She's Not Ready For A Relationship? Do THIS & She'll WANT You!
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My name is Brandon lol
thank u soo much for ur advice Apollonia!!!! I really need this. My gf has stopped replying to my texts, or replies any of my msg after 2 days. Please help!!!
I'm good fact I was single for 39 years and I turn 40 on Oct 27 I don't need a woman I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy.
Thanks for speaking honest. I think I'm being dumb since I really felt I love her deep down .
Because I don't wanna lose her I'm acting childish for few days. Pretty dumb to look at myself .
She have less confidence in her and she's kinda lowkey goofing around.
My girl and I are close like a year. She literally acts like my gf but when I confessed her a day before she said she's not ready for any relationship.
But she always cringe on voice msg.
Idk so I told her let's take some time. And she's still haven't pushed me back. She's good.
And now I wanna work on myself so I hope things will go good between us.
I don't wanna get obsessed and behave stupid.
She said this then 2 days later kiss me then a week later put up a Wall sigh stress
the secret is to do nothing. back off and move on. take the rejection. it's better than getting friend zoned or getting played.
Word man
Lol happens but if they really want you they’ll come back around…happen to me because I took her for granted 🤷♂️
@@emanuelgarcia7946 In your case, how long did it take for them to come back?
@@pedrosantana4135 don’t even sweat it man, fuck em. If they come back embrace them, just be yourself and focus on things that make you happy. If they don’t come back don’t even think about it, write about it, and move on. Women will come as I’ve learned, don’t move with emotion, move with the intention of getting to know someone values, what they’re willing to sacrifice in the now not even for you for themselves, be patient. They’ll expose themselves
@@emanuelgarcia7946 how long did it take for her to come back?
She’s not ready for a relationship... with YOU but she’s ready for the guy she’s really into
Always ask yourself “if Brad Pitt was here, would she be ready for a relationship?” The answer is always “yes”.
You are so right!
exactly
She's not yours. You don't own her.
But she's ready for Chad and Tyrone. But once they're done with her. By then she might be ready for you after she's had 2 or 3 kids with those guys and have broken up with them.
Focus on yourself. Show that you're the stronger one and that you don't need them. Chase money and success, not people that waste your time. You don't need validation from anyone, because once you become successful you'll be looking down at what held you back in the first place.
Wow
Powerful
Facts
I pray that you become a millionaire before 2025🙏
Now that was some inspiration brother!
Don’t tolerate anything less then what you deserve. If someone isn’t willing to show up for you, why should you show up for them?
That hit me hard
Fucks yea!!!
Facts
Fr I got friendzoned but I ain't taking that level of disrespect
Stop worrying about it don't read in to it
she said she aint ready yet!? so I started lifting weights I'm not ready yet either self love comes first
Lol 😂
hell yea
Get shredded brahhh
money and confidence is better than muscle though
yeah buddy lightweight baby
Everytime a girls says I am not ready for a relationship indicates the guy is chassing and is trying to lock her down to a commitment. Remedy for this, let her do 100% of the calling, texting and pursuing from this point on and when she reaches out show your best self and live in the present those three HANG OUT, HAVE FUN, HUCK UP. Keep repeating that.
Faxssss
Mr. Wayne
But what if you live together? (She’s my ex)
@@orlandoigno482 You okay man?
What does “ huck up” mean ?
Yeah, a woman who's coming from another relationship can be very slippery. She can give you mixed signals. See, she desires a man to fall on to and help her heal, but as her heartbreak eases out, she soon begins losing interest in you because she wasn't ready, she was just healing, and you happened to be a convenient medicine.
Ouch that hurts!
This is happening right now with my situation. I called it from the start but still entertained it anyway. My mistake.
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T DATE ANYONE JUST OUT OF A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP!
@@dannywholuv duuude!!! Same here...
Smart
@@carlito0143 it sucks doesn't it. What makes it worse I feel I done everything right with her EXCEPT trust my gut. Now she's done with me, my obsession with thinking about it all has my mind in overdrive. Never again...
Hope your feeling better about it
The truth is if a women says she's not ready...she is not ready for you (she don't want you )
“I’m not ready for a relationship”? , I only said that to females I didn’t want, so let’s be honest yall SHE DONT WANT YOU., she getting with every guy she actually wants, move on y’all she going to want you after she’s used up., MOVE on for the better and you gone Attract so much more trust .
It's a hard pill to swallow, but it's the truth.
