One thing you forgot about the Sigma is that during the silent stare in a conversation they roll through their mind what they should say to respond, and if it's worth the outcome.
I maybe used to do that at one time, but never do it anymore. It's like having something at a honed art, that no longer requires thought, plus, I think my inevitable mind-wandering should be minimal, because it's quite rude to treat your audience that way, even if it is accidental. The way I look at it, I'm alone practically 24/7 and if I just have to enter into my own world as somebody is talking to me, I'm just a dumbass. My time for reflecting on the conversation is afterwards when I can REALLY dig into it. After you've been doing that for decades, it all becomes rather automatic, though it often seems to you on the spot, that it just came out almost against your will, and yet it seems to be the perfect thing to have said. I recall two young ladies I bumped into at the grocery store within the past month, and everything I said for the circumstances, was absolutely perfect, at least from my own POV. Both cases the lady had the initiative. Actually, in a way, I took the first initiative, because I saw her standing with a clip board (and we all know what that means), so I pointed at her clipboard as I approached, and said "NO, to that". What did she do? I'm not sure she heard me, but I think she understood, and believe it or not this is what she said as I passed (damn, I always get the loonies), "What would a woodchuck chuck, if a woodchuck could chuck wood?". That's not all that happened, because I accidentally bumped into her again, and she just had to confront me again, but I'll leave it at that. Hmmm, how about the second encounter? I forgot my wallet at that same grocery store, so I left my cart with the attendant. As I was walking out, a young lady started talking to me, and she seriously proposed to PAY FOR MY BILL, just as long as I promised to pay her back (I told you I get all the loonies). I turned her down though, because driving back home was less hassle than finding a way to pay her back. I think she just might've been trying to, in the long run, give me her name, address, and phone number. Man, talk about a sneaky girl! If she were closer to my age, I might've gone along with that trap, just to check out her mind so to speak, but as I was very direct, it hadn't occurred to me at that precise moment, that it very well might've been her intention all along, and not just trying to help out.
@@AndrewFosterSheff69 Sigmas are alpha in their pack because they are usually in a pack of one, them. They do not strive to be accepted in the herd, but they do want to be able to interact with it but will not hesitate to cut all ties with that herd.
Some 30+ years ago I learned not to look at a face while I'm talking because their non-verbal cues tell me what they want to hear. I don't want to respond to that so I quit looking.
Same here. Gotta give their eyes a break. It’s intense. I’ve met other sigmas before. LOL I get the intimidation. It’s a good thing all sigmas are the good guys at their core. The more wounded, the less they appear good, but they’re still good. Can you imagine if one sigma stood up to lead them all? You give sigma a higher purpose, and they fly with it. ;)
Don't ever get proud of that. As in all things, there is a area of precision, and you find that by finding the perfect balance. For me personally, I just never know when I'll lock on a lady, assuming she's talking with me, and I deliberately look away at times, just to address that precise balance. It also depends on how pretty you are frankly, I think, so that a more attractive guy could get away with it longer, but, and this is a big but, if a sigma is alone, one of his main priorities, depending on the area, is to be aware of what's going on. If you lock on somebody, you're probably not very aware of anything else. I think the look away too infers that who you're talking to isn't that super hot, and so your mind wanders from time to time. The art of the look is a bit like breathing, you just have to give people a break from your beautiful gaze every once in a while.😂inhale-exhale
and yet you don't.... you just get sht off the internet and force it into your belief system while we real men stomp all over you..... no such thing as alpha, sigma, beta, blah blah blah.... grow a pair for god's sake
I always keep eye contact, whether the other gets uncomfortable or not. I used to think people gave me too much credit for intelligence until I realized the stupidity of others. Thought my social skills were severely deficient but this does not hold water in one on one conversations. If you are intimidated it shows the deficiencies in yourself and not others.
Very simple with me-- maintain a 3 hour conversation upon first meeting, while allowing to ask quality questions, and proffer complete answers to yours', equals friendship..otherwise it will be a range of other statuses. Done.
