I speak from experience when I say this is true. Sigma's are not born. They are made. Being Sigma is not something to be proud of. It is a fucking damn hard and lonely life that only few people can handle.
@@rastus666 What about losing all family and friend because one chooses to stick to the truth. Every time when I see or hear something about Sigma's, it is about a relationships. Never is there anything about family. However, disrespect is universal. Also within family. Withot family and friends, life is lonely and useless. No matter what one does or how one fills it's life. However, I have a goal that I work on. I will reach that goal. I stopped to care about anybody around me. I do not hate or dislike anybody. They choose to disrespect, I choose to move on. No hard feelings. It is sad that it has come to this but I choose my own sanity over being some ones lap dog even if this means to be without family and friends.
This is one of the best videos on the Sigma I´ve seen. Very impressive. Most children are consumed, so to speak, in such trials. The Sigma is the champion that survives.
My father worked and was unsocial with all of us! My mom never worked- smoked cigarettes- talked on the phone and sat in a chair! My sister was a fat lazy slob that craved attention! All I could do was be myself and better myself!
"or a partner using tears to control them". -- an emotionally manipulative woman that I was dating suddenly broke out in tears when told that I would not go along with whatever she wanted (I don't remember what the issue was) and started crying as if her feelings had been severely hurt. This was having an effect on me but I didn't see the issue warranting tears. Suddenly after about 12-15 seconds the tears, just as suddenly as they had started, stopped and she raised up both hands and said, "it always worked before". Lesson learned. Emotional blackmail reveals a toxic relationship on the horizon.
I think this is the best explanation of what a Sigma male is that I have heard. To a certain extent I think that there are things about a Sigma male that resonates with me to a limited extent. I can’t say that I grew up in a toxic environment like the ones described here; nevertheless, I know that there were things in it that adversely affected me and the way I behaved when I grew up. This video has given me more insight!
Dear Gents Grove , I think this may be the last video of Sigma.You have decoded Sigma's pattern of character fully with this one video.Great Job.Have a happy New Year Everybody.
To this day, I have no idea how I came across this channel and its content. But the accuracy in the mannerisms, temperaments, personality traits, ect are dead on in describing myself. This content has, without a doubt, helped me to understand who I am. It's liberating and fascinating at the same time.
I was 8 years old when I learned this Lol now I understand why I resonated so strongly with all those sigma male videos that I've watched over the years this one video sums up who I am and believe in the things that I do. outstanding video!!!😊
Being born in a troubled family definitely doesn't make you an independent and thriving human, adjusting and shaping your skills maybe but based in my personal experience I knew from the very beginning that to survive you adapt but to become a sigma it takes way more than that, the final touch is to learn to adapt to any circumstances in order to take advantage of them, my sincere admiration for your input in these new way to explain who and why we are so rare.
My family wasn't THIS bad as a whole! Just a few bad apples spoiled the barrel; most had good intentions, but went the wrong way about helping me; they took it personally when I rejected their help or advice; and other things described here! I didn't cut my family off completely; but I moved across the country and put some miles between them and me! I visit as much as I can; but forget about getting me to move back!
Great content, the writer must be a sigma, whoever you are keep writing, you have great insight on the psychological profile, of people who hone these attributes. Don't stop writing! You have a gift of eloquence, and proper terminology, that people really need, people have been made by the system, so biochemically imbalanced, they cannot promote rational thought, And thank you for your content and service, you continue to crush it!
Unfortunately, relationships are complicated. The truth is that everyone needs you as long as you meet and satisfy their needs. Empathetic people are seen as weak, tools to be used and manipulated. Leaving you in pain and feeling worthless. They say that it's always those you've loved and trusted who end up hurting you the most. We learn to become independent and self-reliant but it's not out of choice but necessity. We want to be loved and respected for who we are, that is our quest. Ultimately, we find, that the only one who can give us the respect and validation we need is ourselves. We learn to forgive the weaknesses and errors of others and with God's help we forge our own path.
Story of my life. Until recently I didn't know I was of a type with similar upbringing and life challenges. Also,I appreciate what my life lessons have forged me into as a person and a leader!
I realized this in full swing tonight about my family. I asked them to help me hold the heat gun while I push down the tint on my car my brother held the heat gun for about 15 minutes and b**** the whole time he did. It stated he had to go to the bathroom and the next time he came out jumped in an Uber and left and my mom and dad just walked by and said no we're not helping you. So I finished tinting part of my car at about 12:00 a.m.
I always thought I was Adopted being the youngest of 8 children and seeing my brothers and sisters back stabbing and saying nasty words to each other, my Parents invested all their knowledge and kindness into the family only to be rejected when they became ill or were dieing. I have always been alone in my thoughts and actions and never received approval of anything i have done or said by my Brothers and Sisters. Now i am the youngest of 3 without children of my own or married and poor in money. The 2 that are left are millionaires who keep their money to themselves and i couldn't care less.