Agree
What if she says shes not ready for a relationship with ANYONE? Is that also BS? I guess context would matter
@@lexicon4u 99% of the time it’s bs
Facts, now that im 30 I match with dimes, to bad most of them have more than two kids, smh.
Bro if a woman is really into you, she'll find a way. If she is not ready - most of the time, not always - the desire ain't their brother. Just move on putting your inner child on a pedestal never a chick, ever. Forgive yourself, forgive yourself.
Facts
Used to think like This but there’s many cases when a girl really is into you but she’s really not ready for emotionally love yet
@@theworldisimmense could be, but so? If she's not ready, then the relationship can not happen. And that means it's the wrong timing. And that means it's the wrong person. You cannot talk her into being ready, and "waiting for her" is not right, as it will put your life on hold and get you depressed, and she might never be ready.
1. She’s not ready bc she’s trying to find herself or just out of a relationship
2. She notices she’s in control
Reason #1 applies to me situation
Or shes too stressed or shes busy with her study or hobbies or it could be anything.
just move on and find somone else who is looking and ready. its her loss, not yours, not something to think and stress over. just move on, you will feel better and stronger and come out looking strong.
Relationships now is all about who can beat the other in a mind game. For me, if I can't be myself, then I can't give myself. These videos literally teach people to pretend.
Go watch the Quiet Man with John Wayne and Maureen O'Hara. Great romantic comedy set in turn of the century Ireland. Drama and emotions...as human as anything else.
As Spock said: "who said humans were rational?"
Unfortunately, this is so true and it sucks. But it's a game now and to come out on top, you have no choice but to play the game.
Not true. They're rare, but there's others out there who don't want to play the game.
The first one was spot on. Dated for 3 months and yeah she “loved bombed” me. All over me and wanted my attention and then boom she hits me with the breakup text of “I’m not ready for a relationship”
let's be honest, most girls do this at the beginning of their dating life, We all know what happens in the "She wants to finds herself" phase, and it never ends until she hits the "Wall"
Then she becomes desperate because she is running out of time
How old is she when she is running outta time. I got one who at 32 still looking for fans lol
FACTS!!!
@@CBRRR-eh3ky Would someone please answer this man.
@@daviewz9335 It depends on the woman, simple. Don't wait around for her to figure it out. Just live your life and cut her off.
shes not ready for a relationship but when you get your money up and can provide and can support her financial needs she will be ready for sure
Unfortunately that's how alot of ungrestfulll girls are. Just focus on the willing ones to avoid the gold diggers
Naija guys knows the secret.. hahahaha.
"she's doing this because she's in control"
You said it all, you nailed it Appolonia !!!
Thank you.
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Nah i was in love once and I didnt want a relationship. I dont like sex and I like being single.
Wow .!
@@xdaydreamerxyou for the streets
she is in control of making more bad decisions that go wrong and she ends up feeling sad and heartbroken she thought he wanted her for a relationship but it was only one night.so she keeps making the bad decisions.
Thank you for this one. My ex would throw bread crumbs. Spent a year picking them up hoping for a relationship again. And finally I couldn't do it anymore. The hardest part was letting go. But it was a better feeling knowing a relationship would never happen with her. And time to move forward.
Congrats....you did it....proud of you.....i done it to....just processing the fall out at the mo. Getting easier tho.
Awesome!!!! Good for you!
Yeah buddy.!
I was talking to this girl for three months. She pushed me away and then for almost couple months we avoided. But during she was coming back around I was saying hi and she said something to me finally. But one day I asked to go out and she said no. I regret asking that cause that's not what I wanted to do. Actually wanted to establish the communication and trust again
@@flint9889 leave all flaky, non commital women where they are. Let them be and let them streets take care of them. You deserve better than a half ass relationship or a half ass person
Means shes playing the field and you're not her first choice... fall back
Maybe, but it mostly means that the guy is coming on too strong. Over pursuing and acting like a woman. Or he's acting like her boyfriend too soon, or bringing up relationship topics. Causes the woman to either back off and become confused, or tell you she is not ready for a relationship and place you firmly in the friendzone.
@@craig8304 I get that, but for the guy to think or act like that, the girl must be doing something for him to think that she will be with him or that she likes him
Exactly, she's still exploring her options...fuck that, never be a bitch's second choice or her standby, get rid of her.
Lmaoo I did that and she came back lmaoo
happend to me, slept with her, and week later say she is not ready for relationship. Turn out she and her bf were having problem and using me to pull her bf back.
