r/EntitledPeople - I Watch Karen Crash Her Car! She Calls 911 to BLAME ME!
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- r/entitledpeople - OP is working on a construction site when an entitled Karen in her car won't stop screaming at him to get out of the way! When OP tries to tell her that she can't drive through there, she flips out at him and it ends in disaster!
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Story 3: The girl should have not be punished at all, she defended herself against a molester, there's nothing wrong with this. It make me sick the hypocrisy of those teachers who claim that they will help if they are called and yet do nothing to stop bullies while punishing the victims instead. Kudos to the girl for beating that bully and to the parents for defending them.
In my country, this sorry excuse of principal, would have a criminal charges if he wanted to suspend a kid. But wanted to punish a kid for defending himself for sexual assault, that's really stupid.
@@Mithandune Just curious, what country are you from?
"Boys will be boys...". No, eventually he becomes a full on sexual predator and either goes to jail or gets ended by the woman or her family. His parents are to blame for not disciplining him.
My kid is 18 now. She got her dad's mom's very large chest. There was this boy who was constantly trying to touch her when she was 12-13 & I finally told them that next time he did it, I gave her my permission to deck him in the nose with everything she had so this is their one & only chance to stop it. I also told them that I had absolutely no problem telling any press exactly why they allowed kids to be assaulted on their property. It's funny how quickly a school can figure out a problem when they have the right motivation.
@@samuelebincoletto637 Poland, here do to constitution, every kid has a right to go to school and can't be suspended or got detention. If kid is really behaving bad, kid can be kicked from the school, but must be moved to another one or for special school.
"Boys will be boys" is when a young man will make a ramp for his scooter out of the sketchiest materials possible and then go over it at full speed. It is never an excuse for sexual or physical assault.
I really like that! You perfectly tagged where the "Boys will be boys" comment fits.
More like "boys will be boys" is more like "some boys can't help but be reckless idiots" lmao
@@darlenechrisman7570 I have three of them. This was last week. :)
Then when asked why their arm is broken, they just grit their teeth and shrug while their broken scooter sits 5 feet away😂
@@austinriley8410 So true! My youngest's favorite saying is "I don't know."
Was your arm with you the whole day?
"Boys will be boys" is a decent excuse when it comes to eating dirt, peeing on trees, making loud car noises at dinner. Not assault.
When I was young, it was used as a way to excuse men beating the snot out of women to tell women not to report it to the police.
My classmates and I used it as a means to tell others men didn’t have two brain cells to rub together as they constantly hit their heads against the concrete wall for fun.
Agreed. Those parents are raising a future r@pist.
"Boys will be boys?"
No, it's called sexual assault. Not playing rough. Not even bullying. If it were an adult who grabbed his peer's bottom at work, he would likely be fired on the spot and arrested? Make sure the disgusting twerp knows it. The school's response fills me with rage.
I’ve heard worse stories about sexual abuse from this sub as well as pro revenge, and nuclear revenge. People are 100% justified to fight back if they’re being touched against their will, or abused period. I remember one story of a girl who used some “dirty” tactics to almost kill her bully, and I was there for it. He deserved it 1000%, and hopefully learned a lesson.
"Boys will be boys" is almost always sexual assault rather than bullying.
Exactly. I'm super annoyed that she was punished at all, and that it was sugar coated as assault. It was sexual assault, period. And yes, I am extra salty b/c of personal experience w/ my child.
Boys will be boys, but boys *WILL* behave themselves
Srsly. If that's how boys are gonna be boys, boys need to be something else. If I'd seen that happen when I was a boy, I would have held the harasser while the girl punched him. I never witnessed this kind of behavior, but I did once stand in the way of a boy charging at a girl. Never knew why, but I know he never tried it again because I stood my ground.
The phrase "boys will be boys" is meant to explain things like little boys jumping in mud in their Easter suit; or misjudging how high something is and getting a broken arm in a fall. It's jot an excuse for not teaching your son what is right and wrong.
The phrase boys will be boys let’s the boys off the hook and not realize that they have done something wrong. That boy definitely needed to be punished because she told him to stop and he didn’t stop and the teachers didn’t have her back. Thank God her parents did. So what are those parents teaching their son that it’s OK to sexually go after a girl by pinching her bottom or whatever it is because they’re a boy and so it’s OK? If a girl was grabbing the boy in the crotch those parents wouldn’t be saying oh well girls will be the girls they would be saying that girl is harassing my son and demand punishment. The school needs to support the students and parents need to teach their children the difference between right and wrong and it’s not OK to be a bully. When somebody says no it means no. I hate that phrase. And everybody here is right that that girl should not have been punished at all because what did she do wrong except to defend herself.
@@cynthiagreske5957 that phrase was never intended for that. It has been used by stupid parents and stupid people to excuse the inexcusable. That is my point.
Also whenever I heard it it was never with cavalier disregard, but more of an exasperated “what did, how you even, that shouldn’t even be physically possible!”
