When she's saying "men", she's talking about a very small sample size of men; the top percentile of men that hold all the cards and have neither incentive nor imperative to commit to a single woman.
5'9 is my height I know it isn't short but average (I have a model tier jawline and side profile, genuinely my side profile is better than most Hollywood actors. and I have a P size of 7.8 inches last time I measured. I could be at 8 inches now, since I just turned 18 and haven't measured in 5 months. (Black genes I guess) Is it still over for me with an average height?
@@jayandjlps no it’s not over lol. You’ve been listening to too much black pill. If you’re at least average in looks then you can use game to get girls.
@@Jaccobtw More like you just keep approaching women until you get a yes has nothing to do with game lol you just find someone you happen to meet the looks threshold for
ah yes, let me get surgery to fix my ugliness, let me go to the gym for years to get ripped, become a millionaire, learn game, social skills, secure status, have my own home etc. just to attract women, and then after all that I'm just supposed to take 1 entitled single mom with 25 bodies, who can't even cook and whose entire personality boils down to "I like to laugh" and "I like food", while I risk getting all my hard work destroyed in divorce court after she leaves me for a guy who's 2 inches taller than me. Yea gee, I wonder why men don't date anymore, sounds like a great deal
Women have no idea how much of an investment an average man has to make in order to attract even a single woman. And they don't care either. They have so many options for just being born a female that they can't even conceptualize a man's reality.
@@ultimateloser3411 You being tricked to raise that Chad kid like 200 years ago would be the real tragedy. Nazis at least tried to manage this brutality with a Lebensborn. I would support a Lebensborn program with the condition that Chad himself pays for all the expensives his kid will cause seeing how most ofnus here wont breed.
I wouldn't say it's good for men to watch these videos. It creates the man to have a depressing personality around woman, and for average looking man you need to have the most attractive personality possible for natural attraction to happen
It's actually much simpler. Chad that she wants has options and is tired of her shit as soon as he gets what he came for, but he keeps her around so he can show other women he has abundance.
The average dude knows how futile and delusional it is for a woman to expect the local casanova, let's call him Joe Bigdick to suddenly settle down with her and become a one-woman man. It just does not work that way. Consequently, knowing this it would seem quite irrational for men to expect Sally Sleeparound to suddenly become the reincarnation of virgin Mary just because she's decided she now wants the status, convenience and support of being a married woman. Again, it just does not work that way.
Good point - well made. Young men need to relate to this and watch out for 'Sally Sleeparound' - let her do IVF or get a surrogate if she wants kids...
This falls under the fifth point that makes modern dating horrendous: The fact that modern women want men to be traditional, but don't want to be traditional themselves. This gets pointed out by the redpill community often, as well. Women still expect the man to pay on the first (second, third, and so on) date. Being a man with a good number of female friends (some of them with benefits), I can tell you it's a WHOLE lot better than being in a committed relationship with them. The expectations and demands of modern women are just not worth the investment, especially if you consider WW's first point about being easily replaceable. Stay safe out there, guys. Most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
@Neon Exactly! Women Do NOT Treat Their Female Friends (Girlfriends) In This Fashion. Their Female Friends Get Reciprocation. That Is If They Want To KEEP That Woman As A Friend. For Their "Boyfriends" Women Reserve The Role of Romancer, And For Themselves The Role of Being A "Romantic" No Work, or Expenditure of Money Required. Then They Play The Victim, And Say Men Have "Commitment" Issues. Men Don't Want To Get Married, ETC. Where Is The EARNING of A Marriage Proposal Requirement on The Woman? Answer? Nowhere In Sight. "Women Are The Table"
My GF pays for a lot of stuff when we go out and it doesn't bother her. And the woman has to buy gifts too on special dates. Tbh, I don't think I would prefer to have a traditional woman that doesn't work and whom I have to support.
I cant imagine being a young guy or girl (below 30) in this day and age. The world, the social interactions and the young people today are so messed up it must be hard to find someone that's right for you, not to mention maintain a healthy relationship
There is also the fact that having a girlfriend can be extremely exhausting. And when I say extremely, I mean it. A few years ago I was in a relationship with a girl, which lasted two and a half years. I made the huge mistake of trying to save her. She had a broken family, a complicated past and a lot of trauma. I am a 7.5/10, and she is a 6/10. Before I dated her, I always had time for myself. Excellent musician, brilliant at university, very active social life, a lean muscular body. During the relationship she would often yell at me for details, the neighbours even thought I was hitting her. She was always asking me weird questions, giving me ultimatums for nothing. The worst was when she scratched her face and threatened to call the police on me, even though I had never touched her. She managed to create tension in my family, while on the other hand I gave everything to get her to contact her family again, which I managed to do in the end. The more time passed, the more she wanted me to prove my love for her. I wasn't allowed to go out anymore, just having a student job drove her crazy and she cried because she said I was leaving her alone. I ended the relationship when she started hitting and biting me in the middle of a party with her friends. She even convinced them that I was to blame. She even spread the word in all my social circles that I was a monster during our relationship and that I often hit her. I ended up gaining weight, distancing myself from my family, developing self-confidence issues. I lost friends and fell into very bad habits to forget what I was going through with her. (drinking and gambling) Oh yes. Fun fact. She found a guy a week after we broke up. :) Obviously, I'm at fault for giving up everything for her. But I'm writing this in case someone is going through or has gone through the same thing as me. ALWAYS put your interests first and make no concessions. Follow your animality, have fun, because despite their cute appearance, many women are freaks. (I don't hate women at all, I love their organisational skills, their sensitivity, their bodies obviously, etc.) This is not a message to put all women in the same box. I've met some very nice girls too) PS: Today I'm back on track, I'm getting my Greek god body back, I've resumed my projects, and I'm even moving to the US soon. Thanks for reading, take care of yourself kings! => I speak French, so MAYBE there are some faults in my message :)
@@cordfortina9073 Well, at the beginning of the relationship, she bombarded me with love. I loved her deep kindness when we were at the friend stage. It was only after the honeymoon period (that lasted 3-4 months) that she turned out to be dangerous and evil. I was convinced that if I took a girl a little less pretty than me, she would be nice to me. Well, no, it wasn't enough. Yet I am a good person, attentive, available, understanding, I do all the tasks, and she was the opposite. My example is certainly extreme, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced this. We don't see it all happening at the moment, and with love, we forgive a lot..
@@ryanveins3980 Typically, after 3-4 months of living together, women that are very manipulative will begin to pull the change of heart tactic/s**t test out of the blue. One minute she's happy, and the next minute she's downtrodden about the relationship- usually the silent treatment. This is typically used by her to start exerting control over the relationship and to probe asee how her future agenda may play out. Most men will be willing to sacrifice/compromise some aspect of themselves to steer the ship back to the former pleasant waters and this starts the process of more give and more take. Any woman that plays that 3-4 month "I'm not happy" card should be immediately and gracefully sent packing and men should NOT look back, or allow those women to try and wedge themselves back into your life.
The replaceability and the amount of low quality women are enough for us to stay out. My own gf told me in an indirect way that she would doumb me for a better looking guy. No joke. Also, how often do you see women getting bored of their boyfriends and dumbing them in search for new experiences. I see it all the time. As a man in the modern society if you get into a relationship you are expected to entertain her and pray she does not cheat on you or dumb you for another guy. You are expected to deal with a lot of double standards. Also asking your gf not to go out with other men is viewed as oppression and you are sexist. Basically asking for loyalty is viewed as oppression to modern women. And if you do everything right zthen there is s SMALL chance that she will stay with you and not dumb you after she gets bored. You are basically viewed as a decoration object that women can replace anytime they want with no remorse. All that just to get some intimacy. Chad gets this intimacy without dealing with this nonsense.
That's the cycle now-a-days. >Guy gets girlfriend and feels lucky >Guy receives narcissistic abuse from said girlfriend due to him being easily replaceable >Girl gets bored of guy and monkey branches with no feelings whatsoever >Guy is left devastated wondering what just happened >Guy then becomes a womanizer and doesn't commit to anymore women >"where are all the good men?" "Why are guys all players?"
SMe bro 😢 my ex went to a party town and I got mad at her for going . She then preceded to make a false allegation to break up with me and had sex with another guy the same day and blocked me on everything. It hurts till this day
I guess this question falls together with the question why men don't want to marry anymore and why divorce rates are skyhigh. As good as expected. Never disappointed from your insights and always learning more how to apply the black pill in real life.
My gf told me the other day she was not happy because I wasn't paying for the things she was buying for her work. I told her I knew that but I would only pay for OUR stuff and not stuff that has nothing to do with our relationship. She admitted she was wrong but insisted that she forner bfs paid for ALL her and her friends' stuff. I thought to myself, what kind of simp was that? I have no respect for who ever those men are, and on top of that, you are not in your twenties anymore so you had better start getting used living without your privilege.
Wtf? She wants you to buy stuff for her WORK? Tell her that when you go to work there's this thing called a paycheck and that you can use it to buy things for your work.
As a divorced mid 20's man with no kids (thank God) It's because love for us men it's more serious than a woman's love, Women don't need love, us men need it, even though we don't wanna admit it, The reason I tolerate my ex for a long time was because I really loved her, and even though she changed for the worse, i still fought for us until i had enough, Like weather, people change, rarely for the best, So i took the initiative and left while she was visiting her family and left the divorce papers and a note, That was by far the best decision of my life, The next day after that happened she called non stop and i didn't answer and blocked her, Her friend which me and her were and are in good terms (she's married with kids) told me that she started dating one of her male friends who was apparently her SIMP in the exact same day when I left the house, Now She cries and regrets that she lost me, (I'm divorced for a year and a half now) according to her friend, Apparently women don't know themselves what they want, Maybe that's why men like me had enough of relationships. But that's just me. 👁👅👁🍺
"...She cries and regrets that she lost me," To women, a man's love is like air: they take it for granted and don't appreciate it until they no longer have it.
@@robertlucky781 yep, They take it for granted since they got a lot of options available. But in the end, It doesn't even matter, Us men need our freedom anyway in my opinion and a lot of excitement. So for me it was only difficult in the first months. Now, I'm enjoying my life. Well, as best as I can anyway, First covid, Now the global crisis with Russia and Ukraine, Ww3 is a possibility, That is why we have to enjoy our life friend.
@@cordfortina9073 You are right, but they shouldn't be blamed for playing with the full-of-aces set of cards that received at birth. Blaming them is Biiig Cope, man 😔
Point 1: I tried playing the divorce chicken game when she was getting too brazen with the "just a friend" guys in the DMs. Her response: go ahead. Point 2: Definitely not me. Got a single 3/10 in the three years since my divorce. Point 3: "Virtual media" isn't the same. It works with virgins maybe or to hold you over a bit. I've become a believer in P4P. Point 4: They're all unattractive (fat, tattoos, piercings, crazy hair) or $luts, often time both. They're nice people, but terrible potential partners. Point 5: "Pay attention to meeeeee" was the ex wife's favorite slogan. Always bitched I never bought her things, forgetting I covered the mortgage, paid for her health and car insurance, paid all the utilities, bought groceries and dinner outings the majority of the time.
