Only a Super Empath Can Destroy a Narcissist, Here’s How

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  • @RebeccaZungEsq
    @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Do you want to know more about narcissists and what to do? Join me in my free webinar where I offer tips and tricks. Reserve your seat here. icanslay.com

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'll see you all there!

    • @angelapollard9250
      @angelapollard9250 ปีที่แล้ว

      urces. When I did this, he did not know what to do with himself. He was completely destroyed by his true self complete destruction on his own accord. Understand that he had two girlfriends in the past commit suicide. Amidst of this shit show, I understood why those two women took their own life and the importance of getting his shit out into the universe so hopefully that does not happen again. Also, and listening to your video, another thing that I did not do was follow him around, chase him down to prove that he was doing the things he was doing. There’s nothing to prove he knows what he’s doing. I know what he’s doing. All that would’ve done was fed in his ego, and continued feeding in to this false sense of self that he would have gained because he would’ve used that as me groveling lowering myself lowering myself. and my standards of behaviors that are completely beneath me narcissists like to see people cry, and they like them to grovel. Do not try to prove a damn thing. 😊.

    • @Dhuberstyle
      @Dhuberstyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The problem of narcs is not that they are vile by nature, its their underdeveloped neural ports to dopamine and seratonin.
      For example a narcissist cant get high of off ecstacy, google it and you will see.
      They cant emphasize because they cant make use of their seratonin pools.
      The way to fix them would be to activate those neural ports to the seratonin pools in their brains.
      Its like the term BCI(Brain Control Interface) where you have levers, knobs and buttons to control your mood.. they cant do that because they cant control it.
      If you have read anything about NLP(Neural Linguistic Programming) you would also know that their manipulation methods are low class versions of NLP, whereas someone advanced in NLP can super easily win any fight. Send me an DM if you agree.

    • @micahhumphrey3861
      @micahhumphrey3861 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg it's like you can just see the deception like heatwaves from a flame

  • @Goodgirlgonevegan4life
    @Goodgirlgonevegan4life ปีที่แล้ว +254

    It’s hard to keep a high vibration when you are with these people .

    • @davisayodeleable
      @davisayodeleable ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Leave as soon as possible

    • @rebelincarn8
      @rebelincarn8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's impossible.

    • @LaTrinaMilton
      @LaTrinaMilton ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTZ‼️

    • @jennaroseb
      @jennaroseb ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It is, I worked one on one with a covert narcissist for 8 months until I finally caught on to how he's treated me and kept it under the radar. I told my boss last week, I am uncomfortable working with that man. So my boss separated us, FINALLY

    • @kidchocolate9253
      @kidchocolate9253 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can say that Again.

  • @lucysmith8326
    @lucysmith8326 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The more aware I became the higher my vibration got!

    • @hanakobeauty
      @hanakobeauty ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here!!

    •  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I Believe that is what is happening to me too vibration. I'm gonna look into this. I'm not not related to shorr how to gaugee

  • @Ayme1285
    @Ayme1285 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    No form of money can buy a loyal persons heart

    • @ReiverBlue1971
      @ReiverBlue1971 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I actually had this tested in "real life" recently...... it's a REALLY hard one.... and I wouldn't think each test gets any easier as you go on either.

  • @gwendolynwehage6336
    @gwendolynwehage6336 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Narcissists in my personal experience with extended family are six-year-old children in their mentality. They have little to no skills in negotiation with anyone. They hate to "work things out" with those they desire to be superior to, they must win over others to feel good about themselves.

    • @almabyars6614
      @almabyars6614 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'd trade it for not feeling safe!

  • @jessicamcpherson-dailey7545
    @jessicamcpherson-dailey7545 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I absolutely can't coexist with them! I see every tiny red flag, it's kind of annoying! Because those life suckers are every where

    • @AlphaCentauri260
      @AlphaCentauri260 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      EVERYWHERE lol

    • @Muckin-Fuppet
      @Muckin-Fuppet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jessicamcpherson-dailey7545 yeah you Really have to Avoid Energy Vampires 👍

  • @Miami11155
    @Miami11155 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Thank you, they actually said this themselves. It's a black hole 🕳️ Leave them like You met a poison snake

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Do you have a good support system in place?