I just experienced number 1 and after 6 weeks I finally said all the best and goodbye 👍🏽
Don't waste your time guys.
This is me 100 percent. I watched this twice. It was like a swift kick in the nuts but i needed it. Thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Keep spreading the truth AP!
Usually, I do not comment on videos. I love the way you are unbiased, you are addressing facts about the dynamic between men and women, with zero judgment, so helpful.
JUST got out of 3 months of talking to someone who “wasn’t ready”. Learn from me. I made the mistake of still talking every day. We played it out, turns out she viewed me as desperate and clingy and that was what drove her away. Her words exactly. Yeah, she was into me- but it didn’t matter. The fact that I stuck around was a massive turn off for her. The messed up part is- she wasn’t worth the drama and BS. I was so engrossed in making her mine that when she finally agreed to go on a date, I cancelled the next day and ghosted her. Then she texted me everything about how I had no options and was just someone to giver her attention.
Live and learn, this is the first and last time I believe someone when they say they aren’t ready and need time.
You the one ghosted her. She said yes.. she probably thought you was playing with her. She was probably saying that to protect herself
These women are clueless
Same thing happened to me...but i was only in this situation for 20 days.Called her two times on date she said i cant...so i used two times rule and fck her off from me forever.
Only problem is that we work together and i apply ignore mode on job
Wow! This video was so solid! 🔥👌💯 This was literally one of my latest relationships. You hit the nail on the head! I now have a better understanding. Thanks for what you do Apollonia
thank you, that was very usefull. Especially bcs I‘m stuck in a situation where this video fits prefectly. Stopping to overvalue her and rather focusing on myself
keep up the great vids
This help me out, I just got out of a toxic relationship and it’s crazy how this came up on my page thank you so much and I appreciate your video and keep making love you contact
Ponti that’s some real talk & all facts 🙌🏿
You're amazing Apollonia! Thanks for always giving great advice!
These are tips that I feel we'e all heard and should know, but it's always refreshing to hear them again and to help us build confidence back in ourselves. Thank you for another great video with great tips AP!
Yeah buddy.!
Thank you so mis ponti you've always been of help on my side right form day one I wish all people that are struggling with love would watch this
You really hit the nail on the head with this one. Thank you!
Slowly but surely I’ve manifested the information you give in your videos to achieve what I want
This was very helpful. I could see some of my dominant patterns in what you shared. Thank you!
Love all your advice Apollonia! You've made a Huge difference in my life, and i thank you for sharing your information. Perry
Thank you for this. Really needed it tonight.
Thank you for making me look at myself and not just blindly run into a bottomless pit thank you so much Apollonia
This video helped so much. Saw I was attach to this girl and I really wanted things to work out with her. She told me she wasn’t ready and I took a look at myself and realized i needed to work on myself after getting so attached so quick. Told her I didn’t want to remain friends anymore, she offered me to stay friends again and declined once again and gave her to offer to text me again if she felt ready. Have that self respect for yourself. If she wants you bad enough and if she was telling the truth she will come back. In the meantime you will be alright and eventually someone else will come along.
Great information, Thanks! Working on the Pro/Con list. I appreciate you!! 💖💖
Among the hundreds of videos I watched, I found the video that belongs to me in the end. Thank you!
So on point! I definitely relate
Thank you for such great advice, it’s been harder since I work with her. But, it’s been about 3 weeks of me just evaluating myself so I don’t fall back into something that isn’t shown to be wanted by her. Keeping strong, Love your work !!