P4P is the way to go. Ever watch "The Wolf of Wall Street"? Was he married? Yes. Who did he sleep with? P4P girls. The wife (or any permanent chick) is therefore redundant.
Just recently i went out with a girl. We found we have a ton in common, we went for a long walk, great conversation, we both had shit to do in the evening though, so we agreed we'd meet again in a few days and make it longer. She seemed excited, me too, obviously. We exchange contacts and part. I message her the day after and I've been ghosted since then (5 days ago). Sent another message in between but no replies. No fucking clue what I did wrong, best 1st encounter I've ever been on and she still bailed out. I can't even imagine how much abundance women have nowadays. I've become best bros for life with dudes for way less, but I can be almost a carbon copy of the woman and we have a great time and she'll still be like "meh, there's probably something better out there".
Women don't want similarity, they want better. They want to have a lot in common, but whatever you have in common with her you should be able to do better.
Brutal. You know, you could potentially just have had the wrong impression. Girls will smile and lie, saying they had such a great time, and then never message you again. It happened to me. Be careful
She had better options. Your clue should have been that she had "shit to do" that night. Also, always wait for the woman to text YOU after 1st date. ALWAYS.
I'm a modern, liberated, independent man. I make my own money, have my own house, and I cook and clean too. I don't need no woman. And when I want a break from cooking I can go to Subway where female workers make me a sandwich. Life is great.
The wait is finally over! I am so addicted to your videos. Not only are they never disappointing and always insightful, informative and straight up interesting, but they're also calming, in some way. I mean, your voice tone itself is calming, and so are the topics. You always tell the truth, so there's no point in getting heated. And most of all, it's always predictable, and that's the first reason why I feel so relaxed watching them. It's like tragedy: unlike comedy, you know from the start that there's no hope, that something bad, unavoidable and unalterable is going to happen. No suspense, no false promises, no delusional hope, just helplessness and hopelessness. Because life can also be like that and only by accepting its reality (unalterable unfairness) can we find peace of mind. In tragedy as well as in your videos, the tone is already set: we accept the hopelessness of the situation right from the start, without hoping for a miracle, and that's why we (or at least I) feel at peace. (By hopelessness I mostly mean the unavoidable importance of looks/ genetics and its repercussions in the dating scene, given the current circumstances and the behaviour of women.) In other words, keep up the good work. I enjoyed watching all your videos: this one is no exception and I am already looking forward to the next one.
Well done. I wasted countless hours hoping and pursuing women, and wondering what was wrong with me. Now that I've heard the black pill, I realize the vast majority of my effort never had a chance. Had I known then what I know now, I could have put out 10% the effort, been a lot more successful, and saved immeasurable heartache.
Finding decent single women in 2022? Playing the lottery would be a better use of your RNG, not to mention that because of their rarity, they can afford even higher standards than their damaged counterparts.
🙏 To all men out here.. Have your own: - Life - Hobby's - A nice job - Friends/familie - Passion - HAVE A OWN LIFE, FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS, HAVE STANDARDS AND CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK If you have your shi together you notice you DONT need a woman after all. A woman is a bonus.. and nothing more than that.. they are not that important and stop doing everything for them and you will see it attracts women instead of being thirsty and scare them away. If you are focus on multiple things in your life you forget to think about woman and when you dont give a women (that you date or text) too much attention.. THEY will be needy and thirsty and thats why its so important to focus on yourself. I see them as a sexual hobby rather that something sooooooo important that i will do everything for the women wich i date. I dont know how it is in your country but a lot of people are getting a divorce easy when they are married when they have a hard time or when the relationship gets boring. Love is not what it was anymore so you dont miss anything.. remember that. We need to stop giving women that power so they are not able to control the happines of men.
@@lima9313 true. Im not gonna lie.. i was also that type of guy but now i know "the code" how to be happy without a woman it feels like freedom. Its feels powerfull to be happy without the fact that somebody else is responsible for my happines. I have multiple friends with benefits dates and thats ok.. like i said i see woman only for sexual goals and im fine with that. I hope that men will follow my tips so everything is getting back to normal so we get rid of deluted women who think they can get every men on the planent. The 5 guys with the 5 girls, the normal guys with normal woman and the 7 with the 7 and the Chads with the model woman.
@Ozone I remember a woman In a hospital where I did not, I DID NOT HIT a girl, and then a young woman just had the balls to just insult me and call me lies. Then everyone laughed at me(Young men included) and one man told me to respect the woman that just talked trash at me. Then he stood up,punched me two times in the face and the doctor had to control him because he was very aggressive with me. I was in a hospital of young people and EVERYONE,I repeat,EVERYONE just talked $hit about me. That's the whole story. And then I was forced to sleep in a confined and prisoned sleep in the hospital. Yeah I know,it's chaos
I've never had trouble attracting women, but I no longer seek long-term relationships because women today want to make the relationship all about them. There's no give and take, no reciprocity. My last serious girlfriend, who I liked a lot at first, wanted to quit her job and move in with me so she could "focus on her spirituality". So, stay home in her jammies while I worked and paid all the bills. Yeah, sign me up for that. Not into being used as a walking ATM and then blamed for everything that goes wrong in a woman's life because of her poor choices. Do better, women. Whatever you're doing now just isn't working.
*Alimony, Child support, Shes not yours its just your turn, Shes for the streets, Women are not worth the investment, I don't want to pay premium price for a used product.......You're Welcome.*
@@ultimateloser3411 people in the US don't realize that they are indirectly beta buxx. Since 90% of the welfare wealth goes to single moms. God, I hate sexual liberation.
This video is incredibly true. Sadly I'm a normie and all the girls I wanted to obtain, I couldn't. My last relationship when I settled with a 4/10 (I'd consider myself a 5), the entitlement, attention requirements and emotional reassurance requirements were too much. The relationship felt like hell and a chore. So now i just casually date. I get all the benefits of relationships without the entitlement and heavy financial/emotional commitments. I feel alot of men are following the same route and not settling anymore. If we can't get the girl we want, we're happy to just casually date or just be alone.
It just occurred to me these dating coaches and some red pillers actually put women on a pedestal. They make it seem like the average guy is supposed to have the best personality and social skills just to attract the average woman. A few years ago I saw a guy who did drugs and play video games yet was still having an abundance of women every week. Screw all that self improvement just to get women. Do it for yourself.
More great content, Wheat. Thank you! One other reason that I would add, though it applies to approaches more so than relationships is the hostile legislative environment. Here in Australia, we have ridiculous “enthusiastic consent at each point” laws that make it a huge risk to even look at a woman, let alone approach or progress to intimacy. And as a boyfriend, especially a live in, you face the risk of arrest should you be silly enough to get her angry. Womyn have weaponised themselves and, frankly, I have no sympathy. They have, metaphorically, made their bed and now they can lie in it!
This is a very important point in the Western world I myself have been arrested based on a woman's anger and lies to police months later she started to regret it
@@user-qb7ms6vs7s I hope you didn’t sustain lasting damage, D. It’s a clear and present danger to men in the West. I am an old bas*rd and used to be a senior manager, who mentored younger team members, including womyn. Still happy to give young guys the benefit of my experience (if they’re interested), but young womyn can go to the Sisterhood for their mentoring.
@@covertcounsellor6797 for sure there is lasting damage. Law makes don't realise how they are destroying families and society to the shock of even the narcissist wife
As a high tier normie…..why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Not to mention most women in the U.K. have poor traits for relationships and my smv match would think they are above me
its about neither UK or US, the problem is acces to social media, and almost every country has it. Also by slavs that is a problem ;) (we drink so much vodka that it cant bother us, we dont really care that much
Getting the milk "for free" requires a shitload of work, and a reasonable amount of money as well. I mean unless you're a chick magnet, you're probably paying a lot more for dating and going to night clubs than if you just pay a professional. And there's no guarantee you'll even have sex on these nights out, so...
"Oh my gosh, why don't men ask me out. Are they intimidated?" Nope most unattractive guys have learned that we are better off on our own and the Chads are busy killing it on Tinder.
Men's commitment can mean the difference between a woman living a good life in a warm home with food on the table or having to sell her body on the street. Never give your commitment up for just any female in your life trust me it is your strongest asset as a man.
Best gifts for a LTR after year 3 is. Gift card to her favorite clothing store, a nice hallmark card and write something sweet, expressing how you feel towards her. Works like a charm. I almost never say anything sweet to her during the year, mostly jokes and being playful, so she definitely appreciates what’s said in the card.
I strongly agree with what you say at 05:41. Chads obviously don't want relationships at all, as principle, because they literally sleep with a different girl every night, so why would they. And those are the men that women mean when they say "guys don't want relationships". Below a chadlite level, I think, most men, deep down inside them, do want relationships, just then, because of things you mentioned, they stop doing so. I am especially freightened by the first one. I think no man is really safe nowadays. Should it be 10 months into relationship, or 10 years. You are so easily replacible, that you basically need to play a perfect game, or she throws you out of the window. This happened to me the last time I tried dating, after some 3 months of dating, came literally one small arguement between us. It was enough for her, though everything was going great thus far. But who cares, if she has 10 guys in my place? Similarly, I remember when my female friend told me how she was struggling in life, and how greatful she was for her boyfriend's family that they let her move in with her boyfriend to his parents' house. She was so much in love with him, posting photos together on instastory for like 2 years or so, they had a cat together and stuff. Well, after she broke up with him, it was less than a week that she started posting photos with another guy (and the same cat lol). I mean, of course I don't know exactly what happened, but no matter who's fault the break up was, the sheer awareness of the fact that you can be (and will be, if needed) replaced within a second is just terrifying.
@Xavier Behavier I understand you very well. Those endless thoughts "what if I haven't said that", "what if I haven't done that", etc. These are pointless. Even if you wouldn't have "failed" that day, you would certainly "fail" in the few next days, weeks, or months ANYWAY. If she cared, she cared, you'd eventually work it out if it wasn't a big deal (in my case it really wasn't). But then you realize that you were trying so hard to please someone to whom you were worth nothing. And for what?
As someone who has been married for over a decade, we are not obsessed with the gift giving stuff. Valentines is a candy only holiday for us. Some years we get each other Christmas presents, sometimes not. We don't do gifts on our anniversary, just dinner somewhere. My birthday is the only required gift day on that list, but so is his. We like to keep things low stress, so our goal is that family traditions should be fun. If its not fun, what's the point of a holiday?
you should 've use your voice to speak about the most relevant point of this video. The rise of low quality women. I'm currently datin 3 girls and will never pay for anything
Carole, that's exactly the attitude that a loving, caring spouse has. It's what you can do for each other, not just what your partner can do for you. So many single women have long lists of demands and never stop to think of what they have to give.
Hear hear! Such occasions have been commercialized to the point that they're just another way to part you from your money. In our family, gift giving is not compulsory, too.
Been a long time since I talked to a woman with the goal of scoring or winning her affection. I just don't care anymore. If they come, they're welcome, if they don't, doesn't matter I got other things to do.
She is messing with Chad And Tyrone And They will never Commit, They have to many options, The Black Pill always Win, I Been Black Pilled Since 1991 Before The Matrix Movie
Why do men refused to commit to a woman, When she’s only using you for financial and emotional security while looking for a better relationship opportunity? Wow, that’s… that’s a really difficult concept to comprehend. It’s like, men are human beings Concerned about their own physical and emotional autonomy or something🙄…..
