I was getting to know a young man from my previous church. I was constantly asking God if he was in His Will for my life, no answer. Then one day I asked God again but this time I added "I just want to know Your Will, whether or not I agree. I don't care if it's yes or no, please tell me"... And I kid you not, I heard an audible voice say "Don't settle"... He answered me when my heart was postured in full surrender. I'm so glad God never gave me what I THOUGHT I wanted when I thought I wanted it...
@@ChrisYoon praise God. You're welcome brother. I hope it encouraged you. I was hesitant to let the person go because I had just lost my mother 2 months beforehand... But God taught me something. If He can speak to you with so much accuracy regarding world events and other prophetic insights, how much more so will He speak to you regarding a future spouse? In my particular case, after letting the person go, I asked God to confirm. 12 hrs later, He showed me very clearly that this was NOT my husband. And I said "Lord I want to be Your bride before I'm anyone else's" and wow. He's doing exactly what I asked. I hope my testimony blesses you. This was 4 years ago and my intimacy with the Lord has gone to a level I didn't know existed since then. He has become my Everything. I don't want to breathe if He isn't speaking. I don't want to eat unless He's feeding me with Himself. I don't want to go anywhere where He isn't. "...I am lovesick." (Song of Solomon 2:5)
Excellent advice! If you feel lonely, remember this…You don’t know loneliness until you’re married to the wrong person. Trust God. He knows you better than YOU know you. God bless you!❤️
A little girl asked me “Where’s your husband?” (Im not married) And I said “You know, I don’t know where he is. I can’t find him anywhere.” And she “Maybe he’s just lost somewhere” I said “Maybe that’s why I can’t find him” and we had a laugh 😭
This is my first time back on yt in MONTHS, in a newer relationship that I've been wondering if God actually wants for me, and this was the first video I see!
It took a series of delays, strange people, thousands of miles and years for all events to line up for me and the wife to find each other. NO way it was chance.
@@Audrey-faithlife it's good that you are praying for "your future husband" and not for "a future husband" because he is out there and needs your prayers in all aspects of his life! Whatever you do, do not get desperate, it is all in God's timing!🧡
I cant wait for this to happen to me. I am 37 and I cry and pray to god ALL THE TIME for him to bring me my person. I just know that when I do walk down that isle, all the praise will be to God because he heard my prayer. I cry now even talking about it. I love God, I love family and I cant wait to meet the man God chooses to love me.
You’ve inspired me to share my journey. A prophet spoke over me in 2006 that God would give me my husband, I met my husband in 2015 and I got married in 2016, exactly 10 years after those words were spoken. Why did it take so long? Because I was making wrong choices not allowing God to fulfill His promise until I allowed Him to work it out for me. Now I am blessed beyond measure, beyond what I deserved. God has the best for you!!! Believe it!! Allow Him to write your love story.
so when you say allow him to write your story, does this mean you just sit back and wait and do nothing? You still have to go out and meet people right? Or you mean dont force it with anyone, just let things happen naturally?
@dancediva wait on God doesn't mean to sit do nothing,is to strength relationship with God , pursue personal growth and serve in community and church.God bless in your waiting
Also, modern-day prophets aren’t a thing. Those times have passed. Notice how most modern prophecies are vague and highly likely to come true regardless. I don’t want to downplay the impact, but anyone can say they are a prophet.
@@SamEvans02Actually God still speaks to prophets today! Hebrews 13:8: God is the same yesterday, today and for ever. He calls prophets on earth just as in Old Testament times :)
I was a virgin until after turning 28 years old. I hated it, but Christian. Anyway it was worth the wait. I married an awesome and handsome person. When I told people he was my husband they would laugh like I was joking or look at me like I'm crazy... until he would hand me our daughter. And our daughter looks like him. He passed away, my first husband. But I have the most beautiful daughter who is highly intelligent. Ladies, do not settle.
I know this is already an old comment but if you see this I want to say thank you for sharing, it gives me hope. I'm 31 already and have been actively trying to give up at this point but it's difficult to let go of that desire somedays, especially when you see others your age who already have their own families and the pressure and shame my family has put me through because of this. I'm very sorry about your loss, it must've been incredibly difficult for you and your daughter. However, I greatly admire your strength to still share and encourage others with your testimony. It means a lot. Thank you again and may God heal you and bless you and give you peace after all the pain and hurt in Jesus' name 🙏🏻❤️
@@Nothingbutdust_Hi dear, don't give up hope! I'm 32 and my marriage of 8 years is failing, I've seperated from my husband because of his addictions and abuse. And I'm not giving up hope either. I've had promises and prophecies that Jesus will save my husband and we will marry again, have children. I often feel crazy for having hope and still believing this while I'm in this situation. I don't even love him anymore. But at the same time I can't give up hope and I especially can't give up my faith in Him. He has been closer than a husband and a brother to me these last couple of months. I would never trade His love, His presence and His protection for anything. Not even for a loving husband. 10 years ago I wouldn't have believed my current self for saying this. I would've thought I would be lonely and depressed in this situation. Yes sometimes I am lonely but never alone. I've felt His presence so strongly, like wings of comfort and safety upon me. I've seen angels around me. My own husband has completely rejected me and friends aswell, people from church even ... but honestly I wouldn't go back. Jesus has pulled me out of an unhappy marriage and away from all these people who lie and manipulate and brought me to a safe place. He has given me so much in return. I believe He has something greater for me than I can even imagine. I still pray my husband will be part of that just because I worry about his spiritual and emotional well being. But even if God doesn't repair our marriage I have to believe He has someone else for me. I relate with your feeling of 'running out of time'. Especially for women this seems true when we think of having children. But God can work miracles in that regard too. We are still young, don't let anyone discourage you in that regard. Ask Him what he has for you. Share all your thoughts and feelings honestly with Jesus, also your fears, your anger even. When we let Him in, in our true feelings, He can heal and comfort us. And show us what He thinks about us and how much He loves us. May He bless you abundantly 🙏🏻❤
A lot of single Christians do not know how to get married. Many do not know how to discern the inward witness of the Holy Spirit. A lot of Christians have not and are not being taught how to marry God's choice for them. So many get into really bad situations. If you are a Christian parent, pastor or youth pastor or a knowledgeable Christian, this is your job, to teach these young men and women and even older singles how to know the godly way to select God's choice of a spouse. Satan is having a field day because a lack of knowledge (the correct and adequate teaching) in this area. Please listen. You do not choose a person to become your spouse by just the physical. NO!! You marry God's choice for you by discernment. Discernment is the use spiritual senses, not your physical senses. The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD - Proverbs 20:27. When God is going to direct you, He will do so by your reborn spirit, not your flesh. Marriage is a very important lifetime covenant! Make sure you get right the first time!! God has a purpose and a plan for your life, if you are a serious born again Christian and you are single, you do not just get to choose who you want. You let God choose, then you marry. Why? Because you do not know everything, but God does. May God bless you.
Wow. Thank you for this. God bless you for letting God speak through you. I’m 28 and single. This was beautifully said and appreciate your use of scripture.
This is confirmation not to settle when family and friends tell me to settle yet they are in miserable marriages and living like room mates with their spouse. Thank you again Chris.
I just turned 56 in November never been married and I have no children....But I haven't given up....I know God is able and I know he is faithful to his word....That if we would delight ourselves in him he would give us the desires of our hearts🙏♥
'When God is silent go back to the last thing he said.' - from a message by Alex Seeley at sistas confrence 2024. This came to my mind for you. Hope it helps (:
A 3 year old video finding me at the most perfect time…. I’m so grateful to have came across this 😭 I truly felt like God just hugged me and comforted me.
When we first met, my husband and I were both “holding out” for other people who weren’t that into us. After we went out as friends (didn’t consider it a date) it was like we both knew. Feeling the divine pull, I prayed about the other guy. God confirmed the other guy would *never* see me the way I desired and WAS NOT intended to my life in that way. Lessons: • Hide in God, God will reveal in time • Gods will, Gods way - DO NO MANIPULATE your life for your will (rebellion) Warning: meditating on a person (soulish desire) can create a soul-tie and an opening for deceiving confusion. (For years the enemy played in my own desires and years into marriage God broke a soul-tie I didn’t even know I formed with the other guy). God bless.
@Elivia Ortiz God bless you. When we meditate on God or Gods word, we [draw near, are fixed on, commune with, desire deep connection, etc.]. Mediating on a person in this way is idolatry and worship.
To my future husband, I have come a long way to become a Proverbs 31 woman. I have prayed to God for you. I have asked God to make me worthy of being a wife. If you are reading this, it means I stepped back and God has done the work in me. Thank you for being so patient. I’m blessed we are here together. (June 16, 2024)
You'll make it, with that beautiful humility. Jesus is working on me, my anger towards evil and the sense of wrath I feel towards it, including whatever amount exists in me. I don't know if I need to work towards change or just give him the time to do it, but the world and people who love sin more than love itself are tiring. Still a baby Christian. I'd say good luck, but we don't need it when we have God lol.
Beautifully said, coincidentally June 16 2024 was the day I had a relationship end that God proved was wrong for me. It's been a tough week but I've also realized with the help of some friends that God loves me for pulling me out of something that was toxic and could get worse.
The Lord answered amazing prayers to show me who I was to marry, and when it seemed it wasn't going to work out I began to question everything. Then He gave me the most amazing dream I've ever had that showed me she was going to call me in 30 days. That dream came true and we were married 4 months later. I now realize that He used that situation to stretch my Faith. Faith = trust and commitment
This is a beautiful love story. Not only of you and your wife, but of Jesus. And your last two sentences of your comment is such a great revelation. May God bless your union all the days of your life. ❤️🙏🏼
My husband left after 22 years of marriage.He found his soul mate.He is very happy and i ask myself why do the cheaters have a good life and the ones left are the people that suffer the most? After 16 years of being separated, being a hopeless romantic that i am, I am still trusting and believing in God in His time...Let go and let God...
