9 Signs Someone Is About To Betray You
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- If you’re concerned about betrayal, watch out for these signs that someone is about to betray you! Trust is foundational in any relationship. When someone betrays you, that trust gets broken. So it’s important to catch the early warning signs of betrayal before they get to hurt you.
Thankfully, there are certain behaviors that reveal someone might betray you - you just have to keep your eyes open, especially for fake nice people.
It’s also important not to get too paranoid when you notice something. However, if someone is displaying several of these behaviors, it should raise a red flag.
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“The saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.”
~Unknown
That's why they are successful, you loved and trusted.
Very true
Keep your enemies close but keep your friends closer.
Amen
That's the definition 😂😭
After being betrayed I learned to stand alone.
You are your best secret keeper
Me too alone you can not be betrayed.
It's a lot safer emotionally and financially. Don't associate. Less likely to be betrayed.
I have had no friends, acquaintances, nor work allies and work acquaintances since 8 August 2000. Loneliness is far milder than the emotions stimulated by being used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned. I was severely hurt by my girlfriend and her friends. She insisted I befriend them. I let my guard down and all of them did very cruel things to me. They saw my social inexperience and took advantage of it. This will never happen to me ever again, no matter what.
I have trust issues sometimes :/
Betrayal is serious. It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
Unforseen enemies this is why I try to avoid a lot of people but I feel more cursed for trying nobody said it was easy 🙏
Sometimes those who smile the most to your face will put the biggest knife into your back. Just trust that small voice inside, it's your God-given intuition.
Friends will never stab you in the front. Rule #1 of the con game is, if you want to cheat somebody, first they have to trust you.
@@Ace.0.0.0. you've got to be 100% behind someone before you can stab them in the back 🌤️ ☮️
@@renegade-master29 I disagree. Imagine a person wants to hug you, and they have a knife to stab your back. Perhaps you are talking figuratively, and I am talking literally.
All my fellow kind-hearted people, STAY KIND!!! Don’t let sociopaths and narcissists dim your shining light!! Kindness, happiness, and living well is the ultimate revenge. Forgive them, leave it to God and move on. This has always worked for me! Eventually, these people come back and send a long message saying they are sorry for their actions and that I’m a good person blah blah blah. I say thanks, block and move on. KINDNESS WILL GET YOU FARTHER IN LIFE. DON’T HARBOUR NEGATIVITY. This is coming from a person with a narcissistic father and ex.
Well said 💋
Thank you 🙏☝️
Yes, you are so right! Forgive, but don’t keep them around. Then live a happy and peaceful life. 👊💜
Kind as a storm god with a blood cult. "I KNEW THEM NOT."
Yup. You can forgive (that's for yourself BTW - to get rid of the anger), but don't forget. If you forget, you learn nothing and end up putting yourself in the same position again. If someone betrays your trust, forgive in so far as you are no longer letting it eat your soul. Then move on and leave them to become a ghost of your past. Burn the bridge so they can't follow you.
You can never repair a relationship with a Narcissist. They seek you out, use you, discard you and then destroy you.
D00R .. 100% correct and I speak from experience. Having been a survivor of spousal abuse (now ex) from a narcissist I can say it takes many years to recover.. and I found GOD along the way who brought me Home and healed me .. still remnants that still need tweaking but on the whole I am mostly healed. A warning to everybody .. we all want love and friendships BUT be very careful who you let into your life.. people can either make or break you.. narcissists are evil, cold, cruel, destructive, revengeful, nasty and have NO accountability for their actions - thinking they are well above the law BUT NOT GOD'S LAW!!
@David Saddy I promise you will be just fine. Whatever you experience in your life go through the pain and remember it was a lesson you had to learn. Nothing or anyone is worth taking your life. You must push my friend. Keep pushing for better. I promise you this time next year all this will be laughable. Please David, I need you to survive!!
@David Saddy time heals what reason cannot, give your the that opportunity. If she's a true narcissist ya need to cut 💯% of contact with her. Just went thru that myself. Thanks for having the courage to ask for help. men in this world we are expected to man up as they put it but I say fuck that shit we are human and have feelings too. Prayers for ya brother!
