I'M HERE!!?!??!?! I'M GONNQ DO A LONG TEXT AGAIN SORRY GUYS I JUST REALLY LIKE DECIPHERING VIDEOS AND THE UNDERTONES. Let's begin with the start!! ^__^ 0:16 > Normal as to what happens before S/A, PINK has her eyes set on BLUE and is trying to get a quick read on him before continuing, trying to see if she can find any clues to him treating her any different than other coworkers to unravel her plan - bow chika wowwow. I like the touch of adding words like "gullible" , "good boy", "good work", "good job", "good time", and "fun". No reason at all I just think those are good touches considering he likes praise (have it be verbal affirmation or physical like someone cry laughing at his hilarious jokes) - I also like the fact that there's a pink triangle behind PINK, showing how she wants to make a different type of purple with BLUE. I don't know if that's exactly why it was shown (probably not!) but I'll believe it was for now!!! 0:19 > PINK purposefully tripping and being subtle with her sexual advances and getting irritated at BLUE being respectful and not looking was a nice touch as well!!! She even calls him boring since he didn't react the way she thought he would. (
This little part at 0:33 !! I really like the little subtle touch of the picture with the HUSBAND being a WOLF, Idrk how to describe this but the wolf (in my personal opinion) might mean Pink was married to an older guy too and was normalized to it (or, groomed?) !! She might be dumping or coping her s*ual intentions with Blue instead from her past trauma, does not excuse it but i think thats just my theory! :) Edit: I don't just think its an older guy, or just a person that has traumatized Pink with most possibly with other cases like ab*se and etc. It could be anything but I just got inspired by the "Little red riding hood" theory people gave :) The wolf can possibly just mean danger too!
@@ChinoriDesu >> 100% i agree with you!! I definitely believe PINK was doing all of this as a means to cope with her own trauma since she was hurt by a man and finally can hurt a man younger than her. It's horrid and unfortunately how some people work!
@@YukidiedfromtoomanysprinklesI'm so sorry for you :( I know how it must have been fell, I have experience S/A with a people of my family how lived in the same house with me, and I know how scary and traumatic it can be...
Lavender, his sister, his goddamn sister walking out on him when he was clearly distressed and wanting her to help him out made my heart drop. As an older sister with a younger brother i could never even think of leaving his side in a situation like this. I can see why she's on top of the controversial list.
I'm also an older sibling, and that scene just gut punched me so hard with how Blue reacted to her leaving him Like, could she be any worse? He looked like he was so betrayed.. and very unrelated, but I'm 666th like lol
No hold on! I get this but now here are other things. What if lavender didnt catch on..i catch onto things pretty quickly but not all the time i feel like sadly if i was the sister i wouldnt have caught on but would try to get my bro out and see if he'll tell me why hes waving.. or whats going on,but in this case i feel like i would have noticed... especially if im looking RIGHT AT HIM.
its relieving to see an animation that DOESNT treat SA as a quirky joke and educates its audience on how SA can vary,,, thank you so much, as someone who is a survivor of grooming and SA,,,
to add on the "shut up and sleep with me" audio has been used in animation memes where the joke is sexual harassment and sexual assault,,, i am just so happy that your series exists, it makes me feel understood and heard,,, this could also help people who are in these situations realize that they are being abused bc, as im watching your videos, its made me realize that the way my abuser treated me in the earlier stages of our relationship were *signs*,, i never noticed bc i was just 13-14 while she was 18-20,,, i wish i had these videos when i was younger...
@@im3ic im not sure cuz i havent listened to the original song itself outside of just short animations but a majority of the animation memes that spawned from it were
i really appreciate you clarifying that the way your body reacts to being sa doesn't mean you enjoyed it bc I feel like a ton of people INCLUDING victims don't understand that and many victims end up putting aside their discomfort thinking that they enjoyed it cause it seemed like their body enjoyed it when in reality its not the case. Great video and an amazing representation on how people can be sa regardless of who they are
The main issue with this stupid argument that "hey you enjoyed it" is because it's LITERALLY A BIOLOGICAL THING. It's like saying that because something tastes good you should eat it all of the time. S*x is meant to be enjoyable, due to sex drive and it makes it easier to reproduce as a species. That does not mean that is was comfortable for the victim, nor does it mean they were allowing it to happen.
I really like this part 0:43 because it brings an stereotype that not so many people touch, some girls believe that boys are inheritly horny and that they are always willing to hook up, stereotype that is often used to dehumanize male SA victims claiming that there is no way they can get abused because men are always expected to be interested in sex, this stands out much more in cases of flirty men who (as in the case of women) are thought to be willing to consent even without asking them
Yesss!, I noticed how she was questioning his masculinity since he didn't agree with her nor wanted to have sex. It's pretty sad to hear ppl saying men can't get SA'ed by women.
@@mismeow11 I have even heard some people asking boys who were abused if their trouble is because they are gays and that's why they didn't liked the "relationship"
I rlly wanna agree but my friends also act that way. I was s/a and when I tell my friends most of them said "you're so lucky bro" c'mon man you're more than just a pleasure addict, please, have some senses
I honesty didn't expect it was a PSA video. I like how blue represents vulnerability and fear and pink was representing lust and desire. I just hated how people treat male SA if they "wanted it"
I'm pretty sure, the "you wanted it part" happens to both genders, but more people would believe female if they got S/A'd, cuz they think men basically can't get S/A'd.
idk if the colors are chosen that way in particular. I do know however that the colors do have a bit of meaning? that being that apparently the more purple the character has, the worse they are. (like how purple is seen as the worst abuser out of the entirety of them.) which might honestly just be because pattern + blue and lavender are siblings so obviously, gotta make the colors similar. actually that's why I thought for a bit that lilac was the mom of lavender and blue
The sad thing it's that Blue always tried to confront the girls when he felt umcorfortable. He rejected Red, snapped at Lavender, confronted Purple and Pink in this video, but they always have more control over him and never listened, and at some point he got too tired to have a voice to defend himself. You can see how devastated Blue looks when Lavender deny helping him.
This also proved he never consented any of this, but the attacker keeps on gaslighting him into thinking he actually wants this. in wutiwant, he just let purple do him without any struggles bc he's at the point where he's thinking he actually wants this poor blue :(
holy crap. As someone who was groomed online and abused online, this hits hard, Vic. This is exactly how my abuser acted. This genuinely is a great representation of s/a. Thank you for making this. I feel heard, and I hope others feel heard too.
@@Lucky43221So, an online groomer could say things like: don’t tell anyone about our conversations. Or they could try and keep you away from other friends and family, and even if they know your age, they won’t break off the friendship-of what they want to be a relationship possibly. They could manipulate you, and say weird things. If this has happened to you, you’ve probably been groomed.
@@Lucky43221oh wdym lol? You can be manipulated and sexually abused online in the sense that this abuser will and can still pull you into this feeling of trust. The degree is much different and can take different forms, this can be them soliciting nudes from you. Encouraging you to do acts for them or just to yourself. Sharing and exposing said minor of individual to pornagraphic images and exposing them to not so good circles. Or, encouraging them to create material for you (art or photo) It varies, but even than grooming can happen anywhere because it isn’t like, just irl. There are steps to grooming if you research this
A detail that I really enjoy is that Pink’s lipstick is black here and in On The Floor, when in Kiss Me, it was white. Keep in mind: Black: Non-consensual touch White: Consensual touch In LOVEFOOL, her lipstick was gray, implying that her relationship with Blue was becoming toxic on her end. Another thing that may be important is that Pink has a white ring, which is maybe connected to the wedding photo. This could mean that her marriage with that man was non-toxic on her part. EDIT: I was wrong about that last part, forgive me
just wanna say how great you are for spreading awareness on this topic and how it can happen to anyone regardless of gender we really need to break away from the “men are supposed to like this” stereotype
Vic actually isn't leaning into the stereotype- in this video it's showing that *pink* is the one leaning into the stereotype and using it against blue. Blue seeing his body react isn't sure about himself anymore and therefore let's it happen, he doesn't like it at all
hey, as an SA and r@pe victim, ty for making this. it brings more awareness to the fact we didn't want it just because our bodies natural responses to the situations we're in,,
I'm a bit confused, why don't they do anything? I mean, if they're a close family member, and u gave them a signal you ARE in danger, and they took it, why don't they do anything? It's not hate or nothing, I just don't understand
@@Max--782 For me personally the family member I told (my mom) was uncomfortable with the topic and would just rather pretend it never happened than to believe me. It's hard to think about someone you know being hurt like that. I can't really understand why anyone would brush it off either so I don't really have a good explanation besides that excuse
i love that lavender's eyes are closed. in the "look, don't touch" video, the way her eyes were depicted gave me the impression that she hides her actions much better (aka since she doesn't touch him, she isn't viewed as a sexual assaulter, even if that's her brother and he did not consent). however, this video and the context of the story, bring out a different layer to lavender's actions. she completely dismisses her brother's plea for help. the pause she made while turning her head towards him before she left showed me that she understood what he was saying but chose not to help. either because she didn't take the situation seriously or because she genuinely doesn't care for her brother's safety (i wouldn't be surprised if that were the case), but in both scenarios, she's *choosing* not to stop the s/a from happening or continuing. she saw an s/a victim asking for help and "closed her eyes" at the situation.
I'm confused, is video "look, don't touch" alredy released or it will be in the future and you're judging by it's thumbnail? 'Cus I can't see it on the Vic's channel, but it can be not shown in my country or smth
@@ЧиакиНанами-в9м oh crap. yeah, no, the video has been out for a while. the reason it might not be able to be viewed in your country is probably because of copyright from the music, or some other reason.
me and my groupmates are watching educational videos about physical and mental abuse, and our topic is about assault. i remembered you make awareness videos about this topic and proceeded to show it to them. most of my fellow groupmates learned things, from the video and the comment section, but our leader was mad and they said something bad along the lines of 'men always get attention' and that 'women who are r*ped should get more attention because men who have been r*ped 'enjoyed' it'. this stereotype makes me feel so ill. both men and women who have experienced assault deserve compassion, support, and attention. assault is *never* acceptable, regardless of gender. pain, trauma, and suffering do not discriminate based on gender, and it's crucial to provide support to anyone who has been a victim of such a horrendous act. statements suggesting that men "enjoy" or should receive less attention for being assaulted are not only insensitive but also inaccurate. everyone deserves empathy and support, regardless of their gender. it's essential to educate and promote understanding about the impact of assault on all individuals, regardless of gender. no one wants, and asks to be assaulted.
The line that makes my stomach sink is “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best in” it’s just very much a topic people don’t like to touch. You’re very good at portraying these topics, might take a break on watching them for myself because it can be triggering but that is all me and not you. Keep doing what you’re doing cause it’s amazing💕remember to take care of yourself physically and mentally while working on this Vic
THANK GOD THEY MENTIONED IT! The body will continue to react to whatever stimulus it may be, because in the end it is normal, it will continue to have sensitivity (basic biology) to certain things and therefore, a reaction. But those physical reactions don't mean that they go the same way as the mind and emotions of the person who undergoes it. It impresses me that the majority of viewers are so ignorant about the difference between what one thinks, what one feels, and what the body says.
I really didn't know the body could act different to what u fell and think, these videos are very helpful bc they teach and make sa victims fell like they aren't alone...
@@Max--782 Something that people should be clear about is that people have a nervous system that extends throughout the body, and therefore, the stimuli and reactions to them will occur no matter what. And in fact, an interesting fact. The thing is that the feeling of fear and "desire" have a common origin, which causes reactions like the ones Blue had, and can be very counterproductive for any victim. You can investigate on your own, the topic is somewhat complex but it is worth understanding a little how it work! 👏🏻 Currently I am still researching the topic, the association of the body and the mind is quite a mess.💧
@@katherine.ealvarado.p562you (and Victaton) explained everything perfectly. I’m a victim, and I can’t stop watching this animation over and over again and reading the comments. Everything about it, the visuals, the hidden meanings, everything. Its perfect. Your (the commenter) explanation of everything really helps people who haven’t gone through it understand what it was like. Thank you.
dude my heart dropped when the sister saw Blue hinting for help and she just left, it looked like the life was just drained out of his eyes :( Edit: I'm talking about the girl who has her eyes closed for the majority of the time. I'm not sure what color she is since the Lilac, Lavender, and Purple colors confuse me lol
@@sonjk_jellyshe’s hinted at from the “Don’t touch it” video where you see a photo of Lavender and Blue together as kids. So she’s technically both his sister and manager
At 1:08, the background music switches up and the background is white, showing how he had hope of his sister getting him out of this situation, but when she just walked away the bright colors started coming back, and you see a blank stare on his face. I like these details added. You can feel his emotions, even if you can't properly see them.