@@kyriss12 Basically a stand-in for the more modern "I can't even"
@@akun50
That and the ever popular “this right here is why mommy drinks”
I hate the "violence is never the answer" mindset. It IS an answer. One that should not be used lightly, usually only as a last resort. But it is an answer. It comes with consequences that children are usually not informed enough to understand... hell, most PEOPLE don't understand.
Shhh, The people aren't supposed to know that
Yeah. Something my mom always told me was to resolve issues with my classmates with conversation, called the teacher, etc.; but if none of that worked, that I should punch or kick them and she would deal with the fallout.
Violence is never the answer!
Violence is the question, the answer id yes.
I once seriously beat a guy who bullied me for years. He never bullied me again. So not only is violence an answer but it can be an effective one.
Three times, I've stood up to bullies who crossed the line into assault. One stopped completely, the other two still bullied me verbally but were careful not to get within striking distance when they did so.
If that were my daughter being assaulted by that boy, I would’ve filed a Police Report against the School for their unwillingness to stop the matter, then lawyered up.
Personally I would have taught my daughter (if I have one in the future) I would have signed her up for either Muay Thai or Jujitsu heck I’m considering signing up mu self just in case I have to defend my self from crazies while walking my Doggie
Boys will be bo………HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS.
Third story: The victim snapping and defends herself, but is punished for defending against sexual abuse. That peincipal is a idiotic dougebag if he thinks any authority for hearing that will allow him to stay in his job. And the parents, the "boys will be boys" excuse will get their child arrested or worse if they don't correct that disgusting attitude.
Most schools nowadays have a zero tolerance for attacking someone or that someone defending themselves.
The parents should be arrested too. Hell, I’d say that they should be publicly beaten too for this.
Boys will be boys is about boys rolling in the mud, climbing trees and breaking their arms or imitating a Royal Rumble with their friends or brothers. It's no excuse for stealing or sexual harassment. That parents would actually say that phrase as an excuse is DISGUSTING
Karen: "Boys will be boys."
Well, punch to the face will be punch to the face. And OP's daughter is Anya, that's awesome.
Anyway, the fact that the daughter had to face any punishment at all angers me. When are we going to move on from this mentality of letting bullies and abusers have their way while blaming the victims and punishing them for defending themselves?
Agree. OP should have gone full nuclear revenge and dragged the school and the principal through hell. I am sure a local Women's rights group would have been glad to help.
I went after a school bully when he was alone and without his friends, and actually beat him up, I got sent home. They called my dad instead of my mom... We had a conference in the principal's office. My father wanted to know why the bully and his friends weren't also in there with their parents. They tapped dance around and gave a pretty bad excuse!
On the way home, we stopped by a Dairy Queen and my father got me a banana split!!! And told me, next time do it after school and off school grounds!! (Miss him so much, RIP)
Chorus class. I kicked his ass. Vice principal gave me ice for my knuckles and offered me hugs and told the boy he got off lucky as not far away the school police officer stood and he could choose between apologizing to me and never so much as speaking to me again or jail time and a permanent record.
Edit: I should probably mention that I was 17 and he was 18.
@@timengineman2nd714 - Why do some people keep saying bully? This wasn’t a bully, he was a perv. He wasn’t stealing her lunch money. He was grabbing her ass.
I wasn't allowed to call them either. Bullys have ill intent, my, classmates meant well. As for hitting me, according to the teachers, no one would hurt me, if I didn't provoke them all the time. By the time I had my a-levels, I was terrified of accidentally offending anyone
Story 3: This is a problem that a lot of people talk about when it comes to bully problems. The victim either does nothing and suffers, or trying to fight back and gets punished, meaning that it's a lose-lose situation. Also, "Boys will be boys" is a very dead excuse. Boys don't normally go sexually harassing people.
So yeah, defend yourself when you get bullied, and make sure there are witnesses to back you up. You'll surely win.
It's problematic due to in this situation "boys will be boys" is being used to victim blame the victim. The saying "boys will be boys" in my opinion is for those times where they are lets say going through mud or doing something goofy that doesn't hurt or harm anyone. The boy in that story. If nothing is done. Will turn out to be a future assaulting person.
@@TheDarkLink7 "Sex offender" basically.
Yeah, I firmly believe that the reason I didn't get much physical bullying growing up is because I established early on that I would hit back and I fought dirty. I never started shit, but I would defend myself. I find a lot of people who are willing to try and hit you, only do it because they think no one is going to hit them back. You have to disabuse people of that idea early.
Reminds me of the time in elementary school when my friend and I were being bullied to the point that we were scared to go outside cause there were only three adults out there and hundreds of children. The multiple times I've gone to the teachers to get help while my friend was being bullied was hilariously stupid and one day I just snapped and grabbed one of the bullies and pinned him to the ground while rubbing his face in dirt and whatever I could get him near when the other bully grabbed me from behind, that's when I reached behind and grabbed him too and threw him over my head and started rubbing his face in the dirt as well while still pinning the other bully. One of the teachers spotted me doing that and immediately put me in detention for it. The principal called my mom to tell her and my mom told her to either punish both kids and me or none of us at all so none of us got punished. The twist here is that one of the bullies that I gave a beating to, lived with me in my own home with his two sisters and his deadbeat father. You can guess what kind of scolding he got from my mom since his dad was like "boys will be boys". I was so happy when they left forever
@@silverflight01 yeah thats what I was referring to. TH-cam for some reason takes my comments down whenever I use those words for some reason.
