Hey everyone watching this, I know you feel like your world is ending, but you WILL be okay. I remember watching Coach Lee videos with an obsession 2 years ago, reading the success stories of people getting their Ex back or getting over them. I just wanted to come back and say thank you to Coach Lee (even if it’s a couple years late lol). I got my Ex back and we are married now and have a baby.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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My ex and I have been broken up for almost 6 yrs now. The first 2yrs were the hardest for me. But I stayed in no contact. Early this year I found out he has been in contact with ppl that are closest to me. He hasn’t asked about me. But I think he is hinting it. And just 2wks ago he indirectly asked about me. I have grown for the better tho. I’ve build my credit, bought a house, my dream car and found a great job. Self work is vital. I’m much happier now.
I’m 0 out of 7 but he sends messages checking on me and says he and his dad talk about me all the time … trying to keep no contact but feel so confused
I know you probably feel like you are never gonna feel better ever again, I’m not even gonna pretend like I know how much pain you are going through, I just want to offer some comfort and I’m confident we are all gonna make it out of this like a champ. Coach Lee is right, you can’t fix the balance of this relationship by yourself, and getting your ex back is actually called getting yourself back.
You are the best. My ex is not over me... when I started to tell her that I am not want her anymore...she started invest in me again...I am relaxed. I will not hurry. ❤Amen 🙏♾️
If they broke up with you my friends, they have to come back and contact you….. Otherwise, move on with your great life… If they come back, cool, and if they don’t come back Cool…. Live your Awesome life….
@@brianjames9294 8 months until we reconnected. Funny story, actually. Told my new girlfriend, at the time, about my ex. She went on my phone and blocked her without me knowing. So I missed an opportunity of her reaching out, but I ended up reaching out after that relationship ended.
My ex reached out to me about a week ago fishing and then telling me that I shouldn’t give hope for love and that she’s got a lot going on. I replied I had love and respected her decision. She told me she loved me after the conversation i went right back into no contact.
Why did you say you loved and respected ger decision? Her saying she has a lot going on means she's pretty much entirely done. And women can tell a man she loves him without being in love or having any feelings
This is not true. Mine blocked me for eight months then reached out if you stay no contact and hassle them they will wonder what’s going on. This is 100% guarantee but your comment may not be true. Have faith
I feel like me and you are in the same boat. I have little to nothing to go off on when it comes to my ex. But that’s ok I’ve reached a point where I don’t care anymore. Only reason I continue to watch Coach Lee videos is for informative and educational purposes.
I’ve never been curious enough to look up find out anything regarding an ex in any capacity, I know they’re living their best life out there. Breaking up with someone is never a mistake, it’s an opportunity for growth and maturity for both people.
Idk if I can even watch this bc I’m already discouraged enough. Almost 6 year relationship, engaged, and a very intense relationship. I made a lot of mistakes and have been focused on addressing my issues. She went from crying during breakup to then saying after she will never give me a chance again and blocking my #. I begged on and off for about a month and then broke NC again two months later at 3 months post BU. It’s been 5 months now and I will never reach out again bc it will be the only way to ever regain attraction but I do believe she’s going to try her best to move on from me completely. I am still so gutted the pain is unreal I love her so much
I been in NC for almost 10 months, am not going to brake NC for no reason , I haven't make all this sacrifices for nothing either she calls or its over I spended all the supplies of begging I have . All I got left is my reclaimed Dignity ( BTW she keeps all our pictures on line) if someone wants to know why so much time ,, Am old and we become picky, Thanks Coach Lee you help me a lot specially with NC
You helped me in the most hardest point in my life coach. Thank you for being there for me when no one was. Divorced with my ex of an 8 year marriage, your words helped me. Now i have never been happier. i wanted them back in the beginning, but you soon realize in time, you are more valuable to someone who cares. Thank you a million
We broke up in May, and had 9 interactions over the past 3 months. I realize I have never truly given her the presence of my absence, with the longest stint of NC was 24 days. I hope I didn’t destroy everything by not being aware of NC sooner. We've been in each other's lives for 12 years. She told me in our last conversation she still believes we're soulmates, but that she's done and it's over forever now. NC is the only thing I can do. On day 4 now...
That's breadcrumbing bro.when you give them access so they can contact anytime they pleases never makes them feel of lost.i was in same situation.i keep no contact she comes back but gives me little hope so i can hold.this way they can never feel the lost.thats why i blocked her everywhere this time and told her i want to move on.hopefully she can feel that.if she doesn't i will be moved on in the end.sometimess blocking is necessary
My ex blocked me everywhere after we broke up.. I was chasing and being a simp, so I don’t blame her. I moved to another country, and my glow up REAL 😎. One yr later she unblocked me from her personal profile (it’s private) I never messaged her… 4 days ago she unblocked me from her business profile, watched my stories then commented (a negative comment) on one of my instagram posts. I ignored it and haven’t reacted or messaged (1yr 8 months after the breakup). I know she’s trying to get a reaction from me, and wants me to message her, but I’m not going to, haven’t watched her stories or anything either. I feel like she wants to reach out but she’s being stubborn, maybe I’m wrong. Anyone has an opinion?
After 45 days of no contact , she sent me a meme saying it reminded her of me , I am replying slowly and being nice not mentioning anything about the breakup and I am trying to take it very slow this time around , I am actually not that invested anymore after doing the no contact and focusing on myself , if it works out good if not also good … thank you coach Lee without you I would have not had back my diginity and would have probably broken no contact many times if it wasn’t for your videos …. Stick with it guys , I honestly thought after 45 days there is no hope anymore and then it happened out of the blew , stay strong everyone
just want to say a big thank you Coach Lee for sharing all this great info with us.. your advice and answers about dealing with an ex all come from a place of understanding..kindness... Well balanced... realistic and respectful.. You saying that it is ok to still have feelings with your ex is beyond refreshing... and honestly that's one of the most important messages that everyone needs to know... looked up quite a bit of content about dealing with past relationships... and mostly they always recommend cutting everything off immediately...and pushing someone to just move on... Credit to you and your channel...
Thankyou so much Coach Lee!! I followed your advice immediately after my ex broke up with me. Did 30 days straight no contact (begged and pleaded when he broke up with me but that was it) and he messaged for a call on day 30. Had a call was calm and pleasant. He said he wanted to take things really slow. He sounded very depressed. I said that's fine and he said he'd call me in another week. That was last night we spoke for ages he sounded a lot better and we are organising to go for a walk next week to meet after 6 weeks apart. His words to me were " ive never been so hurt over loosing something or anything in my whole life so I knew I had to try again with you". NO CONTACT WORKED! Thankyou so much. We aren't officially together but there's loads of history and love there and both been doing individual therapy ourselves so there's a really good chance. But if I had begged and pleaded with him he never would have had that that space to get to this point. And he wants to take it slow which is hard but I know coach Lee recommends and is smart instead of jumping right back into living together again. Thankyou so much Coach Lee xx
@Infinity2801 that great that you're both making it a priority to get professional help to better yourselves. A lot of people don't do that and end up in the same place
What if she reaches out to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening somebody with divorce 16 times and never filing
@@vasilisvks1448 I don’t have social media either. And to be perfectly honest with you. I’m glad I don’t because it would make the break up that much harder so the fact that you don’t have social media is a blessing. Stay strong you can get through this.
