Walk 10k steps a day eat 2200 calories a day at 200g protein no alcohol for 6 months. Then go back out - Just like getting the high paying career you have to work for it
@@VinyLegends man we are not trying to step him down and cut for a show here. Just a simple start point. Not worried about metabolism shut down etc. but go ahead and build him a plan based on his bmr and do it correctly. He will drop 60 pounds this way. You can always weight train and reverse diet
When I was in my early 20’s I worked my butt off getting into shape. But my conversation skills left a lot to be desired! Of course I didn’t realize at the time that was the problem. You know what they say about hindsight being 20/20!
I lost 70 lbs, then gained it all. I lost the habit of exercising. I lost weight very quickly, which I probably shouldn't have. We all had to learn, and it was embarrassing at first. But you have to start, or otherwise it will be embarrassing every time you try.
The world’s population has increased from people in and or of 3rd world countries. Also, there’s a TH-cam video, seen it a day ago, from a research point of view that “dating apps” purposely don’t find matches because it would eliminate the purpose of making money.
Women are biologically geared to look for markers of success in order to ensure their offspring will be in the best position to flourish. They look for men who have good looks, power, are in shape, charismatic, and have wealth as indicators to satisfy that biological imperative. Try to work on signalling those things as best you can without succumbing to bitterness or resentment and you put yourself in the best position possible to attract a mate.
How successful are you? Dude if you are good looking it doesn’t Matter what you say to a woman. You can say anything and they fall in love with your face.
@@AZrakoon they get lucky by talking them into being with them. Soem women look past that but still if brad Pitt came up and said some non sense and the ugly one was super funny etc most would choose brad Pitt lol Or if Brad Pitt came to the woman with the broke ugly guy and siad leave that fool come with me she would probably run off with him. Mabye your town just has lots of ugly men and it’s slim pickings ha or the girls are ugly too.
I'm 6'4, full head of hair, fit, green eyes and don't get any matches on tinder. I make decent money but don't list my job and I believe that the women on dating apps care more about your income than anything else.
I'm sorry you're have a hard time. Go out there and talk to the ladies, it will be hard at first then will get easier. You're doing the right thing by not trying to lead with your wallet.
Dating apps are a waste because guys outnumber the women by a lot. I get a few matches here and there and the women almost never reply because they are probably overwhelmed with messages from men. You could be in shape and attractive and it doesn't really matter because she'll never see your message anyway.
Overthinking Self doubt Over analyzing Clear your mind Be you But know /remember We can change We can grow Good things take time Patience is a virtue Learn, grow in the time Opportunities Be in low or high moments Opportunities Will come Wish you or anyone dealing with self or pov perspective Wish you all love and peace Tip: it comes from within … it will always come from within self - to love ourselves first - that will always show to others
You got to get butt naked and stand in front of a full length mirror then ask yourself honestly " is this what hot women want"? Thats what i did then made changes and decided im happier being single with just friends with benefits 😆🤘
What I did, was just walk away. If you get a woman, you'll wish you didn't. I can give 25 reasons to stay single. Bedroom fun is boring. Women are boring and expensive. Just walk away guys before they steal all of your money and happiness
@Wangootango well I am white and Christian, therefore I have control over my impulses and I don't need to fornicate. Celibacy is a necessary part of a man's life if he wants to achieve something great.
I do not think matches on tinder prove that you are attractive. The camera angle can warp your face and make you more attractive then you are in person
Don't bother with online dating. You're better off looking for people with similar hobbies & interest through activities. At least then you're meeting people in person and engaging with them. I was trying on those sites for years without a single date to show for it. I've actually had more success on social media. The issue with online dating is people will always want better, Turning philosophical here, but you're never good enough online. Someone else will 100% always catch the attention of others and you'll be slid to the back of shelf and ignored. The sad truth. Get yourself out there and meet people in person.
btw these guys telling u to lose weight is actually bs ppl who are not in the best shape also get into relationships boogie did it when he first got married & she was big like him who cares
A lot of kids don't know anything about dating other than these blackpill and redpill people tell them. I don't have a hard time dating, I'm just helping these young men who want to date women. If wanted to get a date by next weekend I could pull it off. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate you:)
@@TimeCapsuleClips530 Personally I would recommend not going out of your way to try to meet women. Sure, they can provide fun and comfort, but you could end up wasting a lot of time trying to find one and still not be satisfied. I think it is better to focus on your purpose and or passions. That being said, if you live in the city, try going out to some local band shows, the kind that are at bars and small venues.
@TimeCapsuleClips530 if you have friends that are women that you already get along with and they are available, why not date them? In relationships you start off being friends, then they become something serious sometimes.
