Galatians 5:16-17 (KJV) "This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would." I hope we all will repent and follow God's Commandments!🙏 Please confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead and you shall be saved! Don't perish for the lack of knowledge, please SEEK God while he's still available! This isnt intended to bring you fear but to help bring you CLOSER to our heavenly father and save your soul from eternal torment! I love you all! and may the Most High God bless us all in the Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ! Amen, HalleluYah!🙌❤️🕊🔥 📖
As a "nonchalant guy" I swear this is why I love dating women who love to talk. Keep talking, less I need to say and I make her happy because she knows I'm listening..
Down the line- things are breaking down, he won't be able to talk to any contractors, if he rents a car that was already damaged, he's going to pay for it without asking any questions. If someone is harassing her, he won't be able to defend her. Oh, She has to ask him for dates, he won't ask- Oh, if something hurts his feeling, she won't know.. That life is COSTLY emotionally and financially period, RUN!! only an AI can date him.
I’m 20 and I grew up with a Dad and still am growing up with a Dad who barely speaks, and is very nonchalant. It took me until I was about 16 to realize he showed enormous amounts of love through his actions, rather than his words
@@nashambenyisrael7689 No, it’s not. All my life I grew up seeing my friend’s fathers talk so much, and say “I love you” and “I’m proud of you.” Never once in my life have I seen a father that was as quiet as my Dad is. Hell, I can’t even remember the last time my Dad reached out for a hug. Fathers and mothers alike are the ones who aren’t afraid to speak up and express their feelings. I would give anything for my Dad to speak as much as a “woman” does, hopefully your sexist mind understands.
@1alexnumaiunul848 "Worry" doesn't solve tomorrow's problems. It simply ruins today's peace. God never intended for us to think about the past or future. We are supposed to enjoy the moment. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why it's called The Present.
Hellish not a hellhole. Planet earth is pretty amazing. Finding love. Feeling a cool breeze. Tasty things to eat. The beaches. Maybe you just don't like the people or the way society has coalesced. Life can also be cold but once you can feel your open to whatever the weather is.
Girls will confuse nonchalant guys with boredome while Women find them peaceful. A man like that knows not to create drama where there doesn’t need to be and that's a major green flag 👌
Dude was providing tho so he made it clear he wanted to be there with girly but yea I understand some females want a dude to match they hype energy but sometimes two equally LIT mfs be hella toxic in a relationship 😂💯
Yo! This is wild and truest comment ever! 😅 I too am married to one. Low key think I might go missing if I ever tried to leave.😂😂😂😂 He has done way to much stalker shit😢
my boyfriend is like this. it bothered me at first but honestly, he keeps me grounded and i can read him well now. and when he gets excited it’s so, so cute. treasure men like this.
Nahhh these types will casually cheat on you and go about their life acting the exact same way and you won’t even notice… but I guess ignorance is bliss Also they are the type to dump you out of nowhere, no fighting, no complaining, just “we need to talk” one day and it’s over.
@@jamjam9564 faithful is a quality we all look for and deserve. I was simply stating that he seems to give her an easy time in that dept and it must feel good. is that okay with you??
My takeaway is he's always listening to you, thinks about everything before he speaks and MAKES YOU FOOD WHENEVER YOU ASK😍This is the kinda "nonchalant" I can realllyrilly get behind personally💚
@@favored6007 Savannah was Whitney Houston, hon, her mom trying to hook her up with that dude from the Allstate commercials even though he was married...?
@@someone7773 deadass “you never talk” the whole time they just be frustrated bc you never slip up and say anything that could cause a petty argument 💀 they be finding that type of stupid shit entertaining 😭😭😭
Some quiet people are kind heared people are also rather evil if need be. We learned to observe and do more than talk. Someone talking smack may get an actual smile from us because we've been waiting for some bs to kick off way before you mistook us for a victim. 🫵🤬: @$&% ~#*×_ ! 🙂: 🎶 She's a very freaky giiirrll! The kiind you don't take home to muuthaaaaaa! 🎵🎼
@TheJola106 He just GLADLY gave her money and told her it's for whatever she wants. I'd take his nonchalant butt over these broke dramatic ninjas any day.
