Good morning team LNN, What message do you have for this lovely couple? Feel free to reach them on Santos: 0722842424 and Venus on 0722816167 Also feel free to Subscribe to Venus TH-cam channel here th-cam.com/channels/DLG6Ozl2ZNa3b-Z5Ue_Cxw.html We thank you for your love and support💛💛
Counseling is a good thing and it's often not for sick or mad people but for everyone. Therapy is about one's mental wellness. I am a Counseling psychologist and can attest to what Venus is saying 100%. Big up my colleague Venus and your amazing hubby, Santos. It is well with you.
Lynn aki I haven't finished watching this story,but pls bring this woman to the show again,she is a vibe and has alot of wisdom about marriage pls let her come back
Wow! I have learnt a lot today. I was once a victim in a toxic marriage and the partner was not willing to change even after trying every way possible to work things out🤔 I had to quit and even forgot everything about the past marriage 💪 I am happy and proud to say today that after moving on, good things came into my way👏👏 I have a wonderful wife ,handsome son, have a good paying job and many projects that were stuck by then are now complete and others are still going on. I really thank God. There is no more stress,drama,ulcers. What a blessing of a perfect family from the Creator❤️❤️❤️❤️
Have been married 22yrs also and have parked twice but hv fought for this marriage to stand with GODS grace am still here he loves me and the children sooo much ..its not easy but its doable..i have four children 2girls and two boys
I have a friend whose wife left him 17 times, going back to her parents. (She secretly told me this story - not him - after my wife had left me for the second time). Each time he went back for her. When she took off the 18th time and he went for her, her mother told her: "if you leave him again do not come back here." The lady was ultimately very grateful for the advice and especially that her man had gone back for her again and again and not given up. AT the time in the 17th year of their marriage, she was advising me not to give up - which I had done as a man fed-up after 10 years of marriage. They remain happily married and to watch them lovey-dovey you couldn't believe all that had taken place.
Like me every year like twice l back to my parents, because my bbe heartbroken me.telling myself enough is enough and found myself again back to my marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔
@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Work on you're cminication skills,so.that you can clearly and effectively share with him what you want and don't want what you feel basically effectively communication around all issues.
@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Am an introvert and would always withdraw and go silent instead of addressing issues,then run back home,but once I identified my weakness,worked on myself we are in a better place now,very happy celebrating 27 years and 4 babies.
This was a wonderful conversation. my take home.... 1. pray, pray, pray. 2. Don't lose yourself in marriage, love n build yourself as much as you can. 3. Don't be quick to pack... answers to prayers take time. 4. The devil is not happy with a successful marriage, he will try to steal, kill and destroy. Refuse, God has provided a life in abundance for all of us. 5. Ask for help, don't die alone. 6. Communication is key. 7. Read number 2 Thrice.
The man in this story showed commitment and he also took responsibility which is not common in some African men especially when they are in the wrong. The lady is just exceptional in understanding and in knowledge. God bless your beautiful marriage it takes two.
This very comment shd be pinned. Kuteseka mi siko. I love myself too much to endure pain in the name of love. Pain doesn't have to be physical, emotional pain kills too
Lynn you are heavenly sent.i almost walked out of my marriage today then came across this video it just touch me and will truly fight for my marriage.God bless
"Accept, Adjust and Advance" "No one is perfect" Such a blessing to listen to such amazing people. And the way LN explores their knowledge and experience is so magnificent.
Lynn indeed you look absolutely amazing in that dress....together with your warm ❤, passion and commitment to your cause, you are a 99.9% fully packaged woman. No doubt the man in your life or shall one day be, shall be a lucky one. I pray that he never hurts you. I affirm you 100%. Keep it up. The guests are equally amazing and blessed like you and God's grace is sufficient for all of you 👪 👏👏 Behind the Camera there is an incredible, shy and very competent clue led by the awesome Ochieng that your fans Lynn never get to see despite the fact that they carry a substantial amount of contribution to your daily content. I personally acknowledge and affirm them. It's never easy to package such captivating and educative content day in day out without sheer hard work. Ochieng accept my sincere affirmation of your role in this globally acclaimed masterpiece-content. Big up man..
I have been married for exactly thirty years,and this session has teach me alotand it has made me know that I have alot to work on to my marriage and family as a whole..
This year my marriage has been crazy and very tough and was almost leaving. After listening to you guys I have decided to fight for my marriage. Thanks Lynn for bringing them on this show.
Ukiskia tu mwanamke anasema her marriage is tough, jua tu the man is doing all sorts of nonesense. Sasa fighting for marriage anataka kuomba na kuforce therapy with a man who is living her best life. Endeleeni kufight
@@lucynjuguna9653 I think it is in the mind. Not forgetting yourself because you are married. A good skin routine, some movies, some good intimacy and taking it easy.Above all, maombi
Venus and Santos, so great to hear your story. I was there 21 years ago when you met, you still look so good together😍 I have loved how vulnerable both of you were as you shared your journey and the wisdom you have garnered in the process. I can see and testify of that character development. Look at what the Lord has done!! Surely, there is hope for marriages after listening to you. Can't wait to hear about the pillars of marriage🤩 Lynn, I love how you guide and direct conversations. You are a beautiful and wonderful host!🥰
Loved this conversation. Can relate so much to their marriage journey. A testament to any one, single, newly weds, seasoned marriages that God has to be the glue for a thriving marriage. thanks for sharing your story, we need to celebrate and testify that their are succesful marriages. I can attest to it. God bless you Venus and Santos and may He continue to use your marriage to testiy of HIs goodness
The world is full of confusion,, some will tell you to pray for your husband or wife to change, others will tell you that you can’t pray for your cheating partner 🤔🤔 so which is which 😞😞, choose your confusion wisely 😊
Thanks Lynn for this show I have learnt a lot. I have understood myself better because I have been raised by abusive dad who instilled alot of fear in us and I think this as been hunting me for many years...and now I have to work on myself... Venus she is blessed she is such a vibe...