Blackpill is the reason Jordan Peterson said there should be enforced monogamy. Although he got in trouble over this statement, he didn't mean "arranged marriages." He meant a societal expectation and pressure to be monogamous. Otherwise, top men monopolize the dating pool, and men outside the top tier are left alone to become militant.
@palerider2132 the Romans drank lead-flavored water, believed in superstitions and omens, molested children, and killed slaves for no reason. Who better to take sane and stable relationship advice from?
it kinda disappoints me so much that so many women got down on this level nowadays. i don’t get why you would give the power you hold away for free? being intimate is the most powerful energy exchange you could do as a woman so why doing it with just any man (no matter how good he looks)? kinda sucks what this world turned into
I can't agree more. This coming from a good looking dude. I remember when I was younger, wanting to start a family in my mid 20's with a sweet good looking girl. Now I'm in my 30s and honesty doing see it happening. Most chicks are thots, that have no pair bonding ability left. So intimacy is out the window for 90% of them, most chicks my age are looking for a unattractive beta male provider to take advantage of.
@@ultimateloser3411 They only have that to secure the bait. I have seen many laugh here in Northern Europe how easy Chinese women in particular seems to be.
In regards to 5:45 there's one thing I've noticed is that when women refer to men (in plural) they generally mean chads. "Men are not commiting anymore", "women like older men", "women care about guys with a personality", etc. Subconciously, they think of chads because the other 80-85% of guys are invisible to them.
This channel genuinely protects male benefits. It's not like other dating channels, which aims to take away the audience time, money and resources but doesn't protect the audience's benefits. This youtube channel until now is still gold, keep posting the awesome content WW, thanks a lot for the value which is provided here.
Interesting that "waiting til you are too old for men to sexually desire you (not just intellectually or spiritually) to start looking for a serious relationship" is not a point. With men the problem is the exact opposite, impatience, rushing, trying to engage before you polish your rough edges, before you got yourself together and your life together. "Women are born, men are made" means, among other things, that a woman (usually) is ready for a committed relationship soon as she turns 15 or 16, but a man may not be ready until he´s 25 or 30.
Check on the laws in your state for how long cohabitation has to last in order to become a 'common-law' marriage. When that happens, it is legally recognized by the state as a 'de-facto' marriage, with all the hazards for you (and all the advantages for her) wrt divorce.
Another problem with relationships, the gf won’t let you enjoy your hobbies such as gaming, anime/netflix, TH-cam, or anything that isn’t “productive” according to her. They’ll constantly try to control and change you in order to turn you into their “ideal bf” which they can show off to others, especially if you weren’t her first choice. Also, congrats on 70k subscribers WW, this channel is exploding in views just like it deserves 👍
yeap. Find a woman outside, Western countries. Western women are so screwed up in the head. They don't want a relationship. They want a dog...until they find a better dog. They want the world and they still expect you to beg for even the tiniest bits of attention. South America or South East Asia or Euro-Asia or Africa. Then on top of all that, if you get a divorce you need to pay her for being miserable. Yeah...no thanks.
This is such an intelligent channel. It communicates perspectives that other red/mgtow channels just don't offer. The concept of relationship power is so important. For these reason, I believe it is a mistake for most men to pursue women until they are about 28. At age 28, if a man has been on their path/purpose, they should be in a financial situation where they could support a family. They are more confident and bring more to the table. Conversely, I think a young woman is making a mistake to mess with any man younger than 28. An 18 year woman who messes with young guys is risking becoming a single mother which is a disaster for both the young woman and her child...
Wheat waffles is incredible. Of course, as with ANYONE, not ALL his points are home runs and I downright disagree with some of his points, but gahdamn If he doesn’t hit the nails perfectly with a hammer 98% of the time!! Wish he posted 3 times a day lmao
ALL your videos are on point..This one VERY INFORMATIVE for where I am now. Im on the fence, but watching carefully on my situation. You really hit home on the REALITY of it all. I SEE IT CLEARLY from my journey over how many years, and why I came into stumbling blocks for so long. GREAT CONTENT, and I speak from expereince.
I have seen men who get free sex and even free babies (!) from women. This way, those types of men get to continue their lineage without having to commit or put in resources. Amd when you see that, you will think yourself "Why society keeps telling me to chase and commit to a woman, when right here I can see women give free sex and even their womb for free?" Those examples you can give even to normies. And that's why I'd rather be sent my own way than conforming to society that gives me nothing.
Their children often end up dysfunctional, and many opt out of having their own offspring as their childhoods were too traumatizing. So, in that way, their genes do not pass on. Don't envy these scumbags.
for my past 2 long term relationships (3 & 4.3 years), I set a rule of no giftgiving- special shared experiences only. That was eventually appreciated. After 26 months alone, I think I'll be fine for rest of my life, though it sometimes sucks to have no family, and friends who are too busy to meet. I sure don't regret my vasectomy!
@@chadgaston8615 literally moneymax Can't say it didn't work. Look at Elon Musk, a tall and rich normie. 20 years ago, he could've easily competed with chads in terms of body counts (with a fixed hairline though).
Even with a girlfriend you're always in competition even if you think you've won the game. This is why they say she's not your girl it's just your turn. I'm just hoping that one day I find that woman to my desire where I'm her last turn.
You're never the last turn. That's why you have to stay on your game. I know women who cheat on some of the best husband's they'll ever have at the hospital I work at with doctors.
@@mikeprice8307 I also know women who lose their minds (and open their legs) when a good looking doctor needs to release genetic fluids, no matter how good their husbands are...
@@RR.LL.3B agree it’s soooo damn pathetic you guys have no idea how you’re just creating your own problems. If you are not 100% the best you can be then how can you expect to find a good woman? We both have to give our 100%, yes some may cheat but some have got the right attitude to make it work. My cousin met his wife on bumble married after a year. He’s a good guy and she’s a good woman. It does happen believe it or not.
This guy got most of the reasons. But I'll add a few. From My personal experiences and perception , I always drew the conclusion that it is more risky and troublesome to approach in real life. The reasons being labeled a creep, and harassment.
3 years single and counting. Extremely peaceful. I'm physically fit, tall, and healthy but even so the relationships were literal torture. I think a whole other aspect of this generation is parents (and government) spoiling their little girls.
Even if Chad commits to a woman, as soon as she has that commitment she will start to lose interest. Hypergamy makes it so women can never be content and the routine familiarity with one partner will subconsciously push her to look for other options.
Holy shit this makes it seem that it’s over for all non-chads in terms of finding a stable long term relationship with a woman ,if even chads can be replaced for others chads
@@domino3554 If a non-Chad wants to be a faithful beta and put up with his wife's bad behavior, he can have a long term relationship. Not all women will cheat, but if she has options, he will always have to be looking over his shoulder for warning signs. Not my idea of a good relationship.
When she says "men" she only means the top 20 percent. Maybe even the top 5 percent. The bottom 80 percent aren't seen as men. They aren't even seen as human. 6:10 ha, one of my first videos was about this!
At 35 having had a few longer term relationships it is quite alot of effort /time to expend when they don't work out. Not saying don't go for it but failure puts you at square minus one.
Women and chad don't hesitate. Commitment isn't even in their heads when in their 20s. They want to experience the best sex from the best looking people they can match with. Even if they settle, divorce or an open relationship will be their choice. They can't take that promiscous lifestyle away that easily and maybe never will.
Wheat Waffles I don’t agree with everything you say, but you have a high number of original and well articulated takes on modern dating. Well done dude 👏🏻
I’m not in a relationship but I’ve had a ex gf try and tell me to get rid of a female friend that I’ve been friends with since high school cause it made her extremely jealous.
Pretty much just escortmaxx, I only talk to women if it’s business, work, or college related if it’s not any of those areas it has to be sexual. If it’s not sexual I’m not hanging out or befriending women.
These women want men to tackle burglars that breach the house (protector role) but in the same time don't want to respect them. Them expect men to be traditional, and in the same time don't want the traditional role for themself.
That's mainly due to a social engineering which has caused a very drastic change in most women mind who wrongly assume they're 10 out of 10, eventhough many of those women do not fulfill the genetic nor the adecuate aesthetic requirements needed for them to start demand. But keep in mind that you will be replacable if you're not a least a 'chadlite' who could be able to make her feel in a certain. unlike the other participants who might not be that genetically blessed and will not be able to make this woman develop a emotional clinginess toward that man . If you're in a relationship and the woman who you're being with does not develop any sickly obcession over you. then it's more likely you're there for her entertarinment until she finds someone who truly wants to be with! SUB5 wants to be in a relationship but CHAD just want casual sex!
Would be interested to find out why there is a higher satisfaction with women of over 21 bodies as a opposed to women with 6to 10 bodies. Is it because they are desperate? Also, why does the satisfaction with men that had 6 to 10 bodies suddenly rise and then drop again? Is it because of experience or just because of other variables playing into the interpretation of the study?
Probably because after a certain point you don't care. I feel like age should also be a factor. A 22 year old spinster will likely be more happy with a body count of 25 than a 36 year old one with a body count of 6
They think they’ll lock Chad in if they give it up. Logic isn’t their thing. If it was they’d know Chad’s already had a hundred or more; can get another 100 in the next yr with little/no effort. But they still lay down, then get upset at all men when he ghosts them.
Yes, I've heard attractive women say that when a problem occurs in a relationship instead of trying to fix it they dump their boyfriend and try someone else.
10:40 Oh man.... i actually broke up with my last gf because of this, i mean i love you but i also got shit to do. I even saw myself declining in some areas especially in the beginning of the relationship so i knew this wasn't working, this was not the only reason of me ending it tho.
The woman in 0:00 is actually a good individual. She said "why do SOME of you men..." Most women would have said "WHY DO MEN" I really appreciate her not generalilzing men
I would add as a matter unbearable housing prices, especially after covid-19 crisis, unless you want to take a long-term mortgage and become dependent on your job/credit/payments. Girls' first questions are regarding owning your house, car, salary, but no one thinks about splitting the efforts and duties together. Those, who are capable of doing this, due to feminism liberalization, are usually seeking for richer Chads, more capable on providing than you, same class-level.
2:26 womn like this will lash out and blame the fragility of men that break up with them. Since they don't think rationally the conclusion they come to is insulting the man without taking in consideration this fact (that they chat to so many othwe guys
So true. This is why some men of above average attractiveness will go their own way and hot guys will limit their dating to no cohabitation. Too many risks, divorce, etc. It's not 1920 anymore. Peace.