#3 has a very significant cultural factor. So, directness may seem strange to North Americans (or other places with so many fake people),.but not to Russians (who prefer this), for example.
All of it . Character and personality is developed through life experiences, can’t fake it even if someone wants to. One personality type is not at all superior to any other personality type- it’s just a unique life experience tailored for enhancement of your consciousness.
I have had to learn to be much more open about what I was thinking, because otherwise I would unsettle people. But I also had to learn to explain things in a way others can follow, and to not destroy their own self-worth by cutting to the heart. Still I am often surprised by how defensive some people get when they are around me, especially those who don't know me.
I learned not to gaze at people when young. Some kids in my class got very aggressive because of it. Many years later I still have the expectation of violence when I look people in the eye. But I don't need to look them in the eye continuously. I can read them also with brief glimpses, and I often see the pause it gives people when I fix them, even briefly.
I went to school with similar Neanderthals. They resort to violence so quickly because they are dull-witted. Luckily, their impact on your life is relatively short-lived, and once you are no longer forced to be trapped in the same school building with them 5 days a week, they immediately become irrelevant.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Move on bro if you know women enough you will know it was just your turn, never say you don’t see yourself with anyone else, there is plenty of fish in the sea, take a break and find someone who respect you and love you for who you are
I didn't really know what a sigma person is but I notice myself analyzing understanding patterns because I was an analyst & an ccountant as a profession.
Nope, either you're narcissistic and think people are looking at you when they're not, OR you're just fucking weird and don't realize it, and people are looking at you cause you're weird. You're not special.
Here's an odd one: I design, repair, and calibrate electronic circuits and I have a wire chart hanging on the wall. It shows gauge number, diameter, feet per pound, ohms per foot...all that kind of stuff. One woeman said the chart intimidated her. But then, that's the one who phoned me from a laughing academy with her wrists cut, so we can't use that as a learning example except for, "Learn how to spot a Bi-polar person."
I'm 5'10" 130lbs. I apparently been intimidating all my life. I have PFAs against me and never even hit my dogs. Everyone is scared by me, and I feel like I'm the sweetest most real person on earth 🤷♂️ Id call others into a room alone with a closed door. And id ask do you have a problem with me? So i dont punk them infront of others, and so they stay real and dont respond with ego and a show. 100% of the time they say no and they like me.
I have a majestic malamute. Looks like a white wolf with multi color eyes. A man walked up to me n offered $10,000 cash 💸 for Jack...i said not interested. He says, but you didn't look at the money? I said because jacks not for sale and i dont want it. Turned n walked away👍🏻
The eye contact is relative. If it’s a serious conversation eye contact should be maintained, but for instance if someone is explaining how something works, I tend to look away to visualize an order of operation or picture the inner workings, or perhaps recall something I had read pertaining to what’s being explained. Also, I am part deaf so sometimes I have to turn my good ear towards the person talking.
Some People are afraid as fuck from and im most respectful person ,but i can sense and some admid even though im pretty good looking and smily dhe get paniced somehow when they make eye contact with me
The male hierarchy with alphas at the top of the pyramid, isn't an exact science, as we sometimes fit into more than one hierarchical category. Human's can't always be pigeon-holed easily. The Myers/Briggs personality test is more accurate with 16 categories. I'm an INFJ which overlaps very much with Sigma type. In a a multiple choice questionnaire on The Good Men Project's website I scored 18/20, making me a Sigma.
Don't intend, nor try to intimidate.. but it certainly happens. Had many people tell me when I make eye contact it feels to them like I'm looking right thru their souls.... (okay, I am), but that is normal for a Sigma Heyoka Empath... it's just how Sigma Empaths are made. 😎👍
I don't think I've ever lost a staring contest. Lol Even if it's just with a friend If he's still there after a couple minutes I'll go cold...it's the blankest, most dead fish eyed stare they say they have ever seen. On the other hand I will smile and look a woman directly into her eyes and try to memorize their color whenever I speak with the fairer sex. My eyes change color too. Not sure if that's normal. From dark grey to blue to green. My ex told me they go really dark grey when I'm pissed off
dude i swear everyone mean mugs just stare straight through their eyes into their soul then continue on to your task if it's a woman dont make any facial expressions lock eyes long as possible and see what happens
many of the commentators ain't sigma but traumatised victims of groups of bullies (an alpha and his betas).... they isolated themselves from those fascists.
