What Men Consider Great Sex (10 Secrets Men Obsess Over)
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if a man is connected, flirty, safe (both physically and emotionally) and makes you feel sexy all day outside of the bedroom, this wont ve a problem.
Seems like a lotta know-it-alls here. I'm a woman of a certain age & this helped me. I value the content and the calm expertise of the delivery. Thank you!
Agreed .
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It was very helpful for me too.
I might share it with my Lover since we are newbies but very passionate.
We'll definitely have fun talking about it 😊
Sex is an Art and when taken seriously will get better every time. There is a difference between "mutual satisfaction" and Shared Bliss
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@@Liza-Loves-Youless talking 👄 kills the mood
He is being honest and sincere. Please be kind.
His cheating defines him as a cheater. It does not define you as less than a great sexual partner.
This works BOTH ways, as these 10 things are EXACTLY what Women also want, not just Men(?)
There are many TH-cam videos that cater to such.
All this duh. A lot of this men need to reciprocate. We like to know you are enjoying it. Making noice and responding. You guys want us to go down on you go down on us too.
I’m surprised that what you say, whispering how much you love what he’s doing isn’t mentioned. My guy loves to hear me tell him how great I feel, what he’s doing to my body. What we say to each other while playing adds to the excitement.
If she's unresponsive, you're a lousy lover. Some men are frigid. They like the same thing every time in a robotic way.
Also in my experience, it’s the men that get into routine. I’ve noticed most guys have like 3-4 positions they prefer… not always the same positions from man to man… But they are def the ones that get boring and in their routine. Maybe you should teach this to men bc seems to be like they are the ones not getting it.
Thank you for this advice! I've only had this kind of sex with one man. It was my second husband. I was totally in love with him & very attracted to him. Also, he showed excitement for me & made me feel sexy & desireable, so that hightened my excitement even more!
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Great to hear such candid information from a man's perspective. Great video and please keep posting new videos. I am taking notes.
Everything is spot on. Thank you
Can you please tell men to do all of these things too? Be creative! Don't say "no" to woman's (easy and reasonable) request. I.e. if she says "flip me over!" in the heat of it while you're having fun and everything is going well... and you say "no" I want to connect... she's probably not going to ask you again. GIVE HER the position that she wants to feel good and GRIND into it! Then keep switching it up. Stop saying no and stop being boring!
If you're wondering why she's quiet, it's because you're not doing it/her right. Yes, I know everyone is different, but just keep building and going harder until she does start making noise or needs to tell you it's too much or needs a break or to change it up, and follow that and don't EVER ignore it, and make sure that SHE is enjoying herself!
Tell MEN to be more open to using toys and not be offended or feel emasculated because she wants to try something else besides just his c*ck, instead of saying "I'm all you need"
Thank you!
That's really sad if I ever need a toy while with a man then he isn't doing something right or it's the wrong man .and I'm a super sexual girl and have never asked a man to bring in a toy girl they say you attract the opposite of what you are so maybe pretend like u don't like toys cause I never bring them up or give an inkling and I attract dudes who mention them or bring them up .and it's not always about emasculating it's more so ego or hurt because when a girl I was laying next to preferred her vibrator and vibrator only while I was attempting to use my hand well yeah that makes the other person disconnect and feel hurt too but she's weird already .so basically if they're saying no move on look for that kinky open minded man elsewhere don't settle .
ThiS! My man thinks me trying to communicate, is me being controlling.
Yes, well there's a cure for that. Get up, grab a toy and get back in bed... and take care of yourself. Hey, he can watch, participate or leave! He'll get the message very clearly. 😂😂😂
All man cheat and I no longer care about pleasing one in bed or out of bed. I wasted my adult life pleasing a man. Sick of them.
As a regular watcher on Kevin's channel, I can tell you he does tell men that too. Including your added points even. We both, in couples, need to be attuned to the other's desires.
Great sex starts with good communication. It is unrealistic & unfair to expect your partner (male or female) to know what your wants &/or needs are in bed. It must be communicated. It builds a deeper bond also.
This 100%!
