REAL Tinder Profiles That Are Getting Matches And Dates
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- What are do REAL tinder profiles that get matches and dates look like?
I'm going to review 4 Tinder profiles from guys in my community which actually get results - So you can see what kind of profile is really required for your online dating efforts.
It's true that it can be pretty hard to get matches in the beginning, but there are many different looking guys getting lots of dating success online with different kinds of profiles. Which one is most like yours?
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First three guys are handsome and would get matches no matter what. More regular guys would be better
Not true, with the exception of Sandric who already had great photos, other guys struggled on tinder before they got great profiles together.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Regardless, it would be nice to see more normal looking guys in these types of videos.
@abhi reddy Why would you swipe on left on good looking woman if her photos are bad? I personally would swipe right.
@abhi reddy Ummm, no. You can tell a lot about a person simply by looking at them. Whether it's a selfie or not, I don't really see how or why that would be a defining factor. For guys however, I can see why professional photos would provide the money shot as it were, because it implies value of done right.
Don't be so sure, I've seen handsome guys with absolute dogshit profiles and they fall into the few matches few likes hole
The first 4 guys
Super attractive = Dating coach “great quality Tinder photos.”
Last man
Only decent looking guy = Dating coach: “ I know you could do better with your photos.”
Here are the varieties of successful Tinder profiles: being a 7/10, 8/10 9/10 or 10/10 in looks.
Exactly my thoughts when I watched the video! The first four guys could only upload one of their "worst" photos of themselves, leave the text space blank, and they would still get plenty of likes and messages.
none of them was a 10 or even in the model categorie. they were okay to good looking. alex was around average.
@@sjondon5218 if those guys were only okay looking, it's no wonder some men struggle to get laid and need to look up dating advise videos on the internet in desperation.
@Jack Dorsen I'm sorry to hear that dude.
@Jack Dorsen If you're high enough IQ to earn a lot of money you might get a chance by geomaxing.
Also, how old are you?
So basically the idea is to be 6 foot tall, have a lot of money to hire a hairdresser, an image coach to pick cool clothes, and a professional photographer to take model pictures of you while riding your private yacht or jet, and doing some crazy sports, and eating in overprized places. Cool. Cool. So basically... there is no actual trick to make a tinder profile better, just pick the best photos and make a funny punch line. And if you dont have money and are 6 foot tall then you wont do good either. Nice. Just like my experience taught me.
No, even a smartphone camera will work, what matters the most is looking fun and happy, it doesn't necessarily have to be you doing an extreme sport. Put an effort for one month and take some photos (preferably not selfies), test your photos with photofeeler till you score the best that you can. I used to be in the same position, i was getting 1 match a month and now that i improved my profile with better photos i get 15-20 matches a week which is great for me considering that i'm a 5-6 out of 10.
Yeah you don't need to be rich or have fancy items - BUT you need to put in an effort to look as good as you can, and get some great shots of yourself. I'm 5 foot 8, and don't have professional photos in my personal profile. Just good quality photos of myself - and none of my photos suggest wealth in any way.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Been spending about 10k a month on escorts with the annual sex travels as well and been seriously thinking on the ROI of getting the 30k surgery in Shanghai. Currently I am 174 and they can add 6cm pretty easily with a 3 month downtime. I already have a chiseled model face and 6pack of abs but am just to short. Women just don't notice me at all even with my 8% body fat. I am also a millionaire with my own AI computing company but women don't really seem to care. If you were in my shoes would you do it considering its 30k and 3 months downtime when I already spend 10k a month on escorts anyway? Luckily I can work from anywhere in the world.
@@Exascale what surgery gives you 6cm in height?
Fino Diez umm you don’t have to be 6 foot just be taller than 5’9
aaaannnnd i'm clearly not hot enough for tinder to work
Black pilled af
When a girl can write stuff like the thumbnail picture in the photo and gets praise by guys instead of capital punishment you know we've reached the end times.
Dating is solely based on looks.
Location, personality & careers have little to no impact on whether someone matches you or not
I don't know if you've ever been out in public but... if you go to the local shops and watch couples there, you'll find lots of unattractive men with wives and families going about their day doing shopping. How does that work with your logic?
SchoolOfAttraction those “unattractive” men fell within the range of looks those particular women were willing to settle for.
@@dantesparda7719 ohhh I see it. Your right. They're simps thatprobably have a good career and make money and the trade-off is there allowed to pump on a hot wife at night. But only because she allows it. And you're right if she had her way, she rather have the alpha it's just like you said, she may have slept with him but couldn't keep him soat some point she has to settle before she hits the wall and no one wants her.the only thing or advice I can give guys is to work on their bodyand there looks if possible because at the end of the day that's what's going to pull the female in in the first place in the personality will be what keeps her interested.
@@SchoolOfAttraction it's called settling. They're done riding the CC, ready to settle down and are willing look past a glaring look disparity for someone who won't hold them accountable or to a reasonable set of standards because that's the best the both of them can do.