@@TheJola106hey man he pulled her somehow, and unless he suddenly would have become that way. He’s still not doing anything wrong. Some people are also better at showing how they feel vs just saying it ( which imo is overplayed ) we want to have that perfect textbook relationship but the truth is real relationships are flawed and worked through. (I’m also aware this is a skit I’m talking about the situation it’s depicting)
@andrerushawn6102 I didn't say he was doing anything wrong, I'm just saying poor communication definitely causes misunderstanding. If you love someone you just try your best to make things ok. Not perfect because cause not has to be
He has a peaceful soul. He does have emotions. He just may not express them. He shows his love through his actions. Is hard to talk when there's always someone talking.😅
This is actually the type of person I’m 100% most attracted to; it is an inner beauty and humbleness that completely drives me wild. There are tons of emotions being shown, but not a lot of words. When I date someone who behaves this way, I just want to hug and kiss them because this energy generates the same calmness inside myself that feels warm. We, especially we non-white individuals, are led by our emotions. In USA, most whites communicate with words and zero emotion, and we have adapted to their ways due to the majority of population and following trends. However, most of we non-whites are internally emotional like this and lead with our emotions, and this guy is a perfect reminder of our inner-beauty despite what others think or feel.
Thought I was the only one dealing with a nonchalant with no emotions lmao. He’s the chill and I’m the thrill. We’re balanced. Mine just needs to give me $ like that, he pays for everything and I pay when I can too but dang I felt that half ass smile. They smile inside.
I have a friend like this, never seen that fool get mad until... they got his paycheck wrong at work. Dat fool said "People gotta learn not to touch my money!". 😮😮😮
Nonchalant people like quiet people, they cool chill and often pretty nice til you cross them the wrong way or push their button or really piss them off, then your gonna see a side you’ve never seen before, a rather scary side
@@Javajavajav I meant to say butterfly, but my statement was perfectly comprehensible. Flies are so gentle that you initially don’t even know when they’re on you sometimes. Have a good day.
OMG I did too😂😅😂. Feels good to know I'm not alone in this. I used to think he wasn't interested in the relationship. Got to understand that it's really his personality. Sometimes he's chatty though but it only lasts for a minute 😅
My grandpa was exactly like this and it made me mad when people didn’t think he loved well or wasn’t happy. He smiled, he gave money just because, he cooked and picked up groceries just because. He was a kind soul and the chillest person I ever met. When people got mad at him he chuckled. I would rather have that than a hot head 😊
She wants you to be “vulnerable” even if there’s nothing to be vulnerable about so she can feel more secure in the relationship while simultaneously loosing respect for you as a man bc even though shes seeking for that emotion she doesn’t know she really doesn’t want that until she finally obtain it…. Women 101
My cousin just got married last month. His wife gave a long speech and then handed the mic to him. He said "what she said", gave a little smile and we all burst out laughing. He's been that way since we were kids. He's very low key and a man of very little words but close friends/family could tell that he was beaming that day. 😂
@@KnightPunkThe fact that there's always folks like y'all not understanding we're talking about the character a person portrays in the skit and not the actual person will forever be confusing.
It is a misconception that people who smoke are chill. I’ve seen the pitfalls of smoking firsthand. Become addicted to it, and instead of being chill, you become anxious when you go too long without it
My best friend is like this except theyre a girl, she rarely emotes, but she always does or says the most loving things to show her appreciation of our friendship 😭💖
My husband is like that!!! And I’m ok with that because we balance each other out… 11 yrs married wouldn’t change anything!!! His level of calmness calms me!!!
Yea so tip time cause hooww do you navigate through that? I understand it doesn’t bother you but It bothers me and makes me feel unappreciated in every aspect!
@@Momo454-zm3xn it did not happened overnight I can tell you that…ummm I used to get pissssssed!!! But then I just had to except that’s just who he is…and everything else about him I absolutely loved and out weighed that… BUT #1 I had way more flaws than him and he took me as I was… so why I couldn’t do the same for him!!! TRUST IT WAS A PROCESS… Because I wanted him to be excited because I was excited 😆… but one thing he did do was try to get excited because I was excited… and let me just tell you…. that was so awkward and it was so uncomfortable for me because I tried to make him someone he wasn’t… so either way my poe husband couldn’t win for losing!!! I said to myself one day leave that man alone🤣!!!
