I went to the Culinary Institute of America and was trained in formal dining room service. We learned all of this and more! I now live in Idaho and formal dining is nearly unheard of. Only one up scale restaurant and dressing up means polishing your cowboy boots! I really like it but would like a bit more formal dining. Thanks for the video.
Pulling the server aside to tell them you'll pay ahead of time is BRILLIANT. In Japan, dining out etiquette is very strict and rigid. For example, where each person sits (by ranking order), serving etiquette (as a guest), e.t.c
@@jacobsinger97 So anyone getting undergraduate degrees in Germany has a "business accent" (mixing RP (school English) with the pronunciations word's had where they were learned)
fiona fiona ha ha lol. So laughing heartily. I hope you are too dear lady. It depends I spose. Those that like a RP background accent cos they like their SG host over in north sydney .. opposed to another who doesn’t have the physical thingies ... Yes. Udo. I AM looking at you mr Phillip st
I’m a native Swede and it’s frustrating to me when people come here or anywhere in Europe and expect everyone to know English Yes most of us do know English But even learning how to say “please and thank you” in the language of that country. Can go a long way. Greetings from Sweden
Ladies go first ALWAYS. I am glad you noticed this interaction. It is refreshing to be in the same place as those who follow the rules of graciousness.
Sir, I love your videos they help me to understand the western culture perfectly. Just one request, the map that was shown here depicted the part of northern India to be absent. That sometimes hurt people's feelings. So please take care of it in your upcoming videos. -> the part that was absent was Kashmir (POK) so please see to it. But you are doing wonderful.
very interesting video...thanks for doing this....(one unrelated question...do you have a video in your archives on what to look for when selecting a premium quality dress shoe?
I'm not a suit and tie business man I work construction but I still love these videos because I make pretty good money and I like to go to nice restaurants
Good tips. Cocktail parties are fun and great time to flirt. I always like to attend and also give cocktail parties. Finger foods is good and cocktail drinks are best. I like to dress up for cocktail parties either by wearing a suite or a trouser, shirt and jacket combo. I have even worn a tuxedo to a few cocktail parties. I think that the host must set the stage for the right standard of the cocktail party, right from the invitation, the invitees, the venue, the food and drink to the introductions and the message (if any). I have taken a few dates to company cocktail parties, but I have come to realize that a classy woman is much better to invite than a down to earth no ambitions woman. I like to listen to good background music like smooth jazz.
I have an dining etiquette question: Is it OK to actually tuck your napkin in your shirt when eating a potentially messy meal or is it seen now as improper? I've done it a few times in Italian restaurants when I'm wearing an expensive shirt.
ChangingPeoplesLife didn’t watch any of your videos but I’ll tell you one thing, you won’t be growing having parts of other people’s thumbnails in your thumbnails, you’ll be at 3 copyright strikes before you know it.
I dont wear a tie to business dinners usually because I want to have a slightly casual look and I hate getting it dipped in the soup by accident. Everything in this video is spot on
Whenever I have a dinner date with family or friends ( I’m retired so a business dinner no longer applies) I brush up on my manners with your articles and videos.
Raphael, I'm in love with your ties. However, my religion forbids me from wearing silk ties. Do you have any other good brands or material which can be as great as silk?
Not mistreating your servers is also basic human decency, people. Remember, the hand holding that tray or pushing that cart is a human being that struggles to make a living in this world off the sweat of his/her brow, just like you. This is not directed at you, Sven. This is for morons that think it's fine to not respect those that happen to not earn as much as them when no one is looking.
Excuse me, Mr. Schneider, there is a possibility that I would be invited to a party with the ambassador of India and his wife present, it would be in night time, so what do you suggest for me to wear, I am thinking of a tuxedo, but any other requirements?
@@gentlemansgazette but it's not like that, it's an award giving ceremony, for best pieces of art, no specified dresses, I just want to stand out from my peers!
