There’s no such thing as love buddy. It’s a fantasy peddled by corporations to sell shit to you. Human beings are ultimately selfish and incapable of the “true love” you see in fairy tales.
I only believe in self love and that's it. Not narcissistic love of myself but confidence and affirmation of the love I get from God. I get it if you don't believe in that but I do.
@@KavlosteMeViagra Romantic relationships are not a beautiful thing. Romance causes a lot of problems in this world. Life is a lot better without romance than it is with it. Romantic love is not special at all.
@@KavlosteMeViagra you’re wrong you do realize love is conditional right it’s not unconditional everyone has the potential to fall out of love and fall in love with someone else cheating happens, abuse happens as well hell even arguments and disagreements happen and they tend to break up and love someone else love is just conditional for the most part it’s a temporary feelings one has to another and I’m talking about romantic love not parent type of love
@@unnatichoudhary2273 Sh*t 😂 This comment was a year ago and i have to confess i wasn't in a good State back then 🤣 I used to be in Denial towards love but now I'm kinda agnostic towards love I don't know if it's real or not i think people love what a person provides not the person who provides And BTW i had 2 relationships before and i couldn't feel that love that people are talking about And i always knew that this relationships are going to end but what can i do ? Right ? I just continue acting until the play is over and I'm not talking about romance here because it's obvious everyone agrees that romance is performative act But i would be glad to hear your thoughts about it
@@TheDiamondHan I’ve never been in a relationship before, but I personally believe in love. I feel a lot of love for my family and friends, for who they truly are. I would essentially do anything for them if it came to it.
@@unnatichoudhary2273 I thought you were an experienced person i thought you were married or at least have a boyfriend 😂 I don't want to spoil love and relationships for you but the fun is just in the first month and after that it's all blaming and comparison and asking for more and more till you break up I think Family love is different those are the people you lived with since you came to earth Friends provide a lot of things that we need but I don't remember ever looking at one of my friends and say i love this a guy I want to be his friend it's more like a process that takes a lot of time to ensure safety and compatibility and trust with this person Btw I don't want to put any stupid ideas in your mind Your mind is pure from any confusion and I don't want to ruin that
never loved anyone in the entirety of my whole life. even if i thought for a second, due to some sort of deepest of appreciation and positive feelings that i actually love someone, it's been a fake emotion even for me. there's feeling appreciative, grateful, investing in people you think you care about, yes. contentment, usefulness? loyalty, sure. love.. don't know about that. familiarity perhaps or habits that resemble love like a sense of consideration or responsibility or chivalry towards another person. maybe you identify with them in some way, maybe infatuation, but the sooner we stop lying about this non-existent, fleeting, temporary lie of an emotion, the better the world is and the less expectations we have about any relationship dynamic, period. it's not real. never was. never will be.
Let me explain to you. You love someone when you invest in them and they invest in you (e.g. family members) If you're not willing to invest to each other, there's no love. And people confuse sexual attraction with love way too often
If sexual attraction is confused for love at high rates, then they're essentially indistinguishable. If I get omicron it might be slightly different to the delta variant, but they're both gonna feel pretty much the same.
You don't select your sexual orientation or even decide who you want to find attractive! You don't govern or regulate the "reward" chemicals flooding throughout your brain, encouraging you to pursue someone, like oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin ect. Say you have two random people who had never seen each other prior to getting invited to a mutual friend's house and they instantly become interested in each other. Neither of them are involved in the psychological subconscious process or the involuntary, physical processes. So it's completely random! Love is a illusion!!! Most long marriages are just people getting complacent, settling, afraid to be alone ect...
This video is beautifully ironic in that it debunks "big love" as an illusion and then promotes "real love", which however is yet another illusion/fantasy... It was pretty good all the way up to that point.