What I HATE so much when it comes to s/a for men would be other guys saying shit like "oh if I was him I would be so happy" or "if I was him I would just take it" Y'ALL ARE NOT MAKING THE SITUATION BETTER S/A IS S/A DOESN'T MATTER IF THE ABUSER WAS ATTRACTIVE OR NOT
I'm from RU Segment and we literally have the same problem "you're lucky!" or “I wish it were me instead of you!” this is so disgusting to read when there are children there 
Hey, sorry if this is weird but I really appreciate these. I’m a trans dude who’s been sexually assaulted, and it causes me to struggle with my identity often. Seeing you portray a male character who’s gone through the same thing helps me feel a bit stronger, and helps me know that I’m not alone. Thank you. :)
I was about to comment the same thing, I'm also a trans man who went through the same thing, and this series of videos about S/A Victaton is making actually make me really happy. Some people say it's innapropriate but I think things like that should be more represented, to spread awareness
I have a theory about Purple's relationship with both Red and Blue. Purple may have a weird crush on/obsession with Red and is harassing her through social manipulation. In both the Lovefool meme and this one, she seems to be trying to drive them apart from each other. This is shown with her whispering something into Red's ear while Pink yanks Blue closer to herself in Lovefool and how she immesiately butts into Red and Blue's conversation by pressing her face up against Red's while glaring at Blue, scaring him off, in this one. When Red tries to look past her at Blue, Purple forcfully pulls her in closer, lifting her bangs off of one eye and continuing to stare at Blue as he leaves. Another meme that this shares a detail with is the Look Don't Touch meme, where in both memes, she rubs Red's head - an affectionate gesture - without the latter's consent and clearly making her uncomfortable. I'll even go the extra mile and say that Red's treatment from Purple may be influencing Red's later treatment of Blue, since both women are engaging in possessive behaviors toward those they are obsessed with, which Red may be led to believe was normal. Purple's relation to Blue probably doesn't need much explaining, since she is one of his confirmed assailants and preys on him in WUTIWANT; she seems to be manipulating them both to stay away from each other to exert power over both of them. Also, red + blue = purple, so maybe this ties in to how both Red and Blue are at the mercy of Purple? I know that Vic said that more purple in the design, the worse the character is, but there might be a correlation involving the color schemes of these specific characters. In short: Purple is SAing not just Blue but also Red, and this abuse is warping Red's views on her own treatment of Blue and causing her to think it's okay. This series is focusing on male SA, but I think Red might just so happen to be another victim alongside Blue. I may not be an SA victim myself, but I really appreciate this series. It has loads of details, information, and care put into each upload. Also, Blue's expressions at the very end are just heartbreaking; the fact that not the assault itself but the sheer betrayal from Lavender ignoring his pleas for help is what finally breaks him just feels like a punch to the gut.
I agree on this theory because when I first saw red she didn't really have any intentions of hurting blue, she just really loved blue a lot to the point it became a bit too much and usually people like this might also be victims since it's normalized in their perspective
0:51 The text turning from pink to blue :( This poor man. Going from, "No, I don't want this" to "Do I want this?" to *"Shut up. **_You want this."_* is heartbreaking. All because his body reacted in a way he didn't expect.
Good catch! I thought she was telling him to get down on his hands and knees to please HER, with the implication that's all he is good for... hearing your explanation, though, makes much more sense.
I’m honestly so glad you’re making awareness videos of S/A. People tend to brush over the topic more than expected. I’m also glad you explained the physical similarities between fear and ar0usal, as they can be easily mistaken to those who aren’t familiar. I hope that anyone who is in a situation simular to this gets the courage to fight back and escape. Keep up the great work, Vic.
I’m so happy that you actually spread awareness of it and educated about it. To anyone who has gone thru s/a, you are heard and you can always get help. (Sorry my English is not that good, hope the person reading this still understand what I mean.)
1:15 This is such a crucial part of blues story. He has lost nearly everyone he thought he could reside in. Getting sexually assaulted is so hard, but a call for help being ignored by someone, especially your family, is so soul crushing. Being denied your right to consent, denied comfort in your relationship, and even denied a person to reside in. This is the part where blue looses it all, this is where a knife breaks his skin and leaves a scar, this is where he feels like an enemy to himself and everyone around him cant be fully trusted. This is blues story.
i love how you can even see the change too; from white pupils with bright blue eyes and a nervous grin that so perfectly encapsulates the want for help and clear discomfort, to his eyes quickly being nothing but a pitch black void with no mouth that shows what you talked about
Mhmm!! And I've noticed how one of his pupils always seems to go red indicating (I think) that he's about to stand up for himself but something/someone always seems to stop him, in this case, it being how his body reacted to the stimuli
I've never felt so disgusted, especially at 1:07 when Lavender acknowledged Blue's discomfort and just played it off as nothing bad. It hurts so much to see this because it's clear that Blue trusted her enough to get him out of this situation, but she chose not to interfere. + That all hurts a lot more once you see the expression on his face and the immediate disappearance of his mouth. This is making me realize Each time he spoke out against his abusers, he was repeatedly shut down and ignored, and that final moment when he at least TRIED to get someone to listen, he was immediately ignored. He lost that voice completely and that's probably the saddest part about this.
I think it’s supposed to represent the “he must’ve liked it” stereotype when it comes to males experiencing sexual assault. Lavender saw this as a “spicy situation between blue and pink” and not as blue’s call for help, thinking he was just nervous to be locked up in a room with a female, and that’s why she left with “tease” laughing and probably something like “don’t want to bother you guys” (aka she thought it wasn’t a sexual assault but rather just something between blue and pink due to the “men can’t be sexually assaulted” stereotype)
@@OmeletteOwl yeah that's what i was thinking, but i didn't know how to really put it into words I feel like that stereotype might play a role later into the story but I can't be sureto be honest. So I guess we just have to wait
1:17 is such a heart dropping moment, it’s the way Blue is signally his sister for help only for her to ignore it. That’s when he loses his voice and mouth, it happens a lot in S/A victims where they try to show signs to their family only for them to ignore them intentionally or unintentionally which are equally worse for the victim 😕
My thoughts: -The action of his own sister ignoring his silent pleas for help just makes it more heartbreaking. You can see the dead in his eyes when she just leaves. -The action of pink using the fucking excuse of “you’re a boy, you must like this” is fucking disgusting, this is not only inappropriate but also dehumanizing. -Heck, even before that scene it is clear that he isn’t in a save environment, with dark purple already having her eye on him and red still obsessing over him.
It’s the fact that his OWN SISTER turn a blind eye to his situation when he was obviously crying for help, then his mouth disappeared (and probably won’t be seen again from this point) showing how he has lost the ability to communicate outwardly for any help because he sees that even someone who is his family doesn’t do anything knowing about it, probably making him feel trapped and believe no one can help him at all
Also I noticed that purple is oddly touchy with red specifically, it’s clear that they have some sort of connection, maybe purple sees red as some sort of entertainment? But it also seems like purple is somewhat protective of red?(idk) like the way she got in between red and blue and seems to try to push blue away when he tries to approach, some sort of imbalance in power might also has a play in this but I’m unsure
It's oddly uncomfy how much my brain looked over the lyrics of the song, despite how explicitly it's talking about sex,, I honestly thought this series would be more "I understand this, but I'm seeing a portrayal/example? of it" but it's instead been more like "I didn't think about that, there are so many red flags besides just being creepy and forceful" especially at the end with the information about stimulus regardless of context, I knew it but I didn't consider it in my mind This whole series has been very effective in making me aware of the different ways people can go about being manipulative beyond the act itself (as I watch a lot of truecrime and hear the testimonies but not the lead-up to it) I feel awkward coming up with words to compliment this, but you've really done a fantastic job at getting info across in a short amount of time!
IT MAKES ME MAD TO SEE SOMEONE EVER DO THIS TO THEIR SIBLING 😭😭 it hurts my heart (as an older sister to my lil bro) It proves that people with corrupted minds like that mostly wont be able to think correctly. Just like those documentaries i watch
I never thought about how this song sounded so... _like this_ before. I absolutely love how you are handling such a topic with importance and put effort both into the videos and information. Very interesting to me personally. I'm not good with words and explaining but I'd like to say that I love your work, overall. Thank you :)💙
I completely agree. As someone who grew up with animation memes, this audio is typically portrayed in a charming, silly, light hearted manner. When really, the lyrics are quite persistent for something so intimate. It’s really interesting to see popular/misunderstood audios being used to portray this very much needed story.
I love the amount of attention to little details shown in this. For example, the fact that her lips change from white to black: At first I thought that the dark gray color used for pinks wasn’t anything important and was simply used for the aesthetics of her design (not in any way glorifying her character or her actions in the video whatever, just couldn’t find a better word for it, so apologies if I offended anyone with that), but after realizing that in some scenes, as well as other videos, her lips are a pure black compared to the dark gray used in from time to time, so here’s what I think it could possibly mean unless I’m reading into it too much (although I don’t think so due to the fact that everything seems to have some sort of meaning): From the beginning where we first see pink overall (0:17 - 0:19) she has the dark grey lips. We can see pink making observations on blue, things that when looked and listened to hard enough sound pretty uncomfortable. Though at this point I believe blue doesn’t understand the intention of her words and takes the praise with that sense of uncomfortability, unsure if he’s reading into it too much. Maybe the dark gray is coming from a place of confusion and not understanding the ill and toxic intent of pinks words? After all, all the characters are portrayed in the way they are seen by blue, which is why things like lips, or touches and characteristics in general, change from white (consentual) to black (unconsentual). Maybe the gray is the confusion of the in between, as if blue knows something is wrong, but doubts himself as he doesn’t actually understand or know if he should truly feel put off and disgusted by the behavior. We see pink again (0:20 - 0:22) with the white lipstick. She had purposely fallen to get his attention that she craves once again, though blue doesn’t realize that she had ill intentions in this moment, causing her lips to in fact be white. She even goes as far as to call him boring for not picking up on her intentions and not reacting how she wanted him too. We see pink again with the gray lips at 0:28 up until 0:49. From what I see she’s trying to force him into doing what she wants with him, even though he doesn’t want to, most likely because of how forcefully she’s trying to do so, as well as the fact that she’s married. He’s made uncomfortable, yet he still doesn’t want to fully loose hope and give into the thought that this is the person she’s becoming. He could also be thinking that it’s partially his fault in the first place, after all he did like her first. (Reminder that just because you like someone first, it can still be considered SA if they try to pull anything on you without your consent. You are 100% in the right to feeling uncomfortable no matter your situation, no matter your gender, no matter your age, no matter your relationship with said person, no matter ANY of the circumstances. Victaton portrays this perfectly. Dont be afraid to ask for help. You are worth it.) From 0:49 - 0:50 for literally one second we see pink with pure black lips, telling blue to do “what he is best in”, likely being something sexual. The lead up to this is her confused as to why he doesn’t want to. Pink is beautiful, and frankly everything blue liked in a woman. Plus, he wanted her first in the beginning, so why doesn’t he want her now? Blue is insulted and disgusted immediately, hence why her lips turn that pure true black as he’s realized that he’s not wrong for that split second of doubt he was having. We see her lips gray again for the rest of the video up until 1:17 to the end where they are black. She’s trying to convince blue that he should listen to her, that she’s right, and that because he’s “young and free” he should sleep with her because he’s “allowed to make that decision” even though pink is clearly not leaving any room for blue to make a decision about it in the first place. He could be thinking that maybe she’s actually right, since she’s giving me a choice, she’s not forcing me into anything. Then the sister comes in on the situation. Blue, still feeling uncomfortable, takes this as a moment of a call for help. The sister immediately draws a blind eye too it, though she clearly saw his call for help, and leaves the two of them. Them pinks lips turn that pure black again when blue realizes that he truly doesn’t have a choice in the matter whatsoever and there’s simply nothing he can’t do about it. I feel like it makes sense to me that way, as being a person who’s been SA’d before I’ve had my doubts about it, whether to actually call it SA because I believed I had done something wrong to provoke it even when I didn’t. It’s okay to have doubts, but remember, it’s never your fault. No matter what you’re told by anyone.
after reading this i now feel like this series belongs in a writing class, specifically where symbolism can be taught. Because you can basically apply this logic to any point in this series, even in the beginning!
I absolutely love this theory and how you explained it. And just something I noticed in the video to add to your theory, I noticed how at 0:17 it showed her nail to be white. While after that timestamp, the rest of the video shows her nails to be black. Maybe it could be the same with her lipstick. Her nails are white when Blue thinks she isn’t doing anything malicious, but black when he knows her intentions. Edit: Or maybe it could be based on physical touch, since I just remembered her lipstick was dark gray at 0:17.
All of the characters have some part of then that’s black or dark gray except red (I think). Purple has the dark gray/black teeth, lavender has pure black? Eyes, and as you stated pink has the lipstick. The only one that doesn’t have black is red who has a white bow since I think she is also a victim of purple from the looks of it. The light pink character is fine because she isn’t one of the abusers and (hopefully) will help blue.