Hi Raphael good day to you. I don’t drink alcohol but if I’m at an event where there would be a toast, is it appropriate to accept a glass just for the toast and then not drink it?
You are making a great video it helped me a lot but i saw you show the wrong Indian map please correct Jammu and Kashmir is an unforgettable part of India
It isn't easy to obey business dinner etiquette these days. I'm usually a well-behaved person even though I had bad behavior since early childhood. When it comes to being invited to a business dinner, I feel shy about dining out with a bunch of other employees in regards to obeying the boss' choice of restaurant ⛓. 👍🏻 if you highly agree.
Für einen gebürtigen Deutschen ist deine englische Aussprache echt bemerkenswert! Ich würde gerne mal wissen, wie sich deine Stimme anhört, wenn du Deutsch sprichst. :D
If I owned a firm and had employees I wouldn’t have business lunches. I would arrange meetings before or after lunch. It’s difficult, I think, to eat and talk at the same time. M.
I think that's why he recommended saving business talk for the dessert course. Talking hobbies while eating a steak is relatively easy and it's quite possible you won't even be in that conversation. Business requires everyone to be focused which is much easier over a piece of pie.
Handshake at 6:23 = 😖😖😖 That’s a really limp and fruity handshake there; I feel really awkward when I get a flaccid ‘finger shake,’ especially in a business setting. * Don’t get me wrong-I love yer channel. It’s likely you have an explanation. ✌️
This remind me my most embarrassing moment when i was dining 1 to 1 with woman client and who invite me and i hit her glass of red wine and poor it on her white dress....
I agree with most of what you said., having been in business over 40 years and having these meetings. With one exception. The person who brought up democrats did a calculated risk, that is to say most democrats don't own business and are not in high managerial positions but instead are fire fighters, teachers in govt jobs. Now had the person you are entertaining to try and secure the contract, if he or she brings up politics it's good to side with them in some way like even a silver lining at least. Often times praising the same politics makes the buyer comfortable with you. If you know for certain that you share the same politics as your buyer, then you should bring it up in conversation. Agreeing on shared ethos is a great way to build trust that goes with religion as well. I would guess ya'll are democrats for saying to be quiet on politics and religion, which in business is not a wise Sun Tzu tactic that we in the market practice. Just by saying to be quiet may have lost ya'll all hundreds of followers on TH-cam. "Sanity is a narrow as a razors edge." But I think you are still young and are learning the ways of the world so I don't take umbrage. Be careful with your words.
I went to the Culinary Institute of America and was trained in formal dining room service. We learned all of this and more! I now live in Idaho and formal dining is nearly unheard of. Only one up scale restaurant and dressing up means polishing your cowboy boots! I really like it but would like a bit more formal dining. Thanks for the video.
Thanks for the pin!
Pulling the server aside to tell them you'll pay ahead of time is BRILLIANT. In Japan, dining out etiquette is very strict and rigid.
For example, where each person sits (by ranking order), serving etiquette (as a guest), e.t.c
*_this man's accent is in a league of it's own, sublime._*
Thats unique gentleman accebt
@@jacobsinger97
So anyone getting undergraduate degrees in Germany has a "business accent" (mixing RP (school English) with the pronunciations word's had where they were learned)
@@jacobsinger97 fr
fiona fiona ha ha lol. So laughing heartily. I hope you are too dear lady.
It depends I spose. Those that like a RP background accent cos they like their SG host over in north sydney .. opposed to another who doesn’t have the physical thingies ...
Yes. Udo. I AM looking at you mr Phillip st
@@waryful3 fr
How to eat food that are meant for your hands like a gentleman would be an interesting video to see. Especially when it comes to burgers and fries
The acting in this video is prime! The phone scene, chugging the Buffalo Trace, love it!
2:43 All of you look great, that's a very nice shot your cameraman did!
Great video! Lot of this information has been lost to time. Also, I love the acting. 😅
I think you’ll find my channel interesting, check it out Zion !