@AZrakoon That wasn't directed at you per se but to anyone who is superficial. I'm a guy by the way. I've heard so many men in these modern times complaining that women go for looks and money, but these same men won't consider dating a woman who has a few pounds on her, etc. It's the times we live. Take social media, for example. A nice cute video gets 10,000 views. An angry, bitter, hateful video gets 100,000 views. Men complain. Women complain. It's all anger and bitterness driven. I accept it, but I still call it out.
You have a nice face. Symmetrical. Have you looked into fasting ? Unfortunate dating is often biologically driven and about mating with someone you find healthy ( attractive ) I'm sure you will find someone
Dude....get off online dating. I slay and I dont even get matches on any apps lol if you do the following 3 things you will slay too: 1. Get in the gym and clean up your diet 2. Read 3% Man by Coach Corey Wayne 15 times. Also watch his youtube videos. 3. Get out and talk to women in the real world. A lot of those women arent on tinder....... Good luck brother im cheering for you
@@AZrakoon I'm really exaggerating a bit to be real. Like I get a message, but it's very rare that someone messages me back. People say it's not really for relationships it's like for hookups. I don't know. Lol.
@@WildThoughtsAI sorry I meant could. I'm just not intrested in dating anymore. Just helping the guys who want to find a partner. The women are good gals, they are not models, but were definitely not bad looking. I was going through a lot at the time, to go further.
This came into my TH-cam feed I’ll reply with real advice. You have to level yourself up in all aspects untill your at a good baseline and keep improving, rate yourself honestly out of 10 and see what you can go up its like a video game even if it’s by 1% overtime your stats build up. looks /health /finance I would say just first glance your about a 3.5-4/ 10 . If you’re rich this doesn’t apply at all you can be a slob smelly overweight ugly and you would be fine. At your level your at a disadvantage but a general rule you can at max go up 1-1.5-2 points when dealing with women if your a male . You should be aiming as you currently are for 3s-4s maybe a 5.5 a 6 if your super lucky. Good news is you can improve, start dieing small baby steps small workouts learn invest your time In fitness. Improve your hygiene and wardrobe, improve your financial situation as much as you can. If you don’t want to put in the effort to level yourself up and take a shortcut ,just travel overseas I suggest East Asia , Thailand/ Philippines or South America were you will have an easier time as you are .But 90% of us have work to do improve. Wish you best of luck . 🤞
Getting in shape is paramount. Not to attract women but for your health
Nailed it 🔨 your health is the number 1 priority.
“Just take a shower bro”
Yeah...lol😁
Who doesn’t want someone that doesn’t smell like Cheetos combined with sweat?
Can’t be too much to ask for.
This dude actually has really nice features, a strong blueprint obscured by the weight - if he gets in shape he will absolutely slay
Thanks for the encouragement!
Walk 10k steps a day eat 2200 calories a day at 200g protein no alcohol for 6 months. Then go back out - Just like getting the high paying career you have to work for it
Thanks for the advice!
@@AZrakoonthis is really good advice. 100% you will notice a difference in your whole life.
2200 calories a day is terrible advice
@@VinyLegends man we are not trying to step him down and cut for a show here. Just a simple start point. Not worried about metabolism shut down etc. but go ahead and build him a plan based on his bmr and do it correctly. He will drop 60 pounds this way. You can always weight train and reverse diet
When I was in my early 20’s I worked my butt off getting into shape. But my conversation skills left a lot to be desired! Of course I didn’t realize at the time that was the problem. You know what they say about hindsight being 20/20!
I lost 70 lbs, then gained it all. I lost the habit of exercising. I lost weight very quickly, which I probably shouldn't have. We all had to learn, and it was embarrassing at first. But you have to start, or otherwise it will be embarrassing every time you try.
The world’s population has increased from people in and or of 3rd world countries. Also, there’s a TH-cam video, seen it a day ago, from a research point of view that “dating apps” purposely don’t find matches because it would eliminate the purpose of making money.
Of course, dating apps don't want you to find someone. You're their cash cow.
Women are biologically geared to look for markers of success in order to ensure their offspring will be in the best position to flourish.
They look for men who have good looks, power, are in shape, charismatic, and have wealth as indicators to satisfy that biological imperative. Try to work on signalling those things as best you can without succumbing to bitterness or resentment and you put yourself in the best position possible to attract a mate.
Well said! That's good advice 👍
Appreciate your videos - just found and binged 30-40 mins. Cheers 🤙🏻
Thanks a million, I appreciate your time. Welcome!!!
The old adage of, if its that hard, it isnt worth it. It was not this hard in decaded before.
Times changed, and it's not as it used to be.
How successful are you? Dude if you are good looking it doesn’t
Matter what you say to a woman. You can say anything and they fall in love with your face.
How do ugly broke dudes get girlfriends? They are a dime a dozen in Tucson.
@@AZrakoon they get lucky by talking them into being with them. Soem women look past that but still if brad Pitt came up and said some non sense and the ugly one was super funny etc most would choose brad Pitt lol Or if Brad Pitt came to the woman with the broke ugly guy and siad leave that fool come with me she would probably run off with him.