U have to look for him, this guy isn't completely right, I know trust me. If u find a good guy that u really like then pray on it, pray that he will put that person into ur life, he will listen to u, he gives us what are hearts desire most but only if he sees that it's good for us. He gives us opportunities that's all, we have to act on it
This really broke my heart... I hope you continue finding love through Him and that God grants your wish to have a partner that truly loves and cares about you ♥️
Cheaters do not go on happily in life. When people behave like this they repeat these behaviors and the two that cheated have issues trusting each other. A wise woman once told me “ if he will step out with you, he will step out on you.” Remember what you see is in the surface and not what goes on behind closed doors. All that glitters is not gold.
Absolutely! I’ve been staying single for a very long time and I am to the point where I get my love and validation from Jesus. I trust that he will lead me to my kingdom marriage.
I wish I heeded this wisdom. Instead I followed my feelings and it cost me dearly. I married someone who said all the right things, but didn't have true intimacy with Jesus. Having said that, God used it to teach me to wait on Him, as well as show me things in me that needed to change. He's so faithful and good. I hope this comment encourages someone to make sure they wait for God to lead them, instead of finding someone they want and asking God to bless their decisions. A good thing is the enemy of God's best for us. He knows what He's doing.
I'm so blessed to know to wait rather than seek someone for myself. I witnessed my parents marriage being horrible and when I got older I said I don't want to live like them.. there must be something better. I decided to seek Jesus with all my heart, soul, spirit and being and he taught me so, so much. One of the best decisions I've made was seeking Jesus and not leaning on my own understanding but WAIT on everything because what he gives is so much better than what I can give myself.
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family don’t forget as well if something going on in marriage that is not normal there’s a medical reason there that no one knows FATHER let me know if you’d seek to find out txt or call will all become clear :)
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family
A key part of all of this is to truly make God your LORD. Rom 12:1-2 is a formula for finding God's will, and it starts with a surrendered life. Belief/Faith = Trust and Commitment in God and His ways Surrender in three main areas - 1 Love Him with all your Heart - wholehearted commitment 2 Love Him with all your Mind - Fill your mind with His Word that washes us 3 Love Him with all your Soul - Let His Spirit fill you and lead you
I've been feeling lonely as a person who doesn't actively date frequently and take years between any relationship I have. Some days I'm fine, some days I feel like there's no hope. But God is the creator and author of my book and that gives me faith. I hope to show my husband this comment in the future and I hope wherever he is in the world, he's praying and learning for me as well. God bless everyone on their journey reading this!
He is not a God of chaos. This is so true.🙌 Yesterday the Holy Spirit gave me an example of how companies ask during interviews what your salary expectations are and many times we fall short of what the company had budgeted and we get hired because it’s a gain to the company, they get to save cause we request an amount lower than what they had budgeted for, but God isn’t like that. He hears our prayers where we ask for small things because we limit ourselves and we limit His power but instead he doesn’t give you what you ask for because his plans and thoughts for our lives are much higher, instead he changes our desires so they can align with his. He gives us what we would have asked for had we known what he knows. He says in the scripture even you wouldn’t believe if someone told you what I have in store for you. God is so so good. Ours is to surrender and trust Him in every area of our life. Thank you for this video. Be blessed 🙏🏾 To everyone waiting on God to move in any area of your life, rest tonight knowing that He withholds nothing good from us. Be patient and wait on his amazing surprise ♥️
I just got tricked and want to get everything back in God the holy ghost everything I once Had. I can't believe I look back. Please pray. This wasn't worth it. I was deceived. Hurt. Why did HE NOT ELECT ME. I was so Tricked. Curses and born again1991 !! God. PLEASE no more of this society.
@@TriciaPerry-mz7tc Hi Tricia, I am really sorry that you feel like this and went through such a terrible thing. 🫂 I am here to remind you that God RESTORES. In Joel 2:25 He say, “And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.” Surrender all that you have to him and pray that he has his way in you. In Isaiah 55:9 He says, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Rest in this promise and stay connected to him. John 15:5 “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.” I will pray with you as that is our weapon as believers. Prayer changes things. Come back to this video one day and let us know how good God has been to you because you are about to experience his glory in the land of the living. Jeremiah 29:11 “'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. '” Be blessed and stay strong. Joshua 1:9 Have not I commanded you? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be you dismayed: for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” ♥️♥️♥️
I was not trusting God but the world by going onto Dating Apps. No more. I deleted them and I will trust God will bring me the right man. Amen. Thank you Chris for you words of God.
@@njrom2975 My view on dating apps are neutral. I have lots of friends who found wonderful Christian spouses on dating apps. For me, however, I have prayed to God about it and every single time He clearly tells me that I will meet my husband in person, outside of dating apps. I fully trust in God and so I have never tried going on the dating apps. Long story short, I think it really depends on what God is speaking to you personally. Pray to Him and He will give you clarification 😊🙏
Thanks for the encouragement. I'm the type to worry and force things. Led to many terrible relationships. I hope marriage is in God's plans for me. But I've become pretty content I being single. Either way is okay. Sorry about your father. I pray for peace and comfort from the Lord for you. God bless.
It has been 8 years that i constantly ask God for a godly woman in my life. and until now nothing. Finding one is like finding a ruby. so i tried by putting some work since i didnt believe that by only asking it would be giving, like just siting in a chair amd asking God to show me the person to me. so i tried and to no avail. there isnt any. i was very sad and struggled so much but i resched a point that i realised i was puting more importance to a wish i had than my relationship to God. if God is not my first priority then obvously i could never have a woman. i have to be prepared and accept that God time is the best time, and also that only he knows what is best for me, be it being single or with a partner. And i accept it. however i will not stop asking that wish to him until i die. GOd bless you brothers and sisters in Christ.
My husband and I started as good friends and he came to Christ 3 years before we started dating. We prayed and fasted about it. But about a year and a half ago he suddenly came out as wanting to be a woman and wanting an open relationship in order to 'love' his friends more fully. So now there is a disconnect between us on such a deep level. It knocked me off my foundation pretty badly. I'm getting back on my walk now but it is so hard and confusing. I don't even know how to pray anymore and I feel numb. I really need healing and guidance and my husband needs prayer.
Thank you for sharing your story. I will be praying for you, lean on to Christ in this confusion! He loves you and cares for you, there is a plan through all of this ❤️
Praying for you beloved. Please seek some support if you have not already within a group of believers that will not only lift you up and support you to heal as much as you can, but also pray Holy Spirit fire of conviction over your husband.
The devil is the author of confusion, and a lot of times he will throw an audible, to trick us out of the very blessing that God has for us. If I hear correctly what God is instructing for me to tell you is this! Somewhere on you guys path, the flesh has entered in, and he has lost focus on his walk with Christ. So in this season that you don't know what to pray about, instead of praying for your marriage specifically, now pray for you and your husbands hearts, mind, soul and spirit. Instead of praying for your marriage to work, pray that you both rekindle that love that you once had for God , and that the eyes of your understanding to be enlightened. And when you take the focus off of the problem and trust His process, that's when your miracle will happen. Lastly the bible says in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path! I am praying for full restoration for your marriage, and for restoration for your husband back to the love of God that he once had, And for you that you do not lose hope in what God can do! The bible says submit yourself to the Lord, resist the devil and he will flee, but the key is in the submission. If we submit first God will give you the strength to resist! God bless you friend!
So sorry to hear that. The devil has deceived him. Is he moving with the wrong crowd? Pray that God will open his eyes to the truth. Pray against demonic spirits working against his mind. God bless your marriage and restore your husband in Jesus name. Amen
Wow! How timely this video is! It popped up today and spoke right to me. I have been struggling tremendously with being single. I am having the absolute toughest time finding balance and trying not to feel invisible. I want so bad to have a companion, I have prayed and sought God for years to send a partner. Nothing has moved. Nor one has come around. It breaks my heart and God knows it but I am still going to just wait it out.
The hardest thing I’ve ever done is fully surrender my love / relationship life . After 2 failed marriages I tried to force it by rapid dating many people . I met my future husband at work . But god told me not yet ! You’re not ready . He’s right I’m a mess . He’s working on us both , I trust in his plan 🙌🏽. It’s been more than I imagined ❤
Right on! I just broke up with my fiance, he wasn't for me, i prayed it would work out but Gods plan it's the perfect plan. We don't know what He has for us. To my ex God wasn't first and he revealed even that he was muslim. I was very sad but now i feel that God is with me stronger than ever, i feel His spirit comforting me and now i have peace. I'm so gratefull that happened. This peace now that i feel, perfect. Be blessed and focus first on God 🕊. And even tho' you have sinned and the enemy has told you that you are unworthy that is lies. You are worthy and loved by The Lord our Savior ❤🕊 Be blessed my family 💕
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer skull thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back my wife left me family friends everyone quit talking to me wild I know FATHER gave me knowledge and wisdom and understanding satans delusion can walk you through it in medical terms FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family
"and he revealed even that he was muslim" So you were ENGAGED to a guy of whom you didn't even know his true faith for the whole time so it got just reveiled to you? Wow
Hey, I had a similar situation happen with me (although slightly different circumstances for breaking things off). I know it hurts right now, but at least you realize this now before getting married to him. I hope things work out well for you in the future and that you will find someone you are more spiritually aligned with in the future
Thank you for this! There is a beautiful woman that I met a small group through my church. A couple of months or so after we met and being in group together, I randomly ran into her one on one on church property and expressed my feelings and asked her on a date. Her response was I can’t because I am in a season of embracing myself as a single woman right now. God knew that I had these intentions to talk to her, but I feel he wanted to express to my heart that it wasn’t the right time. She eventually moved out of state for career endeavors, but we unexpectedly ran into each other again at that same church during Christmas Eve service. We caught up and talked about going out to eat together. We were not able to before we she flew back due to conflicting schedules, but we have continued to keep in touch. When I first met her and shook her hand at small group, I was blown away, not only by her beauty, but her kind and sweet heart. I continue to pray for her every day, but also ultimately for God‘s clarity and discernment🙏
I thank God for this clear and godly perspective on meeting the one. It negates everything that the world teaches on dating. But God's ways are different. ❤
Wow. You made this video 3 years ago. I am struggling with this now so I know this was God that had this video pop up for me. Thank you and God bless you❤
I have one child, my daughter, that continues to wait for the man the Lord has for her. She is a wonderful Christian and is successful in business. There have been many suitors but no winners. I'd rather she spend her life single than marry the wrong man. Chris, you are a sweetie and I wish I could introduce you to her. We are in Texas! Blessings.
