Wow, this is getting a lot more views than I'm used to. Thank you for sharing your stories and the kind messages. I've made a video responding to you all (including the hate): th-cam.com/video/3-ELuiCGO8U/w-d-xo.htmlsi=5-hl5dmDd7xDn2zu I also wanted to acknowledge the help my parents gave me to make this 'mini-retirement' happen, in this video: How Much Money Did My Parents Give Me to Travel For 1 Whole Year? th-cam.com/video/9foIGEd8m4k/w-d-xo.htmlsi=zgs_uCQXDjfh1yiD It's somewhat easier for me to see your comments on more recent videos because they don't get lost in the sea of comments here! Or if you want to contact me directly send a message on instagram! @doctorchrisg May you have the courage to design the life you deserve 💙
I was an RN for 30 years and walked away from a well paying job, but the last 5 years were miserable. i quit my job with no plans. I moved across the country and lived in a van for several months. I found a small, rural town to move to. I gave my license up and have never been happier. I live in a pretty poor area and am now considered low income, but have never been happier. I am doing what I want.
I was a highly successful lawyer making tons of money but I wasn’t happy and constantly stressed. Early retired in Vietnam a lot more poor but a lot more happy!!!!
I never went to college. I worked 2 jobs since I was 18. I saved, saved, saved and saved and also lived, lived, lived. I've always lived extremely simple, helping animals, drinking coffee, reading books, doing some research and exploring, and doing a lot of hiking. At 32, I quit normal working- I have saved enough to go to something even less stressful and go live life. I've been doing this for 18 years. I don't have the material things that seem to be required to prove one is successful. Having a backpack, a Jeep and a dog is not seen as successful, at least in the US. I work seasonal jobs to fund my life, so I'm not touching my savings. I wish you peace and happiness.
I knew someone who became a general practitioner MD. He hated it even though he opened his own clinic, worked his own hours and made good money. All his life he simply wanted the title of "doctor" in front of his name. He wasn't married and didn't even have a big house. One day he took a vacation in SE Asia wanting to get away from western society. He stayed for almost six months learning the culinary arts of Thai, Cantonese and Vietnamese dishes and eventually switched to being a chef and catering wherever he was needed in SE Asia. I last heard he lives in the villages in Burma and gives free medical check ups to the poor while living his life as a chef in the city. Maybe that was his purpose. Life is funny that way sometimes I guess
After 14 years of medicine, I’m also quitting to take a career break! I work in palliative care and I have learnt, life is too short and “next time” may never come around.
Kudos! For over 5 years, I’ve been teaching teenagers in the Philippines how to craft high-quality dentures for their elders for less than $10. This simple skill allows the elderly to eat properly, smile with confidence, and live a more fulfilling life. When you take capitalism out of the equation, life starts to make a lot more sense.
@@KatriannaNonDualityThank you! If you're genuinely interested and based in the USA, you'll soon have the opportunity to get involved. I'm currently building a community that teaches how to create most dental appliances yourself at a fraction of the cost, without compromising on quality or aesthetics. There are nearly 70 million people in the US without dental insurance, and many are left to deal with their dental issues alone-this initiative aims to change that.
I am an optometrist and took a sabbatical from 2020- 2023. It was the happiest time of my life in recent times, traveled around Mexico and the Caribbean. Then got bored too and decided to work again, but with a different mindset. I have come to the conclusion, that for me, retirement is overated, just find a purpose, and something you are passionate about, Ikigai like the Japanese call it We all need the breaks to reset, and re-purpose
Gap years every 3 to 5 years…stay young, learn languages, live in the world, not in a box for decades, thank you for sharing, life is meant to be enjoyed, not daily stress
But as a medical doctor, you could explore and share medical remedies and treatments from all over the world to help others. Being a youtuber for the sake of travel makes it all about you, and not others. What about the work of Medecins sans frontieres and similar organizations?. Ur so lucky to have the medical degree: use it in a way that makes you happy or fulfilled while informing and helping others. I trained English teachers in other countries and though I traveled extensively, it was the work that was most satisfying. Good luck! 😊
I'm a doctor in South Korea. I'm also having a "mini retirement" after working as a GP for four years. I sometimes feel vulnerable because I have nowhere to go every day and I have to spend my savings. But at the same time, I have an internal dialogue with myself about what I really like and what I love. Being a doctor is everyone's dream in South Korea, so I think I unconsciously made this decision to conform to that atmosphere. I thought being a doctor was a magic prescription for happiness ever after, but it wasn’t at all. I'm glad to have this time to reflect on myself. It was amazing to hear from other doctors who have lived a life like mine. Thanks for making this video!
I'm glad you are taking a well deserved mini-retirement. And thank you for leaving this comment because it reminds me that there are many people in the world who feel the same way I do.
You won't regret your decision. I'm a lawyer in Canada who is taking time off and am enjoying it so much I may not return. To be a doctor in S. Korea is an incredible feat. You had to be the best of the best at everything. Maybe take some time to envision your ideal life. Expose yourself to new things. Travel. Inexpensive new hobbies can broaden your mind and make you whole. Congrats on the adventure!
I am a gastroenterologist in India in final year of my medical gastroenterology residency . I’ll be finishing in April next year. I have felt miserable and lost doing what I am doing. Miserable to the extent where I wish I would just stop living. You have given me hope. ❤ thank you so much for existing.
Hope you are doing much better now. Have faith things will be better for you. Take a break as soon as you can. All those years of studying and achieving probably drained you.
I was a librarian for 27 years, a single mum. I resigned from my permanent pensionable job in 2017 to become a full time artist. My daughter was 10 years old and I had a mortgage. Things worked out and I have never regretted it for a day. I have recently come through breast cancer treatment thankfully, but I realise that a life beyond‘retirement’ is not guaranteed to any of us. So live your life as best you can. You really do have the key! Enjoyed listening to your story. Keep lit!
Just to say ,I losty job through Bankruptcy,lost my shares and all privileged paid benefits ,lost my health after ,however the losses were so vast I simply could not believe ,yes it is difficult .I took time off to go to a more natural lifestyle ,discovering nature was my healing gift .I encourage you to pursue natural medicine ,just do it on your own without degrees trust me the interest in helping people with medicine natures way ,is the best any companies would love to help you I know conventional medicine is becoming not trustworthy.what saved me was a more naturalistic self education .I taught myself .Don't get emotional ,you will get there on your destiny,we know all of what you are saying ,look for the healing through gifts you don't pay for ,Our earthly experience is worth more than a certificate Love the background in your video ,wishes for you is you get through the memories .Half the battle .Love and strength to you .
I'm currently living in my campervan after stepping away from teaching (for a 3rd time in 29 years) I've rented out my small house and simply plan to stay healthy and enjoy doing the things I love (walking, cycling, running and travel). No grand plan, just following my intuition and ignoring the gremlins that pop up in my head! I recommend the simple life, away from all the nonsense and noise. Great video. Thanks.
Ive served in the military, worked fishing in Alaska, worked on 300ft cell phone towers, and now drive freight trains. Ive been to all 50 states and 48 countries across 6 continents by myself and with my own money. Ive been shamed for it because i still dont have a degree, no house, no wife/kids. Called peter pan, lazy, a bum, and a child. Im only 30.
I think what you have done is incredible and somehow the thought crossed my mind that people who say those things about you might be very jealous. I am 45 and have not done as much as you but still a lot of things which seem crazy to my quite conservative family and for a while I came back and didn't fit in in my country. It is time to be me again 🌞 Thank you for your example and how it sounds contentment 🌞
30 years as a pharmacist. Quit the profession in 2022 at 52. Moved to another country, learning a new language and adapting to a new culture. Best. Decision. Ever. Jump and the net will appear !
@ Yes. You are correct. I was and am fortunate to have had a full career. It has allowed me to relax at this point in my life. But there is a trade of, in my opinion, in the form or work related stress and the possibility of associated illness that accompanies it. I don’t believe there is a right or wrong path. Unfortunately most of us need money to live in this world. I traded “living” for work when I was younger. But with a plan and a consistent job it has allowed me to trade work for a life while I still have some years to enjoy it.
I moved to another country, and have been studying and working continuously for 21 years. Out of the blue, a cancer diagnosis has been like a wake-up about life. My treatment finished a couple of weeks ago. Grateful and thinking much more about happiness, friends, and family.
I shut down my profitable business eight years ago because it was draining my energy, and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. Now, I have a lower income, but 100% of my time is mine to do what I want. I live in a beach destination-literally a paradise-and I’ll never go back to working as hard as I did before.
