If A Man Texts You This, That's A Major Red Flag! - Sneaky Ways He's Just Using You | Terri Cole
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Hey there, ladies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you’ve ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need.
In today’s powerful episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love.
As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you’re taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb.
If you’re dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri’s podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: www.terricole.com/safely-leav...
And… Don’t forget to check out Terri’s latest Boundary Boss Workbook: www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-...
Chapter Markers:
[00:00] Romantic Gesture Or Manipulation? 🫰
[11:39] Takers Take & Take Your Power 👂
[15:20] Bread Crumb Texting ⛔
[28:06] Lie To Me Baby (Or I Will) 😜
[33:48] Love Bombed Dizzy 🫠
[46:19] Suffocated Out Of Your Boundaries 😰
[53:52] Be Fully Expressed Or Walk 💃
[58:03] Manipulative Boundaries 🤯
[1:08:17] Your Boundary Evolution ✨💫
[1:26:09] Healing Triggers with Nicole LePera 😌
****Bonus Life Lessons with Renowned Psychologist, Nicole LePera****
Ever felt overwhelmed by a seemingly insignificant trigger, spiraling into shame and embarrassment? Pause right there! Nicole LePera, a beloved guest on our show, decodes the intricate puzzle of our emotions, linking adult triggers to childhood challenges. Dive into her transformative workbook, 'How to Meet Yourself,' and embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing past traumas with the power of your heart.
Terri Cole Quotes:
“If it feels too good to be true, I want you to pump the brakes.”
“If you’re in the dating world, your biggest protection is your boundaries, early and often. It’s asserting your preference early and often.”
“An actual complement is not followed up by a request for you to do something.”
“Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.’”
“Expect people to do what they say they are going to do.”
“Codependency is honestly a covert or overt bid to control other people; how other people feel, how other people act, what other people are doing with their own lives.”
“Not every person that treats you well is love bombing you.”
“Get used to what it feels like to be respected. Get used to what it feels like to respect yourself, [...] how we feel, what we think, what we want… this has to be the most important thing to us.”
“There doesn’t have to be anything wrong with them for them to be wrong for you.”
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Hi Lisa 🙂 when will the episode with Laterras Whitfield be released?
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. A person who ghosted you will ghost you again.
Absolutely. 100%. Once a cheater, the likelihood of them cheating again is high. Avoidants have a higher tendancy to cheat.
it would be great to meet somebody who simply loved you for who you are, and not for who you are not.
What do you mean by “love somebody for who they are not?”
Dating shouldn't be so difficult, but here we are, trying to weed out the bad from the good. This society with social media and the easiness of a swipe is absolutely terrifying. People are not good to each other. I am an empath and I seem to attract these humans who just use me for a distraction and to feel good, while just giving me enough to keep me going, I am finally seeing through the facade and I am taking my power back and now I know better. Life is too short. If he wanted to, he would. Always remember that.
Amen to this. Sending u lots of love and blessings, 2 1/2 weeks ago i ended a "bread crumbing" situation in (2d it was an online situation which is more baffling to myself) I thought I was smarter then that.. then I met someone in real life over the weekend, who seems to be checking off alot of boxes...sometimes we gotta let go of people who don't serve us to open the space for someone new. 🩷🩷🩷 Hope you have a lovely day!
Who told you that dating shouldn’t be so difficult? That’s exactly what it has always been and will be. The difference is that before you were not allowed to ever talk about the issues, and you didn’t understand what a good relationship was.
Dido! Agree with all of it!
Right on to taking your power back! 🙌🙌 And you are so not alone in this. I find that a lot of empaths deal with these types of people because they are attracted to our energy. ❤
They’re not using you, you’re allowing them to use you. You have to take accountability for what you allow in your life because no one is forcing you to even talk to these people. Not saying it for any other reason than I’ve been there before but once you realize how much control you have over these things, you then start living in your own power
Thank you ladies!! I got sucked in .. all the red flags were there from day one.. that were flashing! I stuffed them (I had never stuffed red flags before) like an idiot .. the love bombing was like a vortex. Married the Demon.. and 7 years before it was finally over.. I began educating myself .. and one day told him he disgusted me. Praise God 🙏 it's been behind me for 5 years! A blessing and life lesson! Self Love is were it all starts.. Love yourself, respect yourself and stand strong with your boundaries and RUN THE MINUTE THEIR IS A RED FLAG!
