Skillopedia - 05 Brilliant ways to deal with a bad boss - Skills at workplace/Job
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- Skillopedia - 05 Brilliant ways to deal with a bad boss - Skills at workplace/Job
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Is your boss a case of narcissism and bullying? Does he take credit for all your work? If that is the case then you need to continue to watch this Skillopedia session where today we are discussing ways to deal with a nasty boss.
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1. Work on your escape plan
The first step is to plan an escape. In order to escape from this you need to use this job to develop your skills rather than leaving it suddenly. Once you have strategically developed your skills for the next job you can thoughtfully start applying. It will be a bad idea to complain against your boss who will be sided by all the higher-ups and most probably such a decision will act as an arrow against you.
2. Look for allies and support from other areas
More than complaining about your boss it’s essential that you develop a supportive environment in your workplace by helping your colleagues. It would be great if you can find yourself in the good books of those at or above your boss’s level so that you can be assured of positive reference in the future.
3. Find ways to influence and manage their behavior
Find out the likes and dislikes of your boss. If you think he likes a particular person it’ll be a good idea to slip into his positive reference whenever you have an opportunity. If you see that he/ she believes in family values you can share about the strong family values that you were raised with. Your boss should see you as an ally and not an opponent. This is the purpose of this point. He should be able to identify your ideas as common with his.
4. Don’t cower, but don’t get into a power struggle
Stand for yourself. If you feel attacked by the way your boss behaves in public or private, you must voice it out. Possible, this will remind your boss of you being a sensitive human being as well. Do not get into a power struggle against him because in a case like that, you are bound to loose. So stand for yourself and voice your feelings.
5. Give Your Best and Manage Your Emotions
It’s truly hard to manage your work and emotions at the same time especially when your work is undervalued or wrongly criticized. Use your experience with your current employer as a stride for developing coping mechanism so that you are prepared for your next job. It’s essential for you to give your best even in the midst of an emotional storm by persevering until you finally decide to switch to another job. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
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I never thought I would be here watching this video. I didnt imagine life this way!
Damn, I was just telling to myself the same :)
Its our dad's fault :)
Same
Same here
I swear!!!!
Yep. Wonder how these people are born.
I hate my boss. My salary isn't even enough for him to treat me like this.
Dannielle Ray Tia No salary is enough to being mistreated.
It's okay sista
Even I
Get another job and tell your boss to F off, whoever he maybe.
Pray, and plan on getting your new job. 🙂..things may get better in time as well.
Sometimes none of this works. Just find another job they are who they are
sadly so..and sometimes its just systematic at all levels and very unlikely to change so really the best solution is to just leave
Exactly! Spare the BS, and look for a better job. It’s not worth your health. 💯
True. After a certain age, we start to realize that a lot of.these behaviors are pathological, and stem from deeper issues; which is why simply talking to them will do absolutely nothing. Finding a better job is just a much better option.
Very true dear.... Some will never change
Actually, talking it out does nothing especially if that person had taken things personally. Even with little effort, she will ignore it and get back to me thru her nasty words and power tripping.
I worked with a 22 year old boss from the tv production and she’d teat me unfairly. I’m only 18 years old who still needs these tips. Thank you, I find this motivating 😊.
I absolutely LOVE the angle of this video. Instead of some of the other videos that encourage employees to find mental ways to tolerate and deal with a toxic environment or a toxic boss, it's sometimes good to put yourself first and plan your exit strategy while attempting to do your best while you're still there with the organization. This was a very realistic way to manage getting through the day-to-day and preparing for whatever is next. I also like how she mentioned the HR and higher level manager angles. If you get to that point where you feel you need to do that, seriously consider whether it's time to go or not...and whether you can deal with what comes after you've gone to HR or a higher up.
Everything she said was the brutal truth. Especially the part about HR. This really helped me. Just cope with this boss the best you can, and learn as much as possible while you are there. You will be the winner in the end.
Answer: Start your own business.
Fact: internet opens up your possibilities, you can freaking sell something practically to anyone on the planet.
FIRE that boss
Fire to burst.
Amen. Working on that dream, and it's almost a reality!