I traveled quite a lot WITH BABIES and I never, NEVER used it/ them as an excuse to be a horrible, demanding excuse for a parent.
Ugh! The nerve of Karen, acting like she's the only person to EVER have children in the history of humanity!
The fact that people feel entitled to special treatment because they let some man release his sperm inside of her is beyond me. YOU decided to have kids. Literally no one anywhere has to give you validation that you’re a mother. People like this infuriate me so much. Women have been having children for thousands of years; you’re not fucking special.
School: "Hello Terminator, we need you come pick up Baby Terminator"...that line just cracks me up, lol 🤣🤣🤣. That girl has an absolute boss for a father
If the boy in the third story is five years old and harassing little girls in his class and touching them without permission what's he going to be like in ten or fifteen years when he's a hormonal teenager or young adult? And why is the school and the boy's parents so keen to let it slip under the rug?
Tbh makes you wonder where the FIVE year old boy learned it from. Ofc there's the argument it's children nature to be curious about themselves in a psychosexual way. That said ofc, it does not excuse the behavior of the parents. Ridiculous.
Sounds like the beginning of a serial killer. According to a lot of true crime statistics
The excuse when he's older will be that he's on the swim team and has a future so he cant be punished since it will ruin his life. These people always have excuses to cover boys who cant keep their hands to themselves.
When in the story does it say that the abuser is 5. The closest it gets is when OP said he was teaching his daughter to defend herself SINCE she was 4.
@@xxexterm1nat0rxx44 ah, I reslistened, you're right. I must've misunderstood. He doesn't specify his daughter and the boy are five in this story. I suppose I just assumed it was kindergarten cause honestly any later and cringe y'know?
Story 1: Pay for the seats you need. It isn't that hard to understand, and you don't deserve special privileges for having a baby.
Story 2: How hard is it to see that the place you want to go isn't even open yet?
Story 3: Boy needs to keep his hands to himself. If he didn't touch her, she wouldn't have hit him. Also, why would she rely on the useless school authorities? They didn't do anything before, did they?
Violence isn't the answer, it's the question. Depending on what it'll be yes, especially if it's from someone harassing you.
That's what I don't get. People say this, but look what's been taught in schools: historical wars (The American Revolution, The Civil War, WW1, WW2). Why say that crap when it's being taught?
In this girl's case violence was most definitely the answer. The boy was sexually assaulting her and the principal turned a blind eye to it and even tried to punish the victim! Kid got exactly what he deserved.
Violence is the answer when it's the only thing the bully understands, and is meted out to only the proper level needed to fix the problem.
In that case, it was used as a last resort. She told the teachers about this before, and they didn’t do shit.
"Violent, naked force has settled more issues in history than has any other factor, and the contrary opinion is wishful thinking at its worst. Breeds that forget this basic truth have always paid for it with their lives and their freedoms " - Lt. Col. Jean Dubois, Starship Troopers.
I can't believe the nerve of people who insist people and little girls lay back and let themselves be assaulted, injured, potentially killed or face punishment for defending themselves. We need to award people, especially young girls who have the courage to stand up to violent attackers and sexual abusers. Self defense should be a guaranteed right, end of story. "Violence is not the answer" oh okay, so rape, sexual/violent assault, injury, death, etc... is a better answer? How demented and twisted does a person have to be to be able to view the world in such a sick way.
In some people's minds its like "You're a woman/girl. You're supposed to take it and take it and take it. And take it. Sure you'll get mentally destroyed and you'll probably turn into a recluse. But who cares what happens to you? Just don't speak up, you're not supposed to do that. And don't fight back"
It just disgusts me
School Said: "She needs to learn to report the problem" SHE DID! Nothing was done Until She handled it!
I agree
I also think the boys family donates to the school, and or the school is just lazy
@@f687sNFM
Or maybe the school doesn't give a rats crap.
It makes me happy to see functional separated parents that work together to get the best outcome for their kid! It’s ridiculous that OP’s kid got suspended, but at least justice wasn’t served for her, or at lease some.
Teaching your daughter to defend herself ?
Well on this particular occasion she ( my step daughter ) didn't need to. There was another occasion though...but that's another story.
MY Dad was in the SAS! ( spoiler...No...I wasn't !)
My thirteen year stepdaughter was getting some hassle from a boy at school. So I was picking her up from school one evening...( I figured a 'presence' might have a calming effect).
I spotted her talking to a bunch of her friends so headed towards them, just before I get there a boy got in front of her, and started with some rather 'choice' language. I ended up standing directly behind him as he lets rip.
She didn't even glance at me to acknowledge I was there !
When he stopped / ran out of breath, she told him...'You'd best leave me alone...or my Dad will have something to say about it'.
'Oh YEAH!?…Huh!...MY Dad was in the Royal Marines'!
She gave a little toss of her head and a derisory sniff...( the one girls are so good at ).
