I completely agree! Ignoring them can often be the best way to reclaim your peace and minimize their impact on your life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Thanks for your educational experience and resources and support. Psalm91 and psalm23 are the most powerful prayers in the Bible for protection against the spiritual warfare that's going on throughout the world population. God-bless.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I'm glad you found the resources helpful. It's wonderful to see how faith can provide strength during tough times. God bless you too!
I spend most of my time at home quite happily. I hardly ever post anything on social media, I prefer privacy. I have considered changing my number but considering how they seem to have the savvy in accessing your phone it's possible they have the resources to find your new number... something I need to be certain that its worth the irritation of going through that process.
It's great to hear that you find happiness at home and value your privacy! It’s definitely a tough decision when it comes to changing contact information, especially if you’re concerned about safety. Take your time to weigh the options, and prioritize what feels right for you!
I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with this. It’s completely normal to feel that way, especially after breaking no contact. Allowing yourself to feel and process those emotions is an important part of healing. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and taking steps to prioritize your well-being is essential. Keep focusing on your journey. you’re doing the right thing!
She can’t contact me because I don’t post on social media right now. I don’t have any friends in common. I don’t answer calls I don’t recognize. When she tried to return my items I refused to meet with her. Told her to take them to my brother’s house. I sent her email to spam. And she moved 50 minutes away.
It sounds like you’re doing an excellent job of maintaining your boundaries and protecting your peace! Not engaging with her and setting clear limits, like directing her to your brother’s house, shows that you’re committed to your healing. Staying strong and focused on your own well-being is key. keep it up!
I'm so glad to hear that you've found peace after such a long time! It’s important to prioritize your well-being, and it sounds like you’re doing just that. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Good luck with that. I don’t have a social media presence and I don’t have any friends in common with my ex narc. I don’t answer numbers I don’t know or text. His mom was crazy about me and I adored her. Missing her is actually the only thing I’m missing not him at all. She would always get so happy whenever we “ reconciled”from a fight. Or she would kiss the phone whenever they’d video chat every morning when she saw I was there. She would be so happy and excited EVERY time she saw me. I remember her saying to me one day “ she needed a hug from me”. I do miss her. 😞 However,I stay away because she is “ his” mom. I don’t want to know how he’s doing or what he’s doing. Anyway,I say that to say, it would be hard for him to keep up with me. Plus I live 1 hr away. He may be wondering but knowing my life in real time would be difficult for him. I live a very private life.
I also don't have any social media presence. Unless they can somehow see my TH-cam comments. Social media was made by narcissists for narcissists, that's why I stopped using it.
It sounds like you have a strong handle on your boundaries, which is so important! It's understandable to miss his mom, especially if you had a close bond. Focusing on your own life and well-being is key, and it sounds like you're doing a great job of that. Maintaining your privacy and keeping distance from the ex can help you heal. Thank you for sharing your experience!
It sounds like you’re really committed to keeping those boundaries in place, which is so important for your healing. Trusting your instincts about fake accounts is a valuable skill, and it’s great to hear you’re taking proactive steps to protect yourself. Staying strong and focused on your own well-being will help you move forward! *anyway, tomorrow I'll share video about why the narcissist blocks you after discard.
Mine is really good at hiding. She's hoovered (attempt) 4x in her 6 month rebound. After making grand gestures 10 weeks ago about planning to leave the rebound, she's gone totally silent. Last email was "...I was only trying to say how it could have been. I was drunk." Etc. She literally pulled off a CIA worthy reach out that night, in how she found me. She was able to find a social media avenue that I was unaware that I had an account with. Days after that romantic hoover encounter, she posted lovely pics of her and the new supply and went silent. Ugh
That sounds incredibly frustrating and confusing. It's tough when someone plays games like that, especially after showing interest in reconnecting. Remember to focus on your own healing and well-being during this time. Thank you for sharing your experience!
yes ones the narcissist has your phone number or they added you on whatsapp or anything else they will hack you and keep a eye on you, most of them use two phones or a special program or app and they deny everything. i can easily lower myself on their level but it's not worth it they screw themselves up in the end.
You’re absolutely right. narcissists can be very manipulative, and it’s unsettling to feel watched. It takes strength to rise above their tactics and focus on your own well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia it takes strength and patience, they can plan whatever they want to try to be in control. as long as i am not part of it or present with the narcissist and yes they can be scummy and very dangerous at the same time. like you said a couple days ago they are like parasites and i compared them with dementors or vampires.
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Best to just ignore them in every way
I completely agree! Ignoring them can often be the best way to reclaim your peace and minimize their impact on your life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
Thanks for your educational experience and resources and support. Psalm91 and psalm23 are the most powerful prayers in the Bible for protection against the spiritual warfare that's going on throughout the world population. God-bless.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I'm glad you found the resources helpful. It's wonderful to see how faith can provide strength during tough times. God bless you too!
I spend most of my time at home quite happily.