  • @sylviamorosin36
    @sylviamorosin36 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank you Rebecca
    You are 110% correct
    And bang on with your words. I was in love with one as a 19 year old, at 22 I figured him out on my own. I am ,
    I think a super empath
    and believed in ME. He put me through hell, I was young and
    Innocent. When I finally saw him as a bad person/evil and controlling, I ended it abruptly.
    I said to him point blank in a calm voice...
    Your not worth the ground you stand on!
    GET OUT!
    Don’t come near me again or you will be
    GOD DAMN SORRY!
    He just stared at me in disbelief and said nothing and didn’t move , he was so shocked by my words!
    One last statement from me sent him packing!
    Remember my dad was a sniper in WW11,
    When I tell him what you did to me, he will be here within 48 hours, you’ve seen his
    Rifle with the scope!
    I know where you work, live and where your family all are,
    you won’t even see it coming !
    One last... GET OUT!
    He jeft
    He never came near me again but he called me on my birthday, easterChristmas and New Year’s Day for the next 50 years ! When I heard his voice I would say sorry wrong. Number and hang up every call !
    He never stop calling till he died at age 65 a terrible death. Last call was Christmas he died 4 weeks later ! I am in my late 70’s. I have a happy marriage
    Beautiful children and grandchildren.
    Best thing I ever did was get rid of him!

    • @PrettyIndependent1
      @PrettyIndependent1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This was a short film. So powerful. The information you gave him about your dad was such a nice touch. I hate how narcs think holidays are hover days to tried to slide right back in trying to appear like they are full of good will. 😫

    • @robynmarler1951
      @robynmarler1951 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow! Beautiful🌌

  • @noreenebostick9593
    @noreenebostick9593 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    My best support was God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. They are still my support at the age of 66 years, two months and 27 days as of my comments. Watching narcissists is an atrocity to see self destruct and they think they are abusing a person with their assets. It is better to give than to receive. The more I gave, the more blessings were bestowed upon me. Not getting love back from narcissists made me go inside myself to examine my own being while at the same time seeking God’s truths. God never failed me during those evil times. God gave me strength, love, peace, joy and resources and assets. Narcissists need God. I do not want negatives to happen to narcissists via me. Whatever God will do is in God’s own timing.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stay strong! ❤
      Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com

    • @tracy85777
      @tracy85777 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      AMEN! I wouldn't have survived without my faith. The Lord is EVERYTHING! ❤️‍🔥

    • @TheAngie9409
      @TheAngie9409 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen ❤❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @deebee4622
      @deebee4622 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      So very true! God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit are our best friends and source of comfort, joy, healing and truth.

    • @camarwalker5876
      @camarwalker5876 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hallelujah 🙌🏽

  • @willowclay5406
    @willowclay5406 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Imagine going through life and not being able to feel empathy or love.

    • @m998hmmwv7
      @m998hmmwv7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's easy because they don't miss what they never had. Stop giving them sympathy and just walk away.

    • @NamanastyOG
      @NamanastyOG 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nah the only time my narc could feel i truly hurt with them because it was whenever she could tell i knew she didn’t love me and she would get so frustrated and mad at herself which never happens she thinks most the time she can’t do anything wrong but she got mad and said she is sorry she can’t love me or anything it was genuine like fear, anger, the whole scale hit her like a brick out of nowhere. It quickly faded into her Harley Quinn laugh but these buttheads feel and stuff they just prefer not too.

    • @divineconnectionz
      @divineconnectionz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Super sad.

    • @husqrok
      @husqrok 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They are addicted to different feelings, love is not important to that way of function.....

    • @stbam1965
      @stbam1965 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@husqrok im.sure that they wish they were different. Some ppl get hurt bad as a child and had to shut down those feeling to protect themselves. Now they dont know how to get it back. Some ppl , it takes a long to to feel safe to love and trust someone. Then when they think something is off, they panic and pull back. Emotional abuse and a parent that are not emotionally available for their child and to validate their feelings can cause this to them as they grow up. Don't hate the ppl like that. Sometimes love and understanding can help them overcome it. Im not saying to be a door matt. Just be accepting. If you can't handle them to be in.a relationship with , then they are not the right fit for you. Just move on and dont be nasty. That never helps anyone.

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Narcs roar like lion.......... Key word: like

  • @yukio_saito
    @yukio_saito ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Yes, I destroyed many toxic workplaces. I realized I overengaged with the job and overhelped other people, so I left the workplaces without goodbye or handover 🏃🏢 As a result, they became more chaotic and projects got stuck.

    • @patrickglaser1560
      @patrickglaser1560 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too make my coworkers look bad

    • @yukio_saito
      @yukio_saito ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And I successfully isolated a toxic coworker. First of all, I saw through his weakness is a huge fear of abandonment. Then I let him do what he wants and I don't care about it. Finally, I ran away from the job. Other team members also walked away from the job leaving him alone.

    • @StratoArticA
      @StratoArticA ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I left two places. Other went Down really quick and other got fid off all workers after i got Out 😂

    • @MR-fe7st
      @MR-fe7st 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      well done!