4:20 Facts. My gfs always tell me about the amount of randos they constantly have to block every other day. Often we make fun of how they are usually mad unattractive. However, I can't help but wonder... What about all the lads that are MORE attractive than me that slide into their dms, would they show me those? Probably not. But this other one I currently have this situationship with (it's kinda complicated, we're kinda fwbs but we're both really into each other and the main reason we don't date is cause we're both kind of attractive and hate the baggage relationships come with nowadays, so a dating hiatus basically) had no issues telling me straight to my face that she does in fact flirt with other guys despite being into me, keep in mind that while we've made fun of all the ugly guys that try to hit on her online, not once has she shown me any of the chadlites let alone the chads that 100% hit on her. In reality, our relationship is quasi- or semi-romantic where we're both free to be with other people but just mostly get with each other for the afore mentioned reason. Anyway, the point here is, if i were in a crc romantic relationship with this girl, it's pretty obv that i'd be easily replaceable for more reasons than just the fact that she's mad hawt. This is a desperate situation we find ourselves in boys, buckle up, it's probably gonna get worse💀Also, i'm getting absolutely height mogged in uni omf💀
I get your points. I've just been baffled for a few years why this is happening. I saw a yt millionaire yesterday and he's lost all his money to lawyers. over relationship breakdown. It's so sad but I get the points now.Thanks
Take the escort way my friends, thats what I ended doing and you get the best possible deal if you are an average guy, you get the sex (the highest amount of money you spend in a good escort the better the service) without the stress and spending of dating. I will like to have a relationship with a good girl? Of course, but in those times thats a fantasy and when you need some intimacy the escort is the best deal out there
It's actually: "Why don't highly desired men don't commit?" Because they get options, and it's just your turn to date. And many women won't settle for anything less than the highly desired men.
First of all, I wanted to thank you for your informative video Wheat! Thumbs up as always! Here is what I have learned so far regarding girls, dating and relationships (please have in mind that I have only dated girls from Online Dating Apps (19 different ones) and NEVER approached a girl in real life, I will explain down below the reason for this). 1. Most girls have a very strange taste in men regarding their looks aka. "niche market taste" - They find physical traits attractive which basically no guy would find attractive or important. - They love guys with curly hair which in my humble opinion looks like a bird nest and should not be considered attractive - They are into those bisexual looking guys who have ZERO facial hair and ZERO muscles (slender man looking body frame). 2. Most girls are OBSESSED with one physical trait and completely ignore the more important one's + completely ignore other flaws. - I have seen so many couples where the guy is objectively at MAX a 4.5/10 with major flaws e.g. hair loss / receding hair line, way too big nose / deformed nose, no muscles / thin as fuc*, no facial hair AT ALL, weird face proportions, no jaw line etc. and they STILL have a 7/10 or even 8/10 girlfriend. And trust me, I can judge girls objectively. They really are 7/10 or even 8/10. If you examine those guys, you will see that they have ONE single attractive trait which in most cases is their height and that's it. Their girlfriends are so obsessed with height in general that they don't care how this fuc*er actually looks. 3. If you're older than 22 and have not found a girlfriend, it's basically over (I am not kidding) - As I said above, I have never approached a girl in real life. I have no problems talking to girls or having a conversation with them, but in my experience it's completely useless to ask a random attractive girl (6.5 and above) for her number, they are ALWAYS in a relationship. I have never met a single girl outside of Online Dating Apps who is a solid 7/10, is 22 or older AND is single. That's just not the case. Before you roast me in the comments below: that's just MY experience so far. I study at a Technical University and the few attractive girls I have met, had ALWAYS a boyfriend. I know this because I found them on Instagram or I saw them with their boyfriends (kissing etc.) It's basically over once you hit 22 because most girls in this age span are already taken. Sure, there are some weird looking one's (tall girls who are 6"0+ and struggle to find significantly taller guys) or the classic land whales who are still single (and will stay single even in their late 20's) but I would never date those. 4. Girls in small towns are almost always better than girls in larger cities - I have noticed that girls in larger towns (e.g. 1 Mio. inhabitants or more) have way more guys or "options" compared to girls who live in small towns with only 200k inhabitants. This has to do with Online Dating because larger towns have more users and girls in smaller towns settle down much faster (because they don't have so much options). Girls in small towns do also have a rather low body count as they can't hookup without anyone discovering that. 5. Avoid girls with a "best buddy" or girls who have many male friends - That's an obvious one. I seriously would never date a girl who has many male friends. This may sound very conservative but for me, you shouldn't hangout with the opposite sex ALONE if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's completely fine to hangout with guys in a GROUP if there are also other girls there, but I would never date a girl who likes to hangout with guys ALONE even though she is in a relationship. I wouldn't hangout with a girl alone, if I would have a girlfriend. In a group yes, but never completely alone. Those "I just watched a movied with my male buddy, he is just my buddy" girls are disgusting are not worth it. They WILL eventually leave you for them or cheat on you. 6. Guys almost always date "below" their league - That's the sad reality, especially for guys who do not met girls often and don't hangout with them on a regular basis. If you never had a girlfriend, you never date girls and you almost never meet girls through friends, you WILL start to consider 5/10 girls as 7/10 girls because you are that desperate. I was in a lecture last week and I am one of those guys who rarely meets girls (besides Online Dating). I seriously considered one 5/10 girl as 7/10 because I was so desperate. Don't do this, be objective and don't lower your standards.
@@salj.5459 Hey buddy! Thanks for your reply! No I just had "fun" with only one of those 19 girls, but I had the opportunity to take the majority of them home. The problem was that I didn't know how to flirt properly and I am really bad at interpretunt signals from girls. I would rate myself as a 7/10 :) I am not a model but just above average and I think that's enough to attract girls :)
@@salj.5459 what pictures did you upload? I have erased my accounts several time and recreated it maybe over 15 times with the same pictures and the same bio + same phone and same phone number. I don't know whether I am shadowbanned or not, but my pictures are actually garbage. Just 4 different one's (me on front of a mirror with different clothes on)
why would you shame tall women for soemthing they cannot change lol? I mean I recognized myself since im 6ft but it’s definitely not weird as height doesnt impact the beauty you have. Plenty of female models are taller than 6+ and attractive
For the same reason women keep men in their friendzone. Because there's some kind of benefit. A friendzoned guy gets used for validation, emotional support, help whenever she needs it, and maybe resources. The opposite is the friend with benefits. A man will keep a woman in his life he doesn't want a relationship with likely because she is a reliable supply of sex, and maybe some other benefit.
At 5:55 the printed "contraire", blimey, French now! Well, it's simply just obsolete in English now-a-days, but even-so clearly used meaning "on the contrary" or "opposite". Eloquent.
When she's saying "men", she's talking about a very small sample size of men; the top percentile of men that hold all the cards and have neither incentive nor imperative to commit to a single woman.
5'9 is my height I know it isn't short but average (I have a model tier jawline and side profile, genuinely my side profile is better than most Hollywood actors. and I have a P size of 7.8 inches last time I measured. I could be at 8 inches now, since I just turned 18 and haven't measured in 5 months. (Black genes I guess) Is it still over for me with an average height?
@@jayandjlps p size is not relevant, but looks and height is
@@jayandjlps no it’s not over lol. You’ve been listening to too much black pill. If you’re at least average in looks then you can use game to get girls.
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@@Jaccobtw More like you just keep approaching women until you get a yes has nothing to do with game lol you just find someone you happen to meet the looks threshold for
ah yes, let me get surgery to fix my ugliness, let me go to the gym for years to get ripped, become a millionaire, learn game, social skills, secure status, have my own home etc. just to attract women, and then after all that I'm just supposed to take 1 entitled single mom with 25 bodies, who can't even cook and whose entire personality boils down to "I like to laugh" and "I like food", while I risk getting all my hard work destroyed in divorce court after she leaves me for a guy who's 2 inches taller than me. Yea gee, I wonder why men don't date anymore, sounds like a great deal
Chad only needs to exist to get their panties wet.
Couldn’t have said it any better! 👍🏻
Gahdam smh
You forgot "I like to travel," and "I like men that are generous."
Women have no idea how much of an investment an average man has to make in order to attract even a single woman. And they don't care either. They have so many options for just being born a female that they can't even conceptualize a man's reality.
I'm retired, but you young guys are so fortunate to have this priceless information.
And unfortunate at the same time too sir with all these very high standards nowadays.
@@ultimateloser3411 just go to Brazil bro and date a favela baddie lol
@@ultimateloser3411 You being tricked to raise that Chad kid like 200 years ago would be the real tragedy. Nazis at least tried to manage this brutality with a Lebensborn. I would support a Lebensborn program with the condition that Chad himself pays for all the expensives his kid will cause seeing how most ofnus here wont breed.
The folk you just named would have been cure for most issues we face today 😆
I wouldn't say it's good for men to watch these videos. It creates the man to have a depressing personality around woman, and for average looking man you need to have the most attractive personality possible for natural attraction to happen
It's actually much simpler. Chad that she wants has options and is tired of her shit as soon as he gets what he came for, but he keeps her around so he can show other women he has abundance.
Or maybe after a month booty call her out for another easy lay
Stop using Chad term…..Stop being an incel….
Fuck it let Chad and Tyrone get all the STDs I'm good being single and having money lol no drama no bullshit no problem
The average dude knows how futile and delusional it is for a woman to expect the local casanova, let's call him Joe Bigdick to suddenly settle down with her and become a one-woman man. It just does not work that way. Consequently, knowing this it would seem quite irrational for men to expect Sally Sleeparound to suddenly become the reincarnation of virgin Mary just because she's decided she now wants the status, convenience and support of being a married woman. Again, it just does not work that way.
Love the names
I love this comment Mosisli loool
Underrated Comment and Nothing but the Gospel Truth …… 🙏🏿
Good point - well made. Young men need to relate to this and watch out for 'Sally Sleeparound' - let her do IVF or get a surrogate if she wants kids...
Men from the South want to be called "Sons of the Soil", but it's not going to happen.
This falls under the fifth point that makes modern dating horrendous:
The fact that modern women want men to be traditional, but don't want to be traditional themselves. This gets pointed out by the redpill community often, as well. Women still expect the man to pay on the first (second, third, and so on) date.
Being a man with a good number of female friends (some of them with benefits), I can tell you it's a WHOLE lot better than being in a committed relationship with them. The expectations and demands of modern women are just not worth the investment, especially if you consider WW's first point about being easily replaceable.
Stay safe out there, guys. Most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
It's all about getting a cake and eating it too
Never pay for a date unless it's your girlfriend. Always go Dutch and if she won't agree then keep it moving
@Neon Exactly! Women Do NOT Treat Their Female Friends (Girlfriends) In This Fashion. Their Female Friends Get Reciprocation. That Is If They Want To KEEP That Woman As A Friend. For Their "Boyfriends" Women Reserve The Role of Romancer, And For Themselves The Role of Being A "Romantic" No Work, or Expenditure of Money Required. Then They Play The Victim, And Say Men Have "Commitment" Issues. Men Don't Want To Get Married, ETC. Where Is The EARNING of A Marriage Proposal Requirement on The Woman? Answer? Nowhere In Sight. "Women Are The Table"
@@ultimateloser3411 The correct phrase is:
"you can’t eat your cake and have it too" - Ted Kaczynski
My GF pays for a lot of stuff when we go out and it doesn't bother her. And the woman has to buy gifts too on special dates. Tbh, I don't think I would prefer to have a traditional woman that doesn't work and whom I have to support.
I cant imagine being a young guy or girl (below 30) in this day and age. The world, the social interactions and the young people today are so messed up it must be hard to find someone that's right for you, not to mention maintain a healthy relationship
There is also the fact that having a girlfriend can be extremely exhausting. And when I say extremely, I mean it.
