You really captured the way to make people understand the uncomfortable situation that red puts blue in constantly when he's at his current lowest. You also really showed the way that people like red misinterpret things and come up with ideas of their own that somehow never put themselves in the wrong, and that shit really messes with victims bc it manipulates them into believing that they're at fault, not the abuser. The beginning of the video 0:15 it appears that purple is trying to figure out a way to make red understand that blue doesn't love red, and has a sexual relationship with pink yet red seems to interpret it as if she tries hard enough he'll eventually love her 0:20 . And to "try hard enough" she'll need to try and start a sexual relationship with him. (I might be wrong which I probably am 😭) Seeing this, purple understands that there's no point in trying to make red understand cause she won't be able to comprehend the fact that blue doesn't love her, which will I guess not work out for whatever plan purple has? 0:24 0:26 We then see that blue's response to any sight of red throughout the video is to freeze and tense up which is completely valid considering this is most likely very mentally exhausting as hes just been sexually harassed by pink. 0:30 It also seems as though he's trying to maybe view red in a positive light and not view her the same as pink bc all she's really done from this point is show constant affection towards blue 0:32 . Yet regardless of him trying to give her a chance, it begins to seem more apparent that red is really putting a toll on blue's mental health. 0:36 0:44 It seems purple is still in a way trying to figure out how to make red understand but it looks like(?) That red once again interprets this as she needs to be showing more physical affection..? 0:46 It honestly almost feels like she doesn't understand why blue doesn't love her as she's always drinking from a blue cup, always near him etc, while with pink it seems like from her view they barely interact. This is absolutely making red confused and really upset as she literally can't comprehend why blue wouldn't love her as she's always showering him in compliments as much as she is around him. 0:48 This is leaving red becoming more obsessive then she already was. Speaking to him more but more lovingly. Her nails throughout this video are really brought to attention than the others cause she's NOW doing even more harm but in her eyes she thinks she doing good bc she's just showing her love to him. 0:55 Her eyes then begin to blacken bc it looks like this is where her obsession with blue really begins to get bad. (Not like her obsession with him before was any better) At 0:56 it looks like red bit him...? I think this might be hinting at her psychical affection increasing towards him and leaving him kind of afraid as he maybe notices that red is just like pink? This is also maybe showing that her affection is becoming a burden on blue as she continues. At 1:01 we see that red's love really is a burden as its in a way bringing blue down. Her outfit also seems to have change, maybe to "fit" blue's taste. As we kind of know, red thinks that blue doesn't love her bc she's not like pink(?) Pink wears a black dress that shows her shoulders and comparing that to red's dress you can really see the similarities. 1:03 then shows that blue is really trying his best to separate himself from red, trying his best to not hurt her feelings. Despite this red drags him back, once again his fear prevents him from stopping her. 1:06 we see that red really is trying to be more flirtatious (just as pink was in earlier videos) it really seems as though she's just trying to fit herself in the image she made of "blue's type." 1:07 really puts that into the picture as she's just trying to get him to interact with her just as he did with pink, even clenching his hand bc in her eyes she thinks this is what he wants. 1:11 Really made me feel terrible for blue. People like red will never view themselves in the wrong. In her eyes she thinks she's doing the best, forcing herself upon him is what she thinks he's looking for. Without even realizing that she's practically putting words in his mouth. (Not literally) Continuing on she's still talking abt him but now in a more sexual manner(?) He's once again still afraid and im still not sure abt what the eyes mean as they surround him but maybe its his mind blaming him for not stopping her(?) 1:14 really shows his desperation as he goes to his sister as a last resort. The lyrics even saying "to make you see it too" in blue text, kind of shows that he wants to let his sister know abt the situation too. 1:19 the way blue looks at his sister literally kills me. It really just shows the absolute pain he's been through. Unfortunately even though blue tries his best to let it be known abt his struggles we come across a situation that happens to a lot of victims. His sister claims that red's an innocent person. "she'd never do that, she's such a sweet person" is honestly the words I think of and it really hurts to see blue hear this, coming from his own sister. She also says that if she confront purple abt red that purple would get mad so she doesn't want to get in trouble. 1:24 Blue's realized that there's no one for him and he's alone in this :( This shit really hurts to see cause he's really at his lowest at this point in time. His sister has left him and it feels like anything he does is hopeless. 1:25 and red takes this opportunity. Most likely without knowing but she hits him when he's at his worst. Showering him with more love as you see the love letters. Everythings becoming a really dark red and black as her affection on blue is making everything worse for him. :( 1:30 I also notice that she's lifting her dress (?) Probably trying to get him to touch her bc once again she thinks he wants this.... but at 1:32 she's becoming frustrated and hitting his back bc she can't understand why he doesn't love her. After all her hard work to becoming his "type" why isn't it working. 1:37 I think this is where red finally takes it way too far for blue. It appears as though he's in a pile of envelopes, probably meaning all the love and affection she's showed towards him. Blue is in tears and in obvious fear of red, as she appears to be on top of him. I also think that this is where she might be harassed him as we see black hearts on his cheeks which throughout this series we've recognized that black on blue's body has usually meant that he's been sexually harassed there. 1:44 we see a door open and everything begins to sort of confuse me 😭 We see people with eyes as heads carry blue to a court and begin to prosecute him and make him seem like he's the villain. I think this may mean like why he didn't stop any of the interactions he had with the women who've harassed him(?) What victims are commonly told when their sexual harassed is that they asked for it and I think this is what this scene is portraying. "If you never wanted to get sexually harassed, why'd you flirt with pink? Why did you keep leading red on knowing her feelings?" At 2:03 we see that the "judge" has made their choice and it seems that blue seems himself as the reason why everything has happened to him. Him talking to red while she loved him, him "showing he was sexually aroused", and having an affair with pink. This leaves him as the "one at fault" 2:07 we sort of see the things I explained as he's questioned why he didn't just walk away from red , why didn't he just say no, why didn't he yell at her? Victims of sexual assault are asked these stupid ass questions, forcing them to blame themselves in these situations just as blue is doing so right now to himself. Blue smacks the TV screen showing this as he appears to be behind bars (portraying that he's at fault for his own abuse happened to him) Red is then taken away by the "judge" as if proving her innocence in this whole situation. 2:15 is then showing blue with the horns and grin as he seems himself as the abuser and the person at fault for everything happening to him. This video was genuinely an excellent way of portraying the stupid shit victims are manipulated into believing. Red being the pushing factor into blue believing this is 100% gonna affect him as we still don't know what purple's plan is. Vic you're honestly doing such a great job and honestly thank you so much for bringing light to these types of sexual assault and the tactics used to make victims blame themselves. As I think you said in a previous video, abusers take advantage of this shit and by bringing this to attention, you're bring awareness to this type of manipulation so once again thank you.
@@Dangosauri read the whole interview and it’s amazing just wow and it makes so much sense normally i just see some and like but this one caught my eye, you where like MatPat you could make videos explaining lore! Ofc you don’t have to i just want to say this whole thing is amazing!
I love the part where blue almowt blames himself for the assult which explains why he's given up to fight anymore,In his mind he`s not a victime he's a victimizes other and gives up with his own voice
I love how Red started with white eyes, clothing, a white bow, to show that she meant no harm but just loved him too much. This then changes to black eyes and dark colored clothing, and even her turning into a monster with black claws to show that she's taking it too far and it's becoming an even bigger issue. Her eyes then become white again once she sees how depressed and destroyed Blue is, realizing she messed up. Also the part with a council of eyes (on lookers) determining if he's evil or not just by what THEY'VE seen, and not the ACTUAL story. Also the little text bubbles at 2:07 asking him (why didn't you run?" "why didn't you say no?" are all things victims get asked to make them feel as if it's THEIR fault. It explains victim blaming really well. All in all, I feel really bad for Blue, and I hope he can get a happy ending eventually.
The fact that blue took off lavenders coat after having the little fight with her and it slowly becomes white instead of blue, and the fact that’s he’s now realizing that he has no one left as he hugs the coat craving for lavenders comfort and presence just makes me wanna cry….
I actually cried on that scene,i know how that feels,i know that of feeling of wanting comfort..And not having anyone to give it to you! Because something happened to me with my big sister,i was having a really bad discussion with my mom,so i searched her for comfort..But she just leave me,saying me "Just go,mom is not gonna hurt you",that day i felt..Empty,in that moment i just hugged strongly her arm,searching for comfort,and she just leave me. I even started criying and saying "Don't leave me please!" I know what Blue was feeling in that moment,and that's just..Sad.
2:07 I think this scene is supposed to represent Victim Blaming Ex: "Why didn't you run away?" "Did you say no? Did you like it?" , "did you fight back?" Etc... seen it happen way too many times- even people of authorities such as police do this. victim blaming is a way of shifting blame from the abuser to the victim. it implies that the victim's actions contributed to the incident or were the cause of it, rather than accepting that the abuser has sole responsibility for it. in the context of s*xual assault, this can involve suggesting that the victim was somehow responsible for their own assault because of what they were wearing, how they acted in the environment, or how they responded to it -
Most people tought i enjoyed SA because i never fought back and stayed still and shook. The awareness Victaton spread made me feel more understood then ive ever been before
Oh boy this one has been C R E E P Y For what I can assume, Purple has tried to demoralize Red from chasing Blue because under her point of view since "Blue is a playboy" he would only be interested in hot girls hence Red's innocence would bring down her "value" (again, this under Purple's point of view) but instead of taking it as a bad thing, Red interprets it as that she must get rid of her innocence and act like her to attract Blue something that, ironically for the first time, freaks out even Purple who asks her to ignore what she said and just "be herself" Purple in this case doesn't seem to be trying to influence in Red in a negative way, but she does seem to enjoy messing with her and bringing her moral down hence why she said all of those things and how she seems to have fun with Red's shenanigans until this ones get out of hand. From here on, we can see how Red is using her nails, by forcing Blue to stay and give her affection, this goes until the video starts getting actually creepy in the "trial" where I can assume that Red is victim blaming him, trying to responsabilice him for not giving her attention and saying that Pink cheating on her fiance is HIS fault even if Pink is the one who should know better, hence why Blue is painted with demon horns and tails since her words make him believe he is the bad guy for feeling like he does. This is quite common among abuse survivors who are prone to say they deserve everything bad that they go through because their self stem has been lowered so much that they believe they are responsible for their abusers' behavior
This one is probably the longest one vic made.. also is pink really blue's fiancée? i don't remember seeing anything that could indicate that Also hi tanuki i remember you from btb's server lol (im ashey)
ALSO I misinterpreted this scene at first 1:21. Lavender is not trying to reason with Red, but try to fend off Blue calling him an exaggerated since "Red is so nice" and abandoning him with her. I know Purple is the one portrayed as the worst but Lavender really shows at any time how horrible she is, not only she is an incestuous vouyeur who manipulates and gaslights Blue, but she also allows the abuse done by other girls to continue through turning a blind eye, first time with Pink and now with Red and this will for sure affect to his view of his colleagues and isolation since he cannot even trust his own family to stand up for him plus also contributing to the victim blaming and making him believe he is actually the crazy one of the group
0:31 seeing how Lavander is scrimbled over makes me think that Lavender played „doctor” when they were little (this COCSA, child on child sexual abuse/assault) and seeing that on top on her there is a cyan question Mark(which could be symbolising that he doesnt understand her role in this story)BUT This ALSO makes me think one thing: Blue FORGOT about said event because as someone who went throught CSA and its actually just a general thing that happens to traumatised people: Your brain can make you forget certain traumatising events as a protective mechanism, trauma can be so damaging to us that our brain in attempt to protect us hides thus deep beneth our brain.
Is there any way I can learn about what "Doctor" is? I want to inform myself and I don't know what I could even search up to learn about this, genuinely just asking if you don't want to answer I understand
@@xandergonzalez8071I think it’s cause doctors usually have yknow check your body for any ailments and such so maybe it’s supposed to show how lavender used to check Blues body or touch parts of him to check if he’s “sick”
Red completely changed herself drastically just for Blue, and her color went a deeper shade of red. It clearly shows her uncontrollable nature of her love for blue, really shows the obsessive nature getting stronger and spiraling out of control. One thing I did notice with Pink as well, with the old photo of her getting married. Her pink colors was a bit lighter in there. Poor Blue hoped he gets help💙 Edit : one last thing I noticed was that Red might’ve been trying to mimic Pink with her dress. She had her on the board of Blue and they were seemingly dating at the first episodes, and did see them together.
not only that but her old clothes were white while these new ones are dark blue, blue both to represent her obsession with blue, and a dark shade of blue since white and other light colors seem to represent consent or good intentions, while dark colors represent the opposite, which is also why she's changed to a deeper red and her eyes have changed from white to black. it's wild how he can make even the smallest decisions have meaning like that, and he's said before that just about everything in the series is done on purpose to mean something.
The scene of Blue hiding behind Lavender broke my heart, she's a horrible sister who's hurt him MULTIPLE times, yet he still tried to go to her for help since she's his older sister and who else would he go to?
And she didn’t do anything in the end. Lavender looked only a tad bit worried before trying to get herself out of the situation. As an older sibling myself, I honestly am very disappointed in her, although she’s just a fictional character.
Don't forget abotu Lavender in Nurse Outfit(And with scribbled face), that represent cases of Child on Child SA. Some kids are curious about thierand others bodies so they play nurse and doctors, a profesions that are based on touching bodies. But some kids push too far, and these kids ended up SA their playmate
1:17 a little detail here, is that while red is wearing more a more "sexified" and mature style (with that long dark dress and a different hairstyle), but her shoes looks odly out of place in her outfit. They are cute while shoes with light blue socks, looks like something a child would wear. I intrepet this, as it is supposed to represent that, no matter what Red does with her appeareance or changes her actitude, thats all her faking to attract Blue, and that she still that naive, inmature and inexperienced girl that we saw on the other videos (and the first part of this one). She is the youngest of them all, she is barely 19 when everyone else is around 25 or older there. It is clear that her whole behaviour is a result of her inexperience with love (Blue could be her first crush ever, maybe thats why she is so obbsesive), and all the people older than her ignoring or downplaying her behaviour, convicing her that she isnt doing anything wrong. Honestly, she reminds me a lot of young people (like 13-16yos) who have a fcked up view of romance and how it works, thanks to adults in their life not teaching them or also "romance" sitcoms, books and animes that gives them a very unrealistic view on romantic relationship. These people tend to do very uncomfortable things for their crushes; like giving unwanted flirting, not acepting a "no" from them and keep trying things to "gain their love", making big extravagant confessions in front of the whole school, asking them out and threating them to do something dangerous if they say no ("if you dont go out with me i will jump from the top of that tree!"). All bad things that they are conviced is cute and romantic. Most people grew up of that around 18yo, the fact that Red is 19yo and she STILL thinks that invading the privacy of her crush and keep harassing him even after a clear "No" is so sad. So, is there any child reading this that needs to hear this; please, remember that your crush is also a person, unless that they expressed being interested in you back dont try to make extravagant confessions that could make them uncomfortable, and acept their "no" if they dont love you back. Your crush wont magically fall in love with you after rejecting you just because you gifted them a giant teddy bear and asked them out in front of the whole school. That is not romantic or cute or sweet, thats uncomfortable for them, manipulative and it will make them feel like they are bad people for not loving you back. If you really respected your crush as a person, dont do any of that.
I did a lot of extravagant (in front of everyone) things for a crush back in primary school. The moment she had to literally yell at me to stop because it’s too much for her, I listened and began to move on because I just wanted her to be happy. I wish the adults around me would’ve told me this sooner and told me better strategies to express my interest in her. I did all that because that was what I saw in cartoons as expressions of love towards a crush. After watching this video I genuinely feel bad for what I did because it was wrong of me and she was very brave to be able to tell me that. If anyone inexperienced with crushes and love reads this please don’t do extravagant things in front of everyone for your crush, just be friendly and do small things for them without it being too much or ever expecting it to result in them liking them back. ALWAYS take no for an answer and don’t try anything else the moment they said no.
oh.. i experience this.. i have a victim named 'piang nicolas nash lander' i thought my love would effect him and i dont understand why he still dont love me i always give him love letter and always telling my classmates that i have a crush on him.. ive been obsessed with him until he move another section or classroom.. when he sees me he would hide back of my classmates.. trying to hide from me.. but now in the 4 quarter i read this and understand that he feels uncomfortable what am i doing and always give him a letter infront of my classmates but i feel uncomfortable too when my mates always teasing me that i liked him..
Bro, Blue didn’t even deserve this, it wasn’t even his fault. Just because Red is 19 and he’s 25 doesn’t make her innocent, cause she was the one sexually harassing him 🙁 Edit: For those who don’t believe me that Red is 19 and Blue is 25, Vic had a community tab post talking about it if you just scroll through it a bit
It’s also probably part of what led to the victim blaming. Telling someone about someone else’s abusive behavior only for them to explain why that person isn’t bad, make you think that you are obligated to keep interacting with them or that their behavior isn’t bad
I really like how you made it clear the purple wasn't encouraging red to go after blue. It'll prevent people from blaming purple for Red's actions, allowing her to keep her "innocence"
1:48 I theorize that Blue probably got in trouble with the compony for being found in a suggestive position with a younger and more inexperienced employee. Blue might not’ve been fired but he probably either got demoted to a lower position in his job, a pay check cut and/or is now having rumours about him spread throughout the whole office. In edition to that Red was probably moved to another section in the office building to keep her separate from Blue.
The fact that even if Lavender ignored Blue in "Shut up and Sleep with me", he still called for her help 'cause she's his blood and she's the one he could trust more, yet she STILL ignored this situation. Also I noticed at the end 2:13 Red's eyes turned back to white. Probably she realised what she was doing wrong, or her obsession decreeased.