Yup💯💯💯💯💯 STILL RECOVERING AND ITS GETTING IN THE WAY OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE
@David Saddy mate I have seen this darkness. Betrayal of a Narcisist is horrible but there is light ahead. If she was toxic and narcisstic please find Dr Ramani here on you tube. She explains everything narcisstic and will show you have to get out of the place your stuck within. Helped me move forward and thousands like us. Do it now and take back your life. Goodluck.
#7: They lie to you- lies are a betrayal. Secrets are a betrayal. You’ve been cut out of their loop by being robbed of the truth.
Terry.. So true.
That’s so true.
i want to watchthis video but im anxious of what may come from knowing the details n of betrayel
Well said. I would also like to add that if they say something and don't follow up with it then that's a lie aswell.
People who don't keep there word.
If their actions say they don’t respect you, they don’t. They will betray you. You mean nothing, and casting you off is like shaking a pebble from their shoe. Protect yourself.
Thank you youtube commenter. I needed that.
Then why do they keep showing up in your life ? Funerals, birth of baby...etc. ?
@@clairenj8751 have had that happen too often. One term for it is “hoovering” - they know your buttons to push, it energizes them to get your attention again. It’s a game. Not everyone will play the game with them. They prey on big hearted people, because we hand out second (and third, fourth...) chances like candy. They only feel powerful putting other people down. If you let them back in your life, they will find innumerable ways to diminish and devalue you. Stay strong. Fight for your peace of mind. Invest in you.
@@steviecrow914 Yes. But they just show up !! Plow in my family occasions. All the time. It is so GROSS.
@@clairenj8751 I’m so sorry! I was lucky to be able to cut all communication. Grey Rock is a great option. I’m naturally passionate, so Grey Rock is not easy for me. But if you can be as boring as possible when they are around, they’ll eventually turn to other people who offer more excitement and drama. Sending you warm thoughts for resilience!
just listen to your intuition,it will never fail you..first time you sense that something is bad,that something isn't right,believe it 'cause it is truth.
Real talk man.
I’ve been betrayed by being excluded and “unfriended”. And that’s all well and good. You don’t lose real friends. They just never were a real friend:
Situations weed out the fake friends anyway
So true
Facts I got unfriended and shaded on Facebook and this girl tried to come back like nothing happened
The most common forms of betrayal are harmful disclosures of confidential information, disloyalty, infidelity, dishonesty. They can be traumatic and cause considerable distress. The effects of betrayal include shock, loss and grief, morbid pre-occupation, damaged self-esteem, self-doubting, anger.
...and pure rage.
@@drunkensquirrel7545 suffering😭
After 3 years and im still trying to fix the traumatic effect i had when the person i trusted the most betrayed and humiliated me infront of the public and its on my important day.. It really scarred and broke me.. And the most painful of all was that i've been giving chances for unforgiveable things for years.. Im scared to be open again.. It scared me to the bone..
Agree
You left out murderess rage
The shock is not being betrayed, but who is holding the knife to your back when you turn around.
Indeed. That's why you should always watch your back.
When family members betrayed me and I've known them all my life, anyone can. I'm on alert mode at all times. Sad but true. God bless you always.
Here😢sam”3
Watch out for the people that are too nice.
My Bestfriend for 4 years, i Used to Call her My Elder Sister, she was Abusive and Toxic and Betrayed me Bullied me. Left me 💔 ,Now a Year Later I'm Strong and nothing Could Hurt me no more
Right on Brother! I was with a gf for almost 6 years..and she turned her back on me for another guy. He would wind leaving her to go back to his wife! Now, how dumb can someone get? Well, she was...only to try to get back with me several times. Nope was my answer. Once the trust is broke, it's gone, forever. Like squeezing the toothpaste out of a tube...Stay strong my friend!!!
@@davidcasillas285: For sure!!!!!!! When trust, loyalty, is broken, that's it for me.