'Not a problem for my Dad'.
'Oh Yeah? 'an whys THAT'!?!!
She gave him a pitying look...'Three reasons, One he's six foot three inches tall ( true ) and two he weighs about 15 stone'...( that's 210 lbs...in imperial measurements, and also true )...then she paused.
'So?...'an what's the third reason then'!!??
She smiled sweetly. 'Cos HE was in the S.A.S!...and he's right behind you'!!! ( Lying little TOAD!...I've never been in the services !! ).
Boy: 'Yeah...suuure he was!
She gave an evil little grin at the boy....one that chilled me to the bone. ( It may be she's picked up some habits from me, if so...then I'd say she's got them of to perfection).
Then she looked over his head to me.
'Hi Dad'!
'Hi sweetheart...everything OK'?
The boy spun on the spot, literally planted his face right onto my chest, he looked up, screamed
'Oh S**T'!!! then ran as fast as his legs would carry him.
She never had a problem with him after that, dunno why though ;-)
The other occasion she dislocated a guys shoulder and broke his arm...makes me wonder if maybe I went a 'bit' over board on what I taught her ;-)
Haha. You probably made that kid piss himself in fear, I would have loved to see that kids face.
Story 2: Pathetic little Karen thought that she could out-honk OP and get OP to pay for her mistakes
I hope that, in jail, some random prisoner just has a Car Horn for no reason and just Honks it in her face whenever she passes by him
HONK HONK!!! HONK HONK!!!!
The Chik Fil A story is such an old story; I’ve heard soooo many channels just repeat and repeat it. I swear I’ve even heard it on this channel before.
I don’t understand how someone could be so stupid as to think that the new location, still being built, is open for business and the guy driving the cement truck is just blocking her to be mean.
For a moment, I though he would find a way to move and let her go sink in the wet concrete! It would have been a pain for him (as he need to reflat eh surface and even maybe completly remove a part of it before redoing), but it would have been "funnier".
Last story: When she made the threats of "you don't know who I am" and "I can hire so many lawyer" I would answer "I wanna see it" and with so much smugness and glee "I. F**KING. DARE YOU". The last to tell her she has no leg to stand on and I'm not afraid of her bluff.
Story 3: We had a similar experience with one of our sons who spent at least 5 years being bullied by a kid, and finally being physically attacked by that brat. We told our son to finish the next fight that puke started, and, two days later, that’s what happened. We took him out for supper at his choice of eatery that night. That little a hole 🕳 never bothered him again.
Best advice for a kid: "never start a fight, but always finish it"
It's always better to be respected. The kid tried to be respectful, and was forced to make the bully fear him.
Thank you for teaching your kid the right actions: Don't start a fight, but if it starts anyway -> FINISH IT
I would have gotten OPs daughter a Happy Meal and Icecream (or what ever she'd like) for taking the harasser down perfectly! So yes, you teaching your kid how to defend themself is good parenting in my eyes! :)
Selfdefense has only one real option: Knock the enemy out cold!
Story 2: Would have been funnier if she just drove onto the still wet pavement and got stuck. Have fun explaining to police why you drove onto a just laid pavement to get take out that isn't there yet.
I was hoping that would be the outcome but unfortunately the Karen was to stupid to move so OP could let her run over the wet cement
I hauled concrete from 1995 to 2015. Constantly had to deal with Karen's in the subdivisions we worked in, but we didn't have a word for it back then.
#1 That Karen have TWO babies : Her baby and herself.
#2 OP did not need to press additional charges, Karen was already charged and taken into custody. Then, she'll have to deal with her husband...
#3 That crappy old «boys will be boys» never have been, and is still not, a valid excuse to excuse any bad or reprehensible behaviour. It's an old cop out used by parents who don't want to parent their kid. Of parents who refuse to assume their parental responsibility.
Boys will be boys excuses rolling in the mud and ruining shirts, poking beehives and getting stung, climbing and falling off trees and minor mischiefs. Stealing and harassment gets boys the belt, slipper or chancla, depending on where you live
Story 4: I'm hoping that one day these rich Karens will end up in a situation where they have to pay their lawyers too much money, lose their Court case and go bankrupt from the legal fees,
all because they wanted something that they couldn't have (or something like that, either way I hope to hear a story were a Millionare Karen loses everything)
Me too!
Many decades ago I had to deliver weekly to a hardware store on a narrow one way street in Philadelphia, Pa. by sitting in the middle of said street. Cars were parked solid on both sides of the street, so no other way to do it. One week I was waiting to unload while they unloaded another truck ahead of me. A few minutes into the wait we hear a horn blasting. A silly woman is sitting behind my truck just blasting her horn and yelling for us to move. Mind you, about 100 feet behind her is a cross street that she could have used to get around when she saw 2 trucks with 4-way flashers on blocking the street, but NOOOO, that would have taken more brain power than she apparently had, so there she sat looking (and acting) stupid. The other driver and I just walked back by the tail of my truck and proceeded to laugh at her. Wow! Did that ever piss her off. Took the dummy about another 10 minutes to get her head out of her keister and back away to go a different rouite.