Fun fact: the more angry blue gets, he gets more and more neon. If you observe “look don’t touch” the part where blue gets mad and slowly calms down, you see he was a lighter shade of blue then slowly went darker
I think any heightened emotion along with anger will do the same. For example here when he's petrified of Red he lightens more and more until he is white, and when he was trying to just be nice while still being uncomfortable in other shots he turns lighter shades of blue again.
I just want to say how accurate this is. I’ve recently experienced exactly what Blue is going through with an online friend, and it’s so easy for even good-intentions to turn out to be mentally draining from the way it’s done. And it makes you believe you’re the bad one for leading them on or denying their affections because to outsiders it seems completely normal.
The change of lyrics from " More than just *A* fantasy " to " More than just *YOUR* fantasy " and " *I* know what you want from *ME* " to " *YOU* know what you want from *HER* " shows how they're blaming Blue in such a subtle way and I love how its represented. I'm so glad people are covering this topic more, victims need their voices to be heard.
I love the audio change at the end when he’s being taken away. “We know what you want from *her* “ “More than just *your* fantasy” It shows how others are seeing this situation as if he manipulated her and this was his idea. Then going on to say “why didn’t you say no” “you could’ve left”. It’s such a small yet great detail to add
Lavender being in a nurse outfit kinda points to COCSA, the outfit probably being a nod to how exactly Lavender went about it. “Wanna play doctor?” Also Lavender’s jacket losing the blue color is most likely a representation of how the connection she and Blue had is completely gone. After everything she did he came to HER for help and she didn’t do a thing but tell him he’s got it all wrong, that Red just has a school girl crush. Despite everything THAT was the moment Blue lost all faith in his sister, lost any faith that she cared for him and would help. I find it interesting that Purple is so clearly uncomfortable with the way Red is going about this, she visibly tries to talk Red down multiple times. It would be very easy for someone to say “Red was manipulated by Purple to do this” so I’m happy Vic made it very clear that isn’t the case, and even if Red is a victim of Grooming that is not a justification of her actions towards Blue and Purple (no matter how shitty she is) isn’t the reason for Red doing that. At 2:04, you can see the ‘court’ judging Blue based off his actions. The ones that ‘put him in the wrong’ and deserving of what happened, and the one that paints him as a good guy. The bad being “ignoring red’s affection”, “Being flirtatious/ just sexual in general”, and “flirting with a married woman”. And the only good one being the way he tried to ignore Pink’s advances once he learned she was married. It’s a representation of how victims in the real world are blamed and judged, people deciding whether or not they deserved their assault. Further proved by the way the judge starts asking him stuff like “Why didn’t you run?” “Why didn’t you say no?” “Why didn’t you fight?”
2:13 Notice how Red's eyes return to white, Imo its like she decided to see him from afar and slowly started noticing that her love was wrong. Her hearts wont dissapear, wich could mean that she still loves him yet realized what she did.
And I believe that the black is just her taking purple's lesson wrong, taking a step further, and further, and further. She eventually crossed that line and started to become completely obsessed, not holding back.
the fact that blue completely ignored all the awful things lavender did in previous episodes to him but still chose to run to her for safety because she's the closest person he has in the company and in the end she just leaves him to fend for himself AGAIN she's just beyond awful she sees blue's suffering clearly and yet does absolutely nothing to help i just seriously hope something good happens to blue for once
But she does help him. If you see the text bubbles you’ll see that she says something like “I’m gonna tell purple and she’ll get mad”, but it seems the protection was temporal since lavender can’t be all the day with Blue, she’s got her own work to do, and Red got advantage of when her and Blue were alone.
@@833dbmOsbejzI’ve seen other people say she was excusing her that purple was calling her and then the weight of blue which was shown in her blue jacket was taken off after she left
@@833dbmOsbejz that doesn't seem to be the case at all, we've seen lavender turn her back on blue in the "sleep with me" video if she didn't help blue back then with pink then why would she do it now, she clearly doesn't want to do anything about this situation no matter how badly blue asks for help and in the speech bubbles she was probably just convincing blue that red was not that type of girl and that she needs to get going otherwise purple will get mad at her she's just trying to get out of there
ive rewatched this series several times and god i LOVE the little detail in 1:47 where the lyrics are changed to ''we know what you want from her'' VERY good little touch
TW/CW for what I’m going to write: -Bro this hits waaaaay too close to home. I was s/a’ed by a family member multiple times, and when I went to my grandma for help or to tell her what happened she blamed me. Saying it was my fault for being there and for wearing what I did. I was made to believe it was my fault for things I didn’t ask for. Vic your work is amazing and I hope you know you make a lot of us feel seen. Take care love💕
I hope you are okay and safe now from your family member. I hate that people don't understand us and blaming on us when I didn't asked for. I'm sorry of what you been through and dealing with and I hope you take care yourself and they leave you alone. Best of luck, hope you doing fine.
@aylinkushbakova7562 no only one is a family member, as I have only three family members who have taken advantage of me and I’ve only drawn one. Which also I’ve only drawn twice
something like this happened to me last night. ive been groomed online before, but i thought id be capable enough to not let it happen irl. luckily i had a friend looking after me who took me away from the situation when she realized i was gone with them for more than 3 minutes. i froze up and i still hate the fact that i did, so the message at the end helped a lot.
@@theguywhoaskedd lowkey im still getting over it bc it was by someone who was my friend, but luckily nothing extreme happened so ive been okay. thank u tho ^^
This has happened to me before, I’ve been seen as the abuser when I was the victim. Being a male victim is truly the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced. Edit: Wow, I genuinely never expected to ge any sympathy at all. This means the world to me, since no one irl shows much disdain for what’s happened to me. Thank you, kind strangers.❤️ Edit 2: Yes, my mother is getting the treatment she deserves. My therapist contacted CPS and whether she goes to jail or not, I’ll never see her again due to multiple interviews and body checkups/blood & salvia tests I’ve had. Edit 3: What previously stated isn’t the only thing that’s happened, unfortunately. I’ve had several friends who’ve s/a’ed and or raped me, my mother also sold me to a man so he could rape me. Overall, most of my trauma comes from women. I am a man, a male, a teenage boy, struggling everyday just because some creepy women couldn’t keep their hands off of me, not even my own mother.
As a man whose been SAed, these videos really are so accurate. Atleast considering my own situtation, they reflect so much on the expierences of men whove been in these circumstances and i hope you get everything you want in life
I honestly wanted to cry at the last part where you went over survival instincts. I’m always told that because I just froze and didn’t do anything means that I “liked” it or “wanted” it. I DIDN’T WANT IT. I WAS ONLY IN 2-3 GRADE. I was terrified and didn’t know what to do.
i love the detail that at 1:22 because it seems that BLUE accidentally (?) takes LAVENDER's coat off (which was also in BLUE's color, representing the trust he had in LAVENDER, or maybe just their relstionship as siblings) in which it turns white, and BLUE hugs it out of helplessness. He's alone, scared, has basically no voice (haha get it cause he has nO MOUTH) and has nobody to turn to. Everyone he's trusted has betrayed him in one way or another. (except for LILAC, but she doesn't seem present in this one as far as i can tell). I love this series so much :(
@@Syri4ai feel like it would be strange though, since red is 19 and purple is 40,, i think its more of convincing her blue doesn’t like her so she can have him instead
0:14: Red is telling Purple that she likes Blue. Purple responds by claiming Blue is only into “fire” (inappropriate stuff) which is supposedly why he likes Pink, and uses this as a reason to say that Blue would never like Red because she’s too innocent. Purple does this while holding Red’s face, and judging based on her behavior here and in previous videos, it’s clear that Purple is trying to groom Red into moving on from Blue and to trust Purple more to gain control. 0:20: Red takes this information completely differently than Purple intended. She thinks that if Blue won’t like her while she acts innocent, he’ll like her if he starts to act more seductive like Pink. Red thanks Purple for the help and says that she’ll accept the advice. However, Purple is distressed at this information because it’s not going the way she expected, so she leaves and swats her away because she knows that she won’t get the control she wanted if Red is only going to chase after Blue. This is also when Red’s eyes turn black, signifying the obsessive love is becoming assaultive. 0:25: This takes place before Purple talks to Red because her eyes are white again. “My heart makes a beat when you walk in the room” is being spoken by Blue, but his heart is beating from fear rather than from crushing on Red. “I go boom boom boom you go zoom zoom zoom” with the angel over Red shows again that Blue’s heart is beating from fear while Red’s heart is beating from having a “sweet innocent crush”. 0:31: I believe the nurse is Lavender, but both the nurse and Pink say “You’re my playboy, playboy” meaning they view him in more of an inappropriate light while Red says “Lover my friend”, meaning that her love was more “lovey” back here, again taking place before Purple talked to Red since her eyes are still white. “I want to be with you until the end” is also more of her motivation to change herself so drastically just to get with Blue. 0:37: “I’d give my heart and my soul to you” showing she would literally do anything to be with him, even change her entire character. “I’m so confused baby can’t you see, please come rescue me” is around when Red breaks since she’s so confused why Blue won’t love her. 0:50: “I know what you want from me” implies that she now knows Blue only wants her in an “inappropriate way” because the board she was looking at earlier showed Blue only reciprocating affection to people who were inappropriate with him. This also is followed by her eyes turning black, which is after she learnt her new plan to act more inappropriately around Blue to get him to love her. 1:00: Here she completely changed, dressing and acting more like Pink, dragging him back into a room and forcing her to touch her hair, face, and chest. She clings to his chest and digs her nails into him as a way to force him to stay, and also slightly mimics Pink with this behavior since Pink would do a lot of these things to blue. 1:12: Red is now talking more inappropriately to Blue, saying that since she’s a girl and he’s a boy, they can do “hot things” together. This makes Blue super uncomfortable, so he rushes to Lavender to protect him. “To make you see it through” playing in the back while Blue hides behind Lavender shows that Blue is trying to get Lavender to see what Red is doing to him. Lavender seems confused, “I’m so confused” playing in the background enforcing this, and swats Blue away saying that there’s no point in making a deal out of it since Red appears like such an angel to everyone and going to Purple about it will just make her mad. 1:24: Blue is hopeless since he feels like he’ll never be saved. Red breaks through saying “I know what you want from me” since she thinks that since all Blue wants is inappropriate things, so she’s acting that way to get with him. 1:30: Red bangs on Blue out of anger, as she is confused why Blue is still uncomfortable despite Red acting in the way she thinks he wants. It gets worse when Red is on top of Blue, angry and crying because of that. 1:40: This scene can be interpreted in many ways since going to prison is a metaphor, but most likely someone came in the room and saw the two acting this way which is why they’re eyes in business suits. “We know what you want from her” means that they think all he wants from Red is inappropriate things. 1:52: This part is a metaphor of victim blaming, taking place in an imaginary courthouse. There are red devil horns and teeth drawn on Blue, and them being Red signifies that it’s Red making him feel like he’s the bad person. 1:58: Here we can see that Red is spinning all of the previous stories with Blue into him being the one in the wrong, while Red was the angel. A board appears of things that “Blue did wrong” and things that “Blue did right”. In the “Blue did wrong” section, Red lists that Blue would ignore her, he only wants inappropriate stuff, and he’s a homewrecker for getting in the way of Pink and her marriage. In the “Blue did right” section, it’s only the time that Blue looked away from Pink’s body. 2:04: Blue is extremely distraught and starts to believe that Red might be right and that he is the person in the wrong, when he really isn’t and this is all gaslighting from Red’s end to make her seem like the better person. 2:06: I assume these are metaphorical witnesses for if Blue tried to go to someone about it. They are wondering why Blue never ran, pushed her away, or got mad, if he really didn’t want what Red was doing to him. 2:10: Blue smashes the metaphorical court scene, the TV almost representing him replaying the events over and over in his head, while he sits distraught. Red sees how broken Blue has become, and seemingly gives up her pursuit of him because now it’s really clear he won’t want her, while Blue is staring at the screen, still with the devil horns and teeth on him as he feels like the person in the wrong.
1. I think Purple would rather spend more time with Red than control her. 2. It seems to me that Purple is just telling the truth about what she thinks of Red, and maybe even trying to compliment her. But the wrong words only make the situation worse. 3. In general, I have a small assumption that purple does not like blue, because red could somehow change to like blue more, and began to spend less time with purple than before, and the fact that purple is quite jealous of red for blue, even suppressing it. (If anything, I'm not saying that Purple is an angel who wants only good things for red, she's clearly not the nicest person, and can consciously control and manipulate red (which is very suitable for her actions and image), but for the most part I think purple is a good friend for red and tries to help as much as she can♡)
@@bea1173 And for reference: Purple is 40, Blue is 25, meanwhile Red is only *19.* These were confirmed in the community posts. These relationships are ALL *UNHEALTHY, TOXIC, MANIPULATIVE, AND UN-CONSENSUAL.* Pls stop twisting the meaning of this story, it’s supposed to spread awareness about Sexual harassment and assault, not paint a love story or friendship between two characters, lol. (Especially when one of those characters is EXTREMELY underaged and WAYY too young to even be “just friends” with Purple.) (Besides maybe Blue and Lilac, which is the pink, chubby girl with the puffy bun, not to be mistaken with Pink, another older woman who takes advantage of Blue and forced him into doing inappropriate things with her.)
It's strange to see these animations get so popular and grow its own fandom. I just love how your animations speak of how uncomfortable and traumatizing SA can be just through expressions without romanticizing it. It's the best way to spread awareness for this kind of thing. Poor little Blue. He deserves so much better.
I like how when red draws on the screen, she’s obviously trying to draw hearts, but ends up making a cross or an “X” sign. Showing how her behavior is more abusive.
Ok, so this is my theory. As Victaton said, this is the last time that we will see Red in these videos, and now that we have seen Blue in a metaphorical cage, we can explain a lot of things about this. First of all, we can say that what somehow influenced Red's actions was Purple telling Red the truth about Blue's affair with Pink, which makes Red try her best to be less cute or “innocent” and be more hot, like Pink being “perfect” for Blue. We can see how Blue is now more alert to each girl that is approaching him because of his trauma with Pink or Lilac. But with Red, this was different since he saw her as a little inoffensive girl who is sometimes stubborn. What Blue didn’t know was that Red was becoming more obsessed with him. And with each interaction they two had, Red was getting more possessive and aggressive/sexual with her touch and words, while Blue tried his best to not damage her heart. He always thought that Red wasn't a bad person, so he tried his best to put boundaries between them both so they could keep being friends. Now the problems came here: Red didn’t listen; she never listened, since she always thinks just about herself without thinking about the consequences of her actions. Instead of her realizing that Blue didn't love her and needed to move forward, she just tries to change, and somehow she pressures and obligates Blue to love her. So she keeps getting worse with her sexual harassment, not wanting to let go of Blue, so he will be just for herself. One time, Blue tried to get help while being with Lilac since he was now scared of Red. This is where the interesting thing happens. We know Lilac was one of the abusers of Blue, seeing how she sees him with other intentions in the video "Look Don't Touch" or when she sees Blue trying to get her help in "Shut up and sleep with me." And Lilac left him with Pink without caring about Pink's intentions. I personally think that Lilac didn't help Blue with Pink since all of the girls in Blue's Work know that Blue has an affair with Pink. This makes all of the women think that Pink's actions with Blue are consensual since Blue was always a seducer with women. All of the girls have the wrong idea that all men just want one thing in a woman: sex. Now that Lilac finally saw how Blue was less alluring and more allert and scared of Red, Likac actually got worried about Blue helping him get away from Red with excuses. Even with all of this, Red found a way to keep her sexual harassment with Blue, and now that they are more private, she now uses Blue to touch Red in a sexual way. Blue actually didn't want this but couldn't react since he was too scared to move. Red uses this submissive way of treating Blue as consent, abusing it for her own benefit. Now in the part that Blue was coughed with the "Red eyes," I think it is a metaphor that means how Blue feels about his interactions with all the girls and how everybody sees him, like a man who was in an affair with Pink who had a husband, a man who didn't love his sister, a man who let Red touch him in a sexual way while he had an affair. He looks at himself like a monster that doesn't deserve heaven or forgiveness, being in a jail of regret and solitude. Red finally saw what her actions did to Blue; she noticed the damage that she had done to him, but it was too late, so she preferred now to keep her distance and not see Blue again after what she had done, even when her horrible and dangerous feelings toward him were still present.
I think the reason why we will never see Red again maybe because she was forced to stay away from Blue because they see that an older man was being sexual to a woman younger then him so they moved her away from Blue and that’s were Reds presence ends
1:29 I think it's kind of interesting how it seems like Red keeps trying to copy Pink. First with becoming 'Blue's Type', and now she's trying to do the same thing Pink did in 'Kiss Me', probably trying to get the same reaction Pink gave Blue.
I want to just voice out my support for blue despite him being a fictional character. He's representing victims of these situation and how it ruins someone's lives. I already feel attached to Blue and I can only hope for a good ending on his behalf. I know a lot of survivors are strong and I'm hoping that we get to see Blue start on his way on taking charge again and growing to be a strong character
I love this its never expressed enough. Older people CAN be victims to younger people sexually harassing them. People always blame the older one. But when you try stepping back and they keep pursuing you what more can you do? Then at the end of the day you’ll be deemed a sexual offender but the whole time you didn’t do anything but try getting out of the situation this is NEVER expressed enough. Thank you.