You cannot expect to have great sex, and a great sex life, if you do not communicate with your partner. Some of the best advice I ever received was from my grandma, of all people - she said "If you and your woman can't talk about sex comfortably with each other, you're not ready for sex and/or it's not gonna be very good." Sage advice from a woman who was married for over 60 years and had 5 kids and a very happy marriage by all accounts.
@@jdemille79 Thank you Josh. Your grandma was very wise. I’m 64 & it’s the best ever with a man who loves that we can talk about sex.
I ticked off all of these and he still cheated 🤷🏼♀️.
Cheating isn't about sex, it's about intimacy.
Because the energy of desperation and neediness is way too much it is suffocating. Time to RUN
That effin sucks
@@helgaioannidis9365Cheating is all about ego. Nothing more, nothing less!
Disgusting it's only sex for men
With my partner its so intense it becomes impossible to talk 😂😂😂 we go with the flow
This is great advice! You explained things that I have not heard put into words so accurately before. You make so much sense! Thanks!
Well said, thanks for the advice 🙏
Appreciate the great tips & tricks! Communication is a great tool as well❤❤
So helpful. Thank you 😊❤
Thank you for the clarification. I was wonderin why they always wanna come back for more 😂
Thanks for sharing 😊🙏
This was good and logical, too.. thank you:)
I think its easy to fall into a certain way of doing it when you know each other so well so its a great be reminded to be spontaneous and present.
Helpful thank you
Although nothing new. I enjoyed hearing it again and I'm sure some people don't know all the points. When I was thirty I didn't know all that.
Nice content 🎉😊
Well said. Being present is important and rare
I am done doing everything to please a man/ I got a scoreboard now above my bed. It's one for you, and one for me. You better please me.
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This is so freeing. I was thinking it's one of those position videos and where to touch him and kiss him. But I found value in this. No pressure... just be you and let the intention and your bodies do the work. Thank you.
Nice reminders…
I think you’re awesome. Question. Is possible that some partners have a powerful connection which possibly includes energy and emotions without having learned it. But rather it comes naturally? I am for the first time ever experiencing this and it is absolutely blissful. Sensational, temperamental and soo energetic. And this is from the very first encounter.
Thank you. Yes, that is definitely possible. There are many different systems that have been created to assess compatibility. I would guess that you are both very compatible. When you are with someone who you are very compatible with, things just flow and the connection feels powerful without much effort. Congratulations! Now just make sure as time goes by that you keep it up. It is normal over time for things to change a bit. However, with some attention and effort, there is no reason why you can't keep the relationship as alive and amazing as it it now.
@@KevinandCeline thank you for your reply. I hear what you are saying and I have some doubts that this kind of connection can last a long time. I feel this is going to be a brief story. I’m too afraid to get too committed simply for that reason. Once the passion subsides, won’t he be looking for a new story? I know those are my insecurities. Anyway we shall see what happens. Thank you for all that you do 🙏
@@theguidedgem It is possible, but it will take work and you have to believe it's possible. If he is really a good man, he won't be looking for something else.
This is what is going on with my partner and I, and it's only increasing over time as we communicate more and learn about each other. I am aware things may change as time goes by but I'm hopeful all the change will be positive.
Yes. It began within 10 minutes of meeting. Mind-blowing. And we’re in our 70s!🤩
Edging is great it takes a little practice though
You should give men your advice about being responsive.
Yes and also just leave em if they're like that no need to suffer it's easy to walk away if you repeat if long enough
Kevin does exactly that on his TH-cam channel. He speaks to both men and women, together and separately also.
The same points also count for men...
Mix it up, don't let your partner get bored, more fore play, moan... Let us know you also enjoy it.
This is why that guy still texts me every few months after I’ve been married to someone else for 5 years. He’s waiting in the wings. All my exes come back around.
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Shame on you
@@debrarobey3749 shame on yourself.
@@debrarobey3749exactly agreed.
Being married and ALLOWING exes to still message you is probably the biggest turn off to your husband NOT the biggest turn on.
This is a great video! ❤
Sounds like I am the man in the relationship, as my man doesn’t really want to do any of those things 😞
Hey, thanks for the video! with respect, is it possible you have relationship problems and are in denial?