If you want a specific seat, PAY EXTRA FOR IT, KAREN!
Story 3... I would not have given them a chance... I would have called the police before that happened and filed sexual assault charges against the chile, their parents, and the principal (as they refused to do anything about it, they were then part of the crime). "Boys will be boys" is an excuse which should not be allowed.
File charges of sexual assault against a 4-yr-old?
Boys will be -boys- held accountable for their actions like everyone else.
More parents need to do as this father did. When the school is wrong or unfair, do not allow them to treat your kid that way. YOU are the one who determines if your child is being treated badly. Do not allow them to expel or punish your child until and unless YOU are involved and agree.
You pay their wages, don’t let them forget this.
This sounds very entitled…but damn I can’t disagree with it. Lol.
@@guitarbass22 there's principles and there's principles.
My kids' grammar school principle was one of those idiots who walks around like he owned the school. Arrogant, and condescending as hell towards women.
One day a friend of mine and her family went on vacation to Florida, and ended up meeting a couple from Jersey (next country from where we live). I guess they began talking about neighbors and stuff, because this other couple told my friend about this obnoxious neighbor they had. Turned out, she was neighbors with the principal from our local grammar school. Boy oh boy, did we feel bad for that family. At least we didn't have to put up with him outside of school hours.
The girl being punished for finally defending herself also happened to someone I knew. School's response was that the boy was a known problem with many students and there was nothing they could do.
Airplane Story: If I'd been that Flight Attendant, I'd have asked Karen once Politely to move back to her seat.
When Karen refused to move, I'd have then told her: Ma'am either you sit in your assigned seat right now or I WILL call Security and have you and your child removed from the flight entirely. You have 10 seconds to choose before I choose for you and make that call... 5...4...3...2...1...OK, you had your chance, on your head be the consequences......
Yep.Messing with TSA or flight attendants is a federal offence, and a rather big one. Karen and her crotch goblin would be facing serious consequences.
The girl, in the story where she punched out the groping classmate, should file away that bit of information and pull it out as necessary in middle and high school if the groper decides it's a good idea to harass her about ANYTHNG. "Oh groper, did you tell your buddies about the time I knocked your lights out for groping me were in elementary school? Yeah, I decked him. Nothing to it!" 😄
Sad that schools these days only take action when fists are thrown. When I was in middle school, anyone caught sexually harassing anyone, boy or girl, was met with instant detention, then ISS (In School Suspension), then normal suspension and finally expulsion.
Happens in the workplace too, but it’s usually the victim who defends their self that gets punished and the offender gets away with whatever they want.
Mombie was lucky she and the baby weren't hauled off the flight for failing to comply with the instructions of a uniformed crew member!
Lol... Well put. Do you speak from experience? 😉
@@Kelo_6277_ spoken like an entitled. Betting you have heard it more than once.
2nd story just how would she explain that the restaurant was still under construction to the police before the accident.
Story 1: was the guy blind? Is that why he needed the dog?
Story 2: how do you miss the "Coming soon!" part?
Story 3: Parents who brush off their son sexually assaulting girls shouldn't be parents.
I'd guess it was the USA, so it would have been a "support animal"
I agree with your number 3, provided that you see it in both directions. There are plenty of girls who think nothing of pinching boys; on the behind included. Would you call it sexual assault if a girl was repeatedly pinching a boy on the butt?
After all, girls butts are no more ‘sexual’ than boys’ butts.
@@julieb157 still think there's a size limit. My sister had her dog with her, and he was only allowed with her because he was small enough for a carrier bag. IDK, I've never heard anything about large breeds on planes. 🤷♀️
@@CTrunde that's a good point, "hands off" should be taught to bother sides.
@@sakilynn there's two kinds of animals people try to get on planes and such; service animals recognized and protected by the ADA. And emotional support animals which have no legal standing. Size is irrelevant to a service animal. Size matters for pets.
Story2: Why am I reminded of the "Squeeze me Gently" horn from The Mask film? I think Karen wants to communicate!
AWOOOOOOGAAA!!! LOL
Story 3:
As a child of parents who divorced at age 1, the one thing I know is that when it comes down to it - doesn't matter how my mom and dad feel about each other. When it comes to me, they will be there as best as they can. I'm glad these divorced parents are of the same mind.
The last story. Good on hubby for not being a Ken.
Story 3: BEST GIRL DAD EVER! And way to go Mom for having his back even though you're divorced. It's all about the child! And yeah the daughter got cake! She earned it.
When I was little, I also knocked a boy flat for grabbing my backside.
It did solve my problem.
Years ago, one of my daughters was attacked and defended herself, in front of a teacher. She'd had no previous contact with her attacker. The school administration wanted to suspend her. I informed them that if my daughter was punished for defending herself that we would be suing the school, school district, principal, vice-principal, and the school board. The matter, as far as my daughter was concerned, was dropped.
The last story: it makes me think all that safety gear is counterproductive. It would actually help humankind to let the idiots to weed themselves out without hindrance.
Yep
"Your daughter needs to learn that violence isn't the answer."