This video is what i really needed. THANK YOU SO MUCH
The entire video is so good but that control bit, so so true. Apollonia you are amazing
She did go all in and said it during the breakup a yr later. We had the same energy back and forth, but a yr later, stress with family and me being "understanding" and saying sweet things and showing appreciation.. she seemed to get scared and put on breaks and said she is too stressed for a relationship now
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you
What If she says she us not ready for a serious relationship but she needs a man
Good Afternoon Apollonia, very awesome video you shared today
You make perfect sense especially the last part I think I feel like reaching out because of the idea of the person instead of being in reality
ultimately it depends with what happened with her past and you finding out. If a girl likes you, she WILL tell you what happened in her past. She will give you hints and clues and its up to you to find out. Dont be direct, don't be forward, let her OPEN up. You can only tell what "I am not ready for a relationship" mean if you actually know her. If she was badly hurt in her past, shes will be hesitant with you because she doesn't want to be hurt. If this is the case, DO NOT FOCUS ON FORMING A OFFICIAL RELATIONSHIP. This is will just scared her. Instead make the FRIENDSHIP be about showing her a FUN time, enjoying the moment. DON'T PUSH IT. Once its established that she likes you but shes scared to commit then there's you reason why shes not ready for a relationship. Like she says at 7:22, DO GO ALL OUT, CONTINUE JUST DOING WHAT YOU WERE DOING. Be CONSTANT, give yourself DISTANCE as well to show her that despite you wanting something with her, you are STABLE enough to GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE. If you go ALL go in, she WILL Be scared because moving too quickly IS a huge red flag to her. BUT ALSO have RESPECT FOR YOURSELF - Don't limit yourself to this for too long, continue doing what you were doing for her to let you know she likes you but isnt ready for a relationship and keep at it steady. Be a FRIEND for her and little by little she will open up. Pay attention to ANY and ALL flags she puts up because these flags WILL come up again. In other words, be patient, don't show her that you are NEEDY or CLINGY for her, just be there and continue doing what you are doing. Remember, the interactions you have with her should be FUN, as two besties going out, she will open up with you and she will be then be ready.
You just hit it spot on!It's exactly what i'm going through,she's been through alot and was badly hurt and etc She tols me she's not ready a few days ago and before that when we would have heart to heart convos She's tell me she is scared of being in a relationship
I had this just happen to me. She wanted me so much in the beginning. Even asked me if I was seeing other women... Really thought we were on the same page.. Then almost overnight one day.. I go from being babe to im not ready for a relationship
That's me.
Me too. Fucked up shit.
probably you tell are your single
Why is that you think?
Glad I’m not the only one so sick of winding up at ground zero every time
THANK YOU!!!!
I needed to hear that.👍🏼🙏
This is solid advice. Much needed to bring perspective and insight. Peeling back now.
Haven’t been to your page in a while but this video is the first one I’d seen in a while and it’s like you were talking to me lol gonna come back more often thanks!
1.Definitely can’t ignore red flags. No. You aren’t gonna be the one that it’s different with.
2. If a woman ever says she’s not ready for a relationship or wants a break, she high key doesn’t respect you.
A. She’s not afraid of losing you. Why would she risk losing someone she really wants to be with?
B. She’s trying to find something she views as better
C. She knows she can mess around and comeback to you. She thinks you’re not confident enough to find someone else. You’re basically a back up plan.
2) is not necessarily true. By telling you she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, she is actually respecting you by being true to herself.
And what if for example some guy speaking with a girl didn't even ask about relationships, but the girl brings it up that she's not ready for relationship? Surely she aint talking about the guy
100% accurate.
@@mikewilliams9069 Yea some of these dudes are butt hurt af. The girl I'm dating now literally always contacts me first we just kick it and have a good time. She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and I'm said cool me either and she said i don't want you to think I'm wasting your time. I said lets just keep having fun. A lot of these guys are crying because they actually want a monogamous relationship they seek it out I'm just enjoying my life. When she said that nothing has changed. Still doing all the contacting everything. So it doesn't mean she doesn't want you I know from experience. She dead as might just not be ready and that's cool as men you shouldn't be concerned with locking her down anyways.
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May God bless you and your colleagues. Thank you for your guidance and great videos. It’s always good learning from your teaching.
I love the way how you break things down Appalonia, it seems you have a deep understanding of these topics and human behaviour if i may.
Happy Tuesday Apollonia! This is very useful information. I've gone through the experience in the past where the girl told me she wasn't looking for a relationship and I tried to pursue into hoping to make it into a relationship and it backfired on me, and not something I would recommend. If a girl tells you she is not looking for a relationship, just accept it and move on from her as there's plenty of women out there
Hi Apollonia, I have been following your advice since a couple of years ago and I really appreciate what you are doing and want to say thank you for it. This video fits perfectly in my current situation and helps me to manage it the proper way. You are absolutely right
This video was extremely informative. Great content Apollonia. Thanks.
This was worth the watch.. so informative & of great help. Needed these tips at the moment. 👌🏻
Thank you, I've been feeling so confused for the past month after asking her if she wanted to be in a relationship, her answer "umm I'm not ready for a relationship but we can be exclusive, it's not like I'm gunna meet anyone anytime soon" after 9 months of dating. Took a step back as I couldn't carry on and she hated it, making me the bad guy. But after watching this and reading the comments I feel alot better and know what I want/should do.