1. Make sure your marriage is from God(helps you avoid a lot of trauma and heartache) 2. When you build your spouse, do it whole heartedly and also make sure you grow as well !
This lady is just a vibe. Her energy is on another level and I can see how passionate she is about marriage and making marriages work💖💖I 've learned a lot.
Thank you for this story. I love this couple! Their wisdom is just so fresh and genuine. Their examples are so realistic and are real challenges facing marriage. They are a real couple. Thanks so much for bringing this couple Lynn. The more that they speak, the more I am nodding my head because everything they are saying is so true! Don't leave 80% for 20%. Marriage requires someone to always be working on the relationship's survival. Even the temptation of affairs. The husband saying that when she shines, I shine too made my heart melt. Where are men like this? This is an amazing one. One of my best apart from that other couple that was on the show a few weeks ago.
Very mixed feelings here 1. As a parent you do not chase away your children when they come back to you, first just welcome them embrace them and give them a safe space until they are ready to talk or ready to go back. 2. She calls the so called friends who were ready to help her with money to sort her divorce as not a friend. This lady made her decision to leave she filed for divorce and she did not have the money and a friend was there for her... how then do you call the same person not a true friend???? As for the salvation good for both
@Faith Audi sorry i dont want to disagree with your comment but i have understood her 100% coz i have gone through the same with the so called best friends! Sometimes we need to be wise coz they may come in so quickly in the name of friendship to help but secretly they envy what you have and they can do anything to help you loose a good chance in life or in this case a good partner.
@@gracewahome7667 when friends are there for you you call it envy when they say no you say "not one of them was willing to help" the friend did what she asked for she asked for money what else was the lady supposed to do??? Tell her to stay? Then thats when shes a friend?
Me too naona anaongea sanaa but it’s jst her lucky that huyo cheating husband didn’t infect her with diseases and she didn’t die due to depression and leave her children while yo man gets another wife woiiiiiiii Afu anamlaumu huyo mtu as bad Frnd akati ye mwenyewe ndo kampigia na kamwambia amefikia pabaya she needs money for divorce 🥺yan alitakaje sijui mtu amwambie endelea kuoambana hadi ufe juu ya marriage
Thank you for this discussion 😍. That was the shortest 2 hours that I've watched. The kiss 😘 was wonderful; keep that love burning 🔥.Today I complimented hubby on his outfit 🌟. It's important to tell your partner what hurts you about his behavior. It's equally important to do things for him that he really likes 💞
Beautiful Couple with an amazing story. I'm inspired. Thanks LN for the great show... I'm a single Mum and still trusting God to have a family. when the time is right he will make everything beautiful ❤️
There's nothing as exciting as a comeback - seeing someone with dreams, watching them fail and then getting a second chance, an opportunity to make an additional effort at accomplishing something or reaching a goal after failing! Kudos to this wonderful couple,God bless you both!
In my opinion. I think you both started not at the right place. If you had done the ndoa counseling to prepare you for marriage. Maybe you would not have gone to your home 12 times. I also believe, God would not direct you to sin by yoking yourself with someone who is not a believer. Lastly, I do not support parents sending back their daughters when they come back home just because there was a big wedding. I am happy that your marriage is working but let us not glorify some things in the name of being real. Some things are just mistakes that we should avoid as believers. It is a great talk because a lot of marriages are in these kind of situations but for those who have not yet gotten in this institution. Just avoid some things.
Wow! I have really learned alot through this program.I can relate to most of the things that Venus stands for and also her character is almost like mine.Kudos to Lyn for bringing to us such an impactful power couple!
Thanks, Lynn for this vlog it was filled with so many lessons not only for a couple in marriage but also for a single person contemplating marriage. I am happy the day the Lord exposed me to your TH-cam channel. Nuff love from Jamaica!!
Dear ladies... An elderly woman once told me..you know how we love marriages and comfort when we are in our 20's n 30's.its the same comfort men. Want in their 40's n 50's.so if a man misbehaves earlier on in your marriage n changes years on...it's not answered prayer...it's now that he needs comfort and a home to come back to...and heshima ya society...ati ithe WA ng'ania na kuitwa function za wazee
Thank you Lynn for bringing this couple on board I must say I have learnt alot av known things that I never knew and av now known better the next time am getting into a serious relationship I know how I can handle some issues without creating dramas or without having to walk away at every slightest provocation..I am blessed with this story
Wishing you all my fellow Kenyans back at home to vote wisely and maintain Peace Amani my lovely brothers and sisters ❤️🙏🏿🇰🇪🇰🇪lovely story and a fantastic couple
Am in my twenties and this is the best platform I get to learn more and more things about life. I love it when Santos says you can lose 80 when focusing on 20 .