Great information. So, what do you mean when you say the "energetic component" when you where speaking about the triad of emotional and physical and energetic components to love making?
Great question and a difficult one to explain in a comment. The energetic component is the energy you feel between each other. It's the magnetic attraction and connection you feel with the person. You feel drawn to them. You are able to circulate the sexual energy between each other. It's hard to explain, but you certainly know it when you feel it!
@@KevinandCeline Ah, I see. I understand now. Thank you for clarifying.
You actually care. The energy and emotions are your indicators. You are happy and care, you are connected. Otherwise, he is a pass.
Here I am 52 and watching this.. I should already know this lol
I love the video " push the button"❤
Great tips 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you!
Just don't wake me up from a dead sleep or turn the lights on too bright, or no deal. 😂
I didn’t hear anything about hygiene 😂😂😂
I think it's given. How can you have amazing sex if the hygiene is bad. 😂😅
Yes...alot of dirty birdies 😮Clean yourself.....get a pedicure!!!! Nasty Wolfman toe nails🤮 Also man scape....no caveman shrubs or carpet backs😮
I think that should be a given..
You would be amazed at how many men think hygiene is optional.
I must be amazing we did all that with my husband(widowed now)
Check, check, and check! This was informative...
I want to have fun experimenting with a man that I proposed friends with benefits but because he felt embarrassed about his performance the first time he now says we should just be friends. How can I convince him to try again?
Yessss one thing I realize you have to tap into the actual emotional part of the sexual activity just being comfortable and being into with your body and the other person body and being vulnerable in all aspects of love making, I did notice men love affection they actually crave it, anytime I have sex wit a guy he says what are you trying to do to me lol
I no all this and more . Dang I thought you were going to tell me something new
Thanks Dr , how about some knowledge for men on what women like
Men need to learn more about number 8
Please explain what you mean by energetic component
A Man must practise and know how harmless it is to be turned off, as Women have a great cultural load on them and MUSTN´T please men at all costs and always. If this was said right in the beginning, it WOULD be great fun to know what the title of the video suggests. Cheers from Cologne, Germany
oh my getting warm here
I think #8 is supposed to be in the 'what women want ' video.
Thank you for the video it’s nice to find out I’m doing good ✔️on all 😉. I’m Hispanic and I’m attracted to Anglo men BUT I always find talking about sex is hard for Americans, Sex is the activity that distinguished the Eros relationship among any other type of relationship. I’m assertive so I like to ask for what I want and reject what I don’t want so prior having sex I like to talk about what they like/dislike as well as express my likes and dislikes also I tell my partner 3 things prior sex 1.Forget about everything else that is not pleasure and sex, at that moment in the bedroom there is just space for the pleasure and both of us nothing else 2.Enjoy! Forget of my fragility or that you love me cause when the feeling of love and fragility gets in between they treat us differently suppressing or sacrificing their pleasure (I don’t mean to do or allow them to hurt you therefore you already had the talk to find out if you were compatible sexually speaking). I’m 52y/o so the 3rd is to forget of worrying of preforming perfectly or about ED issues sometimes stress/anxiety can cause an episode of ED, don’t forget there are many ways to please each other and reach an orgasm, brain has a lot to do with it too😉
One thing you forgot is that a lot of times there is an attraction between the two that sparks and takes off.
This was very informative thank u ❤❤
#1. Have a “vaginuh” (purposely misspelled) THE END
That's the power 😂😂😂
NO! SEX DOESNT FEEL THE SAME WITH ALL PEOPLE.
@@janeb6287 I’m being dumb… most men will have sex with anything/anybody so 😹🤷🏽♀️
I think you’re right!😂
Now we sleep in different room
One important thing to mention. Men and women, pay attention to your bodies as you age. Because you must attract the other sex.. always!
Stay in shape
I’m almost 70 and I’m having the best sex of my life
My boyfriend is a CANNIBAL and ANIMAL super strong and we try new fun stuff all the time
He tells me he loves me and I tell him the same
We have so much fun
This is so true! I see so many men and women who don’t eat well and exercise, or take care of themselves. They’re not attractive at all. It’s sad because both men AND women are visual creatures, not just men!