I’m sorry that people find this topic so controversial and are actually getting mad about these videos, but these are the types of videos that let victims know they matter and that their situations should not be pushed under the rug. These situations are real and I’m glad Vic gave such insight in how the experiences can be so overwhelming, it leaves victims (which could be ANYONE) feeling confused about themselves and downplaying the experience. To s/a victims, I know it’s hard but I wish you all nothing but healing. They may have hurt you, but you are not your abuser and you are always still worth being loved/and heard. I’m also glad Vic took the time to show how abusers are always thinking about themselves above all, hence why they take any chance they get in spite of no consent being given. You’re truly doing great work, Vic.⭐
I couldn't help but cry when I saw this video, as a victim of SA it felt really good that it was represented as this usually happens, since this can help other persons to notice this flags, the person seems kind, treats you well and even tries to convince you that what is happening is okay , but when you don't want to, they get angry or call you "boring" for not wanting to, and then return to their mask of "oh but I'm a very good person" What hurt me the most was when appears the sister of blue's, that even when he was uncomfortable and clearly asking for help, she did nothing, she just left, and he looked so empty, even accepting his destiny that this was going to happen and he couldn't do nothing about it, really good video, you really just represented how this things happen and even the most nice and kind people can be an abuser
Something that i havent seen anyone talk anout is that on 0:39, where we can see her wedding pic, her husband is purple. Now, the creator has already said that violet/purple is used for people that are awful in a more noticeable way. Also on the wedding pic, she has eyes and looks very happy. The husband is also masked, which leads me to believe that she used to be a normal, nice person and believed that her husband was as well, but after being married for a while he dropped his act and became more abusive, maybe manipulating her into having intercourse when she didnt really want to, perhabs saying thats normal for a man to wish that and that they should do it cause they are married. This couldve lead her to think that all men are like her husband, and not realize that what she is doing is s/a (her not having eyes/not seeing why this was harmful). Anyway, im probably looking too much into it but its just a theory.
Love how each of this series “episodes” have a million views . This series definitely deserves attention, especially since it teaches us about the “SA”.
I absolutely love how you included the “body” part in this video. I’ve never experienced s/a myself, nor have many knowledge about it. So seeing this really explains a lot to me, and makes me understand this topic more. I would absolutely hope that your series could teach people too, more about this topic, just as you’ve done with me.
@@divine555 what r u saying?? It's a natural body response when in a situation like that. Some people can get aroused when being sexually assaulted even though they don't want to.
As somebody who has been a victim of s/a by 4 diff ppl this rlly makes me happy that ppl spread awareness abt this it rlly does! And s/a is not a thing to joke abt ppl its actually something that can mess up ppl’s lives like mine it ruined my childhood and be aware that anyone cld be a victim of s/a regardless who it is or what gender they are which is why being nice to ppl is the best thing to do bc u may never know what one is going through! Thx Vic for spreading awareness and I hope u and everyone else has an amazing new year!
man I like how you explain things that goes against stereotypes you do a great job at showing how things can actually be thank you for raising awareness on that kind of thing
purple being that close to red and most likely getting Blue to leave and fall into Pink’s trap is just. so disgusting, but I know that’s genuinely what happens sometimes
As an S/A victim at 9 yrs old i thought that since i had reacted to it in arousal i thought it meant i was being dramatic. Im really glad to have this piece of feedback. Especially since i cant talk to anyone about this considering my life would be destroyed if i did especially after waiting to tell someone for so long. thanks so much again.
what you mentioned at the end is something called arousal non cordonance and it gives very important context for mental disorders alongside SA as well. im so glad it got talked about!
As a transmasc person who has been s/a'd and sexually harassed at a young age, this series brings me comfort, knowing other people can relate and understand how i feel makes me feel like im valid for talking about my experiences and stuff i guess ^_^ im glad you also clarified the body reactions part, due to people not ever understanding it, and abusers taking it to their own advantages. if you have been sa'd or sexually harassed, please seek help and therapy, you are not alone
I actually support this series, it goes into detail of how S/A can affect the body and mind, and its good for victims who are still struggling to understand it wasnt their fault.
Damn, you can tell how much research vic put in through the little thing at the end. I really like how fast paced this one is, good work as usual! I also like how you wrote Lavender seeing what was happening, but still neglecting to do anything to stop it
I have never felt more uncomfortable than this video, the sheer aggression in pink and blue's look is just mortifying and i think it shows one of the most common and horrifying parts of SA, the true fear that is felt.
Ok, I’m just going to say something, I think each’s characters face represents something about their type of abuse. PINK - No eyes Blue is very respectful of Pink, covering his eyes when she puts herself in suggestive position to not look like a “creep” Pink, however, wants Blue to see her. This is possibly because that despite the fact she thinks that just because Blue is a “selfish, body-wanting man” when in reality he’s not, she’s “blind” to these information, hence having no eyes LAVENDER - Closed eyes I’m “Look don’t Touch”, Purples eyes are closed for majority until Blue catches her looking and she quickly closes her eyes again, most likely excusing her behavior by “It was an accident, I barely saw anything”. She also declines Blues plead for help, which could mean she’s ignoring the fact and acknowledging that Blue is indeed being abused, making up excuses for it RED - Heart eyes In “LOVEFOOL”, Red is madly in love with Blue and her eyes are hearts, and she seems to be “blinded” by love because despite Blue telling her she’s not interested (but still suggesting they could be friends), she still tries to get with Blue, being extremely clingy PURPLE - Hidden eyes + Sharp Teeth Purples character is already pretty shady, but it’s even more unusual because we know she’s “hiding” something. When purple sees red around blue, she always walks up to red and tells her something, most likely saying “He actually loves you, he’s just shy” which could be why Red still tries to persue him. Purple keeps her predatory details hidden, presumably making up a facade of Trust and Betrayal That’s all my idea for now
@@Applz_I COME FROM THE FUTURE WITH BAD NEWS. sweet little bumblebee has revealed that purple of all people has tried to get red to knock it off before. however it's shown that she uses the same arguments pink uses on blue, yk saying he's just a body hungry man, though it's shown that somehow Red takes that all as advice and tries to become pink 2.0 because she saw (through purples narration bc iirc red got hired AFTER blue and we know that blue and pink started going out shortly after blue was hired) that blue and pink were a thing for a bit. I think there also was some response on pinks end? in lovefool pinks lipstick is gray and she tugs on blues tie when red passes by. so I'm pretty sure that pink got jealous over reds one-sided crush on blue and rather than talk to blue like an adult or god forbid end her affair as a whole and go to couples counseling with her husband she does ... this. idk what purples goal is tbh. not with the recent updates. at first I assumed that she's probably grooming red too because red is *19* and let's be real she is extremely childish, or at least in how she dresses. even when she tries to be pink she still dresses less like a mature woman and more like a teenager. like my first thought seeing her pink-imitation outfit was cheerleader. which I think is likely intentional since purple tells red that she's too innocent for blue and that he'd only bring her down / defile her. hence why she becomes pink 2.0 yeah idfk what the hell is up with her but anyway since in lovefool and in here it looks like purple tries to worsen reds behavior idk. maybe she encouraged it at first but then went "ok stop" when she saw that red is committed to this???
i hate the fact that blue’s sister isn’t taking any action and is allowing her brother to suffer with these women. she herself is an SAer which makes this even worse. i feel bad for blue i hope he gets the care he needs. :,(
i mean the other pink girl as far as we know din't do anything wrong to him yet so maybe and i'm just being hopeful at this point maybe she will be able to help hime/save him cause he derserve cause i feel like at this point he might just breakdown and do horrible thing to himself while not being in a good mindset hopefully just hopefully he will be saved also i feel like the the last girl the one i'm talking about might just be the boss of the place but that's just my opinion
@@TheChillAndWeirdBeing if you are talking about lilac then yes. i hope she managed to save blue from this chaos. someone mentioned that her eye color may be an indicator that she was a domestic abuse survivor and a sexual abuse survivor. (the purple color from the purple ribbon which is a sign of domestic abuse and the blue eye color from the blue ribbon which means sexual abuse.)
God, this is honestly so heartbreaking, I think this might be one of the first times I’ve actually felt physically sick from watching something, and that means you are doing an amazing job with showing this theme, I appreciate the fact you show a man’s story since we are always told this IS what we want even if we don’t, I think these videos are extremely important, even if they might be controversial, thank you for taking the time to touch this subject and educate your viewers 💛
0:24 Looks like Purple wants to manipulate Red, perhaps making Red fall for her since she fell for Blue so easy and making Blue have less people he can go to and trust (many abusers like to isolate their victims from support so their victims feel entraped). Blue sees this and is clearly uncomfortable with it, probably aware that Purple is up to something, and Blue speaks up about being weirded out by Purples behaviour. But his concern gets ignored and/or he’s told to shut up at 0:26
Thanks a lot for these videos Vic. I got assaulted by a girl near my age. You portrayed this PERFECTLY (And you put a girl version of blue in the end to show anyone can experience it)
@@OlTimeyChara 0:23 you can see lilac going away and a wheelchair and also some red person (who’s colour is more dull so I’m guessing they are not doing so well)
@@OlTimeyCharayou can slow the vid down to catch the scene The dull red person is probably an elder person who's not doing well since he is at a hospital
Something that I noticed through-out these videos is that all girls that had an act on Blue are blind, yet on different forms: - Red is blinded because of her intense feelings for Blue, and doesn't know the impact of her actions. - Pink (in my opinion) looks at this situation as a "fun time", yet she doesn't notice that her actions are harming Blue. Her actions ARE wrong, however she doesn't think so or she hasn't noticed the impact in her moves. - Lavender is FAKING, she tries to appear innocent, but she does know thay what she's doing is somehow wrong, yet she likes it and tries to make you think is not bad at all. - Purple is the most known predator; they look unsettling. Also, they have their eyes covered, but can still see the scenery, they just wanna take power over other people and sexually assault them, and they ARE FULLY aware of it. P.S: Also, Victaton, I've seen more of your videos, and I just wanna say that I love your stuff and I'm glad you're getting the recognition you desserve!!
No offense but I’ve seen some people saying things like “omg how could his sister leave him behind like that?” This is the same sister that was ogling him in the changing room..right? Why would we expect her to actually fundamentally care for him?? Just my opinion.
Noticing the changes in pinks lipstick and blue's eye color change is very interesting. Pinks lipstick is white when she's actually respecting him and his body, but black or gray when she's starting to actually SA'ing him. Blues eyes go spiraly when hes starting to fear her, and redish when he's actively trying to push her away. His eyes go black at the end when his sister(?) Doesn't help him And they go white when he truley realizes no ones coming to help him. His eyes seem cyan when he's hopeful. Another notice is purple(?) brushing blue off when he's with red. I think this could be two things: 1. She's trying to protect red from getting her heart broken 2. She's trying to make blue more vulnerable so she can get to him herself. But i really have to ask, why didn't his sister(?) Help him? I feel she would at least get jealous of pink or see this as an opportunity to hold it against him for a favor, but it could be so that blue is more vulnerable. Also the light pink one (I don't know her name.) Seems to be the only one to actually respect him, and she isn't seen in the title with the others. Maybe she'll be the one to save him, but that's me being hopeful. In most cases, the one being SA'd has to pull themselves out of there because no one believes them. Thank you for coming to my ted talk or whatever
i think red is also being abused by purple like how blue is tbh also i think lavender didn't help because she either didn't see an issue with what was happening, or more likely she just didn't care, since she's also an SAer
Nobody notices the intro, and it’s slightly confusing why people don’t talk a about the detail in it! They first start with showing us the stereotypical abuser, (a sharp teethed clearly villainous character), than show us all the others after it. Also, the colors in the words abuser and victim switch twice from abuser being blue (another stereotype, that men are more commonly the abuser whilst their are equal chances a female is an abuser as any male) and victim being pink (going off of the other stereotype that women get abused more) to abuser being pink and victim being blue. I pay attention to small details, and this is LOVELY to see. You showed so much in only a few seconds, and you deserve to get so much more recognition!
Do you guys notice purples tie? When she was in WUTIWANT her tie was blue which matches blue and how she was talking advantage of him. Now when she is standing by red you can see that it’s a light red color, probably hinting on how she’s taking advantage of red now and manipulating her..🤦🏽♀️
1:30 YES!! YES YES YES THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!! It took me 2 years to realize I was actually s/a’ed bc I felt this and I was only 13, I had no experience with anyone. I haven’t even even kissed at the time, and I thought that it was my fault. That I was the gross one in the situation. That I can’t tell anyone because “I wanted it”. The way I broke out of that mindset was literally at the start of this school year, when the guy who s/a’ed me got moved to my class and I ended up finally telling my teacher and she was horrified. More ppl need to know this bc feeling lust is not consent. You cannot control your body, Or your reactions to things around you. Especially if you are as young as I was
This series is actually really informative. Despite the fact it may be controversial, kids find out this stuff on the internet regardless. Having something like this can be very helpful
I really love all the details you put, specially things like pink's color of lipstick to show if it was consentual or not, or the color of blue (cyan, dark blue) to express his feelings. I am not a victim of S/A but a lot of them really appreciate what you do to spread awareness. ^^
I highly respect the effort that you put into spreading awareness about such a topic, im really grateful , i feel relieved that there is someone like you researching the facts and informing us who may not know, thank you :D
I'm honestly super glad you're bringing awareness to this. I'm a S/A victim and when it was happening this is kinda how I thought "oh I feel pleasure so I want this" I didn't want it obviously I was pretty young when it happened and I feel bad whenever people get told they were "asking" for it because of the way their body reacted like how you mentioned arousal is a common feeling but it doesn't necessarily mean you wanted it. I especially feel bad for males S/A victims because they usually get told it probably didn't happen or it couldn't have happened because they're a boy. So I also like that you added it can happen to anyone because it sure as hell can and unfortunately I know a couple people super close to me that has been unfortunately S/A.