Mabye your town just has lots of ugly men and it’s slim pickings ha or the girls are ugly too.
Just keep grinding my man, you'll find what your looking for
That's the plan! Thanks man💪
I'm 6'4, full head of hair, fit, green eyes and don't get any matches on tinder. I make decent money but don't list my job and I believe that the women on dating apps care more about your income than anything else.
I'm sorry you're have a hard time. Go out there and talk to the ladies, it will be hard at first then will get easier. You're doing the right thing by not trying to lead with your wallet.
even if you get matches, they seldom respond or ghost you at the drop of a hat cause some taller white guy matched with them.
I feel you man, it's tough. One day you will succeed!
Dating apps are a waste because guys outnumber the women by a lot. I get a few matches here and there and the women almost never reply because they are probably overwhelmed with messages from men. You could be in shape and attractive and it doesn't really matter because she'll never see your message anyway.
Sounds tough, man! I'm glad I don't mess with that stuff, I'd probably would lose my marbles.
I burst out laughing when he unironically say "Just take a shower bro"😂😂
Do I smell bad?
Overthinking
Self doubt
Over analyzing
Clear your mind
Be you
But know /remember
We can change
We can grow
Good things take time
Patience is a virtue
Learn, grow in the time
Opportunities
Be in low or high moments
Opportunities
Will come
Wish you or anyone dealing with self or pov perspective
Wish you all love and peace
Tip: it comes from within … it will always come from within self - to love ourselves first - that will always show to others
Wow! Solid advice. Patience is key, opportunities will come.
Your not a bad looking guy at all and your very sweet!
Thanks! Likewise, you're a very beautiful woman:)
You look like a good guy, just be yourself.
Thanks man!
You got to get butt naked and stand in front of a full length mirror then ask yourself honestly " is this what hot women want"? Thats what i did then made changes and decided im happier being single with just friends with benefits 😆🤘
Thanks for the advice!
What I did, was just walk away. If you get a woman, you'll wish you didn't. I can give 25 reasons to stay single. Bedroom fun is boring. Women are boring and expensive. Just walk away guys before they steal all of your money and happiness
I did think one time. Women make fun of our weights, but men also do the same thing. Weight does matter most of the time.
@@Goodgoy369Having fun with your left hand ?
@Wangootango well I am white and Christian, therefore I have control over my impulses and I don't need to fornicate. Celibacy is a necessary part of a man's life if he wants to achieve something great.
I do not think matches on tinder prove that you are attractive. The camera angle can warp your face and make you more attractive then you are in person
That's true, many women are experts in that.
3 haircuts per day really helped me
Really? I only get one, once a month
So head, face, and balls?!
Have you tried Grindr?
I'm not sure if that's a joke or not. But I'm straight.
@@AZrakoon you could always try men out.
@@Scifi4life nobody chooses what you're attracted to, no one decides to be gay.
@@AZrakoon some men do. They get married and have kids. They cheat on their wife with a man though.
😭 lmao
Don't bother with online dating. You're better off looking for people with similar hobbies & interest through activities. At least then you're meeting people in person and engaging with them.
I was trying on those sites for years without a single date to show for it. I've actually had more success on social media.
The issue with online dating is people will always want better, Turning philosophical here, but you're never good enough online. Someone else will 100% always catch the attention of others and you'll be slid to the back of shelf and ignored. The sad truth. Get yourself out there and meet people in person.
Exactly!!! Results are going to be better in person than some gamified app.
btw these guys telling u to lose weight is actually bs ppl who are not in the best shape also get into relationships boogie did it when he first got married & she was big like him who cares
A lot of kids don't know anything about dating other than these blackpill and redpill people tell them. I don't have a hard time dating, I'm just helping these young men who want to date women. If wanted to get a date by next weekend I could pull it off. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate you:)
@@AZrakoon any time boss wishing u well
Man if you can make people laugh you have it. You have to be fit to get a woman, no way around that man. They want arm candy just like we do.
Thanks for your comment 👍
Neither can I, brother. Keep your head up.
Thanks man!
Dating apps aren't worth it, looks aren't everything but it gets you through the door, ignore what you can't control and obsess over what you can
Its that simple, but humans are over thinkers by nature. We all need the reminder. Thanks so much!
Forget Tinder. You will not find quality women on dating apps.
Well said my man!
So, where do you start?
@@TimeCapsuleClips530 Personally I would recommend not going out of your way to try to meet women. Sure, they can provide fun and comfort, but you could end up wasting a lot of time trying to find one and still not be satisfied. I think it is better to focus on your purpose and or passions.
That being said, if you live in the city, try going out to some local band shows, the kind that are at bars and small venues.