@@motowngirl5891 How old is the boy friend?
Yes, being fit and active is so important.
How can I get him to try out other styles while doing it and how can I tell him that me and my body need more massages,touches than he gives... he's kinda boring sexually but I love him
Be sure you marry a man who came from a loving family , if not it will effect his love giving , he will expect, expect. You can't give what you never received received.
Now, I see why all my ex's turn into ... stalkers. lol
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This 😩 had to threaten one with court with my lawyer 🤦🏾♀️
Same here lol
Lol…when you got it😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤you got it. Some people do not understand the importance of hygiene…that could be a huge deal breaker!!!!
Now I know why my husband is crazy about me. lol.
this looks like a Jared Leto situation here:)) Some day we are going to see a documentary on this guy.
How would you suggest navigating having a very busy hubby who doesn’t prioritize sex?
No one should be bored in bed. If it’s boring usually there is no chemistry or attraction between the couple. And I think it’s the man that should know what his woman wants. This sounds more like you are telling us how to be in a bad boring pornomovie..
Right! All his sided. All what he begs his wife to do but she just rolls over. This guy looks like he can't get it right in praxis, thus he shares his fantasies.😂😂
It’s not just about the man needing to know what our needs are. Very selfish statement. None of this sounds like a “ bad boring porn “. It sounds like you’re more of a disappointment to your partner in bed.
Great but repetitive points
Some of the women here are young and possibly haven’t seen these points before
We're both at 5 to 7 minutes lol
Yep, I am the perfect girl to be with.
Why do you think you’re perfect woman?
Lol... I have a very feminine energy. I am sensual, stimulating, playful, witty, intelligent, authentuc, confident, receptive... Kind. Elegant, charming... Attractive. I smile a lot, I am very happy and I radiate pleasure.... Want to know more? :-)
I've tried all of this but all it led to was daunting sex sessions that became tiresome and stressful, let's face it if you really fancy someone you'll enjoy sex with them without all the rigmarole of ticking off a list of things to do. As for oral, I personally find it abusive and a real turn off.
Not all guys like oral sex, just sayin'...🤗
This should be a 2 way street. Sadly it is not!!
What happens when your doing all 10 things but he totally wont have sex with me anymore. Its been 5 months since hes touched me other than giving me a kiss hello & good bye. He swears hes not cheating.
He may be having trouble getting it up and is ashamed. Get him to take Maca. Read up about it.
He's cheating or on the down low gay?
He was cheating he finally admitted it to me there have been two different women. I forgave him he swore he wouldnt again. Its been a week & all the same crap not coming home execpt to eat & change/get clean clothes. Also he still hasnt touched me. So its time for the talk of getting all his shit out of my place & find someone else to cheat on. The lying cheating son of a bytch!!!.
He’s cheating.
Thank you for your replies. Yes he admitted that he was very sorry that he did the one thing he promised that he would never do because every girlfriend he has ever had cheatec on him & he knows how much it hurts a person. I have been faithful to him when i could have cheated. I just couldnt do that to the man i am crazy i love with. I stayed with him when he was put in jail & did a year of dead time & all charges were dropped. Stayed & was faithful through it all. I really think what started it all was when i got chemical burns on my entire face my left ear both hands & arms up to my elbows. Which is no excuse. I know. I was in extreme pain, crying almost all the time from the pain. I am still dealing with some dry patches on my wrists & forearm. This has taken 6 months of healing so far. I have almost lost my love, almost lost my daughter & grandaughter & i almost lost my apt( which im still fighting my eviction) there were days during my healing that i would have to vacuum my bed 5-6 times a day from all my skin flaky off. I was completly grossed out by this. I looked like a monster not like my self, not even remotely like myself. So i dont blame him entirely. I know if he cant handle me at my worst he doesnt deseve me at my best. However when you know you love someone unconditionally you have to forgive. Its not just letting him walk all over me. Im not a weak woman, or a pushover. He knows there are 5 men waiting just waiting to see if ill kick him out & start dating again. 5 men that want the chance to show me how a woman should be treated. Time will tell. I know his tells now, only to clearly. I hope to never see them again, wish me/us luck.