Marriage is not easy. It takes compromise, sacrifice, and revealing yourself to another person. However, if you are willing to work and submit to the process, it Mostlty promises great reward.
Wow, interesting conversation. I know Santos from Campus, and I'm glad things worked out for them. There's a lot to learn from their story, and the most important for me is that both partners have to work on the marriage. I also agree that childhood trauma affects r/ships a lot and needs to be dealt with. Finally, you come first as a person and you have to first take care of yourself - this is a gem. Venus, will def. follow you.
Beautiful story there… As you pray for a husband, pray and wait for one who is ready to become a husband not just one that wants a wife. After and while praying, WAIT! The art of waiting not just praying is something that has been lost by our generation. Waiting! Yes he might be the one, even God may say he is the one. But more than just getting married, you must not marry him until God thoroughly trains him on becoming a good husband, leader, a good father and priest of your home!! Amos 3:3, shall two walk together except they agree….. life is too short to spend 12years of it praying for character change. Meanwhile, Lynn Ngugi and Zulu are such a blessing to this generation ❤️ listening to their wisdom will bless you
Aki these great lady amenifungua macho...mimi nikikasirika,nakuaga kaa nimezitupa..lakini nimelearn the importance of keeping calm when am angry nisiseme maneno itahurt my partner for the rest of his life..thanks for talking about this great couple ..hamjui mmesaidia watu wangapi?b blessed
I cdnt hold my tears 😢 this part touched my heart, where he said, " I dint want to end up alone in old age" Indeed marriage is not a bed of roses. As the Bible says, what God has put 2gether let no man put asunder. May God be at the centre of all covenant marriages. Thank u for sharing
They're an amazing couple.thats what we call couple goals.i really enjoyed watching them expressing there feelings towards each other.may God bless that union
Marriage needs a strong woman 👌👍 it's like gulf we pack everyday going home until we finish our mission let me listen this interview without farther ado
Wow thankyou Lynn for bringing this couple on the show I've really learnt a lot,personally I'm the type of blocking and I always things going my way but I decided to work on myself when I once heard Benjamin Zulu talking about that behaviour he called it out and I realised it's toxic, atleast I've heard from a person who's been there and they are thriving. Such a beautiful family.
Benjamin Zulu needs to review this😄....there are certain tears that you can avoid. Kindly don't start your relationships this way. Their "luck" may not be yours.
I wouldn't send my daughter back to circumstances she is running away from. She should always feel like she can come to me. Going back should be her decision.
Lovely... great advice. I would love Venus to come alone and narrate that journey candidly... I feel I din't hear that journey well and she is such a good story teller ✅
Thank you Lynn, Venus and Santos.. This is a very powerful episode, would it be possible Lynn, for you to host an episode specifically on men with toxic women so that men also get help. Men also require that attention that they give to women. The behavior of most men is molded by how they are treated by their women in the home.
Greetings as I remain totally spellbound watching this vlog. Venus and Santos talk about their real lived lives with all the ups and downs. No pretending on LNN just raw, plain truth! I love their openness and willingness to bare all of their authentic selves. The value of their relationship is obvious. The 'talker' and the 'listener' works very well for Venus and Santos as they both respect 🙌 🙏 each other to the maximum. I love the fact that Santos is not threatened by Venus - his strong, besitiful, opinionated and accomplished best friend, wife, mother of his children, etc. Lynn and team, you continue to chose the right topics/guests - your timing is perfect! As Venus and Santos continue to grow in God's goodness as a couple, kudos to them for their frankness. Lovely colours Lynn - you are looking fabulous 👌 as usual. Blessings to you and your team.
As much as I appreciate their vulnerability, I see alot of glorified red flags only for her to brand them religious names. I don't get how she calmly say that infidelity is "part"of marriage struggles. The moment she said that a friend offered to help her when she wanted to seek legal council only for her to castigate her and call her names yet she is the one who sought help. You were gaslit to think in a certain way, and just because you do, doesn't make it true / correct. So many red flags but she's trying so hard to turn them green.
Lynn this was excellent.The couples look good together and I'm so much impressed with the fact that their relationship is based on God.Venus is an outgoing lady and i'm loving the fact that she spits out everything openly.I would like her to handle relationship topic not now about marriage but "courtship and all that process before marriage' because a lot of youths especially ladies are falling into depression mostly in Nairobi because of character development
Lyn you are tesaring for real❤️❤️❤️, about marriage is not a walk in the park but with God it works . Married for 10 years now ,weee ! 🤣🤣🤣. May God bless marriages 🙏🏿
Relationships, Christianity and Kenyans we can be so interesting. A few minutes in- "I was a church girl (because that's what I was taught, by a family which left me with trust issues (read childhood trauma), he was a raha guy (read character development)...but 'God told me this is the one'...and then I shikiliad for 21 years as guy found himself" 😅. No thanks. Women, let's work on self love, self worth, self awareness and maybe these trauma bonds will not be passed down to the younger generation.🥶. I am very curious about whether the kids are going for therapy and especially the girl children, what's their perception of marriage ?