@TimeCapsuleClips530 if you have friends that are women that you already get along with and they are available, why not date them? In relationships you start off being friends, then they become something serious sometimes.
Confidence goes a long way. Don't shoot for the moon. Go for a girl of your same league.
Leagues don’t exist
For every guy out there putting women on blast for being superficial, make sure you are honest with yourself. I bet you are superficial as well.
I'm not superficial. You're free to believe me or not.
@AZrakoon That wasn't directed at you per se but to anyone who is superficial. I'm a guy by the way.
I've heard so many men in these modern times complaining that women go for looks and money, but these same men won't consider dating a woman who has a few pounds on her, etc.
It's the times we live. Take social media, for example. A nice cute video gets 10,000 views. An angry, bitter, hateful video gets 100,000 views. Men complain. Women complain. It's all anger and bitterness driven. I accept it, but I still call it out.
You have a nice face. Symmetrical. Have you looked into fasting ? Unfortunate dating is often biologically driven and about mating with someone you find healthy ( attractive )
I'm sure you will find someone
Thanks for the support! There's someone for everyone.
Dude....get off online dating. I slay and I dont even get matches on any apps lol if you do the following 3 things you will slay too:
1. Get in the gym and clean up your diet
2. Read 3% Man by Coach Corey Wayne 15 times. Also watch his youtube videos.
3. Get out and talk to women in the real world. A lot of those women arent on tinder.......
Good luck brother im cheering for you
Thanks for the encouragement! That's some good advice 👍
Brother I look like Paul walker and I still don’t get any matches 😂
Did you show the ladies your skyline?
Get them from the store, mon, they're cheaper. They even have lighters!
😆
definitely work on yourself but pls for the love of god do not buy dating courses especially from denmo 😭
It's amazing how people fall for those schemes. Dating is not hard once you know how to. You just have to go out there and gain experience.
I get matches, but nobody messages me back. Lol.
If you did get someone to date you on there, you could have been ghosted or got something unexpected. Like a Trans woman
@@AZrakoon Yeah. I know what you mean. It's unfortunate. Things like that happen. I look very carefully at people's profiles.
@@AZrakoon I'm really exaggerating a bit to be real. Like I get a message, but it's very rare that someone messages me back. People say it's not really for relationships it's like for hookups. I don't know. Lol.
@@AZrakoon I also know what you mean by the good looking guy thing. I'm a good looking guy and I never had a girlfriend.
Nice one spot on bro🙂👍🙏💯
Thanks man!
I wonder why , you got a lot of work to do
I'm not the one complaining about finding tinder matches.
You are completely bluepilled bro
I have a blue jacket
For start grow longer beard it will make your face more sexy and menly. Also lose some weight, try all posible ways of eating not diets.
Thanks for the advice! I'm not going to get a beard
Tinder sucks
I bet it does
com for algo
Thanks for your thoughts
long story short and cutting the bs it’s your weight, you’re too big man get in shape eat healthy and exercise
Thanks for your thoughts
You have such a great positive vibe and smile, don’t ever change that!!🙌🏼😃🙏🏼
Thank you, I will. Thanks for your kind words:)
@@AZrakoon
Good deal! You’re welcome😊
It’s all about looks bro. It’s over
Just need to learn how to game with women.
@@AZrakoon genetics proceeds any game.
If she doesn’t find ur physical attractive then your game would be useless
@@WildThoughtsAI how come I can find dates?
@@AZrakoon do most of them get anywhere?
Or are u getting the lowest quality women?
@@WildThoughtsAI sorry I meant could. I'm just not intrested in dating anymore. Just helping the guys who want to find a partner. The women are good gals, they are not models, but were definitely not bad looking. I was going through a lot at the time, to go further.
This came into my TH-cam feed I’ll reply with real advice. You have to level yourself up in all aspects untill your at a good baseline and keep improving, rate yourself honestly out of 10 and see what you can go up its like a video game even if it’s by 1% overtime your stats build up. looks /health /finance I would say just first glance your about a 3.5-4/ 10 . If you’re rich this doesn’t apply at all you can be a slob smelly overweight ugly and you would be fine. At your level your at a disadvantage but a general rule you can at max go up 1-1.5-2 points when dealing with women if your a male . You should be aiming as you currently are for 3s-4s maybe a 5.5 a 6 if your super lucky. Good news is you can improve, start dieing small baby steps small workouts learn invest your time In fitness. Improve your hygiene and wardrobe, improve your financial situation as much as you can. If you don’t want to put in the effort to level yourself up and take a shortcut ,just travel overseas I suggest East Asia , Thailand/ Philippines or South America were you will have an easier time as you are .But 90% of us have work to do improve. Wish you best of luck . 🤞
Thanks for your thoughts!
just change you profile picture to a famous actor, you'll get lots of matches.
I'm not on tinder, but I'm sure its been done before. Women wont take you seriously.