A few years ago I was in a relationship with a girl, which lasted two and a half years. I made the huge mistake of trying to save her. She had a broken family, a complicated past and a lot of trauma. I am a 7.5/10, and she is a 6/10.
Before I dated her, I always had time for myself. Excellent musician, brilliant at university, very active social life, a lean muscular body.
During the relationship she would often yell at me for details, the neighbours even thought I was hitting her. She was always asking me weird questions, giving me ultimatums for nothing. The worst was when she scratched her face and threatened to call the police on me, even though I had never touched her. She managed to create tension in my family, while on the other hand I gave everything to get her to contact her family again, which I managed to do in the end.
The more time passed, the more she wanted me to prove my love for her. I wasn't allowed to go out anymore, just having a student job drove her crazy and she cried because she said I was leaving her alone. I ended the relationship when she started hitting and biting me in the middle of a party with her friends. She even convinced them that I was to blame. She even spread the word in all my social circles that I was a monster during our relationship and that I often hit her.
I ended up gaining weight, distancing myself from my family, developing self-confidence issues. I lost friends and fell into very bad habits to forget what I was going through with her. (drinking and gambling)
Oh yes. Fun fact. She found a guy a week after we broke up. :)
Obviously, I'm at fault for giving up everything for her. But I'm writing this in case someone is going through or has gone through the same thing as me. ALWAYS put your interests first and make no concessions. Follow your animality, have fun, because despite their cute appearance, many women are freaks.
(I don't hate women at all, I love their organisational skills, their sensitivity, their bodies obviously, etc.) This is not a message to put all women in the same box. I've met some very nice girls too)
PS: Today I'm back on track, I'm getting my Greek god body back, I've resumed my projects, and I'm even moving to the US soon.
Thanks for reading, take care of yourself kings!
=> I speak French, so MAYBE there are some faults in my message :)
@@cordfortina9073 Well, at the beginning of the relationship, she bombarded me with love. I loved her deep kindness when we were at the friend stage. It was only after the honeymoon period (that lasted 3-4 months) that she turned out to be dangerous and evil.
I was convinced that if I took a girl a little less pretty than me, she would be nice to me. Well, no, it wasn't enough. Yet I am a good person, attentive, available, understanding, I do all the tasks, and she was the opposite.
My example is certainly extreme, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced this. We don't see it all happening at the moment, and with love, we forgive a lot..
@anaxagoras haha, you said it
@•• Thanks a lot mate! :)
This girl sounds like a " vulnerable narcissist". That is a extremely toxic personality.
@@ryanveins3980 Typically, after 3-4 months of living together, women that are very manipulative will begin to pull the change of heart tactic/s**t test out of the blue. One minute she's happy, and the next minute she's downtrodden about the relationship- usually the silent treatment. This is typically used by her to start exerting control over the relationship and to probe asee how her future agenda may play out. Most men will be willing to sacrifice/compromise some aspect of themselves to steer the ship back to the former pleasant waters and this starts the process of more give and more take. Any woman that plays that 3-4 month "I'm not happy" card should be immediately and gracefully sent packing and men should NOT look back, or allow those women to try and wedge themselves back into your life.
The replaceability and the amount of low quality women are enough for us to stay out. My own gf told me in an indirect way that she would doumb me for a better looking guy. No joke. Also, how often do you see women getting bored of their boyfriends and dumbing them in search for new experiences. I see it all the time. As a man in the modern society if you get into a relationship you are expected to entertain her and pray she does not cheat on you or dumb you for another guy. You are expected to deal with a lot of double standards. Also asking your gf not to go out with other men is viewed as oppression and you are sexist. Basically asking for loyalty is viewed as oppression to modern women. And if you do everything right zthen there is s SMALL chance that she will stay with you and not dumb you after she gets bored. You are basically viewed as a decoration object that women can replace anytime they want with no remorse. All that just to get some intimacy. Chad gets this intimacy without dealing with this nonsense.
Lol brutal but true
@Xavier Behavier the definition of betabuxxing
That's the cycle now-a-days.
>Guy gets girlfriend and feels lucky
>Guy receives narcissistic abuse from said girlfriend due to him being easily replaceable
>Girl gets bored of guy and monkey branches with no feelings whatsoever
>Guy is left devastated wondering what just happened
>Guy then becomes a womanizer and doesn't commit to anymore women
>"where are all the good men?" "Why are guys all players?"
It's "dump" with a P. In the word "dumb" the B is silent and it means stupid.
This is Why you should never get attached to one woman
I loved a girl we had a relationship she cheated broke up with me had a new bf a day later. Brutal. Still hurts to this day.
SMe bro 😢 my ex went to a party town and I got mad at her for going . She then preceded to make a false allegation to break up with me and had sex with another guy the same day and blocked me on everything. It hurts till this day
L blackpillers get a better one
Been there several times. I don't date anymore because I'm prioritizing my mental health now
At least you learned a good lesson 👍
So because of one girl, your life is ruined? ….Come on!
I guess this question falls together with the question why men don't want to marry anymore and why divorce rates are skyhigh. As good as expected. Never disappointed from your insights and always learning more how to apply the black pill in real life.
*Pill of color
@@activatekruger446 wtf imma use that 🤣
It’s women that file for divorce, it’s men that want to get and stay married. Men that say no to marriage hardly exist.
@@activatekruger446 Urban Pill
Indeed.
My gf told me the other day she was not happy because I wasn't paying for the things she was buying for her work. I told her I knew that but I would only pay for OUR stuff and not stuff that has nothing to do with our relationship. She admitted she was wrong but insisted that she forner bfs paid for ALL her and her friends' stuff. I thought to myself, what kind of simp was that? I have no respect for who ever those men are, and on top of that, you are not in your twenties anymore so you had better start getting used living without your privilege.
Wtf? She wants you to buy stuff for her WORK? Tell her that when you go to work there's this thing called a paycheck and that you can use it to buy things for your work.
Leave her before it gets worse
Wow! Now, that is some story! I think I would've break up after this...
He said on video she has to many previous boyfriends she's damaged goods
Let me guess, her money was her money and your money was hers and yours? LMAO.
As a divorced mid 20's man with no kids (thank God)
It's because love for us men it's more serious than a woman's love,
Women don't need love, us men need it, even though we don't wanna admit it,
The reason I tolerate my ex for a long time was because I really loved her, and even though she changed for the worse, i still fought for us until i had enough,
Like weather, people change, rarely for the best,
So i took the initiative and left while she was visiting her family and left the divorce papers and a note,
That was by far the best decision of my life,
The next day after that happened she called non stop and i didn't answer and blocked her,
Her friend which me and her were and are in good terms (she's married with kids) told me that she started dating one of her male friends who was apparently her SIMP in the exact same day when I left the house,
Now
She cries and regrets that she lost me, (I'm divorced for a year and a half now) according to her friend,
Apparently women don't know themselves what they want,
Maybe that's why men like me had enough of relationships.
But that's just me.
👁👅👁🍺
"...She cries and regrets that she lost me,"
To women, a man's love is like air: they take it for granted and don't appreciate it until they no longer have it.
@@robertlucky781 yep,
They take it for granted since they got a lot of options available.
But in the end,
It doesn't even matter,
Us men need our freedom anyway in my opinion and a lot of excitement.
So for me it was only difficult in the first months.
Now,
I'm enjoying my life.
Well, as best as I can anyway,
First covid,
Now the global crisis with Russia and Ukraine,
Ww3 is a possibility,
That is why we have to enjoy our life friend.
Women, why do you stay with a man that doesn't want a relationship with you?
Genetics
They enjoy being mistreated
__ they enjoy being mistreated by chad
Live off the drama!
Hope that they can be lured and the thought of having to settle to someone less desirable
Male thirst is like the plague to society. It's ruining everything.
I wish I was asexual now lmao. Better be attracted to rocks at this point
Pornsick Brains and brainwashing from movies Like American Pie!
I joke about the same thing. Even that it's easier to date being gay than it is straight in the dating world.
True. The plague would disappear if men stop simping.
@@cordfortina9073 You are right, but they shouldn't be blamed for playing with the full-of-aces set of cards that received at birth. Blaming them is Biiig Cope, man 😔
Point 1: I tried playing the divorce chicken game when she was getting too brazen with the "just a friend" guys in the DMs. Her response: go ahead.
Point 2: Definitely not me. Got a single 3/10 in the three years since my divorce.
Point 3: "Virtual media" isn't the same. It works with virgins maybe or to hold you over a bit. I've become a believer in P4P.
Point 4: They're all unattractive (fat, tattoos, piercings, crazy hair) or $luts, often time both. They're nice people, but terrible potential partners.
Point 5: "Pay attention to meeeeee" was the ex wife's favorite slogan. Always bitched I never bought her things, forgetting I covered the mortgage, paid for her health and car insurance, paid all the utilities, bought groceries and dinner outings the majority of the time.
P4P is the way to go. Ever watch "The Wolf of Wall Street"? Was he married? Yes. Who did he sleep with? P4P girls. The wife (or any permanent chick) is therefore redundant.
@@nickdobrov whats a P4P girl?
Did your divorce end up costing you a lot?
@@lpgame2036 pay 4 play?
@@sergeantmajor_gross We were only married two years, so most lawyer fees and child support.
Just recently i went out with a girl. We found we have a ton in common, we went for a long walk, great conversation, we both had shit to do in the evening though, so we agreed we'd meet again in a few days and make it longer. She seemed excited, me too, obviously. We exchange contacts and part.
I message her the day after and I've been ghosted since then (5 days ago). Sent another message in between but no replies. No fucking clue what I did wrong, best 1st encounter I've ever been on and she still bailed out.
I can't even imagine how much abundance women have nowadays. I've become best bros for life with dudes for way less, but I can be almost a carbon copy of the woman and we have a great time and she'll still be like "meh, there's probably something better out there".
Women don't want similarity, they want better. They want to have a lot in common, but whatever you have in common with her you should be able to do better.
Brutal. You know, you could potentially just have had the wrong impression. Girls will smile and lie, saying they had such a great time, and then never message you again. It happened to me. Be careful
She had better options. Your clue should have been that she had "shit to do" that night. Also, always wait for the woman to text YOU after 1st date. ALWAYS.
maybe she was out of your league
You did nothing wrong. Chad came and snapped her away in a couple of minutes. When Chad comes, it's pretty much over.
I'm a modern, liberated, independent man. I make my own money, have my own house, and I cook and clean too. I don't need no woman. And when I want a break from cooking I can go to Subway where female workers make me a sandwich. Life is great.
Hope androids can be around before we incels die though lmao
Subway sells fake meat don't eat it
So you pay the female employees to make you a sandwich and they provide you with a service, the same as male employees do? How is this a win again?
Problem solved.
The wait is finally over! I am so addicted to your videos. Not only are they never disappointing and always insightful, informative and straight up interesting, but they're also calming, in some way. I mean, your voice tone itself is calming, and so are the topics. You always tell the truth, so there's no point in getting heated. And most of all, it's always predictable, and that's the first reason why I feel so relaxed watching them. It's like tragedy: unlike comedy, you know from the start that there's no hope, that something bad, unavoidable and unalterable is going to happen. No suspense, no false promises, no delusional hope, just helplessness and hopelessness. Because life can also be like that and only by accepting its reality (unalterable unfairness) can we find peace of mind. In tragedy as well as in your videos, the tone is already set: we accept the hopelessness of the situation right from the start, without hoping for a miracle, and that's why we (or at least I) feel at peace.
