When a Man Ignores You - This is What He's Thinking

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  • @22armita
    @22armita 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2880

    If you get ignore just move on , never beg someoneone to love you or like you , respect yourself

    • @whityunity4300
      @whityunity4300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Have also be passing through the same for sometime know matter what I do to make her love me all what I get is keep on ignoring me not even reply to me messages or even calls so I forget it but it was hard to forget but today am done with it

    • @jiele9447
      @jiele9447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      It's easy to say.. but hard to do 😢😢

    • @kambalnibellajez8917
      @kambalnibellajez8917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes you're right..its been 8yrs from now my husband ignoring me..but he don't want to go out to our house..even we're not on one bed..i already move on..why should i beg him..😒😒😒

    • @marysuzettecatipon6147
      @marysuzettecatipon6147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We both have the same opinion.

    • @someuser6796
      @someuser6796 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Salty

  • @riema219
    @riema219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1797

    i just ignored him even if i love him so much.. im so tired of being taken for granted.

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Max DG I’ve given up. I’ve ignored but it’s for good.

    • @bahamiangirl7
      @bahamiangirl7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      I give up too. Hes too much. I was gonna send him a scathing text but nah. Im good. Bye bye. Forever edit: as of today 12/21/2019 still no contact. Im very proud of myself!

    • @reenadeepak7903
      @reenadeepak7903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Same here. I love him alot and miss him. I am too fed up of taking as granted

    • @inebell3945
      @inebell3945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too

    • @ebby900
      @ebby900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's me

  • @sherisangelsthree8233
    @sherisangelsthree8233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    I live by the motto if he ignores u let him go/set him free if it’s meant to be he’ll come back to u. Stay single until u meet someone who lifts u up & wants to grow with you❤️not makes u feel bad all the time or manipulates u

  • @emmaa4595
    @emmaa4595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Don't react, don't block, don't message, don't get angry, don't give them the reason they are looking for/ confirmation to ghost you. Get busy, stay classy, connect with people who love you, focus on you for once. Take your focus away, take your attention away, your time is valuable. If they come back, monitor their actions and consistency - not their words - to see if they deserve you.

    • @faithchisom8065
      @faithchisom8065 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @shelleybutler1636
      @shelleybutler1636 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So VERY TRUE! They don't deserve us if they act this way. Emotional immaturity, control.

    • @LauraMendenhall-k5z
      @LauraMendenhall-k5z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hrs old he's not worth it hrs boring

    • @LauraMendenhall-k5z
      @LauraMendenhall-k5z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's a d....

    • @LauraMendenhall-k5z
      @LauraMendenhall-k5z 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hrs always phone says has nobody lier catch him talking someone he likes trash

  • @bettystallworth8853
    @bettystallworth8853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    As you get older you become wiser. When a person you usually chat or talk to ghosts you for a few days, it means they are with someone else or there interests are elsewhere. Honor yourself and never give in to that. Because it means you don’t love yourself more than him/her. Loving yourself more means no one will ever hurt you.

    • @SuzannaKiraly
      @SuzannaKiraly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah, chances are that they are with somebody else, but they don't want to tell you that, so they just ignore you.

    • @sitoborefaithful9368
      @sitoborefaithful9368 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If u are been ignored and u know it but you really love the person but it difficult to let them go what will you do

    • @CMilla69
      @CMilla69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true ❤️❤️❤️ there are things you may have done when you were younger, you realize as you have grown older that you wouldn't have done, had you known what you know now

    • @ausamoneh8257
      @ausamoneh8257 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Should I unfollow him on Instagram after being ignored for almost a month now?

    • @rachelsuarez5996
      @rachelsuarez5996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@ausamoneh8257 Absolutely!!

  • @lexiemaep7930
    @lexiemaep7930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1348

    You don’t miss him, you miss the idea of him. The lover he had the potential to be, rarely is it because they were ever any good.

    • @saltandpepperandmint
      @saltandpepperandmint 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lexie Mae amen to fucking that!

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No sometimes you miss the person.

    • @unsq8i
      @unsq8i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Lexie Mae Yes exactly 👍 because when you start loving someone you idealise them and become blind of their flaws until you get a wake up call, if you got it late your heart would be shattered.. If you got it earlier then you were saved, run!