I think the doctors of the past just drowned their stress and anxiety with various forms of alcohol, drugs, and other vices. When a more health cautious generation like ours hit that point, it becomes a different story like Dr. Chris is having here. As someone who moved from the Philippines to Canada and now back, I completely relate with the idea of mini-retirements and how life is so much more fulfilling here. Life just springs anywhere year-round. Random cat living in your yard, dragonflies, butterflies, ants, snails, worms, bees, etc. just random signs of life 12 months of the year. The being happy 50% of the time also goes in line with the Roman's Golden Rule. Everything in moderation...even happiness. PS. I hate winter.
I am an MD too, 6 years in a big hospital, 4 years on a remote island, 1 year in an evacuation company. I quitted my job last year n started my own restaurant. Life is easy, my mind is clear
I'm 53 and I've taken 3 mini retirements in my life so far -[I'm ready for the next one tbh!!] I'm so glad it's now a "thing" - makes me look a bit less crazy!
The golden handcuffs. Thats how you become a prisioner. You got to be willing to unlock the handcuffs and risk it for the live you want and deserve. No money is worth if you arent happy.
Work has become almost like a religion with everyone reciting the same mantras about 'waterfall versus agile' or 'process improvement' from the vocabulary of LinkedIn. I've seen people who do that for 30 years turn into robots, no sign of life at all it's scary
I was asked that question about the resume gap. I ended up getting the job. The guy who hired me who then became my boss, ended up taking a 6 month sabbatical himself saying I inspired him!!
Hey Chris! This is the first time I see your channel! Am a dr too .. Hated Med school .. Decided to do ecommerce.. after graduation I received aLOT of blame and questions from everyone.. I went to therapy and just realized I don't have to BE a doctor just because I studied it ... Freeing ourselves from titles and embracing life and being happy and fulfilled❤ is what's most important! Seeing your video definitely resonates A LOT ❤ Thank you for having the courage to do it I wish u well mate .. You're on the right track
Thank you for sharing,I resonated with your story. I’m also burnt out from my job and am waiting til the end of this winter then permanently quitting the rat race forever. Nice to hear others are going through the same. 🙏
Getting into Lifestyle Medicine is an excellent move. I have much respect for doctors who help people to not get sick in the first place by lifestyle changes, such as Dr. Michael Greger, Dr. Neal Barnard and Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine. That's the better future of medicine.
I worked as a high school Secretary for many years. I ran into a co worker a while after I had left the school district, he told me he has just lost his wife. They had planned to do something things together but now she was gone. He told me don’t wait to do the things you want to do. He was living with regret. You sound so well grounded. Best wishes as you continue your adventures and follow your heart .
I love this. I’m off work due to ill health. The irony is I’ve not been able to get back into the workforce no matter how hard I try. Watching your video makes me understand that maybe it’s a blessing, and I should enjoy this time where I’m creatively free.
I had breast cancer at 47 years old, caught early, but I'm cancer free, my diet is better and I now see a functional doctor, but I still pay for important visits and expensive blood tests work but there's not a problem to me lol because I make $14k every week in the financial market thanks to my son and his financial coach
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I've worked in the NHS for 25 years in a non-clinical role. It's super stressful and full of toxic managers. I'm 61 and just trying to stick it out for 2 more years, but your video does make me think again...
@@mamacitasalsera - No, I did not stay in nursing, but some parts of it I loved, some wards .. others were traumatic ! and I was shocked at the drugs patients were on. short-staffed too a lot of the time !
I work for the NHS as a cleaner, I’ve seen the student doctors and wonder why they bother. Most of them look like teenagers going into a system where they most probably don’t earn much more than a domestic for doing a horrendously stressful and intense job. I don’t work in a main big hospital now, I found them to be the most dark and depressing places and the staff are miserable to the point of bullying because they are overworked and unhappy. Good for you, you get one life and it’s yours to live and I’m happy for you that you have found your kindred spirit
As someone who has retired from being a solicitor in my late forties I admire your level of awareness at a young age. I only stopped when my work made me ill.
I wanted to go into medicine but changed my mind because I saw the hours my dad worked, he enjoyed his work and encouraged all of us to go into the profession. I went to the UK and decided to train as a Lab Scientist with Medical Microbiology as my major and I enjoyed every aspect of it. I have no regrets and if I had to make a choice, I’d choose the same profession. It’s your life and you have to do what’s best for you. It’s tedious and I believe it’s a calling and not everyone is destined for it. I hope you find something that makes you happy every morning when you wake up and look forward to doing it. Best wishes and peace.
Hi Chris I was so fortunate to see your video because I can strongly relate to it’s content. I worked as senior healthcare professional for nearly 20 years in uk and I always valued the role NHS in this country, however with lack of resources and due to bureaucracy it made our job harder and demoralising people. I quite my job 3 years ago and became a locume . In my leaving meeting with my managers I was told that I c won’t get a job anywhere because I am over 50. But guess what I left and never looked back . Life is precious and if we are happy and healthy then we can always make money. I wish you all the happiness and success in life 🙏🏻🤞🏻
Mini retirements are the way to go I am sure for doctors and nurses in health care (well done!!) but CERTAINLY for us school teachers. So I spend my money NOW and do not wait until I am 67..... My longest "holiday" was 19 months. So far 4 months into the latest mini retirement.
I appreciate you watching and commenting. The experience you provided us in the Philippines had a huge impact on me, I hope you realise you're doing an amazing thing. Take care
I’m now 63, at 18 I detached a ligament in my left knee and almost the interior ligament. I was thinking to go to New York and become a bike messenger that’s all I knew at the time. I went into a deep depression if you want to call it that - it was trauma for sure. Which lasted about 5 years saw me thru under grad school. By then I had fully closed my book on life. I took a meanly job which lasted 20 years till I had the courage to quit. My oldest brother is of the generation who’s belief was education would save the world. They were right but things changed and that didn’t workout. I’m glad to see your generation trekking what’s left of their pathway. Go enjoy yourself and do some good along the way.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I felt incredibly emotional watching this video. I am an accredited registrar in Australia and as much as I love what I do, I find myself increasingly stressed and more simply put, not happy. There are days where I can’t exactly fault anything, yet I feel exhausted with no apparent reason to explain my lack of motivation. Then I feel bad, wondering if I had delivered suboptimal care because of how I felt. Yet, a part of me is resentful. Because services and patients won’t care as much about how I feel the way I care about how they are, or if I am being helpful to them. Even on a bad day, when I struggle to wake, a part of me thinks, “just call in sick”, but then I would remember another doctor would have to bear the burden and we are all miserable, together, or that I would just end up needing to catch up the work myself at the end. As you correctly pointed out, most of us are surrounded by people who have only ever known medicine, or they come from a life blueprint that guaranteed hard work being directly proportional to success and monetary return, which in turn allowed them to feel fulfilled and satisfied. I don’t feel that way about training. I have previously expressed wishes to locum or take breaks in training, I was often be advised not to. And I know they’re good intentions, “you want to go through training and at the end of it, everything will be worth it”. But I went through life constantly delaying that gratification. “Once you’re in medical school, it’ll be worth it… once you start working as a doctor, it’ll be worth it… once you finish training, it’ll be worth it…” like when does this ever end? How much sacrifice do we have to take in order to be happy? Yet financially, I also am not in a position where I can take breaks so really, it feels like I’m between a rock and a hard place. I’m glad you’re happier and thank you again for sharing your experiences and vulnerability. 😊
I would add that being a doctor in training makes your time feel cheap. You are easily replaceable and your expertise is not valued. Your time is a token to fill in the gap that they estimate would be required for each patient depending on the level of need required based on the diagnosis. You are only ever expected to show up but you are not always rewarded for over time because it somehow falls back on the doctor for “mismanagement of time”. Obviously this can vary across services and hospitals, but I have worked in hospital that did not pay us overtime during COVID and we were rostered for 14 days straight. Patients were frustrated, so were their family members. Extra time was taken to explain things to patients, and none of that were taken into consideration. Even post-pandemic, the landscape of medicine has changed. We are now short staffed but hospital is also reluctant to hire locum so we are expected to simply fill in the gaps. And because you’re on the training pathway, it is a top-down relationship that makes it difficult for the registrars/residents/doctors-in-training to have a voice.
Wow, what a video! I am an international student who is studying to become a CRNA in the US, I just chose nursing because I cannot afford to study medicine in the states, and I chose the US because this is the only country I can get a visa to. I am working in two different jobs to pay for all my tuitions. It’s too stressful to study, get good grades and work in two jobs. This is particularly difficult for me as I already have a bachelor’s and a master’s degree in Linguistics and Literature from my country (Turkmenistan). As you said, I feel like I’m in my own mental prison, always trying to find happiness even in the smallest thing, full of worries about my future and finances. This sadly stems from the fact that I’m from an undeveloped country, which makes everything even more challenging for me. I really liked this video, especially the part about mini retirements to reflect on your life, and find what you truly want in your life. I hope that you find what you really want, become a dad, and be happy! Thank you for your video!!!!