You're right the 3rd doesn't add a lot, I originally used it to show I'm tall (1,95/6'5) and real because girls often thought I'm fake. Could've to do with the fact that my name on Tinder was Mister and I did 50 shades role plays.
Now I'm using my real name and also added my IG in the bio since then I haven't had a girl thinking I'm fake again, removed the 3rd pic and also had girls hitting me up on Instagram if we didn't match.
5:15 Boy, you said it!! I was feeling pretty good about Ben, good face, cuddles, saved cat, and then the "blond, angel face" just made me think "great, another guy that views us as objects". I'm a brunette btw but I'd feel the exact same way if he said "brunette, angel faces". I guess it's the same thing as if I'd say for example "my weaknesses: (insert comment about a part of a man's body)" I'm so glad you picked up on it! I love watching your videos even though I'm a straight woman 😂 You're teaching guys excellent advice!
Thank you! Glad you're enjoying them :)
I think I'm rather attractive. I always grew up not thinking so but as I've got into my mid 20s to late 20s everyone has told me otherwise. I dont get matches and I think my photos are good. I've never figured it out. I recently went to Monterrey, Mexico and got all kinds of matches within no time with the same profile. I live in a southern US college town and I often feel like I'm not the style women around here like because if they did I would get a lot more matches than I do.
You were a white guy in mexico, of course you got matches. They assume your probably american and could be their ticket out of Mexico. Im pretty sure you can go to any crappy country and get tons of matches on dating websites.
@@twistedinnocence8617 you clearly havent been to Monterrey. the tech/money capital of mexico
@@MarshallSmith27 same here man. I've been told I'm good looking and have attractive women checking me out when I'm dressed well and with a nice haircut.. but I'm not photogenic.i had to come to that realization. I've done pro photoshoot last month and got almost 0 results cause the feedback I got was that it was too posed and over edited but also I didn't like how I came out.
I just recently ordered a tripod and am gonna have pictures taken of me in portrait mode well dressed with nice haircut then apply face app to enhance my face using Hollywood 2 filter and cheekbone filter. These make you look significantly more attractive without making you look much different. Then do some photo editing to make the picture come out better overall.
In the USA our pics and profile have to be top notch if we want any type of results let alone good results.
@@oscarperez5539 what you're wearing makes a big difference. The vibe you give off in the photo as well
Um 2-3 examples look like rich male models They would kill it anywhere at anytime online or off. I like the content but this is not helpful to your general audience.
Sorry this wasn't a good one for you mate - I'll be doing some more soon. Going to take some local guys who can't get any results and do a photo session with them and rebuild their profiles to show how much better than can do with some work
Yes I have to agree. This isn't practical for regular average guys. Take some average guys like you said and redo their profile and then show me some results and I'll believe.
I agree with Anthony. All the guys are male model looking, guys. Can you give an example of an average guy especially for short men like me? I am 5'4.
@lion THE KING That's definitely not true. There is much mroe to it than just being good looking when it comes to Tinder. I know several guys who were doing very well on Tinder even though they definitely weren't good looking. And at the same time I also know several guys who are pretty or even super good looking and they got barely any dates.
The problem with Tinder is that you're pretty limited in your options of making yourself come across as attractive to women; you only have 9 or 9 pictures and a couple hundred character long profile. The guys who seemed to have cracked the Tinder formula somehow managed to stick out from the rest in a positive way, which does not depend on pure physical attraction as much as other qualities (like seeming fun, exciting, intelligent, mysterious, confident, and what not).
These men don't look real. When I did indie film, the actors didn't even look like this.
I don’t think anyone should feel bad because of the guys he’s used here. Personally, I don’t find any of the first 3 guys attractive. I don’t think they’re ugly but I wouldn’t swipe right. Beauty is for sure in the eye of the beholder. I think the most important thing is the quality of the photos though.
I agree. Me and my buddy have completely different taste in women. I've seen girls that are considered hot or whatever and I'm not that into them. Sure their not ugly but nothing worth pursuing in my eyes.
True
Yes please do more of these! And tell
Us how many matches per day they are getting
So very odd, I always had the idea that tinder was just for low effort hooking up for dates. This seems slightly ridiculous, all these pics I imagine so you had to have someone take your pic which in its self is weird. This hole era of taking pics of yourself and your life has produced unrealistic expectations of who someone is and there trueselfs
Btw I would like to see you make a series of 0 to 10 where someone comes to you with there tinder profile that truly sucks, and you step in do your work with them so they get multiple matches a day. I think I remember you making some vid about 15 matches a hour/day so this should be possible and personally would be interested in seeings that
I'm actually in the process of setting one of these up :)
@@dimplesama7721 The idea is you just take pics of your lifestyle which is supposed to be naturally interesting. Not making up a profile of fake pics that don’t represent your real life, where you sit at home all the time doing nothing. Lead a more interesting/well rounded life.
