How to Make any Man Miss You - 7 Steps that Always Work!

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  • @charliecharlton9782
    @charliecharlton9782 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3792

    In other words my mom was right. Treat men like crap and they will worship the ground you walk on. Treat them like kings and they wipe the ground with you.

    • @njisirri4103
      @njisirri4103 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saffron Jones hihihihihi funny ryt

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Sorry but your mom sounds like a bitter woman. Men suffer the same hurts we do. Treat him with love but don't be a doormat. The thing is what kind of person do you want to be..a loving soul or a bitch. Because which one you chose will make you either happy with yourself or bitter old woman.

    • @Rose-qz9vf
      @Rose-qz9vf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But he likes to talk about feminity, i always turn him down and he started to go far from me

    • @steeziesteezie8979
      @steeziesteezie8979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Nooo she wasnt...It means do and lovebyou first before you be a big ass dummy for him..AND THEN WALKING AROUND LIKE A SADDD ASS PUPPY DOG WHEN HE DONT WANT YOUR CLINGY ASS NO MORE((DUUH!

    • @solaceangel4222
      @solaceangel4222 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sharon you are right

  • @Pacifica1
    @Pacifica1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1403

    *NOTHING will ever make a man stay UNLESS he wants to be kept!*

    • @sumonsumon3686
      @sumonsumon3686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

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    • @funkybusiness1110
      @funkybusiness1110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Screenshot! Exactly

    • @heartstar143
      @heartstar143 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍🏼

    • @nhathuynhgirl
      @nhathuynhgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And if he wants to be kept and you want to keep him for good, take the tips then.😅

    • @poojaagarwal5331
      @poojaagarwal5331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true...

  • @vitabuonavita2565
    @vitabuonavita2565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Treat me like a queen, I will treat you like a King. Treat me like i'm a Game and i'll show you how it's played.

    • @lindaowen1357
      @lindaowen1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, get help from Dr Steve who can make your ex come back to you begging for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @lindaowen1357
      @lindaowen1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @lindaowen1357
      @lindaowen1357 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2347030894892.

    • @chinyeregrace9706
      @chinyeregrace9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period simple

  • @adibahimika6612
    @adibahimika6612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1298

    7.Start saying NO.
    6. Be a little mysterious
    5.Use social media to highlight your life and fun
    4. * Stop initiating communication
    3. Put yourself first
    2. Connect to him on emotionally intimate level
    1.Give him something to miss

  • @andreamartinez2893
    @andreamartinez2893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    Ladies, just have a fun and interesting life, be yourself, use your intuition and be open for new experiences. Good things will come with a good attitude and a lot of brain.

  • @cassie101
    @cassie101 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    Men have too many options to play this game with women. A waste of time. Ladies, trust me on this... If a man really wants you, he comes for you!!

    • @christinemukoroli820
      @christinemukoroli820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      true hey... if u are the one that drives him wild.. he will come eventually

    • @glammagurl572
      @glammagurl572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      GIRL THAT IS SO TRUE!!! THEY WILL COME FOR U, THE DOG CHASES THE CAT,NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND FLAT OUT

    • @Glo_up576
      @Glo_up576 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Bt honestly some women are too desperate.... I think these rules are good.

    • @lysemena851
      @lysemena851 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @kieshaunjones3174
      @kieshaunjones3174 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      fr

  • @kidistaynalem2352
    @kidistaynalem2352 6 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    7. Start saying no
    6. Be mysterious
    5. Use social media to high light ur life
    4. Stop initiating communication
    3. Put urself 1st
    2.connect with him on an emotionally intimate level
    1. Give him sometg to miss
    🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @mvpglam8018
      @mvpglam8018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Kidist Aynalem all of these are called playing games. Not all men will chase you. Some will go find another woman who is giving him more attention.

    • @kidistaynalem2352
      @kidistaynalem2352 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Pebles25
      I agree

    • @nina9182
      @nina9182 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh thanks honey 😘

    • @kidistaynalem2352
      @kidistaynalem2352 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      tita tita
      Wlkm bae

    • @piscessmith4785
      @piscessmith4785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pebles25
      So true

  • @NchangwiJudith
    @NchangwiJudith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    This is literally what I'm going through now and honestly it's hurts

    • @zezerinity
      @zezerinity 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same ╯﹏╰

    • @maimouna2845
      @maimouna2845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nchangwi Judith same

    • @keepingupwithesther1859
      @keepingupwithesther1859 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same

    • @vixen9704
      @vixen9704 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nchangwi Judith sammeeee

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh no that sucks. But remember to focus on yourself first, then you will eventually forget to miss him.

