ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- Hey there! If you’re looking to up your attractiveness game, check out this video on 5 habits that can instantly make you more appealing. We’re talking about easy tips and tricks to help you look and feel your best. Whether you're wondering how to be more attractive or just want some fresh habits to try, our video has got you covered. Let’s dive in and boost that charm together!
#attractive #dating
Researcher/Writer: Sara Del Villar
Editor: Brie Villanueva
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over:Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Naphia
Project Manager: Cindy Cheong
DISCLAIMER: This article is purely for entertainment purposes. Attractiveness or beauty are standards that are subjective and subject to change. Everyone has their own charms and beauty. We are not stating anyone is attractive or unattractive.
Bustle: 9 weird habits that people find attractive by Carina Wolff. Oct 27, 2016. Web.
Psych2Go: 10 Surprising Habits which make you more attractive by Jade Hamilton. Oct 16, 2020. Web:
Medium: 4 Habits You Can Use to Make you More Attractive to others by Dayana Sabatin. Jan 17, 2021. Web:
Imagine Health: The Psychology of First Impressions by Alannagh Kelly. Oct 3, 2017. Web:
Psychology Today: First Impressions definition by Psychology Today Staff. 2022. Web:
![🎤 ไปกันต่อออ! จับฉลากร้องเพลง x P’ #XXSIVK [EP.2] (1/2) เพลงของใครจึ้งสุดน้าา 💓🎤 #MXFRUIT](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/mLI_K0sAS4o/mqdefault.jpg)
How's everyone doing so far?
I'm doing alright being a loner it's honestly fun
Good 😊 keep up ur good work 💯💪🏽
Today was a bad day, but it's better than the bad days a month ago. I won't let this speed bump kick me off the road I'm on.
Eatin cookiesss ✨
i think about ending it everyday if i could. i want to die but i wanna live yknow
0:38 1. Learn to Tell Stories
1:22 2. Truly Listen to People
2:22 3. Self Love
3:18 4. Be More Open
4:06 5. Develop Interpersonal Skills
I CAN MARK THIS OFF MY BUCKET LIST. Lowkey wanted to be a time stamp person for at least one video for this channel 😭
Thank you for the stamps 🫂
Good work, someone was about to do it before you, I told them you did it first lol
@@binayveersandhu1688it is thanks to you that I can die happy now 😩 lol
Good job buddy
Congrats on crossing it off man.
Me instantly clicking on this video knowing damn well I don’t go outside or socialize 😂
Me instantly clicking on the vid because Monika is on the thumbnail
@@NobodySeesMeShe was
@@d4ni3415 just realised. God damnnit
Lol
Same
These people understand our brains a bit too well, instantly clicking when seeing DDLC
Maybe THAT'S why my videos don't get views. I may have a plan. >:)
But people don't know me for that, so... :c
@@TheBuilderPro2024 keep grinding at it
You will reach stardom hopefully 🙏
@@TheBuilderPro2024slap Monika on a thumbnail and i will click
Same
Boost attractiveness then gets weirded out when people hit on you. 👏 👏 👏
I hate how true this is
I wouldn't even be able to tell if someone was hitting on me.
@@YesIHaveManyProblemsThanks Relatable. 😭 I always think "yeaahhh.... she's definitely just being friendly" to the most obvious flirting-
@@AbsoluteSolver_98.7 To my knowledge no one has ever flirted with me but I could be very wrong. My rule of thumb is if that person is a service provider looking for a tip they are 100% just being nice.
Telling stories is powerful, probably the most powerful one in the list. I know this girl that isn't attractive at first sight, but when you get a chance to talk with her, she will tell you her life stories you didn't ask for, but you end up listening anyway because there's quite a charm on how she talks. So, she is probably a combination of a good storyteller and good interpersonal skills.
Listening seems like a big advantage for introverts. We take it all in and the gears start turning to formulate a decent if not satisfactory response.
That’s probably how I ended up being friends with a few extroverts.
Now if only this worked for me relationship wise….
I'm just too slow for that, many time it take hour for me to understand thinks, and for real, many time I totally focus on something else and stuff pop in my head like the "ding" from a microwave about past event.
Listening is a great quality to have, but it dose not make you attractive. It comes into play much later
What about introvert vs introvert? Both are willing to listen, neither is willing to speak...