What a guy has to do=Buy a service costume, get a photographer, buy a yacht to show your rich as hell but don't show the money cause that's a turn off lol,buy a lamb ,buy some friends, put in description you live in Bell Air. Yes, this all seems easy enough.What a girl has to do =just be a girl!!!😑
You forgot the most important thing! Be 182 tall and look like a male model.
Yep, it's all so fake.
It's wonderful to be a man tho ! You get to start at some place, and even if it isn't the most awesome place, you get the opportunity to craft your own world,reality and attractiveness... and all that with your own strength ! It is so satisfying and fulfilling to live a fun and adventurous life filled with passion, drive and purpose ! It is so satisfying and fulfilling to see where you came from after you've climbed to the top ! It is so satisfying and fulfilling to feel like you're the freaking boss !
On top of that, men are visual creatures so it will MOSTLY all come down to women's looks in the first place (except if you have set shitty standards for yourself or like fat and/or ugly girls), meaning that even if they have a great personality, most men will not be attracted to them. The only thing girls can really change to attract more men is their appearance. AND THATS IT. Imagin just attracting girls because you're handsome... how devalorizing ! It would mean that you're getting girls only because you look good and nothing else... what a pity. And that's how many girls live atm. How are you even supposed to feel any challenge ? How are you even supposed to feel like you've accomplished anything ?
See, what I'm saying is that you can't stay focused on the negative, it does nothing to help you, nor in your personal life, nor with girls. As a man, you were born to lead and take action, that's just how things are and we have to accept it as our nature. We were not born to be lazy... doesn't mean you have to take a professional picture of you in a freaking yaucht, with a service costume. The great thing these yaucht and service costume photos do is show women that these guys are fun,masculine, adventurous, that they have an interesting life and social background and that they are high status. They use them to demonstrate values and personality traits that women are attracted to. There are many ways to do so tho. You definitely won't get as many matches if you don't take such pictures, but it doesn't mean you can't demonstrate these values in a different way.
A woman's first test is the "physical test", where she determins if you're attractive to her physically or not, if you have a great style and knowledge of how items go together or not, if you take care of yourself or not, if you have great bodylanguage or not, if you have great fragrance on, if you're well shaved, etc... And just by taking really good care of yourself and doing as much as you can to look your best, women will assume you do the same in every other area of your life. So in the end you WILL demonstrate these values. Women also just want to have fun, they are not searching for anything serious IN THE BEGINNING... so you've gotta demonstrate that you're having fun, that you smile a lot, that you're enthusiastic and are happy in your life so they can assume that they will have fun, smile a lot, be enthusiastic and happy when around you.
@@mazentabbara3321 You made a lot of good points man. I actually heard recently an American man is highly appreciated out side of America regardless of his height, race or status. It's almost like being born in America is a status all it's own but only applies outside of the state.Lol So I'm working on my finances so I can go were I'm wanted and not tolerated. If you're not good at basketball try football. Which means if you're not good at the game try a different game.
@@mrmar-que6307 Yep, that's 100% true, that's what we call the Halo effect. Because of TV, movies and USA being the land of the dreamer, most foreigners associate "being American" with "being Cool,fun,rich and badass". Being American shows to many non-americans that you're an educated person, and since you come from a better country than them, you will be considered higher status wherever you go outside North America. However, being American in America is just like being Jamaican in jamaica... doesn't add much to your personality or background... doesn't build much/any anticipation on wanting to know more about you.
I mean, first two guys really don't need Tinder to win the game. All and all, though, it's just a list of guys that look like they have money. Definitely no magic trick here, I imagine no one is surprised by the results.
Ugly guy here: slowly working on my profile and testing filters. So far I’ve taken the first baby step and went from dating nothing to securing a date with a cute but chubby girl. Chubby isn’t my ideal type but I definitely appreciate them a bit bigger sometimes. Things I found
>faceapp “Hollywood filter” can do wonders as it brightens and darkens your face in the right areas, within a split second
>adding brightness or darkness will drown out facial flaws but don’t overdo it
>height should be demonstrated, not written down. I’m 6’4” and I found it comes across as try hard in the past using my height. Now I let my height subtly compliment my pictures
>some photoshop helps. Again, don’t overdo it so that it looks uncanny valley
Honestly, tinder has just convinced me I should try and improve myself for a few months before entering the dating scene. Like really try to get good at socially acceptable hobbies, work out more, take more opportunities, and be more outgoing. Or I could just say fuck it and drink myself to an early grave 👍
Or choice 3, stop worrying about what others say and think or trying to fit in. Don't use dating apps. Just ruins your life.
What I don't get as a female is why everything here is about the success rate in terms of quantity. Shouldn't it rather be about the quality of females and whether the two fit?
guys don't get many matches. most guys can go with only one match a week or even a month.
Quality is a concern you can afford to have once you have non-zero quantity.