You can't enjoy it, because it's an illusion and conflicting chaotic brain chemistry that makes you lose rationale and act with impulsion and not calculate the consequences of your actions
Real love is platonic.Loving someone personality is also a hoax.Because personality can change(not much but it can).Also if you loved someone just because they are cool or great,so what about their hard times in life?I just want to add on these few points,not only dopamine but the entire romance is delusional.
Love is not only intangible, but also undefinable. Both of these things support the idea that love is simply a philosophical fabrication associated with a specific sequence of neurological processes. Humans like to poeticize physiological functions, and that includes the chemicals that drive humans to mate.
Love is a choice, a commitment, a bond formed between people that endures through thick and thin, an acceptance of another person and caring deeply about another, wanting them to be happy and to cherish and love them deeply.
That doesn’t exist because nature or evolution never intended for us to live this lifestyle. You want to have a romantic relationship because it benefits you, therefore relationships are a give and take, it’s a business. Love is an illusion.
People like to say nowadays that love doesn't exists like they came up with something huge. Love comes in different ways. And it can be good or bad. Healthy or unhealthy. It encompasses many ways and many forms. Even the short termed ones due to hormonol raise. Still it's in the spectrum of love. Even when there are conditions. There's also the choice, the commitment, attachment, friendship motherhood ,brotherhood, platonic ones, instinctive ones, unconditional, blind ones... Still it's love in all forms. When you say love it doesn't have to be a "good" thing.
Eomantic love with bring you together but not the real live that will keep you together. Love is an action, a commitment that loves despite your feelings, attraction
I hate love, it disgusts me, never understood it, never will, people in love are like people on drugs, you no longer recognize them, they become selfish, they behave weirdly in an animalistic fashion. I noticed this with my male friends, once in a relationship, they change, they're hypnotized. What makes a man a real one is being true to their word, once a girl comes in, this is all washed away. I feel creeped out by people holding hands or having sex.
If love isnt real. Then whats the point of even living. Not even tryna sound suicidal. But like if you live life with the mentality that you never will find a girl who will appreciate you for you are and want to be with you. Then lowkey whats the point. Because that idea could be applied to other relationships aswell such as friendships etc.
I understand what you are saying.I recently realized i need to look for love in myself so that it can't be shattered.Once i remove all the illusions and see reality for what it is ,and finally love myself,then i can intuitively know if i my love for a women is real or just an escape.I have been so obssesed with finding my princcess who will love me so i could be kind to her and give her the love she deserves and forget about my existence.But MAAAAAANNNN!!!!!! If i could put all this energy of my external love searching into myself,then i think I'll be able to fly and walk on walls
love never going to be my reality so i intend on being single for the rest of my life never had it good with women so i am best out of it all they have never enrich my life so much has allways been missing and lacking and i cant see it ever been any other way
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story. Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.
I think real romantic/relationship type love is quite rare. It means having to sacrifice for each other, which not many people want to do. It's more lust, then when that wears off, breaking up. Which is sad.
@@janecosmic1565 If you love your spouse more than your parents, then you have no loyalty. You are not someone that is worth developing any sort of emotional bond with. Parental love is stronger by far than any other love on earth, pure and simple. Blood is thicker than water. There is no comparison between the number of divorces one sees, compared to the number of parents who disown their children. Parental love is almost totally unconditional, whereas any other love is totally conditional. The love between a parent and child is the most powerful in the world. Unrelenting and unconditional. It never fades. Romantic love, even marital love, can fade just fine. You’d get your parent or child’s name tattooed on you. A spouse or partner? Bad idea. Marriages don’t always last. Family does. Society forces you into monogamy, the only natural thing in this world is your parents, your children, and death. Romantic love is at the end of the day a construct humans created. Sibling love is also almost as strong as parental love. Platonic love can also be pretty strong too and can be as strong as sibling love.