@@Momo454-zm3xnyou just have different personalities, no way to handle it. Just accept it, don't get offended by the smallest things i guess (depending on the context)
@@Momo454-zm3xn as a man, this is something you should tell him if you haven’t already. A lot of times we do that sort of thing without knowing or thinking about it never understanding or realizing how it makes the woman feel. Bringing it to his attention will help you understand why he does it and bring it to his attention so he knows to maybe change it a little, or you understand why he’s so quiet and then it won’t bother you as much. We deal with a lot of shit that most men don’t know how or even want to talk about which is my biggest issue, sometimes the best thing that’s happened for me was my girl calling me out in a calm and respectful way and just wanting to know why I am the way I am. Because of that I’ve been able to open up more and talk about shit I never thought I would have talked about. I think that saved my relationship honestly. Sorry that’s long but communication is absolutely one of the most important things.
He live life at 5% energy. He gonna live for 200 years.
Or he'll have a brain aneurysm out of nowhere at age 42
@@princeakeem716no in between 🤣
Fuck im laughing why you say that 😂😂😂😂@@princeakeem716
@@princeakeem716From chilling? Idk about that
@@tonyhormiga5242It be the ones who never had any issues that just up and go to the pearly gates for no discernible reason
He on power saving mode at all times 😂
😂😂😂😂
Lmao
I bet he is KILLER at mini golf or hoops tho
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
The boy literally said nothing… AND STILL GOT IN TROUBLE!💁🏾♀️😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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And THIS is how it goes lmaoo
@@Bluelude89 ts be blowing me like I don't emote like you move around with that I just be chilling and you wanna create arguments it's not happening.
That’s how it be
He shows his beautiful soul through his actions and his sweet smile 😇
Actions speak louder than words ❤️
Galatians 5:16-17 (KJV) "This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.
For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would."
I hope we all will repent and follow God's Commandments!🙏 Please confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus Christ, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead and you shall be saved! Don't perish for the lack of knowledge, please SEEK God while he's still available! This isnt intended to bring you fear but to help bring you CLOSER to our heavenly father and save your soul from eternal torment! I love you all! and may the Most High God bless us all in the Mighty Name Of Jesus Christ! Amen, HalleluYah!🙌❤️🕊🔥 📖
@@OnFire4Yahuhh.. Amen?
I LOVE them calm and quiet, as long as when he talks he's making sense and his life decisions are solid.
😂😂😂😂 right.
Facts 😂❤
True
AND actually looks you in your eyes when he talks to you or comes in to kiss you. Otherwise... His nonchalance means he don't see you
Preach!
As a "nonchalant guy" I swear this is why I love dating women who love to talk. Keep talking, less I need to say and I make her happy because she knows I'm listening..
Awww, that's a great statement 💜
So sweet ❤
I always feel like I’m being annoying by talking way more than my partner, it’s nice to know that some people like it that way!
smart man lol
Adorable.
He’s a man of few words, and more Action.
Cos Action speaks louder than words!!!😂💯
These are the type of men that will step for you if need be…appreciate that Sis.
Step for you in silence..that’s sexy and I like it..😅
He may seem nonchalant but he cares so deeply for you.
Most definitely! That's obvious even if it's not. If that makes sense ❤️
I don't see it
Ya reckon?
This is so true lol Bae has a soft side 😅☺️
Aww
He said you talk enough for the both of y’all. Perfect match.
This how I be w mines. Just a million questions all the time. The recording woulda irritated me too 😂😂😂
Swear
Yop exactly what it is w my girl. When we go out she speak to everybody for me she ordering my food drinks all that
😂😂😂
LOL
This guy is everything! Handsome, quiet, cooking passing off bills and with whatever. One in a million!
😂😂😂😂
Lackin’ elsewhere…JS
Ofc that’s all y’all after
Girl he just gave you money, went to the grocery store with you, and continues to be with that high pitched voice, he’s in love what you talmbout? 😂
This man’s actions speak louder then his words 👏💯
I liked that $100.00 bill he just nonchalantly gave to her, just because.