Being immigrant is being brave in its own, use food bank more, second hand clothes, share books for studies if possible…look around how everyone saves, maybe scholarships etc. If others have done it , you can do it too.
Medical school in America is so expensive that those who wanted to be professional healers can’t afford the training without incurring huge debt that takes many years to pay off. Doctors in training, and recent graduates live very poor lifestyles. This is totally unnecessary. Medical schools should not be ”for profit” institutions, charging high tuition and making their investors wealthy. If they were affordable, we would have many more American doctors, and health care in America would not be so expensive and unavailable to much of the population because they can’t afford it. This is a mess in America, and many, many people are suffering because of it. Young, caring doctors become stressed, overwhelmed, and depressed, and quit because the situation is untenable. And then we have even fewer doctors.
But after residency they earn huge amounts and are able to pay off easily and live luxurious lives. In other countries doctors don't earn as much and med schools are not as expensive.
Dude, you are right. As a support I have totally let this 23 minutes commercial play without escaping in your video and hopefully will help you to continue making inspiring videos. Cheers! (Btw, I also works in NHS and I feel your pain)
Wow, you guys look the picture of health! I really appreciate the fact that you mentioned not everybody is in the fortunate position to just drop everything & follow their dreams. That was very thoughtful 😊
😭😭😭. I am literally sobbing from this. I feel like i am the person you were mentioning. And why is it that whenever i feel miserable, videos like this of yours always gets uploaded and notified to me?! huhu! I am thankful though for the enlightenment you give. I think i am imprisoned mentally...i just dont know how to get out. God please help me! PS: I think the Philippines changed you more than any other. Your exposure to how life is so difficult in the other side of the world opened your eyes. I am glad you had that opportunity. Good for you.
Hey James I appreciate you watching my videos and I'm glad they help you in some way. I agree the Philippines had a huge affect on me and I'm grateful for it. I genuinely and sincerely hope you get everything you want out of your life. You seem like a person who deserves it :)
Similarly, I dropped my life as I knew it, at age of 40 , being a singly childless woman, and started a new one in another country, and boy was that a drastic much needed leap, but it all worked out for best. It was 25 years ago. God is good. Much love.
"Physician heal theyself". You can't really take care of others unless you take care of yourself. It took me longer to figure out what I'm glad you realized much sooner. Good luck Dr. G, from the ED and Dr. S:)
I am so grateful for this! I've let go of my job and sold everything, even my house, to live a more fulfilling life. See the world. Thank you for showing me I'm not the only one. ❤
Thank you Dr Chris, I'm 55 and unhappy where I am right now.. I'm really thinking of going back to the Channel islands where I worked 35yrs ago.. At least I can get back to the UK if I'm needed for elderly parents. It's given me something to think about ❤🎉
This is of the most inspiring videos I have ever watched on YT so thank you. Really makes me think about what more I want from life. I hope you get a million views and I hope you get the future you dream of.
What a sad yet beautiful story, the sadness being trapped on the merry go round of life, the beauty, putting the brakes on the merry go around and seeking a direction,and finding your happiness. here is another quote for your list,, Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both, and you won’t have to hunt for happiness.” - William E. Gladstone stay strong stay happy, and continue to share your knowledge of life.
I’ve made similar choices for my life. I’m “front loading” my life. I don’t want to save, save and save for a time that might never come. I want to do all I can while I can, while I’m able to be active. I often feel societal pressure to live a more traditional life but lately that pressure just makes me more grateful for the choices I’ve made. I feel very lucky and i also realize it is an enormous privilege to have these choices in life. It’s refreshing to see someone else doing the same. I may not have the amount of money in my savings as many people do but my life bank is so full. I’m very happy and in awe of the beautiful things around me and life in general every single day.
Thanks Chris,I so enjoyed this video.Felt like a little girl whose mother is telling her a night time story.You have a natural talent.I will travel the world through your lense.🌸
I'm watching for the first time, and just subscribed because there's a lot going on here. Just the right pace. Not at all egotistical. Imagine being so good at self analysis at such a young age.
Wonderful video!! Thank you!! I did not realise I was trapped until a few years ago. I started my own channel three years ago about poetry and philosophy and never been happier. You are absolutely right, time and space for figuring out what one really wants is the most important thing one can do for self and others!
Thanks for sharing. I’ve been as far as I wanted to go in academic medicine…department chief. No one understood why I would resign and step aside from the prestige and money, but I had been having internal dialogue and knew I needed a mini retirement. I took 9 months off, then returned to a similar position at another hospital. I am now 7 months in my second mini retirement. The time away has given me more clarity. At this point I recognize how much I enjoy teaching people how to prevent diseases in the first place, and I love not having a set work schedule. I wish everyone was in the position to be able to take time away to seek clarity, and have the opportunity to reinvent and focus on what they enjoy.
Thanks for sharing your story! I'm glad the time off gave you the clarity you needed. I find it reassuring to hear doctors from all over the world having a similar experience. Good luck on your journey!
I'm also a general practitioner who graduated last year. Resigned from my job after 1.5 years. I'm losing the passion to take care for people while being severely underwaged with toxic environment. Transitioning to business at the moment. I just couldn't imagine myself having a life like my consultants (dealing with toxic colleagues, working your whole life serving people, endless examinations, less and lesser time for pursuing your passion, etc.). The profession really demands genuin passion and sacrifice.
Planning to take about a year off starting this Jan. This will be the first time I’ve done this, am a bit nervous, but absolutely looking forward to it.
what you see as a privilege is really not so much that... your privilege really caused your crisis... the people with no privilege feel so much gratitude for everything - - and that is the greatest privilege & joy of all in life.... it is a gift ....
Chris, at 13:00 your statement about preventative measures stood out to me. I’m a software engineer in my 30s who’s able to do the same as you. I had some health issues and had to go deep into this field. What helped me to see things better is cross disciplinary approach. Biochemistry is just barely scratching the surface. Psychology pushes it a bit further. But what really helped me is physics. More specifically photobiology and planetary sciences. Mix that with some of the spirituality work and you’ll see how many more variables are included in holistic health.
Hey Chris, I'm a psychiatrist in NZ. I see quite a few burnout nurses, doctors, lawyers, and other professionals, in my clinic. Good on you for prioritising your mental health. It's much more important to be a happy and balanced doctor. The old school thinking believes that doctors ought to be martyrs but that thinking often leads to physician suicide. If this carries on, we won't have any more doctors to go around! Take care, and pop over the Tasman for a visit!
Thank you for this video. You are an inspiration and an eye opener. I can relate. Had been stuck in job where I was not happy. I am in a better position now. Freedom and time is more important than money.
What I learned was just because someone says that a job or career is the way to go and makes a lot of cash, take it with a grain of salt. Go for what you want to do. Believe in yourself and your abilities. It’s up to you to make it happen for yourself. You have to live with the choices you make. I have to agree going on trips even if you can only afford a couple of days of travel, it makes all the difference to one’s disposition. It makes something to look forward to. Life is short.
I’m 53 and live in a small town in Connecticut. My daughter moved to Boston and is an adult. I’ve lived overseas for spans of my life and now I’m ready to go again. My life has become a groundhog’s day. Same thing daily and I’m living and working to house my stuff in a world that doesn’t suit me anymore. It’s time to go.
@ and it’s just stuff. And, I feel like with every day, I accumulate more stuff trying to make my life different or better where I am. I feel as if I’m chasing something I’ll never be able to catch.
@@JerrisEverydayPeople I sometimes feel I am being buried by it. I remember living out of a suitcase when in Europe and being much happier. I am moving in that direction.
I watched n TH-cam (Dr. Goobie and his dog Doobie) a story like yours. A MD Neurosurgeon graduated from MIT quieted his job at a well-known and prestigious hospital because the stress he went through was extremely bad. Also, he had to have certain number of surgeries in order to comply the hospital financial numbers… sad. I wish the best for you. Travel to South America and enjoy you precious live. 🙏🥰❤️
We are from similar backgrounds and I think around a similar age. I’m really glad I found this video as it resonated a lot with me. I devoted so much of the years when most people were having fun to training and becoming a lawyer and today I feel exactly like this.
I think you chose the right thing, to delay your gratification and pursue what you really wanted, setting aside some fun stuff for more profound pursuits in life. Now its time to have fun and enjoy...If you had it the other way, you will be an empty shell with no substance and no income.
Raw truth. Thanks. Mental health and internal fulfilment are things that everyone is discovering. Discovering the small simple things that give satisfaction are precious. Family time and self time i think will outweigh being over worked. A balanced lifestyle is probably what i am trying to get at. My friend worked all his life in the mining industry had made lots of $ , travelled overseas every year chasing girls in the Philippines. Had the dream life as he told everyone....got sick about 6months ago and recently died from lung cancer. A very big strong german guy-he lived to 60yrs. Very tragic. The point is he could had retired 5yrs ago but chose not to because he couldn't identify an alternative option.