Good you got out!!!
Stand firm in your boundaries ladies ,trust your instincts ( your gut feeling ), put yourself first and if it' s sounds too good to be true then it' s probably a trap ...
🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ and never look back !
I do not hold conversations via text. I ONLY use text to say I'm running late, or I'm at the meeting place, little stuff. You can't get the nuance in a text. Plus it's lazy as hell. Phone calls at minimum. If a guy ONLY wants to communicate via texts, he's dumped immediately.
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I love the clarity in this boundary 👏👏
@@terri_cole Thank you. 💖
All my man want is direct talks but he is not my ma anymore.i need closure
This is ridiculous. I'm a 41-year old woman, with a busy business and I'm texting with plenty of people I deeply care about all day. On Whatsapp and Messenger you can leave voice notes and send small videos. It is PERFECTLY possible to establish loving communication this way. And in the evening, you can have a phone call or video calll. But if you exclude the banter in between... you are setting yourself up for failure. Good luck dating if this is how you see things. Especially if you are 40 and under, because text apps are main tools for communication for these generations.
Omg......"I don't like to be managed" such a simple comment yet it resonates deeply. I think this is exactly why I have felt manipulated or expect ill intent, because a nice gesture to me is usually followed up by something they want and it makes me feel managed or used.
I listened to her book Boundary Boss on audible and her beautiful voice narrates it, and its such a good book guys - highly recommend
'Expect people to do what they say they're going to do!!' Boom!! Simple. Thank you.
Ikr!
Guys I think this is one of the best dating/relationship advice videos out there!! Save it, rewatch it, she is dropping gems here!! Excellent!!
yes it is
were are you from
This is common sense and good advice, I believe we all know these things deep down. This is why good parental guidance in the formative years is so important. Without it, it takes much longer to grasp how wise and important these principles are. We should all listen to our own inner voice AND trust it.
A boundary is a limit for urself, not for another person a request is for another person.
I love this lady's voice, her tone; I could listen to her all day long.
I'd wager a limb that her clients/patients are on average very successful in accomplishing their goals for healing, or at the very least, make positive progress TOWARDS their healing.
Thanks for the interview, Lisa! As always, well-done!
Please have her back! An intriguing and important-to-know topic for discussion would be trauma caused by and healing from narcissistic abuse.
There has to be more education on this sinister, insidious, and very heavy subject; premeditated deceit, manipulation, and the deliberate disarming of another human being's resources and support is not only unhealthy, but evil. We must spread awareness to protect ourselves AND future generations. Education and spreading awareness is THE only way to do this.
Anyhow, we love you, Lisa and Terri! ❤ Keep up your great work! 🤘🏻🫶🏻🫵🏻👏🏻
Thank you so much for the kind words ❤❤ I am always down for more with Lisa!
@terri_cole , she's great, isn't she?? But I thoroughly and sincerely enjoyed your interview/discussion with her. Thank you. 😊🫡❤️
But sometimes the bad guys are consistent and it's hard to decipher. I get so confused!! I begin to trust them!
Then never trust a man and start living alone 😅
Mine got me good. TWO years later I’m still recovering. I did years of therapy to find the worst man in the world. A covert narcissist. He was consistent. He respected my boundaries, so I thought. We talked on the phone everyday at random times. Took me on random vacations. He visited my house, I visited his. Every night before bed he’d send me a voicemail telling me how he appreciated me and was glad to have me in his life. I would tell him I needed a person and he showed up with flowers, a card, and dinner. He was a good and active father. I never questioned him as I had no reason to. All sounds amazing, right?
😂😂😂 NOT EVEN 🤮
I found out the man was married. They were separated but he told me they were divorced. Newly separated and at some point was pursuing his wife. We talked everyday with no lapse in communication.