THAN NOT THEN
Especially cuz he barely says any words🤣
Period!
Down the line- things are breaking down, he won't be able to talk to any contractors, if he rents a car that was already damaged, he's going to pay for it without asking any questions. If someone is harassing her, he won't be able to defend her. Oh, She has to ask him for dates, he won't ask- Oh, if something hurts his feeling, she won't know.. That life is COSTLY emotionally and financially period, RUN!! only an AI can date him.
I’m 20 and I grew up with a Dad and still am growing up with a Dad who barely speaks, and is very nonchalant. It took me until I was about 16 to realize he showed enormous amounts of love through his actions, rather than his words
That’s kinda how most men are, we are not women lol
@@nashambenyisrael7689 No, it’s not. All my life I grew up seeing my friend’s fathers talk so much, and say “I love you” and “I’m proud of you.” Never once in my life have I seen a father that was as quiet as my Dad is. Hell, I can’t even remember the last time my Dad reached out for a hug. Fathers and mothers alike are the ones who aren’t afraid to speak up and express their feelings. I would give anything for my Dad to speak as much as a “woman” does, hopefully your sexist mind understands.
@@bdawg1118 learn to read young one, I said most men… that doesn’t mean all men…
I’m also 20 and have a dad similar to yours. I’ve learned to accept it and save my love only for people who will show it back
@@nashambenyisrael7689 I know what you said. I think YOU should learn to read.. because my comment talks about how MOST men aren’t like that.
The Ferb archetype
This guy is about ACTIONS over WORDS ❤
Cooking, spending time, clean/well kept, gave money without you asking, etc.
“Guess who getting some tonight” him- “me”😐👈🏾🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
🤣🤣🤣😭
Lmfdao
My favorite part 😂
This man done went grocery shopping, cooked, and gave you money. Girllllll don’t question him about his nonchalantness lol
That's what you like?
No cap 😂
CHRIST ALMIGHTY THIS TYPA MATURITY AND UNDERSTANDING IS ALL I WANT I SWEAR
@@Rip_JahCraft felt
He didn’t shop alone; they went shopping together! 🤣
The Spinning In The Chair Killed Me😂😂
My man don't have to say too much, I luv them calm and respectful lol
Being nonchalant is how i've maintained my youth and sanity after 4 decades on this hellhole of a planet.
Your comment should be pinned
Thats the way, its the best when you figure out you cant stress about things you cant fix or you cant have
@1alexnumaiunul848 "Worry" doesn't solve tomorrow's problems. It simply ruins today's peace. God never intended for us to think about the past or future. We are supposed to enjoy the moment. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift, that's why it's called The Present.
Hellish not a hellhole. Planet earth is pretty amazing. Finding love. Feeling a cool breeze. Tasty things to eat. The beaches. Maybe you just don't like the people or the way society has coalesced. Life can also be cold but once you can feel your open to whatever the weather is.
I idolize you.
This is how my husband is. 20yrs later it’s actually soothing to my anxious spirit
Oh stfu with your anxious spirit😂😂😂
Isn’t that boring?
@@bdancestarsas long as theres balance
nonchalant fellas wondering if it takes 20yrs 🤔
@@bdancestarsboring is term thats made up by people that can't handle reality.
Being nonchalant means he’s gonna live a very stress free life which probably means a long life
He is perfect!! He knows that Actions speak Wayyyyyyy Louder than WORDS!! He gets it, This, ladies and gentlemen, is the PERFECT GUY!! 🥰 ❤🥰❤️✨️✨️✨️
Being a nonchalant guy has been one of the major factors in keeping me sane and unsalty with life.
Facts!!
Damn that's Facts tho
I be too damn much most of the time
I gotta chill
No drama = peace
Right on!
@@tbtnr9851 Exactly my motto.
The pointing at himself 😂😂😂
“This guy” 😂
Lmao 🤣
Points at self: Meee lol
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I love him, he just chill af and I know once I get him in that bedroom he gon be smiling 😂😂
lmaooooo
Girls will confuse nonchalant guys with boredome while Women find them peaceful. A man like that knows not to create drama where there doesn’t need to be and that's a major green flag 👌
I know. I'm thinking just leave him alone before you mess it up.
you ain’t even gonna smile for me? him: “🙂” 😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
More like😏 ..😂
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😂😂 it was cute!