Thanks Lynn for bringing up this couple, trust me I personally am truly grateful to watch and listen to this, it has truly enlightened me on several occasions I need to address in my relationship
Wow! Lynn I never comment but this is very inspiring and an eye opener....issues have been tackled to the core. I would listen again and again....Amazing!! thanks for sharing this story, blessings🙏
Thank Lynn for this particular episode. The couple has taught us a lot about marriage. I love their vulnerability, the fact that there is no perfect marriage. it takes hard work to make it work and both parties have to be willing to cooperate. Good job Venus and Santos.
Just watched here at Lynn ngugi n decided l just have to look for you on TH-cam n subscribe n follow you. You such a blessing especially today my first time to hear n watch successful marriage. Good work Lynn
Love language is for both women and men. We are all need confirmation in one way or another. I truly support both their comments.. Thus is one of my best content.
Lynn Thanks for this amazing Message.Marriage is not always roses thy are more thorns to battle ahead.And we can’t change a person only the person within her/him can change herself
Lynn I feel blessed and enlightened by that show...you are in the right track... it's a big inspiration for all people in Kenya and outside Kenya. Be blessed
Ihave taken every thing home may God bless you all ❤️❤️❤️and I can't wait to have more of this always may God reach this channel to everyone straggling in all areas of there lives am humbled to be part of this show sending you love from dubai 🙏😘
I love this woman for sure i see God in her i could listen to her over and over again..she is beautiful and blessed 💖 watching people like this makes you know that marriages work.
Thankyou for this wonderful couple. The way they navigated their marital challenges is very encouraging and empowering. Their surrender to God in all they do in life is very inspiring.
Good morning team LNN,
What message do you have for this lovely couple? Feel free to reach them on
Santos: 0722842424 and
Venus on 0722816167
Also feel free to Subscribe to Venus TH-cam channel here th-cam.com/channels/DLG6Ozl2ZNa3b-Z5Ue_Cxw.html
We thank you for your love and support💛💛
Wanna thankyou them for showing us that marriage still works...
Lynn you look amazing.🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for this platform.
Thank you to the guests.
Counseling is a good thing and it's often not for sick or mad people but for everyone. Therapy is about one's mental wellness. I am a Counseling psychologist and can attest to what Venus is saying 100%. Big up my colleague Venus and your amazing hubby, Santos. It is well with you.
Lynn aki I haven't finished watching this story,but pls bring this woman to the show again,she is a vibe and has alot of wisdom about marriage pls let her come back
@@bettiedaytoday9389 please 🥺 I support you dear
Wow! I have learnt a lot today. I was once a victim in a toxic marriage and the partner was not willing to change even after trying every way possible to work things out🤔 I had to quit and even forgot everything about the past marriage 💪
I am happy and proud to say today that after moving on, good things came into my way👏👏 I have a wonderful wife ,handsome son, have a good paying job and many projects that were stuck by then are now complete and others are still going on. I really thank God. There is no more stress,drama,ulcers. What a blessing of a perfect family from the Creator❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wooow,all the best
its not perfect as you can see she has been trying to leave. the African men #hould learn to appreciate their wives
Wow blessings bro
If your former spouse is still alive your current union is adulterous by biblical standards.
@@Impossibly_gorgeous But it is forgivable . Eiiii you guys dont even call out physical abusers like this
Flipping into comments to see who has noticed Robert Burale's image 🤔 😀
Very interesting story ... keep sowing Lynn 🤗
Yeah he looks like him kabisa
Copy n paste of burale
He looks like Robert
I first had to listen to what names he has as he looks like Bulale.looking closely their looks are slightly differerent.
I thought it's him
Watching from Uganda 🇺🇬 greetings our neighbors from Kenya 🇰🇪 please vote wisely
Thanks @Hanifah, we will 😊
Thank you 🇰🇪❤️🙏🏾
God will guide us Hanifa Thank you.
Thank you dear
Sure,we will
Have been married 22yrs also and have parked twice but hv fought for this marriage to stand with GODS grace am still here he loves me and the children sooo much ..its not easy but its doable..i have four children 2girls and two boys
Amen and Amen...we are here for these kinda testimonies❤️❤️
I love this. Only God will make you stand, fight in prayers
I have been married for 25 and have never packed my bags that doesnt mean we never fought we did since marriage is not a bed of roses.
God bless you 💞
It was toxic until it wasn't toxic anymore. Not every one can deal with toxic relationships fir 12 years
You said it.
True......
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painful
I have a friend whose wife left him 17 times, going back to her parents. (She secretly told me this story - not him - after my wife had left me for the second time). Each time he went back for her. When she took off the 18th time and he went for her, her mother told her: "if you leave him again do not come back here."
The lady was ultimately very grateful for the advice and especially that her man had gone back for her again and again and not given up. AT the time in the 17th year of their marriage, she was advising me not to give up - which I had done as a man fed-up after 10 years of marriage. They remain happily married and to watch them lovey-dovey you couldn't believe all that had taken place.
Amazing!!
Like me every year like twice l back to my parents, because my bbe heartbroken me.telling myself enough is enough and found myself again back to my marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔
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@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Work on you're cminication skills,so.that you can clearly and effectively share with him what you want and don't want what you feel basically effectively communication around all issues.
@@aqulinamusyoki4216 Am an introvert and would always withdraw and go silent instead of addressing issues,then run back home,but once I identified my weakness,worked on myself we are in a better place now,very happy celebrating 27 years and 4 babies.
This was a wonderful conversation. my take home....
1. pray, pray, pray.