I'm about to finish your video and just have to say thank you so much for doing this. It makes me feel validated and even more confident, and grateful about my decision to quit my job, get a break here and there whenever possible, and change my path. Sometimes the judgement of society made me feel guilty and unable to enjoy my break from work, burnout, and never ending studying. But hearing you talk about it, makes me realize that I made this decision for very similar reasons and that the decision makes sense for me. I am happy with my path and motivated. I think your video will help many people to try new things and gain courage and new perspectives.
Hello Dr Chris! I was very happy to find your video because your life trajectory seems a bit similar to mine and I have been feeling lost for the past few years just as you did. I am an emergency medicine doctor and due to complete burn out I started to consider working in general practice, but I’m not sure if it’s the right choice for me.I’ve never heard of a mini retirement but it’s much better than quitting medicine entirely. I still feel lost and empty, and I have a lot to think about regarding my career. I admire you for finding the right path for yourself, please keep making videos and be happy.
All the best with your plans! I’m an NHS trained nephrologist - work has been too stressful. I’m transitioning to starting a business in a different field. I’m enjoying life much more!
In the Netherlands many work part time thats also an option. Did you discuss this with your employer? Or you mean you want to move away from healthcare?
@@mradventurer8104 thanks for the question. the “transitioning” part is me doing locums as I get the non-healthcare related business going. Yes part time work is available too but longer term I think I’ll struggle to do the two at the same time
Thankyou 💛💛💛 for sharing your thoughts and being so vulnerable with your process.... so very precious! ......... I studied and worked as an interior designer and ended up hating the work. I used to love the image, but deep down i despised the superficiality.... Through different circumstances, i left this work, spend a few years reorienting and am now working in a minimal wage job with special needs children, who, through no choice of their own, are mistreated and misunderstood by our superficial and money - orientated system. I've never felt more right in what I'm doing, and now iam able to use my creative talents in ways that really matter 💛... the capitalistic-ego-worshipping system now looks down upon me, but the children show me how much me just being there for them matters. Life is blooming 🌼🌸🍀
I have a degree in physiotherapy but I worked as a live-in nanny for this lovely family for 7 years until the kids pretty much able to do things on their own and no longer needed my service. I enjoyed that job very much even if some of my physiotherapy colleagues looks me down. With my little saving from that job, I was able to purchased a small plot in a tiny island in southeast asia for less than 5k $ and built a simple cabin with 2 rental native huts for the total cost of 10k$. I go fishing whenever I want and have a little garden. These are the things that makes me happy now. Just do things that makes you happy. Life is all about the journey because our destination is final.
Hey Chris, I am listening to your words in a coffee shop, thinking about life. I am a software engineer in Singapore, earning a salary better than average, and having some work-life balance. However, I am still eager for freedom and full control of my own life. At the age of 30 this year, I decided to start my side hustle, an email newsletter that aims to popularize AI to non-technical people and investors. I do not have a lot of subscribers for now, but I do enjoy writing and putting my own thoughts into words. I feel the power and genuinity of your voice, and subscribed to your channel. Looking forward to see more in the future. Cheers.
Hello! For the past couple of months, I’ve been exploring topics related to investments, finance, and retirement. Just now, your channel was recommended to me. Your discussion on mini retirements is a refreshing approach to work-life balance, and I enjoyed hearing your thoughts and experiences. You caught my attention, and I’ve subscribed to your channel. I see you have 4.98k subscribers, and I look forward to watching you grow. Thanks so much!.
You must be in this world but not of this world. We must stay here with the awareness that we don't belong to here. Be ready to give up to everything to receive the greatest reward.
This whole video and your shared experience felt like a big strong hug for me, thank you :') I share more or less your financial background and overall life, I'm a Veterinarian Doctor and I actually find purpose in what I do, helping animals and their owners, but it is not that beautiful profession people believe it is all the time. I have worked 4 or more different jobs in the vet area (one in Australia) since I graduated 4 years ago but it seems I am constantly being pushed out of them, generally because of the work ambience - overworked, overstressed colleagues (myself included). I also love creating and have my own TH-cam travel channel; I love sharing my story and making videos... that feels like it is my purpose also, and I feel constantly it might make me more happy than being a Vet. I just have to find a way to make it work financially. I get worried sick sometimes though, that I have to be tied to my Vet job forever... and feel miserable because I can't make it work outside of it. But your video made me realize I can do these breaks in my life forever and have both worlds... THANK YOU for sharing you story, it meant a lot to me
Cheers Chris, I've not long turned 58, I totally agree with you, I had a similar epiphany years ago, I have young children whom I will be sharing this video with so thank you ❤
Really enjoyed this video. I thought it was super insightful. Pencilled in my first mini-retirement for age 30, so I can travel for a few months. Cheers!
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Wow, this is getting a lot more views than I'm used to. Thank you for sharing your stories and the kind messages.
I've made a video responding to you all (including the hate):
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I also wanted to acknowledge the help my parents gave me to make this 'mini-retirement' happen, in this video: How Much Money Did My Parents Give Me to Travel For 1 Whole Year?
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It's somewhat easier for me to see your comments on more recent videos because they don't get lost in the sea of comments here! Or if you want to contact me directly send a message on instagram! @doctorchrisg
May you have the courage to design the life you deserve 💙
You are truly speaking truth from your very heart that many people your age so so are in your place
More views because people need uncommon wisdom more than ever.
I am hippie living in my van and so over working....
I love how people are coming out and exposing these things.
The rat race 🐀
Chasing Material wealth for happiness 😔
I love TH-cam 😍
Cool story man
I was an RN for 30 years and walked away from a well paying job, but the last 5 years were miserable. i quit my job with no plans. I moved across the country and lived in a van for several months. I found a small, rural town to move to. I gave my license up and have never been happier. I live in a pretty poor area and am now considered low income, but have never been happier. I am doing what I want.
I hope you can find something that brings income there.
Wow, didn't you save?
@@cherb3145Often very hard to save given the costs of housing, transport etc
license means *****........ you are still a Nurse. and could be very helpful when someone is injured.
a paper DOESN'T define your skills
why woudl you give up licence
I was a highly successful lawyer making tons of money but I wasn’t happy and constantly stressed. Early retired in Vietnam a lot more poor but a lot more happy!!!!
How are you going to stay in Vietnam?
It's not poverty when you live of capital and don't have to work early lol
@@Kitiwakeborder runs a few a year is the usual.
What do you mean a lot more poor? Can't you use some of your money with the low cost of living?
@sweetbeep he has a pie that will last him a couple of lifetimes 🥧 🍰
I never went to college. I worked 2 jobs since I was 18. I saved, saved, saved and saved and also lived, lived, lived. I've always lived extremely simple, helping animals, drinking coffee, reading books, doing some research and exploring, and doing a lot of hiking. At 32, I quit normal working- I have saved enough to go to something even less stressful and go live life. I've been doing this for 18 years. I don't have the material things that seem to be required to prove one is successful. Having a backpack, a Jeep and a dog is not seen as successful, at least in the US. I work seasonal jobs to fund my life, so I'm not touching my savings. I wish you peace and happiness.
@@txspacemom765 nice dude, where and what suggestions do you have for seasonal jobs? I've been thinking of creating a similar lifestyle. Thanks
@@briant5135 Parks, Campsites, Holiday seasonal at stores.
Good on you
Your greatest wealth is your soul and a lot of us
sell it to live a lie... That ideal capitalist idea of success is empty
@@briant5135I'm not a dude but I like the sentiment.
I knew someone who became a general practitioner MD. He hated it even though he opened his own clinic, worked his own hours and made good money. All his life he simply wanted the title of "doctor" in front of his name. He wasn't married and didn't even have a big house. One day he took a vacation in SE Asia wanting to get away from western society. He stayed for almost six months learning the culinary arts of Thai, Cantonese and Vietnamese dishes and eventually switched to being a chef and catering wherever he was needed in SE Asia.
I last heard he lives in the villages in Burma and gives free medical check ups to the poor while living his life as a chef in the city. Maybe that was his purpose. Life is funny that way sometimes I guess
This is awesome..
Truly inspiring.
Burma has been renamed Myanmar for quite some time now. Not a safe place politically. Good luck to him.
@@BlueEyed888 he bought an insurance policy, don't worry lol.
After 14 years of medicine, I’m also quitting to take a career break! I work in palliative care and I have learnt, life is too short and “next time” may never come around.
Good for you. 14 years in palliative definitely would give you good perspective. Enjoy your career break!
Kudos! For over 5 years, I’ve been teaching teenagers in the Philippines how to craft high-quality dentures for their elders for less than $10. This simple skill allows the elderly to eat properly, smile with confidence, and live a more fulfilling life. When you take capitalism out of the equation, life starts to make a lot more sense.
