I haven't experienced this but I think that lots of people with BPD stay in toxic relationships because it gives them a sense of identity, which they are lacking. Maybe you could talk about that more in the next video.
great discussion. I wish teenagers could truly be educated at school on the topic. life skills like understanding the patterns of abusive relationships are way more important than most academic subjects. be well!
Realistically BPD women often create the "toxic" in toxic relationships. Remember that lying and promiscuity are two very comon traits of bpd women. It is not natural for a man to be happy with a lying, cheating, manipulative woman. Before you call a man "controlling", try some empathy and understanding for what he may be going through, and encourage HIM to leave a relationship without trust. Thanks.
One thing I'm concerned with is people with bpd talk about toxic relationships as if they aren't the ones that creat it. From my own experience I noticed bpd in my girlfriend and tried helping her she tried 2 destroy me when i was the only one in her life that tried 2 give her balance tell her she was beautiful and smart and tried 2 get her life together.
oh my im like that with my boyfriend, i think hes thinking something but hes not and i think hes cheating and thinks im not pretty and stuff but i know deep down hes not is that bad? we argue about it sometimes
I have found that being symptomatic with BPD is very toxic to others. I would be interested in hearing about what it is like having active BPD, acting out. Are you conscious of how you are behaving and how it affects others? I have had someone slice my belongings with a knife, taking personal belongings and then later returning them..mind f ck games. Is this BPD? What woke you up????
I haven't experienced this but I think that lots of people with BPD stay in toxic relationships because it gives them a sense of identity, which they are lacking. Maybe you could talk about that more in the next video.
great discussion. I wish teenagers could truly be educated at school on the topic. life skills like understanding the patterns of abusive relationships are way more important than most academic subjects. be well!
Realistically BPD women often create the "toxic" in toxic relationships. Remember that lying and promiscuity are two very comon traits of bpd women. It is not natural for a man to be happy with a lying, cheating, manipulative woman. Before you call a man "controlling", try some empathy and understanding for what he may be going through, and encourage HIM to leave a relationship without trust. Thanks.
+Ryan Carr pretty much!
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+Ryan Carr Word
Amen, just got out of two years of pure hell
One thing I'm concerned with is people with bpd talk about toxic relationships as if they aren't the ones that creat it. From my own experience I noticed bpd in my girlfriend and tried helping her she tried 2 destroy me when i was the only one in her life that tried 2 give her balance tell her she was beautiful and smart and tried 2 get her life together.
Hello Debbie, I would like to to do a video on how a person with BPD can keep relationships. Especially an intimate relationship.
Thank you for this topic, it has been really helpful.
Soory , I meant I would like you to do a video on how to keep relationships when you are an emotionally sensitive person.
wow , seems like you have no life , to state a comment like that :/
oh my im like that with my boyfriend, i think hes thinking something but hes not and i think hes cheating and thinks im not pretty and stuff but i know deep down hes not is that bad? we argue about it sometimes
I have found that being symptomatic with BPD is very toxic to others. I would be interested in hearing about what it is like having active BPD, acting out. Are you conscious of how you are behaving and how it affects others? I have had someone slice my belongings with a knife, taking personal belongings and then later returning them..mind f ck games. Is this BPD? What woke you up????
Debbie wouldn't it be like what I call braking soul ties?