To my real soulmate please pray for me🥺. That may God guide me in everything that I do. I'm so tired emotionally and mentally rn. May God remove anyone and anything that does not belong to me people, things, situations. I'm tired of dealing with people who are suppose to be just a lesson.
Dear future husband ❤️ God is really working on me right now & I know he is on you too. I’m so exited for God’s plan to unravel & I trust his timing. He only gives good & perfect gifts because he is a good father 🥰
We tell our girls this all the time. It's really nice to know God is raising up men like yourself that believe this too and that is why we know God's plan for our daughters is in His control. Thank you!
As someone who had my own agenda at 20 I wanted to be married, have kids now I am 27 and I see friends and siblings have what I long for really hurt me. All I keep getting told is be patient, wait and be patient, which I am not very good at. Now I am trying my hardest to do the right thing and wait for the man God wants to put in my life. I've been hurt too many times that I am sure he is healing me 1st and provide me with a man who will hold my heart and not hurt it. Thank you for this Mr. Yoon.🤗
It's crazy because I had this thought for a few days. desiring for someone to accompany my life. thank you for the word and advice. God bless you, have a blessed day!
All in His time. I had to learn to accept the idea. I was married for 15 years. Lonely for most of those years. My ex husband tried to love me the way he knew how but it wasn’t working. I was broken. Had been broken since I was 6 yrs old. All of my personal issues needed to be addressed first before I could learn to love someone else. I didn’t love myself. I finally surrendered it all to God a few months ago. God’s will be done in my life, is what I pray for. I trust Him. Seeking His kingdom first! Be blessed
Dang, God is so faithful. After 21 years of marriage, all I can is that it was God ordained. I thought someone else should have been my husband based on my feelings for him, even though he was all wrong for me. My husband is perfect for me, God created just for me! God has revealed this to me on so many occasions so I'm truly grateful. I hung on to something for so many years knowing that it wasn't from God, but didn't want to accept it, until finally, one day I did!!!
I can relate. Much much love to you and all my brothers and sisters. Hang in there and be a friend of God now in our waiting season and be a friend of God even once we meet the spouse God has for us.
I’m a young woman who has been single for 10 years. I don’t even remember what it feels like to be hugged. I’ve been praying to God everyday to bless me with a man who loves him as much as I do. A few weeks ago, such a person entered my life. It felt so holy and felt like God lead us to each other. Then suddenly, it ended and I’m left upset and wondering why God put me through that. So happy I stumbled upon this video. Instead of hurting, I want to choose to trust in the Lord and know that if this man is right, God will, someday bring us back together but I also need to be okay if he tells me it’s not *insert heartbreak*
So yesterday one of your videos showed up on my feed and I decided to click on it. I became a follower because the way you delivered the message was so calm that it was like a story. Thank you! I have been asking God to share with me true prophets and messengers of his name sake. I truly thank him for continuously responding to my prayers🙏🏾🥰
Hi Latischia! I’m so blessed by this comment and so thankful you shared. I’m praying you continue growing in your faith in Jesus. God has a plan for your life. God bless you sister in Christ!
@Chris Yoon God Bless you and thank you so very much. I spent alot of my day watching your videos. I just finished watching 8 Spiritual Personalities and I must say you are sooo spot on. I truly appreciate the time you put into that video. I can go on so again thanks a whole lot 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰
Because I was raised that marriage was THE ultimate state of being, and my mom raised me with low self-esteem, I married a man I thought was "good enough". I'm sorry, at the end of the day, he never became a good man. 😢
When God picks you mate it will blow your mind the love received, God bless you Chris, you are a blessed vessel of the Lord. Praise Jesus.god showed me my wife in a dream now I have been bless with her love for 14 yrs and it has been an anchor for me and my journey.
Man brother, What a blessing you are. Not gonna lie… I was very frustrated today…Frustrated at a lot of things… but man, your video calmed me down. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used by the Lord. God bless
This came at such a right time, I’ve been extremely anxious about my love life as I just turned 30 & feel I’ve been making a whole lot of mess entertaining chaos and clear manipulation. I think it’s time to be still & let go of ideas, fantasies and trying to make things work with my own strength. I’m so scared but I excited to step into faith and put my trust in Him. Thank you for the video and if anyone is reading this … pray for me 😔
Godly marriage is the best way to go, it's important to trust God. If it's God's will for marriage the Lord will connect you to the right Godly spouse that he has for you. Patience and trusting God's timing. Great teaching and advice. Amen🙏
Lost the love of my life. I was with her for 30 months. I felt as God took her away because I need change and I needed to draw closer to him. I put more into her than him and he saw things I didn’t see. Broke my heart. She said she hopes she’ll come back but I don’t know. I gotta trust in God. Thank you for this video. ❤ My name is Forest, 24. Pray for me.
I just ended it with someone I was seeing and saw his lack of effort as a sign. I tend to always pray to God when I meet someone and they'd ghost me a week or days after my prayer. This time this one didn't leave but still knew in my heart that we just aren't compatible. I ignored it since God didn't remove him after my prayer that may be I need to trust the process. But I realized that someone who is best for me would pursue me how I want to be pursued so I made the decision to move on. I don't want to beg for attention or affection anymore. I am not sure why at 30 years old I've never had a boyfriend and why I'm so unlovable. All I wanted was to start my own family but perhaps isn't for me. I decided to focus on my career instead and doors were closed on me there too. Now I'm stuck I have no more dreams left. Been begging God to speak to me and tell me where He wants me to go but I was met with silence. Not much I can do anymore other than surrender I have no control or say in anything.
Please know you are on God's mind and his heart. The fact that you are still here is proof that you are loveable and God has so much MORE LOVE to show you and bring to you. Your tears nor your pain will be wasted. God's got your back.👍🏾❤️🌹
You have total control and say in your life, don’t let the devil trick you in thinking otherwise. Victim mentality will eat you alive. You’re not unlovable either, couldn’t be further from the truth! God loves you and always will. And you’re probably a dream wife to someone.. thing is, don’t focus on that. Lose yourself in something you love.. learn a new skill, new hobby, travel… these open doors to meeting new people and eventually someone that will make you glad you never gave up looking. Those who seek, find.. and so keep the faith. Work on becoming the best version of yourself, the best wife you can be for someone one day, start now and your future you plus husband will be grateful for it all!! Remember, you are loved more than you will ever know.. so lead a life that epitomises that.
I can somewhat relate to you... What has been helping is getting spiritual direction by a priest. Found one that fits to talk to about the past. I honestly was afraid talking and healing my past. Makes sense why I'm single..
Thank you for this video. I am really struggling to put my faith in God and truly surrender my heart to him. I just ask that if anyone sees this that they pray for me. Thank you.
This video came to me for a reason. I met a man at my job and I feel like we made a special connection. He ended up hurting my feelings over and over again. Despite all that, God continued to bring him in my life. I believe we met at the wrong time, but we met for a reason. We need to work on our lives right now. I believe one day we could love each other❤️🙏🏼
This came to my feed tonight. I just finished talking to God about my singleness. I am ready for a Man of God to find me. I'm ready. How ever he comes into my life. 💕🙏
This video was made for me for this EXACT moment. I just got off the phone with that “someone” to let it go. I opened up TH-cam & this is first video that came up. Thank you so much. God spoke to me through you
I have been single for about 10 years....it bothered me and had me down for a long time.....but I trust God he has looked after me all these years and kept me from some very unhealthy things....sometimes we think with our emotions and feelings and not God's will. I want God's will for my life...thank you Jesus.
I've been in some wrong relationships. Now, I have been single going on 12 years this year. I have not had a boyfriend in 12 years. Wow. Only 1 date. I get so sad and discouraged sometimes, because I think maybe I am meant to remain single and childless. I see people al around me getting engaged, married, having babies, and some are younger than me and some are older than me. I feel like God left me out sometimes. I know those are lies from Satan, but sometimes I do get discouraged. Someone I know said she knows a lady who didn't get married until she was 60. I know it sounds vain, but I want to get married before I get too old and ugly, so I will look great in a wedding gown.
I desire that also. God's timing is everything. Maybe you should try on a wedding gown of your choice and actually buy it, put it on as the spirit leads you and pray to God. Pour out your heart to him. Sooner or later, God will reveal him to you. Be blessed! 🙏😇❤️
I am trying to be patient. I have never been married or had children. While my friends are married and have children. I am trying not to take control. I want what God has for me. I'm tried of doing things on my own.
This video is 3 years old, and I have been begging the Lord for clarity in this area for the last couple of days. Very much divine timing. Thank you so much for this video!