Interesting seeing this song that was mainly used as a joke in the past being used in a more serious/dark tone. Hopefully Blue’s story has a somewhat happy ending. (I say somewhat cause even if his problems get fixed in some way, it’s still going to leave everlasting trauma)
Huge props to Victaton for making this video, spreading awareness is always the right thing to do and especially if it's the truth. No one in the world should experience this type pain, suffering and problem in their lives.. Blue needs help, by a lot. I hope everyone will take this seriously especially in this stereotype.
this video actually realy hurt but at the same time im so so glad you made this. as a victim i didnt know some of the info at the end of the video, and it helps me feel better and less confused about my experience. this video is a perfect example of what happens sometimes.
I like how you expressed that in situations like this its common to feel excited and it doesn't mean your liking this, it's a body response and you can't controll it. And how it makes you feel so disgusting
hey, as a girl who was s/a'd by another girl, i really enjoy and appreciate this series. it doesn't glorify s/a in any way, shape, or form, and it brings attention to other types of s/a that not many people know about, which is extremely comforting and validating for me and many others. thank you
Thank you for the excerpt at the end, it is completely true. Fear and Pleasure both elicit the same response in the brain. They both cause the release of adrenaline. I really, really appreciate how you’re speaking out about this, because it’s something that not a lot of people know, even though it’s so important.
*Lavender not helping him made me lose it, I swear...* These animations are always so dark and (sadly) so real, and I absolutely like how each situation is portrayed in each of them. Personally, I'm a big fan of the series and how it spreads awareness by showing how these things can happen to literally anyone. All I have to say is, Victaton is a real one for creating such videos
idk how anyone could see someone obviously asking for help and run off. especially if that's your relative. then again idk how anyone could be into their own sibling. all I know is that if my sister was in a situation like this and I saw her, I'd kick the shit out of the girl that's making her feel uncomfortable. even if it turns out that it was all a misunderstanding and that they were engaging in CNC and accidentally got me involved / I accidentally read it as being not consensual, is rather be safe than sorry. esp bc in the case where it's consensual and I just misread it I can apologize to the girl for being mean / aggressive to her and she'll know that I had good intentions. awkward sure but you can eventually laugh about it if it's just a misunderstanding. however if it actually is assault you can't just apologize to make it all better.
As an CSA victim, I personally love how you display the scenes of Blue's obvious panic in te situation. And how Pink acts throughout the whole thing. It makes me mad at all the characters personally, like how Violet (Or purple idk) just turns a blind eye to Blue's clear desperation for help. Really goes to show how horrible most the characters in this series really are, and it helps you resonate with Blue more and more by each passing video. Every video shows how this is going from 'light-hearted' to 'This person needs help' but theres really nothing we can do as veiwers. I honestly like that concept because, this is one, spreading awarness and two showing us an outside perspective of SA. How obvious it isn't and is at the same time.
I really wish i knew this when my S/A happened. As someone who now identifies as trans its nice to know that i wasn't excited and shouldn't feel disgusted for being horrified in the moment it happened. Thank you.
I'm a woman, but I always felt a great rejection because of that "You are a man, you are supposed to like (everything that has to do with sex)" when Pink shows us that even women can be as perverted or more perverted than men. It has nothing to do with it but I know female classmates who spend their time criticizing boys for being "horny" and there isn't a day that I don't hear them talking about perverted topics (Sorry, I needed to vent about that) Love your animations Vic. ❤️
This is actually very scary... (Kinda unrelated but from an art perspective I love the dynamic facial expressions it really communicates the feelings well especially considering the lack of eyes)
Honestly im never a fan of animation memes and such portraying s/a because its usually done in a disrespectful and unnecessary way but i love this, the abuser isnt portrayed in any good light and their actions arent romanticized plus the reactions the victim has are realistic too. Basically this feels more informative rather than being a story plot point (on its own) which is why i love it so much, this is a great way to ACTUALLY spread awareness while being slightly lighthearted. Great job :D
Keep making these videos. This is a message that REALLY need to be shared and talked about. Just because “she’s hot” doesn’t mean ut wasn’t SA. If someone does want that and it if forced onto them, that’s SA, no matter who the victim is, or the perpetrator is. Love the art and animation, it helps such a serous and dark topic easier to understand and learn from it. If you don’t want something, don’t blame yourself or let others blame you. You are a victim and no physical appearance or nature reaction will EVER change that.
I really like that you put info and work into this topic. It makes it mean something, and it spreads information that needs to be adressed with S/A. I personally appreciate this a lot.
I absolutely love how you explain how the body reacts to things like this no matter the context, doesn't mean the person wants it, bodys just react no matter what and I'm so glad you brought that point up
@@rubiiruu345 I don't think it refers to SA tho since Red would not be so comfortable around Purple if she had SAd her, tho I feel the color does imply who she has more power over at the moment In WUTIWANT for example, it was blue because she was clearly in a power position against Blue to the point where she didn't even needed to use force to make him do what she wants, while now its red because she seems to be having quite the influence on Red's way of seeing reality
I like how not only this series touches on the fact that men can be victims of S/A that it shows the types of methods and tactics that abusers use. Keep up the lovely work.
yo, this series is great and I feel like it puts SA in a simple enough and interesting light that younger audiences will be able to understand it and whether it may be happening to them. After watching a few videos I had realized something like this had happened with an ex of mine, it's really hard to process and you're doing god's work helping people understand this topic.
The way purple is weirdly touchy with red specifically from what we seen shows that they have some sort of connection but obviously purple doesn’t have good intentions, the way purple seems to purposely get in between blue and red seems somewhat protective? And the way she try to push blue away and keep distance from red, it’s clear that purple has s/a blue but I’m starting to think red might’ve also been through something similar with purple or something like that, I also think purple wants to have control over red and blue but separately and individually, separating victims like that makes it easier for them to feel trapped and alone or helpless, I think purple is trying to do something like that
0:42 this part is like. one of the most interesting parts to me, because not only is what she said very revealing of her thinking process, but I interpreted it 2 ways. My first interpretation (which I’m pretty sure is what what she said actually means) is that she was like, “you’re a man. men are SUPPOSED to be into this spicy stuff all the time.” Which makes the most sense for blue’s situation. But my second one, which was just an afterthought and doesn’t make that much sense, was “Men are hot, and you’re a man, which justifies my actions.” The first interpretation is better lol. Also the part afterwards, “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best at.” Im obsessed with this, because it shows the whole “men are usually the ones assaulting women” or “all men want is s€x” thing. But blue doesn’t want that, and is uncomfortable with her doing it to him. I love these animations sm !! s/a awareness for ALL genders is sososo important
I've heard people say "it's payback when we do it because men do it to women all the time" so your interpretation could be correct. although more likely being "why are you acting like this is assault / men assault women all the time you're always into spicy stuff all the time / it's reclaiming power for women / you're a man so you should just shut up and like it" which is all bullshit claims. boys, if a girl touches you in a way you don't want her to or pesters you into doing something you don't want to do, you don't need to say yes. even if she says one of those things. it's not feminism for her to assault you, and it's not misogynistic for you to say no. what IS feminist is consensual expirences. if she tries to claim otherwise, know that you're in your right to call her out. you deserve to feel safe with partners too.
I'M HERE!!?!??!?! I'M GONNQ DO A LONG TEXT AGAIN SORRY GUYS I JUST REALLY LIKE DECIPHERING VIDEOS AND THE UNDERTONES.
Let's begin with the start!! ^__^
0:16 > Normal as to what happens before S/A, PINK has her eyes set on BLUE and is trying to get a quick read on him before continuing, trying to see if she can find any clues to him treating her any different than other coworkers to unravel her plan
- bow chika wowwow. I like the touch of adding words like "gullible" , "good boy", "good work", "good job", "good time", and "fun". No reason at all I just think those are good touches considering he likes praise (have it be verbal affirmation or physical like someone cry laughing at his hilarious jokes)
- I also like the fact that there's a pink triangle behind PINK, showing how she wants to make a different type of purple with BLUE. I don't know if that's exactly why it was shown (probably not!) but I'll believe it was for now!!!
0:19 > PINK purposefully tripping and being subtle with her sexual advances and getting irritated at BLUE being respectful and not looking was a nice touch as well!!! She even calls him boring since he didn't react the way she thought he would. (
This little part at 0:33 !! I really like the little subtle touch of the picture with the HUSBAND being a WOLF, Idrk how to describe this but the wolf (in my personal opinion) might mean Pink was married to an older guy too and was normalized to it (or, groomed?) !! She might be dumping or coping her s*ual intentions with Blue instead from her past trauma, does not excuse it but i think thats just my theory! :)
Edit: I don't just think its an older guy, or just a person that has traumatized Pink with most possibly with other cases like ab*se and etc. It could be anything but I just got inspired by the "Little red riding hood" theory people gave :) The wolf can possibly just mean danger too!
I totally read everything, and not just the timestamp parts😭😭😭
@@ChinoriDesu >> 100% i agree with you!! I definitely believe PINK was doing all of this as a means to cope with her own trauma since she was hurt by a man and finally can hurt a man younger than her. It's horrid and unfortunately how some people work!
@@D3X101 >> Even if you just read the timestamps thats okay! Thank you for reading anyway :3
THANK YOU FOR THE HEART BUT WHAT ABOUT THAT OTHER PEROSN WHO WAS PINNED OHMYVOD JM SO SORRY FOR STEALING UR SPOTLIGHT BRO.
*Just a quick note, if you or someone you know is experiencing S/A, please get help. You are heard and loved and deserve help.*
Well, I used to S/A when I was 10, by my own father, but now we got it taken care of.
@@YukidiedfromtoomanysprinklesI hope you’re okay now 💕
@@YukidiedfromtoomanysprinklesI'm so sorry for you :( I know how it must have been fell, I have experience S/A with a people of my family how lived in the same house with me, and I know how scary and traumatic it can be...
@@Sanemideservesbetterthank you! ❤️
@@valemstar28i feel sorry for you too, I hope you are okay too.
Lavender, his sister, his goddamn sister walking out on him when he was clearly distressed and wanting her to help him out made my heart drop. As an older sister with a younger brother i could never even think of leaving his side in a situation like this. I can see why she's on top of the controversial list.
I understand that, even as an older brother.
I hate her so much...
As an older sister, i agree i could NEVER leave my lil bro in something like this
I'm also an older sibling, and that scene just gut punched me so hard with how Blue reacted to her leaving him
Like, could she be any worse?
He looked like he was so betrayed..
and very unrelated, but I'm 666th like
lol
No hold on!
I get this but now here are other things. What if lavender didnt catch on..i catch onto things pretty quickly but not all the time i feel like sadly if i was the sister i wouldnt have caught on but would try to get my bro out and see if he'll tell me why hes waving.. or whats going on,but in this case i feel like i would have noticed... especially if im looking RIGHT AT HIM.
its relieving to see an animation that DOESNT treat SA as a quirky joke and educates its audience on how SA can vary,,, thank you so much, as someone who is a survivor of grooming and SA,,,
to add on the "shut up and sleep with me" audio has been used in animation memes where the joke is sexual harassment and sexual assault,,, i am just so happy that your series exists, it makes me feel understood and heard,,, this could also help people who are in these situations realize that they are being abused bc, as im watching your videos, its made me realize that the way my abuser treated me in the earlier stages of our relationship were *signs*,, i never noticed bc i was just 13-14 while she was 18-20,,, i wish i had these videos when i was younger...
@@si-ko1414i hope you're feeling better now
@@si-ko1414 Wait this audio is about sexual assault? I used to hear it all the time when I was way younger. holy
@@im3ic im not sure cuz i havent listened to the original song itself outside of just short animations but a majority of the animation memes that spawned from it were
@@Tape.eaterr thank youuu 🥺🙇
i really appreciate you clarifying that the way your body reacts to being sa doesn't mean you enjoyed it bc I feel like a ton of people INCLUDING victims don't understand that and many victims end up putting aside their discomfort thinking that they enjoyed it cause it seemed like their body enjoyed it when in reality its not the case. Great video and an amazing representation on how people can be sa regardless of who they are
I seriously didn’t know that either so it was nice for him to research the facts
Yeah, as someone who was abused and groomed and my body reacting this way, it really makes me feel better about how it ended up.