Okay, so, THIS animation, as far as I can tell, was about how Red tought Blue could fall in love with her on VERY many ways of mistreating, whether it is pressuring him to touch her, give him persuasive compliments, praising him, and even DRASTICALLY changing her looks, all to get his ""love"", and ""touch"" . All of this, to a point where Blue was trying to seek for help, but failed, since Red was portrayed to be a good girl, and everyone had in mind that her actions weren't as bad as Blue portrayed them to be. Red was invading Blue's privacy because she also thought THAT was the correct way for her to get his atention, yet Blue saw her as a predator... which she actually IS one, despite not WANTING to be one; she got CARRIED away by her feelings, and completely forgot about BOUNDARIES. But, instead of receiving any kind of support, Blue was being BLAMED as the PREDATOR, no matter if HE was the ACTUAL VICTIM. He had been getting false allegations, to a point where he just got to his breaking point. It actually got to my attention that Red's eyes actually changed colors, it might have meant that she realized that went TOO far, and she had seen all the harm Blue has been going through, which, again, she did NOT intend. She just REALLY, REALLY, REALLY wanted Blue. If ypu have ANYTHING to tell, then DO reply!! Again, you ATE this one, Victaton!!
One thing I noticed while rewatching these videos is that in each intro the abuser is featured in, they show they're true colours or at least what they become. Pink started off smiling sweetly in SASWM but then it turned malicious when discussing the s/a. Red starts off with white eyes and her normal hair, but then it shows her darker, brighter, and even a sharp toothy grin. Lavender starts off with her eyes closed, but in DTI, her eyes are wide open. Purple is possibly up next (though she might not since GMWIW exists), but I feel she won't really have a change except her black eyes and her grin. The intro shows their true colours and actual nature as abusers. It's really clever design and pretty well done.
The eyelashes turning from white to black really show that it's not love shes feeling anymore and that it is now complete obsession. There is a BIG difference between love and obsession.
@@HanyhenHen Probably because she realizes she's done something bad after she realizes how her actions have affected blue but is not going to take any responsibility for it because she is scared of the risks of getting caught, leaving the blame on blue.
idk if anyone pointed this out yet. theres lyrical chopping at around 1:47 "*we* know what you want from *her*" "more than just *your* fantasy" rlly goes into the people thinking its blue fault bc even the SONG is blaming him. Good god this series is so good at having little bits you recognize. im going to explode
0:32 the girl marked out is lavender as a child bc of the community posts She definitely had been doing some sort of COCSA on him when they were younger. Unfortunately, some victims of csa (including me) will end up blocking out who exactly was hurting them as a way to protect themselves (which can be a sign of a mental disorder that was formed because of said trauma). This would explain why blue still feels comfortable around lavender as he cant remember it was her who was hurting him when they were little. From looking up, 50% of CSA victims will sadly be victims again in adulthood. Exactly what blues going through again. God i feel so bad for blue.
Hold on, is that really Lavender? Since she was dressed up in nurse's clothes, I thought she was a relative who worked in a hospital or something along those lines.
@@youtub9035you can barely see her color in the left side of her + the mouth gives it away. In the community posts it was stated that that was her as a child like a few weeks ago i think? Its what makes me believe she was “play pretending” as a doctor to blue and ended up Sexually harassing or assaulting him that way but he cant remember or repressed it to the point he cant remember it was lavender.
Child on child sexual abuse is a topic I never seen get talked about even though its a really horrible case all around that can happen, so seeing it being implied does share a light that sadly, even children can S/A other children. Hopefully one day vic can make a video spreading awareness about it as its a topic that can educate people that just because an older child did it, doesnt mean it doesnt count as S/A. If not, I understand.
it hurts so much to see the pain I went through accurately. as a young boy, I was being SA'd and all people did was try to say that it was a "good thing" since I was a man. Other times I was told to be a disgusting person. For so long, I couldn't say anything. Like Blue, I froze up. I didn't say or do anything. I couldn't even say no, because I had tried in the past and it still didn't work. Thank you so much for showing this. I'm so tired of being blamed on things I never did. I was hurt. I was violated, and the fact people didn't help me when I asked for it- and instead hated me- it was crushing. Thank you for showing representation like this of victims like me. I want to cry, as I am just so grateful someone can show this.
1:14 I genuinely teared up at this moment he looks so scared and was trembling. 😭😭😭 when someone even clings on someone that they have a low trust to you know how much they're in pain. I wanna give blue a hug and say how strong he has been Wahhhh... You guys survivors and fighters are amazing for still standing.
i used to be like red. i've always struggled with boundaries when interacting with people; i mostly blame my family for this, as they were always very physically close and would stimulate me for fun, touching me without my consent and making creepy comments about my body at an age where your body shouldn't be an object of such connotations, therefore i had an early onset awakening, and i grew up with that burden. in my teenage years i met a boy that was different from all i knew; i didn't feel harassed or invaded by his presence or his comments, and he actively cared for me and how comfortable i was feeling. i confessed my feelings for him and got rejected, so i did it again and again in hopes that he would comply someday. he didn’t, and we began drifting away quickly. and i wouldn't let that happen, so i kept disturbing him for months and months, interpreting his silence as consent, a mentality i've rejected since then. i used to constantly assault him in ways that i would rather not disclose, but i can only imagine and genuinely lament how it must've affected him, in the same way that my family's attitude affected me in the long run. i was sick; it was a genuine, mind-controlling sickness that i couldn’t blame on anyone but myself. eventually i severed ties with him after realizing what i'd done. i ended up closing myself shut, s*xually and emotionally, to avoid hurting anyone else. i still dont trust myself to engage in any interaction of the sorts again, and i probably never will, but i'd rather live like this for the rest of my days than risk hurting someone else the way i hurt him. i've been to several therapists for more than three years, and none of them have managed to take this parasite out of me. this type of trauma is a curse; it's an entity that carves you from the inside out and leaves you an empty shell; it's a feeling i couldn’t possibly describe with words. i hate my family for ruining me, and i hate myself for ruining him in a way that one can never recover from. there's moments where i really wish i could talk to him and apologize in a way that matters, but that would only make things much worse. i write this to share a real person's testimony beyond the character presented in these videos. this is just another reminder that this is real; this has happened countless times before, and sadly, it will happen again. it's not a matter of just saying "no" and reporting the incident. it's something that ruins you and takes away every inch of the person you would be if that never happened to you.
Despite her obvious insanity and how unstable she is, Red's character design is super cute. I noticed how Red's dress is similar to Pink's near the end, showing how she thinks that if she presents herself more like someone he is "close" to, he might like her more. I also love the amount of detail and subtle visual effects that add further meaning to the video and situation, for example, the purple triangle that shows up behind Red when Purple is talking to her, Red's black nails becoming stains along her arms, Red's eyes switching from white to black, Blue's eyes changing colour to show how he is feeling without using his mouth (RIP Blue's mouth 🫡), the use of colour to show who is is control, what character is being focussed on, the weight of the situation, innocence, emotion, blame, abuse, and so, so much more. The sketchy "demon face" overlay shows how Blue views himself, thinking that he is the one in the wrong and that he should be punished. Another thing I noticed is that Red becomes darker and a more vibrant, saturated red, showing how her actions become more unhinged and unstable. In the scene where Red is on top of Blue, she is crying black, heart-shaped tears that fall onto Blue's face, adding yet another black stain to Blue's body. Throughout this series, you can see how Blue goes from a bright blue to a less saturated and more of a grey-ish shade as we are shown the canonical order of events. (Sorry this is so long, I got carried away lmao)
ikr, sometimes i dont understand why ppl said smt like "if you like s/aer design then you just like the color/you are insane" what?? i wanna say that i like red's design becau look cute which also show that "even innocent and cute looking can hunt you down"
another great move from lavender, instead of listening or even questioning blue, she refuses and obviously takes reds side saying shes an “angel” and insists she returns back to work/purple instead of comforting blue. this poor guy ☹️☹️
I love how Blue starts out just annoyed by Red's affection at 0:37 his eye twitches showing how he doesn't want her to like him and how she sees everything as a "sign" and pushes further into her ideas of romance. Blue finds it creepy, but he just rolls his eyes "its just a crush she'll get over it. What's the worst she could possibly do?" And since everyone else has this mindset they don't notice when things start to get creepy and inappropriate "she just wants his attention" "don't be rude she just likes you" he's seen as a jerk for not liking how hard she's trying even though he's begging someone to step in even running to his sister for help but not getting any because "she's just a girl with a crush" and Blue's "Just a playboy that knowingly has an affair with a married coworker and flirts openly" no one cares to see that he's a victim and hes doomed either way so he shuts down hoping Red will give up and leave
As someone who has experienced something similar to this a young age, it really depicts blue’s emotions in the way I felt the person who constantly did this to me. Like red, my harasser was also younger than me which also made people believe them more. Now that I’m older, I have no contact with them and I really wished a spoke up to them or told someone who would truly believe me. I’m happy that you are spreading awareness with this.❤
I rushed here as soon as I saw the notification. This is the first video where Blue actually SHAKES in fear, he's desperate and scared, he wants this to end. He even went as far as to hide behind his sister, the same person that completely ignored him when he was stuck with Pink. You're doing an amazing job Vic
1:19 Blue was so desperate for help that he literally clings onto the same person that has hurt him and silenced him as well as left him alone after witnessing him getting assaulted by two women TWICE!
As someone who tends to freeze up in certain situations, i can kinda understand how he felt. He mustve felt like no one was going to help him, especially the one he trusted the most which is lavender, and yet she didnt care how he felt, she just shrugged it off. He mustve felt vulnerable and helpless, like he couldnt run away from the situation, and kept getting blamed/blamming himself for whats happening
Adding the numbers was super helpful. I didnt realise these videos were in different orders and now that I do know, its so much easier to understand in wyas for both how blue develops and the other's.
1:15 I find this moment so sad because despite what Lavender did to Blue, he still tries to hide with her. She's basically the only one Blue trusts, despite how nasty she is. And even in this moment, she still fails to help blue in his time of need.
0:14 to 0:19 While red was talking about how she loves bule and wants to be in a relationship with him, purple cuts her and says, "he's too hot for you, he's a wild uncontrollable man unlike you, you're innocent and young, he's gonna go after hotties like himself (pink for example..) you're way too low for him." So she basically said "you're perfect for me instead of him, you're fresh meat, for me."(meant that by licking her lips afterwards). While trying to keep both red and blue only for herself by trying to keep them separated from each other. 0:20 to 0:22 And when red Understood it wrong, when red though she needed to make herself more attractive, force her love and desire in a inappropriate way to get blue notice/love her. Purple went silent, disgusted. She stood back and didn't want to be in this love triangle mesh, knowing she'll get exposed and it's going to take longer to separate them. 0:23 to 0:25 And when Red asked for more advice, she just said "Don't come to me for advice, do it yourself and see if it works on him. Don't drag me in this situation."
Okay so I sorta have a analysis i was hesistant on posting however i feel like i saw a lot of people miss these details. I think it's important to talk about the black lipstick mark, which shows how the trauma that he went through with Lilac is still sticking to him and affecting him, Which can also be seen with how when Red cries heart tears at the end and it sticks to him, it's a form of the trauma red put him through that is sticking to him. Him having no mouth also shows as to how he doesnt talk about the situation because society have given him to room to talk about it because he is a man, and men 'arent able to get sa'd.' 1:06 shows his terror through his hands and how this isnt his own actions because Red's hands are guiding his hands and forcing him to show love and affection towards her. While this whole thing breaks my heart for blue, the whole thing that shatters it is at 1:14 where Blue goes to Lavender to help, and in the process she tells him how "red is alright and fine dont worry about her and i need to leave because purple is calling me so bye!" however she has a blue coat. I believe the blue coat represents the "weight" blue has on her shoulders and when she finally leaves and blue is left with the coat, it's like "a weight of her shoulders" in which she doesnt look after blue or care for him anymore. 1:44 is now about how society sees Blue, and how he's now in the eye of public opinon. They believe it's his 'fault' for 'leading her on'. The lyrics even change within the song "we know what you want from HER" and "more than just YOUR fantasy" which first changed lyrics is self expanaltory, it's society viewing him as a bad guy and blaming him for the changes she went through to "lure" him in and viewing that as him forcing herself to change for him, and the second changed lyric is reinstating the first thing and how she's not for him to be "in control of" (which he's not she changed herself for her own obsession.) Everybody is pointing fingers at him and blaming him, and weighing what he's bad he's 'done' vs what 'good' he's done. I think it's interesting in within the flashbacks of the other videos, all the other girls are shown with halos, however Lilac(??) has her eyes scratched out, which is probably the public's opinion of how "she's a dirty cheater and cougar because she has a husband, how gross!" The things he's 'bad' over arent even his fault. showing mutual respect and understanding for Red? thats leading her on! He likes sexual romance? thats gross and disgusting he's clearly using Red! Him being in a relationship with a woman thats married? how gross he's a player and a homewrecker! Though none of that is his fault. society is even telling him 'why didnt you get walk away/leave?', 'why didnt you push her away/say no?', 'why didnt you firmly tell her no?'. which at the ending i dont really believe he's in actual jail, however he's trapped in a prision of people viewing him in the way that people are protraying him as, and how he is unable to escape that view. This part will be about red's analysis now. In the beginning as all can see, Red is talking to Purple(??) about her feeling on blue, in which purple tells her that he's only into "sexual" romance, as 'seen' with lilac(??), and how red is to pure with him, which i do believe that Purple has some sort of thing for Red and tries to manipulate her into sorta loving her instead however it backfires because Red in obsessed with Blue. As people have mentioned in the lovefool video, Red's white eyes represent how her love for Blue isnt wrong, but her black nails show that her actions in how she is pursueing Blue is wrong. In this video she goes from White to Black eyes showing how her love is full on wrong obsession, as well as her hands have a full on gradiant showing was she doing is full on wrong. I also believe her sharp teeth may represent how her love hurts like how she bites blue around 0:54 Red's behavior goes full on creeper mode when she's analyzing what blue likes as shown on the board at 0:44. In some of the photos and the boards with the hearts seem to be her supporting herself in her thinking of "Omg blue loves me!". It also shows that she takes interest in how Blue is good/knowledgable about computers, and some of the ways that Lilac uses to try to lure blue in. She even tugs him by his tie like how lilac does. In 0:53 I believe the black marks is supposted to be a represention of her 'making her mark' on blue in a negative way. I think its curious as to how Red's outfit is mostly black trying to mimic the back actions of Lilac, i think black clothing represents the person using their body to try and lure somebody in (blue), however due to the fact that Red has a White underclothing showing, i believe that shows how she's trying to just "do it out of pure love" or even just how thats not how she would usually present herself and her "wholesome" love in still underneath. I do think her Bow represents maybe something going on in Red's head which could be another signal of her "pure love in her head" however again, extremely wrong and horrible execution and intentions.
this one hit real hard, especially that victim-blaming. i’ve never been s/a’ed, but the showcasing for victim-blaming was spot on, especially since it’s self-blaming. the weighing of “good” and “bad” and how most blamers tend to overdrive on the “bad” without even taking a delve into what really happened, and the prison of punishing one’s self for something they never did. it’s the same as victims of relationships s/h’ing not as a way of coping, but as a way of punishment. punishment for something they never did, but for something their mind and those around them manipulated into thinking they did. it’s actually sick. and it makes me both amazed and concerned at how accurately you depicted this. awesome animation, as always! hope you’re doing well, and take care of yourself.
I now understand what the red eyes are basically representing 😮 they’re literally representing how it’s basically victim blaming blue as a way to make him weaker so they can take even more advantage of him until he is unable to help himself and telling him that no matter how hard he try’s he’s forever gonna be trapped in a cage with no one to help.. I feel so bad for blue
Now, this really hits hard. 2:15 the fact that Blue feels guilty and sees himself as the bad guy because of the "judge" (which can be interpreted as the observations on Blue's behavior with Red and Pink) really hurts, apart from the fact that Blue does NOT have a mouth during that entire moment (perhaps meaning that he feels forced to remain silent) is what hurts the most. Seeing how Blue has to endure all of Red's harassment day after day is horrible, it really gives you that feeling of fear about HOW Blue is going to end up after these experiences. (Victaton, you are really doing a very good job with this series representing what a person who goes through these situations and events can go through. There are times when at least I identify with Blue because of having people like Red, Lavender or Pink near me. I LOVE YOUR WORK SMMM!
holy shit this was intensely disturbing but also meaningful, the way you have portrayed the unsettling atmosphere and showcased feelings of fear and hidden meanings, this is really well done
This video has too many things 😨 For starters that Purple made Red believe that Blue just wanted intimacy when that's not the case. Red likewise isn't innocent, she doesn't care that Blue already rejected her if not that she wants to do everything she can to be with him. He didn't care to see if Blue really enjoyed it or suffered with it. The part where they go into a trial is incredible, is a amazing metaphore in the sense that Vic did it very well. This time Red makes Blue believe that he is the devil and not her and that the only good thing he did was cover his face because for Pink's insinuations. Red makes Blue believe that he just wants intimacy and that honestly is terrible. On the other hand, the fact that Red's appearance changes, including her eyes and especially changes from white to black, basically it's like another part of her comes out and the worst, just to conquer Blue. I feel so bad for him tho... Edit: 1:31 - Red hitting Blue to get her to listen to him shows that she doesn't want to understand why Blue doesn't love her. And Lavender 1:18... just horrible for not helping her brother... P.S.: I love your animation and how you're bringing more awareness to this whole issue!