@@RealCoachLee I really would book a session with you, but I haven’t had a great year financially on top of losing the love of my life…so unfortunately I can’t. But I have been recommending your videos to others, so keep it up
My ex brokeup with me after 14 years of relationship. And she blok me on Facebook, but still have my number!? 🤔 I delete everything from her, because I know that she ain't contact me anymore. Sad but true. She have another guy, and he is her world. I moved on and try to heal myself from everything. I ain't gonna beg or contact her. So NC and live my life.
I think my ex is early in the curiosity stage because I've caught them watching my social media stuff and my story. It appears they infrequently did it shortly after the breakup but it's been happening more frequently about 5 weeks after the breakup. Idk if this is significant but it's given me some hope since they've been also specifically going on my page. It surprises me because they're fairly avoidant. Thank you, coach Lee.
It’s been 12 weeks since we broke up and I’m struggling so bad! We had a good relationship he just said he wasn’t happy anymore, we just got engaged aswel, I’m devastated 😢
Me too - exactly the same thing, i was shocked, I thought we’d have our whole lives together. It’s been a bit over 6 months since break up (we were engaged for 4) and it finally feels like something i can wholly accept
@@Marina-wi3rs we were together 6years and engaged for 8 months, came out the blue with no warning, I’m terrible at no contact, I just don’t have the will power that I need. But I’m obviously making it easier for him to stay away in the process, I feel for you it’s such a horrible situation when you lived and cared for them so much. X
Please coach help me with this 🙏🏻 My Ex (who dumped me and have a girlfriend) stalking my stories for SEVEN MONTHS ! He's always the first to view them ! But he never commented or talked to me. we are in no contact since the break up. Why he's doing this ☹️ ? Is he interested in getting back together ?
He's curious in how your life is shaping up without him. He misses certain aspect of you. I would show the most happiest images, never any breakup innuendos. Just keep going..
@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍 I'm in a happy place in my life, and i always post happy things. I never show any sadness. But for how long he will be curious? Because I think seven months is too long for being curious ☹️ ? Also he doesn't post on his social media anymore. (For about 4 months now ) He used to post alot. So I really don't know what's going on in his life. the only thing I know he's viewing every story I post.
@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍 I'm in a happy place in my life, and i always post happy things. I never show any sadness. But for how long he will be curious? Because I think seven months is too long for being curious ☹️ ? Also he doesn't post on his social media anymore. (For about 4 months now ) He used to post alot. So I really don't know what's going on in his life. the only thing I know he's viewing every story I post.
@@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍 I'm in a happy place in my life and I always post happy things, but for how long he will be curious ? because I think seven months is too long for being curious ? also he doesn't post anything on his social media anymore, for about 4 months now (he used to post a lot). so I really don't know what's going on in his life. The only thing I know is he's viewing every story I post.
Ive been in no contact after getting dumped 9 months ago 9 days before Christmas almost 3 yrs together. She sent me a criptic one letter text back in June fishing for a response i guess.
If anyone out there is going through a difficult separation, listen to Coach Lee. He knows what he’s talking about. I had a session with him this morning. He gave me some solid advice and is easy to talk to. I am a professional counselor myself and I highly recommend Coach Lee.
I'm pretty sure that she is not over me yet. We have been together 19 years, we separated in may. I have done all the wrong stuff I could and way too long, but I founded my dignity few days ago and started intelligent contact. We have two kids, dog and summer cabin so full no contact ain't option. I actually started to feel better after that. I was kinda tired to keep fighting for our family all alone. Well. I decided to give her what she wants. Life without me. Now I just keep working myself, try to be the best dad I can. If she ever wants me back. It's her turn to beg and plead. I know shes sad and stuff, but 40yo crisis or fomo seems to be pretty powerful. 😂😂😂
My ex had done the first thing with regarding keeping and carrying on connections with my friends which was more mine now I’ve just noticed she’s commenting on their pics. I know she’s doing her best to try and bait me. I’m sitting back smiling and laughing but I’m not going to break no way!
Hi Coach Lee, my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me about a month ago. We were engaged for the last 3 months of those 7 years, and in the last 2 years, we were living in different cities due to our jobs. After the engagement, we had unnecessary arguments, and I dragged them out for no reason. I wore her out and left her feeling alone. I thought she wouldn’t leave me no matter what. These arguments led to a coldness and lack of communication between us. For 3 months, we were very distant and hardly communicated. I didn’t realize it at the time, but these 3 months really took a toll on her. She grew distant from me, and her feelings for me gradually died. Eventually, she broke up with me and said she didn’t even want to stay friends. She said she didn’t feel anything for me, and if she did, we could have continued. She broke up with me on July 15th, and for a few days after, I tried calling her on video. At the end of these conversations, she told me to get out of her life. Later, on July 26th, I went to the city where she lives, and we talked face-to-face. During the conversation, she seemed like she still had some feelings, but ultimately she said the same things: “I don’t want to build a future with you, I don’t trust you, I don’t feel anything for you, I don’t love you.” We haven’t spoken since that day. I haven’t written or called her at all. On August 8th, I couldn’t resist and called her once. I told her that I saw her in my dream and wanted to check if she was okay. She said she was fine and asked how I was. I said I was fine and, not wanting to bother her, I wished her a good day and hung up. I’m not writing or calling her at all. What I want to ask you is this: I wasn’t in her life for the last 3 months before the breakup. My absence led to this breakup. In this situation, is “no contact” reasonable? What should I do? I love her very, very much and I want to marry her.
Tell her u love her and miss her and you are leaving the door open when she’s able to rethink and want to reconcile and then don’t say anything else She either comes or doesn’t
Coach Lee, thank you so much for everything you’ve honestly saved me massively! Ive ordered your emergency breakup kit and it’s actually a god send! I’ve been experiencing bad baiting and breadcrumbs of my ex. She’s befriended my friend and is constantly posting them out together. FaceTiming eachother and feeling the need to put in on her story (my friend is telling me all of this) im in no contact of 38 days! Would you say she’s doing her best to try and get to me in a way? I feel like the energy has shifted and she’s clutching at straws. Still nothing official yet but would you say these are signs of baiting or breadcrumbing me?