She told him to stop multiple times. The teachers told him to stop multiple times. The school did nothing to stop this boy from continuing to harass her after being told to stop. So in this instance, it WAS the answer because the school was enabling his behavior.
That principal and the boys' parents suck.
I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with the whole 'violence isn't the answer' crap. Violence isn't USUALLY the answer. But there are certain kinds of extreme situations when it totally IS.
Violence isn't the answer. Violence is the question. When any form of assault is involved, the answer is: YES!
Story 1: at least this was a low level Karen, i'm glad that the Old Man got an upgrade, it's either that or throwing Karen of the plane
which solution would be better though? Upgrade? or out with the witch?
Toss the baby in the overhead bin... lock the mumijira in some storage closet for the duration of the flight...
I was abused in high school for a year and a half and he never got in trouble. Like he hit me and poured soda on me and threw food at me. I dropped out the second I turned 16 and home schooled myself. This whole "boys will be boys" mentality is sick. Good for you for sticking up for your daughter. Nobody stook up for me.
Story 4: Strange exaggerations aside (don't know why OP had to make those descriptions in the beginning), it's important to listen to adults and follow the rules. Even a *Preschooler* can do it better than that kid.
Story 3…. Been there. Daughter being bullied, told counselor, told teacher, told both parents to leave her alone or I will unleash her. Nothing. My daughter was the sweetest thing imaginable, until you got on her wrong side. She was small, 5 foot 100 lbs, but worked out. I told her to do what she had to do.
Two weeks later I got the call.
Mr Sporing, we have x in office for fighting.
I told you guys I would turn her loose!
What do you mean????
My son and her were in same class, and my son said ‘dad, it was scary!.
She broke the kids nose, eye socket, two front teeth, black eyes….yea, she did good.
I’d always taught my kids to never start a fight, it’s better to walk away. But, if need be, to stand up for yourself. And like OP, I trained them how to take care of themselves if need be.
I never had a bad flight/bad passanger on a plane. And i always notified them that they can say it if it's too loud (music or movie on the plane) and i always ask if it's okay when i watch a certain movie (movie with nudity or violence (think wedding crashers and the hangover etc....). Never once had a problem. EDIT : I'm worried about the principal and that boy's parents downgrading s3xual harrasment....... They all need to be on a list and have CPS involved.
"Boys will be boys" needs to stop being used as an excuse for your kid being a brat.
11:00 I love it when exes can work together for the benefit of their children. Far to often one ex will try to use their child to hurt the other, without considering the harm they are causing to the child.
Story 3: Like heck! I would have demanded that my daughter receives NO punishment and the boy is brought up on criminal charges. If that didn't happen, I'd have blasted the school on social media and gotten my lawyer and the police involved. No way that is acceptable.
15:05 OP is kinda ableist for that ADHD comment, thank you very much Darkfluff for not reading that out.
Chick-Fil-A story: Not the way I expected it to go. I expected that she would somehow wind up burying her car in wet cement. Fun!
Assaulting someone isn't violence, but defending yourself is? That's cognitive dissonance if I ever heard it.
when i read the words "fussing crotch monster" i died laughing on that part 🤣🤣🤣
7:00 - "OK, kids, looks like it just you and daddy for dinner tonight because mummy's gone and gotten herself arrested again."
Story 3, EK deserved a nap. Bet he stays away from the little Terminator. Little girl, nice job sweetheart.👍👏
Karen: I want all these incompetent people fired!
Me: We would fire the incompetent idiots, but you don't work here.
Fluffs rant about karens paying for lawyers made me think, how much you wanna bet that there's a Karen out there that thinks their lawyer charges to much for a successful case?
story 2, as the drive thru wasn't finished I was actually expecting the Karen to drive Into wet cement and get stuck
That school story is a perfect example as to why our school system is a massive failure. No consequences for sexual behavior ( hell teachers these days are flat-out encouraging it) yet punishing those who try to defend themselves.
It's a symptom. Most in administration are politicians, not educators. Elected or appointed politicians get make all the rules, and the people who actually care about kids have to follow them and help the kids despite the rules. Do you believe teachers don't care about the violent kids they work with? Teachers document, document, and document, but administrators lose or bury it all with procedures and process. Teachers watch kids keep doing awful things, but if the parents don't want to do anything about it, the kids won't be stopped. My MIL taught elementary school for 40 years and can read the police reports in the paper after decades of retirement and say "Yep. I knew it. I saw that coming."
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There are good teachers and bad teachers. Some teachers want to help young minds grow, others are bullies and are trying to push their political beliefs onto children. I've read enough Reddit horror stories about our "educators" to be aware of that.
@@ShadowD.Joestar How many of those stories were about the good ones?
Because good teachers who dedicate their lives to loving kids and quietly bucking the system don't get any press.
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Not enough.
And people wonder how men grow up to think they can do whatever they want. Because they're being taught throughout society, that they can. This needs to change immediately, everywhere.