I hate to say this but don't be nice
I'm so sorry 😔😔
I was betrayed by the love of my life. 49 years of devotion and support was obviously not enough. She destroyed my heart and I don't believe that I will ever trust anyone completely again. In order to move on with the tattered remains of my heart I had to have the strength and courage to forgive. Otherwise I would have either died or become bitter. I couldn't allow her to destroy me completely. After 2 years of abject sorrow and tears and the support of two dear friends I've managed to move on. I now know the joy of coming out of the darkness and bathing in the light of a new and liberating life.
God will never leave you or forsake you or betray you
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Thanks..i needed to read that, im going through a break-up and trying to get over and move on. I truly believe in my heart that GOD has a better plan for me and my future.
Thanks again for sharing your situation... 🙏
@@woodstock4062 yes, Psalm 118:8 .. do not trust men, put your trust in the Lord.
@@woodstock4062 Especially if he doesn't exist.
I get this all the time from family and coworkers. They get aggressive because they lie. Im over these toxic people and I have cut ties.
They're aggressive because you've exposed them and they are try to cover it up
Right, when you start to notice what they are up to, they get mad at you, maybe twist the facts to make you the bad guy. Then all of your mutual friends hear about your bad behavior,,, loudly
@@jnywd8450 true.
9 signs someone does not deserve space in your life 💁🏻♀️
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Yes
I agree.
TRUTH!
Bingo
Narcissists not only do all these things, they do so viciously and without remorse. That is a rotten way to live but they don’t see it that way.
I hope they rot in hell
@@MJ-qb5ph , they will. But, I wouldn't wish it on them- eternity is a lonnng time.
@@luthermcgee3767 You survived that is the main thing
@@MJ-qb5ph , AGREED.
@@luthermcgee3767 indeed
Betrayal is one of the worst feelings you will ever have. I t breaks your heart to have someone you love and trust do such a hurtful thing. Been there and still am not over the ........ you know what . Thank you.
Your welcome
Being betrayed by a friend or family member hurts....Being betrayed by someone you fell in love with-someone who told you they loved you day in and day out-someome whom you trusted & would have done anything in this world for,will leave you devastated and take the strongest of man and bring him to his knees leaving him feeling empty-broken & souless 😔
Me down to the T!!! It's been over 2 years since me and my son's mother broke up. I had begged her to stay to think about our kids (she helped me rise my 3 older kids since their mom had walked out of our life) and how they would feel knowing she's hurting them like their mom did. Even after she had looked me dead into my eyes and told me she had sex with someone I still wanted to work things out. Like a idiot I'm still waiting for her to come back and be a family again. I don't give another female the time of day or even look at one.
I've been there... Twice! But I'm stronger because of it, and I have found someone who isn't like this, and I'm a truly blessed man now!
Trust is the cornerstone of betrayal. Trust no one.
Interesting!
@K. Gábor Nope, I didn't say anything like that. I interact with people all day long, I just handle them differently. I live in fear of absolutely nothing, because I do understand peoples motivations.
I'm forced to agree with you. All of the people I did trust except 1, did this horrid thing called betrayal. How many? About, 68. Sixty-eight people who know nothing about friendship. Only pseudofriendship.
Yup, even the bible says to ", Trust no man"...
Trust actions not words
when ppl are overly nice to you, they try to fatten you up for the kill later on…Im not talking about normal niceness. ppl can also be genuinely nice. dont become paranoid
I haven't met one person yet who hasn't betrayed me in one way or another...
Do you've children?
I'm bad at phrasing this, but a psychotherapeutist once told me that we are subconsciously attracted to the same quality of people and unless we consciously try to look for these red flags and avoid them, we are going to end up with the same kind of people over and over again in a vicious cycle.
@@andrasziegenham6766 i agree with this
Right... I’m starting to wonder if I’ll ever meet someone who won’t...
I was just talking about that today with one of my workers. It's awful but true
It's hard when the truth slaps you in the face, after overlooking, making excuses and hoping things will get better. When it's obvious it's all about them, and what makes them happy, it's time to move on!
The biggest sign that someone's about to cause you real pain is when someone who's always been hostile and nasty is suddenly super saccharin overly friendly.