His affection is shown in his actions,everything doesn't require words,he is settled within his energy .😂😂❤❤❤
Actions actually speak louder than words
That’s definitely true
Acts of service is BY FAR one of my love languages 😊
This is true but it’s easy to forget! But I needed this reminder!😩
ong wat i b trynn tel mfs !!💯
He looks so cute when she said guess who get'n some tonight & he pointed to hisself and said me😂😂😂😆😆
this is so draining and depressing af I would never want this I need the same energy and hype tf, making me feel like they don't even wanna be there 🤢
Dude was providing tho so he made it clear he wanted to be there with girly but yea I understand some females want a dude to match they hype energy but sometimes two equally LIT mfs be hella toxic in a relationship 😂💯
@@Stressless2023he just dont want to be alone. Plenty of men can’t stand their woman, but can’t live alone with themself
@@lawondraanderson3640 girl as if ud know relax
@@aa-cx8nc struck nerve😅
Take it from someone who is married to a man like this, they are painfully shy and very emotional and they love deeply…..stalker deep!
Forreal
💯💯
They are scary- "You don't want me to fall in love scary".
Yo! This is wild and truest comment ever! 😅 I too am married to one. Low key think I might go missing if I ever tried to leave.😂😂😂😂 He has done way to much stalker shit😢
Lmao. Don’t let out our secret, we prefer for most people to think we don’t care… but the inner circle knows what’s up.
my boyfriend is like this. it bothered me at first but honestly, he keeps me grounded and i can read him well now. and when he gets excited it’s so, so cute. treasure men like this.
I love ur pfp
@@thisqueenieisunique2896are you a bad troll
Amen
@@thisqueenieisunique2896
Women = Emotional
Men = Rational
@@thisqueenieisunique2896balance is key.
He responds and smiles. You have to pay attention to him. Everything don't have to so loud. He's really nice.
Guys , free money ,free food , free answers ,free peace , what do Women want ??? This is paradise 😂😂😂😂😊
I like it. He’s quiet, cooks, and gives $$!! WHERE IS THE PROBLEM! I LOVE THIS!!😁
Some would argue the problem is that they (we) can't keep up a conversation and that they're "dry" or mid or basic, etc.
@@playdoug12that’s exactly it. A robot has more emotions and can do those things he did
That these types of guys get played and used by women like you're showing yourself to be. Your relationships are business transactions, not love.
Golddigger
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I have no chill. I'm chalanting all the time. Anywhere I go. My girl knows I get animated 😂
Chalanting! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@redbonescorpio79Right.😂😂😂
Chalanting!!!! 😂😂😂😂 I never knew how funny this word could be
😂😂😂
Me too fam,I chalanted my way into all kinds of BS 😅
Wow he is just so carefree I need to be more like him 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He was cooking,he went shopping,he providing,let that quiet handsome a$$ ninja chill!🤣🤣🤩
You know he not cheating AT ALL!! He wouldn’t spare the energy 😂😂
Nahhh these types will casually cheat on you and go about their life acting the exact same way and you won’t even notice… but I guess ignorance is bliss
Also they are the type to dump you out of nowhere, no fighting, no complaining, just “we need to talk” one day and it’s over.
Why's everything about cheating?
@@jamjam9564 faithful is a quality we all look for and deserve. I was simply stating that he seems to give her an easy time in that dept and it must feel good. is that okay with you??
@@00Dawgggthis kind of happened to me 👀
@@00Dawggg you need therapy
Him spinning in that chair 😂 he was raging internally 🤣
If u know u know
Bros in airplane mode
My takeaway is he's always listening to you, thinks about everything before he speaks and MAKES YOU FOOD WHENEVER YOU ASK😍This is the kinda "nonchalant" I can realllyrilly get behind personally💚
This is me and people be so tired of it 😂😂🤦🏽♂️
Me too! All of my friends have accepted it but we catch up on occasions
Most of the time its either this or crackhead energy
@@playdoug12 i need ONLY crackhead energy i cant live without it
Its ok😂
Same but the biggest hearts
Bro Has NO Stress.