You are so rite I have been abused verbal phisicaly,spiritualy ,gaslite and they got busted using my idenification well i was on a 1099 sting operation trying to ruin my persona and life so sad😢 and inheratance is gone just like them i was dropped like a good habit. I hope they never come by .
My mothergot a boyfriend fir seconds timesi immediately know this guy is bad and stay away from him ,a few day after these two broke up after conflicting ,exchanging bad word ,i saw it coming.
My family was never toxic, but together we went through hell. I am a lone wolf as I walk alone with only my shadow my only loyal friend. I try all the time to get family members to join me in following the Truth but I am yet to get anywhere with anyone. So I am not talking the vast majority of my life and this is because people just don't want to engage with myself. I am not thick I am just quiet cause I talk less than most.
I wrote this a while back, it popped up as being liked. Then this video popped up. WTF. I agree with Empaths, such as myself, being slaves to the divine. I called myself a walking confession booth. But I do think we do soak up all the drama like sponges. We are the fixers of the world, and it isn’t wrong with that. Just like an Angel on missions commanded by the higher-ups, maybe even God directly. However, we are built and equipped for this. That's why we are born into toxic families. Born out of chaos to create order. I don’t get why I chose to be here, though. However, narcissistic people are never fixed, they are always broken. We just get front seats to what is actually wrong with mankind. Usually, it's selfishness. We are not punished. We receive instant karma, that way it won’t linger..
This guy just made a direct hit wow damn that's all I have to say brings memories as I speak now glad something good came from my childhood and adolescent years I'm seriously Speechless
Man this hits hard. Orphaned, foster care, adopted, parental divorce, personal divorce. Now successful businessman.
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respect! i hope i get there
@@Science-Vlog You will
Blessings 🙏❤to you and who are reading this too 😊
@@mak529 thanks for having me!🫡🫡🫡
"Love without respect is not love at all." True statement!
Sir, I precieve you are a wise man
"Sigmas are not born, they are forged" ❤
Absolutely, when they beat me, they didn't know they were beating steel and in turn fashioning a steel sword to defeat them with
It's both, you have to have both the genetic makeup and at the same time, a background where you've had to battle.
They are born with the sigma traits
Sigma = Born in the battlefield.
I can relate to that.
Born into actual hell, this is complete damnation! Lol!
Probably one of the best descriptions about us Sigmas I’ve ever watched. You nailed this one.
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I absolutely agree
Three rules of the toxic family: Don't feel. Don't need. Don't ask.
Facts 💯🫡🫡
@@GentsGrove I learned those rules from people who are a lot smarter than I am.
@@chuck8094wow l think also am to take em
and refuse to swallow baits you get "for free"! They are poisoned.
I speak from experience when I say this is true.
Sigma's are not born. They are made.
Being Sigma is not something to be proud of. It is a fucking damn hard and lonely life that only few people can handle.
Being alone does not make a sigma lonely. A true sigma doesn’t find it hard to be himself/herself, and does take pride in not following the herd.
True. I up-voted the comment for the cathartic release. Sometimes a "shake it off" just feels good. Cheers.
@@rastus666 What about losing all family and friend because one chooses to stick to the truth.
Every time when I see or hear something about Sigma's, it is about a relationships.
Never is there anything about family.
However, disrespect is universal. Also within family.
Withot family and friends, life is lonely and useless. No matter what one does or how one fills it's life.
However, I have a goal that I work on. I will reach that goal. I stopped to care about anybody around me. I do not hate or dislike anybody.
They choose to disrespect, I choose to move on. No hard feelings. It is sad that it has come to this but I choose my own sanity over being some ones lap dog even if this means to be without family and friends.
@@Ctrl_Del_0 If life is lonely without friends and family, you may not be a sigma. Toxic people, regardless of relationship, are best avoided.
Very true, a F**king awful, lonely and painful life. The life of jealousies, hate, envy, constant fighting, humiliation, lack, narcissism etc
Wow this really resonates with me.
"I was given a box of darkness and that to was a gift" 👍🏾
It's almost baffling on how true this is...We are the ultimate survivors here.
Does anybody else remember when this was called intj
Dude, I watched a few videos on your channel, and I'm really worried about how many details about my life you know with out knowing me personally.
Welcome to the club
Same here, as a girl I experienced the same.
The videos are not about you. A sigma male wouldn't be worried. You will be fine. Peace.
@@World-Leader-UK you're funny
@@alex_shevtsov I will take the compliment. Peace.
This is one of the best videos on the Sigma I´ve seen. Very impressive. Most children are consumed, so to speak, in such trials. The Sigma is the champion that survives.