  • @boosboos4506
    @boosboos4506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I tried ignoring him for 7 days he pulled me back close to him and confessed he can't take it no more and he said he love me alot and there can never be another for him thank you sir

  • @evahmakwe5596
    @evahmakwe5596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    If he's into you, you won't have to play psychological games

    • @annarose.1321
      @annarose.1321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Not necessarily, they're not mind games. Most men, they're designed for the hunt, the chase. Once they've got what they chased, sometimes they can get a little bored or take it for granted. Like cats when playing with a toy, they like to chase and catch it, like they do their prey. But if the toy or object the entertain themselves with, just sits there then they don't chase it anymore. Same in a relationship, if you're too available then they don't have to work for you or chase you. You have to make them work for it.

    • @2sides_2everystory
      @2sides_2everystory 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@annarose.1321 That's all just GAMES. We'd only expect this behavior out of teens and young, immature men. If a grown man is acting this way, "cat & mouse", then you have a man-child on your hands. Period. No woman should have to exhaust herself by being "chase-able" at all times. FFS we have lives too. Grow up.

    • @mish6568
      @mish6568 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you

    • @Supsup7777
      @Supsup7777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Adrea James troll

    • @karenlong5282
      @karenlong5282 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Conosco un uomo che può aiutarti a riavere il tuo ex, è stata l'unica persona che mi ha aiutato a riavere il mio ex ragazzo dopo 5 anni di testo lui (+ 1..77..36..66..42 .. 81❤❤❤

  • @richellehaynes2892
    @richellehaynes2892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I've been in a worst relationship. And I did some of the rules here. And it's effective. But after we've been together again I found he didn't really change. So I realized that you don't need to do something to make him changed or make him realized your worth. If he really loves you and you are important to him he will do something to make you feel love and important without doing anything

    • @AzuraShad0w
      @AzuraShad0w 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well said 🤗

    • @lauriss2005
      @lauriss2005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Richelle Haynes preach sister

    • @akhehehe4302
      @akhehehe4302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup both should show some interest.. thats are the true love. If they dont show interest to us, just forget about them 😑😑😑

    • @mariamkoshman9161
      @mariamkoshman9161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sometimes, all a guy needs is a shock that makes him see what he's got and what he'd be losing . That's the whole thing out of this.

    • @loveslife7334
      @loveslife7334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Richelle Haynes - How about changing yourself for a man for so long you loose yourself!! But he plays games and acts like a child

  • @martygonzales615
    @martygonzales615 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is some serious moment guys! No matter how good you are, there'll be a time when he goes cold. Stay alert and remember you gorgeous! Make him feel he's not the only man out there, that you deserve better, and know that you can be happy without him. Go go people! It's like reverse psychology, when you seek on love, it won't show, but if you don't seek, it's like a magnet. Stay moisturize girls and boys! 🌸

  • @christinemusana1342
    @christinemusana1342 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2360

    I'm going to keep Quiet and start dating Jesus. Christ .

  • @sophiasonia3688
    @sophiasonia3688 6 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    If a guy is not into you .. ur wasting your time

    • @samuelhorku5489
      @samuelhorku5489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely

    • @steffaisle4059
      @steffaisle4059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How to know it?

    • @miajackson2457
      @miajackson2457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well my crush says he has a Crush on me / likes me but he’s been ghosting me recently. Yay💀

    • @ellesbelles77
      @ellesbelles77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%
      These comments are brutal.

    • @morganjosh7139
      @morganjosh7139 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 6 ปีที่แล้ว +854

    I’m not initiating any calls or texts because I deleted his phone number

    • @annieq8186
      @annieq8186 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      charlita25 girl I been there 😂

    • @arisuokada5949
      @arisuokada5949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      hahahaha

    • @dyanmeehmabs4517
      @dyanmeehmabs4517 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHAHHA 😂

    • @he1235
      @he1235 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      charlita25 me too

    • @StoniB77
      @StoniB77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      charlita25 girllll tell me bout it..

  • @sonya1827
    @sonya1827 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I say when you meet the right person for you everything will come about naturally. You will not need advice for a relationship and dating. When it is right person for you will have a connection that is for the both of you. You will know by the way you feel & the way he feels because everything will feel right. There will be no questions and excuses. You will not have to struggle and be frustrated. Thank you for this video because people need to be happy either by themselves or with someone in a relationship.

  • @christinerocha4023
    @christinerocha4023 6 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    Just go be with someone who doesn’t play with mindgames .

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sadly, there is always a game involved. Small or big. Infrequent or often....

    • @robinhansard7539
      @robinhansard7539 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whene i put a comment not aswer but i read the commentes and its not a video 4 them . Whats the problem?

    • @robinhansard7539
      @robinhansard7539 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats ok want ask you?