Pain and pleasure can often get mixed up.
The main issue with this stupid argument that "hey you enjoyed it" is because it's LITERALLY A BIOLOGICAL THING. It's like saying that because something tastes good you should eat it all of the time. S*x is meant to be enjoyable, due to sex drive and it makes it easier to reproduce as a species. That does not mean that is was comfortable for the victim, nor does it mean they were allowing it to happen.
I really like this part 0:43 because it brings an stereotype that not so many people touch, some girls believe that boys are inheritly horny and that they are always willing to hook up, stereotype that is often used to dehumanize male SA victims claiming that there is no way they can get abused because men are always expected to be interested in sex, this stands out much more in cases of flirty men who (as in the case of women) are thought to be willing to consent even without asking them
This belief really don't help anyone !!
Yesss!, I noticed how she was questioning his masculinity since he didn't agree with her nor wanted to have sex.
It's pretty sad to hear ppl saying men can't get SA'ed by women.
Yaaaa
@@mismeow11 I have even heard some people asking boys who were abused if their trouble is because they are gays and that's why they didn't liked the "relationship"
I rlly wanna agree but my friends also act that way. I was s/a and when I tell my friends most of them said "you're so lucky bro"
c'mon man you're more than just a pleasure addict, please, have some senses
I honesty didn't expect it was a PSA video.
I like how blue represents vulnerability and fear and pink was representing lust and desire. I just hated how people treat male SA if they "wanted it"
I'm pretty sure, the "you wanted it part" happens to both genders, but more people would believe female if they got S/A'd, cuz they think men basically can't get S/A'd.
idk if the colors are chosen that way in particular. I do know however that the colors do have a bit of meaning? that being that apparently the more purple the character has, the worse they are. (like how purple is seen as the worst abuser out of the entirety of them.)
which might honestly just be because pattern + blue and lavender are siblings so obviously, gotta make the colors similar. actually that's why I thought for a bit that lilac was the mom of lavender and blue
@@chocomelo454yeah purple means they were destined to be bad
pink/red means they had a chance to be good
The sad thing it's that Blue always tried to confront the girls when he felt umcorfortable. He rejected Red, snapped at Lavender, confronted Purple and Pink in this video, but they always have more control over him and never listened, and at some point he got too tired to have a voice to defend himself. You can see how devastated Blue looks when Lavender deny helping him.
This also proved he never consented any of this, but the attacker keeps on gaslighting him into thinking he actually wants this. in wutiwant, he just let purple do him without any struggles bc he's at the point where he's thinking he actually wants this poor blue :(
holy crap. As someone who was groomed online and abused online, this hits hard, Vic. This is exactly how my abuser acted. This genuinely is a great representation of s/a. Thank you for making this. I feel heard, and I hope others feel heard too.
How do u get groomed online I don’t understand can someone pls explain
@@Lucky43221So, an online groomer could say things like: don’t tell anyone about our conversations. Or they could try and keep you away from other friends and family, and even if they know your age, they won’t break off the friendship-of what they want to be a relationship possibly. They could manipulate you, and say weird things.
If this has happened to you, you’ve probably been groomed.
@@Lucky43221oh wdym lol? You can be manipulated and sexually abused online in the sense that this abuser will and can still pull you into this feeling of trust.
The degree is much different and can take different forms, this can be them soliciting nudes from you. Encouraging you to do acts for them or just to yourself.
Sharing and exposing said minor of individual to pornagraphic images and exposing them to not so good circles.
Or, encouraging them to create material for you (art or photo)
It varies, but even than grooming can happen anywhere because it isn’t like, just irl. There are steps to grooming if you research this
@@Lucky43221they can say weird/ inappropriate stuff to the victim etc etc
Hey I’m sorry this happened to you. It wasn’t your fault and you didn’t know it would happen. I hope you recover and stay strong! 🫶
A detail that I really enjoy is that Pink’s lipstick is black here and in On The Floor, when in Kiss Me, it was white.
Keep in mind:
Black: Non-consensual touch
White: Consensual touch
In LOVEFOOL, her lipstick was gray, implying that her relationship with Blue was becoming toxic on her end.
Another thing that may be important is that Pink has a white ring, which is maybe connected to the wedding photo.
This could mean that her marriage with that man was non-toxic on her part.
EDIT: I was wrong about that last part, forgive me
I think pink found the relationship with her man boring
No. He husband was an abuser. Therefore, she became one. That's why her husbands head is a wolf in the picture :[ @sk8ingnight
Not Pink playing the ‘Are you really a man if you don’t want/agree to this?’ Card😭
That card is an absolutely foul one to pull.
You're still a man if you don't want to do it. Abusers are just scum :(
I feel like she is also blaming/pressuring him for pursuing her, a married woman, like "you started this, now finish the job."
@@OlTimeyChara same
She’s a horrible person what can we say
That's was my same reaction that part 0:43 😭
just wanna say how great you are for spreading awareness on this topic and how it can happen to anyone regardless of gender
we really need to break away from the “men are supposed to like this” stereotype
The stereotype is so disgusting, I hate it
Hii pastel !! ❤ Yeah you're right
Vic actually isn't leaning into the stereotype- in this video it's showing that *pink* is the one leaning into the stereotype and using it against blue. Blue seeing his body react isn't sure about himself anymore and therefore let's it happen, he doesn't like it at all
right !
@@sheepyspectorthat is what the commenter is saying
hey, as an SA and r@pe victim, ty for making this. it brings more awareness to the fact we didn't want it just because our bodies natural responses to the situations we're in,,
Oh, im so sorry, i almost got raped once too
I’m so sorry that happend to you you deserve way better than that:(.
Why didn't you just. Fight back
@@Not_Twiis this a serious question
@@Not_Twi when you're put in that kind of situation let's see if you'd still think the same, everyone's experience is different
I love the detail that when Lavender walks away, blue’s mouth disappears, hinting that he doesn’t have a voice anymore.
Good eyes tho
@@loserraa ?
@@Disassociated24 I'm saying that u had good eyes bc I didn't notice that detail
@@loserraa ahhh ty!
@@Disassociated24 mhm np :3
my heart goes out to anyone who has gone through this. absolutely nobody deserves to be treated like a toy.
off topic, but ur pfp is a vibe
Fr. 😢
:')
I hate the fact that people will say "if they c@me, they enjoyed it" like if you laughed while being tickled does that mean you enjoyed it?
fr!
Exactly.
I've never read something else that says it better than this honestly. It's your body's reaction not yours.
@@multitrashfandomsYes exactly.
Why is came censored? Just curious.
damn... as an s/a victim I just feel his pain. When you ask someone for help especially a family member but they brush it off :(
Fr. Especially when it's done by someone you're both close to/know:(
I'm a bit confused, why don't they do anything? I mean, if they're a close family member, and u gave them a signal you ARE in danger, and they took it, why don't they do anything? It's not hate or nothing, I just don't understand
@@Max--782 For me personally the family member I told (my mom) was uncomfortable with the topic and would just rather pretend it never happened than to believe me. It's hard to think about someone you know being hurt like that. I can't really understand why anyone would brush it off either so I don't really have a good explanation besides that excuse
@@Max--782sometimes they just believe it, sometimes they don’t think it’s too bad, or for other reasons. But I get why your confused
@@Asua1 Yeah..that's what happened with me..and the abuser got away with it..
i love that lavender's eyes are closed. in the "look, don't touch" video, the way her eyes were depicted gave me the impression that she hides her actions much better (aka since she doesn't touch him, she isn't viewed as a sexual assaulter, even if that's her brother and he did not consent).
however, this video and the context of the story, bring out a different layer to lavender's actions. she completely dismisses her brother's plea for help. the pause she made while turning her head towards him before she left showed me that she understood what he was saying but chose not to help. either because she didn't take the situation seriously or because she genuinely doesn't care for her brother's safety (i wouldn't be surprised if that were the case), but in both scenarios, she's *choosing* not to stop the s/a from happening or continuing. she saw an s/a victim asking for help and "closed her eyes" at the situation.
Yeah, it's like she can clearly see what is going on but she chooses to act like she doesn't
I'm confused, is video "look, don't touch" alredy released or it will be in the future and you're judging by it's thumbnail? 'Cus I can't see it on the Vic's channel, but it can be not shown in my country or smth
@@ЧиакиНанами-в9м oh crap. yeah, no, the video has been out for a while. the reason it might not be able to be viewed in your country is probably because of copyright from the music, or some other reason.
@@TheGalacticCat Oh, ok, thanks for your answer. It's probably the copyright, I have already dealt with it before
she was nervously laughing while leaving. she's probably gonna listen on the other side of the door or if their are cameras watch
me and my groupmates are watching educational videos about physical and mental abuse, and our topic is about assault. i remembered you make awareness videos about this topic and proceeded to show it to them.
most of my fellow groupmates learned things, from the video and the comment section, but our leader was mad and they said something bad along the lines of 'men always get attention' and that 'women who are r*ped should get more attention because men who have been r*ped 'enjoyed' it'.
this stereotype makes me feel so ill.
both men and women who have experienced assault deserve compassion, support, and attention. assault is *never* acceptable, regardless of gender. pain, trauma, and suffering do not discriminate based on gender, and it's crucial to provide support to anyone who has been a victim of such a horrendous act.
statements suggesting that men "enjoy" or should receive less attention for being assaulted are not only insensitive but also inaccurate. everyone deserves empathy and support, regardless of their gender. it's essential to educate and promote understanding about the impact of assault on all individuals, regardless of gender.
no one wants, and asks to be assaulted.
I hope you corrected the leader because that's such a disgusting thing to say.
The line that makes my stomach sink is “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best in” it’s just very much a topic people don’t like to touch. You’re very good at portraying these topics, might take a break on watching them for myself because it can be triggering but that is all me and not you. Keep doing what you’re doing cause it’s amazing💕remember to take care of yourself physically and mentally while working on this Vic
@XOXOBL0SS0MXOXO 💕thank you so muchhhh, take care love💕
Yaaaaasssssss queen slayyyy💋👑
İ'm very happy to see you my queen and i really love your vids😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘
THANK GOD THEY MENTIONED IT!
The body will continue to react to whatever stimulus it may be, because in the end it is normal, it will continue to have sensitivity (basic biology) to certain things and therefore, a reaction.
But those physical reactions don't mean that they go the same way as the mind and emotions of the person who undergoes it.
It impresses me that the majority of viewers are so ignorant about the difference between what one thinks, what one feels, and what the body says.
I really didn't know the body could act different to what u fell and think, these videos are very helpful bc they teach and make sa victims fell like they aren't alone...
@@Max--782
Something that people should be clear about is that people have a nervous system that extends throughout the body, and therefore, the stimuli and reactions to them will occur no matter what.
And in fact, an interesting fact.
The thing is that the feeling of fear and "desire" have a common origin, which causes reactions like the ones Blue had, and can be very counterproductive for any victim.
You can investigate on your own, the topic is somewhat complex but it is worth understanding a little how it work! 👏🏻
Currently I am still researching the topic, the association of the body and the mind is quite a mess.💧
@@katherine.ealvarado.p562 It is very sad, victims can get confused and think they enjoyed it when they really didn't :(
Exactly
@@katherine.ealvarado.p562you (and Victaton) explained everything perfectly. I’m a victim, and I can’t stop watching this animation over and over again and reading the comments. Everything about it, the visuals, the hidden meanings, everything. Its perfect. Your (the commenter) explanation of everything really helps people who haven’t gone through it understand what it was like. Thank you.
The fact that he still trusted lavender after what she did and tried to get help only to be ignored and dismissed is heartbreaking
dude my heart dropped when the sister saw Blue hinting for help and she just left, it looked like the life was just drained out of his eyes :(
Edit: I'm talking about the girl who has her eyes closed for the majority of the time. I'm not sure what color she is since the Lilac, Lavender, and Purple colors confuse me lol
Blue thought he was going to be saved but got ignored. It’s sick.
lavender is not his sister but manager
@@sonjk_jellywrong!!
@@sonjk_jellyshe’s hinted at from the “Don’t touch it” video where you see a photo of Lavender and Blue together as kids. So she’s technically both his sister and manager
@@sonjk_jelly no, i meant the girl with who has her eyes closed the entire time who left when Blue gestured her over
At 1:08, the background music switches up and the background is white, showing how he had hope of his sister getting him out of this situation, but when she just walked away the bright colors started coming back, and you see a blank stare on his face. I like these details added. You can feel his emotions, even if you can't properly see them.
I forgot out pointing out one more thing. When he try to get control over the situation(in other videos too) the lighting turns blue.
His mouth is also gone
He’s also the same color as the on the floor video
pinks background turns blue when blue confronts her, but then switches back to pink when she gets more control.
What I HATE so much when it comes to s/a for men would be other guys saying shit like "oh if I was him I would be so happy" or "if I was him I would just take it" Y'ALL ARE NOT MAKING THE SITUATION BETTER S/A IS S/A DOESN'T MATTER IF THE ABUSER WAS ATTRACTIVE OR NOT
Same here I hate people with that mentality.