(By hopelessness I mostly mean the unavoidable importance of looks/ genetics and its repercussions in the dating scene, given the current circumstances and the behaviour of women.)
In other words, keep up the good work. I enjoyed watching all your videos: this one is no exception and I am already looking forward to the next one.
Well done. I wasted countless hours hoping and pursuing women, and wondering what was wrong with me. Now that I've heard the black pill, I realize the vast majority of my effort never had a chance. Had I known then what I know now, I could have put out 10% the effort, been a lot more successful, and saved immeasurable heartache.
Finding decent single women in 2022? Playing the lottery would be a better use of your RNG, not to mention that because of their rarity, they can afford even higher standards than their damaged counterparts.
High body counts, nothing to offer except one thing (that every other guy already had), drama, divorce grape. There is no reason to be in one.
🙏 To all men out here..
Have your own:
- Life
- Hobby's
- A nice job
- Friends/familie
- Passion
- HAVE A OWN LIFE, FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS, HAVE STANDARDS AND CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK
If you have your shi together you notice you DONT need a woman after all. A woman is a bonus.. and nothing more than that.. they are not that important and stop doing everything for them and you will see it attracts women instead of being thirsty and scare them away. If you are focus on multiple things in your life you forget to think about woman and when you dont give a women (that you date or text) too much attention.. THEY will be needy and thirsty and thats why its so important to focus on yourself.
I see them as a sexual hobby rather that something sooooooo important that i will do everything for the women wich i date. I dont know how it is in your country but a lot of people are getting a divorce easy when they are married when they have a hard time or when the relationship gets boring. Love is not what it was anymore so you dont miss anything.. remember that. We need to stop giving women that power so they are not able to control the happines of men.
Thanks man
Beautifully said
this is what everyone should do, but it's what only some will do because today's men are too emotional.
@@lima9313 true. Im not gonna lie.. i was also that type of guy but now i know "the code" how to be happy without a woman it feels like freedom. Its feels powerfull to be happy without the fact that somebody else is responsible for my happines. I have multiple friends with benefits dates and thats ok.. like i said i see woman only for sexual goals and im fine with that. I hope that men will follow my tips so everything is getting back to normal so we get rid of deluted women who think they can get every men on the planent. The 5 guys with the 5 girls, the normal guys with normal woman and the 7 with the 7 and the Chads with the model woman.
my dad rammed this down my throat as much as he could
"if you cannot find a decent wife. dont get a wife."
Relationships seem like missions these days, not relationships. I just hate the current society so much.
I'm in the boat with you my friend 🤝
For men it's nothing but walking on egg shells. For women it's like a candy store.
Screw society
@Ozone I remember a woman In a hospital where I did not, I DID NOT HIT a girl, and then a young woman just had the balls to just insult me and call me lies. Then everyone laughed at me(Young men included) and one man told me to respect the woman that just talked trash at me. Then he stood up,punched me two times in the face and the doctor had to control him because he was very aggressive with me. I was in a hospital of young people and EVERYONE,I repeat,EVERYONE just talked $hit about me. That's the whole story. And then I was forced to sleep in a confined and prisoned sleep in the hospital. Yeah I know,it's chaos
I've never had trouble attracting women, but I no longer seek long-term relationships because women today want to make the relationship all about them. There's no give and take, no reciprocity. My last serious girlfriend, who I liked a lot at first, wanted to quit her job and move in with me so she could "focus on her spirituality". So, stay home in her jammies while I worked and paid all the bills. Yeah, sign me up for that. Not into being used as a walking ATM and then blamed for everything that goes wrong in a woman's life because of her poor choices.
Do better, women. Whatever you're doing now just isn't working.
Most women are becoming more financially independent, but one case scenario doesn't represent the entire female population.
@@hellsangel4268 ^^
I don’t understand why these men think women need them. There are obviously much better men out there.
@@freya6921 I agree.
@@hellsangel4268 Spoken like a child
@@freya6921 Did you even bother to read Daniel Bradford's comment?
*Alimony, Child support, Shes not yours its just your turn, Shes for the streets, Women are not worth the investment, I don't want to pay premium price for a used product.......You're Welcome.*
Dude at this point it's a subscription for beta buxx lmao. They need to keep paying premium price just to get that twice a year service lol
@@ultimateloser3411 people in the US don't realize that they are indirectly beta buxx. Since 90% of the welfare wealth goes to single moms.
God, I hate sexual liberation.
Was never yours unless you verified her v-card. Hymen does not prove it.
@@chadgaston8615 💯
I Approve this Memo ……… 🙏🏿. 🎤
This video is incredibly true. Sadly I'm a normie and all the girls I wanted to obtain, I couldn't. My last relationship when I settled with a 4/10 (I'd consider myself a 5), the entitlement, attention requirements and emotional reassurance requirements were too much. The relationship felt like hell and a chore.
So now i just casually date. I get all the benefits of relationships without the entitlement and heavy financial/emotional commitments.
I feel alot of men are following the same route and not settling anymore. If we can't get the girl we want, we're happy to just casually date or just be alone.
They will revisit you in your 30s, trust me.
@Fan Made Trailer Mash Guy Their looks decrease, simple as that.
How is this helping us save western civilization though? We need families with children to save the west.
How tall are you
@@identicalgd2446 5ft10, 62kg. Very low body fat.
It just occurred to me these dating coaches and some red pillers actually put women on a pedestal. They make it seem like the average guy is supposed to have the best personality and social skills just to attract the average woman. A few years ago I saw a guy who did drugs and play video games yet was still having an abundance of women every week. Screw all that self improvement just to get women. Do it for yourself.
More great content, Wheat. Thank you! One other reason that I would add, though it applies to approaches more so than relationships is the hostile legislative environment. Here in Australia, we have ridiculous “enthusiastic consent at each point” laws that make it a huge risk to even look at a woman, let alone approach or progress to intimacy. And as a boyfriend, especially a live in, you face the risk of arrest should you be silly enough to get her angry. Womyn have weaponised themselves and, frankly, I have no sympathy. They have, metaphorically, made their bed and now they can lie in it!
Lie in their bed. Alone. With their cats.
This is a very important point in the Western world I myself have been arrested based on a woman's anger and lies to police months later she started to regret it
@@user-qb7ms6vs7s I hope you didn’t sustain lasting damage, D. It’s a clear and present danger to men in the West. I am an old bas*rd and used to be a senior manager, who mentored younger team members, including womyn. Still happy to give young guys the benefit of my experience (if they’re interested), but young womyn can go to the Sisterhood for their mentoring.
@@covertcounsellor6797 for sure there is lasting damage. Law makes don't realise how they are destroying families and society to the shock of even the narcissist wife
Holy crap i knew it was bad in aussie land but i didnt know it was that bad! Wtf kind of bs is that good lord we need a revolution
As a high tier normie…..why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Not to mention most women in the U.K. have poor traits for relationships and my smv match would think they are above me
its about neither UK or US, the problem is acces to social media, and almost every country has it. Also by slavs that is a problem ;) (we drink so much vodka that it cant bother us, we dont really care that much
Men should start going to Brazil or Colombia
@@ShaunbirKlair24 But most men want to date white woman
Getting the milk "for free" requires a shitload of work, and a reasonable amount of money as well. I mean unless you're a chick magnet, you're probably paying a lot more for dating and going to night clubs than if you just pay a professional. And there's no guarantee you'll even have sex on these nights out, so...
@@finlandsakke3505 then go to Romania or Latvia or somewhere in Eastern Europe
"Oh my gosh, why don't men ask me out. Are they intimidated?"
Nope most unattractive guys have learned that we are better off on our own and the Chads are busy killing it on Tinder.
Men's commitment can mean the difference between a woman living a good life in a warm home with food on the table or having to sell her body on the street.
Never give your commitment up for just any female in your life trust me it is your strongest asset as a man.
Stay Strong, Stay Single and Stay Safe Fellas …….. 🚶🏿♂️
This is only true if you live in the third world, and even there many women run businesses and help each other out when men act capricious.
Best gifts for a LTR after year 3 is.
Gift card to her favorite clothing store, a nice hallmark card and write something sweet, expressing how you feel towards her. Works like a charm.
I almost never say anything sweet to her during the year, mostly jokes and being playful, so she definitely appreciates what’s said in the card.
I give "I'm 'bout to bust.....outa here."
"Feets don't fails me now."
Exactly less is more , wheat is too black pilled game does play a factor
I strongly agree with what you say at 05:41. Chads obviously don't want relationships at all, as principle, because they literally sleep with a different girl every night, so why would they. And those are the men that women mean when they say "guys don't want relationships". Below a chadlite level, I think, most men, deep down inside them, do want relationships, just then, because of things you mentioned, they stop doing so.
I am especially freightened by the first one. I think no man is really safe nowadays. Should it be 10 months into relationship, or 10 years. You are so easily replacible, that you basically need to play a perfect game, or she throws you out of the window. This happened to me the last time I tried dating, after some 3 months of dating, came literally one small arguement between us. It was enough for her, though everything was going great thus far. But who cares, if she has 10 guys in my place?
Similarly, I remember when my female friend told me how she was struggling in life, and how greatful she was for her boyfriend's family that they let her move in with her boyfriend to his parents' house. She was so much in love with him, posting photos together on instastory for like 2 years or so, they had a cat together and stuff. Well, after she broke up with him, it was less than a week that she started posting photos with another guy (and the same cat lol). I mean, of course I don't know exactly what happened, but no matter who's fault the break up was, the sheer awareness of the fact that you can be (and will be, if needed) replaced within a second is just terrifying.
@Xavier Behavier I understand you very well. Those endless thoughts "what if I haven't said that", "what if I haven't done that", etc. These are pointless. Even if you wouldn't have "failed" that day, you would certainly "fail" in the few next days, weeks, or months ANYWAY. If she cared, she cared, you'd eventually work it out if it wasn't a big deal (in my case it really wasn't). But then you realize that you were trying so hard to please someone to whom you were worth nothing.
And for what?
As someone who has been married for over a decade, we are not obsessed with the gift giving stuff. Valentines is a candy only holiday for us. Some years we get each other Christmas presents, sometimes not. We don't do gifts on our anniversary, just dinner somewhere. My birthday is the only required gift day on that list, but so is his. We like to keep things low stress, so our goal is that family traditions should be fun. If its not fun, what's the point of a holiday?
you should 've use your voice to speak about the most relevant point of this video. The rise of low quality women. I'm currently datin 3 girls and will never pay for anything
Carole, that's exactly the attitude that a loving, caring spouse has. It's what you can do for each other, not just what your partner can do for you. So many single women have long lists of demands and never stop to think of what they have to give.
Hear hear! Such occasions have been commercialized to the point that they're just another way to part you from your money. In our family, gift giving is not compulsory, too.
Been a long time since I talked to a woman with the goal of scoring or winning her affection. I just don't care anymore. If they come, they're welcome, if they don't, doesn't matter I got other things to do.
Don't even welcome them juice ain't sneeze
Everyone should be emotionally stable and independent, so good on you.
