Commitment to WOMEN KILLS ALL DESIRE (female nature will punish you)
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Much of this is totally on point, but there’s a relevant missing element that resides outside of these messages. Kids, children, families. It changes this philosophy. Not that your message is wrong, but in addition to, and it must be factored in for full utility and real world application. Thoughts Casey?
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Don't take women seriously they come and go
They're like busses, there will always be another one coming your way.
Sounds promising
Real men have abundance mentality...plenty of 2 legged fish in the world
Like they say it themselves : Women are not yours is just your turn... 💀
You got that right. They set in front of the mirror two or three hours a day panting their nails, teasing their hair, putting on war paint. Then they start coming around trying to get you to notice them seeking your attention. Then they got you hanging around all the time telling them all the things they wanted to hear. Then they are ready to hear it from somebody else! It's like you boosted their egos. Now she's putting herself out there for higher valued men. But the revenge comes from when she hits the wall with her looks one day. They hit it hard too! 😆 It's sort of the last laugh of her @$$!
Never commit to a woman unless she has chased you and has your baby in her belly. Fellas, commit to your goals and purpose. Nothing more.
*Never commit to a woman.
Fixed it for you 😄
You’re wrong. Once she gets you after she chased you she will change. It’s happened to me and I’ve seen it happen to my friends all my life
Not even if they have a kid with you. My ex was still talking to her ex fiancé while pregnant with our kid. Dumb bitch.
@@Anonymous-kh3eui understand this psychology.. but then should we never stay with a woman? Thats messed up. We are doomed to be alone fcking with them hoes forever? Damn..
@@Anonymous-kh3eu she can change. Always be willing to walk away when they do
Having grown up without a male figure, your videos are godsent.
Having grown up with a weak father who thought being masculine meant beating up his wife, same.
Same here my dad taught me to be too nice. I suffered severely because of that recently had to erase my identity and start over
@@MeidoInHebun😂
100%! Thank you, Casey!
@@MeidoInHebunthat is pretty masculine tbh
I can't believe how true this is. Years of living in isolation turned me into a beta cuck. An amazing woman fell in love with me and I with her. Got way too emotionally invested. She dried up within weeks. Quite the wake-up call. Stronger than ever now. I will never let this happen again.
You sound kinda autistic ngl
We’ve all been there man. But you learn and become better for it 👊🏻
Yeah man it sucks I had her and when I reveal my interests she was gone 😂
@@Cinnamon535 Seriously ?
@@Blessy_04 Yeah she used to flirt and get all pretty for me , then it all changed when she knew were I stood and that I also liked her back, it's like a little game wr must play never reveal your hand or its over
There's really, REALLY a simple solution to this anyway. Just make sure she's the one "COMMITTING" to you. It's not natural for a Man to beg or ask for a relationship or marriage, that's her job. The one who gets on their knees, is the one who is in perpetual servitude.
This. I will try not to "beg" or "ask" women ever again
Women ask for relationship, man for marriage
@@marshalldteachjb9545 But if you think about it, from a primal standpoint, it is irrational for a Man to ask for Marriage. For one, Marriage is also a manmade institution. If a Man is asking / begging for Marriage, it means he is insecure about his ownership over the Woman and needs legally binding documentation to feel security. This goes COMPLETELY against his primal instincts. In caveman days, Women would beg at the door to have food, security and comfort from a Man, he would have no involvement whatsoever as far as asking to Marry him, it would be such a bizarre position for him to be in.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica nah if she is a submissive and a traditionnal woman, it's your job to ask for marriage. As a man, I would be ashamed of a woman put a knee down to ask me for marriage. I wouldn't accept, that's disrespectfull to let a woman take my role
@@marshalldteachjb9545 That idea is "programmed" into you, but it's not true. It's unnatural for a Man to ask for marriage, it's a social construct that religions and governments organized to control a Man for his utility and providership. Someday you will learn this. But it's just unnatural. In fact, one of my early girlfriends, while we never discussed the topic of marriage, either she knew something about my personality or something about me, but she was the one to "propose" to me and ask for my hand in Marriage and even bought me an engagement ring. Historically, Women have always been at the Mercy of Men in times of Pure Patriarchy, and this also meant that Women would even literally beg a Man to Marry him even to escape poverty or hunger, even if he was already married, in serious times of distress. That is how things were, at least up until the Middle Ages or so. Marriage today is much more about "Class or Class Status" than anything, and has more to do with Financial Security than it does ever to do about Love and Romance.