My own mother is a master manipulator.
Been to court a couple of times😂😂
I'm with you.
Narcs create sigmas
mine too but i cut the relationship
Judge Judy is watched daily since General Hospital and Young & The Restless!
I stayed in court 🤣🤣🤣
To be honest, it's hard to own it, but everything said is big facts
My father worked and was unsocial with all of us! My mom never worked- smoked cigarettes- talked on the phone and sat in a chair! My sister was a fat lazy slob that craved attention! All I could do was be myself and better myself!
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"or a partner using tears to control them". -- an emotionally manipulative woman that I was dating suddenly broke out in tears when told that I would not go along with whatever she wanted (I don't remember what the issue was) and started crying as if her feelings had been severely hurt. This was having an effect on me but I didn't see the issue warranting tears. Suddenly after about 12-15 seconds the tears, just as suddenly as they had started, stopped and she raised up both hands and said, "it always worked before". Lesson learned. Emotional blackmail reveals a toxic relationship on the horizon.
I've outgrown my entire family. I'm crying out for my Soul Tribe like a Secada insect in a tree crying for rain during a drought.
Thanks, I am my power. 27 marathons, life is mine.own it brothers
I think this is the best explanation of what a Sigma male is that I have heard.
To a certain extent I think that there are things about a Sigma male that resonates with me to a limited extent. I can’t say that I grew up in a toxic environment like the ones described here; nevertheless, I know that there were things in it that adversely affected me and the way I behaved when I grew up. This video has given me more insight!
Glad this video was helpful 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡
Had me in tears , once again .
Absolutely spot on .....
It's refreshing for me to see something as if someone is explaining about me.
Good lord is this 100% accurate.
Dear Gents Grove , I think this may be the last video of Sigma.You have decoded Sigma's pattern of character fully with this one video.Great Job.Have a happy New Year Everybody.
Thanks man 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡🫡🫡
To this day, I have no idea how I came across this channel and its content. But the accuracy in the mannerisms, temperaments, personality traits, ect are dead on in describing myself. This content has, without a doubt, helped me to understand who I am. It's liberating and fascinating at the same time.
Hi Benny,
Nice to to have you here🫡🫡🫡
Thank you for this video, it's nice to know I'm not alone.
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Sigmas aren't born into a toxic family, the toxic family creates the sigma.
Took a while but now understand who and why I am 👏👏👏 keep up the work
I was 8 years old when I learned this Lol now I understand why I resonated so strongly with all those sigma male videos that I've watched over the years this one video sums up who I am and believe in the things that I do. outstanding video!!!😊
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To the T. Thank you friend.
Being born in a troubled family definitely doesn't make you an independent and thriving human, adjusting and shaping your skills maybe but based in my personal experience I knew from the very beginning that to survive you adapt but to become a sigma it takes way more than that, the final touch is to learn to adapt to any circumstances in order to take advantage of them, my sincere admiration for your input in these new way to explain who and why we are so rare.
Absolutely Nailed This! Well done!
brother u described my life and my internal dialogue so perfectly that u had me crying at 50 seconds
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So 💯🇺🇸🍻🦅🏦 happy new year to all who see this and many blessings!
U are not sigma. Spotted
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@@garryonlylogic7598 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂🥳
Damn. I do believe that God was molding me. My faith in God and my belief in his plan for my life, is the only thing that kept me going as a kid.
Your not a sigma
My family wasn't THIS bad as a whole! Just a few bad apples spoiled the barrel; most had good intentions, but went the wrong way about helping me; they took it personally when I rejected their help or advice; and other things described here! I didn't cut my family off completely; but I moved across the country and put some miles between them and me! I visit as much as I can; but forget about getting me to move back!
We all have different experiences.. As long as you keep in touch with them and you have your peace of mind 👌👌👌🫡
Great content, the writer must be a sigma, whoever you are keep writing, you have great insight on the psychological profile, of people who hone these attributes. Don't stop writing! You have a gift of eloquence, and proper terminology, that people really need, people have been made by the system, so biochemically imbalanced, they cannot promote rational thought, And thank you for your content and service, you continue to crush it!
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Unfortunately, relationships are complicated. The truth is that everyone needs you as long as you meet and satisfy their needs.
Empathetic people are seen as weak, tools to be used and manipulated. Leaving you in pain and feeling worthless.
They say that it's always those you've loved and trusted who end up hurting you the most. We learn to become independent and self-reliant but it's not out of choice but necessity.
We want to be loved and respected for who we are, that is our quest. Ultimately, we find, that the only one who can give us the respect and validation we need is ourselves.
We learn to forgive the weaknesses and errors of others and with God's help we forge our own path.
boom again! Spot on- point after point, word after word! How do you do that?