    • @maimelakinsley7664
      @maimelakinsley7664 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a very attractive guy I agree!!!

    • @maimelakinsley7664
      @maimelakinsley7664 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      All his tips seem evil

  • @kavithaantonyraj9818
    @kavithaantonyraj9818 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    let it free...somebody needs u, will definitely come bak.
    if doesn't, then tel urself its not your's n jus move on n b happy

  • @sonchitarahman9531
    @sonchitarahman9531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    if a man want to be by your side he will no matter what but if he doesn't he will find his way to leave you ladies!

  • @philomath67
    @philomath67 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I once held her in my arms
    She said she would always stay
    But I was cruel
    I treated her like a fool
    I threw it all away
    Once I had mountains in the palm of my hand
    And rivers that ran through every day
    I must have been mad
    I never knew what I had
    Until I threw it all away
    Love is all there is, it makes the world go 'round
    Love and only love, it can't be denied
    No matter what you think about it
    You just won't be able to do without it
    Take a tip from one who's tried
    So if you find someone that gives you all of her love
    Take it to your heart, don't let it stray
    For one thing that's certain
    You will surely be a-hurtin'
    If you throw it all away
    If you throw it all away

  • @dragon2195
    @dragon2195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    None of this would work on a narcissist person! They don't miss you or anyone else. Sadly

    • @natadisenatalie539
      @natadisenatalie539 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      So true narcs dont operate like us normal people

    • @amalawad7667
      @amalawad7667 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes you are right. They are on a whole new level of understanding.

    • @xxxvivzxxx
      @xxxvivzxxx 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      True.. but you're better off without someone like that

    • @t.y.6640
      @t.y.6640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My ex of 6 years is a narcissist and that is so true. Only misses me when he needs me for something.

    • @richellehaynes2892
      @richellehaynes2892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you..

  • @manojbasnet1220
    @manojbasnet1220 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2673

    This is the guy behind my girlfriends silence. 😡😡😡

  • @mimiadkins2448
    @mimiadkins2448 6 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    If you have to learn how to make someone miss you . Then they're not worth you to begin with 😂😂😂

  • @d.e.p.5624
    @d.e.p.5624 6 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Love seems to be such a huge game, that I'd rather give up...

    • @bulkyspark2413
      @bulkyspark2413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      haahahhaha

    • @joannhughes4992
      @joannhughes4992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      M2🤦🏻‍♀️😔🙄

    • @arianabuteragrande6788
      @arianabuteragrande6788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      D. E.P. It’s not a game when if you’ve found the right person ! They’ll love you no matter what they will love you for who you are !

    • @sheilaachieng809
      @sheilaachieng809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr and I am like wtf🥴

    • @morganjosh7139
      @morganjosh7139 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @littlecat7133
    @littlecat7133 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    These are literally all things I do 😂😂 know your worth girls ! Always remember you deserve the best ! So don't loose hope & don't find happiness on boys ! You are the only one who can make yourself happy! Don't give your 100% to anyone! Be selfish sometimes so you will hurt less!

  • @blinkeu7557
    @blinkeu7557 6 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    1)be yourself lady.
    2)be yourself lady.
    3)be yourself lady.
    4)be yourself lady.
    5)be yourself lady.
    6)be yourself lady.
    7)be yourself lady.

    • @Alicenailsart
      @Alicenailsart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      than he will run...lol

    • @Kanishka1-u7u
      @Kanishka1-u7u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blinkeu shut up

    • @um-uk5ti
      @um-uk5ti 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      this reminds me of "when's the funeral lady l" by a unknown number. he said "sorry wrong number"

    • @MakeWay4CJ
      @MakeWay4CJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah....because THAT works. Stellar advice. Thanks.

    • @jessicayoung4697
      @jessicayoung4697 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wha?\

  • @letterstojesus7879
    @letterstojesus7879 6 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Worked like a charm. Only he is proving though! He's been in relationships where women run after him. I want to change that mindset. I want him running after me

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Miss Blessings Then don't run after him.

    • @godschildakia.3524
      @godschildakia.3524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We r on the same road

    • @katywright8161
      @katywright8161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Miss Blessings giiiirrrlll, you deserve to have him running after you! Don't settle for anything less! Xoxoxo from SC!

    • @proph8772
      @proph8772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Blessings The explanation "Scent of Attraction" @pyratesmak on TH-cam

    • @CokeBottleGenie
      @CokeBottleGenie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      MEN ARE WEIRD. THEY WANT TO USE YOU AND PLAY ALL THE WOMEN . THEY FEEL THEY ARE ARE IN CHARGE. MEN ARE USERSER.

  • @alexandraquintanilla3458
    @alexandraquintanilla3458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    I think my boyfriend watched this video before me.