Most of these guys are handsome, if they werent even getting matches in the first place that's actually depressing lmfao
I was the first one to criticize you saying that you're bsing, i was wrong. I followed some of your advice, putted some effort into getting good photos and you was right. I'm a 5-6 at best but i started getting success. To whoever is reading this, this guy is not bsing, follow his advice and you will get success.
Thanks a lot Nick, I appreciate it!
Tall chads have success on tinder. SHOCKING!!! Now show us examples of 5'1 balding asians with glasses and acne getting matches on tinder...
@rye so if u are a funny 5'1 balding asian with glasses and acne u will be successful with women?
@@samlowry9521 not on tinder. Try cold aproach!
I signed up for tinder
and went out with a cute white girl the next day
Off tinder
You don’t have to listen to this guy
you just have to be good looking
Looks its the real deal unless she is a gold digger
3:05 - cmon dude - number 9 looks the best because he looks way TALLER and better looking than the other dudes compared to number 6. Chicks would be all over that pic. The pro shots of this guys profile are kind of ordinary - girls hate them. He'd be better off with less Peter Posey shots to be honest. Number 8 is just weird. Number 2 looks like he's petting the dog out of obligation....and the dog doesn't even like him :-D
he's also got waaaaay too many pics. 4-5 is the magic number. Always leave them wanting more.
His bio is fuckin laaaaaame as fuck too. Girls don't want bullet points. They want your profile to take them on a journey and convey personality without being generic as fuck like this boring asshole. I know nothing about him but can already see he's an asshole because he's so uncreative and passe. Shit man, you're a fucking teacher like me and your profile sux, LOL.
I've done a lot of real world testing - more pictures NEVER hurts a porfile unless they're bad photos. So while your rational makes sense, it doesn't actually play out in practice .
@@SchoolOfAttraction but that's my point. You and very few other guys have insight and testing enough to even KNOW what the difference between a good and a bad photo. Girls have a sixth sense for choosing great pics of which they usually possess thousands. Guys typically dont take many or have awful photos. By adding a bunch of photos they increase their chances of one of those being a BAD photo by virtue of simple ignorance. You can also risk coming across TOO narcissistic with lots of photos - it's like pouring the act on too thick and being trying too hard - so I think the less is more principle holds true - leave a bit of mystery for the girl to pursue.
@@carvedouttastone while I partly agree with you, I've gotten great results using 7 pics, more than when I used 4-5. I look at it this way: An attractive, high value guy with an awesome life would have way too many amazing pics so it's even hard to just choose a few.
i agree with the comments here.. the first two look like the typical handsome guy in the buzzfeed articles. It isnt relatable or helpful, to a regular dude.
The 2nd guy has nice photos that normal guys can reference - the snowboarding, back shot at the beach, the yacht shot. The up close facial shot should be avoided at all cost for normal looking guy.
These comments are so defeatist, I downloaded the app yesterday and got 9 likes in 2 hours with only 2 pics and one was just a stupid meme, I felt like it wasn’t that hard to get likes but the comments are making me feel like it’s impossible that’s why you literally just can’t listen to negativity
As a woman I find the first 3 profiles too perfect and artificial, that would put me off i think. Last profile feels most approachable, but I agree, the photos feel dark and negative
Photos needed (high quality + filter , no selfy)
1. In a suit
2. Lifestyle (money not too much)
3. Social proof (laugh)
4. Sport (be a real guy)
5. Cute Animal
Bio: Joke and question (swipe right if...)
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After using tinder the following is what is assume. When my elo rating falls down, the girls appearing in the stack are the not so pretty ones. Meaning that when my elo is down, low elo rated girls are shown to me. When my elo rating is up, like when I text a girls quickly, I see pretty girls in the stack. Meaning that I'm shown girls who have a high elo rating. So can I assume that my elo rating is high when I'm shown pretty girls in the stack? Please answer.
Yeah, I mean it's a bit more complicated but this is essentially what's going on man.
Ben (the first profile) got his bio from a youtube channel called Playingwithfire. Word for word.
OOh well that's good to know, you definitely wouldn't want to copy a template word for word, or women will start to recognise it. But he does get good results with it so far to be fair.
@@SchoolOfAttraction The channel is very small
Actually no, that exact template (i've since discovered) isn't fro Playingwithfire, its from another really big group originally.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Well I did see it there first.
@@SchoolOfAttraction What is the other big group, if you don't mind me asking?
Sandric's profile - photo 2 needs to be his first. Number 1 needs to be his last. Begin and end with impact and a smile photo kills it if its the last photo the girl sees. Number 8 SUX get rid of it. So does number 6 (the woman is in the foreground and he's being overshadowed by her) and 3 (shitty lighting photo) 1, 2, 4, 5, 7 are great.
Sandric looks like a leader of some kind and a good social pic of him would of him standing in front of a group of guys taken with his back to the camera giving a speech or making them all laugh. THAT would be a killer shot.
