existing? And for what? What am I actually doing? I've got no friends, no close connections, my sister has her own family she's building and I just work and come home. It makes me really sad and depressed at times when I'm not occupying my brain with other things. This is so hard at times, it's so freaking hard suffering in silence. But I'm going to try. I'm going to try to do better. I'm going to try to be kind to myself in times like this. Thank you.
I really miss these types of videos 😔 I hope one day you come back. These were so helpful
I know this is an old video but I wish I would have been able to watch this on the date it was posted...it was posted on my b-day and it was a particularly difficult day...this would have helped. You have a good message.
Amy, girl, you don't know how much I needed this video!!! Lately, my life feels like it's been one existential crisis after another. Having an anxiety disorder never makes things easier. I love your positivity and your way of explaining life's ups and downs. It always brings me back down to earth and makes me realize that I'm not alone. Love you! xoxo
Hey Amy, im a little bit drunk, but I want to say hi from Poland. I love that you’re still seeming real in this industry ❤️
I feel like I am naturally content and happy alone (because that's how I used to be), but years of everyone (parents, relatives, ppl in general) insisting that I'll be miserable if I'm alone have convinced me that I need other people around to be happy.
Now I cycle through weeks of loneliness/depression with brief periods of contentment. I am working on regaining my former unbothered self.
Luckily, I am in college now and will soon move out and live on my own. I think a clear environment, not surrounded by people insisting relationships are the key to happiness will be good for me.
I needed this
With Love from South Africa 🌍🇿🇦
I feel as though i still havnt met the right type of people in my life. Most people i met were fake friends to me, so i cut them off. I just hope i do meet the right people in my life soon.
I'm an Australian, living on my own in the UK this year - last Thursday was my 6 month milestone! I get bouts of loneliness all the time here, being away from family and friends. But then I have a great day at work or get to travel somewhere new and that loneliness is completely forgotten. So I try to look at my feelings of loneliness as a reminder to get out and try something different, and find some fulfillment in each day :) Or I see it as a reminder to come and watch some of your videos, since they always cheer me up :)
You make today bearable. Thanks Amy.
I just saw this video in my recommended. it couldn't have come at a better time. thank you for sharing your wisdom!
me too!!
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Thank you so much for this video Amy, you make all of us feel less lonely and depressed by showing us that the unfiltered version of reality and life on its own! I really needed this and its been so much help than you can ever imagine!
Hi from Portugal! Just wanted o say that I love your videos and they help me so much when I'm down or feel lost. The way you talk about various topics and opinions always help me come to my normal self and find the strenght I need
I can’t wait to feel sad again and come back to this video. Thank you Amy. ❤️
I’m glad I came across this video, it’s been super lonely this summer since I no longer have any friends
Heyy Amy, I too struggle with loneliness but what keeps me strong and brave is knowing that out there in the universe, there are also people just like me. You just gotta stay true to your inner feelings, I am from singapore by the way.
Ive been in a really lonely place lately and this video was so timely. Thank you for always sharing your thoughts and opinions on this platform. You are a beautiful human being inside and out! Thank you for doing what you do Amy :)
Your mind. You. I am genuinely grateful for finding your channel, I needed this. Thank you!
I'm depressed and extremely lonely and my cousin the only one who listens and knows what it's like but she moved. And now every day I wonder whats the point of getting up I don't wanna do anything anymore I'm just tired of these boring old days, but I don't wanna bother my loved ones about it. But then i clicked on this video and im like someone actually understand me :)
Australia!
(and just knowing that letting you know makes you happy, makes me happy. I also suffer from regular feelings of loneliness/sadness/depression/bipolar disorder, so i can 100% sympathise to what you go through at times. I know it sounds cruel, but just knowing that someone else feels lonely like me, makes me feel an inch better in this world, because i'm not alone).
Thank you Amy for your words
Thank you thank you thank you. You have such a way with words! Your truly and inspiration amyy!