May you find rest in Him, may He give you peace and order your steps. Remember, He has a great plan for you and every good and perfect gift comes from God 🙏🏾
No matter what happens. Though I believe you just gotta keep praying sister. Know God loves you so much. He cares for you more than any man can. But I pray you also find a true man of God whom God knows is the best one for u! God bless. ❤
This video is powerful and needed. I had moments and thought about who would be the right “girlfriend” or “why I haven’t find the right one.” I need to chill out, love myself, and pray. Thank you🙏🏾⭐️
While I wait on the Lord reveals/brings the man He chose to accompany me in life, I intend to be focused on Jesus, not be distracted on nonsense so I won't miss the plans the Lord has for me, Amen and Amen
It’s gotten to a point we’re I’m content being single. If God has someone for me she has to love Jesus and doesn’t mind me reaching out to people. I’m not brainwashed like my generation, I’m a millennial, responsible, strong communicator, mature. Most women and men are brainwashed in today’s generation, the gender roles have reversed. So at this point a Godly relationship is the only thing that would work in today’s world. Otherwise it will fail.
When I get stressed, I’ll go play soccer alone at the end of the day. A number of months ago, I broke up with my long time partner. 25 and felt kind of lost. I spend a lot of time in prayer and tonight, while playing, I prayed that God would form me into the man He has for me to become all that I can be. And though I’m not the man yet, but that He would form me into the man who will be ready for the woman He does have in store for me. Then I get home and this video is in my feed. God is good.
I’m seeking God’s face and I’m striving to follow his will. I will trust that God has a plan for me and I will give this area of my life fully to him. I trust that God has a husband and future family for me.
Before I watched this upload yesterday I had been praying and just chatting about this topic with Father God. Just resting in Him giving it up to Him. Right after I had seen you had uploaded this vid. Wow! I was blown away to hear that the same advice I give all my single sisters in Christ I am hearing it come from a young man. Like sometimes we who give the advice don't have anyone to give us back the same advice. Listening to you made me feel like I was hearing my own advice being told back to me. It was encouraging. As I listened I just closed my eyes and felt as if it were Jesus himself speaking to me through you. I just wanted to cry seeing that God was speaking to me & many more who are waiting on Him. I was hoping you would touch on this topic and you did. God truly is in this TH-cam channel leading you. Wow! wow! wow! I've wondered sometimes if people are right and I'm just "exaggerating" because I think the same way. Now I know that I'm not alone in my way of thinking/conviction. I've shared this vid. with all my single sisters and people who don't understand me. A relationship in Christ should be 1 that comes together for Kingdom work and to magnify Him. Keep listening to our Father's voice. You are in my prayers. May God enter to many homes through your messages brother. Blessings and Good Health to you in Jesus name.
i'm healing from an 11 year relationship and 6 of those years i was married. i consider it the end bc there was cheating involved and i just can't go back to that level of disrespect and betrayal. everyday is a rollercoaster but i can't wait to see what God has in store for me!!!!!
Thank you for this video. I’m weeping like a baby because my heart hurts so bad. I’m confused with so much questions, as to how someone I met felt so right in my spirit, to where he pulls away on his own where there isn’t any issues between us. I know it must be a sign that the Lord is speaking strongly into the situation. I have waited so long & prayed for someone solid. As a divorced, single mom, I take time to not rush into anything. As much as I cannot understand, I will trust in the Lord and cling onto his word & promises for my life. I needed this video. Thank you so much. I know the plan he has for me is bigger than my mind can imagine. I will continue to stay in faith, heal and wait on him. Thank you! 🙏🏽 😩😭🙏🏽
In my opinion, one of the BEST videos on singleness and waiting (and believe me, I have watched more than a few!) Thank you brother and God Bless you, I really needed to hear this. Praying for you, your family and for God to bless and comfort you during this time.
God is not a god of Chaos. Amen Indeed. Things that happen in our lives don't just happen by coincidence because all things works for the good of those that love God. We just ought to trust and obey Him and He will act at the right time. God bless you
This came into my feed when I needed it. It sometimes feels heavyweight to wait and hope may even disappear while waiting, feeling that maybe that right person is late to appear. But I have this inner trust that it will be easy and natural if it will be from God. God bless! 🙏🏼
It’s crazy to listen to this, whilst the woman who God has given me is about to fight through chemo in a couple of days, and she’s 4 hrs away from me at the moment. We have both spoken about how it could only be God that brought us together as he knows both our hearts so deeply and thats what we’ve fallen in love with above everything else - our hearts. ♥️ she said she couldn’t focus on the relationship because of the cancer so we have had to put a stop to the relationship but we still love each other and I’ve been obedient, but I am not exploring other options when the woman of my dreams and prayers is going through this. I spoke to God and told him I choose to stick by her side, covering her in prayer and loving her through everything she goes through and I know that he will bring us back together when the appointed time is upon us 🙏 this video was just pure confirmation and came straight away after worshiping and spending time with the Lord, thank you so much!
I've seen this video twice in about 2 weeks. I know the Lord is speaking to me. I recently started crushing on a guy in my church and I know for sure he diesnt feel the same way. I've just been asking God if I should move on or not. Whatever God says, I will listen, no matter what!
To my future partner, I’ll go back to this video and show this to you
-May 27, 2024
Ditto
- June 1st 2024 1:39 a.m.
-May 31st, 2024
Beautiful! 🫶🏻🙏🏻✝️
June 2nd 2024
- same, In the most beautiful name, Jesus. Amen. ❤🙌
June 3, 2024
I was getting to know a young man from my previous church. I was constantly asking God if he was in His Will for my life, no answer. Then one day I asked God again but this time I added "I just want to know Your Will, whether or not I agree. I don't care if it's yes or no, please tell me"... And I kid you not, I heard an audible voice say "Don't settle"... He answered me when my heart was postured in full surrender. I'm so glad God never gave me what I THOUGHT I wanted when I thought I wanted it...
Kris! Praise God! This made my morning! God bless you!
@@ChrisYoon praise God. You're welcome brother. I hope it encouraged you. I was hesitant to let the person go because I had just lost my mother 2 months beforehand... But God taught me something. If He can speak to you with so much accuracy regarding world events and other prophetic insights, how much more so will He speak to you regarding a future spouse? In my particular case, after letting the person go, I asked God to confirm. 12 hrs later, He showed me very clearly that this was NOT my husband. And I said "Lord I want to be Your bride before I'm anyone else's" and wow. He's doing exactly what I asked. I hope my testimony blesses you. This was 4 years ago and my intimacy with the Lord has gone to a level I didn't know existed since then. He has become my Everything. I don't want to breathe if He isn't speaking. I don't want to eat unless He's feeding me with Himself. I don't want to go anywhere where He isn't. "...I am lovesick." (Song of Solomon 2:5)
@@Kris77777 that’s very beautiful
@@Kris77777 this blessed me. Thank u sister. shalom💕
Awesome! He is Faithful.
Lord, as a 36 year old single female with no husband, kids, friends, I will continue to trust in what you have planned for me. Amen. ❤
Excellent advice! If you feel lonely, remember this…You don’t know loneliness until you’re married to the wrong person. Trust God. He knows you better than YOU know you. God bless you!❤️
Great comment 💖🙏🏼
My mom told me that exact same thing
@@Black.Girl_Melanin519 ❤️
Amen, thank you sister!
Too true too true my friend
A little girl asked me “Where’s your husband?” (Im not married) And I said “You know, I don’t know where he is. I can’t find him anywhere.” And she “Maybe he’s just lost somewhere” I said “Maybe that’s why I can’t find him” and we had a laugh 😭
😂😅
Pray for him ❤
Robin, Isaiah 54:5 tells you who your husband is. Remember that!!!
@@TH-camReadythat’s got to be the most insulting and sacrilegious way you could tell someone to settle for being single 😂
Don’t worry. God has a plan for you.
Crazy how this video was made 3 years ago and I just found it after asking God for guidance on my dating life
Me too
Timing!
This is my first time back on yt in MONTHS, in a newer relationship that I've been wondering if God actually wants for me, and this was the first video I see!
Same girl. I asked God for confirmation yesterday.
I know Right
When you willingly give the pen to God, know it'll be good.
June 22, 2024
It took a series of delays, strange people, thousands of miles and years for all events to line up for me and the wife to find each other. NO way it was chance.
@Anon, would you mind sharing . As I always love to hear Gods hand on relationships. As I am praying for my future husband .
It's great you two are together now!
When God chooses your spouse: loydwalker.com/when-god-chooses-your-spouse/
@@Audrey-faithlife it's good that you are praying for "your future husband" and not for "a future husband" because he is out there and needs your prayers in all aspects of his life! Whatever you do, do not get desperate, it is all in God's timing!🧡
I cant wait for this to happen to me. I am 37 and I cry and pray to god ALL THE TIME for him to bring me my person. I just know that when I do walk down that isle, all the praise will be to God because he heard my prayer. I cry now even talking about it. I love God, I love family and I cant wait to meet the man God chooses to love me.
I never thought I'd be reading what's been going on with me just.like.this. Kind regards.
GOD is the ultimate match maker! Amen!❤️
There’s a book called God is my Matchmaker by Derek & Ruth Prince 🌸💫
He is isn’t he
Amen 🙏 ❤
You’ve inspired me to share my journey. A prophet spoke over me in 2006 that God would give me my husband, I met my husband in 2015 and I got married in 2016, exactly 10 years after those words were spoken. Why did it take so long? Because I was making wrong choices not allowing God to fulfill His promise until I allowed Him to work it out for me. Now I am blessed beyond measure, beyond what I deserved. God has the best for you!!! Believe it!! Allow Him to write your love story.
so when you say allow him to write your story, does this mean you just sit back and wait and do nothing? You still have to go out and meet people right? Or you mean dont force it with anyone, just let things happen naturally?