Yep
Ben getting a big fat egg, he's going on lots of dates which are leading him no where, kinda like this RED FLAG profile, next profile. 😂
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YESSS, Please show more profile that get results and review them: Also please telll us what is the results they are getting. Like they get 3 dates/weeek and what quality of girls they are getting like in terms of their 1-10 scale>
All you did was show good looking model dudes. FFS, ofcourse they get results. Tinder is so superficial.
Those „good looking model dudes“ have done a lot to look how they currently look and worked on their profile for years.
Isincerity: most of male looks is skeletal, high, shoulder width and facial bones. Those guys should not be at such an advantage in a sane society. That's why women's sexual selection ability has to be restrained when attempting to create a cohesive and healthy society. Apps like this that amplify the inequality caused by this are truly cancerous.
tinder is not superficial, women are superficial
@@samlowry9521 YOU are superficial too
This was very informative video.Thanks mate.
Thanks for just confirming that if your attractive it doesn't matter what you put as your pictures or bio you are automatically going to just get matches. I know it wasn't your intention but it's exactly what happened. Online dating just it's meant for below average men, it doesn't matter how much work or effort you put into your profile, you just won't get the results as these men or others like them.
I Actually have confirmed this before in other videos - if you're below average in looks then Online Dating isn't the optimal strategy - cold approach is. Average and above you can get deent results online.
@@SchoolOfAttraction I've watched quite a bit of your library so I've seen those videos. Wanna know what most responses I get are? I'm laughed at, ridiculed and generally ignored. I don't go out looking like a mook, I take pride in dressing nice and looking my best. So what's the other option if neither work?
Neither? I didn't say 2 things.. I said online dating youi need to be above averge - with cold approach you don't need to me. If you're getting laughed at and ignored, you're definitely doing osmething wrong - I can't say what exactly, but no clietn I've ever had in 13 yearse gets simply ignored or laughed at by women he approaches... Sure it happens time to time, but it's not a normal response he'll eexpect.
@@SchoolOfAttraction I don't know what could be wrong with introducing myself and engaging in a little bit of conversation. Following your advise and others who say not to just stick with small talk and extrapolate beyond that and when I approach and even attempt to engage in conversation it's exactly what what happens 90% of the time the other 10% women engage me whom I'm not interested in
And honestly this isn't unusual - I know lots of men with this experience - there's always stuff happening that's causing the results... It can be a whole host of things... Awkward uncomfortalbe body language from the man can make the woman feel uncomfortable... Not smiling at all can feel confrontational... Monotonous dry voice tone can be an energy killer in a bar environment - I can't say exactly whats' going on without seeing you - But it's not specifically your looks there that's the issue. Obviously if you were a super attractive man, it would be easeir, and women would overlook more of those other social issues.
But what kind of girls we talking? I get plenty of 6s interested, met up with too many unfortunately. Are you talking actually datable women or 6s?
You are The Guy !!!
Not me coming here looking for slightly above average guys profiles
Man that last profile really wasn't that great. I don't see how it's getting many matches.
Great video, helps a lot. Problem I have with putting photos up that show me in good lighting, is that I look complete opposite I bad lighting and sunshine 😂 and I feel like I'm lying or portraying myself in the wrong light? No pun intended
Hi, would you recommend resetting/deleting my tinder account every 3-4 days. It's known that we get a boost for the first 2 days with plenty of matches and likes, but after day 3 we only get 1-2 likes a day if any, at least thats how my experience is. Or should I wait one month until resetting the account to not harm the mysterious ELO score?
No, because Tinder penalizes people who reset their accounts too frequently
Very insightful video! Keep it up!
Thank you! Will do!
He's trying to attract a man then yes, you can add sports and a sail boat, men like all those things but the majority of non gold digging females don't like those things.
My pictures on Tinder doesn't look as sharp as they are in my gallery. How do I fix this?
These usually sharpen up after 12-24 hours
@@SchoolOfAttraction What do you think about that ElO algorithm? Does that still exist?
Well technically it doesn't' exist anymore, but Tinder still has a ranking system that works more or less the same way with a few minor changes.
i'll be honest i think im probably slightly to average, i have gotten professional photograph done specifically for dating apps as I have the means to and I will say there is no way in hell i'll get the results these models get(1,2 maybe not 3). I will say proper photograph makes a difference. Either find a friend that knows or is practicing photography or just pay a pro it makes a difference. End of day tho you'll not look anywhere like 1 or 2 photo tho...
Hey Kai, great looking guys will always do better than average looking guys - BUT as you said photos can make a big difference - I'll also say this - Of all the 'professional' photos I've seen for Tinder - 70% of these professionals do a very average job unfortunately, so they charge guys money but have no clue really have to get great tinder shots.
So much work into those profiles no wonder I can compete.
Ok but you get photos of me doing stuff. I don't have an Entourage? Hell I'm lucky to a single friend.
Everyone's like the first two are models and then I'm like wait I'm better looking then both of them.
Shows profiles that get matches and they all have 1 common denominator: An attractive guy in the profile.