That’s amazing!
this is awesome! now i want to learn how to craft high quality dentures for elders for less than $10!
@@KatriannaNonDualityThank you! If you're genuinely interested and based in the USA, you'll soon have the opportunity to get involved. I'm currently building a community that teaches how to create most dental appliances yourself at a fraction of the cost, without compromising on quality or aesthetics. There are nearly 70 million people in the US without dental insurance, and many are left to deal with their dental issues alone-this initiative aims to change that.
Thank you, Sir, for your valued contribution. God bless you more. 🙏
Cheap toothpaste and toothbrushes is a better solution.
I am an optometrist and took a sabbatical from 2020- 2023. It was the happiest time of my life in recent times, traveled around Mexico and the Caribbean. Then got bored too and decided to work again, but with a different mindset. I have come to the conclusion, that for me, retirement is overated, just find a purpose, and something you are passionate about, Ikigai like the Japanese call it
We all need the breaks to reset, and re-purpose
Love it, thanks for sharing. I too have just landed in Mexico, beautiful country!
Agreed meaning is paramount.
Welcome to my country @@doctorchrisg
I did the same thing
Good point… endless travel becomes boring too after a while.
Gap years every 3 to 5 years…stay young, learn languages, live in the world, not in a box for decades, thank you for sharing, life is meant to be enjoyed, not daily stress
But as a medical doctor, you could explore and share medical remedies and treatments from all over the world to help others. Being a youtuber for the sake of travel makes it all about you, and not others. What about the work of Medecins sans frontieres and similar organizations?. Ur so lucky to have the medical degree: use it in a way that makes you happy or fulfilled while informing and helping others. I trained English teachers in other countries and though I traveled extensively, it was the work that was most satisfying. Good luck! 😊
Yeah, Chinese will own you with that philosophy
@@arcabuznonsense
If you can.. That would me great
I'm a doctor in South Korea. I'm also having a "mini retirement" after working as a GP for four years. I sometimes feel vulnerable because I have nowhere to go every day and I have to spend my savings. But at the same time, I have an internal dialogue with myself about what I really like and what I love. Being a doctor is everyone's dream in South Korea, so I think I unconsciously made this decision to conform to that atmosphere. I thought being a doctor was a magic prescription for happiness ever after, but it wasn’t at all. I'm glad to have this time to reflect on myself. It was amazing to hear from other doctors who have lived a life like mine. Thanks for making this video!
I'm glad you are taking a well deserved mini-retirement. And thank you for leaving this comment because it reminds me that there are many people in the world who feel the same way I do.
You won't regret your decision. I'm a lawyer in Canada who is taking time off and am enjoying it so much I may not return. To be a doctor in S. Korea is an incredible feat. You had to be the best of the best at everything. Maybe take some time to envision your ideal life. Expose yourself to new things. Travel. Inexpensive new hobbies can broaden your mind and make you whole. Congrats on the adventure!
@@doctorchrisgright on. I’m 24 years into an art career as a doctor too. Should have been an architect I think! 😂😂
I am a gastroenterologist in India in final year of my medical gastroenterology residency . I’ll be finishing in April next year. I have felt miserable and lost doing what I am doing. Miserable to the extent where I wish I would just stop living. You have given me hope. ❤ thank you so much for existing.
Hang in there ❤ you will find yourself
Thank you. Good luck, things will get better
Hope you are doing much better now. Have faith things will be better for you. Take a break as soon as you can. All those years of studying and achieving probably drained you.
I was a librarian for 27 years, a single mum. I resigned from my permanent pensionable job in 2017 to become a full time artist. My daughter was 10 years old and I had a mortgage. Things worked out and I have never regretted it for a day. I have recently come through breast cancer treatment thankfully, but I realise that a life beyond‘retirement’ is not guaranteed to any of us. So live your life as best you can. You really do have the key! Enjoyed listening to your story. Keep lit!
Thank you for posting
Just to say ,I losty job through Bankruptcy,lost my shares and all privileged paid benefits ,lost my health after ,however the losses were so vast I simply could not believe ,yes it is difficult .I took time off to go to a more natural lifestyle ,discovering nature was my healing gift .I encourage you to pursue natural medicine ,just do it on your own without degrees trust me the interest in helping people with medicine natures way ,is the best any companies would love to help you I know conventional medicine is becoming not trustworthy.what saved me was a more naturalistic self education .I taught myself .Don't get emotional ,you will get there on your destiny,we know all of what you are saying ,look for the healing through gifts you don't pay for ,Our earthly experience is worth more than a certificate
Love the background in your video ,wishes for you is you get through the memories .Half the battle .Love and strength to you .
I'm currently living in my campervan after stepping away from teaching (for a 3rd time in 29 years) I've rented out my small house and simply plan to stay healthy and enjoy doing the things I love (walking, cycling, running and travel). No grand plan, just following my intuition and ignoring the gremlins that pop up in my head! I recommend the simple life, away from all the nonsense and noise. Great video. Thanks.
I also quit teaching recently, but I can't say that I'm not worried about my future and how I'm gonna make money to survive
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Ive served in the military, worked fishing in Alaska, worked on 300ft cell phone towers, and now drive freight trains. Ive been to all 50 states and 48 countries across 6 continents by myself and with my own money. Ive been shamed for it because i still dont have a degree, no house, no wife/kids. Called peter pan, lazy, a bum, and a child. Im only 30.
I think what you have done is incredible and somehow the thought crossed my mind that people who say those things about you might be very jealous. I am 45 and have not done as much as you but still a lot of things which seem crazy to my quite conservative family and for a while I came back and didn't fit in in my country. It is time to be me again 🌞 Thank you for your example and how it sounds contentment 🌞
Well I used to live like this but not on such scale. I felt exhausted and I settled at age of 33.
You live an incredible life!
they are just jealous you have freedom to relocate how you want but they cannot
30 years as a pharmacist. Quit the profession in 2022 at 52. Moved to another country, learning a new language and adapting to a new culture. Best. Decision. Ever. Jump and the net will appear !
Jump and the net will appear, I like your heroic take on life.
you must have made a lot of savings as a pharmacist for that long. many of us cant work more than 5 yrs in this toxic environment
yes but over these 30 yr you've build a solid savings so you may relax now, right? so one can not completely deny jobs
@ Yes. You are correct. I was and am fortunate to have had a full career. It has allowed me to relax at this point in my life. But there is a trade of, in my opinion, in the form or work related stress and the possibility of associated illness that accompanies it. I don’t believe there is a right or wrong path. Unfortunately most of us need money to live in this world. I traded “living” for work when I was younger. But with a plan and a consistent job it has allowed me to trade work for a life while I still have some years to enjoy it.
@@Golightandgo come over to Australia :)
I moved to another country, and have been studying and working continuously for 21 years. Out of the blue, a cancer diagnosis has been like a wake-up about life. My treatment finished a couple of weeks ago. Grateful and thinking much more about happiness, friends, and family.
Most definitely was lacking in the vitamin D! Enjoy your next travels
I shut down my profitable business eight years ago because it was draining my energy, and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. Now, I have a lower income, but 100% of my time is mine to do what I want. I live in a beach destination-literally a paradise-and I’ll never go back to working as hard as I did before.
I think the doctors of the past just drowned their stress and anxiety with various forms of alcohol, drugs, and other vices. When a more health cautious generation like ours hit that point, it becomes a different story like Dr. Chris is having here.
As someone who moved from the Philippines to Canada and now back, I completely relate with the idea of mini-retirements and how life is so much more fulfilling here. Life just springs anywhere year-round. Random cat living in your yard, dragonflies, butterflies, ants, snails, worms, bees, etc. just random signs of life 12 months of the year.
The being happy 50% of the time also goes in line with the Roman's Golden Rule. Everything in moderation...even happiness.
PS. I hate winter.
Everything in moderation, even happiness. I love that! Thanks for your comment.
I am an MD too, 6 years in a big hospital, 4 years on a remote island, 1 year in an evacuation company. I quitted my job last year n started my own restaurant. Life is easy, my mind is clear
I'm 53 and I've taken 3 mini retirements in my life so far -[I'm ready for the next one tbh!!] I'm so glad it's now a "thing" - makes me look a bit less crazy!
You're definitely doing it right!
Yes, I've been doing this for years, didn't realize it was a thing but it was a natural thing to take a break and break away on your own.
The golden handcuffs. Thats how you become a prisioner. You got to be willing to unlock the handcuffs and risk it for the live you want and deserve. No money is worth if you arent happy.
Work has become almost like a religion with everyone reciting the same mantras about 'waterfall versus agile' or 'process improvement' from the vocabulary of LinkedIn. I've seen people who do that for 30 years turn into robots, no sign of life at all it's scary
"The golden handcuffs", is such a unique, but apt term!🙂👍🏽👋🏾👨🏽⚕️
Wow, well said.