I have been betrayed by the man I was dating, the pain and embarrassment never faded for such long time..i was devastated
And then there's emotional betrayal. Someone I thought I knew absolutely suddenly became a person I did not recognize. I thought, at the time, that this was an abrupt change. Eventually I realized that every horrible thing he did had a corrupting effect, making it easier to do something even more horrible, and so on and so on. It was not abrupt, it was cumulative.
Trust no one except yourself and the very few people that actually have your best interest in mind.(REAL friend, family,you)Protect your energy at all costs no matter the expense.
You’ll be betrayed much less if you learn to listen to your own inner voice.
Then heed your own advice 🙏🏻
They have their Karma Coming!
@m e h God sees all. And when people are wicked and harm others for their own game, Our heavenly Creator steps in and their end is Wrath. In this life and the next. Karma" what you sow is what you reap.
Yes AMEN
Karma is coming for sure!
🥠 KARMA is Coming.
Stay out of my headspace (mind)!!!!!! I said the same thing just yesterday. Someone that I loved hurt me deeply. But, God sits high & he sees low (& He counts our tears). Between God & Karma, they will definitely reap what they sow!!!!!! My mother (a very wise lady), told me, every dog has his day. If you're a good dog, you'll have many, if a bad one, you won'have any.
Love it. Moving on is key.
All advice to be passive + accepting is ITSELF a betrayal! + evil. Serving ruling interests in a docile population, not serving fairness.
I should've watched this 10 years ago, would've avoided alot of heart ache.
Dude! 6 years ago for me!
DJ: I often say the same thing to myself after watching this type of video... then, a person i know very well pops in my head and my gut yells at me that the person is not honest with me. BUT, my head just goes ahead and makes another excuse for the betrayer. We naturally want to see the good in people we care about, sometimes it sux. Good luck in your future.
Makes you stronger, it's unavoidable unless you're the evil person so learning form it is all you can do.
Same
If someone claims to be your friend or wants to be your friend. That person is about to betray you. If someone is breathing, conscious, and cognative. That person is about to betray you. Stay away from others and avoid a lot of pain in your life. Loneliness has no bite nor pain at all compared to what betrayal has. I cut ties with everybody 8 August 2000 at 18:34 and now it is impossible for me to ever get hurt again. Avoid betrayal. Go at life alone.
That sounds lonely. Or learn to accept that fact and live with it. Trust in God.
I hope you have a pet
@@lisamarie6214 I have an 8 year old Italian Greyhound, a 10 year old Bombay cat, a 16 year old Russian Blue cat as my pets. I also share my life with two orphaned wolves that live with me. They are my companions but not pets. They can not be treated as pets. But they do reside with me and I care for them. I am constantly occupied
@E Smidt I have been that way sin d 8 August 2000 at 18:34. Sure, there is loneliness. But the emotions others stimulated in on me were cripplingly horrific, and these were people that were supposed to be my friends and my girlfriend. It was so painful that I promised myself I will never allow even the tiniest of possibilities of ever allowing those events ever happening to me again, This is even if I never again have a friend nor a girlfriend. I moved to a very rural location, got a job working completely alone on third shift, and live completely alone. I can see people on the tele and I can semi-anonymously rant on TH-cam. That is enough for me. I am 100% impossible to ever be emotionally devastated again. I am also incredibly self-reliant with nobody in my life. I can do things most people hire others to do for them. I can also do thing completely alone that eveyone else believes they need assistance from others. Social isolation is not bad. It is simply different. I am far better off now than I was when I was forcing myself to be social because I believed that was what I was supposed to be. The social predators could see I was forcing being social and took advantage of it. That will never happen again.
@E Smidt Whatever you decide, never give a second chance for someone to hurt you again. There are 7,677,880,000 people on Earth. There is absolutely no reason to give someone that hurt you another chance to hurt you again. I am weak and can not take the horrific pain of being used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned again. Thus, I have no friends nor a girlfriend, nor will I ever have again. Loneliness is far milder than the horror a fake girlfriend or false friends can inflict. Thus I chose loneliness. But you may be far stronger than me and may want to find someone else again. Just never give someone that abused you a second chance. I do not even have virtual friends by pen pal, internet, two way radio, nor whatever other people use for virtual friends. This semi-anonymous TH-cam rant is enough for me. There is no real emotional connection.