Why do you look like a cult leader? Sorry but had to say it.
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Pmsl 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤨🫴 don't put that thing in your mouth,he's not going to tell you who or what it's been camping out in.
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I did all these things and he still cheated
Mixing it up..makes the womans focus go away..
It is such a spontaneous
Thing, you can not really say what works.
I think ALL men like 1,4,5
met my partner at the park.. told him that I wasn't wearing underwear.. short skirt.. but he was not game for sneaking off into the woods
Please make up a video about sex and hygiene. Sex is important, but hygiene is extremely important. Thanks
Oh no, we're conscious. Those are called cheat codes 😉
we have been living together for 9months and no sex,we sleep in the same bed. I don't understand why
He could be a narcissist . Sex is a huge issue with narcs. Otherwise run. He’s showing you something is WAY off
He may have a very low sex drive, be getting it elsewhere, or be m@sterbating to porn instead of having sexual relations with you.
He may have a very low sex drive, be getting it elsewhere, or be m@sterbating to porn instead of having sexual relations with you.
He may have a lower sex drive, as many engineer/IT/accountant-type men do, be asexual, be using porn instead of intimacy with you, not be attracted to you , or have an ED issue he doesn’t want to face. Sex is an indicator of the health of the relationship.
Are you communicating?
On the scale from 1/10 my husband is a 10
Congratulations my mate of 41 years was spectacular too. He believed in ladies first...he was a gentleman in bed and everywhere else. I miss him for that most of all but in every way he was my mening and purpose in life. I was a professor of clinical psychology so had a great and busy career, but he was the pinnacle of my life.
This isn't telling me anything I didn't already know 🤷♂️
Then you already know more than most people. 🙂
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I do agree with you. 😄
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Think that I know but could not use this knowkedge
I describe myself as your amoled screen. Sensitive to touch so it turns on my partner big time. Mixing it up is always fun. The action in the bedroom should not be boring.😊
Definitely not hot when he stops in the middle and has to rub on himself to get it to go back up. Please get some blue pills and plan accordingly otherwise I'm all for chasing the younger ones who you may need to train, but at least they can keep up.
Why just give your body away for anyone - let alone “ young “ men in order for what? An orgasm ?! lol. You sound like you’re for the streets and that’s why you’re not married, seeking attention from whatever you can get. Yuk. As a mom to a 20 year old son, this comment grossed me out.
U can give some help too there just sayin.
Ohhh how funny! My comment was deleted 😂 guess the internet hates honesty from others.
Look up Maca. It helps mens libido. And it is awesome for women.
It’s so hard to suggest that he might need a blue pill…..
Why can’t it be routine? He finishes anyway no need for him to complain
is that bad for not having s in 10yrs
Hell yes!!
No wonder my ex keeps coming back 😅❤
But he expects I do all his chores I cut the grass I clean the house I fix the roof it’s not I am not fashionable or ugly gradually I don’t like his smell nothing liked about him but I am living keep myself busy in gardening etc😊
What do you do if he doesn’t even want sex ? And he won’t go to the dr. Should I mention 30 yrs of porn and strippers ( and no I didn’t know he had a secret life )
He is not into you , he is deep dead inside.
Sorry dump him
You say new things over an over, but tell us what new things, this your field of expertise?
That's your fantasy....sorry😂
I am bout all that my hubby said that’s all I think bout is sex but yet he’s so tired smelling like perfume &scratches all over him but it’s my imagination
I thought this was something evryone already did 😐
A man who wants to know what I like would be nice
5 or 10 minutes try an hour and a day to recuperate
the was this dude i was hooking up he told me to stop moaning !
It doesn't last long enough to mix it up. Less than 5 minutes.
Never had that issue but you can communicate with him & try to help him last longer. He needs to understand that you might take longer to be in ecstasy. Remember some men haven't been fortunate to have had good sexual partners so what can they know. There's young guys that are extremely good lovers & there's older men who had a lot of lovers & suppose to be good experienced lovers NOT!!! Sometimes you have to train the older "experienced" men. If you 2 love & care for each other you 2 can work it out. He needs to know your body & you his. Good luck.
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