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Also as a Super Empath I can be in church and KNOW wholeheartedly that the people (men) who are staring at me from across the room or turning around like a rubber neckers in service to spot me way in the back are narcissists looking to feed!!
    So many have told me of my radiance, my inner beauty shining outward, I have a powerful energy that feels comforting and safe, I been told that they see angels, lots of angels camped out around me, that I have a huge aura around me like I’m in a bubble, ppl have stared at me (a stranger) and confessed out loud “Lord, I know I need to go back to church”, or people watch me enter a room and they all watch me walk across the way to sit… a guy told me “You catch every eye, but you don’t pay it any attention”, “The men line up to have a chance to just talk to you” then I started paying attention and he was right.
    Lots of sickos, dark energies, men and women just wanting a bite out of me, just wanting to experience me.
    Needless to say I don’t go out much anymore and definitely not after dark. The prowlers are very thirsty and if there’s alcohol around they definitely have to use it to get a closer look 👀 at us. I don’t accept drinks… I don’t drink. That can piss them off quickly too. They don’t have a chance. It can be very dangerous.
    So now I don’t go places that have alcohol because if they get drunk they can come on their hardest and when they don’t move my needle they become more of what they are… enraged and can become physical… trying to pull my arm to take me out of staring eyes to prevent them from seeing their pleaing and begging and my turning them down for every thing they are offering (fantasies and unicorns 🦄)
    They don’t want to be seen or embarrassed so they go crazy… other men have to grab them and pull them off of me and away from me.
    I’ve learned to protect my energy by not engaging with ppl stuck in my magnet 🧲 because they are usually very sick.
    2007 I used to go to T.D.Jakes church and he warned the congregation “Don’t date ppl in my congregation because the people coming here are very sick”, “they are coming to be healed”
    So now I can’t unsee the dynamic of the world and this Super Power that God has given us and how it affects ppl around us.
    The hate, jealousy, the monitoring spirit that beg for any words, actions to use against us or beg for old clothes we don’t want “to donate to charity” no they will use them for witchcraft. “Things hold energy”
    We are 100 times smarter and stronger than them but we have to keep it under wraps and just watch the watchers.
    ❤😂

  • @thevindictive6145
    @thevindictive6145 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Totally agree, if you want to level up, you have to leave the narcissist. Otherwise you will forever remain in their web.

  • @Sam34292
    @Sam34292 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I have worked with a few narcissists. The first sign I pick up on now is that they watch you and every single thing that you do. I feel quite unconfortable with them taking mental snapshots of every tiny thing that you do.
    After I see this the game is easy and they are included less and less in any relationship with me.

  • @matthewwozniak9138
    @matthewwozniak9138 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like how you're a lawyer and a psychiatrist.

  • @sallydr
    @sallydr ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Codependency Anonymous and Therapy for many years finally pulled me out of the quicksand of attracting Narcissists! I finally got it and saw the whole routine of triggering me and then playing the "Gotcha Game" where I ended up feeling crazy and wrong. I was trained as a child with 2 alcoholics to believe I was always wrong and not lovable. Once I realized that wasn't true my world has exploded. I am 72 and my husband is 80 and I am divorcing him. He can't trigger me anymore and seems to have shrunk away. Can''t wait to be on my own. I feel like I finally got to the top of the mountain. They can't hurt me anymore. I really think Narcissists are evil considering the one's I knew wanted to destroy me.

    • @brendarewan7441
      @brendarewan7441 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Proud of you!! Life can restart at any age. 👍🏾🌺

    • @renaissance5300
      @renaissance5300 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      god bless you for giving me hope at 75. all the best in your freedom

    • @djw8504
      @djw8504 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m so happy for you! My sweet mother left my narc dad at your age and I remember her telling me that she felt like a bird out of a cage!! She went 13yrs single, enjoying her grandchildren, then met the love of her life! Thank God she was able to be happy in love for 15yrs before he passed away. My mom passed 5yrs later from a broken heart. She waisted 27yrs with my ungrateful dad!! Many Blessings to each of us!! 🙏❤️

  • @thefarcountry
    @thefarcountry 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Rebecca, I appreciated your most brilliant & excellent metaphor: "A super empath is like an oak tree that's rooted deep into the ground, and is steeped in authentic power... while the other one, the narcissist, almost is like a twig that's been superficially stuck into the ground, with no roots at all, the wind threatens to blow it over at any moment." I'll remember it always.

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It’s easier than you thought - I’ve done it & it is the best feeling ever when you leave them ! Because they’re look of disbelief is like unbelievable

  • @TeknoMediumsParanormal1111
    @TeknoMediumsParanormal1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Since he's now on life support...and Im doing great ..living well is the best revenge!!!