Also, watch out for people who talk in high pitched voices, when their regular voice is octaves lower. They’re fake.
This is very true
Could this be echoing how mothers talk to their children? In high pitched voices to ease the interaction/ get the attention of the toddler. Perhaps this is a method to put people at ease to get control because it harkens back to childhood
@@sophiakh9590 Getting the attention of a toddler or even a fur baby is understandable. There’s no need for an adult to pretend to be nice, at least to me. I’d rather know Mr. Hyde than Dr. Jeckyll any day. At least I’ll know you’re evil as hell from day one. Just be consistent. 🤷🏽♀️
@@MissBeeMarie I hear you ❤️ The reality is people won't be that transparent / honest because we live in a society where people are constantly hiding who they are, even from themselves. We have to embody this wisdom and know when people are trying to manipulate/ betray us. ''Listen to the whispers'
@@sophiakh9590 As a counselor, I agree. So sad that so many people are wearing masks 🎭...and I’m not talking about the 😷. I really appreciate your comment.
I'm a kind giving person I don't go around betraying people.
Me as well, but we are the perfect marks for sociopaths and narcissists. Kindness and trusting are traits they look for, telling you how drawn to you they are. We take that as a sweet compliment, when in reality, well, we are the antelope and they, the lion.
Your a good person!
👩Yessss!!!!!!! But each time, God allowed me to see His vengeance upon them & it was severe!!!! Trust me, I let God fight🥊my battles!!!!!!
Ill only betray if they deserve it, like they bully my siblings behind my back.
Same
1) When your "friend" needs you, she's all over you, but the moment you need something -- a shoulder, a meal, a confidant -- she's never there. 2) Your gut. 3) Most comments your "friend" makes about you are underhanded jabs, leaving you feeling worse about yourself than ever.
I was lucky to slip out of the friends zone. it was toxic. I will never try my luck twice on this so called friends zone. however no doubt I was bombed many times for betrayal. I pretty much self asserted myself never to take on friends. and finally but maybe a true friend. when we were young are minds were cleaned. the world polluted are views then had less and less friends.
You do know that is not a friend but a bonafide enemy
@@lashondarochell7584 that is evolution to many points of life.
I see it for what it is!!!
It speaks volumes about them..
That would be my seminary-trained, DNA related, blood-kin sister. Just to get stuff from me. Tries to buy my friendship, sisterhood with gifts. Will do the wrong thing and think she makes it up to me by buying me gifts, never admits to the wrong or owns it or changes. I told her my sisterhood, my friendship is NOT for sale, barter, trade or auction. She feels entitled to stuff and just takes it from my house. Feels justified in doing it. Gets me in trouble with my mom if she can't get her way. Conveniently leaves out important facts/truth when she "tells" what happened, so it makes her look like a pitiful, helpless, crying victim. A victim with a Ph.D.
People get jealous...beware of losers
Betrayal doesn't always comes from the outside, sometimes you betray yourself 🤔.
Don't cast your Pearl's before swine.
Curtistine Miller .. AMEN xx
@@christinelawrence4315 ✌
Awe hello yuh bible time @.@
Yes & Amen!
@@scarletroseechos5690 ✌
Every one of these is absolutely accurate. I experienced every one when I was betrayed by the person closest to me 😢
People who love you when you have nothing are the truest.justsayn
That's a Preached word right here. Ain't nothing but the truth..
Some are not loved no matter how little nor how much they have. They are afraid to let others become close to them and put up impenetrable defenses which few can penetrate and even fewer even want to bother to penetrate.
Agreed! I am so sick of hearing that just because she had an affair doesn’t mean she doesn’t love me anymore or respect me anymore.. The whole lapse in judgment defense is BS. It is a carefully planned out choice.
I agree
@@scottholtslander8336 If anyone truly loved and respect you then why would they have an affair and cheat on you? You sound like you are in denial.
I had a friend in college who lied to me every time we met. She pretended to be really nice. Then the lying began. And some bs about 'wanting someone that would always need (me).', it was too much pressure to put on someone. I was very hurt by this person and begun to distrust everyone about me.