    • @mkbarry4588
      @mkbarry4588 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mada faka, Life’s love, There’s a powerful man i know who helped me get my ex back he can help you too

    • @sarwatfaqra9428
      @sarwatfaqra9428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I fucking feel the same manh

    • @kimrectotv5892
      @kimrectotv5892 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Feeling the same too.

    • @kimberlybuiser5299
      @kimberlybuiser5299 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol haha same thought

    • @ronalynpiano2705
      @ronalynpiano2705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      4

  • @andreealazar38
    @andreealazar38 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    These rules really work ! It makes so much sense what you are saying Anthony ! Once you lose your fear of rejection or losing the relationship, the steps you mentioned above just happen in a natural way . The bottom line is to never act out of fear ! Thank you so much 😊. Very helpful

  • @selfoclock4625
    @selfoclock4625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Let it end. Rejection, come at me! Don't fear rejection. It's seldom personal. So let it end and let's move on to better things!

  • @carriemcdurmont3960
    @carriemcdurmont3960 5 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    This was a little easier when there were no cell phones lol!

  • @majoy2564
    @majoy2564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks, Antonio, I was started following you since I was being broken hearted with a careless man, and am so thankful id overcome the depression and self-pity by being rejected, as he chose someone over me, I can't explain how he ruined my life and living it miserable everyday craving his attention, probably move on..and feel good now, after watching some of your videos.. Thanks a lot

  • @pureypotter1032
    @pureypotter1032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    Should not try this with African men,this men will think you are seing someone else and end up moving on with their life🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @npi-nidzmarolina2223
    @npi-nidzmarolina2223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Therefore the key to having a fun and healthy relationship is to primary LOVE YOURSELF and enjoy YOUR life!! not depending on other people always to have a "life"

    • @edyygurero
      @edyygurero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luv ur self until the day u die alone..afterall, u are burried yourself tho

  • @anhbianco1570
    @anhbianco1570 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been married for 16 yrs and been with my husband for 20yrs but 3 were long distanced. I did all the steps mentioned not intentionally and all worked. I still do use these steps to this day. The difference for me it was not to play any games but it's me who hate to be sitting waiting on someone... that's all :-)

  • @michellesimpson2781
    @michellesimpson2781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow - I was just about to text him that I miss him when I watched this video. So glad I watched till the end!

  • @barbierhian2906
    @barbierhian2906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I did all of this and I succeeded he loves me more than I love him now hahahaha

    • @mariados6980
      @mariados6980 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know a man who can help you out

    • @mariados6980
      @mariados6980 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Contact him
      __+2349066058910;;;

  • @usababe3955
    @usababe3955 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I 'm just being myself and that is what special about me , I'm just myself and that was more than enough to get him attached

  • @veetha29
    @veetha29 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think when it's meant to be everything will just go smoothly. No trick. And no playing games. If you still have to follow these rules, may be he is not interested in you enough. That's IMO.

    • @VidhiKhandel
      @VidhiKhandel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. I always had success with these tricks until a mature, loving man stepped into my life. These tricks did not work on him nor was the need.

    • @arresk2089
      @arresk2089 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      veetha29 Exactly! If y'all into each other you WANT to talk and see one another a lot lol.

  • @patcabaddu5640
    @patcabaddu5640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "OVERCOME THE FEAR OF BEING REJECTED" 💖

    • @clemzydrizzy6278
      @clemzydrizzy6278 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We all deserve to be happy my friend I know someone powerful who can help you within few days

    • @clemzydrizzy6278
      @clemzydrizzy6278 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348141808891 get him on what'sApp today

    • @katiedavies7093
      @katiedavies7093 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @sockslady459
    @sockslady459 6 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Just make sure the dude isn't a narcissist, or a psychopath because then he really won't give a shit.

  • @D_REALM_1444
    @D_REALM_1444 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I did all these things and then when he fell in Love with me, I got bored. The thrill is in the chase 🙈😂

    • @TheSunnyMorningsStarryNights
      @TheSunnyMorningsStarryNights 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!!
      Actually I v tried both. Being available and not being available. Both the times it's the same reaction from the guys. Either they get tired after they got me or B4 they even try. I m Soo confused on how and when it works. 😅😂

    • @aduduloveth3647
      @aduduloveth3647 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love my guy but his marriage what should I do

    • @iamthatiam8280
      @iamthatiam8280 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Adudu Loveth if he’s married dump his @$$

  • @bostongirl3137
    @bostongirl3137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    Being married for 32 years, your advices are SO right!!!! Some apply to marriages too. Great video!

    • @feligangte4084
      @feligangte4084 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      wow .. how do you manage to be married for 32 years.. i am married for almost 4 months and i feel like am his rice cooker and washing machine..