To be say in detail purple did try to tell red that blue was into pink bc he want a intimacy relationship with her, but pink likely get the idea of if she make a more mature or suggestive interaction toward blue she might get what she want And from purple's reaction it seems like red's idea was out of what she's planning
@@moshusdead4287 Yeah, it looks like Purple wants something with Red, but doesn't get it because Red is already obsessed with Blue. In itself, it's ironic that Purple feels surprised that Red is sick, since she's the same or even worse, only in a different way
Its creepy but true how this goes. In the beginning, red has pure but unhealthily love for blue, her eyelashes being white because her love is normal, and the black nails for unintentional bad actions. Purple trying to get blue out of her view made red accidentally misinterpret blue "only liking pink" as "if im hot/sexy/spicy and more physical contact, he'll love me back." Her eye lashes go balck and the hearts are dark and "dirty," like confusion and dirty sights or thoughts. In the end, red was probably given an explanation to her misinterpretation from the red eyes or something like that, and thats why her eyelashes and eyes are pure again like before.
I don't speak English very well, but I would like to say that his videos about these characters who represent various situations of abuse and victim are totally amazing and send such a strong message that it gives me goosebumps. The animation is so good that it's addictive because the movements are like cartoons.
Alright. First watch, so things i could gather 0:14 blue changes here, importsnt point to show that things are getting even worse (poor blue, stay strong) 0:18 purple is conving red that blue only seeks for s#x, that if she acted more "mature" blue would love her, and also i notced, her eyes become black, that would mean that the atention becomes way more uncofortsble for blue?? Or that her intentions become less pure, as her bubble of thinking shows how she is considering the optiom and the color changes graduatly 0:25 purple seem that she wanted red to become mature for her?? Or is it all part od her plot, anyways she is (still disgusting no matter what) 0:27 blue becomed white, and is in previous videos is show his heart apears whem he feels fear, probably a result for the alredy bad expierenced with pink and lavender, recognizing the behavior or relating it to pink, becauwe red logic thinks if blue liked pink and she acted *that* way, blue would love her too if she does the same 0:31 blue tries to convince himself that red is good? Or is red pretending to be good? Idk 0:32 previous asaulters, seems that blue does alredy compare red to the previoud expierences. 0:34 red gets in the middle, maybe a show that she wants to be the 'spot light" or at least be more important for blue that pink, also meaning that she is also one of them 0:35 blue tries to be nice, she takes it the wrong way 0:37 (just wanred to point this, poor blue, he doesn't deserve all of this) 0:40 red keeps giving him compliments amd sayinf stuff how much she loves blue, aka love bombing him, this also reminds le of the coffe poem. 0:43 she is analizing blue's behavior, trying to see any "signs" of him loving her back, getting stressed by the lack of results because there is no actual proor in comparation to pink 0:49 this scene reminds me way to much of a part od the "kiss me" video, red thinks if she is "mature" like pinl she would be loved, bluebis alredy drained of it, not giving a reaction like in the kiss me video 0:56 red crosed the line. She either startee to get touchy here or sugestive 1:04 blue wants to scape the situation, red keeps bringing him back to her, "why why why' she doesn't undestand what she is doing and is being very forcefull, choking blue by the tie, this gesture is also something that pink did in the "lovefool video" when blie started geting uncofortable around her 1:09 red is FORCING blue to touch her 1:11 she is saying her harassmet ins "love' as if it was normal 1:14 this scene in general hits personal, everyone has ever be in situation were a person is WAY to sexual to the point it scares , but this time is directly to blue, and alred living the things he did.. well, nothing good for the man. He is scared of what could hapend at any moment 1:15 blue still hides from red, but unlile the lovefool video he seeks someoke to 'protect" him, at this point not havinf a mouth, he can't say what is going on, so he just triew to avoid red by getting closer to a family member? (That is also an abuser fuck you lavender) 1:21 "please come rescue me" he is begging to be helped, but again as in the "sleep woth me" lavender brush it off having her eyes closed. But she still has eyes wich means she sees what is going on but ignores it, sugar coating it as red being "inocent" ( 1:17 i just noticed that the text us blue expect the "you" here. Meaning that blue wants to lavender to notixe the situatiom, and as if it shows in other videos lavender must be an authority in the work ofice, by the clothes the money etc, maybe wanting her to put measurments??) 1:32 red plan isn't working, at this point the poses are almost rhe same thar pink used?? 1:49 this part i am going to redume it as a whole, people blame blue for this, red victimises herseld by the tears?? , as always society blames the man, considering blue the bad one by the horns and the tail, he is the center of atention for them. He is "the problem' in the eyes, he is blamed for being a 'flirt" and make it seem as if red was the victim instras of the abuser, they make it look as if he wwas the one harasimg his co-workers insteas of the other way around, they put all of blue actions in "bad" and saying that he is the same as red by being a flirt?? The only "good' thing they consider is him not watching, maybe from the "sleepxwith me" meme, OR as if it was good that he didn't speak or recogmize his coworkers actions as harasment 2:08 they blame him eor not ruming away, something that is aas because victims can't say no, mostly if they were qlredy victims before, at the moment there is a bunch of toughs in someone's head. 2:10 blue doesn't want to hear those things anymore, showing his frustation smashimg the tv, he is sick of this situation, and needs to suffer alone because of society, 2:13 society is at the side of red, she seems to feel guilty?? Idk but she is draged away , matbe because the eye thinks she is the victim 2:14 red is alone. But the horns and mouth are still there, he now thinls he is the bad ome, blaming himself for his situation 2:35 i love the messages at the end, i love how it recognizes blue's situation Aaad that's my unesesary long resumen of things that were probably way to clear, i just wanted to contribute, my apolagizes if it's hard to understand, i am not a native english speaker so it's hard, love this serie and the awarness it's spreading in the comunity
Your whole analysis on the video is amazing and I wanna kinda add that In scenes such as 1:30 I noticed that the ‘marks’ that are shown as unconsent touches stay on the screen for longer even after red doesn’t do the touching thing (I’m so sorry I do not know how to describe it), this could show that this has an impact of blue for a long while (Idk if you already said that in other words cuz I scanned read your comment 😭)
I really REALLY hate when people defend Red , I've been a S/A victim of a lot of types , but this one is the most controversial and heartbreaking for me , why? Well because it happened to my boyfriend too , he had the same reaction as Blue , everytime I see this video it reminds me of him , the only difference is that he got me to defend him , Blue tried to run for help with his sister but it seems like it didn't work , in my case when he started freezing I get that he was uncomfortable so I helped him but my heart broke when he told me he was crying of frustration for not feeling like a good partner because he couldn't fight , as a victim I understood him and just conforted him.❤ When this case happened to me , the person was younger than me , that's why I get uncomfortable when people say that just because Purple told em something the fault is all for Purple like Red is Red. She choose to do that , Purple told em something I don't get what but my interpretation is "Blue is a cutie / hottie 🔥" , "he likes pink , not you , you're too good for him" , "hell no , keep trying with him , not me." I don't know if I'm right or not , but that's not the point , the point is she is an adult , yeah , she's younger , but younger doesn't mean innocent. She's not a little cutie potato who just wanted to be loved , she's a se*ual ab*ser and if you think she's innocent just because of that then you're acting like Lavender. Lavender told him that Red is a good person , totally ignoring how Blue feels. Please think more about the victim and stop defending the ab*sers.
The symbolism of Red’s obsession with red is what makes me sob my eyes out. In the first part of where we see her, she has gray nails ( or black depending on point of view ) and her ye only rarely get black at some times in the video. HOWEVER, here in this one, she changes her look completely, most likely trying to achieve Blue’s “type” so that he could love her. Her hair is put up, and she dresses in darker clothing, as well as her hands becoming darker and claw-like. I think that part is very interesting, showing her obsession getting much, MUCH WORSE.
0:22 Does anyone else notice Purple's tie going white? I interpreted it as Purple losing control of Red, either that or she's just terrified of Red's misled ideas ("going pale", you could say) but the red tie did return after that scene though
dude this just made me feel even worse for blue. I already didn't like how he was treated by pink, lavender, etc. but THIS is rlly showing how much everything has been burdening him and making him feel at fault. You rlly captured well the conflicts and different things in these situations Spectacular job Vic💙
Thank you so much for including the part with the "freeze response"!! When most people think of our body's responses to danger they usually think of "fight or flight" and are completely unaware of the freeze response. Up until it happened to me I didn't know about it either, and it's really easy to start believing it's your fault for not reacting, or trying to escape the situation. Remember that no matter what it's not your fault :)
i watch this video a lot because this is probably the video in the whole series that i relate to the most, sometimes i cry to this, that’s how accurate you captured it all. you’re a genius, keep it up with the good work, i love this series so much.
I’m glad to see what I experienced being portrayed accurately and people finally understanding through the eyes of a victim!!! Unwanted touch and love like this felt like you asked for it but to know It wasn’t that makes me smile. If that all makes sense I’m saying thank you for making this series.
Mhm! Absolutely agree Though i haven't been SA'd thankfully i have been touched without consent, and i had the same reaction as blue here So basically; I was alone with my music teacher and i was just snacking since i felt lonely He called and decided to teach me violin And i felt my fight or flight response kick in and my body chose to freeze cause when my teacher taught the violin he was behind me and touched me Only in the arm and hands thankfully but i was still mortified to be honest Never told anyone though and this was like months ago now
@@UTTP...LAPSOS Sure, that's your opinion, and I respect that, but telling me nobody cares about how validated I feel isn't going to make me check out your channel. Have a wonderful day.
Interesting thing I noticed! His eyes at the beginning is red in the center. Usually that means that he’s angry and his skin his very powerful blue, so that means that he keeps his anger inside of him to not heart her feelings. Also at the end, I noticed red looking at him from the “jail cell” as her eyes becomes white again. I think I’m dumb but it’s probably because she won. h Blue stopped fighting and noticed her more I think
The most saddest part here, most of this represents of character are use in modern media as “hot” or “cool”, making it normalized for people that it’s normal. Specially towards anime or just well animation, making young naive children making it think it’s ok to do such things, which is not good. Thank you so so much for showing the really awful parts of such sensitive topic that’s been getting normalized in modern media. As it could spread awareness for the things like this are really awful
I think this song represents how Red sees Blue's actions towards her if that makes sense? "I know what you want from me!" is her ASSUMPTION that he wants her, when he does not. I think her white eyes in previous videos symbollized it was only 'innocent crushing', but when the white parts turned black, she got more physical and direct and such. "More than just a fantasy!" She's trying to make her obsession a reality in her eyes. The red paint used to give Blue demon horns, a demon tail, and a evil / cheeky smile is how Red views Blue's actions towards her. Like " You're just using as bad!" blah blah. Notice how Blue doesn't have a mouth behind that smile. It's probably because he can't say anything unless he wants his words twisted into a false narrative. The Eyeball Judges / Red's Point of View personnels deem that Blue is the reason this all happened. He is being blammed. "Why didn't you run? Fight Back? Tell her how you truly felt about this??" Throughout this ENTIRE video, he has no mouth, so Red painted a devil's image on him herself. She's not letting him speak for himself. At the start of the video, only her nails are black. by the middle and end, her whole hands and the whiteness of her eyes are black. She seemed slightly tame at first, now she's all over the dang place over what seemed like a simple crush. That's just my analysis. I never commented on one of the videos in this series til now, but do know I watch them and appreciate you speaking up about Male SA. 💙💙
I really think that lavender appears younger as a "nurse" not only because she abused him and he can't remember but the fact that he sees her as a safe point in some episodes just as this one and the shut up version with pink
Did you guys noticed in the beginning, Purple's tie was red but after she got freaked out, it faded to white?? In 0:38, her hands turns into claws? Vic definitely puts so much into this
I feel like purple was trying to come onto red(?) saying that blue doesn’t like girls like her or smth, but then red became weird about it or smth (idk) and purple was probably disgusted or smth and left, her intentions changing, why her tie turned white (maybe?)
In the WUTIWANT video, Purples tie was blue/cyan, so I think her tie changes color depending on who shes preying on. I theorize she was preying on Red first for being young, innocent and probably naive, and then once she realized she was crazy as well she lost interest 🫠
I am so desperate to see an episode where Blue goes to therapy, and to see the reaction on his therapist’s face after he tells them everything I’m sure the amount of concern, disgust, and horror radiating from their face will be telling… like damn tell me when the recovery arch happens the poor dude has been through enough let him rest.😤
this is so sad and unsettling but its very helpful for people that want to learn more about SA. thank you for spreading awareness vic! its even worse because the ending makes me think his company found out about him and red and blamed him and made it seem like “oh youre the man you mustve made her do this” and now he’s afraid to speak out hence the devil horns and the prison
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You really captured the way to make people understand the uncomfortable situation that red puts blue in constantly when he's at his current lowest. You also really showed the way that people like red misinterpret things and come up with ideas of their own that somehow never put themselves in the wrong, and that shit really messes with victims bc it manipulates them into believing that they're at fault, not the abuser.
The beginning of the video 0:15 it appears that purple is trying to figure out a way to make red understand that blue doesn't love red, and has a sexual relationship with pink yet red seems to interpret it as if she tries hard enough he'll eventually love her 0:20 . And to "try hard enough" she'll need to try and start a sexual relationship with him. (I might be wrong which I probably am 😭)
Seeing this, purple understands that there's no point in trying to make red understand cause she won't be able to comprehend the fact that blue doesn't love her, which will I guess not work out for whatever plan purple has? 0:24
0:26 We then see that blue's response to any sight of red throughout the video is to freeze and tense up which is completely valid considering this is most likely very mentally exhausting as hes just been sexually harassed by pink.
0:30 It also seems as though he's trying to maybe view red in a positive light and not view her the same as pink bc all she's really done from this point is show constant affection towards blue 0:32 . Yet regardless of him trying to give her a chance, it begins to seem more apparent that red is really putting a toll on blue's mental health. 0:36
0:44 It seems purple is still in a way trying to figure out how to make red understand but it looks like(?) That red once again interprets this as she needs to be showing more physical affection..? 0:46 It honestly almost feels like she doesn't understand why blue doesn't love her as she's always drinking from a blue cup, always near him etc, while with pink it seems like from her view they barely interact. This is absolutely making red confused and really upset as she literally can't comprehend why blue wouldn't love her as she's always showering him in compliments as much as she is around him.
0:48 This is leaving red becoming more obsessive then she already was. Speaking to him more but more lovingly. Her nails throughout this video are really brought to attention than the others cause she's NOW doing even more harm but in her eyes she thinks she doing good bc she's just showing her love to him.
0:55 Her eyes then begin to blacken bc it looks like this is where her obsession with blue really begins to get bad. (Not like her obsession with him before was any better)
At 0:56 it looks like red bit him...? I think this might be hinting at her psychical affection increasing towards him and leaving him kind of afraid as he maybe notices that red is just like pink? This is also maybe showing that her affection is becoming a burden on blue as she continues.
At 1:01 we see that red's love really is a burden as its in a way bringing blue down. Her outfit also seems to have change, maybe to "fit" blue's taste. As we kind of know, red thinks that blue doesn't love her bc she's not like pink(?) Pink wears a black dress that shows her shoulders and comparing that to red's dress you can really see the similarities. 1:03 then shows that blue is really trying his best to separate himself from red, trying his best to not hurt her feelings. Despite this red drags him back, once again his fear prevents him from stopping her.
1:06 we see that red really is trying to be more flirtatious (just as pink was in earlier videos) it really seems as though she's just trying to fit herself in the image she made of "blue's type." 1:07 really puts that into the picture as she's just trying to get him to interact with her just as he did with pink, even clenching his hand bc in her eyes she thinks this is what he wants. 1:11 Really made me feel terrible for blue. People like red will never view themselves in the wrong. In her eyes she thinks she's doing the best, forcing herself upon him is what she thinks he's looking for. Without even realizing that she's practically putting words in his mouth. (Not literally) Continuing on she's still talking abt him but now in a more sexual manner(?) He's once again still afraid and im still not sure abt what the eyes mean as they surround him but maybe its his mind blaming him for not stopping her(?)
1:14 really shows his desperation as he goes to his sister as a last resort. The lyrics even saying "to make you see it too" in blue text, kind of shows that he wants to let his sister know abt the situation too. 1:19 the way blue looks at his sister literally kills me. It really just shows the absolute pain he's been through.
Unfortunately even though blue tries his best to let it be known abt his struggles we come across a situation that happens to a lot of victims. His sister claims that red's an innocent person. "she'd never do that, she's such a sweet person" is honestly the words I think of and it really hurts to see blue hear this, coming from his own sister. She also says that if she confront purple abt red that purple would get mad so she doesn't want to get in trouble.
1:24 Blue's realized that there's no one for him and he's alone in this :(
This shit really hurts to see cause he's really at his lowest at this point in time. His sister has left him and it feels like anything he does is hopeless. 1:25 and red takes this opportunity. Most likely without knowing but she hits him when he's at his worst. Showering him with more love as you see the love letters. Everythings becoming a really dark red and black as her affection on blue is making everything worse for him. :(
1:30 I also notice that she's lifting her dress (?) Probably trying to get him to touch her bc once again she thinks he wants this.... but at 1:32 she's becoming frustrated and hitting his back bc she can't understand why he doesn't love her. After all her hard work to becoming his "type" why isn't it working.
1:37 I think this is where red finally takes it way too far for blue. It appears as though he's in a pile of envelopes, probably meaning all the love and affection she's showed towards him. Blue is in tears and in obvious fear of red, as she appears to be on top of him. I also think that this is where she might be harassed him as we see black hearts on his cheeks which throughout this series we've recognized that black on blue's body has usually meant that he's been sexually harassed there.