This is nothing short of PURE GOLD - I just came out of a toxic as fuck relationship with a narcissistic chick who was in her feminine at the start of the relationship but as I got more emotionally attached and emasculated switched to a more masculine, distant, cold attitude. I did so many of the things you oppose - my eyes will never be blinded again. Much love Casey.
I’m with you bro
Brothers dude is a fucking genius and is straight evidence of American movie portrayal of love and relationships being totally deceptive. Wife cheated on me with a person higher up at our place of employment. I’m actually blind and in my early 40s and I shit you not following this dudes philosophy has landed me in some sweet situations, and I’m not the best looking guy have the best teeth or have a lot of money, but I’m definitely getting jacked and pulling Hella women of all ages with a disability. And wife pulled away the more I showed love it was like these videos started popping up in my feed at the right time. Started putting it all together. Bought a power rack started saving money. I just had a bad feeling for some reason, but once I weakened myself for the wife of like 15 years that’s when she like almost disliked me more. I owe this dude a lot of money he’s definitely transformed my life with free videos which is crazy to me. Sucks what this guy is saying is considered toxic masculinity and a lot of my social circles.
Same bruh
Same with me😤 and she's the most beautiful girl of my college
The sullution to keep a woman happy is to stop focusing too much on the relationship and focus more on things outside of her, women desire a men who is not needy and clingy and too focused on her but she'lll cling to that guy who is highly focused more on himself and busy on his career and ambitions than on her,
Agree 💯
my gf broke up with me this month and she says that I control her to much but when I watched your videos i know that i fuckdup thank u casey you😂😂
😂😂. The ohh controlling trick.
Yea man level up!!
Haha feel the same way
fucked up in what way? care to elaborate a bit?
Stay strong
Casey, you are leveling up the savagery and it’s 100% needed.
Yup. Always have been more successful with women i didnt give a shit about. The select few that i was outcome dependent on i lost.
Bro you fixed my fear of losing a girl I was toxic and I thought that if you do more to your girl she will love you more I was having fear of cheating on me I didn't know female nature or psychology I watched all your videos in one day and my mindset changed 180° you opened my eyes thank YOU sooo much casey zander 💪
I’m really happy for you brother. Bro I’m 38 and have 3 beautiful kids with a woman who I got so emotionally dependent on her and then cheated and then left me. And split up our fucking family. Casey you are saving men from ruining their lives. My life isn’t ruined I’m an awesome dad and I love my kids but the mother of my children isn’t in my life and it’s a damn shame. And it’s my fault because I was such a baby of a man. Now I’m leveling up but I wish I had known this when I was younger. Everything I just said is true. Become the man!!
@@rayawakeYour comment proves that wisdom doesn’t simply come with age, but maturity. Godspeed
Hey, just in the last 3 months of watching your videos and implementing everything with fury, my mindset my overall motivation and relationship with my wife has gotten so much better. Never stop doing what your doing!!
Overcoming
Any videos from this channel that you recommend? I stumbled onto this video but it seems to apply to single men not married men.
@@Aldovargas87 You’re missing the point bro, this is how you stay attractive to your wife for the long haul by implementing what he’s saying in your marriage.
Thanks! I needed to hear this.
I recently got dumped. Long-story short: I conflated her intelligence, seeming-integrity, work-ethic, her willingness to pull her own weight, and logic in her job with her being "The Exception" to shit that I already knew about women.
I firmly believe now, that there are no exceptions. Shit's a hard-wired, limbic brain survival mandate. Her cognitive brain may say all of the things that make her seem like an egalitarian. But that lizard-brain will override that shit. If you fail to be "on" whenever you are around her, or exhibit any of the other behavior described. She *will lose desire, and not necessarily be able to articulate how or why.