I don't think the girl should've been suspended. She told the teachers and that didn't work so she defended herself. I've worked in schools as a sub (who became known at one school as the sub who gave detentions), a behavioral aid (TSS) and an assistant preschool teacher. If you really care about kids and want to do your job, there's no way you'd let the situation get that far to where she had to punch him to get him to stop. Hopefully he's learned a life long lesson to keep his hands to himself!
Also, what's going on at home where he thinks it's ok to do that? I never understand why parents use that excuse of "boys will be boys!" That's messed up!
I just noticed the lesson in Story 2, and that's about CAMERAS: A Karen's Worst Nightmare.
Yeah! Little girl knocks her attacker out! When I was a little girl I got in trouble for “running on the new blacktop” at my school. I was running because a boy kept trying to kiss me and I did not want him to. He did not get in trouble.
As a child, as part of my family, we were taught to be courteous, and not to view ourselves as special. We were taught to recognize the needs of others.
Because of this all kinds of wonderful things have happened, I was bumped up the first class when I was no more than maybe 11 years old. I have had other benefits similar, being moved to a better seat for example, and even once I had my meal paid for by the establishment, I did not ask nor did I even suggest it. It was a total surprise. I was caught in the middle of an altercation with an employee that was being fired and escorted away because I was so polite and so considerate, I was told my meals on the house.
The first class came about, when the plane was overbooked. I have no idea how old the Gentlemen was but he was about my dad’s age. As it happened, I was flying standby. My mother had been with me up until about 15/20 minutes before bullet boarding when she had to leave because she had to be someplace else. She wanted to be with me as long as she could. This happened a long time ago I’m now 75. I was told that if they did not have room on that plane there was another one in another hour that I would be boarding. My mother made sure I had dimes so I could call and let my dad know what was going on and what flight I’d be living on. First class was not full. But coach was and did not have any more seats, I figured I was not going to get on because I was flying standby, if I remember correctly he also was flying standby. One of us would get the one seat left. since I was first in line I was going to get it, he threw up a tantrum. I was all ears and paying a lot of attention because this man was to me weird acting like a two-year-old. The next thing I knew I was being escorted to first class, and he got my seat. Now I know now, they did not have to board both of us. I believe that it was a way of putting the gentleman in his place. I’m not sure what happened, but at some point the captain of the plane passed me in first class. I know there was a commotion in coach. I’m assuming that’s a very angry gentleman was not happy that I got first class, just a kid. It was a wonderful experience one I will never forget. The stewardesses were wonderful and took such good care of me as if I was one of their daughters or sisters. When we arrived one of the stewardesses stayed with me to see me off to the party that was meeting me at the airport. In those days you walk down and spin set of stairs and had to walk to the terminal, I have so much to tell my relatives that I was meeting.
*Story 3* is a textbook example of rape culture. If OP or his ex-wife faltered or even slipped up for a moment, his daughter would've been suspended for *self-defense against sexual assault.* And let's not forget the fact that it sounds like she endured this treatment for literal months before finally fighting back.
This is why sexual assault is so common and so under-reported. The feelings of the abuser are valued more highly than the bodily autonomy of their victim.
Last story: the dad probably yelled at his wife for signing their son up for a class he was to young for, the damages he did to the property, and the negligence she showed by not keeping their child under control.
Karen: I'm never coming back here!
Me: and the staff rejoices!
Story 3 glad to hear a divorced couple is able to come together when their child needs them and still have at least some respect for each other even though it didn’t work out. Anyone else feet the feeling that op would destroy the world to protect his daughter? 😂
Karens are almost always lying to the police
ONLY half of the time ? More like 99.95% of the time. The half only apply to 0.1% of what they tell the police.
"I have a BABY, I can't sit in the middle seat!"
The steward should have countered "You have a BABY, why did you BOOK the middle seat?"
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You are correct, violence isn’t the answer.
Violence is a question, and the answer is yes.
Story 3: The boy should have been arrested. That is criminal. I would have belted him too
Good for the girl who defended herself …😂❤
"Boys will be boys" was how my first sexual harassment at age 8 was brushed off by adults too. Just that one line makes me so mad now.
3rd story: Boys Will Be Boys is NEVER an excuse for the kind of behavior that boy was showing. His parents had an abuser of females in the making in their care. Hopefully the consequences he paid for his actions at least made him think twice before doing it again!
10:12 Story: the girl shouldn't be punished, the boy should like wtf is the principle thinking !? Good job dad 👏
Story 3, my niece (age 12) had a problem with a boy (age 13) in her middle school who thought that it was funny to pull on her bra strap and let it snap back. She complained almost daily for the first half of the school year and nothing was done. I taught her several tricks to defend herself and told her not to put up with anymore of his crap. The tricks I taught her were skills that I had learned as an exchange student in Japan. (Kendo & Shotokan Karate) The next time the boy grabbed her bra strap she told him to back off. When he didn't and then grabbed her rear end she defended herself breaking his arm and giving him a black eye. I was called in to the school and informed that they were going to expel her for injuring the boy. They backpeddled very quickly when I then demanded that the police be called. The school principal asked why I wanted the police and I informed him that I was going to file charges against the boy and needed the police report for the million dollar lawsuit I was filing against the school and the parents. I told him that they refused to act on my niece reporting him multiple times so I instructed my niece to do what she felt necessary. I then told the principal and parents I was filing sexual assault charges against the boy and child neglect charges against the school staff. I told the principal that if he was going to kick my niece out of school for defending herself from being sexually assaulted that when I was done he would be lucky to keep his job and the boy would end up being required to register as an offender for the rest of his life. I said that the outcome was in his hands but that I had 3 local TV stations on speed dial and would be calling them if anything happened to my niece. The end result was that the boy was suspended for 4 weeks and then transferred to the middle school across town. There was no action taken against my niece and the next time she had a problem with an aggressive boy the school staff stepped in immediately to stop the situation. Word got around very quickly that "Boys will be boys" would no longer be tolerated and any harassment would result in immediate action by the school staff. My niece did not have any more problems of this type for the remaining 2 years until she went to high school.