@@mariotibbrine1I never would bro, it’s in my dna to never contact her, Ive levelled up too much, I’ve just tried to stay 1 step ahead and be aware of where she’s at
My girlfriend broke up with me and I texted her once everyday for the first three days asking if we could talk and the day after I talked to her mom over text message and she ignored me but I’ve started no contact after the third day is is too late have I messed it up already I feel like I have cause she’s started removing me on social she blocked me on insta but unblocked me just isn’t following me anymore
She likes my stories, texts me gudnite once in a while but when i tried to get back at her she continues to ignore or delay her replies ..i am really confused whether she is trying to get back together or is just checking if i m still into her
Thank you for your good work, how about if your ex breaks no contact and shows so much care for you, cares about your safety wellbeing and asks about your family and how you are but don’t say anything about the relationship?
Definitely wants to connect. But do not ever accept friendship. If they're directly asking you about your family etc... let them know and then ask to meet up. No messing. Don't accept breadcrumbs either.
Last time I was visiting my ex, who lives out of town after he broke up, he told me that he’s not even considering me as an option, only as a friend. But he did visit me in my city last month and repeated that he only sees me as a friend So if they says things like that, we have to believe them
My ex blocked me on Instagram. But I never posted anything negative in my posts and I never posted anything to make her jealous in any way. However when we were dating, I never got her mad or never got her sad. I heard that it hurts when an ex sees your face. Is that true?
My ex and I were together for a year and like 3 months we had a very good relationship , she was coming off a 27 year marriage when we first got together, she recently left me to go date some other guy, saying she never dated before being married so I guess she is in the whole experiment phase. So I went into no contact that Monday the break was up official, she ended up unblocking and texting me on the Sunday afternoon asking if I was doing ok, I waited until Monday morning to reply with a simple alright and u response, she hasn’t said anything yet. I’ll just continue to be in no contact, working on myself and trying to have fun.
Coach lee, we broke up three weeks ago, and last week, I asked her if she will wait for us together again after we graduate. She said she might. Will it really work out? Do I really still have a chance if she doesn't find another guy?
But even if you see none of these signs it doesn't mean all hope is lost ive heard of exes coming back years later so theres no deadline for how long to wait but also i feel that reaching out to them after 4 months is just gonna give them validation again. so you should never have to reach out to them even if you go past the 4 month line because all thats doing is helping them not to miss you after 4 months and like i said some exes come back years later so let them contact you. if they really care about you trust me they dont need reminding that you exist
I’m just leaving this comment to see if there’s any stories where someone’s ex did come back. - how long did it take? - did you take them back? - if you did are you still together? - if not, is it because you yourself decided “you know what? I’m good” or something else?
What if she reaches out to your brother to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening me with divorce 16 times and never filed. What about her still holding on to some of my stuff
What does it mean if He sends you an email with your favorite group that he bought before the break up and wants you to go enjoy them anyway? I kindly declined them.. but so confusing!
What about unblocking on a particular date such as an anniversary date, staying silent and then blocking a few days later? Scared? Mixed emotions? But shows intent to reach out eh? ❤
My ex reached out messaging me with a screenshot showing my friend viewing her story, asking why he is viewing them. Is that her just being pissed off, or is that an excuse to reach out?
She keeps texting me about every week and she still mad at me and just a few minutes ago messaged out of the blue telling me to not text her at all anymore but she refuses to block me. What does that mean coach? Edit: she's also in a rebound
My wife and I have been separated for a few months. At her wish, not mine. Was was screwing the janitor at her work. Recently she was dropping the kids off and glanced at my river tubes, drying in the driveway, for 1/10th of a second. No INE else would have thought anything of it but I knew exactly what she was thinking. That afternoon she texted me a bunch of angry stuff for no real reason. That night she texted my sister to ask if I went tubing with her. This is a woman who has been claiming to be free and single for 6 months, claiming she did nothing wrong by screwing her coworker while we were together. Claiming she doesn't care what I do. Having her check up on me felt good in some ways but more than anything it convinced me she is a nut job and I am better off moving on. I am very upset at what this means for my kids but no longer feel like I am losing anything.
Does no contact work if we broke up due to outside circumstances? She was 10 years younger than me and we were madly in love but her friends and parents dissapproved so eventually she said it was too much and ended it, we had a long 2 week breakup where we even met up a few times and still admitted we loved each other but suddenly one day she snapped and got really cruel and cold although she says she wants to stay friends for now, I have no idea what to do because it’s very hot and cold
Is it the same situation for me? Im the dumper. But we still had close contact, because of the sick cat. We went multiple times to the vet, until i had to put her to sleep. During this time we had also initmacy contact. I want him back, because i know it was a mistake. But he said he doesnt have feelings yet or respectively couldnt build new up because he had not enough time and only felt pressure. So we decided to go in no contact because everything is so confusing. We are in no contact now since 2 weeks. Miss him so much :(
Been in no contact for a month. I reached out today to wish her safe travels as she’s going on a trip. All she said was thank you and I replied enjoy! … I’m so confused… she watches my snap and instagram stories frequently without even having me added… idk what to do… we broke up due to her depression and we were together for 7 years. HELP PLEASE
So could the pet thing also be a work thing? My ex is my employer and he doesnt fire me. Even if my task in his company came to an end and there is nothing left to do for me anymore and he looks for new tasks so I would stay?
*I’m curious, If the relationship ended* Why should anyone care whether or not their ex is over them? If we had a calm, articulate, well thought out conversation and I understand, take accountability and apologize for my participation in the failure of in the relationship… there is no need to revisit that failed relationship after it ends. I’ve never been curious enough to look up, speak to or find out anything regarding an ex in any capacity, I know they’re living their best life out there. *Breaking up with someone is never a mistake,* it’s an opportunity for growth and maturity for both people.
A lot of people don't have any conversation let alone a well thought out planned one. Many of us in here watching these videos were left with nothing but confusion and loose ends. Plus people change, circumstances change, etc... nothing in life is static
@@creatureofstyle If relationship ends without a conversation and you’re left with confusion and loose ends… that person shouldn’t be worth anyone’s mental fortitude and why should someone want back an individual of that caliber. Everyone knows that circumstances change and so do people but that doesn’t make them entitled to your time or your companionship. Especially if their 1st instinct is to discard you and have a conversation later or never. People will always do what in their best interests, so if they don’t tell me, I chalk it up to being none of my business and not take it personal. I’ve had women dump or ghost me then want to rekindle the relationship or complain that I didn’t fight against our relationship ending or not continue to contact once they ghost. Last I checked Casper is the only friendly ghost, I’ve never rekindled a relationship and I encourage people to not do so as well since breakups are never a mistake. The mind games and manipulation should be dealbreakers for everyone. The idea that people are using no contact to manipulate an ex while silent stalking is ___.
@@standground7956 Some of my best relationships have happened only after rekindling. Expecting humans to get everything exactly right the first time around isn't always realistic. There are too many variables at play Studies have shown that working through problems together, not ignoring bids for love, and forgiveness are the building blocks for the strongest relationships. All 3 of those apply to relationships that are rekindled
@legacyclan8861 People like you can’t handle articulate conversations or face to face breakups given that you’re unable to construct a meaningful sentence or thought. People likely dump you based on your overall lack of effort regarding everything (at least by a period at the end). Even your writing skills leaves a lot to be desired so we all know that communication with you is absolutely atrocious.
