Hi Swans! Don’t forget to like this video and my apologies for the absent link to the masterclass. My team are still working on it. Follow me on Instagram for details. Hugs xxx
Love this. If you let a guy know how you feel, he has nothing to hide behind. If he stays in touch, he knows it's with a woman who likes him. He is now responsible for his behavior and will either call or disappear. I used to be afraid of this, but it gets rid of lookie-loos with a quickness. I always remind myself that I'm clearing a path for the right guy. But more than that, I'm de-stressing my life.
Low value men manage down expectations. I found your channel while listening to RC Blakes who mentioned you as a beautiful sister with a great content. Thank you for being a wonderful sacred being who is filled with wisdom, clarity and compassion.
This is so true. There are LVM out there that will try their luck with a HVW. They actually think they are entitled to them. Before I got married, I met a man and although he was good looking, he kept talking about meeting up and how we should go to his place. Red flag. I deleted his number and never answered his phone again 😂😂😂
This video was right on time! I just released a supposedly high value male back into the wild because after one date he invited me to his house at 1am 😕🥴 smh
It was really unfortunate and when I brought up his intentions he turned it on me. He displayed narcissistic traits so I had to let him ride but I love that this video gave me confirmation 🙌🏾🥳
I had one ask can he come over to my house the day after I met him. I’m a single woman who lives alone. Why would I have a man I just met in my Boise?!! He was dead serious. After i told him hell no…. Then he changed his tune to “oh we can go out.” Um no thx mr.
I’m new to your channel and love the content. I’ve just walked away from a guy I really like who was wasting my time, as hard as it was.self love comes first. I gave him opportunity to change but he chose not to step up. Boy bye 👋🏼
I always press the like button before I even hear your videos now. Why? Because your messages have proven to be so transformational! Chengi, you are helping so many women like myself to realize our worth, and not to settle for men who don't truly love us. Thank you for showing me that I needed a mindset change🌻
I love your attitude in this video, Chengi - taking NO prisoners! Been there, done that with the low value feminine man. Never again. Grateful for the reminders 💜
My ex displayed every one of these. But I fell for it because my mom married a man like this. I didn’t have a good example but once I did know better, I don’t accept such men. I remember when I set standards with my ex, he gave me the dirtiest look in the world. I thought he was going to slap me. But guess what, after a period of fighting me about my standards, he accepted them but by then, I was like oh no this won’t work. He actually said to me once: “I’m going to win.” 😳🤦🏾
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy Thank you for doing what you do. This message is so important. My mom can’t teach me any of this because she is married to a man that exhibits all of these traits. She is absolutely miserable but said she will never leave because she is tired of starting over.
Lots of gems 💎in this video. I love your sense if humor & the way you convey these important messages to your Black Swans. Thank you for the value you bring & share. I really appreciate you.
I have a smart one… we met late at an event, I left to go home at 1:45am… he put his number in my phone but left his phone on charger at the hotel… he made it back to phone and text’d “where are you?” I said on my way home… he texted “come back” so I didn’t respond because I felt it was inappropriate. The next day I text “you could of said be safe, nice meeting you but you said come back….I’m not the kind of girl. He called apologizing saying he just meant he wish we could have had more time… After that he was not saying anything sexual and he doesn’t ask tons of questions like some men do…. First few conversations he has used the F word about forgetting a meeting… I didn’t correct him, I’m just creating distance because it’s not high value to me…plus it’s been 3 weeks…even though we have a ton in common he hasn’t invested anything, he haven’t made plans to have a date or see me He has his own mental health practice and is doing like 10 other things I asked if he was too busy and he said “No that would be a cop out” So he’s thinks texting more is investing but I’m sure only ❤ing his texts now… I’m sure he has many options but none of them will have as much as we do in common he lives 5hrs away though…he has some decisions to make and investing to do He haven’t even mentioned his intentions In college for his PhD in psychology
Omg.. I am new to your channel and I am just wowed… where were you all these time? The way you speak and ur sense of humour I just love you This video is an eye opener… I was dating a guy who had most of these qualities you talked about… low quality dates… where I will always pick him up… no regards for my boundaries… se*ual innuendos all the time… and most of it he was using me to make new connections to further his career… I have stopped interacting with the guy.. n guess he gets the hint… but still would bother me with calls… texts and so on… but thanks Chengi you are spot on!
WOWWWW, amazing how you said if men are shopping around and/or looking for fun, he tends to use words such as “meet up” and “let’s get together”…as those are the words that the a**clown used with me throughout the 4 months we were “together” …I needed this wake-up call about a year too late!