I hardly ever post anything on social media, I prefer privacy.
I have considered changing my number but considering how they seem to have the savvy in accessing your phone it's possible they have the resources to find your new number... something I need to be certain that its worth the irritation of going through that process.
It's great to hear that you find happiness at home and value your privacy! It’s definitely a tough decision when it comes to changing contact information, especially if you’re concerned about safety. Take your time to weigh the options, and prioritize what feels right for you!
I broke no contact😞and it’s been hard to avoid the feeling of abandonment.. but it’s a must that I feel it as I hurt through this process…
I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with this. It’s completely normal to feel that way, especially after breaking no contact. Allowing yourself to feel and process those emotions is an important part of healing. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and taking steps to prioritize your well-being is essential. Keep focusing on your journey. you’re doing the right thing!
I was low-contact with two narcissistic relatives for decades. Got hoovered back when one became ill. :( Big mistake.
She can’t contact me because I don’t post on social media right now. I don’t have any friends in common. I don’t answer calls I don’t recognize. When she tried to return my items I refused to meet with her. Told her to take them to my brother’s house. I sent her email to spam. And she moved 50 minutes away.
It sounds like you’re doing an excellent job of maintaining your boundaries and protecting your peace! Not engaging with her and setting clear limits, like directing her to your brother’s house, shows that you’re committed to your healing. Staying strong and focused on your own well-being is key. keep it up!
I'm finally at peace, he ran off 10 1/2 yrs ago and remarried, he keeps in touch with my daughters, my son doesn't want to have a bar of him.
I'm so glad to hear that you've found peace after such a long time! It’s important to prioritize your well-being, and it sounds like you’re doing just that. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Good luck with that. I don’t have a social media presence and I don’t have any friends in common with my ex narc. I don’t answer numbers I don’t know or text. His mom was crazy about me and I adored her. Missing her is actually the only thing I’m missing not him at all. She would always get so happy whenever we “ reconciled”from a fight. Or she would kiss the phone whenever they’d video chat every morning when she saw I was there. She would be so happy and excited EVERY time she saw me. I remember her saying to me one day “ she needed a hug from me”. I do miss her. 😞 However,I stay away because she is “ his” mom. I don’t want to know how he’s doing or what he’s doing. Anyway,I say that to say, it would be hard for him to keep up with me. Plus I live 1 hr away. He may be wondering but knowing my life in real time would be difficult for him. I live a very private life.
I also don't have any social media presence. Unless they can somehow see my TH-cam comments. Social media was made by narcissists for narcissists, that's why I stopped using it.
Same
It sounds like you have a strong handle on your boundaries, which is so important! It's understandable to miss his mom, especially if you had a close bond. Focusing on your own life and well-being is key, and it sounds like you're doing a great job of that. Maintaining your privacy and keeping distance from the ex can help you heal. Thank you for sharing your experience!
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Thank you for your comment! It’s great to see support for targeted justice and awareness. Wishing you all the best on your journey, and God bless!
Thanks for your information 🙂👍🫶
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad you found the information helpful. 😊🫶
I don’t know how. She’s blocked me everywhere and where she hasn’t I’ve blocked her. And fake accounts I can smell from five miles away.
It sounds like you’re really committed to keeping those boundaries in place, which is so important for your healing. Trusting your instincts about fake accounts is a valuable skill, and it’s great to hear you’re taking proactive steps to protect yourself. Staying strong and focused on your own well-being will help you move forward!
*anyway, tomorrow I'll share video about why the narcissist blocks you after discard.
Mine is really good at hiding. She's hoovered (attempt) 4x in her 6 month rebound. After making grand gestures 10 weeks ago about planning to leave the rebound, she's gone totally silent. Last email was "...I was only trying to say how it could have been. I was drunk." Etc. She literally pulled off a CIA worthy reach out that night, in how she found me. She was able to find a social media avenue that I was unaware that I had an account with.
Days after that romantic hoover encounter, she posted lovely pics of her and the new supply and went silent.
Ugh
That sounds incredibly frustrating and confusing. It's tough when someone plays games like that, especially after showing interest in reconnecting. Remember to focus on your own healing and well-being during this time. Thank you for sharing your experience!
yes ones the narcissist has your phone number or they added you on whatsapp or anything else they will hack you and keep a eye on you, most of them use two phones or a special program or app and they deny everything. i can easily lower myself on their level but it's not worth it they screw themselves up in the end.
You’re absolutely right. narcissists can be very manipulative, and it’s unsettling to feel watched. It takes strength to rise above their tactics and focus on your own well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience!
@@NarcPedia it takes strength and patience, they can plan whatever they want to try to be in control. as long as i am not part of it or present with the narcissist and yes they can be scummy and very dangerous at the same time. like you said a couple days ago they are like parasites and i compared them with dementors or vampires.
Just stay away, stay silent, and be gone
That's a solid approach! Sometimes, the best thing we can do is create distance and focus on our own well-being. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
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