Have you seen the meme “can you explain your resume gap?” Interviewee: “That was the only time I felt joy in my life.”
😂 love it
I was asked that question about the resume gap. I ended up getting the job. The guy who hired me who then became my boss, ended up taking a 6 month sabbatical himself saying I inspired him!!
Hey Chris! This is the first time I see your channel!
Am a dr too .. Hated Med school .. Decided to do ecommerce.. after graduation I received aLOT of blame and questions from everyone..
I went to therapy and just realized I don't have to BE a doctor just because I studied it ...
Freeing ourselves from titles and embracing life and being happy and fulfilled❤ is what's most important!
Seeing your video definitely resonates A LOT ❤ Thank you for having the courage to do it
I wish u well mate .. You're on the right track
You are still young. May God guide you every step of your way.
Ameen! 🙏🏽 What a beautiful prayer!😊❤
Thank you for sharing,I resonated with your story. I’m also burnt out from my job and am waiting til the end of this winter then permanently quitting the rat race forever. Nice to hear others are going through the same. 🙏
Great humble ending! Very respectful! I enjoyed this video!
Getting into Lifestyle Medicine is an excellent move. I have much respect for doctors who help people to not get sick in the first place by lifestyle changes, such as Dr. Michael Greger, Dr. Neal Barnard and Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine. That's the better future of medicine.
I worked as a high school Secretary for many years. I ran into a co worker a while after I had left the school district, he told me he has just lost his wife. They had planned to do something things together but now she was gone. He told me don’t wait to do the things you want to do. He was living with regret. You sound so well grounded. Best wishes as you continue your adventures and follow your heart .
You are right. People are waiting for something to be happy. Be happy now. Live now. Thank you.
Couldn't agree more 🙌
agree with you 🤝
I love this. I’m off work due to ill health. The irony is I’ve not been able to get back into the workforce no matter how hard I try. Watching your video makes me understand that maybe it’s a blessing, and I should enjoy this time where I’m creatively free.
Why? Have you been off for too long?
I had breast cancer at 47 years old, caught early, but I'm cancer free, my diet is better and I now see a functional doctor, but I still pay for important visits and expensive blood tests work but there's not a problem to me lol because I make $14k every week in the financial market thanks to my son and his financial coach
I'm happy for you, keep exercising and sleep more
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, Can you show me how to trade profitably, I honestly need another source of steady income
Kate Mellon Bruce is not just my family’s financial advisor, she’s a licensed and FINRA agent who other families in the US employs her services
She's active on face book @
I've worked in the NHS for 25 years in a non-clinical role. It's super stressful and full of toxic managers. I'm 61 and just trying to stick it out for 2 more years, but your video does make me think again...
25 years is a huge commitment! I hope you decide what’s right for you :)
@@doctorchrisg thank you!
That's amazing, I studied nursing at U.C.H. - 1981 to 1984 ! it was an eye-opener !
@@Amanda_downunder are you still in nursing? It's tough!
@@mamacitasalsera - No, I did not stay in nursing, but some parts of it I loved, some wards .. others were traumatic ! and I was shocked at the drugs patients were on. short-staffed too a lot of the time !
I work for the NHS as a cleaner, I’ve seen the student doctors and wonder why they bother. Most of them look like teenagers going into a system where they most probably don’t earn much more than a domestic for doing a horrendously stressful and intense job. I don’t work in a main big hospital now, I found them to be the most dark and depressing places and the staff are miserable to the point of bullying because they are overworked and unhappy. Good for you, you get one life and it’s yours to live and I’m happy for you that you have found your kindred spirit
👍🌹!
Thank you for sharing your observations and you're kind comment!
who came here cause they watch another youtuber who was a neorgsurgeon and graduated from mit and now quits and becoming a youtuber?
Yes, I am following the Neurosurgeon, as well. My life has changed since then..
Yes! Both of them are very inspiring! Kudos to both of them and anyone else who chooses their own happiness over their career!
No, what’s his channel called please
@@lesleyhubble2976 Goobie and Doobie
@@lesleyhubble2976 Doobie and Goobie
As someone who has retired from being a solicitor in my late forties I admire your level of awareness at a young age. I only stopped when my work made me ill.
I hope you're well.
I wanted to go into medicine but changed my mind because I saw the hours my dad worked, he enjoyed his work and encouraged all of us to go into the profession. I went to the UK and decided to train as a Lab Scientist with Medical Microbiology as my major and I enjoyed every aspect of it. I have no regrets and if I had to make a choice, I’d choose the same profession. It’s your life and you have to do what’s best for you. It’s tedious and I believe it’s a calling and not everyone is destined for it. I hope you find something that makes you happy every morning when you wake up and look forward to doing it. Best wishes and peace.
Hi Chris
I was so fortunate to see your video because I can strongly relate to it’s content.
I worked as senior healthcare professional for nearly 20 years in uk and I always valued the role NHS in this country, however with lack of resources and due to bureaucracy it made our job harder and demoralising people.
I quite my job 3 years ago and became a locume .
In my leaving meeting with my managers I was told that I c won’t get a job anywhere because I am over 50.
But guess what I left and never looked back .
Life is precious and if we are happy and healthy then we can always make money.
I wish you all the happiness and success in life 🙏🏻🤞🏻
Mini retirements are the way to go I am sure for doctors and nurses in health care (well done!!) but CERTAINLY for us school teachers. So I spend my money NOW and do not wait until I am 67..... My longest "holiday" was 19 months. So far 4 months into the latest mini retirement.
How do I explain the gap in the resume then
Time is so precious! Enjoy and take care. Thanks about your philosophies.
I appreciate you watching and commenting. The experience you provided us in the Philippines had a huge impact on me, I hope you realise you're doing an amazing thing. Take care
Thanks, mate - hey, I got a question: Do u use tuna juice as lube?
I’m now 63, at 18 I detached a ligament in my left knee and almost the interior ligament. I was thinking to go to New York and become a bike messenger that’s all I knew at the time. I went into a deep depression if you want to call it that - it was trauma for sure. Which lasted about 5 years saw me thru under grad school. By then I had fully closed my book on life. I took a meanly job which lasted 20 years till I had the courage to quit. My oldest brother is of the generation who’s belief was education would save the world. They were right but things changed and that didn’t workout. I’m glad to see your generation trekking what’s left of their pathway. Go enjoy yourself and do some good along the way.
Thank you for speaking about this, Chris! Good luck on your journey x
Thank you for sharing your journey. I felt incredibly emotional watching this video. I am an accredited registrar in Australia and as much as I love what I do, I find myself increasingly stressed and more simply put, not happy. There are days where I can’t exactly fault anything, yet I feel exhausted with no apparent reason to explain my lack of motivation. Then I feel bad, wondering if I had delivered suboptimal care because of how I felt. Yet, a part of me is resentful. Because services and patients won’t care as much about how I feel the way I care about how they are, or if I am being helpful to them. Even on a bad day, when I struggle to wake, a part of me thinks, “just call in sick”, but then I would remember another doctor would have to bear the burden and we are all miserable, together, or that I would just end up needing to catch up the work myself at the end. As you correctly pointed out, most of us are surrounded by people who have only ever known medicine, or they come from a life blueprint that guaranteed hard work being directly proportional to success and monetary return, which in turn allowed them to feel fulfilled and satisfied. I don’t feel that way about training. I have previously expressed wishes to locum or take breaks in training, I was often be advised not to. And I know they’re good intentions, “you want to go through training and at the end of it, everything will be worth it”. But I went through life constantly delaying that gratification. “Once you’re in medical school, it’ll be worth it… once you start working as a doctor, it’ll be worth it… once you finish training, it’ll be worth it…” like when does this ever end? How much sacrifice do we have to take in order to be happy? Yet financially, I also am not in a position where I can take breaks so really, it feels like I’m between a rock and a hard place. I’m glad you’re happier and thank you again for sharing your experiences and vulnerability. 😊
I would add that being a doctor in training makes your time feel cheap. You are easily replaceable and your expertise is not valued. Your time is a token to fill in the gap that they estimate would be required for each patient depending on the level of need required based on the diagnosis. You are only ever expected to show up but you are not always rewarded for over time because it somehow falls back on the doctor for “mismanagement of time”. Obviously this can vary across services and hospitals, but I have worked in hospital that did not pay us overtime during COVID and we were rostered for 14 days straight. Patients were frustrated, so were their family members. Extra time was taken to explain things to patients, and none of that were taken into consideration. Even post-pandemic, the landscape of medicine has changed. We are now short staffed but hospital is also reluctant to hire locum so we are expected to simply fill in the gaps. And because you’re on the training pathway, it is a top-down relationship that makes it difficult for the registrars/residents/doctors-in-training to have a voice.
What I liked is your VOICE, find joy in things that can't be bought, nature never betrayed the heart........