I'm putting this video in my tasks calendar, and watching it every 3 days until I get it into my thick skull, in case there's still some vestigial thoughts of there possibly being an "exception" out there.
she's dismissive avoidant
same shit on me too,found really high quality girl than repelled her 😂😂
@@Leit0 I've got to watch some videos on those attachment styles. It's like I'm preparing for combat operations, and have to obtain Intel on the enemy. Then develop strategies and tactics to ensure "success."
Except, since she'll eventually leave anyway. "Success" is going to have to be defined as: Having the best time possible, with the least emotional investment. And with most, if not all, of my dignity intact when she ends the relationship (if I don't first). It saddens me, but I now accept that this is likely as good as it will get.
If anyone thinks that I'm incorrect, please provide constructive, specific counterpoint. And dispense with any childish ad hominem attacks, and/or "Who hurt you?"-bullshit. My solicitation is not a "challenge" for the purpose of debating. But an honest query and search for understanding, while acknowledging the fact that I may have failed to consider some factors.
@@cenanmehmet I understand. I will never make that mistake again. I will keep the depth of any love that I feel for her, to myself. As its expression will NOT be seen as a gift of trust, but a catalyst for her contempt, ala, "I thought that he was better than that. He's a [sob] fucking.. loser [sob].. How could he do this to me?!?"
Now, how absolutely fucked-up is that?!?
Message received and believed, Casey.
@@donalgramae teenage girls are like this,they really want mysterious and important minded guys if they are getting too much attention from average guy,it's ok bro,we all suffering,stay stoic,it's our journey in this life,keep trying on women,never settle
Thank you Casey, with every video you bring me back to center
I’ve been married 29 years. Actually, this probably explains why. I’ve never let my wife decide what my time should be spent on.
Bookmarked this to send to my brother, who is going through a breakup. He is a feminized high value man. We are heading overseas to pick up some kitty cats to restore his masculine frame, because the USA is a toxic wasteland for men. Zander, you are revealing essential and necessary truths, and everyone is better off, including the women!
This vid and especially the video’s closing statement was chocked full of rich advice. Thanks Casey!
I feel obligated to say this, Casey you really helped me out. I was able to completely let go and have fun in all social interactions. I get anxiety before I go sometimes dew to past experiences but It always goes my way thanks.
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it's simply not true,. Committing to a woman BEFORE she has committed to you kills all desire. Not committing to a woman once they have fully committed to you is a mistake. It will eventually lead to them leaving you to find someone who will commit to them if they have any self respect. Many women don't, so I can understand why this advice seems sane, but I have had women leave me in the past because I played it too aloof and they were under the impression I was not ever going to commit to them fully.
This ❤
Thats a unicorn you talking about. Most women are actually the ones who keep looking for the bigger better deal because western social norms does not taboo it as shameful behaviour
You have to decide when you’re ready to “settle” down
NAILED IT SOLOMON!!! I think Casey's advice is very immature. It's for immature fuck boys who are only interested in sex being "beast 24/7" which is unrealistic and unhealthy. His advice only applies to BROKEN TOXIC WOMEN. CASEY YOU MUST REALIZE THAT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS. PLEASE DISTINGUISH BETWEEN HEALTHY WOMEN WHO DO WANT COMMITMENT AND WHOSE DESIRE WILL STAY STRONG BC THEY ARE WITH A MAN WHO IS A KING WHO ALSO IS STRONG ENOUGH IN HIS MASCULINITY TO ADMIT HIS NEED FOR HEALTHY ATTACHMENT TO A HEALTHY TRULY LOVING WOMAN. YOUR ADVICE IS LEADING MEN TO BECOME LONELY ASSHOLES.
I think most men are so desperate because of a lack of options that they over invest in a woman once they find one. There was a study that said 86% of the time it's the man who says "I love you" first. My male friends will start dating a new girl, then I'll hear him telling her that he loves her within the first month. And she's moving in with him by the 2nd month. That just shows his desperation. I think you're right. The woman has to have genuine desire.The woman needs to chase the man. She has to be the one who's advancing the relationship, and not just for financial support. If a woman truly desires a man, then she won't be able to hide it. And the man won't even have to question her commitment to him.