@dancediva wait on God doesn't mean to sit do nothing,is to strength relationship with God , pursue personal growth and serve in community and church.God bless in your waiting
Also, modern-day prophets aren’t a thing. Those times have passed.
Notice how most modern prophecies are vague and highly likely to come true regardless. I don’t want to downplay the impact, but anyone can say they are a prophet.
@@SamEvans02Actually God still speaks to prophets today! Hebrews 13:8: God is the same yesterday, today and for ever. He calls prophets on earth just as in Old Testament times :)
It’s hard, but I have to remember that I’m looking at one person while God is looking at all of them
oof well said🙏🏽🤍
This is deep
This is so true
This is so good
Chills down my spine!
I was a virgin until after turning 28 years old. I hated it, but Christian. Anyway it was worth the wait. I married an awesome and handsome person. When I told people he was my husband they would laugh like I was joking or look at me like I'm crazy... until he would hand me our daughter. And our daughter looks like him. He passed away, my first husband. But I have the most beautiful daughter who is highly intelligent. Ladies, do not settle.
I know this is already an old comment but if you see this I want to say thank you for sharing, it gives me hope. I'm 31 already and have been actively trying to give up at this point but it's difficult to let go of that desire somedays, especially when you see others your age who already have their own families and the pressure and shame my family has put me through because of this.
I'm very sorry about your loss, it must've been incredibly difficult for you and your daughter. However, I greatly admire your strength to still share and encourage others with your testimony. It means a lot. Thank you again and may God heal you and bless you and give you peace after all the pain and hurt in Jesus' name 🙏🏻❤️
@@Nothingbutdust_Hi dear, don't give up hope! I'm 32 and my marriage of 8 years is failing, I've seperated from my husband because of his addictions and abuse. And I'm not giving up hope either. I've had promises and prophecies that Jesus will save my husband and we will marry again, have children. I often feel crazy for having hope and still believing this while I'm in this situation. I don't even love him anymore. But at the same time I can't give up hope and I especially can't give up my faith in Him. He has been closer than a husband and a brother to me these last couple of months. I would never trade His love, His presence and His protection for anything. Not even for a loving husband. 10 years ago I wouldn't have believed my current self for saying this. I would've thought I would be lonely and depressed in this situation. Yes sometimes I am lonely but never alone. I've felt His presence so strongly, like wings of comfort and safety upon me. I've seen angels around me. My own husband has completely rejected me and friends aswell, people from church even ... but honestly I wouldn't go back. Jesus has pulled me out of an unhappy marriage and away from all these people who lie and manipulate and brought me to a safe place. He has given me so much in return. I believe He has something greater for me than I can even imagine. I still pray my husband will be part of that just because I worry about his spiritual and emotional well being. But even if God doesn't repair our marriage I have to believe He has someone else for me. I relate with your feeling of 'running out of time'. Especially for women this seems true when we think of having children. But God can work miracles in that regard too. We are still young, don't let anyone discourage you in that regard. Ask Him what he has for you. Share all your thoughts and feelings honestly with Jesus, also your fears, your anger even. When we let Him in, in our true feelings, He can heal and comfort us. And show us what He thinks about us and how much He loves us. May He bless you abundantly 🙏🏻❤
A lot of single Christians do not know how to get married. Many do not know how to discern the inward witness of the Holy Spirit. A lot of Christians have not and are not being taught how to marry God's choice for them. So many get into really bad situations. If you are a Christian parent, pastor or youth pastor or a knowledgeable Christian, this is your job, to teach these young men and women and even older singles how to know the godly way to select God's choice of a spouse. Satan is having a field day because a lack of knowledge (the correct and adequate teaching) in this area. Please listen. You do not choose a person to become your spouse by just the physical. NO!! You marry God's choice for you by discernment. Discernment is the use spiritual senses, not your physical senses. The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD - Proverbs 20:27. When God is going to direct you, He will do so by your reborn spirit, not your flesh. Marriage is a very important lifetime covenant! Make sure you get right the first time!! God has a purpose and a plan for your life, if you are a serious born again Christian and you are single, you do not just get to choose who you want. You let God choose, then you marry. Why? Because you do not know everything, but God does. May God bless you.
They know how to get Married, Anyone can get Married. It is Staying Married that is the Goal
@ DelFamDII. AMEN‼️
Wow. Thank you for this. God bless you for letting God speak through you. I’m 28 and single. This was beautifully said and appreciate your use of scripture.
Thank you! 🙏🏼
Love this ❤
This is confirmation not to settle when family and friends tell me to settle yet they are in miserable marriages and living like room mates with their spouse. Thank you again Chris.
Take advise from someone that the area in their life that they are giving you advise about is successful
And you want to look like
That
I just turned 56 in November never been married and I have no children....But I haven't given up....I know God is able and I know he is faithful to his word....That if we would delight ourselves in him he would give us the desires of our hearts🙏♥
Deborah, that's tough!
Lol your testimony makes me discouraged and lose my faith
@@carriezhao3097 her faith is greater than your attitude, shame on you.
@@carriezhao3097 dang,way to share optimism and encouragement.
I pray you have found your spouse and God has bought the right one.
I’ve been feeling like God has been so silent about this area of my life. But I trust Him, even though I can’t see what He’s doing.
I feel you.
Grateful for the trust you have! It lifts my own faith 😊
Same period of life going through. Let be God being our first husband to be, He can't fail us...
'When God is silent go back to the last thing he said.' - from a message by Alex Seeley at sistas confrence 2024. This came to my mind for you. Hope it helps (:
A 3 year old video finding me at the most perfect time…. I’m so grateful to have came across this 😭 I truly felt like God just hugged me and comforted me.
Sameee
same here
“He sees things that you can’t even see.” Spot on indeed!
When we first met, my husband and I were both “holding out” for other people who weren’t that into us. After we went out as friends (didn’t consider it a date) it was like we both knew. Feeling the divine pull, I prayed about the other guy. God confirmed the other guy would *never* see me the way I desired and WAS NOT intended to my life in that way.
Lessons: • Hide in God, God will reveal in time • Gods will, Gods way - DO NO MANIPULATE your life for your will (rebellion)
Warning: meditating on a person (soulish desire) can create a soul-tie and an opening for deceiving confusion. (For years the enemy played in my own desires and years into marriage God broke a soul-tie I didn’t even know I formed with the other guy). God bless.
When I tell you your last part triggered me, I needed to hear that. Thank you!
@@yoyod2012 Amen, Yolanda.
Wow, having a soul tie from meditating on a person is an amazing revelation! Answers some of my questions!!
God bless you. I’m a little confused, what do you mean by meditating on a person?
@Elivia Ortiz God bless you. When we meditate on God or Gods word, we [draw near, are fixed on, commune with, desire deep connection, etc.]. Mediating on a person in this way is idolatry and worship.
To my future husband, I have come a long way to become a Proverbs 31 woman. I have prayed to God for you. I have asked God to make me worthy of being a wife. If you are reading this, it means I stepped back and God has done the work in me. Thank you for being so patient. I’m blessed we are here together.
(June 16, 2024)
I love this
You'll make it, with that beautiful humility. Jesus is working on me, my anger towards evil and the sense of wrath I feel towards it, including whatever amount exists in me. I don't know if I need to work towards change or just give him the time to do it, but the world and people who love sin more than love itself are tiring. Still a baby Christian. I'd say good luck, but we don't need it when we have God lol.
Beautifully said, coincidentally June 16 2024 was the day I had a relationship end that God proved was wrong for me. It's been a tough week but I've also realized with the help of some friends that God loves me for pulling me out of something that was toxic and could get worse.
The Lord answered amazing prayers to show me who I was to marry, and when it seemed it wasn't going to work out I began to question everything. Then He gave me the most amazing dream I've ever had that showed me she was going to call me in 30 days. That dream came true and we were married 4 months later. I now realize that He used that situation to stretch my Faith. Faith = trust and commitment
This is a beautiful love story. Not only of you and your wife, but of Jesus. And your last two sentences of your comment is such a great revelation. May God bless your union all the days of your life. ❤️🙏🏼
Very beautiful:) love your words
Amazing Glory to God 🙏🏽
This is soo beautiful and cute 🥰 at the same time
My husband left after 22 years of marriage.He found his soul mate.He is very happy and i ask myself why do the cheaters have a good life and the ones left are the people that suffer the most?
After 16 years of being separated, being a hopeless romantic that i am, I am still trusting and believing in God in His time...Let go and let God...
U have to look for him, this guy isn't completely right, I know trust me. If u find a good guy that u really like then pray on it, pray that he will put that person into ur life, he will listen to u, he gives us what are hearts desire most but only if he sees that it's good for us. He gives us opportunities that's all, we have to act on it
Your awesome man of GOD is on his way🙂
This really broke my heart... I hope you continue finding love through Him and that God grants your wish to have a partner that truly loves and cares about you ♥️
Cheaters do not go on happily in life. When people behave like this they repeat these behaviors and the two that cheated have issues trusting each other. A wise woman once told me “ if he will step out with you, he will step out on you.” Remember what you see is in the surface and not what goes on behind closed doors. All that glitters is not gold.
Look up narcissist on your U Tube and you will most likely see your husband He is treating the new wife just like he did you
Absolutely! I’ve been staying single for a very long time and I am to the point where I get my love and validation from Jesus. I trust that he will lead me to my kingdom marriage.
Fred egg is obviously a good egg
How's the status?
I wish I heeded this wisdom. Instead I followed my feelings and it cost me dearly. I married someone who said all the right things, but didn't have true intimacy with Jesus. Having said that, God used it to teach me to wait on Him, as well as show me things in me that needed to change. He's so faithful and good. I hope this comment encourages someone to make sure they wait for God to lead them, instead of finding someone they want and asking God to bless their decisions. A good thing is the enemy of God's best for us. He knows what He's doing.