Chengi, I can tell you have seen all the foolishness going on out here. Even men who aren’t playing games simply don’t know how to approach women for any level of dating or time wasting for that matter. I am in utter agreement with your advice. We just aren’t teaching males how to be men and many of them don’t want to be men.
Great vidéo, thank you so much! You answered all the questions I had about dating and for which I was desperate to find an answer!🙏❤️ My Friends told me that I was too difficult With men but now I know that I'm just becoming a high value woman! 😉
You are a God-sent for real! Thank you for your insight and tips that I have never heard before! Watch out world, there are some beautiful black swans about to be unleashed!
I had one want to date then no contact two days. Yet he honestly thinks he is a prize. He fussed and fought with me tried to put guilt on me. Punished me by not responding. Who are these men today. So so pathetic. Plenty of women for them I won't chase. I make my opinion known if you don't engage me bye bye
He texts me every day, is masculine, leads with the dates only takes me to nice dinners everything! But he hasn’t mentioned being sexually attracted to me nor has he tried to kiss me. Should I be worried?
Why do women do this? “I don’t want him to come onto me, but should I be worried? He hasn’t tried to come onto me?” This is why men decide they need to try to be sexual all the time because these basic chicks literally can’t not. 🙄🙄🙄
It baffles me that when you set your boundaries, he can say to you that yea your just saying that now until we get together in person 🤦🏾♀️….. little boy If you don’t get your controlling ass outta here!!! 🙄
Most alpha men are players so while your teaching women to be more feminine so they can attract a very masculine man majority of the verry masculine men are not into monogamy relationships so she is going to attract a masculine man who has done slept with a bunch women that has purpose who is a leader. But she is not going to be the only women that he is going to be dealing with you have to also get into the reality of things and not fairy 🧚♀️ tales rarely will you find a verry dominant,succesful,alpha male that is just focus on one woman at a time so good luck 👍 to you women nice 👍 channel btw
You’re 100% on the money. It’s not bad advice and this is what women should do if they’re certain it is the only way they can be happy in relationships, but there should be a disclaimer before every video that it probably isn’t going to happen.
@Clara King You don’t have to deceive women to be a player. Playing games to get pussy is certainly beta, but just having sex with multiple women cause it’s easily accessible and they understand the kind of man you are is not beta or insecure in any way.
Abs! They are everywhere. . It’s a shame how I meet guys and within 5 mins of the first convo I’m turned off. I’m happier being. Left alone. Every guy is a disappointment
It would be better if u put black&white Swan or just Swan. There r not only black women that watching this channe. Also u have a white polish girl Magdalena, she's white. U loosing alot of women that u could reach too, like RC Blakes doesn't categories women, he let all Inn.
Please educate yourself Swan. Black Swan has nothing to do with race that’s why coach Magdalena is a coach because black swan is a miracle moment. A transformational moment and nothing to do with colour. I am happy to lose ignorant or shallow people who bring everything down to race. You are loved 🥰
Hi Swans! Don’t forget to like this video and my apologies for the absent link to the masterclass. My team are still working on it. Follow me on Instagram for details. Hugs xxx
I still don’t see the link on your IG page.
Love this. If you let a guy know how you feel, he has nothing to hide behind. If he stays in touch, he knows it's with a woman who likes him. He is now responsible for his behavior and will either call or disappear. I used to be afraid of this, but it gets rid of lookie-loos with a quickness. I always remind myself that I'm clearing a path for the right guy. But more than that, I'm de-stressing my life.
Low value men manage down expectations. I found your channel while listening to RC Blakes who mentioned you as a beautiful sister with a great content. Thank you for being a wonderful sacred being who is filled with wisdom, clarity and compassion.
You’re welcome. We love RC Blakes!❤️🌸
My standard is at 9pm, my phone goes on.... don't not disturb mode.... smooches 💋
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Same....anything after 9 is obvious booty calls!!!
Good for you
I have this standard too. I don’t respond to anyone or anything past 9pm ❤
This is so true. There are LVM out there that will try their luck with a HVW. They actually think they are entitled to them.
Before I got married, I met a man and although he was good looking, he kept talking about meeting up and how we should go to his place. Red flag. I deleted his number and never answered his phone again 😂😂😂
This video was right on time! I just released a supposedly high value male back into the wild because after one date he invited me to his house at 1am 😕🥴 smh
It was really unfortunate and when I brought up his intentions he turned it on me. He displayed narcissistic traits so I had to let him ride but I love that this video gave me confirmation 🙌🏾🥳
@@Cece-mq3bh I replied please read the comment before this one
@@Cece-mq3bh it always does 🙏🏾💗
Haha.. sorry dear...