1:44 we see a door open and everything begins to sort of confuse me 😭
We see people with eyes as heads carry blue to a court and begin to prosecute him and make him seem like he's the villain. I think this may mean like why he didn't stop any of the interactions he had with the women who've harassed him(?) What victims are commonly told when their sexual harassed is that they asked for it and I think this is what this scene is portraying. "If you never wanted to get sexually harassed, why'd you flirt with pink? Why did you keep leading red on knowing her feelings?" At 2:03 we see that the "judge" has made their choice and it seems that blue seems himself as the reason why everything has happened to him. Him talking to red while she loved him, him "showing he was sexually aroused", and having an affair with pink. This leaves him as the "one at fault"
2:07 we sort of see the things I explained as he's questioned why he didn't just walk away from red , why didn't he just say no, why didn't he yell at her? Victims of sexual assault are asked these stupid ass questions, forcing them to blame themselves in these situations just as blue is doing so right now to himself. Blue smacks the TV screen showing this as he appears to be behind bars (portraying that he's at fault for his own abuse happened to him) Red is then taken away by the "judge" as if proving her innocence in this whole situation.
2:15 is then showing blue with the horns and grin as he seems himself as the abuser and the person at fault for everything happening to him.
This video was genuinely an excellent way of portraying the stupid shit victims are manipulated into believing. Red being the pushing factor into blue believing this is 100% gonna affect him as we still don't know what purple's plan is. Vic you're honestly doing such a great job and honestly thank you so much for bringing light to these types of sexual assault and the tactics used to make victims blame themselves. As I think you said in a previous video, abusers take advantage of this shit and by bringing this to attention, you're bring awareness to this type of manipulation so once again thank you.
You did such a good job reviewing this ngl 😭
@@Zyxy-Favplayyumms thank you so much, it took a whole hour to type it and i was watching the video in slow motion so it was a lot 😭
2:13 who's that?
@@Dangosauri read the whole interview and it’s amazing just wow and it makes so much sense normally i just see some and like but this one caught my eye, you where like MatPat you could make videos explaining lore! Ofc you don’t have to i just want to say this whole thing is amazing!
im going to eat this because its AHHH ITS SO WELL DONE IM EATING IT YOU DID SUCH A GREAT JOB AT DOING THIS‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I love the part where blue almowt blames himself for the assult which explains why he's given up to fight anymore,In his mind he`s not a victime he's a victimizes other and gives up with his own voice
Same
What is the part you're talking about? Can you give me the timestamp?
@@natee4728 1:58 I think
I think that's the board framing him as a bad person
@@rr555._. thanks!
I love how Red started with white eyes, clothing, a white bow, to show that she meant no harm but just loved him too much. This then changes to black eyes and dark colored clothing, and even her turning into a monster with black claws to show that she's taking it too far and it's becoming an even bigger issue.
Her eyes then become white again once she sees how depressed and destroyed Blue is, realizing she messed up.
Also the part with a council of eyes (on lookers) determining if he's evil or not just by what THEY'VE seen, and not the ACTUAL story. Also the little text bubbles at 2:07 asking him (why didn't you run?" "why didn't you say no?" are all things victims get asked to make them feel as if it's THEIR fault. It explains victim blaming really well.
All in all, I feel really bad for Blue, and I hope he can get a happy ending eventually.
Aghhh fr. I think the dark outfit was her sxualizing herself for him tho
oh also she saw how much blue liked pink so she put a dress just like hers on :)
Unrelated but while I was sing sweet little bumble bee I accidently said “sweet little virgin bee”
@@denisechannel6019 WHAT
@@new_username4733 ALSO IS RED AN ALAN BECKER REFERENCE?1??11?1?1?1?1 /j (im addicted to alan becker)
The fact that blue took off lavenders coat after having the little fight with her and it slowly becomes white instead of blue, and the fact that’s he’s now realizing that he has no one left as he hugs the coat craving for lavenders comfort and presence just makes me wanna cry….
And he wishes that Lavender could become his protector again like how he always saw her-
GOD
I actually cried on that scene,i know how that feels,i know that of feeling of wanting comfort..And not having anyone to give it to you!
Because something happened to me with my big sister,i was having a really bad discussion with my mom,so i searched her for comfort..But she just leave me,saying me "Just go,mom is not gonna hurt you",that day i felt..Empty,in that moment i just hugged strongly her arm,searching for comfort,and she just leave me. I even started criying and saying "Don't leave me please!" I know what Blue was feeling in that moment,and that's just..Sad.
And how fast Red springs on him while he's mourning...she doesn't even give him the chance to process his feelings before bombarding him
Bro I just want Blue to get a happy ending bro
@@not-so-obvious_autism777I think he will get it considering End blue seems pretty happy
2:07 I think this scene is supposed to represent Victim Blaming Ex: "Why didn't you run away?" "Did you say no? Did you like it?" , "did you fight back?" Etc... seen it happen way too many times- even people of authorities such as police do this.
victim blaming is a way of shifting blame from the abuser to the victim. it implies that the victim's actions contributed to the incident or were the
cause of it, rather than accepting that the abuser has sole responsibility for it. in the context of s*xual assault, this can involve suggesting that the victim was somehow responsible for their own assault because of what they were wearing, how they acted in the environment, or how they responded to it -
Yeah i think too
yeahh probably
I thought about people misinterpreting the situation and thinking that blue was the one harassing her
Yeah pretty much
Most people tought i enjoyed SA because i never fought back and stayed still and shook. The awareness Victaton spread made me feel more understood then ive ever been before
Oh boy this one has been C R E E P Y
For what I can assume, Purple has tried to demoralize Red from chasing Blue because under her point of view since "Blue is a playboy" he would only be interested in hot girls hence Red's innocence would bring down her "value" (again, this under Purple's point of view) but instead of taking it as a bad thing, Red interprets it as that she must get rid of her innocence and act like her to attract Blue something that, ironically for the first time, freaks out even Purple who asks her to ignore what she said and just "be herself"
Purple in this case doesn't seem to be trying to influence in Red in a negative way, but she does seem to enjoy messing with her and bringing her moral down hence why she said all of those things and how she seems to have fun with Red's shenanigans until this ones get out of hand.
From here on, we can see how Red is using her nails, by forcing Blue to stay and give her affection, this goes until the video starts getting actually creepy in the "trial" where I can assume that Red is victim blaming him, trying to responsabilice him for not giving her attention and saying that Pink cheating on her fiance is HIS fault even if Pink is the one who should know better, hence why Blue is painted with demon horns and tails since her words make him believe he is the bad guy for feeling like he does.
This is quite common among abuse survivors who are prone to say they deserve everything bad that they go through because their self stem has been lowered so much that they believe they are responsible for their abusers' behavior
This one is probably the longest one vic made.. also is pink really blue's fiancée? i don't remember seeing anything that could indicate that
Also hi tanuki i remember you from btb's server lol (im ashey)
ALSO I misinterpreted this scene at first 1:21. Lavender is not trying to reason with Red, but try to fend off Blue calling him an exaggerated since "Red is so nice" and abandoning him with her. I know Purple is the one portrayed as the worst but Lavender really shows at any time how horrible she is, not only she is an incestuous vouyeur who manipulates and gaslights Blue, but she also allows the abuse done by other girls to continue through turning a blind eye, first time with Pink and now with Red and this will for sure affect to his view of his colleagues and isolation since he cannot even trust his own family to stand up for him plus also contributing to the victim blaming and making him believe he is actually the crazy one of the group
@@ahseymania Blue is Pink's lover, the fiancee is the wolf man we have seen in pictures
Also, hi there
@@ItsTanuki0_Clock ahhh alright thanks
Heello
@@ItsTanuki0_ClockTHAT WOLF IS INDIGO-
0:31 seeing how Lavander is scrimbled over makes me think that Lavender played „doctor” when they were little (this COCSA, child on child sexual abuse/assault) and seeing that on top on her there is a cyan question Mark(which could be symbolising that he doesnt understand her role in this story)BUT This ALSO makes me think one thing: Blue FORGOT about said event because as someone who went throught CSA and its actually just a general thing that happens to traumatised people: Your brain can make you forget certain traumatising events as a protective mechanism, trauma can be so damaging to us that our brain in attempt to protect us hides thus deep beneth our brain.
Is there any way I can learn about what "Doctor" is? I want to inform myself and I don't know what I could even search up to learn about this, genuinely just asking if you don't want to answer I understand
@@xandergonzalez8071I think it’s cause doctors usually have yknow check your body for any ailments and such so maybe it’s supposed to show how lavender used to check Blues body or touch parts of him to check if he’s “sick”
@@xandergonzalez8071she's doctor cuz she wants to "help" blue in areas that are not for kids to touch
@@GOOFYCAT182 that makes sense thank you/gen
Woah
Red completely changed herself drastically just for Blue, and her color went a deeper shade of red. It clearly shows her uncontrollable nature of her love for blue, really shows the obsessive nature getting stronger and spiraling out of control. One thing I did notice with Pink as well, with the old photo of her getting married. Her pink colors was a bit lighter in there. Poor Blue hoped he gets help💙
Edit : one last thing I noticed was that Red might’ve been trying to mimic Pink with her dress. She had her on the board of Blue and they were seemingly dating at the first episodes, and did see them together.
That's messed up of Red. I do hope the Blue seeks help from someone he can fully trust. Blue doesn't deserve that
not only that but her old clothes were white while these new ones are dark blue, blue both to represent her obsession with blue, and a dark shade of blue since white and other light colors seem to represent consent or good intentions, while dark colors represent the opposite, which is also why she's changed to a deeper red and her eyes have changed from white to black.
it's wild how he can make even the smallest decisions have meaning like that, and he's said before that just about everything in the series is done on purpose to mean something.
@@jasperjazzie oh wow! I didn't notice that before!
@@-That_0ne_k1d-Agreed :(
@@jasperjazzieMhm
The scene of Blue hiding behind Lavender broke my heart, she's a horrible sister who's hurt him MULTIPLE times, yet he still tried to go to her for help since she's his older sister and who else would he go to?
the fact lavender actually got concerned
Yea
And she didn’t do anything in the end. Lavender looked only a tad bit worried before trying to get herself out of the situation. As an older sibling myself, I honestly am very disappointed in her, although she’s just a fictional character.
Don't forget abotu Lavender in Nurse Outfit(And with scribbled face), that represent cases of Child on Child SA.
Some kids are curious about thierand others bodies so they play nurse and doctors, a profesions that are based on touching bodies.
But some kids push too far, and these kids ended up SA their playmate
@@Cupid_831 Nope. Victation said Lavender and blue are in the same age range
1:17 a little detail here, is that while red is wearing more a more "sexified" and mature style (with that long dark dress and a different hairstyle), but her shoes looks odly out of place in her outfit. They are cute while shoes with light blue socks, looks like something a child would wear.
I intrepet this, as it is supposed to represent that, no matter what Red does with her appeareance or changes her actitude, thats all her faking to attract Blue, and that she still that naive, inmature and inexperienced girl that we saw on the other videos (and the first part of this one).
She is the youngest of them all, she is barely 19 when everyone else is around 25 or older there. It is clear that her whole behaviour is a result of her inexperience with love (Blue could be her first crush ever, maybe thats why she is so obbsesive), and all the people older than her ignoring or downplaying her behaviour, convicing her that she isnt doing anything wrong.
Honestly, she reminds me a lot of young people (like 13-16yos) who have a fcked up view of romance and how it works, thanks to adults in their life not teaching them or also "romance" sitcoms, books and animes that gives them a very unrealistic view on romantic relationship.
These people tend to do very uncomfortable things for their crushes; like giving unwanted flirting, not acepting a "no" from them and keep trying things to "gain their love", making big extravagant confessions in front of the whole school, asking them out and threating them to do something dangerous if they say no ("if you dont go out with me i will jump from the top of that tree!"). All bad things that they are conviced is cute and romantic.
Most people grew up of that around 18yo, the fact that Red is 19yo and she STILL thinks that invading the privacy of her crush and keep harassing him even after a clear "No" is so sad.
So, is there any child reading this that needs to hear this; please, remember that your crush is also a person, unless that they expressed being interested in you back dont try to make extravagant confessions that could make them uncomfortable, and acept their "no" if they dont love you back.
Your crush wont magically fall in love with you after rejecting you just because you gifted them a giant teddy bear and asked them out in front of the whole school. That is not romantic or cute or sweet, thats uncomfortable for them, manipulative and it will make them feel like they are bad people for not loving you back.
If you really respected your crush as a person, dont do any of that.
I did a lot of extravagant (in front of everyone) things for a crush back in primary school. The moment she had to literally yell at me to stop because it’s too much for her, I listened and began to move on because I just wanted her to be happy. I wish the adults around me would’ve told me this sooner and told me better strategies to express my interest in her. I did all that because that was what I saw in cartoons as expressions of love towards a crush. After watching this video I genuinely feel bad for what I did because it was wrong of me and she was very brave to be able to tell me that.
If anyone inexperienced with crushes and love reads this please don’t do extravagant things in front of everyone for your crush, just be friendly and do small things for them without it being too much or ever expecting it to result in them liking them back. ALWAYS take no for an answer and don’t try anything else the moment they said no.
oh.. i experience this.. i have a victim named 'piang nicolas nash lander' i thought my love would effect him and i dont understand why he still dont love me i always give him love letter and always telling my classmates that i have a crush on him.. ive been obsessed with him until he move another section or classroom.. when he sees me he would hide back of my classmates.. trying to hide from me.. but now in the 4 quarter i read this and understand that he feels uncomfortable what am i doing and always give him a letter infront of my classmates but i feel uncomfortable too when my mates always teasing me that i liked him..
Bro, Blue didn’t even deserve this, it wasn’t even his fault. Just because Red is 19 and he’s 25 doesn’t make her innocent, cause she was the one sexually harassing him 🙁
Edit: For those who don’t believe me that Red is 19 and Blue is 25, Vic had a community tab post talking about it if you just scroll through it a bit
Fr though. Blue did nothing wrong he was just minding his business :(
SHE 19!!!!
@@Reaper-devil I thought she was 15?
@@mayleeg she wouldn't be in a work setting like that if she was 15
I did not know they had ages 😭
The way Blue asked Lavender help and even if she wanted, she didn't do anything (only convincing him that Red is good), made me really sad
I KNOW RIGHT ITS SAD KINDA
It’s also probably part of what led to the victim blaming. Telling someone about someone else’s abusive behavior only for them to explain why that person isn’t bad, make you think that you are obligated to keep interacting with them or that their behavior isn’t bad
WHEN I SAW THAT PART I WAS LIKE “NO NO NOT AGAIN” AND BLUE WAS SO SCARED I FELT SO BAD FOR HIM
Oh so you are here as well? Then hi donut
They way he just kinda broke 😢
I really like how you made it clear the purple wasn't encouraging red to go after blue. It'll prevent people from blaming purple for Red's actions, allowing her to keep her "innocence"
1:48 I theorize that Blue probably got in trouble with the compony for being found in a suggestive position with a younger and more inexperienced employee. Blue might not’ve been fired but he probably either got demoted to a lower position in his job, a pay check cut and/or is now having rumours about him spread throughout the whole office. In edition to that Red was probably moved to another section in the office building to keep her separate from Blue.
I really liked your theory, maybe that's why we won't see red anymore
Good theory
That's what I thought, but you worded it better.
Hey u got hearted maybe u r correct
That makes sense, I didn't understood the eyes at first, now I get that the light is some kind of door opening and the eyes we're witnesses
The fact that even if Lavender ignored Blue in "Shut up and Sleep with me", he still called for her help 'cause she's his blood and she's the one he could trust more, yet she STILL ignored this situation. Also I noticed at the end 2:13 Red's eyes turned back to white. Probably she realised what she was doing wrong, or her obsession decreeased.
OH MY GOSH FINALLY SOMEONE WHO NOTICED THE ENDING
Frrr
OMG YOU'RE RIGHT WTH
Oh, good catch!
So they ARE siblings? I’ve been getting mixed messages 😅
2:24 this is the third option that I like to call “fright.” The victim doesn’t exactly give a reaction, yet whatever happened still affects them.
Fun fact: the more angry blue gets, he gets more and more neon. If you observe “look don’t touch” the part where blue gets mad and slowly calms down, you see he was a lighter shade of blue then slowly went darker
WOW thank you :D
Edit: MOM i's famous!😭 Thank youuu
I think any heightened emotion along with anger will do the same. For example here when he's petrified of Red he lightens more and more until he is white, and when he was trying to just be nice while still being uncomfortable in other shots he turns lighter shades of blue again.
What about Red? I saw that she is more redder then she was before.
His eyes sometimes turn red too, I don't know what it means but I wanted to point it out
@@krystaIIic also red.
The prison is a metaphore.
The prison is a metaphore.
Ooo okay!
Ok.
Hello I’m a huge fan!
so he`s feeling trapped right? because i kinda felt the same way once
I just want to say how accurate this is. I’ve recently experienced exactly what Blue is going through with an online friend, and it’s so easy for even good-intentions to turn out to be mentally draining from the way it’s done. And it makes you believe you’re the bad one for leading them on or denying their affections because to outsiders it seems completely normal.
The change of lyrics from " More than just *A* fantasy " to " More than just *YOUR* fantasy " and " *I* know what you want from *ME* " to " *YOU* know what you want from *HER* " shows how they're blaming Blue in such a subtle way and I love how its represented. I'm so glad people are covering this topic more, victims need their voices to be heard.
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OH MY GOD WAIT THAT'S ACTUALLY GENIUS HOLY SHIT
@@jollyjol I KNOW BRO ITS SO SUBTLE BUT SO POWERFUL
Off topic but KARL PFP
@@rawrxin AYEEE :3
I love the audio change at the end when he’s being taken away.
“We know what you want from *her* “
“More than just *your* fantasy”
It shows how others are seeing this situation as if he manipulated her and this was his idea. Then going on to say “why didn’t you say no” “you could’ve left”. It’s such a small yet great detail to add
I knew I wasn’t just hearing that differently-
Lavender being in a nurse outfit kinda points to COCSA, the outfit probably being a nod to how exactly Lavender went about it.