I messed up, she did the 1st thing reached out to a mutual friend, I got excited and and called her and we met up she was happy to see me, she cried and told me she loved me . But then she disappeared again. I texted her days after and she said she's seeing someone now. 😮😢
My ex literally unblocked me haven’t reach out like some post I didnt nothing act like I didn’t see it I think she not comeing back so wouldn’t it be best if I blocked her
@@DestinationX-yf6sc same feeling, it's been 26 days for me. Most of the day I woke up with a strong feeling of pain. He's in my dreams most of the time and in my thoughts 🥺
5 months post breakup here and not a peep from my ex during that time. I did not chase after she dumped me over text and stopped checking her socials months ago so I wouldn't know if there were any of those signs but she removed me from everything so it's not like I can even see anyway. I didn't even get any recognition from them on my birthday last month which I wasn't expecting to begin with but still stung when that was exactly what happened. I still miss my ex but still feel immense hurt about the way I'm being treated even after being brokeb up with.
Honestly, me and my ex wife both failed each other. She thinks I’m the villain. Fine. We failed each other. With communication, mostly her on that, but we both failed God as we’re both Christians. I’m not a mind reader. When she sent me a song to show her emotions, and said she has a connection with that band, I could have sent her a song that had meaning to me but didn’t have anything to do with “US” and when she couldn’t even talk about the feelings face to face, she monkey branched to a guy who is most certainly a several steps lesser than me, according to her own friends. She couldn’t even face me when she filed divorce. She hid in a different room and told me she filed divorce over text. To be honest, I don’t want that kind of woman back. I just want to know how to forget her and move on. Forget that emotional insecurity and low self esteem. But I’m having a hard time moving on. I don’t want her. She monkey branched to a new man. I don’t want her. I just want to forget her and move on. Why does she own a part of my mind rent free. I even have nightmares about her. I just want to let go. Why is it so hard? We were together for 18 years. It’s not easy. I hate her and love her at the same time.
In a weird situation I ended things with her but I instantly went back on it and tried to give ourselves the option of staying together but she wanted to stay apart so it feels like really I got broken up with but ig in a way it was mutual I feel like I’m in an awkward gray area and I can’t exactly pay for coaching calls being a college student obviously I know it hasn’t been long enough yet in NC but I’m just unsure of the position I’m in and if NC would be viable in my situation She also talked about how it’s not worth if I’m not willing to fight for it but I clearly showed I was willing to even point blank said if I wasn’t willing to fight for us I wouldn’t be texting you Also we were long distance Where am I in all this?
Ugh, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him
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@@thanusalikhan6930 is there anyway to tell which one it is? I even asked her why don’t you just block me cause she blocked her other exes but she didn’t want to block me. I’ve been in no contact for almost 1 month now
That's called leaving a line of communication open just in case for a hoover. I'd cut the cord if it was me. I don't do the friend thing with ex's if they wanna contact me they have to figure out a way to do it.
Let’s be honest mate if someone is truely done with you they’d just be done with you and block you wouldn’t they personally? I mean there’s only 1 reason why why they haven’t blocked you and that’s because there’s a door open
@@thanusalikhan6930I asked her after the break up why she won’t just block me if she’s sure she doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I asked because she has her last 2 exes blocked. She said it’s because she “cares about my feelings and wants to do things differently this time.” We’ve been in no contact for almost 1 month now
How about she keeps texting me I miss you and I’m thinking about you but i still don’t think it’s good that we start talking again. I always want to say well why the hell are you texting me then lol
@@johncieclark3897 She’s definitely confused . We were together for almost 6 years so I mean I miss her as well. She keeps saying she’s willing to start seeing each other again but we need more time to heal 🤷
What if she reaches out to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening somebody with divorce 16 times and never filing
Hey everyone watching this, I know you feel like your world is ending, but you WILL be okay. I remember watching Coach Lee videos with an obsession 2 years ago, reading the success stories of people getting their Ex back or getting over them. I just wanted to come back and say thank you to Coach Lee (even if it’s a couple years late lol). I got my Ex back and we are married now and have a baby.
Congratulations!!
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
My ex and I have been broken up for almost 6 yrs now. The first 2yrs were the hardest for me. But I stayed in no contact. Early this year I found out he has been in contact with ppl that are closest to me. He hasn’t asked about me. But I think he is hinting it. And just 2wks ago he indirectly asked about me. I have grown for the better tho. I’ve build my credit, bought a house, my dream car and found a great job. Self work is vital. I’m much happier now.
The two greatest words a dumped person will ever hear...NO CONTACT👌
They do all the things Lee mentions in this video - just don't let them use those signs to make you jump in and start chasing again - great video Lee!
Do you collaborate? :)
They are enemies. Ken just dropped a diss track.
I’m 0 out of 7 but he sends messages checking on me and says he and his dad talk about me all the time … trying to keep no contact but feel so confused
I know you probably feel like you are never gonna feel better ever again, I’m not even gonna pretend like I know how much pain you are going through, I just want to offer some comfort and I’m confident we are all gonna make it out of this like a champ. Coach Lee is right, you can’t fix the balance of this relationship by yourself, and getting your ex back is actually called getting yourself back.
She reached out after 3 months. Thanks coach Lee. Going on a date next week.
Thx
You are the best. My ex is not over me... when I started to tell her that I am not want her anymore...she started invest in me again...I am relaxed. I will not hurry. ❤Amen 🙏♾️
If they broke up with you my friends, they have to come back and contact you…..
Otherwise, move on with your great life…
If they come back, cool, and if they don’t come back Cool….
Live your Awesome life….
Stick with it! Took me 8 months after being dumped. Even had a new relationship in the meantime.
8 months since you moved on or until you both reconnected?
Sounds like they've had another relationship during that 8 months and then their ex reached out. @@brianjames9294
@ceevee03 did y’all reconnect?
@@brianjames9294 8 months until we reconnected. Funny story, actually. Told my new girlfriend, at the time, about my ex. She went on my phone and blocked her without me knowing. So I missed an opportunity of her reaching out, but I ended up reaching out after that relationship ended.
@@sydneytownsend6364 yes, we did. I reached out after my next relationship ended.
My ex reached out to me about a week ago fishing and then telling me that I shouldn’t give hope for love and that she’s got a lot going on. I replied I had love and respected her decision. She told me she loved me after the conversation i went right back into no contact.
wow how strange.
@@elizabethclarke2005yes very
Why did you say you loved and respected ger decision? Her saying she has a lot going on means she's pretty much entirely done. And women can tell a man she loves him without being in love or having any feelings
@@sloanmagnum5009 Not just women, champ.
Ok, I officially have no hope based on this video! Blocked everywhere, nothing from her for 4 months. She is gone ….
It’s never about the ex, it’s about you. Focus on yourself and you’ll attract them back or find even better. Best of luck
Better to have that closure than to be in limbo waiting for her to reach out.