She is messing with Chad And Tyrone And They will never Commit, They have to many options, The Black Pill always Win, I Been Black Pilled Since 1991 Before The Matrix Movie
it's ovER, your replacement is one argument away
And you're suffering is one rope away from ending too
Why do men refused to commit to a woman, When she’s only using you for financial and emotional security while looking for a better relationship opportunity? Wow, that’s… that’s a really difficult concept to comprehend. It’s like, men are human beings Concerned about their own physical and emotional autonomy or something🙄…..
Blackpill is the reason Jordan Peterson said there should be enforced monogamy. Although he got in trouble over this statement, he didn't mean "arranged marriages." He meant a societal expectation and pressure to be monogamous. Otherwise, top men monopolize the dating pool, and men outside the top tier are left alone to become militant.
The Roman's figured this out thousands of years ago. It's sad all these people want to act like children.
@palerider2132 the Romans drank lead-flavored water, believed in superstitions and omens, molested children, and killed slaves for no reason. Who better to take sane and stable relationship advice from?
it kinda disappoints me so much that so many women got down on this level nowadays. i don’t get why you would give the power you hold away for free? being intimate is the most powerful energy exchange you could do as a woman so why doing it with just any man (no matter how good he looks)? kinda sucks what this world turned into
I can't agree more. This coming from a good looking dude. I remember when I was younger, wanting to start a family in my mid 20's with a sweet good looking girl. Now I'm in my 30s and honesty doing see it happening. Most chicks are thots, that have no pair bonding ability left. So intimacy is out the window for 90% of them, most chicks my age are looking for a unattractive beta male provider to take advantage of.
Believe it or not, women can also have sex for pleasure.
Women: I date 6'2 Chad/Tyrone for his personality, believe me. 🤭🤭
But some do have great personality. Which means it's time for some ropium
6'2 are manlets, 6'3 is the new trend
What percentage of men are really chads?
Carlton, glad to see you not slappin people these days
@@ultimateloser3411 They only have that to secure the bait. I have seen many laugh here in Northern Europe how easy Chinese women in particular seems to be.
In regards to 5:45 there's one thing I've noticed is that when women refer to men (in plural) they generally mean chads. "Men are not commiting anymore", "women like older men", "women care about guys with a personality", etc.
Subconciously, they think of chads because the other 80-85% of guys are invisible to them.
This channel genuinely protects male benefits. It's not like other dating channels, which aims to take away the audience time, money and resources but doesn't protect the audience's benefits. This youtube channel until now is still gold, keep posting the awesome content WW, thanks a lot for the value which is provided here.
It’s over if you don’t have the looks it’s over your face height hair race determine your dating experience
Your life experience too
Don't forget pehpeh size 😭
@@mikeprice8307 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mikeprice8307 Imagine being a short Filipino (already having a small peepee) with a micropeepee because of an illness. Nature is brutal
Interesting that "waiting til you are too old for men to sexually desire you (not just intellectually or spiritually) to start looking for a serious relationship" is not a point. With men the problem is the exact opposite, impatience, rushing, trying to engage before you polish your rough edges, before you got yourself together and your life together. "Women are born, men are made" means, among other things, that a woman (usually) is ready for a committed relationship soon as she turns 15 or 16, but a man may not be ready until he´s 25 or 30.
Thanks a lot for reminding me why I don't need a relationship anymore, the gift part really got me some PTSD.
I refuse to move in with my girlfriend, as the demands are never ending & I don't want the government sleeping in my bed.
Check on the laws in your state for how long cohabitation has to last in order to become a 'common-law' marriage. When that happens, it is legally recognized by the state as a 'de-facto' marriage, with all the hazards for you (and all the advantages for her) wrt divorce.
Excellent Work. A breakdown on the mindset of Sub 5s, Normies, and Chads with regards to relationships would be worth exploring for further content.
Another problem with relationships, the gf won’t let you enjoy your hobbies such as gaming, anime/netflix, TH-cam, or anything that isn’t “productive” according to her. They’ll constantly try to control and change you in order to turn you into their “ideal bf” which they can show off to others, especially if you weren’t her first choice.
Also, congrats on 70k subscribers WW, this channel is exploding in views just like it deserves 👍
Oh yea, mainly because they do not have any hobbies, YOU are their hobby (as in you going through hoops and loops for her), and social media.
Well said Fella
To be fair, anime is wack as hell.
@@sicarius.m1 different copes for different folks 🤷♂️ but I’ll agree, most weebs are beta soyboiis.
@@jokerpilled2535 I’ve met at most 2 ppl out of 10 that are normal anime watchers
I swear, your videos aren't even that blackpilled as most haters say. You're pretty straight forward hybrid-pilled.
All of this angst just to date an Amber Heard archtype. Sad.
As an American I wanted to commit, so I married a Filipina woman.
yeap. Find a woman outside, Western countries. Western women are so screwed up in the head. They don't want a relationship. They want a dog...until they find a better dog. They want the world and they still expect you to beg for even the tiniest bits of attention. South America or South East Asia or Euro-Asia or Africa. Then on top of all that, if you get a divorce you need to pay her for being miserable. Yeah...no thanks.
This is such an intelligent channel. It communicates perspectives that other red/mgtow channels just don't offer.
The concept of relationship power is so important. For these reason, I believe it is a mistake for most men to pursue women until they are about 28. At age 28, if a man has been on their path/purpose, they should be in a financial situation where they could support a family. They are more confident and bring more to the table. Conversely, I think a young woman is making a mistake to mess with any man younger than 28. An 18 year woman who messes with young guys is risking becoming a single mother which is a disaster for both the young woman and her child...
true. it's sad to see innocent young women turn into used up whores.
Exactly, the slide show and examples given makes it easy for people who have never heard of the red or blue pill to understand and easily digest
Wheat waffles is incredible. Of course, as with ANYONE, not ALL his points are home runs and I downright disagree with some of his points, but gahdamn If he doesn’t hit the nails perfectly with a hammer 98% of the time!! Wish he posted 3 times a day lmao
@@literallyonlyfanz2308 I agree. I'm not as black pilled as WW however, he makes a very good argument why the black pill philosophy has validity.
Richard cope
ALL your videos are on point..This one VERY INFORMATIVE for where I am now. Im on the fence, but watching carefully on my situation. You really hit home on the REALITY of it all. I SEE IT CLEARLY from my journey over how many years, and why I came into stumbling blocks for so long. GREAT CONTENT, and I speak from expereince.
I have seen men who get free sex and even free babies (!) from women. This way, those types of men get to continue their lineage without having to commit or put in resources. Amd when you see that, you will think yourself "Why society keeps telling me to chase and commit to a woman, when right here I can see women give free sex and even their womb for free?"
Those examples you can give even to normies. And that's why I'd rather be sent my own way than conforming to society that gives me nothing.
what country has women giving free babies lol
Their children often end up dysfunctional, and many opt out of having their own offspring as their childhoods were too traumatizing. So, in that way, their genes do not pass on.
Don't envy these scumbags.
for my past 2 long term relationships (3 & 4.3 years), I set a rule of no giftgiving- special shared experiences only. That was eventually appreciated. After 26 months alone, I think I'll be fine for rest of my life, though it sometimes sucks to have no family, and friends who are too busy to meet. I sure don't regret my vasectomy!
These comments are sad including yours
This is the dating pool we have to choose from… rather dire isn’t it. 😂
If you're not a chad, life only gets harder as time goes on
Undeniable truth of life, rest is copium.
Never even began
And more expensive 😉 😜
@@chadgaston8615 literally moneymax Can't say it didn't work. Look at Elon Musk, a tall and rich normie. 20 years ago, he could've easily competed with chads in terms of body counts (with a fixed hairline though).
That is why you have to Go Your Own Way and learn not to care.
Even with a girlfriend you're always in competition even if you think you've won the game. This is why they say she's not your girl it's just your turn.
I'm just hoping that one day I find that woman to my desire where I'm her last turn.
You're never the last turn. That's why you have to stay on your game. I know women who cheat on some of the best husband's they'll ever have at the hospital I work at with doctors.
@@mikeprice8307 I also know women who lose their minds (and open their legs) when a good looking doctor needs to release genetic fluids, no matter how good their husbands are...
@@mikeprice8307 Women's behavior is why misogyny exists and is based
@@mikeprice8307 I love how we are all grouping women together in this comment section yet men always whine and say “not all men😠😢!!!”
@@RR.LL.3B agree it’s soooo damn pathetic you guys have no idea how you’re just creating your own problems. If you are not 100% the best you can be then how can you expect to find a good woman? We both have to give our 100%, yes some may cheat but some have got the right attitude to make it work. My cousin met his wife on bumble married after a year. He’s a good guy and she’s a good woman. It does happen believe it or not.
This guy got most of the reasons. But I'll add a few. From My personal experiences and perception , I always drew the conclusion that it is more risky and troublesome to approach in real life. The reasons being labeled a creep, and harassment.
thank you wheat waffles with waking up and saving young men from a lot of headache and pain
3 years single and counting. Extremely peaceful. I'm physically fit, tall, and healthy but even so the relationships were literal torture. I think a whole other aspect of this generation is parents (and government) spoiling their little girls.
Judging by the divorce rate, it isn't men who aren't willing to commit
Committing = spending resources on them
True
Even if Chad commits to a woman, as soon as she has that commitment she will start to lose interest. Hypergamy makes it so women can never be content and the routine familiarity with one partner will subconsciously push her to look for other options.
Yes, if she can get a chad, she probably can get another chad
Thank no-fault divorce, so now she can leave with your money, whenever she wants.
@@bossgd100 Better chad
Holy shit this makes it seem that it’s over for all non-chads in terms of finding a stable long term relationship with a woman ,if even chads can be replaced for others chads
@@domino3554 If a non-Chad wants to be a faithful beta and put up with his wife's bad behavior, he can have a long term relationship. Not all women will cheat, but if she has options, he will always have to be looking over his shoulder for warning signs. Not my idea of a good relationship.
When she says "men" she only means the top 20 percent. Maybe even the top 5 percent. The bottom 80 percent aren't seen as men. They aren't even seen as human. 6:10 ha, one of my first videos was about this!
1:13 you are right. even 30s 40s females have many options. in all age groups dating is not worth it. she can ALWAYS replace you
You didn't mention mothers day and the birthdays of her kids from other men, you'll be expected to pay for vacations, 'date nights' and much more
I wait for WW videos like I did for DBZ every saturday as a kid
@@mr.midnight1997 why
At 35 having had a few longer term relationships it is quite alot of effort /time to expend when they don't work out. Not saying don't go for it but failure puts you at square minus one.
Normal men want to commit that’s cope. It’s women and chad that hesitate to commit
Women and chad don't hesitate. Commitment isn't even in their heads when in their 20s. They want to experience the best sex from the best looking people they can match with. Even if they settle, divorce or an open relationship will be their choice. They can't take that promiscous lifestyle away that easily and maybe never will.
Wheat Waffles
I don’t agree with everything you say, but you have a high number of original and well articulated takes on modern dating.
Well done dude 👏🏻
I’m not in a relationship but I’ve had a ex gf try and tell me to get rid of a female friend that I’ve been friends with since high school cause it made her extremely jealous.