Great advice! PLAN YOUR ESCAPE!
Woman bosses are the worst.
Anna Ja have one currently and she’s lovesss to powertrip over every little thing
@@Alkatraz581 my boss too
Soooooo true Ana,I recently was told by my Boss that I have to act like if I am the Boss.The she gives me a micromanaging list to follow. Plus I was told by her that I really don't know my stuff.I played the part and did not tell just anything I feel at times those micromanagers never make it plus they always think that they are the best of the best.
Totally agreed
I had female bosses who were absolute bitches with no commonsense, though educated. They just worked up the ladder cos they knew how to suckup to their superiors.
I went to HR and my boss was fired within 2 months.
Adeem Sajid how this happened ?
Tell us we will follow the same...
Pls share your experience.
Documentation. If your boss is incompetent, then document it. spend a few months going through instances, date/time them and elaborate on them fully.
Stay in contact with the higher-ups. A manager is just that, but you're free to speak with others. I went directly to the head of my department and arranged a meeting with them where I explained everything.
I handed over the documentation, and had a follow-up meeting to answer any questions.
In my case, the head of the department had a chat with my manager to confirm whether such events had taken place as described in my documentation. Once it was agreed upon that they took place and unprofessional, the request to have my manager removed was sent to the central office in a different city.
Two weeks later my manager was removed.
Bear in mind, this worked because I am a key part of the team I work with and in the institution i work in. If i was an intern or some newbie who just started, i wouldn't be taken seriously. Be good at your job and people take you seriously.
That's all.
Adeem Sajid being good at your job in most cases first work. it just happened to work for you because you obviously work for a company that practices professionalism. Good for you.
I meant "don't" work.
Good job, Adeem. So glad it worked for you. Lots of times, management sticks together, unless it's a circumstance that puts the entire company at risk. Documentation is important. Without documentation, "legally" its like it never happened. It just turns into a lot of "he said...she said" mumble-jumble. Documentation signifies the seriousness of the matter.
This video basically says if you don’t like your boss, deal with it until you find another boss. This video should say. Become a good boss.
Why do I have to leave a job all the time if I have a bad boss?
You dont. Dont listen to this idiot
I question everything if this was the military some things she’s saying is true!!
Exactly my point
Please consider that loving yourself is the standard for how you love others. Love others as yourself. I just spent the first half of my life believing I should love others better than myself. when I saw that so much this wrong mindset contributed to my bad choices in the past that led to major hardship. I knew I had help again and the ability to positively control my own happiness and success by making sure I love myself the same as I had been loving others
This is nothing more than common sense and motherly advise. If you want to make it in this world, you have to be strategic, you have to be ruthless, and above all you have to have the guts to do it. If you meet these requirements already, or are working on creating them within yourself, you have a chance and dont need this video. If you dont have the desire to become that strong independent person, watch all the basic psychology videos you want and you'll still go nowhere.
In most cases, the very reason our boss hate us and wants us to leave is not because we are incompetent but because we don’t praise him all the time like other employees do. We can’t sugar coat things. Our boss wants us to roam around him like dogs with their tails always moving. This is their insecurities because they see us as a potential threat for their job which they get because of some corruption or by other unfair means
Hi,
My boss is 26 years old, more money than brains and very demanding, I ignore his demands and do my job as usual!! Regards, Bob frate
Although whatever tips have been shared are great but in real world it all depends on situation to situation. You cant deal everything in a subtle way. Take a stand for yourself. I scolded my boss and complaint to his senior and then moved to another department and now focussing on my work
There were some really good points in this video. The messages were super positive. Thank you so much.
Thanks Michelle for this wonderful insight... you have wonderfully drafted all the thoughts with maturity. Most of the time all these things are known to us eventhough putting them in words and presenting like you have done, make mind clutter free. I wish, i remained surrounded with people like you..
This was very useful. Thanks..
I learned a few more new vocabulary by this session. Thank you.
So helpful....Thank uuuuuuu💜
Thank you for all your advice! This video really helped me!
