Wow I really loved this talk❤❤❤ literally in my spirit, God was telling me to keep going in my fitness journey to see my body shift in a way I have never seen it before! I'm about the smallest u have ever been for a curvy woman at 5'9 and the world will keep telling me I'm "curvy " goals or body goals but I really want to position myself better in this life and one of the things is my weight and waistline. The other huge thing which you are so correct is really mindset and the deep, ugly parts of inner work. I love that you said to challenge those inner thoughts. I love that you say pretty much 99% of things we think are a disadvantage really we can set goals to make it better! Unless you have a chronic illness or physical disability. I have dealt with chronic illness and have a sister with an autoimmune illness as well as I did have a brother who had cerebral palsy and was in a wheelchair his whole life. He never walked nor talked. Seeing the world different, I understand what you are saying completely! I water fasted in an attempt to shift my own health which completely changed my life and my body and I continue to understand that I need to detox regularly etc to put my health and chronic symptoms in a better place. Many blessings ❤❤❤
Changing. My concern is that I am in my late 40s and I get so much joy doing my Ikigai and I am very specific about the high value man I would even concern dating. I belive there’s no point being or entertaing a man that you don’t see aligned with your higher purpose. What’s your thoughts on that?! Looking so elegant Chengi!!! Truly inspiring!!!
Edyta Delfel I’m in that same situation as you. I absolutely know that what I do in my business/career is ordained by the Almighty so whomever I’m with needs to respect that which means he to needs to be happy in his own vocational calling. Because these men want you to be beneath them I find myself not even talking about my work although it’s the centerpiece of my life. Not that I want to bore anyone with it but I at least want to briefly talk about it when a guy ask me how’s my day. Anyhow I feel you 100%
@@smartanajones4u Keep going Samantana! I find that personally lots of man don’t know or don’t want to do their inner work on them selfs. But nevertheless there’s few out there that do do the work. Just Belive or Trust that the right person will come in Divine time. Meanwhile do the things you Love!
My horrible narcissistic mother has sat me down about 3 times. To tell me that I will never get a good man of means to marry. She likes to talk about my age. I am in 30’s, she’s even criticise my private parts and she likes to call her friends and make out that I sleep with many men because I have 4 children all by the same dad 😂😂🤦🏾♀️. She’s tried everything to destroy my good name and it’s not worked. She thinks she has the power to speak destructing in my life because she’s my mother. I can’t wait to get my man of means and run away from her. She is a human devil 👿.
@@pascalinetanji1582 I wouldn't call my mom a human devil, yet I emphasize with this lady. She's in emotional pain. My mom is a very distant, cold and cruel person. But she's like that with everyone, so I don't take it personally.
I'm loving this video. Absolutely life changing. Loving the purple hat as well. Nice...
I don’t see being black as being a problem but others have tried to tell me it is. They are even surprised when I do well. Like what the hell.
😂😂😂right!!!
I like being a black girl too. God gave us color to make us the distinction.
Wow I really loved this talk❤❤❤ literally in my spirit, God was telling me to keep going in my fitness journey to see my body shift in a way I have never seen it before! I'm about the smallest u have ever been for a curvy woman at 5'9 and the world will keep telling me I'm "curvy " goals or body goals but I really want to position myself better in this life and one of the things is my weight and waistline. The other huge thing which you are so correct is really mindset and the deep, ugly parts of inner work. I love that you said to challenge those inner thoughts. I love that you say pretty much 99% of things we think are a disadvantage really we can set goals to make it better! Unless you have a chronic illness or physical disability. I have dealt with chronic illness and have a sister with an autoimmune illness as well as I did have a brother who had cerebral palsy and was in a wheelchair his whole life. He never walked nor talked. Seeing the world different, I understand what you are saying completely! I water fasted in an attempt to shift my own health which completely changed my life and my body and I continue to understand that I need to detox regularly etc to put my health and chronic symptoms in a better place. Many blessings ❤❤❤
Sooo proud of you 👏🏽
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy thank you so much!!! I love your content! I only found you a couple weeks ago and I binge watched your videos!
Yeah my mom did tell me that having a small chest was great
Looking absolutely stunning Chengi!! 😍💖
Thank you 😘❤️
Changing. My concern is that I am in my late 40s and I get so much joy doing my Ikigai and I am very specific about the high value man I would even concern dating. I belive there’s no point being or entertaing a man that you don’t see aligned with your higher purpose. What’s your thoughts on that?!
Looking so elegant Chengi!!! Truly inspiring!!!
Keep doing what brings you joy ❤️
Edyta Delfel I’m in that same situation as you. I absolutely know that what I do in my business/career is ordained by the Almighty so whomever I’m with needs to respect that which means he to needs to be happy in his own vocational calling. Because these men want you to be beneath them I find myself not even talking about my work although it’s the centerpiece of my life. Not that I want to bore anyone with it but I at least want to briefly talk about it when a guy ask me how’s my day. Anyhow I feel you 100%
@@smartanajones4u Keep going Samantana!
I find that personally lots of man don’t know or don’t want to do their inner work on them selfs. But nevertheless there’s few out there that do do the work. Just Belive or Trust that the right person will come in Divine time. Meanwhile do the things you Love!
Your energy and all the advice in this video is incredible! Thank you 🤍
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Inspiring as always. Thank you, Chengi.
You’re amazing! I love ur videos
Thank you 🙏🏾
I love this. I need to keep working on my mindset. Thank you so much Chengi😘 May I call you big sis?
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😌😌, Chengi you are amazing 🥰❤️😁
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
POWERFUL!!
Great message as usual Ms. Chengi
Hi Chengi which of your courses should I start with first.
My horrible narcissistic mother has sat me down about 3 times. To tell me that I will never get a good man of means to marry. She likes to talk about my age. I am in 30’s, she’s even criticise my private parts and she likes to call her friends and make out that I sleep with many men because I have 4 children all by the same dad 😂😂🤦🏾♀️.
She’s tried everything to destroy my good name and it’s not worked.
She thinks she has the power to speak destructing in my life because she’s my mother. I can’t wait to get my man of means and run away from her.
She is a human devil 👿.
How can you speak about your mother in such a manner?? It’s not done in Africa . Two wrongs !
Keep a healthy distance for your peace of mind. The devil is using family members to destroy God's children.
@@pascalinetanji1582 I wouldn't call my mom a human devil, yet I emphasize with this lady. She's in emotional pain. My mom is a very distant, cold and cruel person. But she's like that with everyone, so I don't take it personally.