Bro Gonna Live Forever.
People like this can still be hiding a shit load of stress
Being that way doesn't mean you don't deal with stress. He's most likely someone who is heavily stressed because he's always observing everything.
People like this think a lot. Overthink too. They bottle up the stress.
Agreed. I am one of these people
@@RJtheREBEL21 And then explode when the bottle is full.
As a big communicator I hate this. Every guy I've dated like this it didn't last long
Lmfaooooo this is the type of guy you never want to see angry
He might be in power saving mode, but he’s a good man Savannah a good man!😭🤣🤣🤣
I see what you did there with the "Waiting To Exhale" thing and I'm here for it, fam 👌🏾💯😉
😂😂😂❤
@@arhafrench5319Nah that "Family Reunion "😂😂
@@favored6007 Savannah was Whitney Houston, hon, her mom trying to hook her up with that dude from the Allstate commercials even though he was married...?
Lmboooooo 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Women say they love it, but it be the first thing comin up in a argument 😂
They love it so they can argue bc they love to argue
@@someone7773 deadass “you never talk” the whole time they just be frustrated bc you never slip up and say anything that could cause a petty argument 💀 they be finding that type of stupid shit entertaining 😭😭😭
The incels don’t even need to be called, they just come out 😂😂
Cringe AF your probably a virgin lmao@@ronnirides9705
@@ronnirides9705facts, you showed up bright and early.
Them quiet ones be deadly when they snap
He's so confident!
I think you really make him happy 🤗
He's a real one. He's seen some shit. This is the kind of dude you want having your back. He's a real homie.
Some quiet people are kind heared people are also rather evil if need be. We learned to observe and do more than talk. Someone talking smack may get an actual smile from us because we've been waiting for some bs to kick off way before you mistook us for a victim.
🫵🤬: @$&% ~#*×_ !
🙂: 🎶 She's a very freaky giiirrll! The kiind you don't take home to muuthaaaaaa! 🎵🎼
Spending time, engaged with the conversation, giving money, and cooking. Looks like a winner to me.
This is the best type of dude!!!
He’s too chilled lol
Dude been nothing but nice to her and she still found a reason to complain 😂😂😂😂
Its super hard to have a relationship with someone who doesn't communicate. Its frustrating even if they are not doing it to be mean
He’s stoic as hell😂😂
@TheJola106 He just GLADLY gave her money and told her it's for whatever she wants. I'd take his nonchalant butt over these broke dramatic ninjas any day.
@@TheJola106hey man he pulled her somehow, and unless he suddenly would have become that way. He’s still not doing anything wrong. Some people are also better at showing how they feel vs just saying it ( which imo is overplayed ) we want to have that perfect textbook relationship but the truth is real relationships are flawed and worked through. (I’m also aware this is a skit I’m talking about the situation it’s depicting)
@andrerushawn6102 I didn't say he was doing anything wrong, I'm just saying poor communication definitely causes misunderstanding. If you love someone you just try your best to make things ok. Not perfect because cause not has to be
He's talking like he's texting someone. 😂
Great social skills 😂
😂😂😂😂
He's literally answering all her questions
He seems like a nice supportive guy
I have ONE friend on this planet with that same personality. He's a really good brotha too...lol. NOTHING EVER upsets him...lol.
Let that man be nonchalant and great.😂 We appreciate a calm and stable king.
Girl that part! ☝🏽😂
💯 ❤
Yeah, I've really learned to appreciate nonchalant people.😂
The word king is being so overused now.
@@Truthman45 Nah, not when I want to uplift a gentleman being positive and not a public embarrassment.
He has a peaceful soul. He does have emotions. He just may not express them. He shows his love through his actions. Is hard to talk when there's always someone talking.😅
Everything you said I agree with especially the last part 😭
😂😂😂
@@kaylabennett3149 ❤️
This is actually the type of person I’m 100% most attracted to; it is an inner beauty and humbleness that completely drives me wild. There are tons of emotions being shown, but not a lot of words. When I date someone who behaves this way, I just want to hug and kiss them because this energy generates the same calmness inside myself that feels warm. We, especially we non-white individuals, are led by our emotions. In USA, most whites communicate with words and zero emotion, and we have adapted to their ways due to the majority of population and following trends. However, most of we non-whites are internally emotional like this and lead with our emotions, and this guy is a perfect reminder of our inner-beauty despite what others think or feel.