“Wanna play doctor?”
Also Lavender’s jacket losing the blue color is most likely a representation of how the connection she and Blue had is completely gone. After everything she did he came to HER for help and she didn’t do a thing but tell him he’s got it all wrong, that Red just has a school girl crush. Despite everything THAT was the moment Blue lost all faith in his sister, lost any faith that she cared for him and would help.
I find it interesting that Purple is so clearly uncomfortable with the way Red is going about this, she visibly tries to talk Red down multiple times. It would be very easy for someone to say “Red was manipulated by Purple to do this” so I’m happy Vic made it very clear that isn’t the case, and even if Red is a victim of Grooming that is not a justification of her actions towards Blue and Purple (no matter how shitty she is) isn’t the reason for Red doing that.
At 2:04, you can see the ‘court’ judging Blue based off his actions. The ones that ‘put him in the wrong’ and deserving of what happened, and the one that paints him as a good guy. The bad being “ignoring red’s affection”, “Being flirtatious/ just sexual in general”, and “flirting with a married woman”. And the only good one being the way he tried to ignore Pink’s advances once he learned she was married. It’s a representation of how victims in the real world are blamed and judged, people deciding whether or not they deserved their assault. Further proved by the way the judge starts asking him stuff like “Why didn’t you run?” “Why didn’t you say no?” “Why didn’t you fight?”
2:13 Notice how Red's eyes return to white, Imo its like she decided to see him from afar and slowly started noticing that her love was wrong. Her hearts wont dissapear, wich could mean that she still loves him yet realized what she did.
Her colour seemed to get lighter as well.
Frr
DDINT NOTIC3 THAT SOMEHOW
Maybe it means what she did which is what she thought was okay wasn't gonna be effective to get his love
And I believe that the black is just her taking purple's lesson wrong, taking a step further, and further, and further. She eventually crossed that line and started to become completely obsessed, not holding back.
the fact that blue completely ignored all the awful things lavender did in previous episodes to him but still chose to run to her for safety because she's the closest person he has in the company and in the end she just leaves him to fend for himself AGAIN she's just beyond awful she sees blue's suffering clearly and yet does absolutely nothing to help i just seriously hope something good happens to blue for once
But she does help him. If you see the text bubbles you’ll see that she says something like “I’m gonna tell purple and she’ll get mad”, but it seems the protection was temporal since lavender can’t be all the day with Blue, she’s got her own work to do, and Red got advantage of when her and Blue were alone.
@@833dbmOsbejzI’ve seen other people say she was excusing her that purple was calling her and then the weight of blue which was shown in her blue jacket was taken off after she left
@@833dbmOsbejz that doesn't seem to be the case at all, we've seen lavender turn her back on blue in the "sleep with me" video if she didn't help blue back then with pink then why would she do it now, she clearly doesn't want to do anything about this situation no matter how badly blue asks for help and in the speech bubbles she was probably just convincing blue that red was not that type of girl and that she needs to get going otherwise purple will get mad at her she's just trying to get out of there
@@LxttlePreciøuz That seems like an interesting theory. It’s amazing how people notice those details. I might have to re-watch the video. Thanks!
ive rewatched this series several times and god i LOVE the little detail in 1:47 where the lyrics are changed to ''we know what you want from her'' VERY good little touch
The lyric also changes to “more than just your fantasy” I think!! Pretty interesting,
TW/CW for what I’m going to write:
-Bro this hits waaaaay too close to home. I was s/a’ed by a family member multiple times, and when I went to my grandma for help or to tell her what happened she blamed me. Saying it was my fault for being there and for wearing what I did. I was made to believe it was my fault for things I didn’t ask for. Vic your work is amazing and I hope you know you make a lot of us feel seen. Take care love💕
I hope that you okay now ❤
Hope ur okay dude
I hope you are okay and safe now from your family member. I hate that people don't understand us and blaming on us when I didn't asked for. I'm sorry of what you been through and dealing with and I hope you take care yourself and they leave you alone. Best of luck, hope you doing fine.
@aylinkushbakova7562 depends on which you’re talking about
@aylinkushbakova7562 no only one is a family member, as I have only three family members who have taken advantage of me and I’ve only drawn one. Which also I’ve only drawn twice
something like this happened to me last night. ive been groomed online before, but i thought id be capable enough to not let it happen irl. luckily i had a friend looking after me who took me away from the situation when she realized i was gone with them for more than 3 minutes. i froze up and i still hate the fact that i did, so the message at the end helped a lot.
shit dude u ok?? :(
@@theguywhoaskedd lowkey im still getting over it bc it was by someone who was my friend, but luckily nothing extreme happened so ive been okay. thank u tho ^^
This has happened to me before, I’ve been seen as the abuser when I was the victim. Being a male victim is truly the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced.
Edit: Wow, I genuinely never expected to ge any sympathy at all. This means the world to me, since no one irl shows much disdain for what’s happened to me. Thank you, kind strangers.❤️
Edit 2: Yes, my mother is getting the treatment she deserves. My therapist contacted CPS and whether she goes to jail or not, I’ll never see her again due to multiple interviews and body checkups/blood & salvia tests I’ve had.
Edit 3: What previously stated isn’t the only thing that’s happened, unfortunately. I’ve had several friends who’ve s/a’ed and or raped me, my mother also sold me to a man so he could rape me.
Overall, most of my trauma comes from women. I am a man, a male, a teenage boy, struggling everyday just because some creepy women couldn’t keep their hands off of me, not even my own mother.
I'm sorry :(
I hope things are better now ❤
I really hope you're doing well now.
That's awful. People seriously need to learn that men can be victims to right now!
It mainly because it doesn't happen often and two how men are view today@@aheartoflove377
I hate to say this but I relate 😭
Okay I thought lavender was scary but 1:40 is absolutely horrifying how nightmare-inducing is this series going to get
ong bro
As a man whose been SAed, these videos really are so accurate. Atleast considering my own situtation, they reflect so much on the expierences of men whove been in these circumstances and i hope you get everything you want in life
I honestly wanted to cry at the last part where you went over survival instincts. I’m always told that because I just froze and didn’t do anything means that I “liked” it or “wanted” it. I DIDN’T WANT IT. I WAS ONLY IN 2-3 GRADE. I was terrified and didn’t know what to do.
Im so sorry for what you’ve gone through. No one should ever deserve this! I hope you recovered or that your recovery is going well. Stay strong
I am so sorry for that, I don’t imagine passing through that being only a little child…..
@@Asua1 I’m still recovering from it, thank you 🩷🩷
@@sunday7972 Thank you so much 🩷🩷 I’m getting better and I hope you never have to go through anything like thar
@@that.booooo your welcome! I hope it’s going well! Your gonna make it :))
i love the detail that at 1:22 because it seems that BLUE accidentally (?) takes LAVENDER's coat off (which was also in BLUE's color, representing the trust he had in LAVENDER, or maybe just their relstionship as siblings) in which it turns white, and BLUE hugs it out of helplessness. He's alone, scared, has basically no voice (haha get it cause he has nO MOUTH) and has nobody to turn to. Everyone he's trusted has betrayed him in one way or another. (except for LILAC, but she doesn't seem present in this one as far as i can tell). I love this series so much :(
Thanks for pointing that out I didn't understand that part.
As a woman. I think I need to say this. I’m sorry men.
Wow... It almost seems like Purple tried to convince Red to not pursue Blue because he didn't like her.
You know things are going to far when even the one who is the worst of all this abusers tries to turn Red off from that new perspective she got
i feel like purple only did it so he could have red, since hes "touchy" whenever hes with her, but when he saw Red getting obsessive he got distant.
@@Syri4apurple is also a woman!
Other than that I very much agree with you.
@@Syri4ai feel like it would be strange though, since red is 19 and purple is 40,, i think its more of convincing her blue doesn’t like her so she can have him instead
@@kiraly_stuff OH SHE IS? SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN IM SORRY
0:14: Red is telling Purple that she likes Blue. Purple responds by claiming Blue is only into “fire” (inappropriate stuff) which is supposedly why he likes Pink, and uses this as a reason to say that Blue would never like Red because she’s too innocent. Purple does this while holding Red’s face, and judging based on her behavior here and in previous videos, it’s clear that Purple is trying to groom Red into moving on from Blue and to trust Purple more to gain control.
0:20: Red takes this information completely differently than Purple intended. She thinks that if Blue won’t like her while she acts innocent, he’ll like her if he starts to act more seductive like Pink. Red thanks Purple for the help and says that she’ll accept the advice. However, Purple is distressed at this information because it’s not going the way she expected, so she leaves and swats her away because she knows that she won’t get the control she wanted if Red is only going to chase after Blue. This is also when Red’s eyes turn black, signifying the obsessive love is becoming assaultive.
0:25: This takes place before Purple talks to Red because her eyes are white again. “My heart makes a beat when you walk in the room” is being spoken by Blue, but his heart is beating from fear rather than from crushing on Red. “I go boom boom boom you go zoom zoom zoom” with the angel over Red shows again that Blue’s heart is beating from fear while Red’s heart is beating from having a “sweet innocent crush”.
0:31: I believe the nurse is Lavender, but both the nurse and Pink say “You’re my playboy, playboy” meaning they view him in more of an inappropriate light while Red says “Lover my friend”, meaning that her love was more “lovey” back here, again taking place before Purple talked to Red since her eyes are still white. “I want to be with you until the end” is also more of her motivation to change herself so drastically just to get with Blue.
0:37: “I’d give my heart and my soul to you” showing she would literally do anything to be with him, even change her entire character. “I’m so confused baby can’t you see, please come rescue me” is around when Red breaks since she’s so confused why Blue won’t love her.
0:50: “I know what you want from me” implies that she now knows Blue only wants her in an “inappropriate way” because the board she was looking at earlier showed Blue only reciprocating affection to people who were inappropriate with him. This also is followed by her eyes turning black, which is after she learnt her new plan to act more inappropriately around Blue to get him to love her.
1:00: Here she completely changed, dressing and acting more like Pink, dragging him back into a room and forcing her to touch her hair, face, and chest. She clings to his chest and digs her nails into him as a way to force him to stay, and also slightly mimics Pink with this behavior since Pink would do a lot of these things to blue.
1:12: Red is now talking more inappropriately to Blue, saying that since she’s a girl and he’s a boy, they can do “hot things” together. This makes Blue super uncomfortable, so he rushes to Lavender to protect him. “To make you see it through” playing in the back while Blue hides behind Lavender shows that Blue is trying to get Lavender to see what Red is doing to him. Lavender seems confused, “I’m so confused” playing in the background enforcing this, and swats Blue away saying that there’s no point in making a deal out of it since Red appears like such an angel to everyone and going to Purple about it will just make her mad.
1:24: Blue is hopeless since he feels like he’ll never be saved. Red breaks through saying “I know what you want from me” since she thinks that since all Blue wants is inappropriate things, so she’s acting that way to get with him.
1:30: Red bangs on Blue out of anger, as she is confused why Blue is still uncomfortable despite Red acting in the way she thinks he wants. It gets worse when Red is on top of Blue, angry and crying because of that.
1:40: This scene can be interpreted in many ways since going to prison is a metaphor, but most likely someone came in the room and saw the two acting this way which is why they’re eyes in business suits. “We know what you want from her” means that they think all he wants from Red is inappropriate things.
1:52: This part is a metaphor of victim blaming, taking place in an imaginary courthouse. There are red devil horns and teeth drawn on Blue, and them being Red signifies that it’s Red making him feel like he’s the bad person.
1:58: Here we can see that Red is spinning all of the previous stories with Blue into him being the one in the wrong, while Red was the angel. A board appears of things that “Blue did wrong” and things that “Blue did right”. In the “Blue did wrong” section, Red lists that Blue would ignore her, he only wants inappropriate stuff, and he’s a homewrecker for getting in the way of Pink and her marriage. In the “Blue did right” section, it’s only the time that Blue looked away from Pink’s body.
2:04: Blue is extremely distraught and starts to believe that Red might be right and that he is the person in the wrong, when he really isn’t and this is all gaslighting from Red’s end to make her seem like the better person.
2:06: I assume these are metaphorical witnesses for if Blue tried to go to someone about it. They are wondering why Blue never ran, pushed her away, or got mad, if he really didn’t want what Red was doing to him.
2:10: Blue smashes the metaphorical court scene, the TV almost representing him replaying the events over and over in his head, while he sits distraught. Red sees how broken Blue has become, and seemingly gives up her pursuit of him because now it’s really clear he won’t want her, while Blue is staring at the screen, still with the devil horns and teeth on him as he feels like the person in the wrong.
I feel bad for blue :(
1. I think Purple would rather spend more time with Red than control her. 2. It seems to me that Purple is just telling the truth about what she thinks of Red, and maybe even trying to compliment her. But the wrong words only make the situation worse. 3. In general, I have a small assumption that purple does not like blue, because red could somehow change to like blue more, and began to spend less time with purple than before, and the fact that purple is quite jealous of red for blue, even suppressing it. (If anything, I'm not saying that Purple is an angel who wants only good things for red, she's clearly not the nicest person, and can consciously control and manipulate red (which is very suitable for her actions and image), but for the most part I think purple is a good friend for red and tries to help as much as she can♡)
@@bea1173 And for reference: Purple is 40, Blue is 25, meanwhile Red is only *19.* These were confirmed in the community posts.
These relationships are ALL *UNHEALTHY, TOXIC, MANIPULATIVE, AND UN-CONSENSUAL.*
Pls stop twisting the meaning of this story, it’s supposed to spread awareness about Sexual harassment and assault, not paint a love story or friendship between two characters, lol. (Especially when one of those characters is EXTREMELY underaged and WAYY too young to even be “just friends” with Purple.)
(Besides maybe Blue and Lilac, which is the pink, chubby girl with the puffy bun, not to be mistaken with Pink, another older woman who takes advantage of Blue and forced him into doing inappropriate things with her.)
Damn this is deep
It's strange to see these animations get so popular and grow its own fandom.
I just love how your animations speak of how uncomfortable and traumatizing SA can be just through expressions without romanticizing it. It's the best way to spread awareness for this kind of thing. Poor little Blue. He deserves so much better.
I like how when red draws on the screen, she’s obviously trying to draw hearts, but ends up making a cross or an “X” sign. Showing how her behavior is more abusive.
exactlyyy
Ok, so this is my theory.
As Victaton said, this is the last time that we will see Red in these videos, and now that we have seen Blue in a metaphorical cage, we can explain a lot of things about this.
First of all, we can say that what somehow influenced Red's actions was Purple telling Red the truth about Blue's affair with Pink, which makes Red try her best to be less cute or “innocent” and be more hot, like Pink being “perfect” for Blue.
We can see how Blue is now more alert to each girl that is approaching him because of his trauma with Pink or Lilac. But with Red, this was different since he saw her as a little inoffensive girl who is sometimes stubborn.
What Blue didn’t know was that Red was becoming more obsessed with him. And with each interaction they two had, Red was getting more possessive and aggressive/sexual with her touch and words, while Blue tried his best to not damage her heart. He always thought that Red wasn't a bad person, so he tried his best to put boundaries between them both so they could keep being friends.
Now the problems came here: Red didn’t listen; she never listened, since she always thinks just about herself without thinking about the consequences of her actions. Instead of her realizing that Blue didn't love her and needed to move forward, she just tries to change, and somehow she pressures and obligates Blue to love her. So she keeps getting worse with her sexual harassment, not wanting to let go of Blue, so he will be just for herself.
One time, Blue tried to get help while being with Lilac since he was now scared of Red. This is where the interesting thing happens. We know Lilac was one of the abusers of Blue, seeing how she sees him with other intentions in the video "Look Don't Touch" or when she sees Blue trying to get her help in "Shut up and sleep with me." And Lilac left him with Pink without caring about Pink's intentions.
I personally think that Lilac didn't help Blue with Pink since all of the girls in Blue's Work know that Blue has an affair with Pink. This makes all of the women think that Pink's actions with Blue are consensual since Blue was always a seducer with women. All of the girls have the wrong idea that all men just want one thing in a woman: sex.
Now that Lilac finally saw how Blue was less alluring and more allert and scared of Red, Likac actually got worried about Blue helping him get away from Red with excuses.
Even with all of this, Red found a way to keep her sexual harassment with Blue, and now that they are more private, she now uses Blue to touch Red in a sexual way. Blue actually didn't want this but couldn't react since he was too scared to move. Red uses this submissive way of treating Blue as consent, abusing it for her own benefit.
Now in the part that Blue was coughed with the "Red eyes," I think it is a metaphor that means how Blue feels about his interactions with all the girls and how everybody sees him, like a man who was in an affair with Pink who had a husband, a man who didn't love his sister, a man who let Red touch him in a sexual way while he had an affair. He looks at himself like a monster that doesn't deserve heaven or forgiveness, being in a jail of regret and solitude.
Red finally saw what her actions did to Blue; she noticed the damage that she had done to him, but it was too late, so she preferred now to keep her distance and not see Blue again after what she had done, even when her horrible and dangerous feelings toward him were still present.
"Lilac" i thought its lavender??(the sister)
@@crimsonmantis27yes, lavender is the sister, lilac is the girl with the bun
I think the reason why we will never see Red again maybe because she was forced to stay away from Blue because they see that an older man was being sexual to a woman younger then him so they moved her away from Blue and that’s were Reds presence ends
Lavender made excuses for herself to get away, leaving blue to fend for himself once more
@@JaredandIm19 Thank you for make me noticing that, I appreciate that you read all this theory and correct me 🫶✨
1:29
I think it's kind of interesting how it seems like Red keeps trying to copy Pink. First with becoming 'Blue's Type', and now she's trying to do the same thing Pink did in 'Kiss Me', probably trying to get the same reaction Pink gave Blue.