Dear G.G., I watch your videos for pure comedy, but I learn a lot.
I’m a native Swede and it’s frustrating to me when people come here or anywhere in Europe and expect everyone to know English
Yes most of us do know English But even learning how to say “please and thank you” in the language of that country. Can go a long way.
Greetings from Sweden
I could watch this chap speak all day long
5:00 (guy staring at GG) when you see class for the first time.
Ladies go first ALWAYS. I am glad you noticed this interaction. It is refreshing to be in the same place as those who follow the rules of graciousness.
Thank you so much Raphael, this is a subject most modern men should make a study of! Also, I adore your outfit today!
That tie knot and collar spread is so immaculate.
HahHa!! 😃🤣 you drinking through bottle part was hilarious!!
I really love your high quality video series
You all look so classy!
❤ Thank you for this video! I usually eat at home but it's still good to know etiquette.
Sir, I love your videos they help me to understand the western culture perfectly.
Just one request, the map that was shown here depicted the part of northern India to be absent. That sometimes hurt people's feelings. So please take care of it in your upcoming videos.
-> the part that was absent was Kashmir (POK) so please see to it.
But you are doing wonderful.
I was invited to my first business dinner and this video is so helpful for me! Thank you.
You blowing the soup killed me lol
very interesting video...thanks for doing this....(one unrelated question...do you have a video in your archives on what to look for when selecting a premium quality dress shoe?
Next video: dinner date etiquette, and tips
Totally guilty of many of these, good to learn now
Great video! More like this please. All things about business etiquette would be good topics.
(I suppose that I miss the Mad Men tv series.)
Very professional!
Cheers Raphael & GG 👍
I'm not a suit and tie business man I work construction but I still love these videos because I make pretty good money and I like to go to nice restaurants
Very informative.
Good tips.
Cocktail parties are fun and great time to flirt.
I always like to attend and also give cocktail parties.
Finger foods is good and cocktail drinks are best.
I like to dress up for cocktail parties either by wearing a suite or a trouser, shirt and jacket combo. I have even worn a tuxedo to a few cocktail parties.
I think that the host must set the stage for the right standard of the cocktail party, right from the invitation, the invitees, the venue, the food and drink to the introductions and the message (if any).
I have taken a few dates to company cocktail parties, but I have come to realize that a classy woman is much better to invite than a down to earth no ambitions woman.
I like to listen to good background music like smooth jazz.
3:00 Our dutch Prime-minister, Mark Rutte 😂
I have an dining etiquette question: Is it OK to actually tuck your napkin in your shirt when eating a potentially messy meal or is it seen now as improper? I've done it a few times in Italian restaurants when I'm wearing an expensive shirt.
Ooh! It depends!
What is the proper gentlemans etiquette when dealing with the Coronavirus?
Thank you 🙏 for speeding up the video.
Klinken met glazen is not done !
This is fun how I read all of this information from Emily Post book on etiquette
Great video! I hope you also get the chance to do a very formal dining video (Downton Abbey type) if for no more than the fun!
Preston you look real cute. I love you with a fiery passion
I think you’ll find my channel helpful brother. Check it out
ChangingPeoplesLife didn’t watch any of your videos but I’ll tell you one thing, you won’t be growing having parts of other people’s thumbnails in your thumbnails, you’ll be at 3 copyright strikes before you know it.
zB Matt thanks for the info brother, I’ll look into it
Keep your pants on mr pervert
Japanese yakuza be like let's go to the ramen shop down the street !!!
Valuable advice here.
Great content as usual
I dont wear a tie to business dinners usually because I want to have a slightly casual look and I hate getting it dipped in the soup by accident. Everything in this video is spot on
Why not trying bowties?
Formal yet practical, since there is not left fabric for you to sip into soups or any kind of liquid whatsoever.
Use a tie bar
Great video. I have learnt a few things and have saved it.