I'm from RU Segment and we literally have the same problem "you're lucky!" or “I wish it were me instead of you!” this is so disgusting to read when there are children there

Hey, sorry if this is weird but I really appreciate these.
I’m a trans dude who’s been sexually assaulted, and it causes me to struggle with my identity often. Seeing you portray a male character who’s gone through the same thing helps me feel a bit stronger, and helps me know that I’m not alone. Thank you. :)
Np bro, unfortunetly there isn't much media covering man s/a :']
Dang Im sorry :(
@@VicTheExplorerit is very sad bc that makes some younger men easier to manipulate:(
I was about to comment the same thing, I'm also a trans man who went through the same thing, and this series of videos about S/A Victaton is making actually make me really happy. Some people say it's innapropriate but I think things like that should be more represented, to spread awareness
trans dudes stick together 👊 👊
I have a theory about Purple's relationship with both Red and Blue. Purple may have a weird crush on/obsession with Red and is harassing her through social manipulation. In both the Lovefool meme and this one, she seems to be trying to drive them apart from each other. This is shown with her whispering something into Red's ear while Pink yanks Blue closer to herself in Lovefool and how she immesiately butts into Red and Blue's conversation by pressing her face up against Red's while glaring at Blue, scaring him off, in this one. When Red tries to look past her at Blue, Purple forcfully pulls her in closer, lifting her bangs off of one eye and continuing to stare at Blue as he leaves. Another meme that this shares a detail with is the Look Don't Touch meme, where in both memes, she rubs Red's head - an affectionate gesture - without the latter's consent and clearly making her uncomfortable. I'll even go the extra mile and say that Red's treatment from Purple may be influencing Red's later treatment of Blue, since both women are engaging in possessive behaviors toward those they are obsessed with, which Red may be led to believe was normal. Purple's relation to Blue probably doesn't need much explaining, since she is one of his confirmed assailants and preys on him in WUTIWANT; she seems to be manipulating them both to stay away from each other to exert power over both of them.
Also, red + blue = purple, so maybe this ties in to how both Red and Blue are at the mercy of Purple? I know that Vic said that more purple in the design, the worse the character is, but there might be a correlation involving the color schemes of these specific characters.
In short: Purple is SAing not just Blue but also Red, and this abuse is warping Red's views on her own treatment of Blue and causing her to think it's okay. This series is focusing on male SA, but I think Red might just so happen to be another victim alongside Blue. I may not be an SA victim myself, but I really appreciate this series. It has loads of details, information, and care put into each upload. Also, Blue's expressions at the very end are just heartbreaking; the fact that not the assault itself but the sheer betrayal from Lavender ignoring his pleas for help is what finally breaks him just feels like a punch to the gut.
I agree on this theory because when I first saw red she didn't really have any intentions of hurting blue, she just really loved blue a lot to the point it became a bit too much and usually people like this might also be victims since it's normalized in their perspective
wait ur kinda right
The fact that Vic pinned this means this may be correct
This actually a pretty good theory and I can’t wait to see if it’s true it most likely is
Stop making sense 😭
" I can fix her" stop the cap 💀💀
0:51 The text turning from pink to blue :(
This poor man. Going from, "No, I don't want this" to "Do I want this?" to *"Shut up. **_You want this."_* is heartbreaking. All because his body reacted in a way he didn't expect.
:(
Good catch! I thought she was telling him to get down on his hands and knees to please HER, with the implication that's all he is good for... hearing your explanation, though, makes much more sense.
THAT IS SO SAD- 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧
I thought it meant blue used to be an abuser and now became a victim like pink
@@cherrianimateslolhe's not
I’m honestly so glad you’re making awareness videos of S/A. People tend to brush over the topic more than expected.
I’m also glad you explained the physical similarities between fear and ar0usal, as they can be easily mistaken to those who aren’t familiar.
I hope that anyone who is in a situation simular to this gets the courage to fight back and escape.
Keep up the great work, Vic.
I’m so happy that you actually spread awareness of it and educated about it. To anyone who has gone thru s/a, you are heard and you can always get help. (Sorry my English is not that good, hope the person reading this still understand what I mean.)
Im very happy about people spreading more awarness about s/a aswell.
(Your English is good btw)
1:15
This is such a crucial part of blues story. He has lost nearly everyone he thought he could reside in. Getting sexually assaulted is so hard, but a call for help being ignored by someone, especially your family, is so soul crushing. Being denied your right to consent, denied comfort in your relationship, and even denied a person to reside in. This is the part where blue looses it all, this is where a knife breaks his skin and leaves a scar, this is where he feels like an enemy to himself and everyone around him cant be fully trusted. This is blues story.
i love how you can even see the change too; from white pupils with bright blue eyes and a nervous grin that so perfectly encapsulates the want for help and clear discomfort, to his eyes quickly being nothing but a pitch black void with no mouth that shows what you talked about
Mhmm!! And I've noticed how one of his pupils always seems to go red indicating (I think) that he's about to stand up for himself but something/someone always seems to stop him, in this case, it being how his body reacted to the stimuli
@@genie0561you can literally feel what he feels in his eyes. it sends a chill down my spine
@@scottscerealbowl tbh the first time I watched it; I was honestly suprised that even happened, but also it is such a raw moment
I've never felt so disgusted, especially at 1:07 when Lavender acknowledged Blue's discomfort and just played it off as nothing bad. It hurts so much to see this because it's clear that Blue trusted her enough to get him out of this situation, but she chose not to interfere. + That all hurts a lot more once you see the expression on his face and the immediate disappearance of his mouth. This is making me realize
Each time he spoke out against his abusers, he was repeatedly shut down and ignored, and that final moment when he at least TRIED to get someone to listen, he was immediately ignored. He lost that voice completely and that's probably the saddest part about this.
And considering the fact lavender is related to him makes this even more messed up
@@Applz_ yeah
I think it’s supposed to represent the “he must’ve liked it” stereotype when it comes to males experiencing sexual assault. Lavender saw this as a “spicy situation between blue and pink” and not as blue’s call for help, thinking he was just nervous to be locked up in a room with a female, and that’s why she left with “tease” laughing and probably something like “don’t want to bother you guys” (aka she thought it wasn’t a sexual assault but rather just something between blue and pink due to the “men can’t be sexually assaulted” stereotype)
@@OmeletteOwl yeah that's what i was thinking, but i didn't know how to really put it into words
I feel like that stereotype might play a role later into the story but I can't be sureto be honest. So I guess we just have to wait
WAIT YOU'RE RIGHT ITS SO SAD 😭😭
1:17 is such a heart dropping moment, it’s the way Blue is signally his sister for help only for her to ignore it. That’s when he loses his voice and mouth, it happens a lot in S/A victims where they try to show signs to their family only for them to ignore them intentionally or unintentionally which are equally worse for the victim 😕
My thoughts:
-The action of his own sister ignoring his silent pleas for help just makes it more heartbreaking. You can see the dead in his eyes when she just leaves.
-The action of pink using the fucking excuse of “you’re a boy, you must like this” is fucking disgusting, this is not only inappropriate but also dehumanizing.
-Heck, even before that scene it is clear that he isn’t in a save environment, with dark purple already having her eye on him and red still obsessing over him.
Damn bro can't catch a break
It’s the fact that his OWN SISTER turn a blind eye to his situation when he was obviously crying for help, then his mouth disappeared (and probably won’t be seen again from this point) showing how he has lost the ability to communicate outwardly for any help because he sees that even someone who is his family doesn’t do anything knowing about it, probably making him feel trapped and believe no one can help him at all
Also I noticed that purple is oddly touchy with red specifically, it’s clear that they have some sort of connection, maybe purple sees red as some sort of entertainment? But it also seems like purple is somewhat protective of red?(idk) like the way she got in between red and blue and seems to try to push blue away when he tries to approach, some sort of imbalance in power might also has a play in this but I’m unsure
Vic said we'll see it again at least once.
@TheZombehNextDoor oh I need purple GONE
It's oddly uncomfy how much my brain looked over the lyrics of the song, despite how explicitly it's talking about sex,,
I honestly thought this series would be more "I understand this, but I'm seeing a portrayal/example? of it" but it's instead been more like "I didn't think about that, there are so many red flags besides just being creepy and forceful" especially at the end with the information about stimulus regardless of context, I knew it but I didn't consider it in my mind
This whole series has been very effective in making me aware of the different ways people can go about being manipulative beyond the act itself (as I watch a lot of truecrime and hear the testimonies but not the lead-up to it)
I feel awkward coming up with words to compliment this, but you've really done a fantastic job at getting info across in a short amount of time!
him basically calling out to his sister only for her to wave him off like usual hurt me. she obviously knew something was off too. :/
She looked past pink straight at blue, she saw the warning, and she just left him
IT MAKES ME MAD TO SEE SOMEONE EVER DO THIS TO THEIR SIBLING 😭😭 it hurts my heart (as an older sister to my lil bro)
It proves that people with corrupted minds like that mostly wont be able to think correctly. Just like those documentaries i watch
I never thought about how this song sounded so... _like this_ before.
I absolutely love how you are handling such a topic with importance and put effort both into the videos and information. Very interesting to me personally. I'm not good with words and explaining but I'd like to say that I love your work, overall. Thank you :)💙
Yes I used the song for the lyric, hoping people will understand that :'D
I completely agree. As someone who grew up with animation memes, this audio is typically portrayed in a charming, silly, light hearted manner.
When really, the lyrics are quite persistent for something so intimate. It’s really interesting to see popular/misunderstood audios being used to portray this very much needed story.
I love the amount of attention to little details shown in this. For example, the fact that her lips change from white to black:
At first I thought that the dark gray color used for pinks wasn’t anything important and was simply used for the aesthetics of her design (not in any way glorifying her character or her actions in the video whatever, just couldn’t find a better word for it, so apologies if I offended anyone with that), but after realizing that in some scenes, as well as other videos, her lips are a pure black compared to the dark gray used in from time to time, so here’s what I think it could possibly mean unless I’m reading into it too much (although I don’t think so due to the fact that everything seems to have some sort of meaning):
From the beginning where we first see pink overall (0:17 - 0:19) she has the dark grey lips. We can see pink making observations on blue, things that when looked and listened to hard enough sound pretty uncomfortable. Though at this point I believe blue doesn’t understand the intention of her words and takes the praise with that sense of uncomfortability, unsure if he’s reading into it too much. Maybe the dark gray is coming from a place of confusion and not understanding the ill and toxic intent of pinks words? After all, all the characters are portrayed in the way they are seen by blue, which is why things like lips, or touches and characteristics in general, change from white (consentual) to black (unconsentual). Maybe the gray is the confusion of the in between, as if blue knows something is wrong, but doubts himself as he doesn’t actually understand or know if he should truly feel put off and disgusted by the behavior.
We see pink again (0:20 - 0:22) with the white lipstick. She had purposely fallen to get his attention that she craves once again, though blue doesn’t realize that she had ill intentions in this moment, causing her lips to in fact be white. She even goes as far as to call him boring for not picking up on her intentions and not reacting how she wanted him too.
We see pink again with the gray lips at 0:28 up until 0:49. From what I see she’s trying to force him into doing what she wants with him, even though he doesn’t want to, most likely because of how forcefully she’s trying to do so, as well as the fact that she’s married. He’s made uncomfortable, yet he still doesn’t want to fully loose hope and give into the thought that this is the person she’s becoming. He could also be thinking that it’s partially his fault in the first place, after all he did like her first. (Reminder that just because you like someone first, it can still be considered SA if they try to pull anything on you without your consent. You are 100% in the right to feeling uncomfortable no matter your situation, no matter your gender, no matter your age, no matter your relationship with said person, no matter ANY of the circumstances. Victaton portrays this perfectly. Dont be afraid to ask for help. You are worth it.)
From 0:49 - 0:50 for literally one second we see pink with pure black lips, telling blue to do “what he is best in”, likely being something sexual. The lead up to this is her confused as to why he doesn’t want to. Pink is beautiful, and frankly everything blue liked in a woman. Plus, he wanted her first in the beginning, so why doesn’t he want her now? Blue is insulted and disgusted immediately, hence why her lips turn that pure true black as he’s realized that he’s not wrong for that split second of doubt he was having.
We see her lips gray again for the rest of the video up until 1:17 to the end where they are black. She’s trying to convince blue that he should listen to her, that she’s right, and that because he’s “young and free” he should sleep with her because he’s “allowed to make that decision” even though pink is clearly not leaving any room for blue to make a decision about it in the first place. He could be thinking that maybe she’s actually right, since she’s giving me a choice, she’s not forcing me into anything. Then the sister comes in on the situation. Blue, still feeling uncomfortable, takes this as a moment of a call for help. The sister immediately draws a blind eye too it, though she clearly saw his call for help, and leaves the two of them. Them pinks lips turn that pure black again when blue realizes that he truly doesn’t have a choice in the matter whatsoever and there’s simply nothing he can’t do about it.