This is not true. Mine blocked me for eight months then reached out if you stay no contact and hassle them they will wonder what’s going on. This is 100% guarantee but your comment may not be true. Have faith
Its ok man just do you and if she comes back its a bonus to your happiness
She shouldn't be the sole reason for your happiness
Ftb
I’m not in contact, so I have no idea about any of these signs. And if they were there, I wouldn’t care.
I feel like me and you are in the same boat. I have little to nothing to go off on when it comes to my ex. But that’s ok I’ve reached a point where I don’t care anymore. Only reason I continue to watch Coach Lee videos is for informative and educational purposes.
I’ve never been curious enough to look up find out anything regarding an ex in any capacity, I know they’re living their best life out there. Breaking up with someone is never a mistake, it’s an opportunity for growth and maturity for both people.
Idk if I can even watch this bc I’m already discouraged enough. Almost 6 year relationship, engaged, and a very intense relationship. I made a lot of mistakes and have been focused on addressing my issues. She went from crying during breakup to then saying after she will never give me a chance again and blocking my #. I begged on and off for about a month and then broke NC again two months later at 3 months post BU. It’s been 5 months now and I will never reach out again bc it will be the only way to ever regain attraction but I do believe she’s going to try her best to move on from me completely. I am still so gutted the pain is unreal I love her so much
I been in NC for almost 10 months, am not going to brake NC for no reason , I haven't make all this sacrifices for nothing either she calls or its over I spended all the supplies of begging I have . All I got left is my reclaimed Dignity ( BTW she keeps all our pictures on line) if someone wants to know why so much time ,, Am old and we become picky, Thanks Coach Lee you help me a lot specially with NC
After 10 months, why are you still following her on social media?
@@sloanmagnum5009 I don't
You helped me in the most hardest point in my life coach. Thank you for being there for me when no one was. Divorced with my ex of an 8 year marriage, your words helped me. Now i have never been happier. i wanted them back in the beginning, but you soon realize in time, you are more valuable to someone who cares. Thank you a million
We broke up in May, and had 9 interactions over the past 3 months. I realize I have never truly given her the presence of my absence, with the longest stint of NC was 24 days. I hope I didn’t destroy everything by not being aware of NC sooner. We've been in each other's lives for 12 years. She told me in our last conversation she still believes we're soulmates, but that she's done and it's over forever now. NC is the only thing I can do. On day 4 now...
That's breadcrumbing bro.when you give them access so they can contact anytime they pleases never makes them feel of lost.i was in same situation.i keep no contact she comes back but gives me little hope so i can hold.this way they can never feel the lost.thats why i blocked her everywhere this time and told her i want to move on.hopefully she can feel that.if she doesn't i will be moved on in the end.sometimess blocking is necessary
I love coach Lee...he is an excellent coach...relationship fixer...because every time I watch him..I learn something practically new.
My ex blocked me everywhere after we broke up.. I was chasing and being a simp, so I don’t blame her. I moved to another country, and my glow up REAL 😎. One yr later she unblocked me from her personal profile (it’s private) I never messaged her… 4 days ago she unblocked me from her business profile, watched my stories then commented (a negative comment) on one of my instagram posts. I ignored it and haven’t reacted or messaged (1yr 8 months after the breakup). I know she’s trying to get a reaction from me, and wants me to message her, but I’m not going to, haven’t watched her stories or anything either. I feel like she wants to reach out but she’s being stubborn, maybe I’m wrong. Anyone has an opinion?
Why do you care? You wrote this whole paragraph about silent stalking an ex. You meant for this to be a flex, but it’s not.
After 45 days of no contact , she sent me a meme saying it reminded her of me , I am replying slowly and being nice not mentioning anything about the breakup and I am trying to take it very slow this time around , I am actually not that invested anymore after doing the no contact and focusing on myself , if it works out good if not also good … thank you coach Lee without you I would have not had back my diginity and would have probably broken no contact many times if it wasn’t for your videos …. Stick with it guys , I honestly thought after 45 days there is no hope anymore and then it happened out of the blew , stay strong everyone
My ex watches my snaps. I'm curious if she watches my other social media
just want to say a big thank you Coach Lee for sharing all this great info with us.. your advice and answers about dealing with an ex all come from a place of understanding..kindness... Well balanced... realistic and respectful..
You saying that it is ok to still have feelings with your ex is beyond refreshing... and honestly that's one of the most important messages that everyone needs to know... looked up quite a bit of content about dealing with past relationships... and mostly they always recommend cutting everything off immediately...and pushing someone to just move on...
Credit to you and your channel...
your Halloween costume WILL HAVE TO BE Obi-Wan Kenobi! Thanks for all the advice you are giving! it is really helping me!
Thankyou so much Coach Lee!! I followed your advice immediately after my ex broke up with me. Did 30 days straight no contact (begged and pleaded when he broke up with me but that was it) and he messaged for a call on day 30. Had a call was calm and pleasant. He said he wanted to take things really slow. He sounded very depressed. I said that's fine and he said he'd call me in another week. That was last night we spoke for ages he sounded a lot better and we are organising to go for a walk next week to meet after 6 weeks apart. His words to me were " ive never been so hurt over loosing something or anything in my whole life so I knew I had to try again with you".
NO CONTACT WORKED! Thankyou so much. We aren't officially together but there's loads of history and love there and both been doing individual therapy ourselves so there's a really good chance. But if I had begged and pleaded with him he never would have had that that space to get to this point.
And he wants to take it slow which is hard but I know coach Lee recommends and is smart instead of jumping right back into living together again. Thankyou so much Coach Lee xx
Why did he break up with you in the first place?
@sloanmagnum5009 we both had mental health stuff going on that we weren't dealing with and it became toxic and argumentative.
Both are now in individual therapy and going to see a relationship counsellor together to work through the issues
@Infinity2801 that great that you're both making it a priority to get professional help to better yourselves. A lot of people don't do that and end up in the same place
Been a month. Low key moving on even though I love this girl. That’s life I guess; gotta get on with mine.
What if she reaches out to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening somebody with divorce 16 times and never filing
they don't have any social media so it makes it even harder to see what they are thinking..
You don’t want to
mines literally lives in sns. has more online friends than real life and god i deleted my sns to not see her
@@vasilisvks1448 I don’t have social media either. And to be perfectly honest with you. I’m glad I don’t because it would make the break up that much harder so the fact that you don’t have social media is a blessing. Stay strong you can get through this.
me too. But that can be a good thing. You don't want to open that Pandoras Box.
Oh thats good!!! Dont ever stalk your ex after the breakup! Otherwise it puts u in a limbo of overthinking everything D:
Ty for all you do coach lee!
Thank you for your kind words.
@@RealCoachLee I really would book a session with you, but I haven’t had a great year financially on top of losing the love of my life…so unfortunately I can’t. But I have been recommending your videos to others, so keep it up
My ex brokeup with me after 14 years of relationship.