I'm so blessed to know to wait rather than seek someone for myself. I witnessed my parents marriage being horrible and when I got older I said I don't want to live like them.. there must be something better. I decided to seek Jesus with all my heart, soul, spirit and being and he taught me so, so much. One of the best decisions I've made was seeking Jesus and not leaning on my own understanding but WAIT on everything because what he gives is so much better than what I can give myself.
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family don’t forget as well if something going on in marriage that is not normal there’s a medical reason there that no one knows FATHER let me know if you’d seek to find out txt or call will all become clear :)
Thank you!! So much love you are important!
Thank you for this beautiful encouraging comment
I hate to admit but I will start working out for my future wife!!!
"The person God has for you will work out for you." Chris Yoon
Rofl good one but if your future wife is truly a Christian she wouldn't be looking at muscular men first thing.
@@itsmidtrib1569 true but it doesnt mean she wouldnt prefer a little more muscular husband, right? ^^
As long as you work out your spiritual life more
did no one get the joke 😂
😂😂
I was sitting on my bed worried,then God lead me here !🙏🏻
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family
A key part of all of this is to truly make God your LORD. Rom 12:1-2 is a formula for finding God's will, and it starts with a surrendered life. Belief/Faith = Trust and Commitment in God and His ways
Surrender in three main areas -
1 Love Him with all your Heart - wholehearted commitment
2 Love Him with all your Mind - Fill your mind with His Word that washes us
3 Love Him with all your Soul - Let His Spirit fill you and lead you
I've been feeling lonely as a person who doesn't actively date frequently and take years between any relationship I have. Some days I'm fine, some days I feel like there's no hope. But God is the creator and author of my book and that gives me faith. I hope to show my husband this comment in the future and I hope wherever he is in the world, he's praying and learning for me as well.
God bless everyone on their journey reading this!
He is not a God of chaos. This is so true.🙌
Yesterday the Holy Spirit gave me an example of how companies ask during interviews what your salary expectations are and many times we fall short of what the company had budgeted and we get hired because it’s a gain to the company, they get to save cause we request an amount lower than what they had budgeted for, but God isn’t like that. He hears our prayers where we ask for small things because we limit ourselves and we limit His power but instead he doesn’t give you what you ask for because his plans and thoughts for our lives are much higher, instead he changes our desires so they can align with his. He gives us what we would have asked for had we known what he knows.
He says in the scripture even you wouldn’t believe if someone told you what I have in store for you.
God is so so good. Ours is to surrender and trust Him in every area of our life.
Thank you for this video. Be blessed 🙏🏾
To everyone waiting on God to move in any area of your life, rest tonight knowing that He withholds nothing good from us. Be patient and wait on his amazing surprise ♥️
I just got tricked and want to get everything back in God the holy ghost everything I once Had. I can't believe I look back. Please pray. This wasn't worth it. I was deceived. Hurt. Why did HE NOT ELECT ME. I was so Tricked. Curses and born again1991 !! God. PLEASE no more of this society.
@@TriciaPerry-mz7tc Hi Tricia, I am really sorry that you feel like this and went through such a terrible thing. 🫂
I am here to remind you that God RESTORES.
In Joel 2:25 He say, “And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.”
Surrender all that you have to him and pray that he has his way in you. In Isaiah 55:9 He says, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
Rest in this promise and stay connected to him. John 15:5 “Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.”
I will pray with you as that is our weapon as believers. Prayer changes things. Come back to this video one day and let us know how good God has been to you because you are about to experience his glory in the land of the living.
Jeremiah 29:11
“'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. '”
Be blessed and stay strong.
Joshua 1:9 Have not I commanded you? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be you dismayed: for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.”
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This is beautiful ❤
@@TermsDecoded♥️♥️♥️
@@TriciaPerry-mz7tc what do you mean?
You have a very soothing and inviting voice.
Jesus talking through him
Don't forget effect of the piano 🤔
Like a serpent?
Doesnt he tho!
@@mojoejojo6675 that's you
I made some poor choices. God gave me "Red flags" but I chose to ignore them. Sure enough, God was right Every single time.
To my future partner, I’ll go back to this video and show this to you.
-June 6th 2024
this is making me tear up.
19/06/2024🤭
This is a 3yo video, but it’s exactly what I needed to hear today. God bless you
Same 🥺
I usually fast so that God removes any deceivers out of my life...and God's mercy always comes thru!!
I was not trusting God but the world by going onto Dating Apps. No more. I deleted them and I will trust God will bring me the right man. Amen.
Thank you Chris for you words of God.
What if the right man is in the dating app? My friend got a husband from dating app and he is Christian
@@njrom2975 My view on dating apps are neutral. I have lots of friends who found wonderful Christian spouses on dating apps. For me, however, I have prayed to God about it and every single time He clearly tells me that I will meet my husband in person, outside of dating apps. I fully trust in God and so I have never tried going on the dating apps. Long story short, I think it really depends on what God is speaking to you personally. Pray to Him and He will give you clarification 😊🙏
Thanks for the encouragement. I'm the type to worry and force things. Led to many terrible relationships. I hope marriage is in God's plans for me. But I've become pretty content I being single. Either way is okay. Sorry about your father. I pray for peace and comfort from the Lord for you. God bless.
Im the same way, I completely agree
Me too. Love you all. Peace to you
Same here, I can relate.
So agree, I love you thank you for sharing God is with you❤️❤️💞
Me too! 😌
It has been 8 years that i constantly ask God for a godly woman in my life. and until now nothing. Finding one is like finding a ruby. so i tried by putting some work since i didnt believe that by only asking it would be giving, like just siting in a chair amd asking God to show me the person to me. so i tried and to no avail. there isnt any. i was very sad and struggled so much but i resched a point that i realised i was puting more importance to a wish i had than my relationship to God. if God is not my first priority then obvously i could never have a woman. i have to be prepared and accept that God time is the best time, and also that only he knows what is best for me, be it being single or with a partner. And i accept it. however i will not stop asking that wish to him until i die. GOd bless you brothers and sisters in Christ.
Amen
It is well
I pray you get. Sm waiting on the Lord too
God knows I could be me!! 😅Because am still waiting on God too!
My husband and I started as good friends and he came to Christ 3 years before we started dating. We prayed and fasted about it. But about a year and a half ago he suddenly came out as wanting to be a woman and wanting an open relationship in order to 'love' his friends more fully. So now there is a disconnect between us on such a deep level. It knocked me off my foundation pretty badly. I'm getting back on my walk now but it is so hard and confusing. I don't even know how to pray anymore and I feel numb. I really need healing and guidance and my husband needs prayer.
Thank you for sharing your story. I will be praying for you, lean on to Christ in this confusion! He loves you and cares for you, there is a plan through all of this ❤️
Can i contact you? I really wanna talk about Christ with you ❤️
Praying for you beloved. Please seek some support if you have not already within a group of believers that will not only lift you up and support you to heal as much as you can, but also pray Holy Spirit fire of conviction over your husband.
The devil is the author of confusion, and a lot of times he will throw an audible, to trick us out of the very blessing that God has for us. If I hear correctly what God is instructing for me to tell you is this! Somewhere on you guys path, the flesh has entered in, and he has lost focus on his walk with Christ. So in this season that you don't know what to pray about, instead of praying for your marriage specifically, now pray for you and your husbands hearts, mind, soul and spirit. Instead of praying for your marriage to work, pray that you both rekindle that love that you once had for God , and that the eyes of your understanding to be enlightened. And when you take the focus off of the problem and trust His process, that's when your miracle will happen. Lastly the bible says in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path! I am praying for full restoration for your marriage, and for restoration for your husband back to the love of God that he once had, And for you that you do not lose hope in what God can do! The bible says submit yourself to the Lord, resist the devil and he will flee, but the key is in the submission. If we submit first God will give you the strength to resist! God bless you friend!
So sorry to hear that. The devil has deceived him. Is he moving with the wrong crowd? Pray that God will open his eyes to the truth. Pray against demonic spirits working against his mind. God bless your marriage and restore your husband in Jesus name. Amen
Last night I surrendered to God all the aspects of my life including a romantic relationship. Then, He led me here. Hehe
Wow! How timely this video is! It popped up today and spoke right to me. I have been struggling tremendously with being single. I am having the absolute toughest time finding balance and trying not to feel invisible. I want so bad to have a companion, I have prayed and sought God for years to send a partner. Nothing has moved. Nor one has come around. It breaks my heart and God knows it but I am still going to just wait it out.