This video REALLY spoke to me in many ways. It's time to move on and cut out the BS she's giving me
Amazing information. Thank you.
Need to hear this. I'm going through alot with this girl. I need to see my value more. Thank you
good speech, and also when she says she's not ready, then she's not ready for you, but she might be ready for someone else... that's another truth to keep in mind and not waste time thinking things will improve if you wait for her to decide... she already decided
This is spot on! This is exactly what I'm dealing with. Thank you for putting that truth out there!
I'm not ready for a relationship I'm 39 years old and I turn 40 on Oct 27 I don't care to have plan on having kids. Being single feels good.
There are so many people not ready for a relationship.This woman doesnt know what shes talking about.
Thanks for this video coach I needed this so much 🙏🏻
Thanks Apollonia, great advice!!
A well spoken video and a point you made about a man being too focused on a woman because he doesn't have other women in his life. I experience this terrible reality. Dating apps for men are a disaster, no women available in my line of work, and the pandemic is also a factor where there's zero nightlife culture available. Women are the more privileged gender in the dating world. Women are flooded by men on dating apps.
I don't go on dating aps
Much awaited 💯
NICE ONE AGAIN APOLLONIA!!
This is amazing and absolutlely correct. I have been through this. This video is very enlightening and an eye opener. I appreciate you Apollonia!
Thanks for this 💯💯
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Great vid I’m from Baltimore Apollonia resonate even down da hill and ova west peace to everyone who reads
Wow this is so educational...Apollonia
I swear she's talking about my ex-girlfriend. I walked out of her life and deleted her text messages she sent me without reading them. It felt so satisfying not knowing what she wrote me.
if she's not ready for a relationship it is because she is not interested in you
if she was interested, she would be ready for a relationship period
What if she has never been into one, im in that situation right now
@@xxunprecidablexx6709 same my case she doesn't have in any relationship & she also doesn't have male friends & I m her bestiee but she wants me as bestiee always
@@adityaagrawal8156 leave her
Absolutely true
I just wished this had been put up earlier. but thanks AP, great insight and i totally agree.
Yes ! Thanks Apollo ! Smh this happen to me last week tbh I was like “what the” I walked Away haven’t heard from her 🤷🏽♂️ exactly what you said crazy lol
Truth be told after years of a verbally physically abusive marriage I would say that it's not love that she's afraid of she's afraid that any man would be just like the person who destroyed her. it's shame she is a good woman deep down inside but I think for her this video actually explains a lot more than I thought at the time and opened my eyes
You and your team deserve whatever riches come your way Apollonia! Thank you for helping us clueless guys try to get our dream girls! Many of us suffer for years making well intentioned mistakes and screwing up what could have been a great thing so many times. Priceless advice!
right. She does it for humanity! 🙏
Facts
Exactly what I needed to hear, thanks
This is a better video in my opinion then a trip advisor video. My favorite relationship video
Perfect video for my situation. Thank you much. I'm almost at the point where I'm just going to give her space and leave her be. She's not really giving me much and I haven't done anything to her to make her pull back. I think reality is setting in for her and she's realizing she's not really ready for a relationship. I honestly respect that. Nothing can hurt worse than a breakup that I went through with somebody who I was truly in love with (different person). I have moved forward and became a better person, but finding someone who knows what they want is the real deal obviously, not a poser. This woman should figure out what she wants before coming off like she is ready to be in a committed relationship. I also saw your video on dating older women. Older women are my only preference, and I know they're not all perfect, but there is a lot more success.
I’m in a similar situation. Started off as fun. She developed feelings for me. Those feelings was reciprocated. Only thing I didn’t like is she put a time cap on me making her my gf. She’s very insecure I knew I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone like that. I used to to attract insecure women in the past. She actually admitted she’s insecure and not ready for relationship which is a relief because I’m not either. When a women says she’s not ready it’s not always negative. I’m seeing a lot of toxic answers in the comment section. Most women are insecure and let it consume them and get into toxic relationships for validation. The ones that work on themselves and know they’re not ready are the keepers. Someone who is self aware
Totally loved it. Big fann🥂
love this! straight into it!
I think you just saved me from something bad with this video.... . Thank you!
Glad I could help!