I've given someone the hard glance before and it scared them so much so that I heard a story about it 4 years later when I was seen at a store.It's rather hilarious to me Because I completely forgot about it
The ability to adjust to one's personality jungles. What one do not realizes we see this ability from a lion's perspective and will quickly become the lion.
I always said, I don't want my kids to love me or even to respect me. I only wanted them to survive in this world. So, that is what I got, even the kid with the brain damage can handle his life, independent.
Dont be a fool. Nowadays everyone is thinking analysing n observing things n people very much. Dont think you're an exception and a Sigma. 😅 anyone who spends his time online more is thinking n analysing things in real world.
One thing you forgot about the Sigma is that during the silent stare in a conversation they roll through their mind what they should say to respond, and if it's worth the outcome.
you got me. that's what i always does😅😅
I maybe used to do that at one time, but never do it anymore. It's like having something at a honed art, that no longer requires thought, plus, I think my inevitable mind-wandering should be minimal, because it's quite rude to treat your audience that way, even if it is accidental. The way I look at it, I'm alone practically 24/7 and if I just have to enter into my own world as somebody is talking to me, I'm just a dumbass. My time for reflecting on the conversation is afterwards when I can REALLY dig into it. After you've been doing that for decades, it all becomes rather automatic, though it often seems to you on the spot, that it just came out almost against your will, and yet it seems to be the perfect thing to have said. I recall two young ladies I bumped into at the grocery store within the past month, and everything I said for the circumstances, was absolutely perfect, at least from my own POV. Both cases the lady had the initiative.
Actually, in a way, I took the first initiative, because I saw her standing with a clip board (and we all know what that means), so I pointed at her clipboard as I approached, and said "NO, to that". What did she do? I'm not sure she heard me, but I think she understood, and believe it or not this is what she said as I passed (damn, I always get the loonies), "What would a woodchuck chuck, if a woodchuck could chuck wood?". That's not all that happened, because I accidentally bumped into her again, and she just had to confront me again, but I'll leave it at that.
Hmmm, how about the second encounter? I forgot my wallet at that same grocery store, so I left my cart with the attendant. As I was walking out, a young lady started talking to me, and she seriously proposed to PAY FOR MY BILL, just as long as I promised to pay her back (I told you I get all the loonies). I turned her down though, because driving back home was less hassle than finding a way to pay her back. I think she just might've been trying to, in the long run, give me her name, address, and phone number. Man, talk about a sneaky girl! If she were closer to my age, I might've gone along with that trap, just to check out her mind so to speak, but as I was very direct, it hadn't occurred to me at that precise moment, that it very well might've been her intention all along, and not just trying to help out.
Holy 💩! So true!
Locking eyes with the wrong person and you may find it's you that's in panic mode.
Making eye contact yes, but locking eyes is an alpha trait.
@@AndrewFosterSheff69 Sigmas are alpha in their pack because they are usually in a pack of one, them. They do not strive to be accepted in the herd, but they do want to be able to interact with it but will not hesitate to cut all ties with that herd.
I've always locked eyes with everyone. I've learned to look away just to put folks at ease. I tried smiling, but they find it creepy. Lol.
Some 30+ years ago I learned not to look at a face while I'm talking because their non-verbal cues tell me what they want to hear. I don't want to respond to that so I quit looking.