It will be worth the wait in the end. It's not nice to be single I know but I rather wait than invite trouble in my life
The hardest thing I’ve ever done is fully surrender my love / relationship life . After 2 failed marriages I tried to force it by rapid dating many people . I met my future husband at work . But god told me not yet ! You’re not ready . He’s right I’m a mess . He’s working on us both , I trust in his plan 🙌🏽. It’s been more than I imagined ❤
I'm also waiting and tempted to jump into relationships just because I feel I'm behind all my peers. Now I'm encouraged it's to wait on the Lord❤
Right on! I just broke up with my fiance, he wasn't for me, i prayed it would work out but Gods plan it's the perfect plan. We don't know what He has for us. To my ex God wasn't first and he revealed even that he was muslim. I was very sad but now i feel that God is with me stronger than ever, i feel His spirit comforting me and now i have peace. I'm so gratefull that happened. This peace now that i feel, perfect. Be blessed and focus first on God 🕊. And even tho' you have sinned and the enemy has told you that you are unworthy that is lies. You are worthy and loved by The Lord our Savior ❤🕊 Be blessed my family 💕
You are so strong God will bless you ten fold ❤️
You encouraged me..thank u sister God bless you 100 fold
walking in the spirit :) life twice as a kid peel back the onion layers of the flesh till you get to center and that’s the real you living in the spirit my family :) FATHERS WORD is here to show you and wants you to HEAR we love you and that HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within will tingles/goosebumps you everywhere over the body to let you know LOVE TRUE LOVE from FATHER from all over creation is real everywhere some souls it’s just misapplied for certain reasons that souls can not understand yet but will in time if any beautiful souls would love to contact me FATHER will let me give them the knowledge they seek of any sickness mental or physical how it starts and ends in medical terms little easier to understand anything you can imagine of the fleshy body anxieties and woes and how to walk in the spirit fully it’s so glorious and HOLY HOLY HOLY FATHER is I died 5 months back fell over on the bed and what I saw was undeniable the FATHER the WORD the HOLY SPIRIT all three to describe the FATHER is no words to the WORD yes brothers and sisters I could and what heavens gates really are and more the HOLY SPIRIT I can describe as well would love to tell my brothers and sisters about this on phone in detail so you all know it to be true I do not lie is not my way I’m truth I extend my hand to help any living SOULS that want it :) if any soul needs help please contact me FATHER will let me tell you what you seek for that door to open please do not push this message away it can change your life there’s so much more I’d love to say my family to much to type call me 4232683746 ate up with cancer skull thyroid bladder cancer liver failing pericarditis/pericardium heart- kidneys failing tumors all over my veins in my back my wife left me family friends everyone quit talking to me wild I know FATHER gave me knowledge and wisdom and understanding satans delusion can walk you through it in medical terms FATHERS HOLY SPIRIT that dwells within us wraps us in that protection blanket literally tingles and numbs out the pain so wonderful let me help you my family
"and he revealed even that he was muslim" So you were ENGAGED to a guy of whom you didn't even know his true faith for the whole time so it got just reveiled to you? Wow
Hey, I had a similar situation happen with me (although slightly different circumstances for breaking things off). I know it hurts right now, but at least you realize this now before getting married to him. I hope things work out well for you in the future and that you will find someone you are more spiritually aligned with in the future
Thank you for this! There is a beautiful woman that I met a small group through my church. A couple of months or so after we met and being in group together, I randomly ran into her one on one on church property and expressed my feelings and asked her on a date. Her response was I can’t because I am in a season of embracing myself as a single woman right now. God knew that I had these intentions to talk to her, but I feel he wanted to express to my heart that it wasn’t the right time. She eventually moved out of state for career endeavors, but we unexpectedly ran into each other again at that same church during Christmas Eve service. We caught up and talked about going out to eat together. We were not able to before we she flew back due to conflicting schedules, but we have continued to keep in touch. When I first met her and shook her hand at small group, I was blown away, not only by her beauty, but her kind and sweet heart. I continue to pray for her every day, but also ultimately for God‘s clarity and discernment🙏
Hopefully it works out for you. Although, your story irritates me a bit. Did you not express to her how you felt?
@@christopherram8948 haha yes, I told her face to face as stated 1/4 into the paragraph😄
I thank God for this clear and godly perspective on meeting the one. It negates everything that the world teaches on dating. But God's ways are different. ❤
That is also correct GOD is the Ultimate Matchmaker.
Wow. You made this video 3 years ago. I am struggling with this now so I know this was God that had this video pop up for me. Thank you and God bless you❤
Same❤
I have one child, my daughter, that continues to wait for the man the Lord has for her. She is a wonderful Christian and is successful in business. There have been many suitors but no winners. I'd rather she spend her life single than marry the wrong man. Chris, you are a sweetie and I wish I could introduce you to her. We are in Texas! Blessings.
I have a single daughter, too, who I pray finds a Christ centered man to cherish her before I leave this world.
@@charlottetyler5882 Amen and stay faithful !
To my real soulmate please pray for me🥺. That may God guide me in everything that I do. I'm so tired emotionally and mentally rn. May God remove anyone and anything that does not belong to me people, things, situations. I'm tired of dealing with people who are suppose to be just a lesson.
If it's not for me may God give me the strength to just let it go
May God bless you! He will give you strength:)
@@maggieyang1096 Thank you🥺🙏
Dear future husband ❤️ God is really working on me right now & I know he is on you too. I’m so exited for God’s plan to unravel & I trust his timing. He only gives good & perfect gifts because he is a good father 🥰
We tell our girls this all the time. It's really nice to know God is raising up men like yourself that believe this too and that is why we know God's plan for our daughters is in His control. Thank you!
I'm 18 and its hard to find Christian friends or Godly girls in my generation. I trust in God though❤️✝️
As someone who had my own agenda at 20 I wanted to be married, have kids now I am 27 and I see friends and siblings have what I long for really hurt me. All I keep getting told is be patient, wait and be patient, which I am not very good at. Now I am trying my hardest to do the right thing and wait for the man God wants to put in my life. I've been hurt too many times that I am sure he is healing me 1st and provide me with a man who will hold my heart and not hurt it. Thank you for this Mr. Yoon.🤗
It's crazy because I had this thought for a few days. desiring for someone to accompany my life. thank you for the word and advice. God bless you, have a blessed day!
i miss
All in His time. I had to learn to accept the idea. I was married for 15 years. Lonely for most of those years. My ex husband tried to love me the way he knew how but it wasn’t working. I was broken. Had been broken since I was 6 yrs old. All of my personal issues needed to be addressed first before I could learn to love someone else. I didn’t love myself. I finally surrendered it all to God a few months ago. God’s will be done in my life, is what I pray for. I trust Him. Seeking His kingdom first! Be blessed
Dang, God is so faithful. After 21 years of marriage, all I can is that it was God ordained. I thought someone else should have been my husband based on my feelings for him, even though he was all wrong for me. My husband is perfect for me, God created just for me! God has revealed this to me on so many occasions so I'm truly grateful. I hung on to something for so many years knowing that it wasn't from God, but didn't want to accept it, until finally, one day I did!!!
I can relate. Much much love to you and all my brothers and sisters. Hang in there and be a friend of God now in our waiting season and be a friend of God even once we meet the spouse God has for us.
I’m a young woman who has been single for 10 years.
I don’t even remember what it feels like to be hugged.
I’ve been praying to God everyday to bless me with a man who loves him as much as I do. A few weeks ago, such a person entered my life. It felt so holy and felt like God lead us to each other. Then suddenly, it ended and I’m left upset and wondering why God put me through that.
So happy I stumbled upon this video. Instead of hurting, I want to choose to trust in the Lord and know that if this man is right, God will, someday bring us back together but I also need to be okay if he tells me it’s not *insert heartbreak*
So yesterday one of your videos showed up on my feed and I decided to click on it. I became a follower because the way you delivered the message was so calm that it was like a story. Thank you! I have been asking God to share with me true prophets and messengers of his name sake. I truly thank him for continuously responding to my prayers🙏🏾🥰
Hi Latischia! I’m so blessed by this comment and so thankful you shared. I’m praying you continue growing in your faith in Jesus. God has a plan for your life. God bless you sister in Christ!
@Chris Yoon God Bless you and thank you so very much. I spent alot of my day watching your videos. I just finished watching 8 Spiritual Personalities and I must say you are sooo spot on. I truly appreciate the time you put into that video. I can go on so again thanks a whole lot 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰
Because I was raised that marriage was THE ultimate state of being, and my mom raised me with low self-esteem, I married a man I thought was "good enough". I'm sorry, at the end of the day, he never became a good man. 😢
When God picks you mate it will blow your mind the love received, God bless you Chris, you are a blessed vessel of the Lord. Praise Jesus.god showed me my wife in a dream now I have been bless with her love for 14 yrs and it has been an anchor for me and my journey.
Man brother, What a blessing you are. Not gonna lie… I was very frustrated today…Frustrated at a lot of things… but man, your video calmed me down. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used by the Lord. God bless
This came at such a right time, I’ve been extremely anxious about my love life as I just turned 30 & feel I’ve been making a whole lot of mess entertaining chaos and clear manipulation. I think it’s time to be still & let go of ideas, fantasies and trying to make things work with my own strength. I’m so scared but I excited to step into faith and put my trust in Him. Thank you for the video and if anyone is reading this … pray for me 😔
Godly marriage is the best way to go, it's important to trust God. If it's God's will for marriage the Lord will connect you to the right Godly spouse that he has for you. Patience and trusting God's timing.
Great teaching and advice.
Amen🙏
Lost the love of my life. I was with her for 30 months. I felt as God took her away because I need change and I needed to draw closer to him. I put more into her than him and he saw things I didn’t see. Broke my heart. She said she hopes she’ll come back but I don’t know. I gotta trust in God. Thank you for this video. ❤ My name is Forest, 24. Pray for me.
You're in our prayers, Forest. Sending hugs, light and love.
Such Godly wisdom. All singles, all ages should listen.
I just ended it with someone I was seeing and saw his lack of effort as a sign. I tend to always pray to God when I meet someone and they'd ghost me a week or days after my prayer. This time this one didn't leave but still knew in my heart that we just aren't compatible. I ignored it since God didn't remove him after my prayer that may be I need to trust the process. But I realized that someone who is best for me would pursue me how I want to be pursued so I made the decision to move on. I don't want to beg for attention or affection anymore. I am not sure why at 30 years old I've never had a boyfriend and why I'm so unlovable. All I wanted was to start my own family but perhaps isn't for me. I decided to focus on my career instead and doors were closed on me there too. Now I'm stuck I have no more dreams left. Been begging God to speak to me and tell me where He wants me to go but I was met with silence. Not much I can do anymore other than surrender I have no control or say in anything.