"art is meant to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable"
Who said this quote? /Gen
@@Naiobia Cesar A. Cruz
thiss
real @@dreamy-tea
what if it disturbs the disturbed
I want to just voice out my support for blue despite him being a fictional character. He's representing victims of these situation and how it ruins someone's lives. I already feel attached to Blue and I can only hope for a good ending on his behalf. I know a lot of survivors are strong and I'm hoping that we get to see Blue start on his way on taking charge again and growing to be a strong character
I couldn't agree more,i iust want a good ending for him,like a friend helping him or something, anything to help him
2:13 i love how her eyes turn white realizing what she has done to blue and she MIGHT leave him alone.
I love this its never expressed enough. Older people CAN be victims to younger people sexually harassing them. People always blame the older one. But when you try stepping back and they keep pursuing you what more can you do? Then at the end of the day you’ll be deemed a sexual offender but the whole time you didn’t do anything but try getting out of the situation this is NEVER expressed enough. Thank you.
Okay, so, THIS animation, as far as I can tell, was about how Red tought Blue could fall in love with her on VERY many ways of mistreating, whether it is pressuring him to touch her, give him persuasive compliments, praising him, and even DRASTICALLY changing her looks, all to get his ""love"", and ""touch"" .
All of this, to a point where Blue was trying to seek for help, but failed, since Red was portrayed to be a good girl, and everyone had in mind that her actions weren't as bad as Blue portrayed them to be.
Red was invading Blue's privacy because she also thought THAT was the correct way for her to get his atention, yet Blue saw her as a predator... which she actually IS one, despite not WANTING to be one; she got CARRIED away by her feelings, and completely forgot about BOUNDARIES.
But, instead of receiving any kind of support, Blue was being BLAMED as the PREDATOR, no matter if HE was the ACTUAL VICTIM. He had been getting false allegations, to a point where he just got to his breaking point.
It actually got to my attention that Red's eyes actually changed colors, it might have meant that she realized that went TOO far, and she had seen all the harm Blue has been going through, which, again, she did NOT intend. She just REALLY, REALLY, REALLY wanted Blue.
If ypu have ANYTHING to tell, then DO reply!!
Again, you ATE this one, Victaton!!
One thing I noticed while rewatching these videos is that in each intro the abuser is featured in, they show they're true colours or at least what they become.
Pink started off smiling sweetly in SASWM but then it turned malicious when discussing the s/a.
Red starts off with white eyes and her normal hair, but then it shows her darker, brighter, and even a sharp toothy grin.
Lavender starts off with her eyes closed, but in DTI, her eyes are wide open.
Purple is possibly up next (though she might not since GMWIW exists), but I feel she won't really have a change except her black eyes and her grin.
The intro shows their true colours and actual nature as abusers. It's really clever design and pretty well done.
The eyelashes turning from white to black really show that it's not love shes feeling anymore and that it is now complete obsession.
There is a BIG difference between love and obsession.
They turned back to white at the end
@@HanyhenHen Probably because she realizes she's done something bad after she realizes how her actions have affected blue but is not going to take any responsibility for it because she is scared of the risks of getting caught, leaving the blame on blue.
This one really spoke to me, being harassed by someone i was clearly not interested in and getting tired of it and them getting obsessed.
Same, their friends called me the hard r because I rejected them and said I liked getting sa’d and it was ok for him to do it bc apparently
Yeah it sucks, i remember for a while in school a group of kids sexually harrassed me every day and even harrassed my friends for my number
This one gives SO much comfort as someone who used to get undesired comments from a "friend" and was unable to stop it due to the freeze reaction
idk if anyone pointed this out yet. theres lyrical chopping at around 1:47
"*we* know what you want from *her*"
"more than just *your* fantasy"
rlly goes into the people thinking its blue fault bc even the SONG is blaming him. Good god this series is so good at having little bits you recognize. im going to explode
YESS I JUST NOTICED THAT AND I THINK IT’S SUCH A GOOD LITTLE DETAIL
What’s with the red eyes people what happens if I poke their head or eyes
That was society
I noticed that the first time but I wasn’t sure what it was saying, thank you for clarifying 👍
0:32 the girl marked out is lavender as a child bc of the community posts She definitely had been doing some sort of COCSA on him when they were younger. Unfortunately, some victims of csa (including me) will end up blocking out who exactly was hurting them as a way to protect themselves (which can be a sign of a mental disorder that was formed because of said trauma). This would explain why blue still feels comfortable around lavender as he cant remember it was her who was hurting him when they were little. From looking up, 50% of CSA victims will sadly be victims again in adulthood. Exactly what blues going through again.
God i feel so bad for blue.
Exactly, its pretty much repressed memories for Blue's cases
Hold on, is that really Lavender? Since she was dressed up in nurse's clothes, I thought she was a relative who worked in a hospital or something along those lines.
@@youtub9035yes, the eyes and the mouth hint that, also i think it was stated in a community post once
@@youtub9035you can barely see her color in the left side of her + the mouth gives it away. In the community posts it was stated that that was her as a child like a few weeks ago i think? Its what makes me believe she was “play pretending” as a doctor to blue and ended up Sexually harassing or assaulting him that way but he cant remember or repressed it to the point he cant remember it was lavender.
Child on child sexual abuse is a topic I never seen get talked about even though its a really horrible case all around that can happen, so seeing it being implied does share a light that sadly, even children can S/A other children. Hopefully one day vic can make a video spreading awareness about it as its a topic that can educate people that just because an older child did it, doesnt mean it doesnt count as S/A. If not, I understand.
it hurts so much to see the pain I went through accurately. as a young boy, I was being SA'd and all people did was try to say that it was a "good thing" since I was a man. Other times I was told to be a disgusting person.
For so long, I couldn't say anything. Like Blue, I froze up. I didn't say or do anything. I couldn't even say no, because I had tried in the past and it still didn't work.
Thank you so much for showing this. I'm so tired of being blamed on things I never did. I was hurt. I was violated, and the fact people didn't help me when I asked for it- and instead hated me- it was crushing.
Thank you for showing representation like this of victims like me. I want to cry, as I am just so grateful someone can show this.
1:15 it's honestly painful seeing blue still seeking help from lavender knowing what she's doing and who she really is 💔
1:14 I genuinely teared up at this moment he looks so scared and was trembling. 😭😭😭 when someone even clings on someone that they have a low trust to you know how much they're in pain. I wanna give blue a hug and say how strong he has been Wahhhh... You guys survivors and fighters are amazing for still standing.
i used to be like red.
i've always struggled with boundaries when interacting with people; i mostly blame my family for this, as they were always very physically close and would stimulate me for fun, touching me without my consent and making creepy comments about my body at an age where your body shouldn't be an object of such connotations, therefore i had an early onset awakening, and i grew up with that burden.
in my teenage years i met a boy that was different from all i knew; i didn't feel harassed or invaded by his presence or his comments, and he actively cared for me and how comfortable i was feeling. i confessed my feelings for him and got rejected, so i did it again and again in hopes that he would comply someday. he didn’t, and we began drifting away quickly.
and i wouldn't let that happen, so i kept disturbing him for months and months, interpreting his silence as consent, a mentality i've rejected since then. i used to constantly assault him in ways that i would rather not disclose, but i can only imagine and genuinely lament how it must've affected him, in the same way that my family's attitude affected me in the long run. i was sick; it was a genuine, mind-controlling sickness that i couldn’t blame on anyone but myself.
eventually i severed ties with him after realizing what i'd done.
i ended up closing myself shut, s*xually and emotionally, to avoid hurting anyone else. i still dont trust myself to engage in any interaction of the sorts again, and i probably never will, but i'd rather live like this for the rest of my days than risk hurting someone else the way i hurt him. i've been to several therapists for more than three years, and none of them have managed to take this parasite out of me.
this type of trauma is a curse; it's an entity that carves you from the inside out and leaves you an empty shell; it's a feeling i couldn’t possibly describe with words. i hate my family for ruining me, and i hate myself for ruining him in a way that one can never recover from. there's moments where i really wish i could talk to him and apologize in a way that matters, but that would only make things much worse.
i write this to share a real person's testimony beyond the character presented in these videos. this is just another reminder that this is real; this has happened countless times before, and sadly, it will happen again. it's not a matter of just saying "no" and reporting the incident. it's something that ruins you and takes away every inch of the person you would be if that never happened to you.
Despite her obvious insanity and how unstable she is, Red's character design is super cute. I noticed how Red's dress is similar to Pink's near the end, showing how she thinks that if she presents herself more like someone he is "close" to, he might like her more. I also love the amount of detail and subtle visual effects that add further meaning to the video and situation, for example, the purple triangle that shows up behind Red when Purple is talking to her, Red's black nails becoming stains along her arms, Red's eyes switching from white to black, Blue's eyes changing colour to show how he is feeling without using his mouth (RIP Blue's mouth 🫡), the use of colour to show who is is control, what character is being focussed on, the weight of the situation, innocence, emotion, blame, abuse, and so, so much more. The sketchy "demon face" overlay shows how Blue views himself, thinking that he is the one in the wrong and that he should be punished. Another thing I noticed is that Red becomes darker and a more vibrant, saturated red, showing how her actions become more unhinged and unstable. In the scene where Red is on top of Blue, she is crying black, heart-shaped tears that fall onto Blue's face, adding yet another black stain to Blue's body. Throughout this series, you can see how Blue goes from a bright blue to a less saturated and more of a grey-ish shade as we are shown the canonical order of events.
(Sorry this is so long, I got carried away lmao)
ikr, sometimes i dont understand why ppl said smt like "if you like s/aer design then you just like the color/you are insane" what?? i wanna say that i like red's design becau look cute which also show that "even innocent and cute looking can hunt you down"
I'm guessing you passed film analysis in English
another great move from lavender, instead of listening or even questioning blue, she refuses and obviously takes reds side saying shes an “angel” and insists she returns back to work/purple instead of comforting blue. this poor guy ☹️☹️
I love how Blue starts out just annoyed by Red's affection at 0:37 his eye twitches showing how he doesn't want her to like him and how she sees everything as a "sign" and pushes further into her ideas of romance. Blue finds it creepy, but he just rolls his eyes "its just a crush she'll get over it. What's the worst she could possibly do?" And since everyone else has this mindset they don't notice when things start to get creepy and inappropriate "she just wants his attention" "don't be rude she just likes you" he's seen as a jerk for not liking how hard she's trying even though he's begging someone to step in even running to his sister for help but not getting any because "she's just a girl with a crush" and Blue's "Just a playboy that knowingly has an affair with a married coworker and flirts openly" no one cares to see that he's a victim and hes doomed either way so he shuts down hoping Red will give up and leave
As someone who has experienced something similar to this a young age, it really depicts blue’s emotions in the way I felt the person who constantly did this to me. Like red, my harasser was also younger than me which also made people believe them more. Now that I’m older, I have no contact with them and I really wished a spoke up to them or told someone who would truly believe me. I’m happy that you are spreading awareness with this.❤
I rushed here as soon as I saw the notification. This is the first video where Blue actually SHAKES in fear, he's desperate and scared, he wants this to end. He even went as far as to hide behind his sister, the same person that completely ignored him when he was stuck with Pink. You're doing an amazing job Vic
2:15 he look so traumatised I’m crying 😭
1:19 Blue was so desperate for help that he literally clings onto the same person that has hurt him and silenced him as well as left him alone after witnessing him getting assaulted by two women TWICE!
Poor blue :(
As someone who tends to freeze up in certain situations, i can kinda understand how he felt. He mustve felt like no one was going to help him, especially the one he trusted the most which is lavender, and yet she didnt care how he felt, she just shrugged it off. He mustve felt vulnerable and helpless, like he couldnt run away from the situation, and kept getting blamed/blamming himself for whats happening
Adding the numbers was super helpful. I didnt realise these videos were in different orders and now that I do know, its so much easier to understand in wyas for both how blue develops and the other's.
1:15 I find this moment so sad because despite what Lavender did to Blue, he still tries to hide with her. She's basically the only one Blue trusts, despite how nasty she is. And even in this moment, she still fails to help blue in his time of need.
0:14 to 0:19
While red was talking about how she loves bule and wants to be in a relationship with him, purple cuts her and says, "he's too hot for you, he's a wild uncontrollable man unlike you, you're innocent and young, he's gonna go after hotties like himself (pink for example..) you're way too low for him." So she basically said "you're perfect for me instead of him, you're fresh meat, for me."(meant that by licking her lips afterwards). While trying to keep both red and blue only for herself by trying to keep them separated from each other.
0:20 to 0:22
And when red Understood it wrong, when red though she needed to make herself more attractive, force her love and desire in a inappropriate way to get blue notice/love her. Purple went silent, disgusted. She stood back and didn't want to be in this love triangle mesh, knowing she'll get exposed and it's going to take longer to separate them.
0:23 to 0:25
And when Red asked for more advice, she just said "Don't come to me for advice, do it yourself and see if it works on him. Don't drag me in this situation."
Thank you for talking more about purple's actions and intentions, hard to come by but interesting
as a man who got assaulted by a woman, i really relate to blues story and it makes me feel slightly comforted in a way, you're really cool btw
Okay so I sorta have a analysis i was hesistant on posting however i feel like i saw a lot of people miss these details.
I think it's important to talk about the black lipstick mark, which shows how the trauma that he went through with Lilac is still sticking to him and affecting him, Which can also be seen with how when Red cries heart tears at the end and it sticks to him, it's a form of the trauma red put him through that is sticking to him.
Him having no mouth also shows as to how he doesnt talk about the situation because society have given him to room to talk about it because he is a man, and men 'arent able to get sa'd.'
1:06 shows his terror through his hands and how this isnt his own actions because Red's hands are guiding his hands and forcing him to show love and affection towards her.
While this whole thing breaks my heart for blue, the whole thing that shatters it is at 1:14 where Blue goes to Lavender to help, and in the process she tells him how "red is alright and fine dont worry about her and i need to leave because purple is calling me so bye!" however she has a blue coat. I believe the blue coat represents the "weight" blue has on her shoulders and when she finally leaves and blue is left with the coat, it's like "a weight of her shoulders" in which she doesnt look after blue or care for him anymore.
1:44 is now about how society sees Blue, and how he's now in the eye of public opinon. They believe it's his 'fault' for 'leading her on'. The lyrics even change within the song "we know what you want from HER" and "more than just YOUR fantasy" which first changed lyrics is self expanaltory, it's society viewing him as a bad guy and blaming him for the changes she went through to "lure" him in and viewing that as him forcing herself to change for him, and the second changed lyric is reinstating the first thing and how she's not for him to be "in control of" (which he's not she changed herself for her own obsession.)
Everybody is pointing fingers at him and blaming him, and weighing what he's bad he's 'done' vs what 'good' he's done. I think it's interesting in within the flashbacks of the other videos, all the other girls are shown with halos, however Lilac(??) has her eyes scratched out, which is probably the public's opinion of how "she's a dirty cheater and cougar because she has a husband, how gross!" The things he's 'bad' over arent even his fault. showing mutual respect and understanding for Red? thats leading her on! He likes sexual romance? thats gross and disgusting he's clearly using Red! Him being in a relationship with a woman thats married? how gross he's a player and a homewrecker! Though none of that is his fault.
society is even telling him 'why didnt you get walk away/leave?', 'why didnt you push her away/say no?', 'why didnt you firmly tell her no?'.
which at the ending i dont really believe he's in actual jail, however he's trapped in a prision of people viewing him in the way that people are protraying him as, and how he is unable to escape that view.
This part will be about red's analysis now.
In the beginning as all can see, Red is talking to Purple(??) about her feeling on blue, in which purple tells her that he's only into "sexual" romance, as 'seen' with lilac(??), and how red is to pure with him, which i do believe that Purple has some sort of thing for Red and tries to manipulate her into sorta loving her instead however it backfires because Red in obsessed with Blue.
As people have mentioned in the lovefool video, Red's white eyes represent how her love for Blue isnt wrong, but her black nails show that her actions in how she is pursueing Blue is wrong. In this video she goes from White to Black eyes showing how her love is full on wrong obsession, as well as her hands have a full on gradiant showing was she doing is full on wrong. I also believe her sharp teeth may represent how her love hurts like how she bites blue around 0:54
Red's behavior goes full on creeper mode when she's analyzing what blue likes as shown on the board at 0:44. In some of the photos and the boards with the hearts seem to be her supporting herself in her thinking of "Omg blue loves me!". It also shows that she takes interest in how Blue is good/knowledgable about computers, and some of the ways that Lilac uses to try to lure blue in. She even tugs him by his tie like how lilac does.
In 0:53 I believe the black marks is supposted to be a represention of her 'making her mark' on blue in a negative way. I think its curious as to how Red's outfit is mostly black trying to mimic the back actions of Lilac, i think black clothing represents the person using their body to try and lure somebody in (blue), however due to the fact that Red has a White underclothing showing, i believe that shows how she's trying to just "do it out of pure love" or even just how thats not how she would usually present herself and her "wholesome" love in still underneath. I do think her Bow represents maybe something going on in Red's head which could be another signal of her "pure love in her head" however again, extremely wrong and horrible execution and intentions.
This is a really good analysis! (Also Lilac is the girl with the bun, the one you refer to as lilac is actually pink.)
@@PancakeFlowers thank you for correcting me by the way!! i get confused on their names a lot of the time if it isnt red or blue
My personal theory is him blaming himself for the abuse hence finding him "guilty"
I ain't reading that.