Love is NOT a Sensual Emotion... It is a State of Spiritual Integrity!!! SPIRIT IS THE ONLY PRESENCE! Everything of Spirit is Imperishable, and that Which is not of Spirit is not a Reality.... Everything of the Senses is Perishable because it is not of Spirit(the 5 senses are the World's Greatest Criminal).... As a Biblical Mystic, the Activity of Truth in My Consciousness is: Where everything appears to be, only Spirit/God is!! Therefore: I am not in this world to acquire or achieve anything: I am here as an instrument of God/Spirit to bear witness to Spirit/God's presence. I have appeared for one reason, that God/Spirit, through me, may be made manifest on Earth. I have appeared for the Glory of God/Spirit, not for my personal glory, not for my personal reputation or my personal wealth, but appear that Spirit/God might be Glorified as His Love shown forth through me! I Love You, and Peace Be Unto You!!
It's important to separate lush and sex from Love. That is not Love. Love is when you care about someones well being and are willing to do anything for them. Also you are willing to sacrifice selfish ambition for them. The bible also says there is no greater love than for someone to lay down there life for a friend. Lush is fickle, fleeting and expires after a while. Then you find out the person you're with isn't the best choice for a life partner. You were booty blinded 😅
If love is illusion that already negates the concept of god. You christians are all the same. Constantly using spin, constantly ignoring all the key and especially scientific points against the idea of god and constantly reaching while accusing anyone else of reaching. Just because no matter what happens, a fleet of UFOs nukes half the planet, the universe begins to get swallowed up by a black hole, whatever, you bible types feel the need to ignore it and revel in your mystical, magical nonsense fables doesn't mean we have to be dragged down with you. That's all god is. A concept, an idea. And the idea of a father figure living in the clouds is a pretty childish idea at that.
@@Bigpitbull509if you were fat ugly and broke do you think any woman would want you? Be realistic so you start to work on yourself get in better shape and earn more money while taking care of your appearance and now women start to notice you but even though you have a better chance of finding love is it really love? Do they really want you for who you are or is just because of the external things about you? That’s why I believe love is fake.
@@olentangyriver1191 Knot true bee cause Amen can love a girl he does ant find attractive,But women Kent. Men go after sex because men are the pursuers. Meaning, day learned this love thing has know value two women. The own Lee women hoo ✌️✌️ love them are the ones hoo want two lay down width them. Meaning, men have no choice but two pursuers them as sexual objects.
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Too much music, movies, tv shows, books and social media talking about love is poisoning me
There’s no such thing as love buddy. It’s a fantasy peddled by corporations to sell shit to you. Human beings are ultimately selfish and incapable of the “true love” you see in fairy tales.
I can't agree more...love is just an illusion.
no you're just hurt
@Puer Mortem And you are just an incel
@@KavlosteMeViagralove is only in the brain. Money only matters in this world
I only believe in self love and that's it. Not narcissistic love of myself but confidence and affirmation of the love I get from God. I get it if you don't believe in that but I do.
@@KavlosteMeViagra Romantic relationships are not a beautiful thing. Romance causes a lot of problems in this world. Life is a lot better without romance than it is with it. Romantic love is not special at all.
Romantic love is a dangerous illusions
Love is just a temporary feeling someone has towards another
no, this is fake romantic love. Love is how you feel about your mother
@@KavlosteMeViagra you’re wrong you do realize love is conditional right it’s not unconditional everyone has the potential to fall out of love and fall in love with someone else cheating happens, abuse happens as well hell even arguments and disagreements happen and they tend to break up and love someone else love is just conditional for the most part it’s a temporary feelings one has to another and I’m talking about romantic love not parent type of love
@@KavlosteMeViagraYou don’t love your mother, you are just experiencing the parental instinct, which has been poeticized and romanticized by humans.
@@bunsenn5064thank you. It’s just cuz of nature they ‘love’ us.
@@KavlosteMeViagra what if a person doesn’t love their mother cause she was a b*tch?
Essentially, people like to feel high and “alive”
The Love delusion is the biggest killer.
I think people tend to act to avoid pain , and love is the most iconic play of all time
People just act that they love each other
No. That’s not necessarily true. Love is a true feeling, let it be romantic or not.