And she blok me on Facebook, but still have my number!? 🤔
I delete everything from her, because I know that she ain't contact me anymore. Sad but true. She have another guy, and he is her world.
I moved on and try to heal myself from everything. I ain't gonna beg or contact her. So NC and live my life.
Great video
Thankyou coach Lee you are the best 🙏
I think my ex is early in the curiosity stage because I've caught them watching my social media stuff and my story. It appears they infrequently did it shortly after the breakup but it's been happening more frequently about 5 weeks after the breakup. Idk if this is significant but it's given me some hope since they've been also specifically going on my page. It surprises me because they're fairly avoidant. Thank you, coach Lee.
Some people are just curious. It usually doesn't mean anything at all
It’s been 12 weeks since we broke up and I’m struggling so bad! We had a good relationship he just said he wasn’t happy anymore, we just got engaged aswel, I’m devastated 😢
Me too - exactly the same thing, i was shocked, I thought we’d have our whole lives together. It’s been a bit over 6 months since break up (we were engaged for 4) and it finally feels like something i can wholly accept
@@Marina-wi3rs we were together 6years and engaged for 8 months, came out the blue with no warning, I’m terrible at no contact, I just don’t have the will power that I need. But I’m obviously making it easier for him to stay away in the process, I feel for you it’s such a horrible situation when you lived and cared for them so much. X
I am so happy, I find your program it is in the right time for e what I needed right now I can’t thank you enough 🙏🙏🙏👍👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️
Please coach help me with this 🙏🏻
My Ex (who dumped me and have a girlfriend)
stalking my stories for SEVEN MONTHS !
He's always the first to view them !
But he never commented or talked to me.
we are in no contact since the break up.
Why he's doing this ☹️ ?
Is he interested in getting back together ?
He's curious in how your life is shaping up without him. He misses certain aspect of you. I would show the most happiest images, never any breakup innuendos. Just keep going..
@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍
I'm in a happy place in my life,
and i always post happy things.
I never show any sadness.
But for how long he will be curious?
Because I think seven months is too long
for being curious ☹️ ?
Also he doesn't post on his social media anymore.
(For about 4 months now ) He used to post alot.
So I really don't know what's going on in his life. the only thing I know he's viewing every story I post.
@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍
I'm in a happy place in my life,
and i always post happy things.
I never show any sadness.
But for how long he will be curious?
Because I think seven months is too long
for being curious ☹️ ?
Also he doesn't post on his social media anymore.
(For about 4 months now ) He used to post alot.
So I really don't know what's going on in his life. the only thing I know he's viewing every story I post.
@@ellajames2039 Thank you for replying 🤍
I'm in a happy place in my life and I always post happy things,
but for how long he will be curious ?
because I think seven months is too long for being curious ?
also he doesn't post anything on his social media anymore,
for about 4 months now (he used to post a lot).
so I really don't know what's going on in his life.
The only thing I know is he's viewing every story I post.
Ive been in no contact after getting dumped 9 months ago 9 days before Christmas almost 3 yrs together. She sent me a criptic one letter text back in June fishing for a response i guess.
Oh yes He is , He wasn’t that into Me all along
If anyone out there is going through a difficult separation, listen to Coach Lee. He knows what he’s talking about. I had a session with him this morning. He gave me some solid advice and is easy to talk to. I am a professional counselor myself and I highly recommend Coach Lee.
I'm pretty sure that she is not over me yet. We have been together 19 years, we separated in may. I have done all the wrong stuff I could and way too long, but I founded my dignity few days ago and started intelligent contact. We have two kids, dog and summer cabin so full no contact ain't option. I actually started to feel better after that. I was kinda tired to keep fighting for our family all alone. Well. I decided to give her what she wants. Life without me. Now I just keep working myself, try to be the best dad I can. If she ever wants me back. It's her turn to beg and plead. I know shes sad and stuff, but 40yo crisis or fomo seems to be pretty powerful. 😂😂😂
My ex had done the first thing with regarding keeping and carrying on connections with my friends which was more mine now I’ve just noticed she’s commenting on their pics. I know she’s doing her best to try and bait me. I’m sitting back smiling and laughing but I’m not going to break no way!
Hi Coach Lee, my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me about a month ago. We were engaged for the last 3 months of those 7 years, and in the last 2 years, we were living in different cities due to our jobs. After the engagement, we had unnecessary arguments, and I dragged them out for no reason. I wore her out and left her feeling alone. I thought she wouldn’t leave me no matter what. These arguments led to a coldness and lack of communication between us. For 3 months, we were very distant and hardly communicated. I didn’t realize it at the time, but these 3 months really took a toll on her. She grew distant from me, and her feelings for me gradually died. Eventually, she broke up with me and said she didn’t even want to stay friends. She said she didn’t feel anything for me, and if she did, we could have continued. She broke up with me on July 15th, and for a few days after, I tried calling her on video. At the end of these conversations, she told me to get out of her life. Later, on July 26th, I went to the city where she lives, and we talked face-to-face. During the conversation, she seemed like she still had some feelings, but ultimately she said the same things: “I don’t want to build a future with you, I don’t trust you, I don’t feel anything for you, I don’t love you.” We haven’t spoken since that day. I haven’t written or called her at all. On August 8th, I couldn’t resist and called her once. I told her that I saw her in my dream and wanted to check if she was okay. She said she was fine and asked how I was. I said I was fine and, not wanting to bother her, I wished her a good day and hung up. I’m not writing or calling her at all.
What I want to ask you is this: I wasn’t in her life for the last 3 months before the breakup. My absence led to this breakup. In this situation, is “no contact” reasonable? What should I do? I love her very, very much and I want to marry her.
Tell her u love her and miss her and you are leaving the door open when she’s able to rethink and want to reconcile and then don’t say anything else
She either comes or doesn’t
Coach Lee, thank you so much for everything you’ve honestly saved me massively! Ive ordered your emergency breakup kit and it’s actually a god send!
I’ve been experiencing bad baiting and breadcrumbs of my ex. She’s befriended my friend and is constantly posting them out together. FaceTiming eachother and feeling the need to put in on her story (my friend is telling me all of this) im in no contact of 38 days! Would you say she’s doing her best to try and get to me in a way? I feel like the energy has shifted and she’s clutching at straws. Still nothing official yet but would you say these are signs of baiting or breadcrumbing me?
Don't break no contact hold firm.
@@mariotibbrine1I never would bro, it’s in my dna to never contact her,
Ive levelled up too much, I’ve just tried to stay 1 step ahead and be aware of where she’s at
Thanks coach Lee for keeping me sane
My girlfriend broke up with me and I texted her once everyday for the first three days asking if we could talk and the day after I talked to her mom over text message and she ignored me but I’ve started no contact after the third day is is too late have I messed it up already I feel like I have cause she’s started removing me on social she blocked me on insta but unblocked me just isn’t following me anymore
She likes my stories, texts me gudnite once in a while but when i tried to get back at her she continues to ignore or delay her replies ..i am really confused whether she is trying to get back together or is just checking if i m still into her
Thank you for your good work, how about if your ex breaks no contact and shows so much care for you, cares about your safety wellbeing and asks about your family and how you are but don’t say anything about the relationship?