I had one ask can he come over to my house the day after I met him. I’m a single woman who lives alone. Why would I have a man I just met in my Boise?!! He was dead serious. After i told him hell no…. Then he changed his tune to “oh we can go out.” Um no thx mr.
I’m new to your channel and love the content. I’ve just walked away from a guy I really like who was wasting my time, as hard as it was.self love comes first. I gave him opportunity to change but he chose not to step up. Boy bye 👋🏼
Well done Swan ❤️
Same!! ❤️
I just hollered!!!!! “He’s competing for your position.” If this isn’t the truth!!!!!
I always press the like button before I even hear your videos now. Why? Because your messages have proven to be so transformational! Chengi, you are helping so many women like myself to realize our worth, and not to settle for men who don't truly love us. Thank you for showing me that I needed a mindset change🌻
You are loved ❤️🌸
I love your attitude in this video, Chengi - taking NO prisoners! Been there, done that with the low value feminine man. Never again. Grateful for the reminders 💜
My ex displayed every one of these. But I fell for it because my mom married a man like this. I didn’t have a good example but once I did know better, I don’t accept such men. I remember when I set standards with my ex, he gave me the dirtiest look in the world. I thought he was going to slap me. But guess what, after a period of fighting me about my standards, he accepted them but by then, I was like oh no this won’t work. He actually said to me once: “I’m going to win.” 😳🤦🏾
Oh dear! 🤦🏽♀️❤️
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy Thank you for doing what you do. This message is so important. My mom can’t teach me any of this because she is married to a man that exhibits all of these traits. She is absolutely miserable but said she will never leave because she is tired of starting over.
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Lots of gems 💎in this video. I love your sense if humor & the way you convey these important messages to your Black Swans. Thank you for the value you bring & share. I really appreciate you.
Thank you ❤️🌸
I have a smart one… we met late at an event, I left to go home at 1:45am… he put his number in my phone but left his phone on charger at the hotel… he made it back to phone and text’d “where are you?” I said on my way home… he texted “come back” so I didn’t respond because I felt it was inappropriate. The next day I text “you could of said be safe, nice meeting you but you said come back….I’m not the kind of girl.
He called apologizing saying he just meant he wish we could have had more time…
After that he was not saying anything sexual and he doesn’t ask tons of questions like some men do….
First few conversations he has used the F word about forgetting a meeting… I didn’t correct him, I’m just creating distance because it’s not high value to me…plus it’s been 3 weeks…even though we have a ton in common he hasn’t invested anything, he haven’t made plans to have a date or see me
He has his own mental health practice and is doing like 10 other things
I asked if he was too busy and he said “No that would be a cop out”
So he’s thinks texting more is investing but I’m sure only ❤ing his texts now…
I’m sure he has many options but none of them will have as much as we do in common he lives 5hrs away though…he has some decisions to make and investing to do
He haven’t even mentioned his intentions
In college for his PhD in psychology
Omg.. I am new to your channel and I am just wowed… where were you all these time? The way you speak and ur sense of humour I just love you
This video is an eye opener… I was dating a guy who had most of these qualities you talked about… low quality dates… where I will always pick him up… no regards for my boundaries… se*ual innuendos all the time… and most of it he was using me to make new connections to further his career… I have stopped interacting with the guy.. n guess he gets the hint… but still would bother me with calls… texts and so on… but thanks Chengi you are spot on!
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Lovely sassy energy in this video, totally feeling your vibe Chengi 👌
Thank you girl 🌸❤️
This video was sooo right on time for me. Thanks, Chengi!
Welcome boo ❤️
I feel so much more confident entering the dating scene again with each one of your videos 💞
So pleased to hear it 💖
EXCELLENT VIDEO! Thanks for helping our girls! Knowledge is Healthy Freedom!😊
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Love you Chingy. Thank you so much for this. You are like a big sister I never had 😊
WOWWWW, amazing how you said if men are shopping around and/or looking for fun, he tends to use words such as “meet up” and “let’s get together”…as those are the words that the a**clown used with me throughout the 4 months we were “together” …I needed this wake-up call about a year too late!