You are incredible Casey! Started self improving and valuing my time more than I used to, now I don’t really want them and now life is way easier 💪🏼
There should be more men like you out here man. Respect 100% 👌
Can't get more real than this. Never had a true male role model, so understanding this is one thing, but getting this drilled in and applying it is a whole other animal. True meaning of a directly proportional relationship you got going with us. Greatly appreciated.
Appreciate this video, currently having sleepless nights for last few months.. Not tonight, gonna rejuvenate like a warrior! especially feeling the end. It woke me up to remember who I am... appreciated casey 🙏🏿
Good shit Casey! Coming from a home with a strong father figure, you say things my father can’t explain but shows in everyday situations. Put yourself first, because if it goes good for you, a men would lay everything give everything for the things he loves. A women that doesn’t understand that is not worth the time. Stay strong kings
Im so glad someone like you puts these things out there, the manosphere wasnt extreme enough on female nature yet
You can't explain what you can't understand.
@@josesantana770 most understand but Just cant get to that level of losing their Disney reality
@@josesantana770🎉
I needed this pep talk lol ..I'm always in frame but sometimes I need to beat this shit into my head
Man I needed hear that this morning
The bottom line is that when you are “that guy” you have many female options and you’re working on your purpose in life. Why the hell would you want to commit to just one girl? Most of it comes back to insecurity due to a lack of self confidence. Most guys don’t have the aforementioned because they have made the mistake of prioritizing female companionship above all else. I was like that when I was younger.
Bro…Outstanding! Spot on brother 🫡
Thanks for posting bro. Great info
Very informative and invaluable video thank you very much for the help!
Great work man, great work.
Absolutely what I needed
Amazing content.. been looking for words like this for a while. I've had a portion of the game sorted out for the last 8 years or so, and I've slept with lots of women... But as soon as i come across a girl i truly like, I typically stumble and destroy attraction through neediness - which was always something I tried to avoid. The hard part is ignoring the strong feelings when you truly like a girl... I find that the most difficult part.
You are not the only one bruh all of us do that shit 😂😂😂
Last 2 minutes of this is gold
Shit took me 30 to 32 years to figure this slshit out. Let me tell you this THIS IS HARD!!!!!
Good stuff, Strength , ambition, emotional intelligence, and living by your own rules.
Listen up boys. I wish I had this advice 20 years ago‼️
This is very true.
Great video I went through everything that you mentioned in the video but I learned the hard way that the more you prioritize, a woman the more they lose interest.
From the moment that you stop working out, start getting fat, start to take too many days off of at work to be with your woman, she will lose desire.
If you want a woman to stay attracted to you, treat her good but treat yourself better go to the gym make your money have friends and she will follow you on whatever you do. Women just like to be with a man desired by other women, you don’t need to cheat you just need to put yourself first and not be afraid to lose her.
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Life changing stuff. I speak for all Men, we appreciate you.
Casey you are worth a million bucks........ May God bless you with loads of happiness........
Thank you just what I needed
Spot on homie, they gotta book called the g-code...this chapter 2
When you’re on your death bed and you look back on your life, are you going to feel like you spent your life well?
Living in anxiety over whether or not a woman is going to stay with you or leave you. Living for approval of others. Prioritizing a hedonistic lifestyle over connections.
Are you really going to look back at your life and tell yourself you lived an authentic life that aligned with your core? Or are you going to look back and see how trauma dictated your actions and life to the point where you wasted opportunities to experience the things that really matter?
You’ve been dropping so much value lately bro. Appreciate you 💯
Im glad that Casey said that its about personality match too - because I didnt experience that we fit together with every good (masculine) guy. So Im looking at this (=if we are good together).
Protect this man at all costs!
"You ruin the experience of love for a woman" 😭😂 I had to give you the 👍🏿 up for that sentiment. I'm dealing with "men" around me that are on this low vibration menstrual cycle; pimps and players my ass.