@@unnatichoudhary2273
Sh*t 😂
This comment was a year ago and i have to confess i wasn't in a good State back then 🤣
I used to be in Denial towards love but now I'm kinda agnostic towards love
I don't know if it's real or not i think people love what a person provides not the person who provides
And BTW i had 2 relationships before and i couldn't feel that love that people are talking about
And i always knew that this relationships are going to end but what can i do ? Right ? I just continue acting until the play is over
and I'm not talking about romance here because it's obvious
everyone agrees that romance is performative act
But i would be glad to hear your thoughts about it
@@TheDiamondHan
I’ve never been in a relationship before, but I personally believe in love. I feel a lot of love for my family and friends, for who they truly are.
I would essentially do anything for them if it came to it.
@@unnatichoudhary2273
I thought you were an experienced person i thought you were married or at least have a boyfriend 😂
I don't want to spoil love and relationships for you but the fun is just in the first month and after that it's all blaming and comparison and asking for more and more till you break up
I think Family love is different those are the people you lived with since you came to earth
Friends provide a lot of things that we need but I don't remember ever looking at one of my friends and say i love this a guy I want to be his friend it's more like a process that takes a lot of time to ensure safety and compatibility and trust with this person
Btw I don't want to put any stupid ideas in your mind
Your mind is pure from any confusion and I don't want to ruin that
@@TheDiamondHan Thank you for sharing your experience
never loved anyone in the entirety of my whole life. even if i thought for a second, due to some sort of deepest of appreciation and positive feelings that i actually love someone, it's been a fake emotion even for me. there's feeling appreciative, grateful, investing in people you think you care about, yes. contentment, usefulness? loyalty, sure. love.. don't know about that. familiarity perhaps or habits that resemble love like a sense of consideration or responsibility or chivalry towards another person. maybe you identify with them in some way, maybe infatuation, but the sooner we stop lying about this non-existent, fleeting, temporary lie of an emotion, the better the world is and the less expectations we have about any relationship dynamic, period. it's not real. never was. never will be.
Couldn't agree more!!
Let me explain to you. You love someone when you invest in them and they invest in you (e.g. family members) If you're not willing to invest to each other, there's no love. And people confuse sexual attraction with love way too often
If sexual attraction is confused for love at high rates, then they're essentially indistinguishable.
If I get omicron it might be slightly different to the delta variant, but they're both gonna feel pretty much the same.
You don't select your sexual orientation or even decide who you want to find attractive! You don't govern or regulate the "reward" chemicals flooding throughout your brain, encouraging you to pursue someone, like oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin ect.
Say you have two random people who had never seen each other prior to getting invited to a mutual friend's house and they instantly become interested in each other. Neither of them are involved in the psychological subconscious process or the involuntary, physical processes. So it's completely random! Love is a illusion!!!
Most long marriages are just people getting complacent, settling, afraid to be alone ect...
@@Waywind420 Covid is 'In Silico'
You confuse sunken cost fallacy with love.
"Take the money...honey, love is blindness."
I don't like uncertainty and excitement at all.
This video is beautifully ironic in that it debunks "big love" as an illusion and then promotes "real love", which however is yet another illusion/fantasy... It was pretty good all the way up to that point.
thank you for bringing that up and for sharing your thoughts 🙏🏼🧠
People has delusional expectations from "real love". It just chemical and fleeting. Just enjoy it and dont have platonic ideas about it.
You can't enjoy it, because it's an illusion and conflicting chaotic brain chemistry that makes you lose rationale and act with impulsion and not calculate the consequences of your actions
Real love is platonic.Loving someone personality is also a hoax.Because personality can change(not much but it can).Also if you loved someone just because they are cool or great,so what about their hard times in life?I just want to add on these few points,not only dopamine but the entire romance is delusional.
Yeah loving someone for their personality and nature is also not true love, it's very conditional and ego based
Finally someone said it.