2. Don't lose yourself in marriage, love n build yourself as much as you can.
3. Don't be quick to pack... answers to prayers take time.
4. The devil is not happy with a successful marriage, he will try to steal, kill and destroy. Refuse, God has provided a life in abundance for all of us.
5. Ask for help, don't die alone.
6. Communication is key.
7. Read number 2 Thrice.
I read #2 many times. Very very important.
Amen
Good student
Numbers 2...God has a good plan...yes keep patience..
The man in this story showed commitment and he also took responsibility which is not common in some African men especially when they are in the wrong. The lady is just exceptional in understanding and in knowledge. God bless your beautiful marriage it takes two.
I would listen to this woman Venus over and over again without getting bored... She's such a vibe 👍❤️❤️
God is great and powerful. GOD Almighty IS a GOD of all the flesh nothing is impossible for HIM. Jeremiah,32:27.
Marriage is work, but it shouldn't be confused with 'kuteseka'😂.
Exactly...
I can't do all this work for now 😂😂😂
@@wanjikumuragu5113 me too😂😂,
I tell you sijaoleka but nikifikiria challenge zenye watu husema I stop kupenda woiii 🤣🤣🤣🙈
@@doreenkanje9839 take a bottle on my bill juu weuh
This very comment shd be pinned. Kuteseka mi siko. I love myself too much to endure pain in the name of love. Pain doesn't have to be physical, emotional pain kills too
Lynn you are heavenly sent.i almost walked out of my marriage today then came across this video it just touch me and will truly fight for my marriage.God bless
May the Grace of God be sufficient for you Girl... Nothing is impossible With our God dear.
"Accept, Adjust and Advance"
"No one is perfect"
Such a blessing to listen to such amazing people. And the way LN explores their knowledge and experience is so magnificent.
Lynn indeed you look absolutely amazing in that dress....together with your warm ❤, passion and commitment to your cause, you are a 99.9% fully packaged woman. No doubt the man in your life or shall one day be, shall be a lucky one. I pray that he never hurts you. I affirm you 100%. Keep it up.
The guests are equally amazing and blessed like you and God's grace is sufficient for all of you 👪 👏👏
Behind the Camera there is an incredible, shy and very competent clue led by the awesome Ochieng that your fans Lynn never get to see despite the fact that they carry a substantial amount of contribution to your daily content. I personally acknowledge and affirm them. It's never easy to package such captivating and educative content day in day out without sheer hard work. Ochieng accept my sincere affirmation of your role in this globally acclaimed masterpiece-content. Big up man..
I have been married for exactly thirty years,and this session has teach me alotand it has made me know that I have alot to work on to my marriage and family as a whole..
This year my marriage has been crazy and very tough and was almost leaving. After listening to you guys I have decided to fight for my marriage.
Thanks Lynn for bringing them on this show.
But know what you are Fighting my dia he is willing to fight with you otherwise think well you don't end up leaving your kids or kid motherless
Ukiskia tu mwanamke anasema her marriage is tough, jua tu the man is doing all sorts of nonesense. Sasa fighting for marriage anataka kuomba na kuforce therapy with a man who is living her best life. Endeleeni kufight
@@Anyango31 Wow, I didn't know women are angels, so, kukiwa na shida kwa marriage, mwanaume ndio mbaya? Righteous one!!
@@luvaipatrick yes. I hope that answer satisfies your narrow notion.
@@Anyango31 I won't engage you further, it's a waste of my precious time.
Can we just appreciate how young and beautiful they look. Wow! I want my marriage like this
Yeah they look wow❤💕, amen to that. I want my marriage to be best, though I know nobody is perfect BT we are perfected by God.
Unless you are ready to go through what they have
@@lucynjuguna9653 I think it is in the mind. Not forgetting yourself because you are married. A good skin routine, some movies, some good intimacy and taking it easy.Above all, maombi
Venus and Santos, so great to hear your story. I was there 21 years ago when you met, you still look so good together😍 I have loved how vulnerable both of you were as you shared your journey and the wisdom you have garnered in the process. I can see and testify of that character development. Look at what the Lord has done!! Surely, there is hope for marriages after listening to you. Can't wait to hear about the pillars of marriage🤩
Lynn, I love how you guide and direct conversations. You are a beautiful and wonderful host!🥰
From every LNS shows have watched...just learnt that we should put God in everything we do...a single prayer can move a mountain.
This was the best couple's discussion ever. Thanks Santo and Venus. Many blessings.
Loved this conversation. Can relate so much to their marriage journey. A testament to any one, single, newly weds, seasoned marriages that God has to be the glue for a thriving marriage. thanks for sharing your story, we need to celebrate and testify that their are succesful marriages. I can attest to it. God bless you Venus and Santos and may He continue to use your marriage to testiy of HIs goodness
The world is full of confusion,, some will tell you to pray for your husband or wife to change, others will tell you that you can’t pray for your cheating partner 🤔🤔 so which is which 😞😞, choose your confusion wisely 😊
Me and you the same whatsapp group..I've learned to choose my confusion, sometimes we pray for someone's rib
The man was willing to change. Not everyone is willing to
Hahaha confused
Wee umesema ukweli yoooote🤣🤣🤣
Very true let's choose our suffering wisely 😂
Thanks Lynn for this show I have learnt a lot. I have understood myself better because I have been raised by abusive dad who instilled alot of fear in us and I think this as been hunting me for many years...and now I have to work on myself... Venus she is blessed she is such a vibe...