    • @adebeautybox
      @adebeautybox 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My husband misses me so much when I travel for work. A little absence makes the hard grow fonder.

    • @ellechrista6067
      @ellechrista6067 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Remi Adejobi Hey, Remi Was that a Freudian slip? 😂

    • @bostongirl3137
      @bostongirl3137 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Feli Gangte lots of patience and compromise 😊

    • @blossom4560
      @blossom4560 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol omgg....

  • @IMarie-xs5dg
    @IMarie-xs5dg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WoW!!! Just amazing! These tips really work! Sometimes I say no to my boyfriend when he wants to come over or take me out. He actually said to me, he was gonna have to start planning things for us, because he wants time with me🙌🏾 It shocks him totally when I do this, because he’s the type of guy most women don’t turn down. He says I’m different and I always stand out in his mind, because I don’t act the usual way. So he calls me all the time and text me periodically through the day and I love it!! Thank you so much for helping me be a stronger woman, and getting the things I need and want from my man ✌🏽🙌🏾💕

  • @tvalue4618
    @tvalue4618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true about telling them everything you’re doing down to detail. I did this way too much and it made him uninterested somewhat because he had a pretty good idea of what I’d be doing. This was my husband but it doesn’t matter, don’t tell them everything

  • @sharnayapril2571
    @sharnayapril2571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    BY THE TIME I'M DONE, HE SHOULD BE WATCHING THIS NOT ME 🤔😅😂😃

  • @faithamondi2106
    @faithamondi2106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I do this my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating

  • @norhayatiyussof1883
    @norhayatiyussof1883 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i cry a lot then because my bf start cold relationship... when i ask him ' u still want me?' he said ' dont think to much'... he still want me, but treated me like this... im releave listening to this video... i will try your tips... tq

  • @safiespecialtyfoods4637
    @safiespecialtyfoods4637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I agree. These are healthy for almost any relationship.

  • @angeladhyta
    @angeladhyta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I tried these steps and now I'm the one who miss him even more....

    • @khadijakolsawala9323
      @khadijakolsawala9323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

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      @mimialma7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @rosannam.1208
    @rosannam.1208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are the best thank you so much for your great advice on relationships, I had a bad break up but seeing your videos and how to get through a relationship that was not a healthy one helped me realize that if a person is not meant to be with you then it's okay to move on,,cause it's not the end of the world,,I am greatful that you explained those who play mind games and those who are narcissistic,,as well as abusive,,life is much better when you can tell how a person really is and not what he seems to be,,much love and respect for you Dr. Borello,,we need more angels like you!God bless! Much alohas,, Rose

  • @learnfromme22524
    @learnfromme22524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks you lighten me up... I love the phrase..." rejection doesn't mean something is wrong with me but he's just not the right person.":)

  • @tomomi5441
    @tomomi5441 6 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    GREAT! Now all i need is a BOYFRIEND! 🙄

  • @redberry2484
    @redberry2484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks I've tried these. It did make him miss me we have been together for years! Its time to reinforce them again!

  • @prettyassyenn
    @prettyassyenn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2369

    lol you start following these rules.... then he starts following these rules... then you both stop talking forever just waiting on each other. The stubbornness 😂

    • @saimonawafa742
      @saimonawafa742 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Lol yes i was thinking the same thing 😂

    • @DRMACK-cc1zu
      @DRMACK-cc1zu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      XO Yenny 😂😂😂 Right Yenny

    • @nonlivingworld
      @nonlivingworld 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Happened with me 🙈 now he’s happier and not missing me at all 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @athenasakorafos5032
      @athenasakorafos5032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That’s what I mean (stubbornness and Pride)!!! Walk on by!

    • @lenas2843
      @lenas2843 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol

  • @Carly-Beth
    @Carly-Beth 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% True. Everything spot on.. and it works. It's almost like doing the opposite of what your first thought tells you to do.

  • @crownjewels4
    @crownjewels4 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The whole time I was thinking of the risks, and when u said them at the end. Took the words right out of my mouth. Loved this video. Need to try this !

    • @crownjewels4
      @crownjewels4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      THANk you! Please more videos
      Like this

  • @blangkongpahinaoriginals3073
    @blangkongpahinaoriginals3073 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    7. if you say no. they find someone who is available🤣
    6.) if you keep a secret it leads to jealous.
    5.) if you show you ate happy without them. they started to look for someone else.
    4.) relation without communication they think you are not interested anymore.
    3.) having a relationship is being one with them. that means putting your partner as your priority.
    2.) if you let out your dippest secret and weeknesses you are puting your self in danger it may lead that they may take advantage.
    1.) if you leave them craving they look for someone else. same like food if your not full you look for something more to eat. diferrent taste.
    this may all lead into breakup.