5:18 The main problem with what is said in ben's profile is that it's about their looks, which can come off as shallow and also quickly turns off any girls that don't want to know if they have an "angel face." You can show you have standards with a comment on their personality instead as long as it is easy for them to put themselves in and see themselves with you. Ex. "Looking for a sweet girl to spend my days with" says I have standards and am not looking for just any girl, but it could still definitely be you
bro put Ben's bio on an ugly guys profile and girls will cringe lmao
ExaCtLy!
Thanks for the evaluation, I’ll be sure to let you know how I go!
Nice profile man 👌🏾 I wonder why Tinder let's you keep using a Pic with their logo tho
You can get away with so much being good looking. You can be awkward, shy and say the creepiest weirdest shit and comes off to girls almost cute.
5:04 feels more like a shopping list. Just me?
Step 1 - Model photos/look like a model
Step 2 - Be 6 feet tall (Or lie about being 6 feet tall for my risk takers)
Step 3 - Have a good income and life that can be communicated through photos
Step 4 - Grow a full perfectly groomed beard
Step 5 - 4:15 17:07 Make profile jokes and comments that would otherwise make you look like a creep or get you swiped left unless you've achieved steps 1 through 4.
Conclusion /watch?v=h3EJICKwITw
You think that I look like a model? I'm so flattered :)
@@SchoolOfAttraction I was talking about your 3 friends. But you should have no trouble ringing them in either besides you not being over 6 feet.
Dang man I was hoping you'd show the second guys bio! Especially since you said he does a lot of testing....all good tho. The Bio is the hardest part for guys, great vid otherwise
I would have shown it, but unfortunately he didn't send it through to me in time to make the video
But pictures matter much more than a bio anyway, I've probably tested about 50 different Bios. They mostly help with conversation, but less with getting matches, if anything it's a filter.
@@SchoolOfAttraction No prob, great video. I hardly ever see videos like this, very helpful
@@Sincerity1993 I'd still like to see a video about some of the different bios you use, I've noticed a big difference in the girls I match with based on just changes to my bio. Regardless, maybe we can another vid talking about some of the bios you've tried out. Wishful thinking
Where can someone get professional photos in the Brisbane area that one could use in their dating apps?
Hey Shonky - I do photos for guys profiles here in Gold Coast, but I don't know anyone I'd personally recommend up in Brisbane at the moment.
The problem with this is these guys are like top 1% in attractiveness. Do this with some average looking guys.
For now definitely watch this one - th-cam.com/video/6Z-acxS5Wfo/w-d-xo.html - And I've just done the first half of shooting with two indian guys for their tinder profiles for before/after results
Hold a random baby and say this is me holding my nephew that's better than having a puppy, don't kidnap any kids please use a baby from the family or a good friend.
You'll melt every woman's heart, first practice with a doll before attempting the real thing. 😂
its easy when youre just incredibly good looking... but for guys that arent.. ouff
1, 4, and 7 should all the on the top, remove the pictures of him and his boyfriend's you don't want to distract her from you and now giving her more options like your friends.
Why are guys who are not considered good looking triggered by this? Saying you have to be good looking for tinder to work. It's the same for females, girls who look like models get lots of matches and messages. Girls who are okay looking and considered 'pretty' by a lot of people have a hard time on tinder as well. I know this by experience.
BS. I've seen Tinder profiles of my "normal" female friends. They have tons of matches, despite looking rather average/below average.
@@byteresistor depends what they're looking for. I'd get tons of matches too if I swiped right on nearly everybody.
@@G0ldwaves Look, you may have good intentions but you have no idea what it's like out there for men.
@@byteresistor I'm sure it's not hard for good looking guys. I've dated them and they definitely have no problem getting dates on tinder. Good looking people have it good everywhere.
@@G0ldwaves That's not the point. You said it's the same for normal girls vs normal guys. It's not, not even close.
All the guys in the profiles you show are hot guys! Just face it. Tinder is not for you if you are not good looking. You have to look best among the good looking to get a tinder match. Didn't waste your time on tinder if you are not good looking. Just try something else. If you approach a woman, then at least you have a chance to say hi to her. So don't waste your money and time on Tinder unless you are a demigod.
thank you so much for this video. It's great. So many great tips. I love the concept of the 1-2 punch. It makes so much sense.
You're welcome Nick
Thanks! Super helpful
Not that it matters but that first profile was copied from street attraction I believe, a now defunct channel. I've seen it a lot, It's been overused and a woman might call you out on it, just a heads up. Be original!
Do you mean the bio? Because if you do, it's not originally from street attraction, they copied it too.
If a girl asks "what do you do for a living" how should you answer? Should you tell her a straight answer or just make a joke like "im a secret agent" etc
I always have a fun way to describe what I do - I don't say "I'm a dating coach" I'll say... "HAve you seen the movie 'Hitch'? Well I'm like will smith from that movie, only I'm the white chocolate version"
But yes I'll always be open about what I do.
I believe so much in been open... If she's going be yours then she will be....