  • @heavensarmiesmarc
    @heavensarmiesmarc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is good ma'am! It takes courage to vibrate as high as a super empath! Thats why the first people god said will be thrown in the lake of fire is a coward! God made us all equal, better get some courage ❤

    • @brendarewan7441
      @brendarewan7441 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

  • @regielapamintuan
    @regielapamintuan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You are a gift from heaven to us Ms.Rebecca. 🌌❤

  • @pe2914
    @pe2914 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I AM A LIVING EMPATH WHO HAS A NARCISSIST IN MY LIFE...I AM CONTINUALLY PULLED-IN TWO DIRECTIONS IN MY MIND OF WHAT TO GIVE OR NOTTT, AS I KEEP PUTTING MYSELF "IN HIS SHOES..."🤔🥴🤔YET, WHEN I THINK ABOUT WHO HE TRULY IS & HAS SAID...i.e."I HAVE NEVER LOVED ANYONE" AT THE AGE OF 82...😲ON THE OTHER HAND...IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO TREAT HIM THE WAY I WOULD NEVERRR WANT SOMEONE TO TREAT ME..."😢

    • @jasmineflower9879
      @jasmineflower9879 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When they say things like '' I dont know what love is, " and '' I am not good at relationship "', RUN !

    • @CaroleanneWright
      @CaroleanneWright 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Get our of there.

  • @onyxmoon4843
    @onyxmoon4843 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The more space, the more room you can love them from a very very far place.

  • @Paul4Krista20
    @Paul4Krista20 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Almost would feel sad for them if they were not trying to destroy me constantly. It’s no picnic being an empath either and who is really happier here? Us or the Narc?

    • @daeclipse03
      @daeclipse03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Us. Narcassists are going to die a sad miserable lonely life. We are way above them even after they attempted to pull us down to there levels.

    • @justasimplesomeone
      @justasimplesomeone 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Actually, it looks to me like they may be happier. It’s because empaths feel a whole spectrum of joy to intense sadness - and feeling other people’s pain, that they are easily sad or unhappy in some way. If a narcissist really can’t feel, then they can’t really ever be unhappy. I feel there is a great contradiction somehow, somewhere. They don’t feel, dance through their lives, get a lot of what they want, don’t look back, don’t even remember - it’s the defence system they have been working on since the day they officially became ordained into the Narc Kingdom. It seems they couldn’t give a f. ? So in what way do empaths win ? Someone help me out here, please ?

  • @Js-wd6dr
    @Js-wd6dr ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Thats why they have 4 or 5 women or supply around. In case one bombs out. Everyone, they feel has an expiration date...

  • @andreeaciobanuc404
    @andreeaciobanuc404 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am now in such a state when every narcissist attacks me. Maybe they feel my hidden wounds or maybe they are jealous and they attack me publicly, using gaslighting, irony, shaming, ridiculing my points of view, manipulating my words, just to put me down and shame me publicly. They even unite against me, literally waging war at me in debates, convincing the audience that they are right and I am wrong, putting me down and then, when they see me depleted of energy, angry and broken, they have that sparkle of victory and joy in their eyes. How pathetic! The bystanders are equally cruel in my opinion.

  • @lorrainedebeer2338
    @lorrainedebeer2338 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It took me complete solitude for a while after leaving, to look through old photos, remind myself of really wow achievements i downplayed to 'fit in', unconditioning things and still busy, however once i shifted the vibration to love but SEE clearly, red flags started screaming from past interactions. We the compassionate truly have remarkable resilience, i so appreciate these videos, resonates deeply and reminds me i am worthy but i cant please everyone and thats okay.

  • @imansaade8805
    @imansaade8805 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Frequency is everything! ... speaking of Black Holes, interesting hearing that from the video. I decided to answer an email from my ex narc after several months of being ghosted. She asked "What are you thinking?" I answered - "I am thinking about Black Holes and how powerful they are. They swallow stars and are insatiable. They eat up everything in their path and continue drifting through space. Their gravitational pull is so strong that once you cross the Event Horizon, you're a goner. Finally, I am thinking about how you're never going to hurt me again. That's all I am thinking about."

  • @islandgirl7594
    @islandgirl7594 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I WON. THEY LOST.