Definitely wants to connect. But do not ever accept friendship. If they're directly asking you about your family etc... let them know and then ask to meet up. No messing. Don't accept breadcrumbs either.
@@-taylor-9980 thank you
Last time I was visiting my ex, who lives out of town after he broke up, he told me that he’s not even considering me as an option, only as a friend. But he did visit me in my city last month and repeated that he only sees me as a friend
So if they says things like that, we have to believe them
My ex is looking at all my stories in social media even if its only about my business. Nothing is ever personal. What do you think it means
Keeps posting things related to me on facebook, and songs that she knows i love. But she wont reach out.. seems like she is trying to bait me in
My ex blocked me on Instagram. But I never posted anything negative in my posts and I never posted anything to make her jealous in any way. However when we were dating, I never got her mad or never got her sad. I heard that it hurts when an ex sees your face. Is that true?
My ex and I were together for a year and like 3 months we had a very good relationship , she was coming off a 27 year marriage when we first got together, she recently left me to go date some other guy, saying she never dated before being married so I guess she is in the whole experiment phase.
So I went into no contact that Monday the break was up official, she ended up unblocking and texting me on the Sunday afternoon asking if I was doing ok, I waited until Monday morning to reply with a simple alright and u response, she hasn’t said anything yet.
I’ll just continue to be in no contact, working on myself and trying to have fun.
What if your ex is asking your picture while you're not back together
Coach lee, we broke up three weeks ago, and last week, I asked her if she will wait for us together again after we graduate. She said she might. Will it really work out? Do I really still have a chance if she doesn't find another guy?
Keep an eye open for obvious shit. Thanks coach.
But even if you see none of these signs it doesn't mean all hope is lost ive heard of exes coming back years later so theres no deadline for how long to wait but also i feel that reaching out to them after 4 months is just gonna give them validation again. so you should never have to reach out to them even if you go past the 4 month line because all thats doing is helping them not to miss you after 4 months and like i said some exes come back years later so let them contact you. if they really care about you trust me they dont need reminding that you exist
I’m just leaving this comment to see if there’s any stories where someone’s ex did come back.
- how long did it take?
- did you take them back?
- if you did are you still together?
- if not, is it because you yourself decided “you know what? I’m good” or something else?
What if she reaches out to your brother to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening me with divorce 16 times and never filed. What about her still holding on to some of my stuff
What does it mean if He sends you an email with your favorite group that he bought before the break up and wants you to go enjoy them anyway? I kindly declined them.. but so confusing!
60 days of nc and still nothing :(
What about unblocking on a particular date such as an anniversary date, staying silent and then blocking a few days later? Scared? Mixed emotions? But shows intent to reach out eh? ❤
My ex reached out messaging me with a screenshot showing my friend viewing her story, asking why he is viewing them. Is that her just being pissed off, or is that an excuse to reach out?
She keeps texting me about every week and she still mad at me and just a few minutes ago messaged out of the blue telling me to not text her at all anymore but she refuses to block me. What does that mean coach?
Edit: she's also in a rebound
Just leave her alone honestly save the headace
My wife and I have been separated for a few months. At her wish, not mine. Was was screwing the janitor at her work. Recently she was dropping the kids off and glanced at my river tubes, drying in the driveway, for 1/10th of a second. No INE else would have thought anything of it but I knew exactly what she was thinking. That afternoon she texted me a bunch of angry stuff for no real reason. That night she texted my sister to ask if I went tubing with her. This is a woman who has been claiming to be free and single for 6 months, claiming she did nothing wrong by screwing her coworker while we were together. Claiming she doesn't care what I do. Having her check up on me felt good in some ways but more than anything it convinced me she is a nut job and I am better off moving on. I am very upset at what this means for my kids but no longer feel like I am losing anything.
Does no contact work if we broke up due to outside circumstances? She was 10 years younger than me and we were madly in love but her friends and parents dissapproved so eventually she said it was too much and ended it, we had a long 2 week breakup where we even met up a few times and still admitted we loved each other but suddenly one day she snapped and got really cruel and cold although she says she wants to stay friends for now, I have no idea what to do because it’s very hot and cold
Is it the same situation for me? Im the dumper. But we still had close contact, because of the sick cat. We went multiple times to the vet, until i had to put her to sleep. During this time we had also initmacy contact. I want him back, because i know it was a mistake. But he said he doesnt have feelings yet or respectively couldnt build new up because he had not enough time and only felt pressure. So we decided to go in no contact because everything is so confusing. We are in no contact now since 2 weeks. Miss him so much :(
Been in no contact for a month. I reached out today to wish her safe travels as she’s going on a trip. All she said was thank you and I replied enjoy! … I’m so confused… she watches my snap and instagram stories frequently without even having me added… idk what to do… we broke up due to her depression and we were together for 7 years. HELP PLEASE
No contact
Thanks!
So could the pet thing also be a work thing? My ex is my employer and he doesnt fire me. Even if my task in his company came to an end and there is nothing left to do for me anymore and he looks for new tasks so I would stay?
*I’m curious, If the relationship ended* Why should anyone care whether or not their ex is over them? If we had a calm, articulate, well thought out conversation and I understand, take accountability and apologize for my participation in the failure of in the relationship… there is no need to revisit that failed relationship after it ends.
I’ve never been curious enough to look up, speak to or find out anything regarding an ex in any capacity, I know they’re living their best life out there. *Breaking up with someone is never a mistake,* it’s an opportunity for growth and maturity for both people.
A lot of people don't have any conversation let alone a well thought out planned one. Many of us in here watching these videos were left with nothing but confusion and loose ends. Plus people change, circumstances change, etc... nothing in life is static
@@creatureofstyle If relationship ends without a conversation and you’re left with confusion and loose ends… that person shouldn’t be worth anyone’s mental fortitude and why should someone want back an individual of that caliber.
Everyone knows that circumstances change and so do people but that doesn’t make them entitled to your time or your companionship. Especially if their 1st instinct is to discard you and have a conversation later or never. People will always do what in their best interests, so if they don’t tell me, I chalk it up to being none of my business and not take it personal.
I’ve had women dump or ghost me then want to rekindle the relationship or complain that I didn’t fight against our relationship ending or not continue to contact once they ghost. Last I checked Casper is the only friendly ghost, I’ve never rekindled a relationship and I encourage people to not do so as well since breakups are never a mistake. The mind games and manipulation should be dealbreakers for everyone. The idea that people are using no contact to manipulate an ex while silent stalking is ___.