Meanwhile, there was a very long list of other women he was also talking to (at least 10). How did you even have the time to entertain all these women and be a dad and chase your wife 🤯.
At some point I discovered I was pregnant and he abandoned/neglected me before during and after pregnancy. I lost the baby. He never supported me.
While I was unknowingly grieving, he was essentially using me for sex. He never supported me. Never comforted me after the baby. He still continued to pursue and engage with other women.
Reactive abuse became a thing after while because I was so broken and abused. Now he hates me for abusing him when I was enduring abuse from my first conversation with him unknowingly.
Traumatized is an understatement. I’ve been struggling to let him and this situation go but I’m so lost in this world anymore. A strong woman with morals integrity and conviction as low as life could take me after him.
The sad truth is they can STILL be consistent and not have any real intent being with you.
@@anousalis4089 Exacty!!! That’s why I’m so over and done with dating. I have trust issues. Is
Why do I feel like I have to over give to be worthy of love? Nicely put. Thank you.
Its because of your childhood Trauma just heal it first
I really enjoy reading comments from women on videos geared towards men, because I can get a woman's perspective on the topic.
I thought I would do the same here. As a man, this is very true. What I found really interesting is that men are told not to text back right away, because they need to show they have "options", so the woman desires them more (social status).
From a boundary perspective, I think this is spot on, and can attest that if I am interested in someone, I will show interest, but be authentic about it. If a guy shows interest to get something from you, it's definitely manipulative.
Good luck out there ladies.
I think it is so Wrong that people think it is a good idea to not reply right away when they can do it.....this makes me think that person is not interested in me and makes me want to run far away from them.....
This interview so powerful for me. Thank you!! I started communicating with a man from an online dating site and he gradually started calling me later and later at night (11:00 -1:00). One evening I sent a text around 9:30 say I was available to chat, to which he reply, talking to my son will call you back. He then sends a text at 1:15 am asking if I was awake. I backed off communication for a day or two. He ask if I was annoyed, when I said no, not at all. He responded, really because I felt a vibe. I responded with maybe your feeling guilty. A day later I sent a text saying, I enjoy our conversations but It needed to begin earlier in the day. He actually stepped up and now calls during daylight hour. It maybe between jobs while he’s driving or gather supplies, etc… and appears to be happy doing it. Sooooo we’ll see. Love your show ❤
What a cool story! Thanks for sharing! So great to hear a success story with boundaries! 💪
I had a Filipino bf who used to do that too. Then he did call me earlier , but he is a complete narcissist and ghosted me after a while. That was 8 years ago. Three weeks ago he suddenly declared great love for me and now wants me in his life again. After not explaining all the mess and chaos in his life of 8 years ago.As if we were exactly where we were 8 years ago.
But you WERE "annoyed" no?
I mean, you "backed off" for a quote "day or two."
Then you offer what he may be feeling to HIM (Asking him if he feels guilty)
Hmmmmm
I'm just asking hun.
Why are you guys talking for so long and not meeting IRL? Sounds like a phone bf.
I can see the dynamics of my parents relationship in all of your podcasts with Terri. (My Mom's codendency and zero boundaries and my Dad's narcissism/abuse.) As a result, I've gone through most of my life single and avoidant. But better this, than ending up with a loser and repeating my Mom's behaviors!
You should do a course or therapy to learn how to have boundaries so you can find a nice man!
@@din-b6420 how old are you ? ?? there doesn't seem to be any nice men anymore
This is excellent! I am currently getting away from, done with someone who is a narcissist and I’m a codependent. I’m a giver, he was a taker. I was always in fear and walking on eggshells. I couldn’t speak my mind. He was seeing two other women while he was seeing me as well. It was definitely a trauma bond, alcoholic like my father. I wanted his approval and his love. I didn’t realize I always had his love. He was my biggest fan when I played soccer. I am working at giving myself love now, and healing that wound. It boggles my mind how I stayed with that guy for three years thinking it would get better when he didn’t give a crap about me or my feelings. I love these interviews they are very inspiring thanks ❤
I get the opposite, I get criticisms/put-downs and then they ask for favours. Now I see it and run as a recovering
codependent it took decades to see this pattern, it feels icky every time it is done to me.