    • @annikeseargeant1155
      @annikeseargeant1155 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is what I'm thinking. Because all this can be pointless. However my best advise is to be yourself. If you have plans stick to them, be considerate of your partner. Be honest and try to be sure your partner is doing the same. The thing is playing games can sometimes have the opposite effect of what you were hoping

    • @khadijakolsawala9323
      @khadijakolsawala9323 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the reality or he's just a player or not that serious.

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    @smrkzalive4774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i really love that u said"He'll be the one seeing this video"

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  • @agnespulvera
    @agnespulvera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So true, if he is not the one for you or if his feelings are not true to you then there is no reason to worry that he will replace you because weather you do these things or not he could still afford to loose you.

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  • @veronicasanders8011
    @veronicasanders8011 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    According to this. I’ll be single forever. I’m not good at doing any of this because I am used to a guy wanting to reach out to me etc....

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 6 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Saying NO and stop initiating communication are for me the basics when you want your man to miss you. But most people find it hard to these especially when they are so into the person they are dating. Been there actually. xD

    • @lnorman6116
      @lnorman6116 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's so hard for me to say "no" and not be helpful -but the rest I can do in my sleep.

    • @katywright8161
      @katywright8161 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      A True Love Official please tell me wth "XD" means! I legit have no idea...

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      @JaneCooper190072 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katy Wright lol, it's a smiley face sideways

    • @Dutchevavlog
      @Dutchevavlog 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good advice but why is it so hard to LOVE a man.? So many rules to follow. Playing "mind games" is a Waste of time.During d Time when utube advice was not yet popular... I wonder how relationships last long in d year 1960s, 70s, 80s, 90s , etc. It is better to wait for d Right man, NO PRESSURE.!

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  • @nsidenerd7thankful559
    @nsidenerd7thankful559 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When a man sees that your too much into him and you show your love they will take that as weakness and to me they become bored as if they've conquered you so now you become less interesting until they do see you not caring and moving on

  • @lindsey9460
    @lindsey9460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Honestly I love men who are straightforward as an engineering student,I'm not sure if I can play all these games(except flirting ofcourse)....

  • @myownlittleworld9216
    @myownlittleworld9216 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Make any man miss you...
    1. Start saying No.
    2. Be mysterious.
    3. Use social media to highlight your fun and independent life.
    4. Stop initiating communication.
    5. Put yourself first.
    6. Connect with him on an emotionaly intimate level.
    7. Give him something to miss.

  • @discovertrueromance6837
    @discovertrueromance6837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Falling in love with the wrong guy can obviously lead to many regrets later.

  • @melikalotfi4971
    @melikalotfi4971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Just realised that actually these are all what he is doing to me!!!

  • @leylaforever1458
    @leylaforever1458 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did all your tricks before I started dating with him we are just in a new relationship and he is all over me sometimes he would just want to see me everytime now I can't even stop thinking about him everytime thanks to u

  • @clefac6421
    @clefac6421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    This is manipulation. If you have to do these "tricks" to make your man miss you, then maybe he is not into you after all! Been with the same man for 13 years since I was 21 and I don't have to do these things to keep our relationship exciting and miss each other.

    • @hahna77
      @hahna77 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Clefarie AC A lot of people are shallow these days. It's hard to find a good, genuine person that's not always looking for something better. Just a sign of the times. Mostly a product of Hollywood and social media. I feel bad fo the upcoming generations.

    • @janeb533
      @janeb533 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Clefarie AC teasing is fun i dont think he wanted to play games just show that the woman has other things happening no one likes clingy

  • @michele6375
    @michele6375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Take your time, that can't be EMPHASISED enough!

  • @mariamistretta3860
    @mariamistretta3860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The guy like to bully me, so I said no to the guy pull away yesterday. That guy is playing mind games with me.

  • @TheBlairWenchProject
    @TheBlairWenchProject 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    _time and time again Dr B videos help me through this stuff I go through with men. It really works. Every time I slip up and forget I watch his videos again._

  • @TheReluctantCoder
    @TheReluctantCoder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    The pull away always works. Men are weird.

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Jas We are all weird be strong in yourself and don't depend on a man for all your.happiness.

    • @deec3561
      @deec3561 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soo weird

    • @dayanacastillo11
      @dayanacastillo11 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jas broo😂😂😂

  • @Dreaming1970
    @Dreaming1970 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you and I found I made a few mistakes myself by making myself too available and letting him know I miss him. That was a mistake I let my world go when I fund sketchy,one who takes internet in me that is a mistake I think from having low self esteem.