Been married 28 yeas. Can definitely confirm that commitment kills desire. 🙂
Having married for 5 years straight desire is killed in year 2 of marriage now 3 years later no desire on woman part.
No, an idiot husband kills desire.
Casey is beginning to get into the class of Kevin Samuels (the godfather). Keep it up Casey!! You saving men in America
Great advice. Giving zero F*!#S Is the absolute answer. To woman and many other things. When you do and act like you give a F#&k you will get run over ,in business, relationships, ie. Platonic, romantic, sexual, family.Seems harsh and selfish but you'll be able to pick and choose the amount of F#$KS or not you choose to give to a situation instead of taking what you can get and being ok with it. No NoNo No No ! Thanks Casey👍
I love it!
Nailed it sir
So good!
No man who leads so many, could ever kneel so quickly.
Superman 2
Inspirational video
Your shit keeps getting better bro. This was the best one.
We're fucked because of people like this. Be conscious and aware of yourself and you'll realize you have everything you will ever need. Universal energy style ❤
This is true. I been seeing a woman for about 2 months now or a bit longer. I been a whole lot less efficient. Right now that I'm now seeing her as often I feel like my old self again.
This IS the game right here men
this is good info
dude 🔥🔥🧨
Def best content on this topic anywhere.
Never afraid to lose a woman. This is the key.
I've seen a number of your videos..... and unfortunately - you are Right..... i wish you weren't - but you are..... It seems the Worse I treat women I've started dating (POF, Ok Cupid) the "better" I do and visa versa..... By "Bad" treatment - I mean Indifferent - not committing to dates ... I dont mean abusive or anything..... If say on a Tuesday a woman asks to see me Friday - Ill say "let me get back to you" [IE maybe WED / THUR Ill have a better option] - they come back.... one girl - I really liked - I'd alter my work schedule (I'm self employed - so have latitude) - to accommodate her work schedule (which is set be her employer) she started getting more and more "flakey"..... BTW, im guessing your demographic is guys in their 20's.... Im in my mid 50's and started dating again in my mid 40's (and dated women 10 years younger to same age).... Its just as true for 40 - 50 year old women.......
Casey old video can be heart crushing
I instinctively feel this is true, yet it sounds so illogical. They aren't logical at all.
Guys, commit to one girl if you want her to stop desiring and respecting you.
This is good content. Doing gods work 👏👏
This is a great video, so many men need this advice
Thanks!
Pure GOLD..
Learn the art of not giving a fuck. The moment you care, it ends right there.
a girl told me the other day that she wants a man to care about there
@@cosmic687 Never listen to girl..what she tells you she wants and what she actually wants is a different thing..I recently had a experience where the moment I got attached, emotional and started caring about her, she pulled back. That's how it works. Showing care is okay but the moment you get attached , it's technically over.
@@cosmic687Whatever she tells you, do the opposite.
It’s great young guys can be so advanced psychologically 😊
Women don't like it because they want to feel like they've EARNED it. YES, they do legitimately want the relationship as well. But studies consistently show that it takes women far longer to fall in love than men.
What guys don't realize is that you can date a woman without a title indefinitely - they actually prefer situation-ships. Why? Because it makes your commitment look scarce and valuable. She therefore will CHASE IT.
Stop being desperate to call a woman your girlfriend. You shouldn't even be in a place to do that if you're vetting other women. So even WANTING to tie a woman down signals that you're in scarcity. Which is why she starts running after you go all in too soon.
Realistically, it should take more than a year to fully vet a woman. Granted, you can figure a woman out in minutes if you know how to ask the right questions. But it will take time to see that her words match her actions in cases where she has yellow flags. One of the most important things guys fail to vet for is the presence of other men in her life. If she asks to be exclusive first, ask her this, "do you have any guy friends?" If she says, "yes" tell her "let's just leave it like it is for now."
Just put me on hella game 🎉
Love the last line.