Whatever wrong I think someone has done to me, I have one consolation. I am not responsible for their behavior.
Never expect too much from anyone in that way nothing can hurt or betray u. Just be a free bird .
U don’t own anything here not even ur own body in the end. So keep things silly n funny through out life.
JUST CHILL. Life is beautiful n there r plenty of things to go after n plenty of options always.
THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! 💜😁😁🙏🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯💪 GOD BLESS!!!
Good points. However, pulling away can also be a sign that a healthy person is pulling away from a narcissist.
I've been betrayed loads of times I can notice it straight away. The too nice one people is the classic like a vampire to get information out of you.
Wow absolutely amazing! it was heartbreaking to watch because literally everything described resonated with me completely. Just ran into your channel and I’m glad I did, you make it very easy to understand certain situations, so thank you 😊
I blocked a back stabber in 2014 and never unblocked them since
My mother, all of my life. She is a malignant narcissist.
So is mine. You are not alone.
@@shelly7225 Thanks; it's something we never get over.
That is correct, but we learn to live pass that kind of pain. Unfortunately, we were born into that , but we don’t have to let that ruin our lives. Love yourself enough to not let that hinder you, and allow you to think you are unworthy of love. Make a conscious effort to not carry that ugliness into any other relationship. If you know better , you will do better. My wish for you is Peace and Understanding.
Same here, covert narcissist mom. I’m still grieving, not because she’s dead but i felt betrayed by her :(
Same here
Being too nice is not always a betrayal...
People always tell me to stop being too nice because people will take a advantage of you....
Either stop being nice as they say, or else adopt the mindset that you expect absolutely nothing back from the people you are nice to, that you do it because it's a part of who you are and if the other person rejects or betrays you, that was always a possibility that you accepted from the beginning.
That works both ways. Assume the other means well. But learn to listen. Meaning words have two meanings and are a key to who your friends are. As some will say it to you talking about some one else but really are telling you what they think about you.Beware of double talk even between other people. Double talk is a art to those who talk in a roundabout way. I HATE DOUBLE TALK. I would rather some one be blunt and say what's on the mind. Than be two faced and run that game of words around me. I distrust everyone that does that immediately ! You can be sure they have a reason they don't tell you to your face as a true friend would. As I can say I care about people but they know who they are by there actions and how they talk to me with out the mind games. Sorry if I hit home with some but I'm going to start to put you in your place as I can talk to you if you have a preference to that madder. I mean matter. 🤨
Friends and family are the best at betrayal. We all love our friends and family!
Guarding the phone is a HUGE sign! DROP them the FIRST TIME you see or experience it. It will save you a lot of drama and more heartbreak in the long run.
Major key!!!!
This channel is awesome and I have learned so much about myself since I started watching your videos. This one is very important because some of my friends have betrayed me and it does take a long time if ever to get over it.
Been betrayed so many times that I never believe, that what they say is true. Now I actually know what to watch out 4. Until they actually do it...!! Why try and reason w/ that person when you already know that he/she doesn't care to do that...?? I tried talking to him once. And the cycle just repeated, he did it again. You're basically wasting your breath & wasting your time.
DEFFENETLY PULLING AWAY. CHANGE IN BEHAVIOR.
I have been dealing with Narcissists for 12years now and they have been stalking Me the hole time I am still dealing with Narcissists they don't know when to quit and they are using unlawful communication and servants 24hrs a day Violating my Rights to Privacy these Narcissistic people are Dangerous. GOD-BLESS.
Daily meditation and practice the armor of God regularly ☯️
How you expect you re enemies to attack expect you re loved one too , feelings change all the time
For me, I cannot forgive a betrayer when they are not sorry for what they have done!
Me too.
I would say without repentance there can't be real forgiveness. Forgiveness and "letting go" are two different things. Letting go is for your own well being as well.
@@robinmolina-figueroa4922 - Thanks, Robin! Have a wonderful day!
@@troycarpenter3675 - Yes, you are so right, Troy! Thanks for your comment and I wish you a wonderful day!
When they're not sorry is because they didn't care and has a feeling of entitlement. A narcissist at their best. Run.