They're all good looking tho, so it doesn't really mean much
What about the George Costanzas of the online dating world?
A "good " profile is one that depicts the person accurately...
WHATEVER they are & whatever they want.
So iF these guys r PlayAs then Its all GOOD....!
My friends aren’t taking my picture and I’m sure as shit not going to hire someone to take them and change scenery and outfits. How about girls just see what we look like, read our shit, and swipe if they like any of it.?
That's always an option, but you may not like the result... It's similar to a woman saying - "I'm just going to eat lots of food, put on weight, stop waering makeup, not wear nice clothes, stop shaving - men can see what I really look like and lov eit or hate it" - I know women who do that as well, and it's not a great outcome for them either.
If you put any female not your mom or grandma you'll get RED FLAGGED in the block and report bin. We're assuming that's your wife and it could be your sister.
Expert cuddler. Like that. ❤️
If this was resume, it would be in the rubbish bin. Who writes in point form right away, RED FLAG!!
Looks like you have to be a model
530 Matches 🙌🏼
Nice work!
How did you get that many??
@dante sparda Lol😂
Thanks in a million. Awesome.
What are your thoughts on superlike?
Superlikes are a little useful (but not amazing) IF you arleady have a profile that get some likes, and you want to make sure the woman you see is going to see you back. But a lot of guys use super like ont he SUPER-hot women who are many levels above the kind of woman their current profile is capable of matching. If you do that, you're unlikely to get any results from super-likes.
I deleted my tinder last night. Guess im just too ugly for the app
Is there a video we’re he shows his own profile?
Hey bud, yeah I've shown my profile about 4 or 5 times - my profiles changes all the time, but check my 14 dates in 4 hours video where I show one variation of my profile and explain why I chose the photos I chose.
haha this shit made me laugh asf. I remember like 20 yrs ago u didnt have to anything and girls were just texting to you at old communicators but in 2022 there are youtube channels which analysing tinder male profiles which are good and which are not cause of the need to get laid 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I understand the point of showcasing the second gentleman (Sandric). However, posting a male model and brushing off the race issue present on dating applications is a little deceptive.
All in all, good video, but there should probably be more men of average attractiveness.
Well the point was that - guys will say "I don't get results because I'm X race" then I show an X race profiel that gets good results - that means that X race guys can get results - Perhaps it's harder, perhaps there's some different hoops to jump through. But I have yet to meet a race taht can't get results on online dating - even if some races in some countries have more trouble than others.
SchoolOfAttraction That’s valid, my only issue was the statement that because this guy (who is unbelievably attractive and mixed race) got success, race is not an issue on dating apps. I get what you were going for it just didn’t come across in your video.
Fair enough bud - it's a hard topic to get right with all viewers - I'm juggling various forms of bias and emotoinal pain out there with guys.
Good video thanks for the advise
So basically what your saying is be a very attractive man between the age 18 to 35 years old and take some nice photos and....Voila, women match and actually message you back. Thank you for your invaluable help
But how the hell do you people get so many pics of yourselves ? Noone near me shots their lives as most tinder profiles suggest
Yeah it can be hard, some guys don't live lives where they end up being n many photos. For some guys the only option is to get a photographer to take the photos. The unfortunate truth is that without decent photos, you really can't do very well in Tinder/Bumble/Hinge
How do these guys get such high quality photos?
Well even mobile phones these days can take pretty good shots - myself I'm a bit of a photographer so I always have a good camera at hand.
What do you think of a shirtless pic that shows a lot of muscle? Worth putting in or will it turn women off?
Usually, it will end up being a turnoff - I think I did a video on it a while ago - I use to have the whole 6-pack thing myself and trialed good topless pics vs non topless pics, but did better without the shirtless shot.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Okay that is good to know maybe I'll remove it and see what that changes. Is there any other way you would try to still subtly show off a really muscular physique? I have that plus height but not really good looks besides that so idk how to set up a good profile showing my strengths.
Yeah man, I used ot use a photo of myself rock climbing - You could still see my muscles as I was climbing in a tank top - so it didn't look like purposely showing off. Sports shots can often be good for showing off physique without being a turnoff.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Well all I do is lift weights so that might be hard but I'll see what I can do. Love the vids man.
Yeah I wouldn't' use a weight lifting photo... But you should be able to find a time to get a shot where your body is showing but it's not overly obvious...
Evey example guys that are better looking than me
I want to see more of these!
I went through all neuroscience literature on how to attract women on Tinder, yet, I simply do not get any matches. Zero. I have a good profile (the right keywords, funny text and high quality pics). However, women usually set an age-range and they are picky. So, on average only 1 in about 100 women in the right age-range will find me and swipe right. In turn, I swipe right on about 1 in 40 women. Tinder is heavily biased towards younger people (I'm 50y); so the chance of getting a match is about 1:10:100:40= on average 1;40.000 ! Just to get a match. So, if we assume that I get a date in 1:27 matches (that’s the average number of matches to get a date for a man), I have to swipe 1 million times to get a date! Seems hopeless.
