I honestly don't know what happened with us. Maybe our last argument kind of set the premise in her mind of whats to expect? She got cold feet and convinced herself it wasn't it? I mean, we were seeing each other for 5 months, and it was nearly perfect. Everything clicked. So we decided to make it official. 2 weeks later, she broke up with me. Following the break up, I did 2 weeks no contact before I reached out. I pretty much put my feelings on the table. She messaged me back saying that her routine was out of wack, and when she gets a good one going, she wants to catch up. Its coming onto 4 weeks no contact since that message, and I'm starting to lose hope. I now know what I want, and its a serious relationship. If she can't offer me that, then I guess I need to move on. The lesson: Don't trust someone who falls in love quickly. They tend to ignore their deal breakers within a partner at the start, only for them to become more apparent in the end. When that happens, they can lose feelings quite easily.
Had a beautiful relationship with this gal for 4 months. Intense, but fell apart. We both knew it wasn’t it, so in my case NC is the right move for me. She is testing waters with me, and I allow her to come to me, I stay still. Its working. I think theres a big difference of having 2-3 dates with someone and dating for several months. Both are short term, but not the same. Good luck!
I was rejected without explanation only what I can assume. I’m 20 days in NC! It was five months long. My original was 11 days and I tried to reach out and got ignored. I need to hear this. But I also don’t feel comfortable reaching out after being rejected. I don’t wanna go backward😢
My ex wants to be friends. Turns out she met up with someone she was previously in a thruple with a couple days before she broke up with me, they started dating (taking it slow). I felt the spark between them when I was introduced to the person (not knowing the history… the two of them with a dominant male who left my ex to be with the person my ex has now left me for). I’m working on letting her go since she has let me go and getting to the point where I don’t want her, sadly I’m not there yet😢
How about getting blocked in a long distance short-term relationship" 2mo" when everything was great, full of happiness ,love and respect, taking it slow to make everything happens in right time. we spent 15days together on vacation, then due to his depression ( losing her parents on Xmas), he gave closure and blocked me from everywhere. 0% chance in my case!😅😂
I was in a 7 months relationship, and he moved to another city which is 3 hours drive. After he moved in 2 weeks we had a very small argument because I asked him if he went out in a date with another woman. He got so angry and ended the call and disappeared. He did not respond to my apology messages and calls,after 5 days I deleted him and started no contact, what do you think ?
Am confused,my boyfriend just ended relationship, and said am not the problem,he is the problem and he didn't tell me the problem,he said he will tell me one day.he said no contact but he contact me when he likes to check on me.he check all my medias view my status.its been two months now,I don't know what happened I just need him back Asp please help
He is not sure yet. When he reaches out to you to check on you, leave a cold msg after like 12-14 hours. Sometimes use an emoji. Sometimes don't reply at all for days. Then say either when he reaches out next time or after a few days that I had a hectic schedule so I forgot to reply, hope you don't mind. Block him from one social media but keep the door open in another. I am just in the same situation as you are in. Try this. I don't know the result but never show him that you care about him. Love and power to you.
I honestly don't know what happened with us. Maybe our last argument kind of set the premise in her mind of whats to expect? She got cold feet and convinced herself it wasn't it? I mean, we were seeing each other for 5 months, and it was nearly perfect. Everything clicked. So we decided to make it official. 2 weeks later, she broke up with me.
Following the break up, I did 2 weeks no contact before I reached out. I pretty much put my feelings on the table. She messaged me back saying that her routine was out of wack, and when she gets a good one going, she wants to catch up. Its coming onto 4 weeks no contact since that message, and I'm starting to lose hope.
I now know what I want, and its a serious relationship. If she can't offer me that, then I guess I need to move on.
The lesson: Don't trust someone who falls in love quickly. They tend to ignore their deal breakers within a partner at the start, only for them to become more apparent in the end. When that happens, they can lose feelings quite easily.
That last paragraph was a good warning. I liked it. Thank you.
That last paragraph hits me hard… you put words on the situation I just went thru
Had a beautiful relationship with this gal for 4 months. Intense, but fell apart. We both knew it wasn’t it, so in my case NC is the right move for me. She is testing waters with me, and I allow her to come to me, I stay still. Its working.
I think theres a big difference of having 2-3 dates with someone and dating for several months. Both are short term, but not the same. Good luck!
update?
I am having the same situation going on. We haven't talked or communicated in a while.
I was rejected without explanation only what I can assume. I’m 20 days in NC! It was five months long. My original was 11 days and I tried to reach out and got ignored. I need to hear this. But I also don’t feel comfortable reaching out after being rejected. I don’t wanna go backward😢
Update?
Thanks so much for this..❤
You're welcome!
Didn't work on me
He still care about me and my kids,
My ex wants to be friends. Turns out she met up with someone she was previously in a thruple with a couple days before she broke up with me, they started dating (taking it slow). I felt the spark between them when I was introduced to the person (not knowing the history… the two of them with a dominant male who left my ex to be with the person my ex has now left me for). I’m working on letting her go since she has let me go and getting to the point where I don’t want her, sadly I’m not there yet😢
How about getting blocked in a long distance short-term relationship" 2mo" when everything was great, full of happiness ,love and respect, taking it slow to make everything happens in right time. we spent 15days together on vacation, then due to his depression ( losing her parents on Xmas), he gave closure and blocked me from everywhere.
0% chance in my case!😅😂
How are you now?
I was in a 7 months relationship, and he moved to another city which is 3 hours drive. After he moved in 2 weeks we had a very small argument because I asked him if he went out in a date with another woman. He got so angry and ended the call and disappeared. He did not respond to my apology messages and calls,after 5 days I deleted him and started no contact, what do you think ?
He's a jerk and you should be glad you didn't end up with him
Am confused,my boyfriend just ended relationship, and said am not the problem,he is the problem and he didn't tell me the problem,he said he will tell me one day.he said no contact but he contact me when he likes to check on me.he check all my medias view my status.its been two months now,I don't know what happened I just need him back Asp please help
He is not sure yet. When he reaches out to you to check on you, leave a cold msg after like 12-14 hours. Sometimes use an emoji. Sometimes don't reply at all for days. Then say either when he reaches out next time or after a few days that I had a hectic schedule so I forgot to reply, hope you don't mind. Block him from one social media but keep the door open in another. I am just in the same situation as you are in. Try this. I don't know the result but never show him that you care about him. Love and power to you.
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