Another amazing Darkfluff video! Thank you fluff and Steve!
Wait!!!!! Why wasn't the police and the school board not brought into the situation????
school board yes, maybe not the police? he was like 5 after all
If the police were involved at all, it wouldn't be against the five-year-old, but instead to investigate why a five-year-old was behaving sexually, since that's a sign that he's been molested himself.
3rd story, I was expelled in high school because of a guy that would not leave me alone. In trying to get away from him, somehow his arm got broken. I was blamed, exactly how to this day I am not sure, tiny 5'2" girl vs 6'+ football player.......but it's my fault his arm got broken while he was trying to pull my clothing about.............
LMAO story 3........ WE GIRLS GOTTA BE BAD ASSES FLUFF.... WHO ELSE IS GONNA DO IT FOR US?
I love that OP in story 4 is wishing (like me) for one less hell-spawn in the world.
Hell no. Multiple sexual assaults and the teachers don't intervene? She was acting in self defense at that point. She should not have had punishment. If he was an adult and it happened at work, any company worth their salt would fire his a**
If my daughter (or any of my sons) ever got in trouble for defending themselves or anyone else against SEXUAL ASSAULT, especially when its been reported before and nothing was ever done, my kids would absolutely not get in trouble at all! I would be contacting local news as well as suing the school or daycare or company or wherever this took place. If the adults wont do anything to stop assault, there is no way my kids will be punished for stopping it.
Story 3: "Please put in writing, NOW, with witnesses, describing the incident and those involved, BEFORE I leave with my daughter. I intend to challenge this suspension. I will share this information with the District Attorney / Prosecutor's Office and Child Protective Services. The boy involved is showing behavior of a sexual predator. If you decline, call the Police, and this issue will escalate to impugn the reputation of this school, the future of the assaultive little boy, and the integrity of his family." (While standing there, contact your attorney. Request references to specialty, aggressive lawyers. Contact non-emergency police yourself. And WAIT for immediate resolution for your school report.. )
Why does it seem like there are more and more Karen’s in the world? Is it just because they always were there but technology is making them seem more prevalent?
Story 3. HeadStart pushed my son our because he defended himself against a bully he kept telling his teachers was bothering him. Kid shoved him and took his ball and my son - full of anger from the bulky getting away with it, grieving over my dad death just 2 weeks prior (he and my dad was close) - exploded and punched the kid. But oh no the other kid wasn't sent home cause "he has a hard home life" 😡 I pulled him out right then and there because they tried insinuated I was a bad mom. I told them to F off. I took him to get frozen yogurt. He was 5 and was crying cause apparently they told him he was a "bad boy".
He's 9 now and all his teachers he's had gush how he's a sweet kid and very helpful to his classmates and teacher. His current teacher is heavily pregnant and he's constantly helping her around class without anyone asking. Love that kid.
We try to teach our kids they had better not start any fights. But if there is a fight finish it quick. That little girl should not have gotten in any trouble, if anything CPS should have been called on the boys parents, because what sort of example are they showing him?
So long ago when I was an infant my mom was flying with me. I kept crying because I was an infant. They gave my mom a free upgrade to the empty first class area to get my screaming diapered butt away from the other passengers. Both my parents profusely apologized to the rest of the passengers, who were pretty nice about it apparently. My parents both learned real quick not to take a baby somewhere they can't get away when crying and tantrums occur. Life is better when people come together and have empathy and understanding of each other.
Ability to breed does not give you a free pass to get what you want. The girl who defended herself should not have been punished. Her parents should have have let the local news know about it. That may result in policy being changed or at least the principal being rightfully shamed publicly.
Story 3: I was a victim of the "punish the defender" mindset in elementary. I was being bullied, telling the teachers constantly. Never did anything. Multiple times, I would finally work up the nerve to stand up for myself. When I did? I would be the only one punished. Years later I would figure out why the bully was never punished. He was the only black kid in the school.
I want to read some stories from the spouses of Karens.
I can’t believe that the 4 year old girl from Story 3 just knocked out that boy with one strike.
The father in the first story is absolutely me!
Under absolutely no circumstances would I tolerate that school for that, (I already have enough issues towards schools as it is)
Air lines SHOULD to be able throw ANYONE OFF. ..". for Any SAFTY issue