I feel like it makes sense to me that way, as being a person who’s been SA’d before I’ve had my doubts about it, whether to actually call it SA because I believed I had done something wrong to provoke it even when I didn’t. It’s okay to have doubts, but remember, it’s never your fault. No matter what you’re told by anyone.
wow you had a lot of free time
after reading this i now feel like this series belongs in a writing class, specifically where symbolism can be taught. Because you can basically apply this logic to any point in this series, even in the beginning!
I absolutely love this theory and how you explained it. And just something I noticed in the video to add to your theory, I noticed how at 0:17 it showed her nail to be white. While after that timestamp, the rest of the video shows her nails to be black. Maybe it could be the same with her lipstick. Her nails are white when Blue thinks she isn’t doing anything malicious, but black when he knows her intentions.
Edit: Or maybe it could be based on physical touch, since I just remembered her lipstick was dark gray at 0:17.
Passou de duas linhas n leio
All of the characters have some part of then that’s black or dark gray except red (I think). Purple has the dark gray/black teeth, lavender has pure black? Eyes, and as you stated pink has the lipstick. The only one that doesn’t have black is red who has a white bow since I think she is also a victim of purple from the looks of it. The light pink character is fine because she isn’t one of the abusers and (hopefully) will help blue.
I’m sorry that people find this topic so controversial and are actually getting mad about these videos, but these are the types of videos that let victims know they matter and that their situations should not be pushed under the rug. These situations are real and I’m glad Vic gave such insight in how the experiences can be so overwhelming, it leaves victims (which could be ANYONE) feeling confused about themselves and downplaying the experience. To s/a victims, I know it’s hard but I wish you all nothing but healing. They may have hurt you, but you are not your abuser and you are always still worth being loved/and heard.
I’m also glad Vic took the time to show how abusers are always thinking about themselves above all, hence why they take any chance they get in spite of no consent being given.
You’re truly doing great work, Vic.⭐
i really like how you’re spreading the word of s/a and how it can happen to any gender. i also really like your creativity within your videos!!!!
I couldn't help but cry when I saw this video, as a victim of SA it felt really good that it was represented as this usually happens, since this can help other persons to notice this flags, the person seems kind, treats you well and even tries to convince you that what is happening is okay , but when you don't want to, they get angry or call you "boring" for not wanting to, and then return to their mask of "oh but I'm a very good person"
What hurt me the most was when appears the sister of blue's, that even when he was uncomfortable and clearly asking for help, she did nothing, she just left, and he looked so empty, even accepting his destiny that this was going to happen and he couldn't do nothing about it, really good video, you really just represented how this things happen and even the most nice and kind people can be an abuser
S/A is just one of the most disgusting things to ever do to someone and the victim will get scarred for life
Get the support u need and stay strong 👍
Something that i havent seen anyone talk anout is that on 0:39, where we can see her wedding pic, her husband is purple. Now, the creator has already said that violet/purple is used for people that are awful in a more noticeable way. Also on the wedding pic, she has eyes and looks very happy. The husband is also masked, which leads me to believe that she used to be a normal, nice person and believed that her husband was as well, but after being married for a while he dropped his act and became more abusive, maybe manipulating her into having intercourse when she didnt really want to, perhabs saying thats normal for a man to wish that and that they should do it cause they are married. This couldve lead her to think that all men are like her husband, and not realize that what she is doing is s/a (her not having eyes/not seeing why this was harmful). Anyway, im probably looking too much into it but its just a theory.
Oh wow he’s way purpler than the generally accepted “worst” gal, so yeah I think that he’s probably a terrible person
Also if you look carefully pink's color is more lighter
Yeah, pink in her wedding picture actually looks pink while her current is more like a fuchsia color @@Bananarama8930
Love how each of this series “episodes” have a million views . This series definitely deserves attention, especially since it teaches us about the “SA”.
I absolutely love how you included the “body” part in this video. I’ve never experienced s/a myself, nor have many knowledge about it. So seeing this really explains a lot to me, and makes me understand this topic more. I would absolutely hope that your series could teach people too, more about this topic, just as you’ve done with me.
Off topic but i love your yinyang pfp
This video spreads a lot of misformation so I'm just going to report it lmao
How is it spreading misinformation? @@divine555
@@Zimyio "people can get aroused when being attacked 🤓🤓" that not an attack or assault in that case lol
@@divine555 what r u saying?? It's a natural body response when in a situation like that. Some people can get aroused when being sexually assaulted even though they don't want to.
Dude as a victim this is amazing and it actually hurt my heart when the sister just left him even though he needed help
As somebody who has been a victim of s/a by 4 diff ppl this rlly makes me happy that ppl spread awareness abt this it rlly does! And s/a is not a thing to joke abt ppl its actually something that can mess up ppl’s lives like mine it ruined my childhood and be aware that anyone cld be a victim of s/a regardless who it is or what gender they are which is why being nice to ppl is the best thing to do bc u may never know what one is going through! Thx Vic for spreading awareness and I hope u and everyone else has an amazing new year!
man I like how you explain things that goes against stereotypes
you do a great job at showing how things can actually be
thank you for raising awareness on that kind of thing
purple being that close to red and most likely getting Blue to leave and fall into Pink’s trap is just. so disgusting, but I know that’s genuinely what happens sometimes
As an S/A victim at 9 yrs old i thought that since i had reacted to it in arousal i thought it meant i was being dramatic. Im really glad to have this piece of feedback. Especially since i cant talk to anyone about this considering my life would be destroyed if i did especially after waiting to tell someone for so long. thanks so much again.
what you mentioned at the end is something called arousal non cordonance and it gives very important context for mental disorders alongside SA as well. im so glad it got talked about!
As a transmasc person who has been s/a'd and sexually harassed at a young age, this series brings me comfort, knowing other people can relate and understand how i feel makes me feel like im valid for talking about my experiences and stuff i guess ^_^ im glad you also clarified the body reactions part, due to people not ever understanding it, and abusers taking it to their own advantages. if you have been sa'd or sexually harassed, please seek help and therapy, you are not alone
I actually support this series, it goes into detail of how S/A can affect the body and mind, and its good for victims who are still struggling to understand it wasnt their fault.
Damn, you can tell how much research vic put in through the little thing at the end.
I really like how fast paced this one is, good work as usual!
I also like how you wrote Lavender seeing what was happening, but still neglecting to do anything to stop it
her name is lavender
@@jonathanpierrelouis1267 ah, thx
I have never felt more uncomfortable than this video, the sheer aggression in pink and blue's look is just mortifying and i think it shows one of the most common and horrifying parts of SA, the true fear that is felt.
Ok, I’m just going to say something, I think each’s characters face represents something about their type of abuse.
PINK - No eyes
Blue is very respectful of Pink, covering his eyes when she puts herself in suggestive position to not look like a “creep”
Pink, however, wants Blue to see her.
This is possibly because that despite the fact she thinks that just because Blue is a “selfish, body-wanting man” when in reality he’s not, she’s “blind” to these information, hence having no eyes
LAVENDER - Closed eyes
I’m “Look don’t Touch”, Purples eyes are closed for majority until Blue catches her looking and she quickly closes her eyes again, most likely excusing her behavior by “It was an accident, I barely saw anything”. She also declines Blues plead for help, which could mean she’s ignoring the fact and acknowledging that Blue is indeed being abused, making up excuses for it
RED - Heart eyes
In “LOVEFOOL”, Red is madly in love with Blue and her eyes are hearts, and she seems to be “blinded” by love because despite Blue telling her she’s not interested (but still suggesting they could be friends), she still tries to get with Blue, being extremely clingy
PURPLE - Hidden eyes + Sharp Teeth
Purples character is already pretty shady, but it’s even more unusual because we know she’s “hiding” something. When purple sees red around blue, she always walks up to red and tells her something, most likely saying “He actually loves you, he’s just shy” which could be why Red still tries to persue him. Purple keeps her predatory details hidden, presumably making up a facade of Trust and Betrayal
That’s all my idea for now
Also with other confirmations that red is 19, blue is 25 and purple is 40 it definitely adds to purples creep factor
@@Applz_I COME FROM THE FUTURE WITH BAD NEWS.
sweet little bumblebee has revealed that purple of all people has tried to get red to knock it off before. however it's shown that she uses the same arguments pink uses on blue, yk saying he's just a body hungry man, though it's shown that somehow Red takes that all as advice and tries to become pink 2.0 because she saw (through purples narration bc iirc red got hired AFTER blue and we know that blue and pink started going out shortly after blue was hired) that blue and pink were a thing for a bit.
I think there also was some response on pinks end? in lovefool pinks lipstick is gray and she tugs on blues tie when red passes by. so I'm pretty sure that pink got jealous over reds one-sided crush on blue and rather than talk to blue like an adult or god forbid end her affair as a whole and go to couples counseling with her husband she does ... this.
idk what purples goal is tbh. not with the recent updates. at first I assumed that she's probably grooming red too because red is *19* and let's be real she is extremely childish, or at least in how she dresses. even when she tries to be pink she still dresses less like a mature woman and more like a teenager. like my first thought seeing her pink-imitation outfit was cheerleader. which I think is likely intentional since purple tells red that she's too innocent for blue and that he'd only bring her down / defile her. hence why she becomes pink 2.0
yeah idfk what the hell is up with her
but anyway since in lovefool and in here it looks like purple tries to worsen reds behavior idk. maybe she encouraged it at first but then went "ok stop" when she saw that red is committed to this???
i hate the fact that blue’s sister isn’t taking any action and is allowing her brother to suffer with these women. she herself is an SAer which makes this even worse. i feel bad for blue i hope he gets the care he needs. :,(
i mean the other pink girl as far as we know din't do anything wrong to him yet so maybe and i'm just being hopeful at this point maybe she will be able to help hime/save him cause he derserve cause i feel like at this point he might just breakdown and do horrible thing to himself while not being in a good mindset hopefully just hopefully he will be saved
also i feel like the the last girl the one i'm talking about might just be the boss of the place but that's just my opinion
@@TheChillAndWeirdBeing if you are talking about lilac then yes. i hope she managed to save blue from this chaos. someone mentioned that her eye color may be an indicator that she was a domestic abuse survivor and a sexual abuse survivor. (the purple color from the purple ribbon which is a sign of domestic abuse and the blue eye color from the blue ribbon which means sexual abuse.)
@@sevenpenceLOLZ yeah i watch a video where that was explain and i think so too but yeah i'm talking about her
0:23 giggled when red’s eye glitched and paused for a second anyway i love how much effort you put in these videos
I love the way vic handles this is a appropriate way and tells things that more people need to understand. Thank you for all of this Vic! 💜
God, this is honestly so heartbreaking, I think this might be one of the first times I’ve actually felt physically sick from watching something, and that means you are doing an amazing job with showing this theme, I appreciate the fact you show a man’s story since we are always told this IS what we want even if we don’t, I think these videos are extremely important, even if they might be controversial, thank you for taking the time to touch this subject and educate your viewers 💛
I love how when lavender comes into the room her eyes are closed, hinting that SA is NOT obvious
0:24 Looks like Purple wants to manipulate Red, perhaps making Red fall for her since she fell for Blue so easy and making Blue have less people he can go to and trust (many abusers like to isolate their victims from support so their victims feel entraped). Blue sees this and is clearly uncomfortable with it, probably aware that Purple is up to something, and Blue speaks up about being weirded out by Purples behaviour. But his concern gets ignored and/or he’s told to shut up at 0:26
Thanks a lot for these videos Vic. I got assaulted by a girl near my age. You portrayed this PERFECTLY (And you put a girl version of blue in the end to show anyone can experience it)
지나가던 한국인 입니다. 이 시리즈를 다 본 결과 그저 대단하다는 생각 뿐입니다.. 하고싶은 말이 너무나 많지만 도저히 정리를 못하겠어요. 아직도 흥미롭고 무엇보다 몇분 몇초로 그 수많은 내용을 정리하고 해석을 넣었다는게 너무나 대단해요. 제작해 주셔서 감사합니다 !
블루가 무사히 나오길 기다릴게요
뭐야 한국인도 이거 보는사람이 잇네
@@Olivia_654 ㅋㄹㅋㄹㅋㄹㅋㄹ 짱이지예
0:19 The part where he is trying to be respectful and not look at her chest is so sweet, until the ending 😦
Also did anybody else noticed how Lilac needed to go to the hospital for a Red Guy?
@@bummblebwees8611im guessing it’s a relative or friend of theirs?
@@bummblebwees8611 where did you see that?
@@OlTimeyChara 0:23 you can see lilac going away and a wheelchair and also some red person (who’s colour is more dull so I’m guessing they are not doing so well)
@@OlTimeyCharayou can slow the vid down to catch the scene
The dull red person is probably an elder person who's not doing well since he is at a hospital
Something that I noticed through-out these videos is that all girls that had an act on Blue are blind, yet on different forms:
- Red is blinded because of her intense feelings for Blue, and doesn't know the impact of her actions.