Wow, what a video!
I am an international student who is studying to become a CRNA in the US, I just chose nursing because I cannot afford to study medicine in the states, and I chose the US because this is the only country I can get a visa to. I am working in two different jobs to pay for all my tuitions. It’s too stressful to study, get good grades and work in two jobs. This is particularly difficult for me as I already have a bachelor’s and a master’s degree in Linguistics and Literature from my country (Turkmenistan). As you said, I feel like I’m in my own mental prison, always trying to find happiness even in the smallest thing, full of worries about my future and finances. This sadly stems from the fact that I’m from an undeveloped country, which makes everything even more challenging for me. I really liked this video, especially the part about mini retirements to reflect on your life, and find what you truly want in your life. I hope that you find what you really want, become a dad, and be happy!
Thank you for your video!!!!
Same I’m trying to do crna later in life
Make some breaks, otherwise you will burn out. Think about your health
@@winger9229 Best of luck!!
Being immigrant is being brave in its own, use food bank more, second hand clothes, share books for studies if possible…look around how everyone saves, maybe scholarships etc. If others have done it , you can do it too.
Khubi
seeing many doctors quitting is heart breaking especially if they are our favorite influencers , wishing you all the best
Medical school in America is so expensive that those who wanted to be professional healers can’t afford the training without incurring huge debt that takes many years to pay off. Doctors in training, and recent graduates live very poor lifestyles. This is totally unnecessary. Medical schools should not be ”for profit” institutions, charging high tuition and making their investors wealthy. If they were affordable, we would have many more American doctors, and health care in America would not be so expensive and unavailable to much of the population because they can’t afford it.
This is a mess in America, and many, many people are suffering because of it. Young, caring doctors become stressed, overwhelmed, and depressed, and quit because the situation is untenable. And then we have even fewer doctors.
But after residency they earn huge amounts and are able to pay off easily and live luxurious lives. In other countries doctors don't earn as much and med schools are not as expensive.
That was such a great ending.
I hope this video reaches a million views for you! Enjoy your travels :)
Dude, you are right. As a support I have totally let this 23 minutes commercial play without escaping in your video and hopefully will help you to continue making inspiring videos. Cheers! (Btw, I also works in NHS and I feel your pain)
You're amazing, thank you for the support! And good luck with your journey in the NHS, they need people like you.
Wow, you guys look the picture of health!
I really appreciate the fact that you mentioned not everybody is in the fortunate position to just drop everything & follow their dreams. That was very thoughtful 😊
😭😭😭. I am literally sobbing from this. I feel like i am the person you were mentioning. And why is it that whenever i feel miserable, videos like this of yours always gets uploaded and notified to me?! huhu! I am thankful though for the enlightenment you give.
I think i am imprisoned mentally...i just dont know how to get out. God please help me!
PS: I think the Philippines changed you more than any other. Your exposure to how life is so difficult in the other side of the world opened your eyes. I am glad you had that opportunity. Good for you.
Hey James I appreciate you watching my videos and I'm glad they help you in some way. I agree the Philippines had a huge affect on me and I'm grateful for it.
I genuinely and sincerely hope you get everything you want out of your life. You seem like a person who deserves it :)
@@doctorchrisg thank you man. Safe travels
Similarly, I dropped my life as I knew it, at age of 40 , being a singly childless woman, and started a new one in another country, and boy was that a drastic much needed leap, but it all worked out for best. It was 25 years ago. God is good. Much love.
"Physician heal theyself". You can't really take care of others unless you take care of yourself. It took me longer to figure out what I'm glad you realized much sooner. Good luck Dr. G, from the ED and Dr. S:)
I am so grateful for this! I've let go of my job and sold everything, even my house, to live a more fulfilling life. See the world. Thank you for showing me I'm not the only one. ❤
Thank you Dr Chris, I'm 55 and unhappy where I am right now.. I'm really thinking of going back to the Channel islands where I worked 35yrs ago.. At least I can get back to the UK if I'm needed for elderly parents. It's given me something to think about ❤🎉
This is of the most inspiring videos I have ever watched on YT so thank you. Really makes me think about what more I want from life. I hope you get a million views and I hope you get the future you dream of.
Thank you, I'm happy you got something from it and I wish you all the best pursuing a life you love!
Yes, it was really direct and straight to the point. I had to laugh when you said the NHS was horrible. My time in schools was the same.
What a sad yet beautiful story, the sadness being trapped on the merry go round of life, the beauty, putting the brakes on the merry go around and seeking a direction,and finding your happiness. here is another quote for your list,, Be happy with what you have and are, be generous with both, and you won’t have to hunt for happiness.” - William E. Gladstone stay strong stay happy, and continue to share your knowledge of life.
I’ve made similar choices for my life. I’m “front loading” my life. I don’t want to save, save and save for a time that might never come. I want to do all I can while I can, while I’m able to be active. I often feel societal pressure to live a more traditional life but lately that pressure just makes me more grateful for the choices I’ve made. I feel very lucky and i also realize it is an enormous privilege to have these choices in life.
It’s refreshing to see someone else doing the same. I may not have the amount of money in my savings as many people do but my life bank is so full. I’m very happy and in awe of the beautiful things around me and life in general every single day.
Thanks Chris,I so enjoyed this video.Felt like a little girl whose mother is telling her a night time story.You have a natural talent.I will travel the world through your lense.🌸
I'm watching for the first time, and just subscribed because there's a lot going on here. Just the right pace. Not at all egotistical. Imagine being so good at self analysis at such a young age.
Happy for you and want to honor your tremendous courage to live your life authentically and hope you are finding much joy traveling
I retired at the age of 18. Every job I've ever done since then has been a temporary, necessary hobby.
"retarded" use translator if English isnt 1st language language.
Wonderful video!! Thank you!! I did not realise I was trapped until a few years ago. I started my own channel three years ago about poetry and philosophy and never been happier. You are absolutely right, time and space for figuring out what one really wants is the most important thing one can do for self and others!
Honest and touching sharing. Thank you.
Thanks for sharing. I’ve been as far as I wanted to go in academic medicine…department chief. No one understood why I would resign and step aside from the prestige and money, but I had been having internal dialogue and knew I needed a mini retirement. I took 9 months off, then returned to a similar position at another hospital. I am now 7 months in my second mini retirement. The time away has given me more clarity. At this point I recognize how much I enjoy teaching people how to prevent diseases in the first place, and I love not having a set work schedule. I wish everyone was in the position to be able to take time away to seek clarity, and have the opportunity to reinvent and focus on what they enjoy.
Thanks for sharing your story! I'm glad the time off gave you the clarity you needed. I find it reassuring to hear doctors from all over the world having a similar experience. Good luck on your journey!
I'm also a general practitioner who graduated last year. Resigned from my job after 1.5 years. I'm losing the passion to take care for people while being severely underwaged with toxic environment. Transitioning to business at the moment. I just couldn't imagine myself having a life like my consultants (dealing with toxic colleagues, working your whole life serving people, endless examinations, less and lesser time for pursuing your passion, etc.). The profession really demands genuin passion and sacrifice.
A lot Stress makes us old and sad . So optimal stress is necessary for us .But Extreme of stress makes us chaotic
Planning to take about a year off starting this Jan. This will be the first time I’ve done this, am a bit nervous, but absolutely looking forward to it.
This was quite interesting. Looking forward to seeing more of your content. Mini retirements makes so much sense. Cheers
what you see as a privilege is really not so much that... your privilege really caused your crisis...
the people with no privilege feel so much gratitude for everything - - and that is the greatest privilege & joy of all in life.... it is a gift ....
Having visited many 'under privileged' countries, I get the impression they are a lot happier in general.
Striving for happiness has never been my goal; I strive for meaning and to remain at peace, calm, as neutral as possible.
Chris, at 13:00 your statement about preventative measures stood out to me.
I’m a software engineer in my 30s who’s able to do the same as you. I had some health issues and had to go deep into this field.
What helped me to see things better is cross disciplinary approach.
Biochemistry is just barely scratching the surface. Psychology pushes it a bit further.
But what really helped me is physics. More specifically photobiology and planetary sciences.
Mix that with some of the spirituality work and you’ll see how many more variables are included in holistic health.
Mate this is it , This is your 1M Video,Cant wait for this to blow up , thanks for this video i resonated with it so much. ❤
I agree. The algorithm showed this to me. This is THE video.
Thank you for your kindness, glad it resonated
I agree, takes a lot of courage and openness to share something so heartfelt, which ultimately makes it relatable to many!
Chris, thank you for this wonderful video. You are a very intelligent, sensitive and warm person. Enjoy your life.
Hey Chris, I'm a psychiatrist in NZ. I see quite a few burnout nurses, doctors, lawyers, and other professionals, in my clinic. Good on you for prioritising your mental health. It's much more important to be a happy and balanced doctor. The old school thinking believes that doctors ought to be martyrs but that thinking often leads to physician suicide. If this carries on, we won't have any more doctors to go around!