@@4op0then why bother even commenting? 😭
this one hit real hard, especially that victim-blaming.
i’ve never been s/a’ed, but the showcasing for victim-blaming was spot on, especially since it’s self-blaming.
the weighing of “good” and “bad” and how most blamers tend to overdrive on the “bad” without even taking a delve into what really happened, and the prison of punishing one’s self for something they never did.
it’s the same as victims of relationships s/h’ing not as a way of coping, but as a way of punishment. punishment for something they never did, but for something their mind and those around them manipulated into thinking they did.
it’s actually sick. and it makes me both amazed and concerned at how accurately you depicted this. awesome animation, as always! hope you’re doing well, and take care of yourself.
I now understand what the red eyes are basically representing 😮 they’re literally representing how it’s basically victim blaming blue as a way to make him weaker so they can take even more advantage of him until he is unable to help himself and telling him that no matter how hard he try’s he’s forever gonna be trapped in a cage with no one to help.. I feel so bad for blue
I like how at the end red's eyes go back to normal but her hands remain tainted: She feels remorse, but can't reverse what she's already done
As a person who has survived like... 6 s/a situations... this represents so good about how the victim feel.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. It's disgusting how people do this
I hope u get the help and love you need, you are heard and loved :)
@@apersonwithahugeego Ty
@@HERROR1NA_0 alr :) gl on ur interview!
Now, this really hits hard. 2:15 the fact that Blue feels guilty and sees himself as the bad guy because of the "judge" (which can be interpreted as the observations on Blue's behavior with Red and Pink) really hurts, apart from the fact that Blue does NOT have a mouth during that entire moment (perhaps meaning that he feels forced to remain silent) is what hurts the most. Seeing how Blue has to endure all of Red's harassment day after day is horrible, it really gives you that feeling of fear about HOW Blue is going to end up after these experiences.
(Victaton, you are really doing a very good job with this series representing what a person who goes through these situations and events can go through. There are times when at least I identify with Blue because of having people like Red, Lavender or Pink near me. I LOVE YOUR WORK SMMM!
holy shit this was intensely disturbing but also meaningful, the way you have portrayed the unsettling atmosphere and showcased feelings of fear and hidden meanings, this is really well done
This video has too many things 😨
For starters that Purple made Red believe that Blue just wanted intimacy when that's not the case. Red likewise isn't innocent, she doesn't care that Blue already rejected her if not that she wants to do everything she can to be with him. He didn't care to see if Blue really enjoyed it or suffered with it.
The part where they go into a trial is incredible, is a amazing metaphore in the sense that Vic did it very well. This time Red makes Blue believe that he is the devil and not her and that the only good thing he did was cover his face because for Pink's insinuations. Red makes Blue believe that he just wants intimacy and that honestly is terrible.
On the other hand, the fact that Red's appearance changes, including her eyes and especially changes from white to black, basically it's like another part of her comes out and the worst, just to conquer Blue. I feel so bad for him tho...
Edit: 1:31 - Red hitting Blue to get her to listen to him shows that she doesn't want to understand why Blue doesn't love her. And Lavender 1:18... just horrible for not helping her brother...
P.S.: I love your animation and how you're bringing more awareness to this whole issue!
To be say in detail purple did try to tell red that blue was into pink bc he want a intimacy relationship with her, but pink likely get the idea of if she make a more mature or suggestive interaction toward blue she might get what she want
And from purple's reaction it seems like red's idea was out of what she's planning
Most likely purple try to make red think blue isn't into her
In the end she probably didn't expect red is this sick
@@moshusdead4287 Yeah, it looks like Purple wants something with Red, but doesn't get it because Red is already obsessed with Blue. In itself, it's ironic that Purple feels surprised that Red is sick, since she's the same or even worse, only in a different way
Its creepy but true how this goes. In the beginning, red has pure but unhealthily love for blue, her eyelashes being white because her love is normal, and the black nails for unintentional bad actions. Purple trying to get blue out of her view made red accidentally misinterpret blue "only liking pink" as "if im hot/sexy/spicy and more physical contact, he'll love me back." Her eye lashes go balck and the hearts are dark and "dirty," like confusion and dirty sights or thoughts. In the end, red was probably given an explanation to her misinterpretation from the red eyes or something like that, and thats why her eyelashes and eyes are pure again like before.
Black* it's too big for me to go back and edit
I don't speak English very well, but I would like to say that his videos about these characters who represent various situations of abuse and victim are totally amazing and send such a strong message that it gives me goosebumps. The animation is so good that it's addictive because the movements are like cartoons.
Alright. First watch, so things i could gather
0:14 blue changes here, importsnt point to show that things are getting even worse (poor blue, stay strong)
0:18 purple is conving red that blue only seeks for s#x, that if she acted more "mature" blue would love her, and also i notced, her eyes become black, that would mean that the atention becomes way more uncofortsble for blue?? Or that her intentions become less pure, as her bubble of thinking shows how she is considering the optiom and the color changes graduatly
0:25 purple seem that she wanted red to become mature for her?? Or is it all part od her plot, anyways she is (still disgusting no matter what)
0:27 blue becomed white, and is in previous videos is show his heart apears whem he feels fear, probably a result for the alredy bad expierenced with pink and lavender, recognizing the behavior or relating it to pink, becauwe red logic thinks if blue liked pink and she acted *that* way, blue would love her too if she does the same
0:31 blue tries to convince himself that red is good? Or is red pretending to be good? Idk
0:32 previous asaulters, seems that blue does alredy compare red to the previoud expierences.
0:34 red gets in the middle, maybe a show that she wants to be the 'spot light" or at least be more important for blue that pink, also meaning that she is also one of them
0:35 blue tries to be nice, she takes it the wrong way
0:37 (just wanred to point this, poor blue, he doesn't deserve all of this)
0:40 red keeps giving him compliments amd sayinf stuff how much she loves blue, aka love bombing him, this also reminds le of the coffe poem.
0:43 she is analizing blue's behavior, trying to see any "signs" of him loving her back, getting stressed by the lack of results because there is no actual proor in comparation to pink
0:49 this scene reminds me way to much of a part od the "kiss me" video, red thinks if she is "mature" like pinl she would be loved, bluebis alredy drained of it, not giving a reaction like in the kiss me video
0:56 red crosed the line. She either startee to get touchy here or sugestive
1:04 blue wants to scape the situation, red keeps bringing him back to her, "why why why' she doesn't undestand what she is doing and is being very forcefull, choking blue by the tie, this gesture is also something that pink did in the "lovefool video" when blie started geting uncofortable around her
1:09 red is FORCING blue to touch her
1:11 she is saying her harassmet ins "love' as if it was normal
1:14 this scene in general hits personal, everyone has ever be in situation were a person is WAY to sexual to the point it scares , but this time is directly to blue, and alred living the things he did.. well, nothing good for the man. He is scared of what could hapend at any moment
1:15 blue still hides from red, but unlile the lovefool video he seeks someoke to 'protect" him, at this point not havinf a mouth, he can't say what is going on, so he just triew to avoid red by getting closer to a family member? (That is also an abuser fuck you lavender)
1:21 "please come rescue me" he is begging to be helped, but again as in the "sleep woth me" lavender brush it off having her eyes closed. But she still has eyes wich means she sees what is going on but ignores it, sugar coating it as red being "inocent"
( 1:17 i just noticed that the text us blue expect the "you" here. Meaning that blue wants to lavender to notixe the situatiom, and as if it shows in other videos lavender must be an authority in the work ofice, by the clothes the money etc, maybe wanting her to put measurments??)
1:32 red plan isn't working, at this point the poses are almost rhe same thar pink used??
1:49 this part i am going to redume it as a whole, people blame blue for this, red victimises herseld by the tears?? , as always society blames the man, considering blue the bad one by the horns and the tail, he is the center of atention for them. He is "the problem' in the eyes, he is blamed for being a 'flirt" and make it seem as if red was the victim instras of the abuser, they make it look as if he wwas the one harasimg his co-workers insteas of the other way around, they put all of blue actions in "bad" and saying that he is the same as red by being a flirt?? The only "good' thing they consider is him not watching, maybe from the "sleepxwith me" meme, OR as if it was good that he didn't speak or recogmize his coworkers actions as harasment
2:08 they blame him eor not ruming away, something that is aas because victims can't say no, mostly if they were qlredy victims before, at the moment there is a bunch of toughs in someone's head.
2:10 blue doesn't want to hear those things anymore, showing his frustation smashimg the tv, he is sick of this situation, and needs to suffer alone because of society,
2:13 society is at the side of red, she seems to feel guilty?? Idk but she is draged away , matbe because the eye thinks she is the victim
2:14 red is alone. But the horns and mouth are still there, he now thinls he is the bad ome, blaming himself for his situation
2:35 i love the messages at the end, i love how it recognizes blue's situation
Aaad that's my unesesary long resumen of things that were probably way to clear, i just wanted to contribute, my apolagizes if it's hard to understand, i am not a native english speaker so it's hard, love this serie and the awarness it's spreading in the comunity
This is my bedtime story
Your whole analysis on the video is amazing and I wanna kinda add that In scenes such as 1:30 I noticed that the ‘marks’ that are shown as unconsent touches stay on the screen for longer even after red doesn’t do the touching thing (I’m so sorry I do not know how to describe it), this could show that this has an impact of blue for a long while
(Idk if you already said that in other words cuz I scanned read your comment 😭)
Bro is the wiki☠️
1:35 ← can u talk about this situation? I didn't understand so well :( (it's ok if u are uncomfortable talking about this scene)
1:23 here we can see that BLUE takes LAVENDER's jacket, which is blue, and it turns white. Does it mean that LAVENDER will let BLUE alone from now on?
Small detail, but I love the change of lyrics in the end from "I know what you want from me" to "We know what you want from her".
I really REALLY hate when people defend Red , I've been a S/A victim of a lot of types , but this one is the most controversial and heartbreaking for me , why? Well because it happened to my boyfriend too , he had the same reaction as Blue , everytime I see this video it reminds me of him , the only difference is that he got me to defend him , Blue tried to run for help with his sister but it seems like it didn't work , in my case when he started freezing I get that he was uncomfortable so I helped him but my heart broke when he told me he was crying of frustration for not feeling like a good partner because he couldn't fight , as a victim I understood him and just conforted him.❤
When this case happened to me , the person was younger than me , that's why I get uncomfortable when people say that just because Purple told em something the fault is all for Purple like
Red is Red. She choose to do that , Purple told em something I don't get what but my interpretation is "Blue is a cutie / hottie 🔥" , "he likes pink , not you , you're too good for him" , "hell no , keep trying with him , not me."
I don't know if I'm right or not , but that's not the point , the point is she is an adult , yeah , she's younger , but younger doesn't mean innocent.
She's not a little cutie potato who just wanted to be loved , she's a se*ual ab*ser and if you think she's innocent just because of that then you're acting like Lavender.
Lavender told him that Red is a good person , totally ignoring how Blue feels.
Please think more about the victim and stop defending the ab*sers.
The symbolism of Red’s obsession with red is what makes me sob my eyes out. In the first part of where we see her, she has gray nails ( or black depending on point of view ) and her ye only rarely get black at some times in the video. HOWEVER, here in this one, she changes her look completely, most likely trying to achieve Blue’s “type” so that he could love her. Her hair is put up, and she dresses in darker clothing, as well as her hands becoming darker and claw-like. I think that part is very interesting, showing her obsession getting much, MUCH WORSE.
0:22 Does anyone else notice Purple's tie going white? I interpreted it as Purple losing control of Red, either that or she's just terrified of Red's misled ideas ("going pale", you could say) but the red tie did return after that scene though
cause she can't do anything about it anymore so she stops trying to stop red
And how in the wutiwant animation it’s blue?
@@STARZZE_STARZ probably cuz she is SAing blue
dude this just made me feel even worse for blue. I already didn't like how he was treated by pink, lavender, etc. but THIS is rlly showing how much everything has been burdening him and making him feel at fault. You rlly captured well the conflicts and different things in these situations
Spectacular job Vic💙
Thank you so much for including the part with the "freeze response"!! When most people think of our body's responses to danger they usually think of "fight or flight" and are completely unaware of the freeze response.
Up until it happened to me I didn't know about it either, and it's really easy to start believing it's your fault for not reacting, or trying to escape the situation. Remember that no matter what it's not your fault :)
i watch this video a lot because this is probably the video in the whole series that i relate to the most, sometimes i cry to this, that’s how accurate you captured it all. you’re a genius, keep it up with the good work, i love this series so much.
You know somethings up when blue looks a bit... Off... in the "let him have the voice he deserves: part
When?
Edit:Nvm…
Yea, Vic said that this is the last video that will focus on the abusers so I feel like that's showing a turning point in the series
I’m glad to see what I experienced being portrayed accurately and people finally understanding through the eyes of a victim!!! Unwanted touch and love like this felt like you asked for it but to know It wasn’t that makes me smile. If that all makes sense I’m saying thank you for making this series.
Mhm! Absolutely agree
Though i haven't been SA'd thankfully i have been touched without consent, and i had the same reaction as blue here
So basically;
I was alone with my music teacher and i was just snacking since i felt lonely
He called and decided to teach me violin
And i felt my fight or flight response kick in and my body chose to freeze cause when my teacher taught the violin he was behind me and touched me
Only in the arm and hands thankfully but i was still mortified to be honest
Never told anyone though and this was like months ago now
notice how that type of characthers are always loved by the fandom? sky, mikan? and more
Yup
That ending part about the "freezing is also a response" thing makes me feel a lot better about it, knowing I'm not just stupid or useless.
@@UTTP...LAPSOS Sure, that's your opinion, and I respect that, but telling me nobody cares about how validated I feel isn't going to make me check out your channel. Have a wonderful day.
Interesting thing I noticed! His eyes at the beginning is red in the center. Usually that means that he’s angry and his skin his very powerful blue, so that means that he keeps his anger inside of him to not heart her feelings.
Also at the end, I noticed red looking at him from the “jail cell” as her eyes becomes white again. I think I’m dumb but it’s probably because she won. h Blue stopped fighting and noticed her more I think
I like how reds heart effect gets darker showing her love becomes more abusive and harmful than before
The most saddest part here, most of this represents of character are use in modern media as “hot” or “cool”, making it normalized for people that it’s normal. Specially towards anime or just well animation, making young naive children making it think it’s ok to do such things, which is not good. Thank you so so much for showing the really awful parts of such sensitive topic that’s been getting normalized in modern media. As it could spread awareness for the things like this are really awful
I think this song represents how Red sees Blue's actions towards her if that makes sense?
"I know what you want from me!" is her ASSUMPTION that he wants her, when he does not. I think her white eyes in previous videos symbollized it was only 'innocent crushing', but when the white parts turned black, she got more physical and direct and such.
"More than just a fantasy!" She's trying to make her obsession a reality in her eyes. The red paint used to give Blue demon horns, a demon tail, and a evil / cheeky smile is how Red views Blue's actions towards her. Like " You're just using as bad!" blah blah. Notice how Blue doesn't have a mouth behind that smile. It's probably because he can't say anything unless he wants his words twisted into a false narrative.
The Eyeball Judges / Red's Point of View personnels deem that Blue is the reason this all happened. He is being blammed. "Why didn't you run? Fight Back? Tell her how you truly felt about this??" Throughout this ENTIRE video, he has no mouth, so Red painted a devil's image on him herself. She's not letting him speak for himself.
At the start of the video, only her nails are black. by the middle and end, her whole hands and the whiteness of her eyes are black. She seemed slightly tame at first, now she's all over the dang place over what seemed like a simple crush.
That's just my analysis. I never commented on one of the videos in this series til now, but do know I watch them and appreciate you speaking up about Male SA. 💙💙
I really think that lavender appears younger as a "nurse" not only because she abused him and he can't remember but the fact that he sees her as a safe point in some episodes just as this one and the shut up version with pink
1:19 the way blue desperately looks at his sister breaks my heart
Jeez and she didn't even help.
Did you guys noticed in the beginning, Purple's tie was red but after she got freaked out, it faded to white?? In 0:38, her hands turns into claws? Vic definitely puts so much into this
I feel like purple was trying to come onto red(?) saying that blue doesn’t like girls like her or smth, but then red became weird about it or smth (idk) and purple was probably disgusted or smth and left, her intentions changing, why her tie turned white (maybe?)
In the WUTIWANT video, Purples tie was blue/cyan, so I think her tie changes color depending on who shes preying on. I theorize she was preying on Red first for being young, innocent and probably naive, and then once she realized she was crazy as well she lost interest 🫠
@@bwruisdbunnigood theory
@@bwruisdbunni i agree with this theory, thats what thought as well
Seeing Blue asking Lavender (one of his abusers) for help is gut wrenching
I noticed how Red's eyes go from black to white in 2:12 showing how she regretted what she did (sorry for my bad english)
I am so desperate to see an episode where Blue goes to therapy, and to see the reaction on his therapist’s face after he tells them everything I’m sure the amount of concern, disgust, and horror radiating from their face will be telling… like damn tell me when the recovery arch happens the poor dude has been through enough let him rest.😤
Yes pleasssse
Fr💀
this is so sad and unsettling but its very helpful for people that want to learn more about SA. thank you for spreading awareness vic! its even worse because the ending makes me think his company found out about him and red and blamed him and made it seem like “oh youre the man you mustve made her do this” and now he’s afraid to speak out hence the devil horns and the prison
OMG WHEN BLUE TAKES THE COAT OFF LAVENDER AND IT TURNS WHITE 1:23
Also Red's eyelashes turn white again at 2:13