I think love is like having a best friend but different gender.
What about gays and lesbians
@@Sangeetwithpooja 😂😂😂😂 who cares
It's an animalistic weird thing, I feel disgusted by people 'in love' that's just my take on it, they do their thing, I do mine
When you're only loved as a man if you have a job and can provide stuff 😬
Not exactly authentic is it.
Love is not only intangible, but also undefinable. Both of these things support the idea that love is simply a philosophical fabrication associated with a specific sequence of neurological processes. Humans like to poeticize physiological functions, and that includes the chemicals that drive humans to mate.
So Underrated video🙌
Love is a choice, a commitment, a bond formed between people that endures through thick and thin, an acceptance of another person and caring deeply about another, wanting them to be happy and to cherish and love them deeply.
Yes,but that doesn't exsist.
@@FishFlags1780it has becamed rare, but it does.
That doesn’t exist because nature or evolution never intended for us to live this lifestyle. You want to have a romantic relationship because it benefits you, therefore relationships are a give and take, it’s a business. Love is an illusion.
People like to say nowadays that love doesn't exists like they came up with something huge. Love comes in different ways. And it can be good or bad. Healthy or unhealthy. It encompasses many ways and many forms. Even the short termed ones due to hormonol raise. Still it's in the spectrum of love. Even when there are conditions. There's also the choice, the commitment, attachment, friendship motherhood ,brotherhood, platonic ones, instinctive ones, unconditional, blind ones... Still it's love in all forms. When you say love it doesn't have to be a "good" thing.
Fr can't agree more
Love is a dance not everyone is prepared for... How do you find eternal dance? You treat it religiously, and with discipline.
Idk why but i found this video after reading the manhua LoVE IS AN ILLUSION and searched for it In YT. Btw this video was great!👌
Appreciate that ! 💫
Eomantic love with bring you together but not the real live that will keep you together. Love is an action, a commitment that loves despite your feelings, attraction
I hate love, it disgusts me, never understood it, never will, people in love are like people on drugs, you no longer recognize them, they become selfish, they behave weirdly in an animalistic fashion. I noticed this with my male friends, once in a relationship, they change, they're hypnotized. What makes a man a real one is being true to their word, once a girl comes in, this is all washed away. I feel creeped out by people holding hands or having sex.
Make believe people just want to use you
Fire video bro!
Appreciate it bro 🙏🏼
Loved it!
thanks for the dopamine rush 🙏🏼🙏🏼💫
Real Love❤️💫💫
🙏🏼
no such thing
Not real
If love isnt real. Then whats the point of even living. Not even tryna sound suicidal. But like if you live life with the mentality that you never will find a girl who will appreciate you for you are and want to be with you. Then lowkey whats the point. Because that idea could be applied to other relationships aswell such as friendships etc.
I understand what you are saying.I recently realized i need to look for love in myself so that it can't be shattered.Once i remove all the illusions and see reality for what it is ,and finally love myself,then i can intuitively know if i my love for a women is real or just an escape.I have been so obssesed with finding my princcess who will love me so i could be kind to her and give her the love she deserves and forget about my existence.But MAAAAAANNNN!!!!!! If i could put all this energy of my external love searching into myself,then i think I'll be able to fly and walk on walls
love never going to be my reality so i intend on being single for the rest of my life
never had it good with women so i am best out of it all they have never enrich my life
so much has allways been missing and lacking and i cant see it ever been any other way
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it.
In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story.
Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.
I think real romantic/relationship type love is quite rare. It means having to sacrifice for each other, which not many people want to do. It's more lust, then when that wears off, breaking up. Which is sad.
@@janecosmic1565 If you love your spouse more than your parents, then you have no loyalty. You are not someone that is worth developing any sort of emotional bond with.
Parental love is stronger by far than any other love on earth, pure and simple. Blood is thicker than water. There is no comparison between the number of divorces one sees, compared to the number of parents who disown their children. Parental love is almost totally unconditional, whereas any other love is totally conditional.