Whenever I have a dinner date with family or friends ( I’m retired so a business dinner no longer applies) I brush up on my manners with your articles and videos.
Great video, thank you! Exactly what I was looking for
Thank you.
Nice! I just need a business and a client to have dinner with 😩
At 3:00 the man standing is the Dutch prime minister!
Great Video! Any chance you could do a work Holiday Party etiquete video.
Raphael, I'm in love with your ties.
However, my religion forbids me from wearing silk ties.
Do you have any other good brands or material which can be as great as silk?
my first guess would be a fine woollen or nice cotton or linen in a tight weave. Natural fibres are exemplary.
@@jenniferschmitzer299Wow thanks.
Hope I will find that kind of a tie.
What religion makes silk ties a sin?
@@chilldoc9638 Islam
@@shakezmaybe3192 why is there no silk allowed
Let's be better gentlemen, thank you sir.
Great video. I learned a lot. Thank you.
Great video!
I feel like if Sven put some glasses on, the outfits would pop so much more than they already do.
Are outfits supposed to pop in a business setting? Answer is usually no.
C. C. By pop I mean look better. Glasses also give an elegance and smarter look to any outfit. So the answer is usually yes.
Not mistreating your servers is also basic human decency, people. Remember, the hand holding that tray or pushing that cart is a human being that struggles to make a living in this world off the sweat of his/her brow, just like you.
This is not directed at you, Sven. This is for morons that think it's fine to not respect those that happen to not earn as much as them when no one is looking.
I am a fan of this site. Please don't alienate potentially half your fans with derogatory President Trump references or "jokes" (past videos).
How about Dorsia
Let's see paul allen's card
Awesome thank you !!
sam snell I think you’ll find my channel helpful, check it out Sam!
Could you please do a video on "Prince Suit"?
8:30 "So, as you can see this right here is a very nice .png graphic i found. Best of all, it even has sample text!"
Handshakes? 😱 how about elbow bumps? 😁
11:46 PPOWER MOVE!!
1:54 can you explain that ??
i don't understand the point
Creed men Cologne been sold
How much food should you leave on a plate? I always thought cleaning the plate makes you look desperate and weird
3:02 You accidentally have chosen a picture of the Dutch Prime Minister Mark Rutte :) Greetings from Holland
You're from Germany? I could've sworn your accent sounds hispanic lol. I was guessing Spain. Especially because you have that swag. Man was I off!
Excuse me, Mr. Schneider, there is a possibility that I would be invited to a party with the ambassador of India and his wife present, it would be in night time, so what do you suggest for me to wear, I am thinking of a tuxedo, but any other requirements?
The host will indicate the dress code on the invitation.
@@gentlemansgazette but it's not like that, it's an award giving ceremony, for best pieces of art, no specified dresses, I just want to stand out from my peers!
MINNEAPOLIS
Thats almost like a restaurant ettiquets!!
can someone pls summarize this for me
Pls do one on how to be liked by your bosses ,lecturers and superiors
Nice one
ChangingPeoplesLife ikr? I’m fanning myself here with conniptions
For Chinese culture, the most important person sits facing the entrance.
Japanese at least avoid seating with the back to the door /make the lowest ranked person sit in such a place
Hi Raphael good day to you. I don’t drink alcohol but if I’m at an event where there would be a toast, is it appropriate to accept a glass just for the toast and then not drink it?
No, you have to at least drink a little, as a courtesy.
You are making a great video it helped me a lot but i saw you show the wrong Indian map please correct Jammu and Kashmir is an unforgettable part of India
Just go to Jim Block and have some fun dude
It isn't easy to obey business dinner etiquette these days. I'm usually a well-behaved person even though I had bad behavior since early childhood. When it comes to being invited to a business dinner, I feel shy about dining out with a bunch of other employees in regards to obeying the boss' choice of restaurant ⛓. 👍🏻 if you highly agree.
great video, can you do a video on smoking etiquette?
massage parlor etiquette
Perhaps you need to go to the next room. They use Big Wurds there.