Don't know what neuroscience literature you're reading but the way to be successful on tinder is facial surgery
1:40 on your part? Where the heck are you living? Also, fake your age (-10 years or more in your case) or hide it.
@@svenphil8879 I live in Munich. I get matches when I travel to the US or Asia, but not here in Germany. High quality women are almost never on Tinder so there is no good chance to find an attractive girl. For example, all my female friends would never ever consider to go on Tinder. Beside the fact that they are never single, they just don't need it, they have more options than they ever need.
I spent hours on getting “good” photos. Even hired a photographer. Hired school of attraction. The results: zero improvement. Got an angry response from the coach when I was not satisfied with his advice regarding photos. Basically I tried everything and all he kept saying was smile better. My smile is not good I can’t change my face. Essentially when you’re just not good looking enough he just says get better photos and then won’t really explain how to maximise the looks you have or at least be real and say you’re just not good looking enough
U should not pay money to these guys. It's all about looks and puas know it but never tell u
1st wonderful he's smiling and happy, and now here where it goes downhill he's trying to look seriously but sexy but all I see is someone stole his rainbow, nothing like taking a picture in the dark with faint light in the background where you're squinting, once again stop posting pictures with your back to the camera, it's not comforting or welcoming.
2:04 Who knows where that statue is?
Yo disfruto viendo tus recomendaciones me ha costado mucho, conseguir alguien normal, yo soy professional, muy efucada. Y he tenido que recurrdo a tus recomendaciones muchos scammers me han contactado es duro
¡¡Lo siento!! Hay un dicho que dice así: "no todo lo que brilla es oro" ... No tienes que creer todo lo que ves en línea. Es muy triste porque yo he pasado por lo mismo. Debe ser muy difícil para ti. Solo aguanta y la persona adecuada vendrá por ti.
So not all people have a cell phone and use dating apps and may not be all that computer savvy but get by using a personal computer or laptop and what is cringe-worthy to me is when women want men to use proper grammar and spelling and abbreviate words and they tell you this in their profiles and should not talk when I'm finding a lot of Typos and abbreviated words from women which is a real problem for me when you call us out for it and you don't bother to look over your profile... I like checking to see if your profiles are spelled and worded properly... Ladies you're trying to get a date
with some Handsome." man hoping to meet someone special won't help you get a man if you don't fix your Typos because it makes you look not very educated and not as intelligent... Women may type fast and also some say as they do with their age, oh, it won't let me go back and change it so ladies Pleeease! look over and fix your profiles... Women are not being honest by putting a different age above and saying I changed my age because the site puts me in a different age range and then in your profile you give a different age below instead of being open and honest from the start...
Women have unrealistic standards written in their profiles hoping to meet Chad hoping to meet some rich wealthy man with a house to the '9s A man who is a 10." in looks when you are not in that position or a 10." or even a 9. yourself and maybe still living at home or with a roommate in a Crappy apartment... Also, men so women don't waste your time you need to indicate to women not to waste your time because women are online JUST for attention only so you want to indicate to women not to waste your time by saying... Hey, if you are JUST looking for a pen pal or a text buddy move on
I'm not it... I don't want to be your pen pal I don't want to be your text buddy... If you are from outside of my country and you have no intention of coming over here to see me Don't message me, girl. JUST don't do it. I don't have time for you. I'm not looking for a female friend or a pen pal or a text buddy. Hey, stop using me for attention I'm not your text buddy I'm not your pen pal knock it off if you have no intention to see me don't write to me find another sucker I ain't it. Show women that you have a standard and value because if women don't respond to your message or your views when
they are viewing your photos women are not worth your time... I see so many women online that have no intention of ever meeting you... Women need to start being in reality and find a practical man who suits their lifestyle and stop trying to get Chad and the house to the '9s... The rich marry the rich and people match each other by their status and their wealth and by their looks for example you will see a Fat woman with a Fat guy not some Fat guy with a very attractive woman I'm JUST saying... People match each other on many levels. So ladies fix your Typos and get out of fantasy land and
the delusional self-entitlement issues you have with men and start being practical with who you date... The problem for men getting matches is Their LACK of RAW Sexual Presence when they write to a woman or what they write in their profile... Women are attracted to a man who has a strong sexual presence. If you want hot women to notice you, you have to project raw sexual presence. If you feel like women are generally ignoring you, uninterested in you or often putting you in the friend zone - these are all SIGNS that you're not projecting enough raw sexual presence. Those are my thoughts about men and women online.
One question, does anyone know why when I upload a photo the quality goes down a lot?
That's a temporary thing while Tinder processes your photo - should go away in about a day
Why do you remind me of Tobey Maguire 😄
I'm not saying I'm spider man - but I am say that nobody has seen us both in the same room together.... :P
How about get off Tinder and learn game.
I teach game, and I agree, it's better to meet women through real approaches - But many guys aren't ready to invest that kind of effort.