Thought I was the only one dealing with a nonchalant with no emotions lmao. He’s the chill and I’m the thrill. We’re balanced. Mine just needs to give me $ like that, he pays for everything and I pay when I can too but dang I felt that half ass smile. They smile inside.
Fine As He Is, He Don’t Have To Say Nothing 😂… 🙌🏾❤️👍🏾
Not a damn thing
Ya’ll are crazy!😂😂😂
Much love.
@@andreanicole7217 😂😂
😂😂
@@andreanicole7217🤣🤣🤭
I learned they show they care through their actions. Which honestly I prefer.
Sometimes
This guy is perfection.
it’s cool when they understand us like we just don’t like doing too much
I have a friend like this, never seen that fool get mad until... they got his paycheck wrong at work. Dat fool said "People gotta learn not to touch my money!". 😮😮😮
😅😅😅, they opened up dark Vader
gahahah i’m cackling at this
😂🤣
Nonchalant people like quiet people, they cool chill and often pretty nice til you cross them the wrong way or push their button or really piss them off, then your gonna see a side you’ve never seen before, a rather scary side
That’s how my baby is and I love him to death for it. He’s actually as gentle as a butterfly and as sweet as honey🥰
That’s sweet…
@@Javajavajav I meant to say butterfly, but my statement was perfectly comprehensible. Flies are so gentle that you initially don’t even know when they’re on you sometimes. Have a good day.
An underrated blessing! Dont nobody want all that toxic drama! 😭
And y'all still find a way to fuck it up 😂😂 its coming....
@@iamnvmbr2015 we’ve been married for 4 years now and together for 5 lol. Yall
Miserable people do love company. Be blessed not bitter
When he gets mad , run I say run . That anger energy will be on 10000 !
It's the calm and still water that will drown a man. Sis, he's a keeper. Mysterious is good ❤❤❤❤ He's an action guy! God bless
Sent this to my man so fast😂😂😂
I can tell he's the type to hit you with, "I fixed that leak you were talking about" ever so casually in passing 😂😂😂
OMG I did too😂😅😂. Feels good to know I'm not alone in this. I used to think he wasn't interested in the relationship. Got to understand that it's really his personality. Sometimes he's chatty though but it only lasts for a minute 😅
OMG your comment just touched my soul 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Men that listen & do 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@@ShamyraC they are the best🤭
My grandpa was exactly like this and it made me mad when people didn’t think he loved well or wasn’t happy. He smiled, he gave money just because, he cooked and picked up groceries just because. He was a kind soul and the chillest person I ever met. When people got mad at him he chuckled. I would rather have that than a hot head 😊
any day 💯
The end when he broke character was the best part
“Meee 😐” 😂😂
Sooooo my hubby, so miss him dearly but grateful for the nearly 3 decades we shared
Aww. Your comment is in past tense. I hope you're doing well. ❤ Nice to know that you're appreciative of what you had and keeping the memories alive.
I know, men hold things deep inside and it hurts them. I took for granted he was "strong." Pain hurts, it has nothing to do with strength.
❤️🙏🏽
That means everything’s ok. I can’t stand being asked “what’s wrong?” When I’m chilling. But I like that she cares enough to check
Gang gets it👆🏽
Exactly
She wants you to be “vulnerable” even if there’s nothing to be vulnerable about so she can feel more secure in the relationship while simultaneously loosing respect for you as a man bc even though shes seeking for that emotion she doesn’t know she really doesn’t want that until she finally obtain it…. Women 101
@@101elelky 😆😆😆well said
Good to know that I’m not alone
"mee" lmaoooo
That’s Lloyd Banks!😂😂😂
This type of dude is the rock to a woman's waves. No matter how much she crashes against him, he stands firm.
I once heard something that says " A nonchalant person is nice to everyone but mean to themselves" ...
Sounds like a libra
@@gerardovillarreal4640chill with that shit dawg, the astro whats it called signs dont exist they are just made up
... Guess so, huh.