- Pink (in my opinion) looks at this situation as a "fun time", yet she doesn't notice that her actions are harming Blue. Her actions ARE wrong, however she doesn't think so or she hasn't noticed the impact in her moves.
- Lavender is FAKING, she tries to appear innocent, but she does know thay what she's doing is somehow wrong, yet she likes it and tries to make you think is not bad at all.
- Purple is the most known predator; they look unsettling. Also, they have their eyes covered, but can still see the scenery, they just wanna take power over other people and sexually assault them, and they ARE FULLY aware of it.
P.S: Also, Victaton, I've seen more of your videos, and I just wanna say that I love your stuff and I'm glad you're getting the recognition you desserve!!
deserves more likes!!
Is it bad that i love this song
No offense but I’ve seen some people saying things like “omg how could his sister leave him behind like that?” This is the same sister that was ogling him in the changing room..right? Why would we expect her to actually fundamentally care for him?? Just my opinion.
EXACTLY
I'm sorry, could you tell me what the video is where the sister was looking at him
@@Треш-м8в in other videos
@@Треш-м8в"Look don't touch this" video. Uploaded a little before this one
Noticing the changes in pinks lipstick and blue's eye color change is very interesting.
Pinks lipstick is white when she's actually respecting him and his body, but black or gray when she's starting to actually SA'ing him.
Blues eyes go spiraly when hes starting to fear her, and redish when he's actively trying to push her away. His eyes go black at the end when his sister(?) Doesn't help him And they go white when he truley realizes no ones coming to help him. His eyes seem cyan when he's hopeful.
Another notice is purple(?) brushing blue off when he's with red. I think this could be two things:
1. She's trying to protect red from getting her heart broken
2. She's trying to make blue more vulnerable so she can get to him herself.
But i really have to ask, why didn't his sister(?) Help him? I feel she would at least get jealous of pink or see this as an opportunity to hold it against him for a favor, but it could be so that blue is more vulnerable.
Also the light pink one (I don't know her name.) Seems to be the only one to actually respect him, and she isn't seen in the title with the others. Maybe she'll be the one to save him, but that's me being hopeful. In most cases, the one being SA'd has to pull themselves out of there because no one believes them.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk or whatever
I see pink as a boss so thats why I think purple turned a blind eye
i think red is also being abused by purple like how blue is tbh
also i think lavender didn't help because she either didn't see an issue with what was happening, or more likely she just didn't care, since she's also an SAer
Nobody notices the intro, and it’s slightly confusing why people don’t talk a about the detail in it! They first start with showing us the stereotypical abuser, (a sharp teethed clearly villainous character), than show us all the others after it. Also, the colors in the words abuser and victim switch twice from abuser being blue (another stereotype, that men are more commonly the abuser whilst their are equal chances a female is an abuser as any male) and victim being pink (going off of the other stereotype that women get abused more) to abuser being pink and victim being blue. I pay attention to small details, and this is LOVELY to see. You showed so much in only a few seconds, and you deserve to get so much more recognition!
Do you guys notice purples tie? When she was in WUTIWANT her tie was blue which matches blue and how she was talking advantage of him. Now when she is standing by red you can see that it’s a light red color, probably hinting on how she’s taking advantage of red now and manipulating her..🤦🏽♀️
1:30 YES!! YES YES YES THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!! It took me 2 years to realize I was actually s/a’ed bc I felt this and I was only 13, I had no experience with anyone. I haven’t even even kissed at the time, and I thought that it was my fault. That I was the gross one in the situation. That I can’t tell anyone because “I wanted it”. The way I broke out of that mindset was literally at the start of this school year, when the guy who s/a’ed me got moved to my class and I ended up finally telling my teacher and she was horrified. More ppl need to know this bc feeling lust is not consent. You cannot control your body, Or your reactions to things around you. Especially if you are as young as I was
This series is actually really informative. Despite the fact it may be controversial, kids find out this stuff on the internet regardless. Having something like this can be very helpful
The fact that some people say that women SA is worse then men SA but it's the same level 😢
Or*
I really love all the details you put, specially things like pink's color of lipstick to show if it was consentual or not, or the color of blue (cyan, dark blue) to express his feelings. I am not a victim of S/A but a lot of them really appreciate what you do to spread awareness. ^^
I highly respect the effort that you put into spreading awareness about such a topic, im really grateful , i feel relieved that there is someone like you researching the facts and informing us who may not know, thank you :D
I'm honestly super glad you're bringing awareness to this. I'm a S/A victim and when it was happening this is kinda how I thought "oh I feel pleasure so I want this" I didn't want it obviously I was pretty young when it happened and I feel bad whenever people get told they were "asking" for it because of the way their body reacted like how you mentioned arousal is a common feeling but it doesn't necessarily mean you wanted it. I especially feel bad for males S/A victims because they usually get told it probably didn't happen or it couldn't have happened because they're a boy. So I also like that you added it can happen to anyone because it sure as hell can and unfortunately I know a couple people super close to me that has been unfortunately S/A.
Interesting seeing this song that was mainly used as a joke in the past being used in a more serious/dark tone. Hopefully Blue’s story has a somewhat happy ending. (I say somewhat cause even if his problems get fixed in some way, it’s still going to leave everlasting trauma)
Huge props to Victaton for making this video, spreading awareness is always the right thing to do and especially if it's the truth. No one in the world should experience this type pain, suffering and problem in their lives.. Blue needs help, by a lot. I hope everyone will take this seriously especially in this stereotype.
this video actually realy hurt but at the same time im so so glad you made this. as a victim i didnt know some of the info at the end of the video, and it helps me feel better and less confused about my experience. this video is a perfect example of what happens sometimes.
I like how you expressed that in situations like this its common to feel excited and it doesn't mean your liking this, it's a body response and you can't controll it.
And how it makes you feel so disgusting
hey, as a girl who was s/a'd by another girl, i really enjoy and appreciate this series. it doesn't glorify s/a in any way, shape, or form, and it brings attention to other types of s/a that not many people know about, which is extremely comforting and validating for me and many others.
thank you
Thank you for the excerpt at the end, it is completely true. Fear and Pleasure both elicit the same response in the brain. They both cause the release of adrenaline.
I really, really appreciate how you’re speaking out about this, because it’s something that not a lot of people know, even though it’s so important.
*Lavender not helping him made me lose it, I swear...* These animations are always so dark and (sadly) so real, and I absolutely like how each situation is portrayed in each of them. Personally, I'm a big fan of the series and how it spreads awareness by showing how these things can happen to literally anyone. All I have to say is, Victaton is a real one for creating such videos
men being sexually assaulted isn't taken seriously by a lot of people, unfortunately.
idk how anyone could see someone obviously asking for help and run off. especially if that's your relative. then again idk how anyone could be into their own sibling.
all I know is that if my sister was in a situation like this and I saw her, I'd kick the shit out of the girl that's making her feel uncomfortable. even if it turns out that it was all a misunderstanding and that they were engaging in CNC and accidentally got me involved / I accidentally read it as being not consensual, is rather be safe than sorry. esp bc in the case where it's consensual and I just misread it I can apologize to the girl for being mean / aggressive to her and she'll know that I had good intentions. awkward sure but you can eventually laugh about it if it's just a misunderstanding. however if it actually is assault you can't just apologize to make it all better.
As an CSA victim, I personally love how you display the scenes of Blue's obvious panic in te situation. And how Pink acts throughout the whole thing. It makes me mad at all the characters personally, like how Violet (Or purple idk) just turns a blind eye to Blue's clear desperation for help. Really goes to show how horrible most the characters in this series really are, and it helps you resonate with Blue more and more by each passing video. Every video shows how this is going from 'light-hearted' to 'This person needs help' but theres really nothing we can do as veiwers. I honestly like that concept because, this is one, spreading awarness and two showing us an outside perspective of SA. How obvious it isn't and is at the same time.
I really wish i knew this when my S/A happened. As someone who now identifies as trans its nice to know that i wasn't excited and shouldn't feel disgusted for being horrified in the moment it happened. Thank you.
I'm a woman, but I always felt a great rejection because of that "You are a man, you are supposed to like (everything that has to do with sex)" when Pink shows us that even women can be as perverted or more perverted than men.
It has nothing to do with it but I know female classmates who spend their time criticizing boys for being "horny" and there isn't a day that I don't hear them talking about perverted topics (Sorry, I needed to vent about that)
Love your animations Vic. ❤️
0:45 UNRELATED BUT THE ANIMATION HERE IS SO GOOD I CAN’T STOP REWATCHING IT…
RIGHT ITS SO SILLY LMAO
This is actually very scary...
(Kinda unrelated but from an art perspective I love the dynamic facial expressions it really communicates the feelings well especially considering the lack of eyes)
I genuinely thought Red would be his first assaulter since you said sweet little bumble bee will be when it all goes to shit.
Honestly im never a fan of animation memes and such portraying s/a because its usually done in a disrespectful and unnecessary way but i love this, the abuser isnt portrayed in any good light and their actions arent romanticized plus the reactions the victim has are realistic too. Basically this feels more informative rather than being a story plot point (on its own) which is why i love it so much, this is a great way to ACTUALLY spread awareness while being slightly lighthearted. Great job :D
Keep making these videos. This is a message that REALLY need to be shared and talked about. Just because “she’s hot” doesn’t mean ut wasn’t SA. If someone does want that and it if forced onto them, that’s SA, no matter who the victim is, or the perpetrator is. Love the art and animation, it helps such a serous and dark topic easier to understand and learn from it. If you don’t want something, don’t blame yourself or let others blame you. You are a victim and no physical appearance or nature reaction will EVER change that.
I really like that you put info and work into this topic. It makes it mean something, and it spreads information that needs to be adressed with S/A. I personally appreciate this a lot.
Thank you for the series. I love seeing people bring awareness to SA and not joke abt it.
As someone who’s been Sa’ed( sorry if this counts as a vent) I love seeing people shine light on it.
I absolutely love how you explain how the body reacts to things like this no matter the context, doesn't mean the person wants it, bodys just react no matter what and I'm so glad you brought that point up
Is it just me who thinks purple is s/a ing red too? The relationship is just… weird and creepy….
yea i know right?
Probably
I think that Blue isn't the first victim who was harrassed by Purple. Oh boy...
Yea! I saw someone else mention in the WUTIWANT video purples tie is blue meaning purple did something to him and in this video it’s light red
@@rubiiruu345 I don't think it refers to SA tho since Red would not be so comfortable around Purple if she had SAd her, tho I feel the color does imply who she has more power over at the moment
In WUTIWANT for example, it was blue because she was clearly in a power position against Blue to the point where she didn't even needed to use force to make him do what she wants, while now its red because she seems to be having quite the influence on Red's way of seeing reality
I like how not only this series touches on the fact that men can be victims of S/A that it shows the types of methods and tactics that abusers use. Keep up the lovely work.
yo, this series is great and I feel like it puts SA in a simple enough and interesting light that younger audiences will be able to understand it and whether it may be happening to them. After watching a few videos I had realized something like this had happened with an ex of mine, it's really hard to process and you're doing god's work helping people understand this topic.
The way purple is weirdly touchy with red specifically from what we seen shows that they have some sort of connection but obviously purple doesn’t have good intentions, the way purple seems to purposely get in between blue and red seems somewhat protective? And the way she try to push blue away and keep distance from red, it’s clear that purple has s/a blue but I’m starting to think red might’ve also been through something similar with purple or something like that, I also think purple wants to have control over red and blue but separately and individually, separating victims like that makes it easier for them to feel trapped and alone or helpless, I think purple is trying to do something like that
0:42 this part is like. one of the most interesting parts to me, because not only is what she said very revealing of her thinking process, but I interpreted it 2 ways. My first interpretation (which I’m pretty sure is what what she said actually means) is that she was like, “you’re a man. men are SUPPOSED to be into this spicy stuff all the time.” Which makes the most sense for blue’s situation. But my second one, which was just an afterthought and doesn’t make that much sense, was “Men are hot, and you’re a man, which justifies my actions.” The first interpretation is better lol. Also the part afterwards, “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best at.” Im obsessed with this, because it shows the whole “men are usually the ones assaulting women” or “all men want is s€x” thing. But blue doesn’t want that, and is uncomfortable with her doing it to him. I love these animations sm !! s/a awareness for ALL genders is sososo important
great comment btw 👍
I've heard people say "it's payback when we do it because men do it to women all the time" so your interpretation could be correct. although more likely being "why are you acting like this is assault / men assault women all the time you're always into spicy stuff all the time / it's reclaiming power for women / you're a man so you should just shut up and like it" which is all bullshit claims.
boys, if a girl touches you in a way you don't want her to or pesters you into doing something you don't want to do, you don't need to say yes. even if she says one of those things. it's not feminism for her to assault you, and it's not misogynistic for you to say no. what IS feminist is consensual expirences. if she tries to claim otherwise, know that you're in your right to call her out. you deserve to feel safe with partners too.