I wish we had schematherapy with your quality available as a standard in the uk. I feel, we as a culture, and even the subset of mental health/ psychIatry, is not able to be receptive to change, to avoid attunement to their vulnerable child
Drop seeds in the soil. That works beautifully. My supposedly narcissist boyfriend takes a week after I 'drop a seed' to retell the event as I referred to it, using the exact words I did. So whenever I want him to see things a certain way in the future, I frame the situation with specific words. An hear him saying them to me. They get pretty predictable at some point, don't they?
I wish we had schematherapy with your quality available as a standard in the uk. I feel, we as a culture, and even the subset of mental health/ psychIatry, is not able to be receptive to change, to avoid attunement to their vulnerable child
Good news is that Schema Therapy is available in the UK too!
Drop seeds in the soil. That works beautifully.
My supposedly narcissist boyfriend takes a week after I 'drop a seed' to retell the event as I referred to it, using the exact words I did.
So whenever I want him to see things a certain way in the future, I frame the situation with specific words. An hear him saying them to me.
They get pretty predictable at some point, don't they?