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They want to control you even the discard

  • @gabyawad8375
    @gabyawad8375 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are awesome thank you doctor ❤

  • @Ghettobank69
    @Ghettobank69 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It simply takes an Empath, knowing ones vibration, all things have energy and are constantly moving. This includes people. """Vibration""". In conversation, movements (head to toe). Even
    The universe talks to us if one pays attention. Can't you tell when it's gonna rain. It's a vibration.
    A calm, or a cool breeze, swaying trees. Calm, then the bottom falls out.
    Some people aren't aware of the simplest things such as that..
    The calm within self dictates the modicum of havoc on the outside. That's why I don't let my body be subjected to crowds unnecessarily (such as parties).
    The less of unnecessary energy the more power one keeps.
    Solitude is where its at. The most powerful persons are the ones that stay in solitude (alone) how many powerful persons STAYED in mountain tops. Jesus....
    Go on!!!go on!!!go on!!!
    So are more intune, like making the moisture from a tree rain down on them on a hot day. I've done that. Solitude teaches the body of any outside disturbance.
    Like when that lady wanted blessings in the Bible, she simply touched the bottom tip of Jesus robe.
    Jesus felt it His energy was modified. That's what solitude does, One can not be around a multitude of energy. Inorder to be an Empath one must keep and feel their own energy inorder to be more preceptive, prudent, intuitive.
    I'm speaking of Empaths. If one is not walking on water I don't consider them a """SUPER EMPATH"""

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The truth is king he said to me and bombarded me with lies

  • @MacTwain
    @MacTwain 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Rebecca, that was a fantastic video to help me. My pillar grows stronger and higher with every video I see from you.😊 Thank you Rebecca.

  • @pooru1231
    @pooru1231 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow as u said narcissist it said "dark success" yeah thats a good definition

  • @capt.obvious4487
    @capt.obvious4487 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My Narc at work quit her job on Friday best Christmas gift ever she was not even there for a year and causing me so much grief. Best of luck to her on her next job I sure hope she learned something about treating people.

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Attn: narcs: Love is like oxygen, you get to much you get too high ( on yourself with your distorted perception of actual love).

  • @KamronSalimi
    @KamronSalimi ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I fought back for so long as a “super empath” and my narcissist ruined my life. I’m now about to be doing 5 years in prison because they framed me. The worst part isn’t even that they did that it’s that they feel nothing about doing it.
    They convinced themselves that I deserve this.
    I’m so fucking scared.

    • @YOU-niter
      @YOU-niter ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So sorry they put you through this! My ‘in laws’ framed me too! I know how frustrating & scary a group of narcissists are! Stay strong! X

    • @pritipopat7447
      @pritipopat7447 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My sister in law and a cousin of ganged up on my parents for manipulating them to change their will into my brothers name and have passed away because of all the bullying and making them ill.
      Now my sister in law and cousin are poisoning everyone minds that I bullied my parents and made them ill. Worst thing all people believe their lies.

  • @josephsnisky1851
    @josephsnisky1851 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've seen the quick destruction of a narcissist never to return thanks to the face in the window.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have a good support system in place?

  • @vickipacheco9787
    @vickipacheco9787 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There is no negotiation with a narcissist. I've never seen such criminal behavior as with a narcissist. I was married to one for many years,we had a Construction Business.After his adultery and lies, manipulations, ruined our marriage, I divorced him & moved 2500 miles away. The two children were young adults. They visited me. I stayed through all that
    for the children. He buried all assets of the Business. He was basically a criminal. I Thank GOD for the genuine help in finally breaking away from him. The kids stayed with him because he had all the money.I went to a job in Hawaii.
    He tried to hoover, which I refused, and he died of bone cancer. His mistress ran away.
    So sad they choose this way of life.

    • @abhilasha578
      @abhilasha578 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true..

  • @John-k1o5f
    @John-k1o5f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your a bad ass thanks for all the advice all these years❤❤❤❤

  • @Tigerrfeet
    @Tigerrfeet 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Emotionally stunted!

  • @plusone8015
    @plusone8015 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Super empathy is one with the way (Tao te Ching).
    Narcs are like vampires and have no loyalty or devotion to the way and therefore are destructive to themselves and those in their orbit.
    The Art of peace ☮️ is to become one with their attacks and redirect them towards peace or ostracism.

  • @beccaagain
    @beccaagain 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We’ll turn on you for our own enjoyment because we know your intentions for us

  • @jennasway3334
    @jennasway3334 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is one GREAT video 🌹

  • @blackrose3869
    @blackrose3869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am a empath and was with a narcissist for 7 years. Towards the end of the relationship, it was literally living hell. As I was trying to break the patterns ,it got worse...way worse.
    You are definitely right, you can't live long term with a narcissist once you have reached a certain level of healing. I was able break free from the relationship 3 years ago.
    As I went through my healing, it destroyed my narcissist. So badly that he destroyed himself... I found out he passed away 6 months ago. Its truly sad, but ithas left me with a whole bunch of new issues and trauma.