Same here. Gotta give their eyes a break. It’s intense. I’ve met other sigmas before. LOL I get the intimidation. It’s a good thing all sigmas are the good guys at their core. The more wounded, the less they appear good, but they’re still good. Can you imagine if one sigma stood up to lead them all? You give sigma a higher purpose, and they fly with it. ;)
Don't ever get proud of that. As in all things, there is a area of precision, and you find that by finding the perfect balance. For me personally, I just never know when I'll lock on a lady, assuming she's talking with me, and I deliberately look away at times, just to address that precise balance. It also depends on how pretty you are frankly, I think, so that a more attractive guy could get away with it longer, but, and this is a big but, if a sigma is alone, one of his main priorities, depending on the area, is to be aware of what's going on. If you lock on somebody, you're probably not very aware of anything else. I think the look away too infers that who you're talking to isn't that super hot, and so your mind wanders from time to time. The art of the look is a bit like breathing, you just have to give people a break from your beautiful gaze every once in a while.😂inhale-exhale
Same here. I thought something was wrong with me, my thought was “I don’t wanna be all in their face.”
I do similar videos guys ❤❤❤
It is such a joy and such a relief to have an even more complete understanding of yourself.
and yet you don't.... you just get sht off the internet and force it into your belief system while we real men stomp all over you..... no such thing as alpha, sigma, beta, blah blah blah.... grow a pair for god's sake
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I always keep eye contact, whether the other gets uncomfortable or not. I used to think people gave me too much credit for intelligence until I realized the stupidity of others. Thought my social skills were severely deficient but this does not hold water in one on one conversations. If you are intimidated it shows the deficiencies in yourself and not others.
our need to be left alone may be perceived by others as intimidation. we don't allow just anyone in.
Almost like a safe that has a passcode 😎
@@Antonio18677right
Very simple with me-- maintain a 3 hour conversation upon first meeting, while allowing to ask quality questions, and proffer complete answers to yours', equals friendship..otherwise it will be a range of other statuses. Done.
"we" That's hilarious, go home, little boy.
Introvert gang
Excellent video 👊😎👍
Glad you enjoyed it
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#3 has a very significant cultural factor. So, directness may seem strange to North Americans (or other places with so many fake people),.but not to Russians (who prefer this), for example.
Australians can be blunt too.
@@chrispbacon3042 Autralians are awesome. 🤔
@@XB10001 that is very kind of you to say.
Hold my Heineken.
But even the Dutch prefer not to be ripped to shreds ;-)
All of it .
Character and personality is developed through life experiences, can’t fake it even if someone wants to.
One personality type is not at all superior to any other personality type- it’s just a unique life experience tailored for enhancement of your consciousness.
#2 is so strong, that I find it baffling when you see others fall for that. It's incomprehensible to me.
I have had to learn to be much more open about what I was thinking, because otherwise I would unsettle people.
But I also had to learn to explain things in a way others can follow, and to not destroy their own self-worth by cutting to the heart. Still I am often surprised by how defensive some people get when they are around me, especially those who don't know me.
You and the Sigma male guys don't unsettle people, you're just fucking weird.
I learned not to gaze at people when young. Some kids in my class got very aggressive because of it. Many years later I still have the expectation of violence when I look people in the eye. But I don't need to look them in the eye continuously. I can read them also with brief glimpses, and I often see the pause it gives people when I fix them, even briefly.
I went to school with similar Neanderthals. They resort to violence so quickly because they are dull-witted. Luckily, their impact on your life is relatively short-lived, and once you are no longer forced to be trapped in the same school building with them 5 days a week, they immediately become irrelevant.
You really need to touch grass and experience reality.
Were your classmates Chimpanzees?
@@googlename3859 Dude just accidentally outed that he was in special ed by trying to seem badass.
Locking eyes with someone is ok but, ive learned to look away thoughtfully, not too long...or a a small nod..
I hate being the one to look away first.
Great video. #5
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Man up bro. Get another chick
Move on bro if you know women enough you will know it was just your turn, never say you don’t see yourself with anyone else, there is plenty of fish in the sea, take a break and find someone who respect you and love you for who you are
Go listen to the U.G.K. song ( I left it wet for you)
Interesting. Who is this counselor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive
Excellent video brother 💯
I do similar videos
I didn't really know what a sigma person is but I notice myself analyzing understanding patterns because I was an analyst & an ccountant as a profession.
Everything you mentioned here applies to my life thanks
The most common theme throughout this description.... Integrity.
I'm super nice and smile all the time, but sometimes ppl look at me like I'm something evil, like they can see my shadow.