Having Venus as one of my role model in Rotaract has been a very inspirational.This is a couple I treasure.
Can we count the number of times that Santo has reffered to his wife's point or remarks 🤗🤗🤗.. simply beautiful ❤️💕
This is what love really mean. They all made an effort and that's why they're where they're. Am inspired as a woman. thanks Lynn am natured
1. Make sure your marriage is from God(helps you avoid a lot of trauma and heartache)
2. When you build your spouse, do it whole heartedly and also make sure you grow as well !
This lady is just a vibe. Her energy is on another level and I can see how passionate she is about marriage and making marriages work💖💖I 've learned a lot.
Thank you for this story. I love this couple! Their wisdom is just so fresh and genuine. Their examples are so realistic and are real challenges facing marriage. They are a real couple. Thanks so much for bringing this couple Lynn. The more that they speak, the more I am nodding my head because everything they are saying is so true! Don't leave 80% for 20%. Marriage requires someone to always be working on the relationship's survival. Even the temptation of affairs. The husband saying that when she shines, I shine too made my heart melt. Where are men like this? This is an amazing one. One of my best apart from that other couple that was on the show a few weeks ago.
Very mixed feelings here
1. As a parent you do not chase away your children when they come back to you, first just welcome them embrace them and give them a safe space until they are ready to talk or ready to go back.
2. She calls the so called friends who were ready to help her with money to sort her divorce as not a friend. This lady made her decision to leave she filed for divorce and she did not have the money and a friend was there for her... how then do you call the same person not a true friend???? As for the salvation good for both
Asking same question....in my opinion that was a friend in need.
@Faith Audi sorry i dont want to disagree with your comment but i have understood her 100% coz i have gone through the same with the so called best friends! Sometimes we need to be wise coz they may come in so quickly in the name of friendship to help but secretly they envy what you have and they can do anything to help you loose a good chance in life or in this case a good partner.
@@gracewahome7667 when friends are there for you you call it envy when they say no you say "not one of them was willing to help" the friend did what she asked for she asked for money what else was the lady supposed to do??? Tell her to stay? Then thats when shes a friend?
Me too naona anaongea sanaa but it’s jst her lucky that huyo cheating husband didn’t infect her with diseases and she didn’t die due to depression and leave her children while yo man gets another wife woiiiiiiii Afu anamlaumu huyo mtu as bad Frnd akati ye mwenyewe ndo kampigia na kamwambia amefikia pabaya she needs money for divorce 🥺yan alitakaje sijui mtu amwambie endelea kuoambana hadi ufe juu ya marriage
@@faithaudi3061 aki faith me huyu mmama hapo amenikwazaaa hata haeleweki
Thank you for this discussion 😍. That was the shortest 2 hours that I've watched. The kiss 😘 was wonderful; keep that love burning 🔥.Today I complimented hubby on his outfit 🌟. It's important to tell your partner what hurts you about his behavior. It's equally important to do things for him that he really likes 💞
Dear Lynn,well done. I feel this couple needs to start a TH-cam channel on marriage so they could help other couples
Beautiful Couple with an amazing story. I'm inspired. Thanks LN for the great show... I'm a single Mum and still trusting God to have a family. when the time is right he will make everything beautiful ❤️
There's nothing as exciting as a comeback - seeing someone with dreams, watching them fail and then getting a second chance, an opportunity to make an additional effort at accomplishing something or reaching a goal after failing! Kudos to this wonderful couple,God bless you both!
In my opinion. I think you both started not at the right place. If you had done the ndoa counseling to prepare you for marriage. Maybe you would not have gone to your home 12 times. I also believe, God would not direct you to sin by yoking yourself with someone who is not a believer.
Lastly, I do not support parents sending back their daughters when they come back home just because there was a big wedding.
I am happy that your marriage is working but let us not glorify some things in the name of being real. Some things are just mistakes that we should avoid as believers.
It is a great talk because a lot of marriages are in these kind of situations but for those who have not yet gotten in this institution. Just avoid some things.
Wow! I have really learned alot through this program.I can relate to most of the things that Venus stands for and also her character is almost like mine.Kudos to Lyn for bringing to us such an impactful power couple!
I listened through almost without a blink. Purpose is strong, beautiful couple, beautiful story.
I sat down, listened ,learnt and kept it all in my heart just like Mary the mother of Jesus when she was visited by the angel. Great interview
Wow! I love that, like mary kept everything on her heart.
Thanks, Lynn for this vlog it was filled with so many lessons not only for a couple in marriage but also for a single person contemplating marriage. I am happy the day the Lord exposed me to your TH-cam channel. Nuff love from Jamaica!!
A whole marriage sermon right here🔥🔥💯
Dear ladies... An elderly woman once told me..you know how we love marriages and comfort when we are in our 20's n 30's.its the same comfort men. Want in their 40's n 50's.so if a man misbehaves earlier on in your marriage n changes years on...it's not answered prayer...it's now that he needs comfort and a home to come back to...and heshima ya society...ati ithe WA ng'ania na kuitwa function za wazee
He actually said this.
Word!