    • @patriciaearley4177
      @patriciaearley4177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right we wanted them to be that great person but they weren't 🤔🤐

    • @Germatti13489
      @Germatti13489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lexie May So true!

  • @tonihines9613
    @tonihines9613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    Some of these men out here are raggedy as hell. Don't ever chase a man and never love a man more than you love yourself. If he's ignoring you, he isn't worth your time. Screw him!!

    • @florenceferdinand4717
      @florenceferdinand4717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Toni Hines amen

    • @novanae7799
      @novanae7799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      o.k., I love your term" Raggedy" ! obvious im old school here

    • @zakhelemkhonta2529
      @zakhelemkhonta2529 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @The Meek because it's selfish . Duh

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @The Meek She doesn't only care about herself. Women care too much for guys who don't care!! It is about time for her to have self respect!!

    • @jagdpanzer6689
      @jagdpanzer6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am the ideal man that every girl wants, sadly, I'm a monk now. 😟

  • @tinablando4614
    @tinablando4614 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    They are not for you , you should never be ignored. Someone who truly cares will absolutely show you how they feel by calling u. Remember actions speak louder then words. Always.

  • @DEJones-et5hd
    @DEJones-et5hd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    When a man ignores you and continues to ignores you, that means that he's seeing someone else that's a red flag. It's time to move on.

    • @undertakerundertaker5110
      @undertakerundertaker5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂Dil thanda ho rha ha wah!

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      D.E. Jones
      Or you haven’t given him anything

    • @refilwemoepje2771
      @refilwemoepje2771 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep ..i found my now Ex with someone after i gt ignored for days

    • @maricarclarete6504
      @maricarclarete6504 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ialso feel ignored and it hurt so much

  • @maxinewells7539
    @maxinewells7539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    If someone ignores you don't ask no questions. Move on & find someone that values you. NEVER reach out to someone that ignores you. They are NOT worth it move on.

    • @carmelfelynjuyno9075
      @carmelfelynjuyno9075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said miss Maxine 💕

    • @beccareynolds4625
      @beccareynolds4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maxine Wells so true 💖

    • @missminti
      @missminti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Wrong. Call him and break up with him if he begins ignoring you. Never sink to their level. Set a new tone in dating by staying courageous and polite , even when they aren’t.

  • @raninaik2207
    @raninaik2207 6 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    We should not be so dependent on someone. Our happiness is our responsibility. Forget the one who don't deserve you.

    • @palmirapagan7985
      @palmirapagan7985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So very true

    • @sharonjohns1686
      @sharonjohns1686 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      rani naik you've answered way better than this stupid video. Too much drama

    • @biancabogdan2177
      @biancabogdan2177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think we need to differentiate being dependent on someone from having our needs.
      I’ve been in this kind of relationship and it caused me so much headache that I started to think that maybe I have an anxious attachment. But after 5 months I realized that I didn’t and all I needed was to share with him my happiness and wanted to be listened to. I wasn’t needy or clingy, I was just in love with the wrong guy.

    • @jeffherbert5696
      @jeffherbert5696 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m trying
      Btw I’m using his account

    • @mariowilson9536
      @mariowilson9536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeffherbert5696 you can see more with that phone your holding contact via WhatsApp +447495039516 or email cybertechhacker03 @ gmail com, for help

  • @missminti
    @missminti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Break up with him if ignores you for more than three days. Seriously. Don’t allow him to ghost or reward it by staying silent. End it and walk away politely and set a new tone in the dating game.

  • @friendzforlyf
    @friendzforlyf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    If he ignores you... Do not send any text or msg... Even if it kills u.. Even if it's painful to be away from your love interest... Coz if u don't respect urself... He surely... Never will....
    Very nice video... Hats off...

    • @yes1543
      @yes1543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      friendz for lyf ☹️

    • @emanuellax
      @emanuellax 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks, I needed to read this (again)

    • @sexyladyakb
      @sexyladyakb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      friendz for lyf and then when you don’t text them it makes them wonder why you aren’t chasing them.. then they start talking to you.. but you’re already used to being without them so it’s a WIN WIN

    • @rayoliver9339
      @rayoliver9339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👌

    • @rayoliver9339
      @rayoliver9339 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yes1543,

  • @an6787
    @an6787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    WHAT TO DO WHEN MEN IGNORE YOU
    ~ Don't keep calling and texting him
    ~ No begging and pleading
    ~ Don't resort to hurtful result
    ~ No hunting and haunting

    • @osonduchristabel7660
      @osonduchristabel7660 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's hard

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@osonduchristabel7660 I just did.