This is not the same for everyone keep your one sided simple minded views to yourself
@@standground7956 Some of my best relationships have happened only after rekindling. Expecting humans to get everything exactly right the first time around isn't always realistic. There are too many variables at play
Studies have shown that working through problems together, not ignoring bids for love, and forgiveness are the building blocks for the strongest relationships. All 3 of those apply to relationships that are rekindled
@legacyclan8861 People like you can’t handle articulate conversations or face to face breakups given that you’re unable to construct a meaningful sentence or thought. People likely dump you based on your overall lack of effort regarding everything (at least by a period at the end). Even your writing skills leaves a lot to be desired so we all know that communication with you is absolutely atrocious.
What if they are depressed and dump You? How is that related and affect timelines?
Hey. I am blocked everywhere however they left TikTok open, she just unfollowed me there. Is there something about this?
I messed up, she did the 1st thing reached out to a mutual friend, I got excited and and called her and we met up she was happy to see me, she cried and told me she loved me . But then she disappeared again. I texted her days after and she said she's seeing someone now. 😮😢
What about if your ex mirroring your actions or energy?
My ex literally unblocked me haven’t reach out like some post I didnt nothing act like I didn’t see it I think she not comeing back so wouldn’t it be best if I blocked her
I brougth my ex ring before she left should give it to her or no my son said i should i dont no what do you guys think
It's been 13 days and I feel the pain in my chest all the time😢
19 days i feel the same.what scares me the pain will never ease😢
@@DestinationX-yf6sc same feeling, it's been 26 days for me. Most of the day I woke up with a strong feeling of pain. He's in my dreams most of the time and in my thoughts 🥺
5 months post breakup here and not a peep from my ex during that time. I did not chase after she dumped me over text and stopped checking her socials months ago so I wouldn't know if there were any of those signs but she removed me from everything so it's not like I can even see anyway. I didn't even get any recognition from them on my birthday last month which I wasn't expecting to begin with but still stung when that was exactly what happened. I still miss my ex but still feel immense hurt about the way I'm being treated even after being brokeb up with.
Same situation
Stay no contact don't break non communication get out meet new people.
Thank you
Honestly, me and my ex wife both failed each other. She thinks I’m the villain. Fine. We failed each other. With communication, mostly her on that, but we both failed God as we’re both Christians. I’m not a mind reader. When she sent me a song to show her emotions, and said she has a connection with that band, I could have sent her a song that had meaning to me but didn’t have anything to do with “US” and when she couldn’t even talk about the feelings face to face, she monkey branched to a guy who is most certainly a several steps lesser than me, according to her own friends. She couldn’t even face me when she filed divorce. She hid in a different room and told me she filed divorce over text. To be honest, I don’t want that kind of woman back. I just want to know how to forget her and move on. Forget that emotional insecurity and low self esteem. But I’m having a hard time moving on. I don’t want her. She monkey branched to a new man. I don’t want her. I just want to forget her and move on. Why does she own a part of my mind rent free. I even have nightmares about her. I just want to let go. Why is it so hard? We were together for 18 years. It’s not easy. I hate her and love her at the same time.
Damn I have none of these :/ my ex unfriended and is in a new relationship:/ and tries to avoid me , NO HOPE FOR ME
In a weird situation I ended things with her but I instantly went back on it and tried to give ourselves the option of staying together but she wanted to stay apart so it feels like really I got broken up with but ig in a way it was mutual I feel like I’m in an awkward gray area and I can’t exactly pay for coaching calls being a college student obviously I know it hasn’t been long enough yet in NC but I’m just unsure of the position I’m in and if NC would be viable in my situation
She also talked about how it’s not worth if I’m not willing to fight for it but I clearly showed I was willing to even point blank said if I wasn’t willing to fight for us I wouldn’t be texting you
Also we were long distance
Where am I in all this?
12 days of no contact so far plus an initial week before hand till I broke and said “hey you been doing good?”
Ugh, I just cant believe my husband left me after 18 years, he just left me.he doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. Ive tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I cant stop thinking about him Im frustrated I dont see my life with anyone else. Ive done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I cant I dont know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just cant stop thinking about him
Im really sorry to hear that. I went through something similar not too long ago. My boyfriend and I broke up and I felt completely lost. I tried everything, but it just seemed hopeless. Well I ended up reaching out to this incredible spiritual adviser. He helped me in ways I never thought possible. After working with him my husband came back to me and now we are happier than ever
Really? A spiritual adviser, that sounds interesting. What did you do? How can I get in contact with him?
His name is Owen Abiola,and He's a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex.
Thank you so much! I just searched his name, and I found him, the reviews look amazing, and I m feeling hopeful now. I really believe I can get him back. I’m so happy to have found this.
What about a gap of 18 years she reached out then blocked me
If his father's birthday is a day before mine, would it be appropriate to send him a text message given the good relationship I had with his father?
It’s 50/50. You don’t gain much but you do risk looking like you are trying to get your ex’s attention.
@@RealCoachLee thank you so much for this 🙏 mean a lot to me . I love your videos
And when the dumper parents starts reaching you, what sign is it?
That can be one for sure. Be careful what you say.
If your ex also still follows you on instagram and does not remove you or block you, is that also a good sign?
Depends bro
One might say shes keeping some form of platform for future communication
Or she doesnt care
@@thanusalikhan6930 is there anyway to tell which one it is? I even asked her why don’t you just block me cause she blocked her other exes but she didn’t want to block me. I’ve been in no contact for almost 1 month now
That's called leaving a line of communication open just in case for a hoover. I'd cut the cord if it was me.
I don't do the friend thing with ex's if they wanna contact me they have to figure out a way to do it.
Let’s be honest mate if someone is truely done with you they’d just be done with you and block you wouldn’t they personally? I mean there’s only 1 reason why why they haven’t blocked you and that’s because there’s a door open
@@thanusalikhan6930I asked her after the break up why she won’t just block me if she’s sure she doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I asked because she has her last 2 exes blocked. She said it’s because she “cares about my feelings and wants to do things differently this time.” We’ve been in no contact for almost 1 month now
Coach can you make a ldr vid.
Point 2) most things she likes are things i got her into… including the sport i used to love doing
we had breakup on his birthday ,is there any chance getting back?
doesn’t have to do anything with the day :) just stay in no contact
coach lee is db cooper in disguise he gotts to pay the bills 😂😂
How about she keeps texting me I miss you and I’m thinking about you but i still don’t think it’s good that we start talking again. I always want to say well why the hell are you texting me then lol
so weird…people are so confusing.
@@johncieclark3897 She’s definitely confused . We were together for almost 6 years so I mean I miss her as well. She keeps saying she’s willing to start seeing each other again but we need more time to heal 🤷
lol... I'm blocked... can't see crap. And I'm not making a smurf account.
Does this guy ever smile? 😂😂😂😂
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What happens if they want to be friends and still have sex with you? Probably a bad thing …..huh?
What if she reaches out to find out how your mother is feeling because she's been sick. What if she blocked you but didn't block your family just unfriended them. What about threatening somebody with divorce 16 times and never filing