  • @jeninamaesantos891
    @jeninamaesantos891 6 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I want to try this but I forgot I dont have any man 😔

  • @ellana_music
    @ellana_music 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your videos are marvelous! I'm putting all these tips and the guy is head over heels for me!! He won't stop texting me and seeking me. I love it!!

  • @Jackson-pf5jb
    @Jackson-pf5jb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think you have the best relationship advice on here. This is what I have been implementing with my guy. We broke up and are trying this again. I have been doing alot of you've said and it is working. Now I'll implement more

  • @melani4111
    @melani4111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I know for a fact the stop initiating the communication thing works....its hard for me, but after some time, they start wondering where u are, and blow up your phone

  • @athenasakorafos5032
    @athenasakorafos5032 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I realize that I was wrong. He doesn’t love me, Just desired to use me. Always saying he found someone else and explicitly says sexual details. I don’t want anything to do with this nonsense/garbage!!! He has No status as far as I’m concerned, whether I’m out or not. The heck with this garbage!!!

    • @barbarariley3488
      @barbarariley3488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Barbara Bale Good luck you don't need to.listen to him talk about his sexual affairs. Tell him to.get.lost and you move on girl you deserve better.

    • @athenasakorafos5032
      @athenasakorafos5032 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Barbara Riley No, because I want us to work out, somehow. They say, don’t let go until you’re absolutely sure

    • @MarikaMedia
      @MarikaMedia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Barbara Bale you are too pretty to be treated like that. I hope you dumped it out with garbage. No one needs narcs in their life.

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      @demetriahoughton4341 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Barbara Bale 0.

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  • @Mariegabriele
    @Mariegabriele 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have practiced some of your methods and drove my bf crazy the difference was amazing. Deep down though I was scared I was going to lose him but instead he made such efforts that I hadn't seen in a long time.
    I displayed to him that I wasn't scared to lose him

  • @kbroyalty7
    @kbroyalty7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I love this! This works with men who are serious about growth and really do not want to miss out and being with their women; men who like women that are self-reliant and have created a life of their own and it works for people who are compatible - you are right. Many people are truly not compatible with their partners so then this becomes a waste of time for them. Truth! I just came across your video but I recently began doing some of these things prior to seeing your video and I can attest they do work. So this is just confirmation for me. You are right on point. If a man or woman was not meant to be - then when he or she do this, it is an open door for the other partner to leave - which would have happened eventually {thumbs up). This also helps women from being too needy and acting too clingy always wanting to be around their men. Men and women who are serious about making their relationships work will make it work - so it takes two to tango. This really is not a game. For the ladies this means putting yourself first and spending time with self instead of being so absorbed with him. For the men, it means seeing his woman live a fulfilled life and making her life count, then he genuinely wants to be a part of what she is doing - living her life like its golden - whatever that means for her. This only work between two people who genuinely care about each other.

    • @sarahkasembwa6330
      @sarahkasembwa6330 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Revive Lives

    • @divinefavor4376
      @divinefavor4376 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah , you’re right 👍

    • @samuelhorku5489
      @samuelhorku5489 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're absolutely right. Try this methods on a playboy,and watch them happily disappear.

  • @psalms9110
    @psalms9110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thanks Antonio. I was tempted to call him this am but didn't. Then he texted me and I didn't respond immediately . So glad I didn't

  • @wildbutterflycj
    @wildbutterflycj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Make sure you don't do this to much cause it could turn him off and it could show you're not interested. It could work the opposite....

    • @wildbutterflycj
      @wildbutterflycj 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Antonio Borrello Well thank you...I'm happy to be here....Thank you for your response. 😊🦋

  • @soniagupta5641
    @soniagupta5641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think just be calm and avoid being over excited around a guy ..and the most important thing is to look good

    • @marycool8103
      @marycool8103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This really works out for me

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      @marycool8103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can help you

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      @marycool8103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also got my ex back to me

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  • @carolane7766
    @carolane7766 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    How about stop initiating communication and how about not even bother with Facebook. Nothing like ther disappearing act

    • @carolane7766
      @carolane7766 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Antonio Borrello omg it's so hard though😂😂😂😂but I have to do it bc I'm beautiful

  • @abielvillalobos8556
    @abielvillalobos8556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was posted 2 years ago but still helpful and golden. Thanks, Doc! :)

  • @janicelisa5594
    @janicelisa5594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1) Give him something to miss
    2) connect with him on emotionally intimate level
    3) put yourself first
    4) stop initiating communication
    5) use social media to highlight ur fun life
    6) Be mysterious
    7) Start saying NO
    My life saving relationship hacks! Hats off🐼🔥

  • @ggshandsomeboy5103
    @ggshandsomeboy5103 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The man I'm dating is not into games. He said he was interested in a committed relationship. We speak honestly and truthfully to one another about everything eating/bathroom habits to bad relationships. He was not a phone person, but I told him to call me because I like hearing his voice. He calls me everyday and we text multiple times throughout the day. When he wakes he texts me good morning and he always tells me good night and texts good night again before he closes his eyes. If I cook, he cleans, etc. We are just two adults trying to make our relationship work without games.