Not the valentine Monika 😭
Huhh where 😓
@@Anja-huhthumbnail innit?
Just Monika :3
@@binayveersandhu1688🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️ 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 THUMBNAIL INNIT???? 🗣️ 🗣️ 🔥 🔥 🔥 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧💂♂️💂♂️💂♂️💂♂️💂♂️🍵🍵🍵🍵🍵🫖🫖🫖🫖
It’s at 2:12
Anyone else notice Monika from DDLC in the thumbnail🤔?
Awesome vid btw👍
DDLC* for everyone else!
I did lol
For a possible part 2, I have a suggestion. This both goes for what I find attractive in others, and what others have found attractive in me. Authenticity. When someone is truly authentically themselves, you can feel that, and it has this magnetic quality, at least that's how I feel. In contrast, I'm sure we've all met someone who just feels fake or we can tell is putting on a front. And for me, its the opposite of magnetic, it repels me. So really, it goes back to the age old wisdom of "just be yourself". And being fully myself has been great for my mental health too.
clicked immediately once i saw falin on the thumbnail
I saw Kabru 😳
yesssss!! and laios too 😭
Ok guys I'm super early here so I'll do it for ya
0:34 Learn to tell stories
1:22 What large listening ears you have (aka active listening)
2:21 Self love is hot
3:16 Be more open
4:08 Don't be Chandler Bing (Develop interpersonal skills)
(Bonus) 4:55 Be your most authentic self
Somebody already did it lol
@@binayveersandhu1688 I just saw xD they beat me to it by 1 minute, outsanding xD
@@binayveersandhu1688they did better than me highkey LOL
I’m only myself when with my friends and I don’t open up to them because I don’t want them to look at me differently
@@binayveersandhu1688 shut up
just by looking at the thumbnail I KNEW IT WAS NAPHIA!!!! LOVE HER ART SM :3333
1.Learn to tell story, Book How To Tell A Story
2.What large listening ears you have! Learn to be a good listener
3. Self Love is Hot. Take really good care of yourself
4. Be More Open, to the new things, to new experiences
5. Don’t to candler Bing. Develop interpersonal Skills
Communication, Empathy, ..
6. Be Your Most Authentic Self.
I was told and learned somewhere that the more you polish and improve your inner-self, the more attractive you are on the outside. However I have experienced that if you don't work on rounding yourself out, it makes the efforts in vain.
0:11 i mean im not...this just showed up on my recommendations so i clicked
Same tho
For me. The best way is just being yourself and do things that you're truly confident about
The way I could tell it was Laios at 0:53 from the drawings haha
1- I’m good at telling stories.
2- I hear what I want XD. But I can listen good too. Lol-
3- I need work on that… But I do take care of my physical.
4- I try to be. Though I dislike change. But I prefer forgetting the past.
5- I have some, and I like to be able to rely on someone else. :)
0:34 learn to tell stories
1:22 what large listening ears you have!
2:20 self love Is hot
3:18 be more open
4:06 don't be Chandler Bing (develop interpersonal skills)
You're welcome👍
im seriously obsessed with the art on the thumbnail😭
Basically confidence. Without confidence, you can't do any of these. Fake it till you make it! Trust me, based on experience 😴
you can't fake confidence, in the best case senario you will look egotistical. if you learn to love yourself, confidence wil come naturally, dosen't matter how "flawed" you think you are.
14 SECONDS?!?!
WOW
for #2, eye contact helps immensely
for #3, cold showers release a chemical that, in short, can help or remove depression. (works for my mood)
Basically,
1. Learn to tell stories 0:35
2. What large listening ears you have! (= Listening to others, be a listener) 1:21
3. Self love is hot 2:21
4. Be more open (= no no to heuristics) 3:17
5. Don’t be Chandler Bing (Develop interpersonal skills) 4:06
Good luck at becoming the best version of yourself 🙌=^^=
Time to learn
As a very-conventionally-unattractive guy that basically did all of this during my A level years, js a disclaimer: this won't boost your attractiveness AT ALL in terms of finding someone to date if you don't look nice, cause trust me, the amount of "omg you're such a nice guy, I really hope you find someone nice for yourself" ive gotten during that time is insane and I was basically never even the one who'd approach anyone, so I'm pretty sure y'all know what it means when someone says that to you. But if you're looking to just come off as more charismatic and friendly, then yes this is an AMAZING way to do that cause you'll make A LOT of friends, some of whom you'll be able to keep as really close/lifelong people in your life
Thanks bro this is helpful
When this is taken too far. Narcissism is a thing.