Another good one🤩🤩
Thank you 😋
Great Advice, Great Video!!!
you sought out my life ! thankyou , i am going through a similar situation wherein i brought the relationship stuff too much and i had ( which i am not proud of by any means) similar desires , and i immediately realised i did something wrong, she became really uncomfortable even when i apologised several times , she couldnt calm herself down . I hope i sort this out quickly and end it peacefully
It she says she’s not ready for relationship she means she is not ready for you . Women usually line someone up before they dump someone
FACTS!!!
It’s definitely number 1 for me. We started dating 13 days after her last relationship which was traumatic for her. She love bombed me hard. I didn’t know what to make of it because that’s never happened to me. What you said would probably happen, happened. She started to get a little hot and cold. She met my parents and put on this show for them about how amazing she is. She had me drive halfway across the country to meet her parents. That’s when things really started to change. She went dead cold. I ended up leaving there early and driving home by myself. When I was gone she started texting one word replies, still telling me she loves me and all that. But when she got back we had a sit down talk about it. She told me she needed time alone because when she was back home, just being in the same town as her ex brought back a lot of negative emotions. She said if he called her asking for a second chance, she would tell him no but it would break her heart to do so. She felt it unfair for me to be dealing with it and she hates herself for treating me that way. She told me she loves me more than she loved anyone in her life. We clicked heavily because our minds kinda think the same. But needless to say she needs to mature a bit as well. I actually talked to coach Adrian about this and he told me to reach out to her in a few weeks because it’s trauma based. I’ve been in no contact since that day. Before she left we expressed our love for each other, hugged and kissed for a long time. I didn’t text her or call her since. It’s been almost 3 weeks and within this time, I noticed that my feelings for her may have just been from the love bombing. I’m out growing her already and noticing exactly what you said; she doesn’t make me feel alive, she makes me feel stuck in a sense and almost tamed. She cares too much about validation from other people it made me feel not as exclusive. She makes me feel like I have to play mind games to keep her. It almost feels like a high school relationship at times. 2 weeks in my gut feeling kicked in and I called it, I knew she wasn’t ready for this. She said it’s unfair to break up with someone who did nothing wrong. I said it’s fair if you’re doing it out of love knowing that if you stayed you’d just cause problems because you aren’t ready. If I’m gonna be honest with myself and show up for myself, now is the time to do so. I told her I would wait for her to be ready. Mistake by me for sure. She needs to understand that I won’t wait forever. It’s starting to feel like I should move on and start dating again. I’m a guy who doesn’t seem to have an issue with attracting women so that’s not something I’m worried about. This last girl was kinda cringe, and had a lot of red flags. She even had me share my location with her and she shared hers. I’m not into that. That shows no trust. Either way, I’m gonna show up for myself. I’m not even sure if I’m gonna contact her again. If she really wants this, she’ll contact me. But who knows. I might contact her just to see if she’s ready but honestly, like I said, I don’t even think I want to be with this girl anymore. I might just be dodging a bullet.
You have described word for word my situation. Awesome someone else is in the exact same situation (minus the location sharing). After NC for 3 weeks I start to realise I was addicted to the chemistry and not actually her. When you're in something so intense, you don't see it. Now I remember her flaws and have taken her off the pedestal I put her on in my head. Honestly feels amazing and feel like I kinda dodged a bullet. I am sure she will reach out eventually but I'm not even sure I want her back rn. Was hard in the beginning but NC and time is the way. Once you take your emotions out of the breakup, you see more clearly.
this is so true I have done this recently so great have it confirmed so I can move on thank you Apalonia
Wow. Sometimes all it takes is someone explaininh something you have heard a thousand times in a certain way. My constant mistake is offering too much of myself and not showing up for myself. Thank you
I did exactly this. She said she wasn't ready for something serious but dating for a long time being focused mostly on work I finally felt something with her. I got attached and realised I had to back off, but when i did she gave me this message about how i was different and made her feel things so I caved and went back just for her to ghost me smh. Should've stuck with my gut instinct like you said in this video. You give a lot of good advice thank you for these, now I definitely know better especially after watching this video.
She just wanted a little fun and sex. Not serious
@@TomFox1 yuup found out she's married to someone in the military. I got ghosted because he came back home.
I've experienced this.
Sounds like shes using you.
Good morning ms. Apollonia I hope you continue to keep up the great work it really helps me through my relationship much love to you & your family 🌹
You are so welcome
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Great relationship coach!!!
You have helped me so much thank you Apollonia!!!