This happens with friendships as well. I have met a woman who’s broken due to her divorce and childhood trauma that she went through and never heals from it. I recognize she tries to please everyone and turn around and complains about it and people hurt her feelings and all that. Eventually, I figure that she wasn’t healthy but I try to be a good friend for her as she was there for me during hard times. But, it makes me wonder if those act of kindness was intentional or just a facade to reel me in to use me especially when it comes to money as she has money problems as well. The comments that she says to me such as “I’m jealous “ or she always ask to pass her the guys I dated to her which I think is low self-esteem. Eventually, being around her made me feel anxious and I have to walk on eggshells which I refused to do so.
When I exited our friendship, she made everyone feel that she was a victim and I was furious but at the same time found my peace and stand my ground because I rather be alone than be controlled and be in a toxic friendship. I’m out and peace! lol 😂
OMG. All of this! I'm digging in and doing the work at a deep level. ❤
Thank you so much, you gave me answers to questions i was struggling with!.
best video ever! thank you lisa for bringing this topic up sending so much love from türkiye xx
I love Terri Cole!
WOOW I LOVED THIS WOMEN'S GREAT ADVICE & POINT OF VIEW!!! Thank you! 💕 🙏💕
Dont rush into relationship take Time to see
Very timely and practical interview…Setting boundaries need to be stated without all of the emotions. Keep it simple and clear about what is ok with me🥰💖
I’ve listened to many videos but she has totally broken down how I feel. Consideration is BIG! She is authentic and very relatable for me.
thank you for empowering us women ❤
Thank - you so much all this information very helpful
Terri Cole is amazing❤ thanks so much for the conversation❤
I love these, thanks for doing what you do Lisa. Much love 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
This wa sso empowering for me to hear and validating. I speak up for myself and have been made to feel im entitled for wanting to he treated a certain way.
Amazing discussion
This was super powerful! Thank you so much sharing! This gives me hope - I’m not alone and it will get better!
Love all of this! Leveling up isn't easy but it feels SOOOOO GOOD! ❤❤
Thanks so much! So glad you liked it! 🥰
I loved this one, and congrats Lisa, for reaching over 1 million subscribers; you deserve it; thank you for the great content💫💫💪😍
I'm finding this discussion very interesting and I can relate to alot. It's also very helpful. The part about hinting though, I have tended to hint rather than ask outright and I feel it's out of fear or my insecurities that I do this. I am trying to be more assertive and ask. Thank you for all the advice...
Like Nicole, I too was the scapegoat in my family, so my talents and achievements were met with rage.
me too....I had a horrible childhood ...I was made fun of by the people who were suppose to love me
@@Artsylady2030 I'm so sorry to hear it.
love is, who you want to be with
Thank you, ladies! You're the best! (Not flattery, TRUTH! 🤣)
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I so needed this, cause I’m here right now with my “close friend.” Oh “people do what they want to do” and when she said feeling taken advantage of and I control that. I’ve heard some of this from different relationship coaches but needed to hear all of this again. I love her voice and her presentation on this topic. Thank you.
Leave the ghosts alone. They have other options
smart women‘s talk❤
Great Wisdom....
I love her hair
If you are strong with ferme boundries you fear nothing.
I got all the special compliments, about my intelligence and being noble and he still dumped me so... He would still say stuff like "you give me so much" while he didnt give me much while checking attractive women out. He was very consistent which makes it even more confusing
Never tolerate a voyeur
Mine too
So I see you took my comment off.
Well, what I said Was I don't understand how women put up with that kind of behavior in the first place- Any Human indoctrinated male ever did that to me, the 1st time would be his last time- and that's one situation his d*** a** would NEVER FORGET!
but it is the women's fault for putting up with it the 1st time-
I think compliments should have more depth if they’re real. Like what does it say I like that you give me…?
Well said . Thank you 🙏🏼 #redflags ‼️
I delay messages with people who do the same for me. Ive had Normal expectations and genuine expectations but this world uses u when they want to
When you do that to them they get upset.