Warning.
MONIKA AGAIN
I LOVE HER VOICE SO MUCH
List:
0:36 : Learn to tell stories
1:22 : Be a good listener
2:22 : love yourself
3:17 : Be more open
4:06 : Develop interpersonal skills
Cheat code in life:
- Confidence
- Respect
- Communication
I clicked the video because of the thumbnail, but good video!
I love your voice 🩷🤍 it’s so calming and soft 😊👍🏻
I'm perfect already, thanks.
Thank you so much for the video❣️❣️❣️❣️🐥💕 You always help me to feel a little better about attrractiveness. I too fast tent to seek it in my outer appearance and career success😅
But what I experienced made me attractive to some people is, that I started to communicate my values openly when they are suitable to the topic we talk about. Not being afraid to share values but also to listen and accept the values of others, seems to be a nice attrractiveness magnet❣️🐥💕
you mean looksmaxxing ?
Yeah jawlinoooo with hinterr eyesaaaa and maxillllaaaa good lengthhhhaaaa and heoghttt migiaaaaaa
Yeah being a skibidi sigma (help me)
@@yes-nu7rz I haven't said those two words in 3 months
IM THE ALPHA! 🗣️🔥
I agree that listening is interesting and attractive
Listening to this girls voice is like a therapy session
*DDLC MENTIONED*
As a adhder I have all of them naturally , except being a very good listener , i did improve my listening skills but i still feel the need to be better
Slowly been working on all these habits. The hardest thing for me is going out to social areas in large groups (like bars). That’s probably why it’s been hard for me to find that special someone
Wrong places are a waste of time.
A crowded bar is a loud place where you can't really communicate or socialize, it's a big mess.
the voice is so comforting
NOT AGAIN!!!!! JUST MONIKA JUST MONIKA!!!!!!! I'm sure I am not the only one here watching these knowing damn well getting in a healthy relationship, if at all is not likely for people like me. I still watch to support the channel and try to take away a thing or two. But when you are 5'5, 21 with a receeding hairline, low self confidence, a live audio and network engineer. Yeah I personally don't see how any female could be attracted to that. Maybe I am overthinking this. But I am sure many of you are also in the same boat as me. Hope everyone is doing well though :)
Try this , you are 21 , so go the pub ( live band night is a good choice for this ) and bring a book , actual book , made with paper ... Make sure it's a book that you are interested in reading , will read at the pub , and know enough about so that when conversation happens you will have a starting point . Pay the cover , grab a drink , and then sit in a corner , where you are visible , and read while you drink . Doing that will create enough mystery for curiosity , gives the impression of sophistication and patience , with the bonus of giving you a leg up on the other guys who are going around dropping shit pickup lines on every chick that they can . 9 times out of 10 someone will end up talking to you , and just have a conversation , don't worry about numbers or hooking up or dating , just relax and talk .
Timestamps
1). Learn to tell stories 0:34
2). What large listening ears you have 1:21
3). Self love is hot 2:20
4). Be more open 3:17
5). Don't be Chandler bing ( develop interpersonal skills) 4:05
6). Be your most authentic self 4:55
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
all good tip to live a better life, being attractive is still mostly looks and other things that are 90% out of your control
Finally, a video for me
I don't know, been doing all of these and being more open where once I was closed off, (except my health's taken a dip, so I'm skinnier) and whenever I meet someone new and we have great chemistry, and I make my attraction known, they don't reciprocate. Maybe it's just bad luck; I get along with most people, but people just don't want to be intimate with me I guess. I'm comfortable being single and would be okay dying that way, but it would be nice to have something that lasts longer than 3 months someday
4:05 *gasp!* 😱 How dare u offend THE Chandler Bing! He is the best, amazing, & most funny human being! 🥹🥹
Rest in Peace Matthew,
we miss u so much.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
the first “hey” at the start of the video REALLLY caught me off guard
"be your most authentic self" my ass leaving myself with no friends🥰😍😍😍
3:18 's tip was a personal attack. I realized ive been closing myself off the whole of my first semester in my new school because i was scared of what people thought about me- i didnt want history to repeat itself.