  • @madianazulkifli271
    @madianazulkifli271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just did your tips, before i watched your video.. Haha.. Means i did something new in my life. I dont even care if i've been rejected. Cause he only knew me only for 3 days. But i live with by myself for 33yrs. Thank you Antonio.. Regards from Malaysia.

    • @millicentmboya8484
      @millicentmboya8484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi like it but I'm scared maybe he will leave me

  • @dannydaniel4024
    @dannydaniel4024 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How do people end up in relationships well guys play all these mind games? Where are the genuine guys?

  • @prettyassyenn
    @prettyassyenn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    so what if you keep making other plans & he starts to think youre not interested anymore so he gives up completely & doesnt care about what you're doing bc he thinks you just don't care either but thats not the message youre trying to give?

    • @nita_kumal
      @nita_kumal 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      XO Yenny
      Then he was never yours
      If never valued you then what is the reason of following him.
      I think he is Wright the message he is trying to give might be respect yourself and value yourself first then he will start respecting you

    • @muirnaodom9961
      @muirnaodom9961 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      XO Yenny ......smh......I don't think anyone could have put that in better words...sooo truee!

    • @KoE.Kardaci
      @KoE.Kardaci 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You have to remember he did say on #2 CONNECT WITH HIM on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL. This is the key for the other rules to fall into place. However if he isn’t reaching out to u after executing each step, well then iAgree with XO Yenny He isn’t for you.
      It will sting if you’re really into him, however just think about all the new guys that will be falling over u when u implement this wonderful tool. Remember humans actually don’t like to be blown off or ignored. So if u make yourself unavailable at there DEMAND well think of how you’ll have them at YOUR disposer not theirs. 😘

    • @KoE.Kardaci
      @KoE.Kardaci 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im sorry, iMeant then iAgree with Neeta

    • @rosealgreenwood6893
      @rosealgreenwood6893 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      XO Yenny you need to watch the whole video

  • @stellamariegarcia1238
    @stellamariegarcia1238 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION PERIOD.

  • @tvalue4618
    @tvalue4618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the best advice so far, everything is sooooo true

  • @jubaidachandni3219
    @jubaidachandni3219 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are absolutely right, I am in same problem, I should started soon this habit

  • @sharonstonelove1
    @sharonstonelove1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you very much all your tips is working for me, mine is a cheater but now since I started follow your tips and a little bit of mine he's getting himself back on track with me , thanks once again ANTONIO B

  • @JenniferNghishitendeTunga
    @JenniferNghishitendeTunga 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I did most of these things recently. I was truly busy though. But when I started trying to be more present, he lost interest and broke up with me.

  • @Dutchevavlog
    @Dutchevavlog 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Good advice but why is it so hard to LOVE a man.? So many rules to follow. Playing "mind games" is a Waste of time.During d Time when utube advice was not yet popular... I wonder how relationships last long in d year 1960s, 70s, 80s, 90s , etc. It is better to wait for d Right man, NO PRESSURE.!

  • @Fkdchic215
    @Fkdchic215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I did this to my ex of 14 yrs and he started spreading rumors on social media telling everyone I was cheating, on drugs, prostituting blah blah all of that immature bitter angry shit lol. But really I was working and taking care of my kids not going out not talking to anyone. Long story short he moved on to 6 other relationships and I have yet to talk to any guy. Don’t want to either. Not him or anyone. Focused on my self and kids

  • @ariesofwands8422
    @ariesofwands8422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Have used some of these tips and YES... they work!

    • @nakitendebrenda4909
      @nakitendebrenda4909 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for the nice video.
      At this time i have to be available to u than playing hard to get. Thank you

    • @ariesofwands8422
      @ariesofwands8422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Antonio Borrello Yes... Especially always initiating first contact. Once I stopped that... oh man did he take notice! Lol

    • @gloriaamankwah3896
      @gloriaamankwah3896 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      that shows if he truly loves you or not. If he does he will try to win you back if he gives up getting you then my friend you are wasting your time being with him.

    • @proph8772
      @proph8772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Darlene Degani The explanation "Scent of Attraction" @pyratesmak on TH-cam

    • @dorothyBIS83
      @dorothyBIS83 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's reasonable but if a guy loves me, he'll respect and appreciate me if he loves me too. He'll never take me for granted cos he loves me and if I act that way as you suggested, Don't you think I'll end up loosing him because he may think I'm not that into him?