Nope, either you're narcissistic and think people are looking at you when they're not, OR you're just fucking weird and don't realize it, and people are looking at you cause you're weird. You're not special.
They can feel your embrace of the darkness the balance within you
Here's an odd one: I design, repair, and calibrate electronic circuits and I have a wire chart hanging on the wall. It shows gauge number, diameter, feet per pound, ohms per foot...all that kind of stuff. One woeman said the chart intimidated her. But then, that's the one who phoned me from a laughing academy with her wrists cut, so we can't use that as a learning example except for, "Learn how to spot a Bi-polar person."
BOYO! Glad you dodged THAT bullet!
"Laughing academy"? lol Love that name.
I'm 5'10" 130lbs. I apparently been intimidating all my life. I have PFAs against me and never even hit my dogs. Everyone is scared by me, and I feel like I'm the sweetest most real person on earth 🤷♂️ Id call others into a room alone with a closed door. And id ask do you have a problem with me? So i dont punk them infront of others, and so they stay real and dont respond with ego and a show. 100% of the time they say no and they like me.
This explains a lot. 😔
Everything that was said applies to me but I always knew this but just recently found out the term of what I was. And I’m a empath
Excellent 👏👏👍
I’ve found that I look ppl in there eyes but look away when they say something uninteresting then look when they say something interesting
I have a majestic malamute. Looks like a white wolf with multi color eyes. A man walked up to me n offered $10,000 cash 💸 for Jack...i said not interested. He says, but you didn't look at the money? I said because jacks not for sale and i dont want it. Turned n walked away👍🏻
Nobody can understand a person who is completely comfortable being alone.
Excellent
3:40 We sure do., unfiltered is a good way to describe it
very accurate.
For reall man ❤❤❤
Present 😊
As always! Thanks!
That why they did it.. they were intimidated for many years and many places.
Wow you just scratched the surface
That's my biggest problem- looking at someone too long- they think i'm trying to itimidate them!
Real sigma are rare, most people are not sigma even if claim to be.
How does one even know? I consider myself this
I find that I enjoy solitude more than being around people. I'm definitely a sigma
You need to explain your remark
@@DavidBanham-s3m A real sigma doesn't require any external validation from strangers.
9:27 the bug on the neck
If you read The Love Hypothesis, Adam Carlsen is the archetype of the Sigma male.
The eye contact is relative. If it’s a serious conversation eye contact should be maintained, but for instance if someone is explaining how something works, I tend to look away to visualize an order of operation or picture the inner workings, or perhaps recall something I had read pertaining to what’s being explained. Also, I am part deaf so sometimes I have to turn my good ear towards the person talking.
Me too! My left ear. Also, being Latin, I try not to look very long in people’s eyes since I always saw it as a challenge.
@@joesanchez8297Can you use bigger writing please ? I can't hear you.
Them: what is he thinking?
Me: should I buy that Frieren anime shirt or wait until cyber Monday?
Some People are afraid as fuck from and im most respectful person ,but i can sense and some admid even though im pretty good looking and smily dhe get paniced somehow when they make eye contact with me
We are not lonly We are alone and We like it.
Among which MBTI personality types can be most sigma males found?
Every person I know tell me that when they first met me, they were afraid of me.
Locking eyes is the norm in animal life. The Sigma will decipher friend or foe instantly. Where it goes from that first eye contact, well
The male hierarchy with alphas at the top of the pyramid, isn't an exact science, as we sometimes fit into more than one hierarchical category. Human's can't always be pigeon-holed easily. The Myers/Briggs personality test is more accurate with 16 categories. I'm an INFJ which overlaps very much with Sigma type. In a a multiple choice questionnaire on The Good Men Project's website I scored 18/20, making me a Sigma.
I guess im in the sigma category. All these signs match me 100%
Don't intend, nor try to intimidate.. but it certainly happens. Had many people tell me when I make eye contact it feels to them like I'm looking right thru their souls.... (okay, I am), but that is normal for a Sigma Heyoka Empath... it's just how Sigma Empaths are made. 😎👍
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Imagine a room with 50 sigmas
It's when I'm in a room with 50 non-sigmas that I feel that I can lose mind.