Take care, and pop over the Tasman for a visit!
Thank you for this video. You are an inspiration and an eye opener. I can relate. Had been stuck in job where I was not happy. I am in a better position now. Freedom and time is more important than money.
The NHS is a terrible organisation - we know what happened in 2021-22. NHS doctors kept quiet about the crimes they committed.
is that covid related?
@@leigh7507 yes, and the coerced medical experiment
Man please dont mention north Korea, Trump , Covid and other unrelated stuff here. He was over worked and NHS understaffed that s all.
@@mradventurer8104 so you want to cover up the elephant in the room? These are the facts that can’t be ignored.
A doctors sole purpose is to keep big pharma in business. They cause so much harm and then have the audacity to ask for more money and respect..
glad I found you, you seem very genuine and would love to learn more about your story.
What I learned was just because someone says that a job or career is the way to go and makes a lot of cash, take it with a grain of salt. Go for what you want to do. Believe in yourself and your abilities. It’s up to you to make it happen for yourself. You have to live with the choices you make.
I have to agree going on trips even if you can only afford a couple of days of travel, it makes all the difference to one’s disposition. It makes something to look forward to. Life is short.
I’m 53 and live in a small town in Connecticut. My daughter moved to Boston and is an adult. I’ve lived overseas for spans of my life and now I’m ready to go again. My life has become a groundhog’s day. Same thing daily and I’m living and working to house my stuff in a world that doesn’t suit me anymore.
It’s time to go.
@ and it’s just stuff. And, I feel like with every day, I accumulate more stuff trying to make my life different or better where I am. I feel as if I’m chasing something I’ll never be able to catch.
@@JerrisEverydayPeople I sometimes feel I am being buried by it. I remember living out of a suitcase when in Europe and being much happier. I am moving in that direction.
I watched n TH-cam (Dr. Goobie and his dog Doobie) a story like yours. A MD Neurosurgeon graduated from MIT quieted his job at a well-known and prestigious hospital because the stress he went through was extremely bad. Also, he had to have certain number of surgeries in order to comply the hospital financial numbers… sad.
I wish the best for you. Travel to South America and enjoy you precious live. 🙏🥰❤️
We are from similar backgrounds and I think around a similar age. I’m really glad I found this video as it resonated a lot with me. I devoted so much of the years when most people were having fun to training and becoming a lawyer and today I feel exactly like this.
I think you chose the right thing, to delay your gratification and pursue what you really wanted, setting aside some fun stuff for more profound pursuits in life. Now its time to have fun and enjoy...If you had it the other way, you will be an empty shell with no substance and no income.
I'm a early 40s former high earning tech manager. Now I'm just focusing on photography and finishing my novel.
Raw truth. Thanks. Mental health and internal fulfilment are things that everyone is discovering. Discovering the small simple things that give satisfaction are precious. Family time and self time i think will outweigh being over worked. A balanced lifestyle is probably what i am trying to get at. My friend worked all his life in the mining industry had made lots of $ , travelled overseas every year chasing girls in the Philippines. Had the dream life as he told everyone....got sick about 6months ago and recently died from lung cancer. A very big strong german guy-he lived to 60yrs. Very tragic. The point is he could had retired 5yrs ago but chose not to because he couldn't identify an alternative option.
I'm about to finish your video and just have to say thank you so much for doing this. It makes me feel validated and even more confident, and grateful about my decision to quit my job, get a break here and there whenever possible, and change my path. Sometimes the judgement of society made me feel guilty and unable to enjoy my break from work, burnout, and never ending studying. But hearing you talk about it, makes me realize that I made this decision for very similar reasons and that the decision makes sense for me. I am happy with my path and motivated. I think your video will help many people to try new things and gain courage and new perspectives.
Hello Dr Chris! I was very happy to find your video because your life trajectory seems a bit similar to mine and I have been feeling lost for the past few years just as you did. I am an emergency medicine doctor and due to complete burn out I started to consider working in general practice, but I’m not sure if it’s the right choice for me.I’ve never heard of a mini retirement but it’s much better than quitting medicine entirely. I still feel lost and empty, and I have a lot to think about regarding my career. I admire you for finding the right path for yourself, please keep making videos and be happy.
A video with full of wise words. Thank you Chris 👏🏼
This really resonated with my. I feel so unhappy and I have no idea where to start with fixing this
All the best with your plans! I’m an NHS trained nephrologist - work has been too stressful. I’m transitioning to starting a business in a different field. I’m enjoying life much more!
In the Netherlands many work part time thats also an option. Did you discuss this with your employer? Or you mean you want to move away from healthcare?
@@mradventurer8104 thanks for the question. the “transitioning” part is me doing locums as I get the non-healthcare related business going. Yes part time work is available too but longer term I think I’ll struggle to do the two at the same time
good luck on the transition!
Thankyou 💛💛💛 for sharing your thoughts and being so vulnerable with your process.... so very precious!
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I studied and worked as an interior designer and ended up hating the work. I used to love the image, but deep down i despised the superficiality.... Through different circumstances, i left this work, spend a few years reorienting and am now working in a minimal wage job with special needs children, who, through no choice of their own, are mistreated and misunderstood by our superficial and money - orientated system. I've never felt more right in what I'm doing, and now iam able to use my creative talents in ways that really matter 💛... the capitalistic-ego-worshipping system now looks down upon me, but the children show me how much me just being there for them matters. Life is blooming 🌼🌸🍀
I have a degree in physiotherapy but I worked as a live-in nanny for this lovely family for 7 years until the kids pretty much able to do things on their own and no longer needed my service. I enjoyed that job very much even if some of my physiotherapy colleagues looks me down. With my little saving from that job, I was able to purchased a small plot in a tiny island in southeast asia for less than 5k $ and built a simple cabin with 2 rental native huts for the total cost of 10k$. I go fishing whenever I want and have a little garden. These are the things that makes me happy now. Just do things that makes you happy. Life is all about the journey because our destination is final.
So glad I love working. Makes things simple.
What kind of work do you have?
Hey Chris, I am listening to your words in a coffee shop, thinking about life. I am a software engineer in Singapore, earning a salary better than average, and having some work-life balance. However, I am still eager for freedom and full control of my own life. At the age of 30 this year, I decided to start my side hustle, an email newsletter that aims to popularize AI to non-technical people and investors. I do not have a lot of subscribers for now, but I do enjoy writing and putting my own thoughts into words. I feel the power and genuinity of your voice, and subscribed to your channel. Looking forward to see more in the future. Cheers.
Love that image, thanks for watching and subscribing. More to come!
Hello! For the past couple of months, I’ve been exploring topics related to investments, finance, and retirement. Just now, your channel was recommended to me. Your discussion on mini retirements is a refreshing approach to work-life balance, and I enjoyed hearing your thoughts and experiences. You caught my attention, and I’ve subscribed to your channel. I see you have 4.98k subscribers, and I look forward to watching you grow. Thanks so much!.
I am so proud of you, you are such a beautiful wonderful being! Much love to you on your journey Dr. Chris 💖💖💖
You must be in this world but not of this world.
We must stay here with the awareness that we don't belong to here.
Be ready to give up to everything to receive the greatest reward.
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This whole video and your shared experience felt like a big strong hug for me, thank you :') I share more or less your financial background and overall life, I'm a Veterinarian Doctor and I actually find purpose in what I do, helping animals and their owners, but it is not that beautiful profession people believe it is all the time. I have worked 4 or more different jobs in the vet area (one in Australia) since I graduated 4 years ago but it seems I am constantly being pushed out of them, generally because of the work ambience - overworked, overstressed colleagues (myself included).
I also love creating and have my own TH-cam travel channel; I love sharing my story and making videos... that feels like it is my purpose also, and I feel constantly it might make me more happy than being a Vet. I just have to find a way to make it work financially. I get worried sick sometimes though, that I have to be tied to my Vet job forever... and feel miserable because I can't make it work outside of it. But your video made me realize I can do these breaks in my life forever and have both worlds... THANK YOU for sharing you story, it meant a lot to me
Epic video mate. I'm glad you became a Dr despite it not being for you.. It's an amazing feat. Respect.
Very well said, wish you good luck, success and to reach 1 mio viewers, all the best🍀
Well stated 👍...... and a precious video for the people who need it 🙏🥇🏆👍✅....
Good stuff bro, i'm sure this will inspire many to take that leap of faith :)
Cheers Chris, I've not long turned 58, I totally agree with you, I had a similar epiphany years ago, I have young children whom I will be sharing this video with so thank you ❤
Really enjoyed this video. I thought it was super insightful. Pencilled in my first mini-retirement for age 30, so I can travel for a few months. Cheers!