Thanks for the video. Words 'of comfort.' as that's the best approach. Regarding a trusted partner, it can be painful when they betray you. When they leave you for another, but, in the end, Lady Karma travels full circle. More often than, the same will happen to them, give it time. It happened to me. Again, I was blind as to see any of these signs, but a few. People can be cunning and very deceitful. Long story, short, when they betray you, move on asap. Don't feed into them anymore positive energy. Work on you, learn to love yourself. I studied a lot after getting burned, so it was the 'positive' I took away from my experience. I am a much happier person now..no guilt, no 'checking in' on anyone, and or needing to trust. Be kind to one another, and let the 'good vibes' of the Universe treat you well!
Anyone going overboard declaring how they would/could never betray you, how they aren’t like that, are the one to keep your eye on the most.
This! I wish I knew this a month ago 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah I know someone who says this statement often
It depends, as in all things in life
Not necessarily true. Some of us mean what we say.
Edit to say.. If you are a lying murderer.. I will turn you in. I am for truth and justice.
All throughout my marriage, divorce,my "friends", family,did it to me since the divorce,they all feed info back to the ex-husband,these signs are all relevant,I keep to myself now and I'm happier
Someone I know has all these traits.
Truly Sad
LAW 10) Infection --- avoid the unhappy and unlucky
I’ve ended toxic relationships with people that bully me, put me down or treat me poorly without any reason. Life is hard enough and I have my own trauma from things. I don’t intentionally try to be ugly but when relationships are toxic or one sided…it’s best to disengage or walk away.
I block people or deactivate my account to protect myself from bad people or toxic energy doesn't always mean betrayal..... So no.....Tx for the vid.
No. 3 is BS. I'm always nice and I have no alterior motive. Y'all just making folks paranoid when kindness is shown. Love is a gamble, roll the dice.
What does love is a gamble, roll the dice mean.
You're probably a narcissist and don't want to admit it
I agree and just because anyone is nice does not mean they have ulterior motives. But there are some that do.
When they flip back and forth (Jekyll/Hyde) they are more than likely a. Narcissistic Abuser
Excellent information.
There is body language, them spending time with someone you don’t like and they say it’s innocent like an ex of theirs. I know that sounds obvious but some people can do that and some people can’t. Some exes hang around so they can have a friends with benefits whenever you have a fight and take a break from each other. Your partner back burners them.
My husband is never like this, but I know that my mother and my brother were like this to me. That's why I left the nest because it was causing depression and also it was affecting me in so many different ways.
I know all about it 😪 being betrayed hurt bad as hell! It take so long to overcome
Betrayal can sometimes come from expectations also..think about it.. you have probably "betrayed" someone without even knowing it..
Its sad when you know for a fact when its your sister, but when it's all said an done God is going to see me threw
Same.
Great videos. Trust in man, you will always be disappointed. Trust in God, you will never be disappointed.
William Levenson .. Amen brother .. good solid Godly advice .. our GOD is GOOD!
@@christinelawrence4315 Our true citizenship is heaven. Don't get caught up in this earthly drama. The Globe Theatre v. Eternity.
@@williamlevenson5607 I am focused on the Lord indeed .. we are only stopping by here for a visit (thank heavens literally).. cannot wait to go Home
YES
@@garnetjohnson763 Use your spiritual powers of judgement and discernment to navigate this life and the fickle, fair-weather friends we all encounter. Almighty God is your refuge and fortress. In the end, this is all we have --and all we need.
Yep. I know that story too well. All this hospitality and being extremely nice and over friendly where you receive gifts and get treated to lunch or a drink, then that's most likely to good to be true. It turns out that it was all bate and nothing more than wolves in sheeps clothing.
Great timing! I just got betrayed THREE TIMES IN A ROW
I came to her because i was so lonely, but i fell in love after a month into the relationship. But in fact, i was nothing in her life, nothing, it hurts
My soul thanks you. I'm going to watch this video until it's memorized. Seeing betrayal down my road will be a skill I'll value greatly
Betrayal comes from someone you trust the most. That’s the heartbreaking point.