Pretty much just escortmaxx, I only talk to women if it’s business, work, or college related if it’s not any of those areas it has to be sexual. If it’s not sexual I’m not hanging out or befriending women.
Very good
@Hubert Humphrey you’re not wrong and when I say this to normies, they get butt hurt
Yup. You nailed it. That’s the most efficient way to live life as a man in 2022.
Red pill has some good advice regarding this matter. They clearly state that being a friend of women is a waste of time.
🤣
These women want men to tackle burglars that breach the house (protector role) but in the same time don't want to respect them. Them expect men to be traditional, and in the same time don't want the traditional role for themself.
That's mainly due to a social engineering which has caused a very drastic change in most women mind who wrongly assume they're 10 out of 10, eventhough many of those women do not fulfill the genetic nor the adecuate aesthetic requirements needed for them to start demand.
But keep in mind that you will be replacable if you're not a least a 'chadlite' who could be able to make her feel in a certain. unlike the other participants who might not be that genetically blessed and will not be able to make this woman develop a emotional clinginess toward that man .
If you're in a relationship and the woman who you're being with does not develop any sickly obcession over you. then it's more likely you're there for her entertarinment until she finds someone who truly wants to be with!
SUB5 wants to be in a relationship but CHAD just want casual sex!
Obsession is a key part, i wonder why few people talk about it... For me, you cant say that she is in love until you see it
@@bossgd100 She gotta be willing to die for you if she truly loves you!
You break it down so well and have evidence to back it up👍
Pre watching I usually don’t find them worth committing to. The ones worth committing to I usually invest too quickly thus turning them off.
Would be interested to find out why there is a higher satisfaction with women of over 21 bodies as a opposed to women with 6to 10 bodies. Is it because they are desperate? Also, why does the satisfaction with men that had 6 to 10 bodies suddenly rise and then drop again? Is it because of experience or just because of other variables playing into the interpretation of the study?
Probably because after a certain point you don't care. I feel like age should also be a factor.
A 22 year old spinster will likely be more happy with a body count of 25 than a 36 year old one with a body count of 6
@@prettyboyjeremy so it's more about attractiveness than the number of body. So attractiveness and youth overshadow purity.
They think they’ll lock Chad in if they give it up. Logic isn’t their thing. If it was they’d know Chad’s already had a hundred or more; can get another 100 in the next yr with little/no effort. But they still lay down, then get upset at all men when he ghosts them.
Most probably it's statistical noise, nothing really meaningful
Juice isn’t worth the squeeze.
Yes, I've heard attractive women say that when a problem occurs in a relationship instead of trying to fix it they dump their boyfriend and try someone else.
"It's ovah"
10:40 Oh man.... i actually broke up with my last gf because of this, i mean i love you but i also got shit to do. I even saw myself declining in some areas especially in the beginning of the relationship so i knew this wasn't working, this was not the only reason of me ending it tho.
The woman in 0:00 is actually a good individual. She said "why do SOME of you men..."
Most women would have said "WHY DO MEN"
I really appreciate her not generalilzing men
I would add as a matter unbearable housing prices, especially after covid-19 crisis, unless you want to take a long-term mortgage and become dependent on your job/credit/payments. Girls' first questions are regarding owning your house, car, salary, but no one thinks about splitting the efforts and duties together. Those, who are capable of doing this, due to feminism liberalization, are usually seeking for richer Chads, more capable on providing than you, same class-level.
2:26 womn like this will lash out and blame the fragility of men that break up with them. Since they don't think rationally the conclusion they come to is insulting the man without taking in consideration this fact (that they chat to so many othwe guys
In a culture where they say broke men dont deserve women when he becomes rich he dont have to stick to one girl keep that same energy
Man your videos are gold, it be awesome if a broader audience was effected or saw some of these videos ,keep doing what your doing
So true. This is why some men of above average attractiveness will go their own way and hot guys will limit their dating to no cohabitation. Too many risks, divorce, etc. It's not 1920 anymore. Peace.
Congrads on 70k subs. Quality, unique content.
Yes. The broad with the 5head you could show home movies on, doesn’t want you or Norman Normie.
She wants to lockdown: Sancho, Tyrone, or Chad.
4:20 Facts. My gfs always tell me about the amount of randos they constantly have to block every other day. Often we make fun of how they are usually mad unattractive. However, I can't help but wonder... What about all the lads that are MORE attractive than me that slide into their dms, would they show me those? Probably not. But this other one I currently have this situationship with (it's kinda complicated, we're kinda fwbs but we're both really into each other and the main reason we don't date is cause we're both kind of attractive and hate the baggage relationships come with nowadays, so a dating hiatus basically) had no issues telling me straight to my face that she does in fact flirt with other guys despite being into me, keep in mind that while we've made fun of all the ugly guys that try to hit on her online, not once has she shown me any of the chadlites let alone the chads that 100% hit on her. In reality, our relationship is quasi- or semi-romantic where we're both free to be with other people but just mostly get with each other for the afore mentioned reason. Anyway, the point here is, if i were in a crc romantic relationship with this girl, it's pretty obv that i'd be easily replaceable for more reasons than just the fact that she's mad hawt. This is a desperate situation we find ourselves in boys, buckle up, it's probably gonna get worse💀Also, i'm getting absolutely height mogged in uni omf💀
"Why do men" should be replaced with: Why does CHAD..
..There I fixed it for you..
I get your points. I've just been baffled for a few years why this is happening. I saw a yt millionaire yesterday and he's lost all his money to lawyers. over relationship breakdown. It's so sad but I get the points now.Thanks
Take the escort way my friends, thats what I ended doing and you get the best possible deal if you are an average guy, you get the sex (the highest amount of money you spend in a good escort the better the service) without the stress and spending of dating.
I will like to have a relationship with a good girl? Of course, but in those times thats a fantasy and when you need some intimacy the escort is the best deal out there
It's actually: "Why don't highly desired men don't commit?" Because they get options, and it's just your turn to date.
And many women won't settle for anything less than the highly desired men.
First of all, I wanted to thank you for your informative video Wheat! Thumbs up as always!
Here is what I have learned so far regarding girls, dating and relationships (please have in mind that I have only dated girls from Online Dating Apps (19 different ones) and NEVER approached a girl in real life, I will explain down below the reason for this).
1. Most girls have a very strange taste in men regarding their looks aka. "niche market taste"
- They find physical traits attractive which basically no guy would find attractive or important.
- They love guys with curly hair which in my humble opinion looks like a bird nest and should not be considered attractive
- They are into those bisexual looking guys who have ZERO facial hair and ZERO muscles (slender man looking body frame).
2. Most girls are OBSESSED with one physical trait and completely ignore the more important one's + completely ignore other flaws.
- I have seen so many couples where the guy is objectively at MAX a 4.5/10 with major flaws e.g. hair loss / receding hair line, way too big nose / deformed nose, no muscles / thin as fuc*, no facial hair AT ALL, weird face proportions, no jaw line etc. and they STILL have a 7/10 or even 8/10 girlfriend. And trust me, I can judge girls objectively. They really are 7/10 or even 8/10. If you examine those guys, you will see that they have ONE single attractive trait which in most cases is their height and that's it. Their girlfriends are so obsessed with height in general that they don't care how this fuc*er actually looks.
3. If you're older than 22 and have not found a girlfriend, it's basically over (I am not kidding)
- As I said above, I have never approached a girl in real life. I have no problems talking to girls or having a conversation with them, but in my experience it's completely useless to ask a random attractive girl (6.5 and above) for her number, they are ALWAYS in a relationship. I have never met a single girl outside of Online Dating Apps who is a solid 7/10, is 22 or older AND is single. That's just not the case. Before you roast me in the comments below: that's just MY experience so far. I study at a Technical University and the few attractive girls I have met, had ALWAYS a boyfriend. I know this because I found them on Instagram or I saw them with their boyfriends (kissing etc.)
It's basically over once you hit 22 because most girls in this age span are already taken. Sure, there are some weird looking one's (tall girls who are 6"0+ and struggle to find significantly taller guys) or the classic land whales who are still single (and will stay single even in their late 20's) but I would never date those.
4. Girls in small towns are almost always better than girls in larger cities
- I have noticed that girls in larger towns (e.g. 1 Mio. inhabitants or more) have way more guys or "options" compared to girls who live in small towns with only 200k inhabitants. This has to do with Online Dating because larger towns have more users and girls in smaller towns settle down much faster (because they don't have so much options). Girls in small towns do also have a rather low body count as they can't hookup without anyone discovering that.
5. Avoid girls with a "best buddy" or girls who have many male friends
- That's an obvious one. I seriously would never date a girl who has many male friends. This may sound very conservative but for me, you shouldn't hangout with the opposite sex ALONE if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It's completely fine to hangout with guys in a GROUP if there are also other girls there, but I would never date a girl who likes to hangout with guys ALONE even though she is in a relationship. I wouldn't hangout with a girl alone, if I would have a girlfriend. In a group yes, but never completely alone. Those "I just watched a movied with my male buddy, he is just my buddy" girls are disgusting are not worth it. They WILL eventually leave you for them or cheat on you.
6. Guys almost always date "below" their league
- That's the sad reality, especially for guys who do not met girls often and don't hangout with them on a regular basis. If you never had a girlfriend, you never date girls and you almost never meet girls through friends, you WILL start to consider 5/10 girls as 7/10 girls because you are that desperate. I was in a lecture last week and I am one of those guys who rarely meets girls (besides Online Dating). I seriously considered one 5/10 girl as 7/10 because I was so desperate. Don't do this, be objective and don't lower your standards.
Holy! If you 19 hookups on dating apps then you must be a stud, cuz I get 0 fucking matches
@@salj.5459 Hey buddy! Thanks for your reply! No I just had "fun" with only one of those 19 girls, but I had the opportunity to take the majority of them home. The problem was that I didn't know how to flirt properly and I am really bad at interpretunt signals from girls. I would rate myself as a 7/10 :) I am not a model but just above average and I think that's enough to attract girls :)
@@salj.5459 what pictures did you upload? I have erased my accounts several time and recreated it maybe over 15 times with the same pictures and the same bio + same phone and same phone number. I don't know whether I am shadowbanned or not, but my pictures are actually garbage. Just 4 different one's (me on front of a mirror with different clothes on)
@@salj.5459 Just use the boost and u'll get 20 girls like minimum.
why would you shame tall women for soemthing they cannot change lol? I mean I recognized myself since im 6ft but it’s definitely not weird as height doesnt impact the beauty you have. Plenty of female models are taller than 6+ and attractive
The coloring on reason 3 was absolutely on point lmao xD
For the same reason women keep men in their friendzone. Because there's some kind of benefit. A friendzoned guy gets used for validation, emotional support, help whenever she needs it, and maybe resources.
The opposite is the friend with benefits. A man will keep a woman in his life he doesn't want a relationship with likely because she is a reliable supply of sex, and maybe some other benefit.
At 5:55 the printed "contraire", blimey, French now! Well, it's simply just obsolete in English now-a-days, but even-so clearly used meaning "on the contrary" or "opposite". Eloquent.
I would’ve thought 25 years ago, we would be headed towards this remarkable social dystopia?