@@buyiswamnyani5222 I agree😇 u teach people how to treat u. Especially some of my women friends who disappear when they married and come back to me now when they got marital problems.
Thank you❤
She’s so beautiful
I know for a Long Time. I am sensing everyone when I Look at them. I hate that Mattern. I know try to Focus on my Life. Who i Care for
15:50 I'm completely surprised to hear that, because I always thought of that the other way around.
Like, usually women text me back like the next day. Like the majority of them.
I don't particularly mind that, but it's definitely annoying. I really really appreciate it, if someone texts back right away.
I text back to ALL my friends as soon as I see the text which is usually right away unless it came in while I was sleeping.....I think it is very rude to do otherwise
“Serving yourself up on a platter” also known as playing yourselves.
Did I just hear you say that you may be considering coming to Australia Terri??😃🌈⚡️Please do!! To Noosa Shire on the Sunshine Coast: THE most beautiful part of Oz. Let me know how I can help? 🙏🏽😍Lee B
Wow she’s so beautiful
This just happened to me😢
I just ask them what they want. 😮😮😮
😮😢😮😢....so glad I found this
Look actions on long term ❤
It’s tricky as shit.
How I Feel how I tink what I wont ❤️
The first interview was great, the second not so much.
13:25 I'm pretty sure a lot of women don't know how to do this.
Even I as a man struggle with that.
I suspect, that's why I always get ghosted. I probably am "too sneaky", when talking to people, so they get scared of me sneaking past boundaries, so they just ghost me, because they can't put in words, that something about me feels off.
The problem is, when I talk too much about that, beforehand, I am also being creepy. (Because we aren't in any real relationship, yet. So why do I sound like there's something going on? Why would I ask otherwise, how often someone wants to be contacted, etc. ?)
I'd really really prefer if people just straight up told me: "Hold on, I feel like you're trying to be manipulative. Can you tone that down a bit?", than just straight up putting me on block or not responding at all, whenever the slightest inconvenience pops up.
Like, just last year, I had two people write me: "Yeah, I'd really like to meet you. I'm just currently busy. I'll get back to you, once I'm not busy anymore"
Nearly one year later and multiple holidays, no one responded. That's why I kept asking one person in distances of like 2-3 months. And she still gave me the "I'm still busy" stuff.
If you don't want to have contact with me, that's absolutely fine, just let me go, ffs.
You're not being "nice", if something about me turns you off and you don't give me a reason and kick me out.
Hmmmmm.
Sounds like you talk too much.
Just being honest hun.
@@chrissemenko628 That's the fun thing. I barely talk and when I do, I don't stop. Probably pretty annoying.
@@Littlefighter1911 don’t worry about how much you talk or don’t. The right person won’t mind. However, if someone says they will get back to you when they are not busy, and they never reach out… they don’t want to get together. To keep reaching out every few months seems desperate. It’s unfortunate people aren’t more straightforward, but they are human and probably just chicken sh*t about directly hurting someone’s feelings. Super lame, but tis life.
@@littlelam3691 That's what I suspect.
But for that one person, it's not like we weren't friends before.
I acknowledged she will probably never like me as more and that's completely fine by me. She gave ME the "if you need distance, that's fine". But honestly, I don't care, I just wanted to clear that up, before proceeding in that painful limbo of being unsure what I am to her and awkward situations.
It's super weird to me, that she ghosts me NOW, while she was completely fine, with my behavior, before, when she didn't know I liked her. (Which I honestly would have found more concerning but whatever)
But, yeah I've given up on both of them.
Love the guests and the interview style. The" What Up Homeee" OOOOhffff it's bit cringe, sorry.
Exactly texing can be false
Recently on several dating sites trying to put my toe in the water after 9 years of being single.....all guys wanting sex- sending inappropriate pictures of body parts. Disgusted. Taking another break ..gonna try again in a year
Him: "I had a dream about you. It's 11:00 PM. I'm around the corner. Can I come see you?"
Me: "I am not a booty call. Go back to sleep. BYE."