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Story of my life. Until recently I didn't know I was of a type with similar upbringing and life challenges. Also,I appreciate what my life lessons have forged me into as a person and a leader!
Thanks man.
God bless.
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Since l came to this channel
I found where l belong and who l was 💯✨👌
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Thank you for this quality content.
Absolute spot on
I realized this in full swing tonight about my family. I asked them to help me hold the heat gun while I push down the tint on my car my brother held the heat gun for about 15 minutes and b**** the whole time he did. It stated he had to go to the bathroom and the next time he came out jumped in an Uber and left and my mom and dad just walked by and said no we're not helping you. So I finished tinting part of my car at about 12:00 a.m.
A bitter chapter in my life a nasty nest of betrayers full of envy.
I always thought I was Adopted being the youngest of 8 children and seeing my brothers and sisters back stabbing and saying nasty words to each other, my Parents invested all their knowledge and kindness into the family only to be rejected when they became ill or were dieing. I have always been alone in my thoughts and actions and never received approval of anything i have done or said by my Brothers and Sisters. Now i am the youngest of 3 without children of my own or married and poor in money. The 2 that are left are millionaires who keep their money to themselves and i couldn't care less.
You are so rite I have been abused verbal phisicaly,spiritualy ,gaslite and they got busted using my idenification well i was on a 1099 sting operation trying to ruin my persona and life so sad😢 and inheratance is gone just like them i was dropped like a good habit. I hope they never come by .
Stay strong and positive man.. 🫡🫡👌
I can't tell you how true this is 🤦🏻♂️
Well done!
💯 on point!
My mothergot a boyfriend fir seconds timesi immediately know this guy is bad and stay away from him ,a few day after these two broke up after conflicting ,exchanging bad word ,i saw it coming.
Amazing!
It was the survival strategy build from a young age surrounded by narcissistic family members
👆 This
So true....
My family was never toxic, but together we went through hell. I am a lone wolf as I walk alone with only my shadow my only loyal friend. I try all the time to get family members to join me in following the Truth but I am yet to get anywhere with anyone. So I am not talking the vast majority of my life and this is because people just don't want to engage with myself. I am not thick I am just quiet cause I talk less than most.
Battle Forged. Admiral Nimitz embodied these characteristics!!
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Well said 🔥🔥🔥
PERFECT SAID . 🙏🏾👍🏾
This video is a masterpiece!
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Wow. This is me? Extreme freedom seeker/lover.
Persobal freedom, freedom is love
Yes i did grow up in a very very toxic family
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Great explanation of the strength of sigmas.
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I will forgived but not forget to avoid, it happens again.
Story of my life 😅
wow
On point
No pain, no gain
Excellent 😂
What just happened 😳 💪 🐺
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I wrote this a while back, it popped up as being liked. Then this video popped up. WTF.
I agree with Empaths, such as myself, being slaves to the divine. I called myself a walking confession booth. But I do think we do soak up all the drama like sponges. We are the fixers of the world, and it isn’t wrong with that. Just like an Angel on missions commanded by the higher-ups, maybe even God directly. However, we are built and equipped for this. That's why we are born into toxic families. Born out of chaos to create order. I don’t get why I chose to be here, though. However, narcissistic people are never fixed, they are always broken. We just get front seats to what is actually wrong with mankind. Usually, it's selfishness. We are not punished. We receive instant karma, that way it won’t linger..
I love it
And my parents said I would never amount to anything....... proved them wrong!!
They saw thru 'covid' too
Yes, I had a toxic family.
Dam this is good
Interestingly, despite being born in a healthy family, going against peer pressure filled the gap of character development.
Biggest advantage hey… maybe it seemed that way but no it catches up hard. I was forged in a furnace so don’t try tell me different!
Sigma its a masterpiece created once in life time which it's uniqueness lasts for centuries and stories told
Born with the survival instinct
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I never forgive just dump the baggage, and recognize their demons. After sufficient time it doesn't cost me anything to be nice.
I am sigma Male
1000%
This guy just made a direct hit wow damn that's all I have to say brings memories as I speak now glad something good came from my childhood and adolescent years I'm seriously Speechless
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The toxicity I experienced was not from my family: quite the opposite. It was school what did it.
YEP
So...as a Sigma male should I purposefully create a toxic environment so that my children develop into independent, self motivated sigma males?
This video makes you wonder what percentage of sigma males were products of families marred by alcoholism.
Wow bullseye
Number 10:
Barber 😮
I ain't got no rooths.
makes us free
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most important sigma males dont give money
Toxic families probably create sigmas.
lol they are born with the sigma genetics . You will find toxic in every family.
lol me
Most graphics here show a female not a male!
This is my boyfriend 100%.
Toxic families or a toxic society and culture of lies???
I don't totally agree with this.