Please know you are on God's mind and his heart. The fact that you are still here is proof that you are loveable and God has so much MORE LOVE to show you and bring to you. Your tears nor your pain will be wasted. God's got your back.👍🏾❤️🌹
You have total control and say in your life, don’t let the devil trick you in thinking otherwise. Victim mentality will eat you alive. You’re not unlovable either, couldn’t be further from the truth! God loves you and always will. And you’re probably a dream wife to someone.. thing is, don’t focus on that. Lose yourself in something you love.. learn a new skill, new hobby, travel… these open doors to meeting new people and eventually someone that will make you glad you never gave up looking. Those who seek, find.. and so keep the faith. Work on becoming the best version of yourself, the best wife you can be for someone one day, start now and your future you plus husband will be grateful for it all!! Remember, you are loved more than you will ever know.. so lead a life that epitomises that.
I can somewhat relate to you...
What has been helping is getting spiritual direction by a priest. Found one that fits to talk to about the past. I honestly was afraid talking and healing my past. Makes sense why I'm single..
Thank you for this video. I am really struggling to put my faith in God and truly surrender my heart to him. I just ask that if anyone sees this that they pray for me. Thank you.
@ Talk, , I will pray for you . God wants you to cast your cares on him , 1 Peter5:7.
Talk to God and tell him, and give it to him. Amen . Blessings.
This video came to me for a reason. I met a man at my job and I feel like we made a special connection. He ended up hurting my feelings over and over again. Despite all that, God continued to bring him in my life. I believe we met at the wrong time, but we met for a reason. We need to work on our lives right now. I believe one day we could love each other❤️🙏🏼
A 3 year old video popping up when it’s something I have been thinking about the whole day. God’s timing and I shall be patient & enjoy being single
This came to my feed tonight. I just finished talking to God about my singleness. I am ready for a Man of God to find me. I'm ready. How ever he comes into my life. 💕🙏
This video was made for me for this EXACT moment. I just got off the phone with that “someone” to let it go. I opened up TH-cam & this is first video that came up. Thank you so much. God spoke to me through you
Your words of knowledge,wow thank you!:)
God is not a God of chaos or manipulation but he is God of order,decency and reason.
True👏
As I’m letting go of a relationship that wasn’t God’s best for me, this video pops up.
I have been single for about 10 years....it bothered me and had me down for a long time.....but I trust God he has looked after me all these years and kept me from some very unhealthy things....sometimes we think with our emotions and feelings and not God's will. I want God's will for my life...thank you Jesus.
I've been in some wrong relationships. Now, I have been single going on 12 years this year. I have not had a boyfriend in 12 years. Wow. Only 1 date. I get so sad and discouraged sometimes, because I think maybe I am meant to remain single and childless. I see people al around me getting engaged, married, having babies, and some are younger than me and some are older than me. I feel like God left me out sometimes. I know those are lies from Satan, but sometimes I do get discouraged. Someone I know said she knows a lady who didn't get married until she was 60. I know it sounds vain, but I want to get married before I get too old and ugly, so I will look great in a wedding gown.
I desire that also. God's timing is everything. Maybe you should try on a wedding gown of your choice and actually buy it, put it on as the spirit leads you and pray to God. Pour out your heart to him. Sooner or later, God will reveal him to you. Be blessed! 🙏😇❤️
I know plenty of women at 60 who would look great in a wedding gow.
She’s out there somewhere. For now I am focusing on what I know He’s calling me to and where I know He’s calling me. In His time 🙏🏻
I am trying to be patient. I have never been married or had children. While my friends are married and have children. I am trying not to take control. I want what God has for me. I'm tried of doing things on my own.
This video is 3 years old, and I have been begging the Lord for clarity in this area for the last couple of days. Very much divine timing. Thank you so much for this video!
I am so frustrated in this department. I am tired of praying, spending money and time trying to heal and nothing seems to work. I am exhausted 😭
Keep praying sis, God is working all things for your good. He hasn’t forgotten you. 🙏🏾
May you find rest in Him, may He give you peace and order your steps. Remember, He has a great plan for you and every good and perfect gift comes from God 🙏🏾
I’ll pray for you sister ❤
No matter what happens. Though I believe you just gotta keep praying sister. Know God loves you so much. He cares for you more than any man can. But I pray you also find a true man of God whom God knows is the best one for u!
God bless. ❤
Totally surrender everything to Jesus
3 years later and I needed this
This video and testimony brought tears to my eyes. I don’t even know you it showed up on my TH-cam feed. But thank you so much
I was going through breakup and this video popped.Lord is really talking to me😢
This video is powerful and needed. I had moments and thought about who would be the right “girlfriend” or “why I haven’t find the right one.” I need to chill out, love myself, and pray. Thank you🙏🏾⭐️
While I wait on the Lord reveals/brings the man He chose to accompany me in life, I intend to be focused on Jesus, not be distracted on nonsense so I won't miss the plans the Lord has for me, Amen and Amen
It’s gotten to a point we’re I’m content being single. If God has someone for me she has to love Jesus and doesn’t mind me reaching out to people. I’m not brainwashed like my generation, I’m a millennial, responsible, strong communicator, mature. Most women and men are brainwashed in today’s generation, the gender roles have reversed. So at this point a Godly relationship is the only thing that would work in today’s world. Otherwise it will fail.
I pray you find that person God has for you !
It's terrible what is happening to our generations, I'm gen z though
to my future wife, I pray that you would be closer to God and we will meet soon ...
When I get stressed, I’ll go play soccer alone at the end of the day. A number of months ago, I broke up with my long time partner. 25 and felt kind of lost. I spend a lot of time in prayer and tonight, while playing, I prayed that God would form me into the man He has for me to become all that I can be. And though I’m not the man yet, but that He would form me into the man who will be ready for the woman He does have in store for me. Then I get home and this video is in my feed. God is good.
God knows who's best for us. He should be the center of our relationship first of all. May God order my steps to a right person. 😍🙏💕
I’m seeking God’s face and I’m striving to follow his will. I will trust that God has a plan for me and I will give this area of my life fully to him. I trust that God has a husband and future family for me.
Before I watched this upload yesterday I had been praying and just chatting about this topic with Father God. Just resting in Him giving it up to Him. Right after I had seen you had uploaded this vid. Wow! I was blown away to hear that the same advice I give all my single sisters in Christ I am hearing it come from a young man. Like sometimes we who give the advice don't have anyone to give us back the same advice. Listening to you made me feel like I was hearing my own advice being told back to me. It was encouraging. As I listened I just closed my eyes and felt as if it were Jesus himself speaking to me through you. I just wanted to cry seeing that God was speaking to me & many more who are waiting on Him. I was hoping you would touch on this topic and you did. God truly is in this TH-cam channel leading you. Wow! wow! wow! I've wondered sometimes if people are right and I'm just "exaggerating" because I think the same way. Now I know that I'm not alone in my way of thinking/conviction. I've shared this vid. with all my single sisters and people who don't understand me. A relationship in Christ should be 1 that comes together for Kingdom work and to magnify Him. Keep listening to our Father's voice. You are in my prayers. May God enter to many homes through your messages brother. Blessings and Good Health to you in Jesus name.
Praying for God to bring the right one to me, and for me to see clearly when He does
i'm healing from an 11 year relationship and 6 of those years i was married. i consider it the end bc there was cheating involved and i just can't go back to that level of disrespect and betrayal. everyday is a rollercoaster but i can't wait to see what God has in store for me!!!!!
God is with you, I love you💗
You can’t remarry you have to remain single or fix your current affairs
Thank you for this video. I’m weeping like a baby because my heart hurts so bad. I’m confused with so much questions, as to how someone I met felt so right in my spirit, to where he pulls away on his own where there isn’t any issues between us. I know it must be a sign that the Lord is speaking strongly into the situation. I have waited so long & prayed for someone solid. As a divorced, single mom, I take time to not rush into anything. As much as I cannot understand, I will trust in the Lord and cling onto his word & promises for my life. I needed this video. Thank you so much. I know the plan he has for me is bigger than my mind can imagine. I will continue to stay in faith, heal and wait on him. Thank you! 🙏🏽 😩😭🙏🏽
In my opinion, one of the BEST videos on singleness and waiting (and believe me, I have watched more than a few!)
Thank you brother and God Bless you, I really needed to hear this. Praying for you, your family and for God to bless and comfort you during this time.
You are such a precious person shining that lamp! 💕
How crazy is it that while I was confused about God’s plan, this video came up on my recommended list!
God is not a god of Chaos. Amen Indeed. Things that happen in our lives don't just happen by coincidence because all things works for the good of those that love God. We just ought to trust and obey Him and He will act at the right time. God bless you
This came into my feed when I needed it. It sometimes feels heavyweight to wait and hope may even disappear while waiting, feeling that maybe that right person is late to appear. But I have this inner trust that it will be easy and natural if it will be from God. God bless! 🙏🏼
It’s crazy to listen to this, whilst the woman who God has given me is about to fight through chemo in a couple of days, and she’s 4 hrs away from me at the moment. We have both spoken about how it could only be God that brought us together as he knows both our hearts so deeply and thats what we’ve fallen in love with above everything else - our hearts. ♥️ she said she couldn’t focus on the relationship because of the cancer so we have had to put a stop to the relationship but we still love each other and I’ve been obedient, but I am not exploring other options when the woman of my dreams and prayers is going through this. I spoke to God and told him I choose to stick by her side, covering her in prayer and loving her through everything she goes through and I know that he will bring us back together when the appointed time is upon us 🙏 this video was just pure confirmation and came straight away after worshiping and spending time with the Lord, thank you so much!
This video brought tears to my eyes!!
I've seen this video twice in about 2 weeks. I know the Lord is speaking to me. I recently started crushing on a guy in my church and I know for sure he diesnt feel the same way. I've just been asking God if I should move on or not. Whatever God says, I will listen, no matter what!
Thank you so much for this teaching ❤. It blessed me and broke me and I understand to let go and allow God 💯