Thank you Lynn for bringing this couple on board I must say I have learnt alot av known things that I never knew and av now known better the next time am getting into a serious relationship I know how I can handle some issues without creating dramas or without having to walk away at every slightest provocation..I am blessed with this story
Best couple conversation ever. They are so real and open. The kind of mentors we need
Wishing you all my fellow Kenyans back at home to vote wisely and maintain Peace Amani my lovely brothers and sisters ❤️🙏🏿🇰🇪🇰🇪lovely story and a fantastic couple
Yes ✌️
Lets pray 4 peace
@@anneketu6860 Yes darling we should ☝🏿Tuko pamoja
You better come on ground and vote
Sorry for being out of topic, someone answer my question please are Kenyan abroad allowed to vote for Kenyan general election??
@@janewanguiwamuyu4079 will be voting for president only
Am in my twenties and this is the best platform I get to learn more and more things about life. I love it when Santos says you can lose 80 when focusing on 20 .
LNN CHANNEL ❤️❤️❤️ & BENJAMIN ZULU CHANNEL❤️❤️❤️
They are so educative
manze ata mimi that really hit the soul 😃..a deep take home!
My mom says you can lose 9 when chasing that 1
I love the humor Venus have, she's just funny 😆..
Marriage is not easy. It takes compromise, sacrifice, and revealing yourself to another person. However, if you are willing to work and submit to the process, it Mostlty promises great reward.
Great story here.
Thank you Lynn for having both of them on set.
This is so balanced and helpful.
Keep on.
That couple is ready material to heal many people. I love that they mix all with God and faith and their frailty . The are "wounded healers"
Wow, interesting conversation. I know Santos from Campus, and I'm glad things worked out for them. There's a lot to learn from their story, and the most important for me is that both partners have to work on the marriage. I also agree that childhood trauma affects r/ships a lot and needs to be dealt with. Finally, you come first as a person and you have to first take care of yourself - this is a gem. Venus, will def. follow you.
Here for the love of my fellow Rotary members.. I love this show. A great couple there!
Beautiful story there… As you pray for a husband, pray and wait for one who is ready to become a husband not just one that wants a wife. After and while praying, WAIT! The art of waiting not just praying is something that has been lost by our generation. Waiting! Yes he might be the one, even God may say he is the one. But more than just getting married, you must not marry him until God thoroughly trains him on becoming a good husband, leader, a good father and priest of your home!! Amos 3:3, shall two walk together except they agree….. life is too short to spend 12years of it praying for character change. Meanwhile, Lynn Ngugi and Zulu are such a blessing to this generation ❤️ listening to their wisdom will bless you
Aki these great lady amenifungua macho...mimi nikikasirika,nakuaga kaa nimezitupa..lakini nimelearn the importance of keeping calm when am angry nisiseme maneno itahurt my partner for the rest of his life..thanks for talking about this great couple ..hamjui mmesaidia watu wangapi?b blessed
I really needed to hear this, I feel encouraged.
I cdnt hold my tears 😢 this part touched my heart, where he said, " I dint want to end up alone in old age" Indeed marriage is not a bed of roses. As the Bible says, what God has put 2gether let no man put asunder. May God be at the centre of all covenant marriages. Thank u for sharing
I think all couples should take time and reflect on the state of the union. That was so amazing
They're an amazing couple.thats what we call couple goals.i really enjoyed watching them expressing there feelings towards each other.may God bless that union
The two of you looks so good together. Wish you the very best.
When Venus said "I thought I was gonna get married to a pastor" then Santos laughs his heart out😂😂
Marriage needs a strong woman 👌👍 it's like gulf we pack everyday going home until we finish our mission let me listen this interview without farther ado
Wow thankyou Lynn for bringing this couple on the show I've really learnt a lot,personally I'm the type of blocking and I always things going my way but I decided to work on myself when I once heard Benjamin Zulu talking about that behaviour he called it out and I realised it's toxic, atleast I've heard from a person who's been there and they are thriving. Such a beautiful family.
Quite sobering and inspiring as well. I can quite get enough words about how grateful I am about this one. Thanks Lynn.
Benjamin Zulu needs to review this😄....there are certain tears that you can avoid. Kindly don't start your relationships this way. Their "luck" may not be yours.
Amen!!
Sure
😭😭Tears of Joy, Am taken by the man's sweet words from the bottom of his heart.
I wouldn't send my daughter back to circumstances she is running away from. She should always feel like she can come to me. Going back should be her decision.
Exactly but God has his ways of things if you do listen till the end Venus is the dramatic type so I believe her father knew his daughter 😄
I was just thinking how effed up sending her back sounded to me.
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Very educative
This is what I have wanted to see for a long time…a show with healing 👏👏👏👏
Lovely... great advice. I would love Venus to come alone and narrate that journey candidly... I feel I din't hear that journey well and she is such a good story teller ✅
This couple has taught me alot in marriage.Lynn got wisdom.thanks for this great show.True 💕
Thank you Lynn, Venus and Santos.. This is a very powerful episode, would it be possible Lynn, for you to host an episode specifically on men with toxic women so that men also get help. Men also require that attention that they give to women. The behavior of most men is molded by how they are treated by their women in the home.