    •  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats your problem. You took part in it. You're no different.

    • @blackrose3869
      @blackrose3869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      RG yes but I had no knowledge of what narcissism was, so unfortunately yes, it was my problem. Thankfully not anymore

    • @blackrose3869
      @blackrose3869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ smh to your comment. Thank you for your opinion

    •  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @blackrose3869 Listen. We all have missed the word narcissism. But one thing we have not been missing is the patterns. Patterns in which these people behave is pretty much the same. You have to put your foot down. You have to take a stand because it's not good. What they are doing to themselves, so you take a stand and there's the disconnect. That's where you go your own ways. That's what I'm telling you.
      Stayed around what were you thinking it was going to change. Are you just couldn't handle it anymore? I put my foot down and I'm not gonna lie. I have had many times when I regretted everything that I did. You know, I wish I could go back and do it differently. But U know how a narcissist is a narcisjust. They are Creatures like no other. I strongly believe and have a deep found feeling that they are doing the work of satan or connected to him. Somehow somewhere my path is crushed. I made that commitment a long time ago. And i'm gonna stick to it jesus chris. He is the way the truth in the life..

    • @blackrose3869
      @blackrose3869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      RG I was 20 years old. Like I said, I had no idea. I knew nothing, I didn't know about patterns or anything. It took me years to see. So once again thank you for your comments...

  • @allyharvey8074
    @allyharvey8074 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Read "Its not you" . Incredible book.

  • @Ayme1285
    @Ayme1285 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Its mental abuse and physical

  • @Positivemotivation662
    @Positivemotivation662 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here for it…

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We aren't playing the game

  • @mireyarinna171
    @mireyarinna171 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is BRILLIANT. Thank you. ❤

  • @sunnypareek9737
    @sunnypareek9737 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Empath would never think of destroying anyone
    The word destruction itself proves narcissism no matter how much religious knowledge or spiritual experiences you have
    Real super empath
    1 forgives
    2 loves despite being hurted
    3 never force you to change
    4 loves you the way you are
    5 would never discard you
    6 if something is not right would tell you to change
    7 would understand reason behind your behavior and will deeply help you
    8 would never discard you when time changes
    9 under no circumstances will leave you

  • @connieshea7700
    @connieshea7700 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They are weak minded people, and very jealous of people who have more than them..

  • @Silentsister
    @Silentsister ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay! I win! Now what....
    oh, lots of recovery, further learning about self, surrender, acceptance, releasing resentments and checking ego issues. That's the superego! Super!!

  • @danbride7221
    @danbride7221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a really good one especially after listening to the Chris Voss video with you earlier

  • @Angels-of-Love77
    @Angels-of-Love77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the narc mom lives with us
    I’ve called her out and she knows I don’t tolerate her garbage anymore

  • @connieshea7700
    @connieshea7700 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Avoid these evil people

  • @estellacamacho9226
    @estellacamacho9226 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video has validated me. Thanks

  • @lucybraun8969
    @lucybraun8969 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For some reason, lately, I have not been receiving daily videos from you. So, receiving this one definitely energized me to get back in the fight. It's such a critical time. The accounting is overdu÷. And it is critical to nailing his embezzlements. He's selling his house to hide any access to his assets that are owed to me. And there are signs he will bring a lawsuit against me by falsely claiming I owe the estate money so he can get my house from me.

    • @CaliWeHo
      @CaliWeHo ปีที่แล้ว

      😢🤦‍♀️

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

  • @njkid80
    @njkid80 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you.

  • @AnthonyMassarelli
    @AnthonyMassarelli ปีที่แล้ว +4

    great video,thank you!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?

  • @earleenGreene
    @earleenGreene 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your input I needed to hear that narcissis people are so self centered and like to control people

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They can't be honest because they don't know how to do anything without lying at someone else's expense

  • @ginnyrigg9288
    @ginnyrigg9288 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some strange comments on here in response to the guidance on the video....... 🤔

    • @lucybraun8969
      @lucybraun8969 ปีที่แล้ว

      Either English is not their first language, or that person is a psycho babble sent to distract. Ignore them.