The push pull women are doing is failing. Not only does it not filter out users, it creates that scenario.
Let me explain, a guy shows interest and you push them away as if its not alpha, then you wonder why he doesnt call..... Once the peak attraction is thwarted the love dies, and only then is when the women begins to chase.
You must be young
@@littlelam3691 Just because you dont want to accept that women behave like children, you wanna gaslight and redirect your own think.
He just want ses if you have nothing else to offer..
What is ghosting?
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Hi Lisa
How could we differentiate love bombing from someone who is just being flirty and giving you compliments into the “get to know us stage” ?
Over the top, intense, wants to lock down the relationship as quickly as possible, making alot of promises about the future (future faking.)
Girl, anyone who flirts too aggressive like that, just wants to play around.
If he texts this, it's a major red flag. What is the text?
I’m his sunrise chef lmbo none of my clothes came off
Impossible to do in a marriage with someone who thinks you owe it to them. My husband expected sex just because we were married. I feel like a fool!!! My husband literally would say, "Well I hope you have a good time, it isn't like I get to go." or "Gee, your taking the kids to the museum, I hope you have a good time without me. It isn't like I get to do anything." Now we are in a messy divorce after over 30 years of marriage. He walked out over two years ago, but wouldn't file for a divorce. I finally just said enough is enough and filed. He is making it as ugly as he possibly can. Hindsight is 20/20!! I should have had the courage to walk out years ago, but I was so manipulated that I wasn't even thinking clearly. It has taken a lot of therapy for myself and our children to realize I matter. I still feel like a fool, but now I can find myself again, and my children can find who they are.
Please I like the two of you
The conversation I like to have help with the two of you a matters that relate
An expression to being real dealing with unreal
I really think I'm a five-star number one test subject
Blind leading those who and then those that think they say but don't!
That made no sense
I disagree that codependency is a bid to control others in the particular way described. That sounds more like manipulation.
Or am I conflating codependency with something else?
Many people who have been seriously traumatised, behave in what looks like a codependent way, but it’s because their abusers absolutely demand submission.
Is it codependency if they have a gun to your head? Often those victims will go on into relationships with people just as dangerous.
I wonder has that dynamic another name?
Watch the feet not the tongue..........
00:11 the first 11 seconds described my mother who has munchausen syndrome by proxy. She manipulated my whole entire life, and hers, until at age 51, I figured out her M.O. Why does my mother's name come up in this video???? Because her manipulated deception and life was the most influential energy and spirit that poisoned my spirit, energy, beliefs and mindset on friendships, work, dating, life, etc.... it is no different than being born and raised by a drug addicted mother....she will kill steal and destroy anyone in order to survive and get that attention. . .... because she feels sooo shitty about herself..... She sacrificed me, her baby and child, to the devil, herself. She also did that to her other child, my older brother, but our father rescued him, because he is a boy. But, me?????? I was the spare, the spare female child, so my father couldn't care less. This was in the days when female children were not wanter and considered a waste of food and a waste to educate......a waste to give job opportunities to ....girls and women were not seen as laborers but liabilities.... Have things improved in 2023????
They have. Start a new chapter of your life. Learn.
What country are from
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She's softened her voice soooo much. In her regular videos, this therapist is pretty rough.
I hate her current whispery voice....it makes me sick
4:31
6:44
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7 commercial breaks??? Seriously????
We Americans have all been made into victims by modern psychology. 😮
1:09:02
"i don't wanna spend another Second of my life in a relationship with someone with an unexamined mind"
(nods and claps)
Well, since there's really no upside for a man to get into a relationship these days, chances are it's probably a booty call. The surprise factor shouldn't really exist anymore.
The whole world isn't the USA 🤦🏻♀️
What is the perk you are looking for and missing?
My peace of mind, but I have slowly started to gain it back after I walked away.
I say, bootie call.
if i understand correctly, we are suggesting to combat "narcissism" with more "narcissism"
*DISCERN*
I don't hear anything about being caring or taking care of your partner.
Or being an adult and understanding others have bad days.
Grow up.
Loved the interview, but her overuse of “like” is distracting.