Greetings as I remain totally spellbound watching this vlog. Venus and Santos talk about their real lived lives with all the ups and downs. No pretending on LNN just raw, plain truth! I love their openness and willingness to bare all of their authentic selves. The value of their relationship is obvious. The 'talker' and the 'listener' works very well for Venus and Santos as they both respect 🙌 🙏 each other to the maximum. I love the fact that Santos is not threatened by Venus - his strong, besitiful, opinionated and accomplished best friend, wife, mother of his children, etc. Lynn and team, you continue to chose the right topics/guests - your timing is perfect! As Venus and Santos continue to grow in God's goodness as a couple, kudos to them for their frankness. Lovely colours Lynn - you are looking fabulous 👌 as usual. Blessings to you and your team.
When she/ he shines it is to the benefit of both. I love that.
Lynn be blessed to go far like Oprah Winfrey. Such story are very educative and God bless this couple.
As much as I appreciate their vulnerability, I see alot of glorified red flags only for her to brand them religious names. I don't get how she calmly say that infidelity is "part"of marriage struggles. The moment she said that a friend offered to help her when she wanted to seek legal council only for her to castigate her and call her names yet she is the one who sought help. You were gaslit to think in a certain way, and just because you do, doesn't make it true / correct.
So many red flags but she's trying so hard to turn them green.
Hahahha
The gentleman looks like Robert Burale's brother........God bless the family
😀😀😀 I was thinking that in my mind he could pass for his brother
Kabisa he looks like him
Yeaaaaa... Lol!
Ithout its him
Lynn this was excellent.The couples look good together and I'm so much impressed with the fact that their relationship is based on God.Venus is an outgoing lady and i'm loving the fact that she spits out everything openly.I would like her to handle relationship topic not now about marriage but "courtship and all that process before marriage' because a lot of youths especially ladies are falling into depression mostly in Nairobi because of character development
Lyn you are tesaring for real❤️❤️❤️, about marriage is not a walk in the park but with God it works .
Married for 10 years now ,weee ! 🤣🤣🤣. May God bless marriages 🙏🏿
Relationships, Christianity and Kenyans we can be so interesting. A few minutes in- "I was a church girl (because that's what I was taught, by a family which left me with trust issues (read childhood trauma), he was a raha guy (read character development)...but 'God told me this is the one'...and then I shikiliad for 21 years as guy found himself" 😅. No thanks. Women, let's work on self love, self worth, self awareness and maybe these trauma bonds will not be passed down to the younger generation.🥶. I am very curious about whether the kids are going for therapy and especially the girl children, what's their perception of marriage ?
Waaa more reason why we need Benjamin Zulu in our homes speaking with a loudspeaker system daily
I know Santos,we grew up in the same neighborhood.Thanks for sharing your story.... marriage is a beautiful blessing.
Lilly?
Lynn you look magnificent and this couple is a goal. They saved their marriage because they are all committed. Commitment to both partners is KEY
Thanks Lynn for bringing up this couple, trust me I personally am truly grateful to watch and listen to this, it has truly enlightened me on several occasions I need to address in my relationship
Wow! Lynn I never comment but this is very inspiring and an eye opener....issues have been tackled to the core. I would listen again and again....Amazing!! thanks for sharing this story, blessings🙏
Beautiful interview. So much to learn from this beautiful couple !
Kwa kila Jambo ni maombi pekee,not even advices but prayers is enough of everything ❣️keep going the beautiful couple
Bring more of this kind of story it's sooo helpful like you don't know Lyn
Thank Lynn for this particular episode.
The couple has taught us a lot about marriage. I love their vulnerability, the fact that there is no perfect marriage. it takes hard work to make it work and both parties have to be willing to cooperate.
Good job Venus and Santos.
True my sister, we should learn to accept and amend the marriage we all accepted to love
Awesome Awesome session with the Kyengos! Can't wait for the next!
This story ,touched me in a special way.
Being intentional ,makes it work !
"you do you now" aki hii bail iko wapi siku hizi this is all i need at this moment lolest a very appreciative man SUPPORT YOUR WOMAN INTENTIONALLY
Just watched here at Lynn ngugi n decided l just have to look for you on TH-cam n subscribe n follow you.
You such a blessing especially today my first time to hear n watch successful marriage. Good work Lynn
Love language is for both women and men. We are all need confirmation in one way or another. I truly support both their comments.. Thus is one of my best content.
Lynn Thanks for this amazing Message.Marriage is not always roses thy are more thorns to battle ahead.And we can’t change a person only the person within her/him can change herself
This is her speaking to my younger self...I am glad I will learn from her mistakes to fix my marriage...thank you.God bless
Me am victim of going for 20 and almost lost 80 but thank God I changed my mind and went back to my husband.
Amazing couple 💑, wish them luck. Thanks Lyn for hosting different people who tell different stories, am really learning alot
Lynn I feel blessed and enlightened by that show...you are in the right track... it's a big inspiration for all people in Kenya and outside Kenya. Be blessed
Ihave taken every thing home may God bless you all ❤️❤️❤️and I can't wait to have more of this always may God reach this channel to everyone straggling in all areas of there lives am humbled to be part of this show sending you love from dubai 🙏😘
great conversation about marriage. this the only part of life that we are never taught anywhere, experience teaches us. good work Lyn.
I like Santo's personally....Calm, collected and a good listener 😊
I love this woman for sure i see God in her i could listen to her over and over again..she is beautiful and blessed 💖 watching people like this makes you know that marriages work.
Thankyou for this wonderful couple.
The way they navigated their marital challenges is very encouraging and empowering. Their surrender to God in all they do in life is very inspiring.