  • @jesusisthelordsaviouralway8044
    @jesusisthelordsaviouralway8044 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Praise the Lord

  • @FourFoxToGive
    @FourFoxToGive 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What. I feel that you started off strong with narcissists seeking value. And then after that was a downhill spiral.
    In my experience, a narcissist seeks pleasure, first and foremost. They will seek someone out who has value, but not more than they have. They want a trophy that they can get approval from. They want to prove to themselves that they are superior to their trophy.
    Envy is an enemy in a narcissists eyes. They're always comparing themselves to others. Upon entering a room, a narcissist will quickly pick out anyone who may have traits that they are envious of, and will create an internal competition to prove to themselves that they are better. If they succeed, they are smug. If you were to say something about that person to the narcissist, they would instantly attempt to undermine them somehow.
    Also, narcissists don't realize they are narcissists. They aren't capable of that sort of introspection. A narcissist spends its life improving itself and competing. A never ending human pageant. It empowers them, being so superior to everyone, and they use that to justify any wrongdoings in their home life.
    The victim is a necessary energy supply for the narcissist. But when the web of lies untangles, a narcissist can become dangerous to make sure its secrets are not exposed.

  • @Sam-pl3yd
    @Sam-pl3yd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations 👏 yes you have to study and set boundaries Always! they don’t care ever! 🙏

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In martin co. fl , I say things aloud like , "if I were you I 'd want to be me too", I 'd hug ,kiss, and bless a Jew, an bless the ACLU too . And the reactions show the world who they really are

  • @cjb128
    @cjb128 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What if the narcissist/sociopath/bully/psychopath is just a neighbour in the same apartment complex? I never had any kind of friendship with this vile bully/liar and her colluder. They both live here. It's such a nice place, but for them. They've made all kinds of false allegations against me such as stalking, following, trapping, deliberately frightening dogs, bashing their cars, screaming, harassing, blah, blah, blah. They're trying to get me evicted, have filed for peace bonds against me, and have violated my human rights. I've figured them out but now how do I defend myself against them and their brainwashed flying monkeys? They've exploited others and will likely have some of them as witnesses in the courtroom. What do I say against the lies and their false witnesses who probably don't even know they're lying!!?? Help!

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a catalyst that it is.beyond ridiculous. ❤ Keep it up!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you..hope you could join me in my FREE masterclass 😊
      >>> slaythenarc.com

  • @toomane
    @toomane ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Right energy vampires im starving them

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว

    " Everware people stare each and every day, I can hear them laugh at me and I hear them say; " Hey you got to hide your LOVE away"

  • @googlinstuff8910
    @googlinstuff8910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a globally recognized [anything] = narcissist. RUN. RUN

  • @godlovesyousomuch5894
    @godlovesyousomuch5894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is true about healing I think a narcissist is trying to get my attention and I indeed feel very sorry for him and feel like I could help him But I am finally starting to see the pattern of every relationship I have had The narcissist goes way out of the way to get my attention and then is unbelievably mean to me until I finally get them out of my life But the saddest thing is that I knew they were not good when I first met them So this time I am going to go with my first impression that they are not good and NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY GO OUT OF THE WAY I WILL NOT LET THEM IN and maybe one day another "real one" will come across my path YAY

  • @michaelb8503
    @michaelb8503 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Dali lama is very empathic for the kids that's for sure !

    • @gabyponte6497
      @gabyponte6497 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah lots of empathy for the poor little boy he tongue kissed on camera. Gross and abusive

  • @Dollhousehenderson
    @Dollhousehenderson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I cannot tell you how spot on your information is I’m sure you know this but the more I’ve dived into this process I have found that I am absolutely a super empath, and I have two narcissist in my life who play off of each other to make me feel like shit one of them is my husband, and one of them is a person I could care less about But can I just tell you when I say things out loud in front of the female narc few words that I’ve decided to say this week she has literally waited a few minutes and repeated behind me verbatim what I say she turned around and subtly cuts me down all the time she thinks that people don’t notice she has no idea that as a super empath,I am about to, be pushed past my point of rage and it’s all fixing to come out to them both in a way where she will be crying to manipulate and turn it to another smear campaign which is fine.

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว

    Been checking in with you for a long time. Keep up the great work! You are a generous source of truth. I pray that you, your husband, family, and friends receive God's blessings ❤

  • @emustaro
    @emustaro ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How does a super empath communicate with a narcissist in a business partnership when the narcissist is resisting severing partnership, yet in the same breath blaming the super empath for all the problems in the partnership.....and that the super empath is, in fact, the problem? This truly mind bending crazy making stuff.

    • @whiteraven69
      @whiteraven69 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Gaslighting and Projection!

    • @bohochic2459
      @bohochic2459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am dealing with this right now! I am doing my best to get the guidance and help that is needed. It is all so overwhelming, isn't it? My "stbnex" can't keep up with his lies, but he manages to find a way. I got away from him after being together for 25 years! But, I might as well still be in that abusive and toxic marriage - as he treats me just the same, if not worse now, within our business partnership! Three more years of living hell! Financial abuse, destroying my role in the business, and ruining our business to spite me! (Which I will never ever understand as he is all about greed and money). I have serious decisions to make, as I can not continue to subject myself to such traumatic abuse. I can't put a price on my peace of mind and wellbeing. My physical health concerns are extremely serious, and he is using my vulnerability to his advantage. He has and continues to serious sneaky and sketchy things behind my back. I have to dig deep to put a stop to the madness. It is out of control. I should be solely focused on my health. It is all just so sick and twisted! 😢

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
      This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/

    • @brendarewan7441
      @brendarewan7441 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like refusing to leave or divorce.