Move in SILENCE! Everyone's prayers ain't for you to make it. Remember not everyone is your Friend. GOD had 12. But a betrayer sat right at this table, ate and drank with him. And, at the end kissed him gave him over to be killed. It's doesn't get any real then that. Be watchful, Stay prayful, But keep moving!!! God Bless
Omg I’ve experienced all of these traits w my narcissistic ex
Excellent video. I knew those things but needed confirmation of my thoughts. I watch your videos all the time. So much to learn! I am, as well as countless others are very receptive to your tips on self awareness and comprehension of all that happens around us. Thank you brainy dose for your enlightenment ❤️ much appreciated
I have lived long enough to see karma takes it's course on certain people.
God I hope so
I'm seeing this because i just got betrayed and it was my first time i trusted some one and be friends on Internet 😫
“Have to trust someone to be betrayed, I never did”
It’s so exhausting dealing with people trying to understand all their baggage and family history with undiagnosed and untreated mental illness, chemical dependency, lack of maturity as well in my case racism, bias and jealousy. What I find challenging now is trusting anyone. I expect the worst all the time from everyone this feels like a daze after a while however there are genuine moments of positive connections with others I appreciate these so much now.
Wake up people!
I know myself, therefore, I know others.
If I'm trying to use sympathy or pity, I'm trying to work you. If someone is trying to get me to have sympathy,or pitty for them they are trying to work me! I ain't your hustle!
This is the modern tips about betrayal, love it
Sadly my wife showed all of these sings I was in denial because I loved her so much
Sorry to hear that, Daniel. I'd like to ask if your wife was Hispanic, White, or something else but I don't want to offend or cause any hurt. I'm asking for my own reasons.
Same with my husband
@@Da_Freak betrayal comes in different races😩
@@TheSpiritRoom23 sure it does. Data also comes in trends at times.
Same
Spot on 💯
I'd rather walk this life completely alone. This is why I just walked away from everyone forever. Karma's coming.
Ohhh. I'm all too familiar with these signs. The moment I realized I was being betrayed, I sware it broke my heart. But I got up and took control of my life, kids and pets and all, and left. Wasnt long before he wanted to come back. Then it happened again. I won't put up with betrayal anymore. Not after what I went through
Understand exactly. Stick to your understanding now, don't be fooled again.
All of the above happened to me, by the ones I trusted the most
Terrible, I know.
Very interesting timing🌚🌝
Seems to be something in the air
Keep ur energy and vibes clear and u wont b a magnet of betrayal plus when something occurs just accept and release forgiveness of bad or pity. Life is larger than this world ,twice in a day, be kind to ur mind
Love ,peace ,laughter
@@mrs.ammons123 yea i had bad relationship with daughter who only new me as dad her own dad not around her mother slept with my best friend of 27yrs and he was my work mate too so yip she really knows how to hurt me now yearly for 4 so time to leave them to it sad but true
Oh, yesss.... 🤔
♏️♑️
Yes I have been . My mother
my 1st wife-deceased.
My second wife. It was because I was too nice. People take advantage of people who are TOO nice. I don’t feel like being nice anymore. I have to force myself to be nice now. There are loyal people out there but you never know who is and who is not. Until you KNOW them.
Interesting video & never ignore the red flags when you are around toxic people.
Oh yes I’ve been there and it was such a nightmare it made my whole world spin.
My heart is so broken right now!!! How the f**k do you escape that?!?!
Become your own best friend; you are the only person that you have to live with. Time will heal.
become the light you wish to see in the world. or fill your heart with retribution and vengeance and slay your foes. Both work.
Same. my heart is broken it hurts bad.. all i do is cry and blame myself. I got betrayed and used..😭😭😭
Take away their power over you by cutting them completely unanounced out of your life. Not one word wasted on them ever again. Use your energy for better things.
Whats worse is when one betrays themselves...
Very well said there John E Walker
Reminds me of a character from a book who, well I am not gonna share their death cause its disturbing.
Truth.
Yes
Betrayal comes from work friends best friend and relationships several people get caught up in other people's lives or your closest friends wants your relationship this word takes many routes in everyone's lives.
IT took me two decades to learn this