The love between a parent and child is the most powerful in the world. Unrelenting and unconditional. It never fades. Romantic love, even marital love, can fade just fine. You’d get your parent or child’s name tattooed on you. A spouse or partner? Bad idea. Marriages don’t always last. Family does.
Society forces you into monogamy, the only natural thing in this world is your parents, your children, and death. Romantic love is at the end of the day a construct humans created.
Sibling love is also almost as strong as parental love. Platonic love can also be pretty strong too and can be as strong as sibling love.
i have had female partners but never loved a women in my life and im 45
and they sure didnt love me
Love is NOT a Sensual Emotion...
It is a State of Spiritual Integrity!!!
SPIRIT IS THE ONLY PRESENCE!
Everything of Spirit is Imperishable, and that Which is not of Spirit is not a Reality....
Everything of the Senses is Perishable because it is not of Spirit(the 5 senses are the World's Greatest Criminal)....
As a Biblical Mystic, the Activity of Truth in My Consciousness is:
Where everything appears to be, only Spirit/God is!!
Therefore:
I am not in this world to acquire or achieve anything: I am here as an instrument of God/Spirit to bear witness to Spirit/God's presence. I have appeared for one reason, that God/Spirit, through me, may be made manifest on Earth. I have appeared for the Glory of God/Spirit, not for my personal glory, not for my personal reputation or my personal wealth, but appear that Spirit/God might be Glorified as His Love shown forth through me!
I Love You, and Peace Be Unto You!!
It's important to separate lush and sex from Love. That is not Love. Love is when you care about someones well being and are willing to do anything for them. Also you are willing to sacrifice selfish ambition for them. The bible also says there is no greater love than for someone to lay down there life for a friend. Lush is fickle, fleeting and expires after a while. Then you find out the person you're with isn't the best choice for a life partner. You were booty blinded 😅
If you love a creature more than the Creator, Then you will never found love. Love is for god
If love is illusion that already negates the concept of god. You christians are all the same. Constantly using spin, constantly ignoring all the key and especially scientific points against the idea of god and constantly reaching while accusing anyone else of reaching. Just because no matter what happens, a fleet of UFOs nukes half the planet, the universe begins to get swallowed up by a black hole, whatever, you bible types feel the need to ignore it and revel in your mystical, magical nonsense fables doesn't mean we have to be dragged down with you. That's all god is. A concept, an idea. And the idea of a father figure living in the clouds is a pretty childish idea at that.
God my ass😂
Fuck god, this is his fault
Hurr people hurt other's 💔
Love is poison
I hate my life.
Your "real love" is a delusion.
I was told that infatuation is fake & love is real
Both are fake
@@anon2218 how is love fake?
@@Bigpitbull509 it’s an illusion
@@Bigpitbull509if you were fat ugly and broke do you think any woman would want you? Be realistic so you start to work on yourself get in better shape and earn more money while taking care of your appearance and now women start to notice you but even though you have a better chance of finding love is it really love? Do they really want you for who you are or is just because of the external things about you? That’s why I believe love is fake.
True love is real but the thing is its only given by men to women.... women will never truly love a man
It's the other way around, men see women as valueless sex objects, and use them based on looks. Men aren't capable of love just lust..
@@olentangyriver1191 Knot true bee cause Amen can love a girl he does ant find attractive,But women Kent. Men go after sex because men are the pursuers. Meaning, day learned this love thing has know value two women. The own Lee women hoo ✌️✌️ love them are the ones hoo want two lay down width them. Meaning, men have no choice but two pursuers them as sexual objects.
Get some things out of some one money then more on to the next person
Be single woman just about money be single get a dog
Oksitocin.
Love, a word used to imply a connection. I love lamp, lamp give.me.light
Love doesnt exist and you dont know what you are talking about.
You’re right it doesn’t matter 😂