Hi, Amy! I'm from Brazil and I have been living alone for a short time now and your vids are really helping me to be distracted! I was feeling a lot lonely this days and this video was the all that I needed to see! Thank you! 💕
Omg, when you popped that teal eyeshadow color in the inner corners of your eye, my whole life lit up ✨ So gorgeous!
This upload is seriously perfect timing. My boyfriend told me he’s been feeling lonely and he’s not one to be in tune with his emotions. He couldn’t explain why and how he’s lonely. You explained it so well and I hope I can take your tips to help him find himself. Thank you soo much Amy!
Thank you so much for this video, I’m struggling a lot with loneliness and depression right now and it helps just to know someone else feels the same way. This helped me so much thank you
I am subscribed to so many people, and I forgot that I was subscribed to you! I clicked on this video really curious and I am so thankful I did, you are a hidden gem within TH-cam. This video is so important and refreshing, thank you so much for talking about this and being so open-minded
something really unexpected happend in my family recently, and it has really been breaking me down. I haven’t been eating or sleeping well, and i’ve cried way more than I should. but funny enough, after i got told the news, your videos about loneliness started popping up in my recommended. i relate so much to your videos, and especially these times more than ever. thank you.❤️
Girl, your videos are amazing and so honest..love also the way you express yourself and communicate!! I'm glad I discovered you almost a year ago....your videos are like lil therapy sessions. Aometimes all we need is someone from outside to make us realize we do not take care of ourselves and we need to look inside... btw, cool make up, the bluse eye shadow looks amazing!!!
Hello from Germany 💜 thank you for your videos. I searched about self love, body images and found your Chanel and it literally blowed my mind 🙏🏽 thank you so much for giving us the opportunity to learn more about ourselves and why we feel how we feel. Your videos really just give me comfort and I love your energy you are radiating 🙏🏽💜
I needed this so much Amy. I have been struggling after my break up and this helped me understand a lot. Thank you
greetings from Poland!!! thanks for being there Amy!
My god Amy, this video is just what I needed right now. Thank you for emphasising on the importance of self care and awareness. I tend to forget to check in with myself and to remain in the present sometimes. Again, thank you! 💕
Amy. PLEASE write a book. Tell me you’re working on it. I would buy, preorder and literally recommend to everyone I know. We think SOOOO similarly but you articulate the ideas so well. NYT best-seller in the making. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This did make me feel better thank you Amy ❤️ it’s week 15 of the quarantine and I’m loving alone for the first time and it hit me unexpectedly. This content just warmed my heart!
Becoming your own best friend is something I learned through therapy.
i love your attitude towards life. you always think so positively. i know that's what is portrayed, and you have dark times as everyone does, but you're so self aware, intelligent, and insightful. i love how you describe so many things as beautiful. i can tell you have such an admiration for life. i love your content, amy. keep it u. thank you.
I just lost my best friend, to addiction. I'm adopted and always felt a little bit outcasted by people in my family...besides my mom. My only sister is very narcissistic at times and I can't talk to her when I'm feeling down because she will immediately turn the conversation into how she's got it worse than me. I just ended a 4 year emotionally and mentally abusive relationship, and I really feel I stayed because of my fear of lonliness. I'm lost...this video helped a lot. If anyone's needing a friend I understand how it feels
Thank you for this video. I'm watching this 3 am feeling really lonely and sad, but this made me feel so much better and hopeful. 🤍
Great vid to watch when most of your friends are out of town for the Summer... 💕
Sometimes from loneliness comes action and growth
That Robin Williams quote was my senior quote, I relate to it sooo much
I absolutely love the energy you have in the video. Been going through a period of loneliness or feeling lonely lately and watching you and hearing your thoughts on the subject made me feel way better. You seem like such a beautiful human being :)
IM FROM NEW ZEALAND 💛💛💛 your videos are the best pick-me-up!! me and my flat mate watch u all the time🙌🏼
Hello from Michigan! I love watching your videos because they give me something insightful that I don’t see in my everyday life. Thank you for having these conversations!