Sounds about right
Maybe it's depression 😮
The quietness is cute. And you can still tell here cares about you too
My cousin just got married last month. His wife gave a long speech and then handed the mic to him. He said "what she said", gave a little smile and we all burst out laughing. He's been that way since we were kids. He's very low key and a man of very little words but close friends/family could tell that he was beaming that day. 😂
People like us end up this way after trying for too long. Just accepting reality/life for what it is. When we’re happy though it’s genuine but rare💯
Facts
So true
100%
1000. The part I'm on. I'm just tired and want to accept as it is
Facts!
That brother just peaceful
Omg we need a support group cause my man is EXACTLY like this I thought I was nonchalant smh he takes the cake
“Meeeee” 💀
My mans full of emotion he just knows how to contain all of it. Hes probably an overthinker too
Look at those sandwiches
That mind's running. That toast is even
It’s a skit man lol you can’t tell you got all that from a video 😂
@@KnightPunkit’s real shi can’t even lie bruh nigga explained my situation perfect
nga studying the short😭🙏🏾
@@KnightPunkThe fact that there's always folks like y'all not understanding we're talking about the character a person portrays in the skit and not the actual person will forever be confusing.
Just love that man for who he is, everybody ain't talkative and emotional, appreciate his calm, chill demeanor, no drama his way🤷♂️🤷♂️💯💯
Not dem kidz mama 😂😂😂
“Me” 😂😂😂😂
He's chill af, more people should be like this
My gf is like that. Fine as hell, sweet AF, but very, VERY chill. I'm the one that smoke, but she always the chill one😂
It is a misconception that people who smoke are chill. I’ve seen the pitfalls of smoking firsthand. Become addicted to it, and instead of being chill, you become anxious when you go too long without it
@@darcash1738 yea, that can be very true. Not my personal situation however.
Thats me fr lmao
@@Ria-sd2ex nice bro, but you’re walking on a tightrope into the future, no doubt
@@darcash1738 OMG man, plz don't be that guy😐
He’s smiling with his eyes and energy.
My best friend is like this except theyre a girl, she rarely emotes, but she always does or says the most loving things to show her appreciation of our friendship 😭💖
His level of stoicism is over 9000
My husband is like that!!! And I’m ok with that because we balance each other out… 11 yrs married wouldn’t change anything!!! His level of calmness calms me!!!
Yea so tip time cause hooww do you navigate through that? I understand it doesn’t bother you but It bothers me and makes me feel unappreciated in every aspect!
@@Momo454-zm3xn it did not happened overnight I can tell you that…ummm I used to get pissssssed!!! But then I just had to except that’s just who he is…and everything else about him I absolutely loved and out weighed that… BUT #1 I had way more flaws than him and he took me as I was… so why I couldn’t do the same for him!!! TRUST IT WAS A PROCESS… Because I wanted him to be excited because I was excited 😆… but one thing he did do was try to get excited because I was excited… and let me just tell you…. that was so awkward and it was so uncomfortable for me because I tried to make him someone he wasn’t… so either way my poe husband couldn’t win for losing!!! I said to myself one day leave that man alone🤣!!!
@@Momo454-zm3xnyou just have different personalities, no way to handle it. Just accept it, don't get offended by the smallest things i guess (depending on the context)
@@Momo454-zm3xn as a man, this is something you should tell him if you haven’t already. A lot of times we do that sort of thing without knowing or thinking about it never understanding or realizing how it makes the woman feel. Bringing it to his attention will help you understand why he does it and bring it to his attention so he knows to maybe change it a little, or you understand why he’s so quiet and then it won’t bother you as much. We deal with a lot of shit that most men don’t know how or even want to talk about which is my biggest issue, sometimes the best thing that’s happened for me was my girl calling me out in a calm and respectful way and just wanting to know why I am the way I am. Because of that I’ve been able to open up more and talk about shit I never thought I would have talked about. I think that saved my relationship honestly. Sorry that’s long but communication is absolutely one of the most important things.
@@Momo454-zm3xnthen find you an energetic and outgoing man 🤷🏾♀️ there’s not really much you can do to ‘navigate’ something like that
His fine self probably a little artistic. That’s why he so cool. 😂❤❤
Power saving mode 😂😂😂dude is gonna live forever