The boss is first a person, boss is just a title provided by a social entity. If he/she is fired, they are back being a person. If the boss is bad, how is the company tolerating such bad behavior? In theory, no employee should have to deal with bad boss. The company's code of conduct does not allow bad behavior, then how these nasty bugs survive being a boss?
Omg.... exactly..you are so right
Hi,
My boss is the owner and boss of my job, many times it's a very hostile environment and he allows it! Regards, Bob frate
many times they just fake it till they make it and contd being fake-they now how game the system...but very true its just a title and zero indication of how good of a person they are..sadly I have had to deal with outwardly "good" bosses but they truly are slimy individuals😑
Had the misfortune to run across a female supervisor who got the job because of the old screwing the boss method, she had zero people skills, not very good at running things, yet their she stays, lucky I didn't need to.
Thank you Skillopedia. You saved the day once again.
Thank you again. I know that HR does speak behind your back and they were responsible for calling me headstrong. Sometimes that has nothing to do with me and they said it in an angry tone. Staying calm works. I can see my boss from the back of my head when she hesitates to say OK you can take calls. The boss is nasty people.
great video but i disagree with findinh something in common with a bos... we shouldnt have to do that
Mami Yankee yeah the advice gets worse as the list goes on
I hate my boss too and I work at McDonald's . You would think that the managers there are polite but they are nasty and dirty
Get some skills and get a better job.
Ya work up your skills in something you wanna do and look up starting jobs in that field. Expect that fast food joints won't usually be good working environments.
Very sound Advice!! I needed to hear this tonight.
Great advice! I like how the focus is on coping and learning from it. Helps if I can think of my situation like this
So true about Human Resources ! They SUCK
Lovely tips... Thanks a lot
Hi again,
My boss is the owner and boss of my job, he needs all of us employees to know he's the boss! And he plays that role very well, nobody likes him, he doesn't care! Regards, Bob frate
Your owner is 26? Maybe learn something...
how to develop a good subconscious mind.
what here I meant to say or explain is.. sometime we have so much negative feelings and goes deeper in subconscious level.
As something goes very badly in our subconscious mind..when time comes we act so unconsciously because of wrong seeds planted in our subconscious mind.
Kindly make a video on it so it will be helpful to have optimistic/positive attitude even the things go wrong.
Thank you for the session! Only advice I think important is to plan your escape!
Timestamps
1:22 1. Work on your escape plan
2:59 2. Look for allies and support from other areas
4:44 3. Find ways to influence and manage their behavior
6:51 4. Don’t cower, but don’t get into a power struggle
8:55 5. Give Your Best and Manage Your Emotions
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very good i learned a lot from you. i wish i would have seen these vids before going off on my boss but like i said i learned a lot from your vids. thank you!!!
This is very useful words, thank you
Thank you so much for your advice. I'll try to follow the instructions.Though my boss is very cruel and looking for the chance to put me down.
wonderful !
Thanks for making this video. It is really nice and well-executed.👍
Dont lie. This video is garbage.
YES i have a boss like that! 😢
Thank you just to know there's a video like this is awesome
I've been working for my company for 10 years I can't just leave - no escape -
Excuses.
Bla
Blake, I've been working at my job for 15 years n very close to retirement but I find myself in this position where at this age I have to look for alternatives. Wot a sad situation some people can put u in. Good luck to u.
Why not?
0:34 "Incom-peetant" LOL. still cute tho.
You just Lovely human on the earth, Love your Idea ,God bless,
THANKS
I dont like my boss too. And im became so stress. She trying to find anything to scold me for no reason. She will create many reason for that.
Great tips
So Great
Well said, I think you may had experience with that
Awsum!
I saw my last paycheck and it was the most I've ever earned in my professional life and I started sobbing. Not due to happiness but because it struck me that the way Im being abused by my boss and her flying monkeys at work isnt worth all the money in the world!
For my own peace of mind and happiness, I am putting a plan into action to transfer departments. I know my value and deserve to be supported, acknowledged for my hard work, encouraged in my career goals. NOT harrassed, overworked, humiliated in meetings, held at a higher standard than my other coworkers, blamed and unfairly critisized for mistakes that others get away with, and have my ideas ignored then later stolen! Screw that, I am out!