Chengi, I can tell you have seen all the foolishness going on out here. Even men who aren’t playing games simply don’t know how to approach women for any level of dating or time wasting for that matter. I am in utter agreement with your advice. We just aren’t teaching males how to be men and many of them don’t want to be men.
Love this video! 😍 So informative and helpful 💖
Glad it was helpful!💕
Fabulous advice, very helpful so thank you for this priceless info! and gorgeous dress 🙌🏼🥰
I talk to men who do nothing but waste my time. Datiing in 2021 is the worst everr! But hey, life goes on
Thank you so much for this Chengi, wow...now I know exactly what to look out for. No more time wasters 🙌🎉
I Love This!!! BTW, Your Lipstick is GORGEOUS 😍. What color are you wearing?
Thank you so much Chengi, my eyes have been opened, I have come across these ones and was left confused...The Lord Bless You, much love 💘❤
Great vidéo, thank you so much! You answered all the questions I had about dating and for which I was desperate to find an answer!🙏❤️
My Friends told me that I was too difficult With men but now I know that I'm just becoming a high value woman! 😉
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Love this couch❤!!
Glad you like this and blessed
I’ve been binging this content it’s great. I clap at the end of your videos lol
Spot-on, Queen Chengi👑👑👑
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
You are a God-sent for real! Thank you for your insight and tips that I have never heard before! Watch out world, there are some beautiful black swans about to be unleashed!
POWERFUL!
Beautifully said ❤️✨
Man thanks for the rescue, almost got with a feminine man!
Chengi you are my favorite 😍😍😍
Thank you ❤️🌸
Thanks for sharing not into low value men.
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I Love This!!!!!
Thank you ❤🙏
jajajaj ``dogs in Heat ´´ lol FACTS
Amen!
I had one want to date then no contact two days. Yet he honestly thinks he is a prize. He fussed and fought with me tried to put guilt on me. Punished me by not responding. Who are these men today. So so pathetic. Plenty of women for them I won't chase. I make my opinion known if you don't engage me bye bye
Please Chingy I recently learned about how can I get access to the nice girl master class please
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He texts me every day, is masculine, leads with the dates only takes me to nice dinners everything! But he hasn’t mentioned being sexually attracted to me nor has he tried to kiss me. Should I be worried?
No, he’s taking time to get to know you. Most serious men do this when they really want to get to know someone. Go with the flow
@@messyadulthood thank you
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Why do women do this?
“I don’t want him to come onto me, but should I be worried? He hasn’t tried to come onto me?”
This is why men decide they need to try to be sexual all the time because these basic chicks literally can’t not.
🙄🙄🙄
It baffles me that when you set your boundaries, he can say to you that yea your just saying that now until we get together in person 🤦🏾♀️….. little boy If you don’t get your controlling ass outta here!!! 🙄
Where was this video years ago when I went back into online dating after a really bad relationship ? LOL😁
Lol 🤗🤗🤗❤️💕
We call it an amber alert
Amen
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Most alpha men are players so while your teaching women to be more feminine so they can attract a very masculine man majority of the verry masculine men are not into monogamy relationships so she is going to attract a masculine man who has done slept with a bunch women that has purpose who is a leader. But she is not going to be the only women that he is going to be dealing with you have to also get into the reality of things and not fairy 🧚♀️ tales rarely will you find a verry dominant,succesful,alpha male that is just focus on one woman at a time so good luck 👍 to you women nice 👍 channel btw
You’re 100% on the money. It’s not bad advice and this is what women should do if they’re certain it is the only way they can be happy in relationships, but there should be a disclaimer before every video that it probably isn’t going to happen.
@Clara King You don’t have to deceive women to be a player. Playing games to get pussy is certainly beta, but just having sex with multiple women cause it’s easily accessible and they understand the kind of man you are is not beta or insecure in any way.
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There are tons of fembot boys, it is just ridiculous.
Abs! They are everywhere. . It’s a shame how I meet guys and within 5 mins of the first convo I’m turned off. I’m happier being. Left alone. Every guy is a disappointment
@@Ms.Tamara_ That’s hilarious.
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😂😂
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It would be better if u put black&white Swan or just Swan.
There r not only black women that watching this channe. Also u have a white polish girl Magdalena, she's white. U loosing alot of women that u could reach too, like RC Blakes doesn't categories women, he let all Inn.
Please educate yourself Swan. Black Swan has nothing to do with race that’s why coach Magdalena is a coach because black swan is a miracle moment. A transformational moment and nothing to do with colour. I am happy to lose ignorant or shallow people who bring everything down to race. You are loved 🥰