❤🎉
Raphael, in welchem Land wohnst du eigentlich? Vielleicht antwortest du ja🙋🏻♂️
Egal di ja hornt du helgichten!!!
You don't have to mention what college he goes too. I know buisness men who are 6 7 figures woth a GED due to setbacks. It's not nessasary.
Für einen gebürtigen Deutschen ist deine englische Aussprache echt bemerkenswert! Ich würde gerne mal wissen, wie sich deine Stimme anhört, wenn du Deutsch sprichst. :D
Hello, I'm Shahat
If I owned a firm and had employees I wouldn’t have business lunches. I would arrange meetings before or after lunch. It’s difficult, I think, to eat and talk at the same time. M.
And awkward, it's an American tradition tho
I think that's why he recommended saving business talk for the dessert course. Talking hobbies while eating a steak is relatively easy and it's quite possible you won't even be in that conversation. Business requires everyone to be focused which is much easier over a piece of pie.
@@ffaubert1
So why waste a perfectly nice meal on people you could be done with in a elevator (self driving conference rooms would be interesting).
@@fionafiona1146 Lol. I need to see that self driving conference room, but point taken.
@@ffaubert1 Reno brings them to car shows for years (conference room needs over technical improvements)
Bro got drip for sale
Sven, don't dis Black Forrest Inn like that.
How tall are you two?
Bjn Bgc i‘m 5‘10
Handshake at 6:23 = 😖😖😖
That’s a really limp and fruity handshake there; I feel really awkward when I get a flaccid ‘finger shake,’ especially in a business setting.
* Don’t get me wrong-I love yer channel. It’s likely you have an explanation. ✌️
Aye, the dreaded dead fish handshake. Don't be the one that initiates that, under *any* situation. It makes awkwardness skyrocket like little else.
No braun Shows after 20.00 hour.
If this has to be taught to you, you just don’t have the sauce
This remind me my most embarrassing moment when i was dining 1 to 1 with woman client and who invite me and i hit her glass of red wine and poor it on her white dress....
I talk about politics all the time.
This Preston guy looks like he escaped from the Weimar republic
I don’t think so. Respectfully saying
inflation hit his pantry?
Haha! "His neighborhood was infested with Democrats."
You know when a couple has been together for a long time when they look alike
me and my girlfriend are tired of our mum saying that
RavenclawBoi my wife and I hear it all the time... it can get embarrassing at times.
Swoon
So many things to remember!! 😫🤯🤯😵😵 im dead! I would rather be a trucker than this..cuz im a dude not a bot
. 75 speed? Re-watch ?
fiona fiona that was harsh dear Lady
@@fionafiona1146 whaat!? 😲 was that for me?
Sorry?
@@fionafiona1146 wachyu saying to me??
I hace to say that the trousers you always wear are so big, that they make me unconfortabe.
Presidents of countries dont even dress as good as you do sir
mohamarr ghadaffi though
@@carbonado2432 hes dead
I agree with most of what you said., having been in business over 40 years and having these meetings. With one exception. The person who brought up democrats did a calculated risk, that is to say most democrats don't own business and are not in high managerial positions but instead are fire fighters, teachers in govt jobs. Now had the person you are entertaining to try and secure the contract, if he or she brings up politics it's good to side with them in some way like even a silver lining at least. Often times praising the same politics makes the buyer comfortable with you. If you know for certain that you share the same politics as your buyer, then you should bring it up in conversation. Agreeing on shared ethos is a great way to build trust that goes with religion as well. I would guess ya'll are democrats for saying to be quiet on politics and religion, which in business is not a wise Sun Tzu tactic that we in the market practice. Just by saying to be quiet may have lost ya'll all hundreds of followers on TH-cam. "Sanity is a narrow as a razors edge." But I think you are still young and are learning the ways of the world so I don't take umbrage. Be careful with your words.