If there is clear communication between you and boss, work become easier. Avoiding nastiness between two is the key to make work successful and get things done. Yes there are problem to solve for everyone in organisations and that's why we are employed there.. Whether it is your boss or you.. So making things difficult for employee is nothing more than no brainer job as a boss...
I liked this video very much..each and every point from this is so much true in my case.
Same with me here
thanks maam
THANK YOU!
thnk you 🙏
Thank you for wonderful tips. . Most valuable 🙏
HI !!! MICHELLE. I 'm just simple thanks God through you !,
Excellent advice!
Loads of love ma'am... lrep smiling... keep shining ... stay beautiful... Stay blessed forever more 😍
There is nothing you can do about it. My last job of 9 years HR was called in two times and they would not fire him. They told him it was the last time. Two people retired early and won in court. The guy would micromanage and nitpick.
Regarding your point #5 , I'm split between giving my best and slacking these days, my boss now is a micromanager who replaced the previous good one who resigned, but I can't resign because I'm waiting for redundancy pay out if that ever happens. I hate this idiot but I guess I'll just have to heed your #5 advise and still continue to perform near my best.
Thanx
Thanks for the great advice
Thanks mischele brilliant way of escaping boss
Karunpratapsingh Arya Michelle
it tooke me 3 times to listen, in order to understand the advices. Which are excellent, how evere it is very important to articulate, not all viewers have the patience to watch the vid 3 times in order to understand correctly.
fantastic
Kindly make a video session for delivering remarkable presentation...
my boss hired me in interview on the promise that they would honour my hours at the job . everything was fine for two weeks and now she has given all the shifts i cant do and is trying to guilt trip me as if its my fault ..i cant take it i have a small child she knew i could do these hours .im going to give her an ultimatum today .completely manpulated me
How is the situation now?
i love your videos
wow great idea
Thanks Mischele ...
You looking stuning
nice lesson
Thanks
Hi, thank you for motivation, yes this right if i go to HR he/she will be happy i am complaining about boss but with this he/she will use as a weapon from me against boss to satisfy his/her ego.he/she is also unhappy but instead will use me as a wepaon
ur words r great
Thank you madam...
Ok, no.
If you work with bunch of unprofessional, staying professional doesn't benefit you
Exactly 😭🥺
Excellent video
I was told when i went to complain about my boss. That it's my job to make him look good.
Sometimes the HR officer is an inexperienced terrified millennial. They think their job is to make their company appear compliant while covering up managerial corruption. #UnitedTRASHofAmerica
very nice mam.
Very helpful
Highly Appreciated . Thanks for the Realistic speech!
i love her voice :)
please deliver a lecture on Official latter (email)
writing and replying
Thanks dear I needed this
great video thank you!
also you are SO pretty and have beautiful hair! Don't change 😉💖
I just got a bully and nasty male boss. He tried all his best to get an advantage of me. He tried to confuse me withsomething. And he always blames me on something, and treats me as I'm a garbage. But I don't allow myself to feel timidated or afraid of his nasty treatment of me. When ever he says this, I will say that. Whenever he says " BULLSHIT TO ME, I say GOD DAMN SHIT TO HIM."
i love you soo much
Nice
This advice is pretty reactionary and unhelpful for new starters. Also gendering all bosses to being men is a little outdated.
Very true. One lady idiot boss is ruining life's of 200 people
@@sanitha5165 it takes all kinds. If you're so sensitive be accepting
She's a human resource employee her words are familiar, Glad I quit my job and now a free portfolio manager earnings while chilling 😎
You looking awesome
thanks mam for sharing this information.. My boss only want to listen yes or no from my end... he dosen't listen what is the fact which i am trying to tell.. working under pressure..
You looks so pretty and great advice for me thanks
My boss and the management team I work for have done illegal things, refused to listen to the company policy, and told minors that they need to solve distressing issues on their own.
Your content is amazing and very helpful but your way of speaking is way more stylish...
OMG I'm already planning my escape!!!!!!!
Mysasser1 me too!!!!
Same here!
Mysasser1 did u get the hell outta there ?
Cute teacher