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The posthumous valuation of a reborn Christian is infinite and will not turn their LOVE away ❤

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've done it....thank you...I'm giving in joy ❤❤❤

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check this out - slaythenarc.com Keep slaying!

  • @almabyars6614
    @almabyars6614 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #1 weapon -Aunthenticity ! news is 400 × higher vibe than Love!

  • @micheleroussel9129
    @micheleroussel9129 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I gget tò a point, of healing and they are there to ruing it.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

  • @paulfredrickson2181
    @paulfredrickson2181 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How to gain strength over a Narcissist.
    1. Regain your own personal inner strength.
    2. Create you own exit strategy.
    3. Implement your exit strategy
    4. Disengage from the Narcissist.
    5. Empower your situation.
    6. Beware and avoid their "flying Monkeys".
    7. Understand and learn what your weaknesses are to avoid getting into that situation with another Narcissist.
    8. Congratulate yourself and be prideful of what you have accomplished.
    9. Enjoy your better life.

  • @brianmoser3947
    @brianmoser3947 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope you have a good sense of humor when I tell you that I love your messages but, I consider how attractive you are on many levels and decide to put my phone face down so that I can hear you and bless your marriage. Not obsessed at all( in a healthy way) 😂 keep up the great work 👍

  • @daulee09
    @daulee09 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tks ❤

  • @farhorizons8351
    @farhorizons8351 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Radio waves do travel at the speed of light.

  • @paradoxvuim8562
    @paradoxvuim8562 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ty 4 you great work 👍

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you..hope you could join me in my FREE masterclass 😊
      >>> slaythenarc.com

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love watching them watch and study me and watch my interactions then try to attach….
    and I pull the rug from under them as soon as they think it will be easy…for them to live and me to die.
    And the wicked witches melt while screaming “HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO MEEEEEE?!!!”
    I live with 140lb dogs so they don’t even try anything stupid

  • @SigmaEmpataLevante
    @SigmaEmpataLevante ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The day they allowed Sophia’s death, they LOST forever. Period.

    • @cherylhamilton4936
      @cherylhamilton4936 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who is Sophia and if “they” allowed her death why aren’t they in prison?

  • @Ayme1285
    @Ayme1285 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why do narcassist try to manipulate empaths

  • @sonyagray4261
    @sonyagray4261 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

  • @eurojenn
    @eurojenn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YES!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar- slaythenarc.com

  • @mamaw9634
    @mamaw9634 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Daughter MIL- during daughter’s dating days .. “so and so is in such a better state mentally with you “. Or, our family is so much happier with you around “.. Now, financially assisted in getting a house 2 doors from her for my daughter and husband… I expressed concern- I was the problem.. so many warning signs.. amI crazy to be worried?

  • @cherilynnbice5730
    @cherilynnbice5730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I live with one and am trying to escape

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home

  • @richardlenz2655
    @richardlenz2655 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes you are right. I had a narcissistic girl friend who really wanted to see OSHO the guru personally. She took a long trip to meet him and see in his eyes. But she was the only one who did not make the OSHO meditation at home, although she forced me to to do it myself. She was learn resident. You could not teach her anything. Not spiritual nor technical. She new everything better 🤭

  • @willowclay5406
    @willowclay5406 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You can't fix a dark Narcissist! Only he or she can heal their traumas.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay strong! ❤
      Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com

    • @JoeHill-yy9fw
      @JoeHill-yy9fw ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right ✅

  • @johnve8327
    @johnve8327 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Radio waves travel at the speed of light.

  • @connieshea7700
    @connieshea7700 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sneaky too liers too

  • @user-qh4uv5dz7i
    @user-qh4uv5dz7i 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Radio Waves actually do travel at the speed of light. Radio Stations do transmit at a lower Frequency than the visible Light Spectrum, but that’s a different thing.
    Other than that, sounds good.

    • @thefarcountry
      @thefarcountry 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow!.. Do you ever miss an opportunity to take someone down?.. Talk about splitting a hair based on an abstruse esoteric technicality. Yes siree, you sure nailed her on that one, ImageryMemberDotCom. I Imagine such pedanticism, somehow, makes you feel a whole lot better.