Never had no man father figure to tell me these stuff. I pull girls but can't keep them. I see why now thanks bro
This shit beeds to ve rewatched on a weekly basis
Purpose = finance. Thank you for clarifying that lol all the other coaches make it seem like some woo woo thing
More heat from the goat🔥
A woman's safety comes before she does!
agreed 100%
xander I'm 51 I do miss you a lot of stuff I don't been with a lot of women but everything you say is true I don't deny it and I made those mistakes but at my age the only thing I want to know about a long-term relationship not just having them and keeping them for like 5 years or whatever because we can't keep playing games a whole lives if it wasn't for a long time I'm just being real we actually do love these women who and that sounds like too much work to do just to have a wife
I’ve experienced this on both ends. I’ve gone in for commitment and had a friend later tell me she lost all respect for me (one of her friends) and I’ve truly not given a fuck and had women literally fighting over me.. mind you they came from class and were professionals. It’s literally better to just not give a f*.. the solution is to be emotionally intimate with your friends (platonic make friends) and just fk women. Get into game as a sport with your boys, enjoy pulling, get into as a fun thing to do. Eventually you’ll just start looking at getting laid as a game. I live with my boys, we all have businesses, we work out together; we pray together, we eat together, and come Friday night, we go pull cause it’s fun. We all have chicks on rotation. And it’s sport for us. We tap back into the online community like this every now and then.. but like we’ve had this for 6 years and we’re all richer and fitter and truly enjoying life.
My wife was not impressed by the 1000 dollar swiss watch. She cant get enough of the 50 dollar Guess watch. Lesson learned.
Sure, you are right about this, but on the other hand: Lack of commitment eventually kill all relationships. I know lots of cool, independent guys who have gotten dumped by a girl after anything from 3 months to 2 years, simply because they didn't want to "take the relationship to the next level". This is how most couples end up in a comfortable relationship that is usually faithful, but without much desire between the partners.
They come back on the low and if not then it’s just not the right time for you even if it’s the right girl. It’s up to you when you decide to “settle” down
Who gives af what level they wanna go to … take out sex : women are nothing
I like this, umm but so when you decide to "settle" down, you become an woman?? This is the struggle no? @@treviancalhoun7693
@@treviancalhoun7693 but the moment you settle down is the moment you commit. That’s when it all goes downhill.
@@JoeBudd-DIt usually goes downhill if the woman is not traditional. If she's a modern boss babe then it goes down pretty fast because their goal is Hypergamy.
But when you find a tradgirl. Well raised. Specially religious then she is expected to marry once. She's not looking to replace you the moment something bad happens.
She values loyalty. You can have a trad wife and a family with this woman.
However the only downside or compromise is the seggs.
The seggs is mostly for reproduction (unless she has willingly gone through marriage counseling and learns that having more seggs, dates and one on one time is also important for the relationship (not just the kids).
So yeah there's still good trad woman out there but again with some compromises.
I ain't gonna lie, yes, I do want someone to text me "good morning sweetie" every day and "I love you", yes I do enjoy it, guilty! And I enjoy dishing it out. Alas what he is saying is true, otherwise I wouldn't be going through this separation lol
This man Casey Zander must've gone through some HELL on Earth to know all this crap.🚽😂
Wise words here gents , love this
Nice guys finish last
Bad boys finish on her face
Sounds promising. Make sure to let her know that on your first date ;)
The milkman said 😂😂😂
@@CG-wr4noshe knows that already but wont tell you ;-)
Ur a toxic fuck boy. Grow up!
Very masculine...
Thanks for the video. I forgot was Michael Jordan good at basketball?
It doesn’t sound like it’s the commitment that ruins desire but moreso the loss of someones sense of self that starts to make them unattractive
In the beginning of dating you were probably present but detached and had other things going on. So there was space to come towards you. Whereas when you let your life go, there’s suddenly no space and that feels too smothering for people. There needs to be that feeling of otherness so you can miss each other.
That’s my interpretation after hearing all these theories
Love the content, thanks
Ty😊
The simp slaying video
They crave a relationship from the man they want then they push them away in the divorce courts and feel they deserve everything you worked for because they got what they wanted. You couldn’t make it up .
Yes I found out the hard way .
Good things coming your way keep ya head up g
Casey always speaks the truth
and the key to all of this? love yourself!
Powerful stuff.