Its a silent room
Good luck fellas!!
Bro, i hope i aint creeping out anyone with my stare.
"Yup"
Everybody gets influenced.
We are all human with flaws!
This explains why I remains single. 😅
I'M A SIGMA MALE.
Ironic cos a sigma doesn't go around telling everyone.
@@AndrewFosterSheff69Exactly!
Sure you are...Now go back to mother for your milk n cookies.
No your not.
You're limp noodle.
But left out the narrative that you need to be experienced as a sigma male only Come in the the awareness and Age , I'm a Sig + Virgo
You're personality, is something you are from birth, you don't grow into a sigma, you ether are, or not right from your birth.
I taste poison! This is how legends are made
Hahaha am sigma u are right bro
"In a world....."
This sounds like me
im def an Alpha and prefer it
Silence is my kung-fu and I'm black belt
I don't think I've ever lost a staring contest. Lol
Even if it's just with a friend If he's still there after a couple minutes I'll go cold...it's the blankest, most dead fish eyed stare they say they have ever seen.
On the other hand I will smile and look a woman directly into her eyes and try to memorize their color whenever I speak with the fairer sex.
My eyes change color too. Not sure if that's normal.
From dark grey to blue to green. My ex told me they go really dark grey when I'm pissed off
Irk, I'm like that cartoon dragon who can't quite blow fire out of his nose. Irk. I haven't been able to intimate yet.
Or you are very good at it🤔🤺
dude i swear everyone mean mugs just stare straight through their eyes into their soul then continue on to your task if it's a woman dont make any facial expressions lock eyes long as possible and see what happens
I personally like looking at them like I know their dirty little secret...
... and it disgusts me to the core.
Yeah but i dont recognize any of them around me😂😂😂😂😂😂
We are just surrounded by rich kids trolls lol!!!!And see now in 2024😂😂😂😂😂😂
I wish they should understand me
Me as a sigma I can be manipulated by true love from the women
Her soul energy can manipulate me easily .
And for that she her heart has to be connected to God to manipulate a sigma
hahaha yup a sight for sore eye the most likely to be hated and blamed because it's convenient for the agressor to say or do so
many of the commentators ain't sigma but traumatised victims of groups of bullies (an alpha and his betas).... they isolated themselves from those fascists.
I've given someone the hard glance before and it scared them so much so that I heard a story about it 4 years later when I was seen at a store.It's rather hilarious to me Because I completely forgot about it
By literally doing nothing and minding your own damned business.
a real sigma wont be watching this kind of vid LMFAO
Left out, says this southpaw.
Out c-u-n-t the ?
Can't Understand Normal Thinking.
I'm stoic/gnostic never push never pull just laught when i see ignorance..
Check out prison break its about a sigma and how he deals with life look deep guys 😆
The ability to adjust to one's personality jungles. What one do not realizes we see this ability from a lion's perspective and will quickly become the lion.
nah your more off a delta or gamma hahaha Everyone thinks they are a Sigma or Alpha lol
Seems as if most of them are drinkers
Lmao
I always said, I don't want my kids to love me or even to respect me. I only wanted them to survive in this world. So, that is what I got, even the kid with the brain damage can handle his life, independent.
A sigma could never intimidate not even a mouse :)))
Let me guess. All of you who have watched this will claim that you are Sigmas. 😅 I bet that all of you NEEDED this so called "validation".
The same reason you are here then...
Dont be a fool. Nowadays everyone is thinking analysing n observing things n people very much. Dont think you're an exception and a Sigma. 😅 anyone who spends his time online more is thinking n analysing things in real world.
One sigma role, I went for date she arrived 20 mins late, she texted me where I am? I was already driving home, till today she never understood why
Did you ever find out why she was late
@@redonebig88 Did you?
@@Bruce-z6m No but she lives five minutes from that cafe that she chose and I live in town that is 35 mins driving away from the location
@@Helm-w1q yep and I decided never go for a dates