Starting next semester, I wont make that same mistake again! >:(
I can't say I've been attractive for being myself. In fact, I often got told that to be attractive I should learn to act in specific ways that clearly were not myself.
I love when there''s 0 views and already 9 likes and 2 comments
The return of Amanda!
Whenever I tell stories to a new person that I meet, that stay interested in talking to me for about a week. Then slowly they begin to ignore me and they lose any interest in me. And I stay there sitting in the classroom all alone depressed
I LOVE THE DDLC THUMBNAILS OMG
in my personal experience, learning to be less judgemental and allowing people to be themselves even if they fit your criteria is essential
0:52 thought you would say 8.25 min but seconds is surprising
Your tumbnails are sick, you really know the public those videos are for :V
Jokes aside, great content, cool way of explaning these stuff and mommy voice, well made composition over all. I'm subscribing!
Vulnerability (?) In a culture with a million billion protective layers on irony between us and the next person, few things are more disarming than emotional honesty.
You're art is so cute:3
Making notes of this. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us!
Living the best time of my life since my boyfriend and I have fallen in love with each other just 10 days ago
The Listening to others works thanks
the fact that I did all of that without myself realising. Are you saying that I'm already attractive before watching this video?
You can make a video about eating disorders 🙏
3:31 life experience to tell better stories!! The tips in this video were more unique then normal! Keep it up
Done and dusted + good hygiene and some light skincare. I feel like people in general like me more since I figured this out but I'm still not super attractive by virtue of being a pint sized boy with mild acne (i got that benzoyl peroxide and I wash my face 2x daily so it's never bad)
I like her voice
Just practice the most authentic smile looking at the mirror after you brush your teeth. When you are smiling, you are showing the most beautiful version of yourself.
My friend once told me you should be yourself bc if you dont you wont get people who truly love
I love these videos they can really give great insight but why do they use DDLC so much especially Monika
Damn. learning how to be attractive from an attractive sounding person with nice art skills? Count me in...
Don't try to be just be the best you can be
Your voice is true mommy material
bro what 😭
@@haroassuc nothing
😂💀
That's ABSOLUTELY true with how many of us LOVE being heard and scene😁. Tbh, I could probably do a little better when it comes to REALLY listening to others😅
clicked because monika, stayed because I'm lonely 😭
Thanks for the tips and pointers! I will try them out, and hopefully they work! Thanks and take care! Oh yeah, I am requesting you present a part 2! It would really be helpful! Thanks again! Bye!!
Thank you for the video ❤️!!!
Master I Have Come to Listen To Your Tricks
Have most of these; still alone with others.
Listening ✅
Telling stories ❌
only problem with these videos is that i dont want someone falling in love with me because i created habits recommended to me from a youtube video, i want them to fall in love with me for what habits i cultivated myself, for what i did for myself.
counter point, no one would ever like me even if i could do any of this.
Voice 10/10 and it can be used in normal content to elevate the watching experience
Thank you so much for this video
I’m usually waiting for someone to finish talking so I can ask a question abt what they’re saying, and I do try to listen
seeing laios marcille and falin made me smile :)
that boy got me watching psych2go videos.
You reminded me about my exercise
Out of everything it's hard to do number 4. And i hate myself for it
There's no story to tell about me.
Other than that I feel like I am almost halfway there 👀
In general I grew up being alone, there probably isn't anyone interested in that which I feel compatible with.
I'm aromantic but this videos still entertaining
Great, with the exception of maybe one, they all apply solely to situations where the other person is already aware of your existence or even engaging in conversation with you. Like, on a date. You assume I'm already on a date!
That's not very helpful for me. It's like those "dating advices" that tell you how to treat someone in a relationship. I hoped I'd learn something that makes them look at me in the first place, so that I maybe get a chance to get to that stage.
I'm already in a happy, monogamous relationship, but who says I can't be even more attractive to my partner? 😉
man these things are like oh nice, i already have that one and uh i cant really get that one
I'm watching for the plot
This art style making me want to wear eyes glasses lol
Bro I wish you told me this like three years ago when I didn’t know this stuff and didn’t have to learn it the hard way
thank you