    • @naisolanellius9849
      @naisolanellius9849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I just called early morning to confirm that he is ignoring me. Yet we were in very good terms we just met not more than a month together 😭😭😭

    • @ModernGoddess81
      @ModernGoddess81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      He chased me and said all the right things...then he obviously used me for sex...it’s been over a week since I’ve seen him in person...can I just send a simple “Fuck You” text for my own peace of mind?

    • @Alaska-me5jc
      @Alaska-me5jc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@ModernGoddess81 yes you can. I did. They need to be held accountable and shamed for being such disrespectful turds.

  • @duaastar551
    @duaastar551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    Man's ignoring is god protection

    • @cirupyscherer9355
      @cirupyscherer9355 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I agree its hard but God is so good and knows BEST

    • @lizzettelewis3699
      @lizzettelewis3699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You ain’t lying!!!

    • @renitachitebeta7160
      @renitachitebeta7160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      These tips are perfect,it's better to live happy with the person that loves you than being single in a relationship this will help

    • @arreypeter9541
      @arreypeter9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U said it all

    • @tanekamarshall9560
      @tanekamarshall9560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

  • @ddc7668
    @ddc7668 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some great advice I learned - Stop checking in on a person that doesn't check in on you. They don't care. You're wasting your time. Move on and find someone that will appreciate your concern.

  • @wyethhan7434
    @wyethhan7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    If the man ignores you.. Ignore him too.. Let go.. and close your eyes.. A lot of fishes in the sea ..love yourself so you can love better!!

  • @jac4YouTube
    @jac4YouTube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    Walk AWAY, move on, he is not worth it

    • @southerncross5360
      @southerncross5360 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daniel kelvin Red Flag 🚩 and a warning to get the knife out of your back. Becoming a FBI agent doesn’t end well.
      When a partner causes you doubt your own intuition knows something is wrong. The internal alarm system is activated, and it’s not something to ignore. These instincts are part of survival, if or when a person’s alarm system is questioned then it breaks and it’s hard to fix. Most pathological liars and players delete any damning evidence. Walk away and let them play someone else. Don’t participate in your own Demise.

  • @bhanutejaswini4309
    @bhanutejaswini4309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Huhh...... Love is not begged... It's a grace... Don't go back of them.... Eventually u will loose your self respect... Don't worry The right once won't leave... And success is the best revenge for them 👌👌👌👌👌

  • @vilindaveronica5703
    @vilindaveronica5703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    If a man ignores me, he's not the man for me. NEXT!

    • @lafierakl7740
      @lafierakl7740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly.

    • @largohla1382
      @largohla1382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly. He’s not the man for you so YOU win :)

    • @undertakerundertaker5110
      @undertakerundertaker5110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁😁😁😁😁,,,if u play games by showing interest to guys but actually not,then u r????

    • @dreamweaver6014
      @dreamweaver6014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, that's how I feel!

    • @HolySpiritInspired
      @HolySpiritInspired 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even your husband can ignor you girl just ignore him too it works like crazy

  • @petrabandulet
    @petrabandulet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    I will never tolerate such behaviors from any men .
    My heart is too precious and time too.
    Life is short .
    And ,also ,i dont want a Man that is childish either .
    People that chose to communicate thoughts and feelings are my people .
    Sincerity and authenticity .,! As a priority .

    • @kaminimarskole9075
      @kaminimarskole9075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Antonio I need ur help

    • @adeishacedeno9644
      @adeishacedeno9644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Petra Bandulet true

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Best thing Ive read so far. Big fat KISS on ya! 💖

    • @petrabandulet
      @petrabandulet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      scott sanger funny thing to read ...
      Ive been living on my own for 32years ...now .
      Left at 18 and now am 50 .!

    • @sexyladyakb
      @sexyladyakb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Petra Bandulet I’ve lived my whole life like this until I met the recent man I’ve been dating for a year . It broke away my NORM . I hate it

  • @leili2007
    @leili2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1770

    If a man ignores you, do the same!

    • @chandrikanair6677
      @chandrikanair6677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      when he come to talk just take your cell phone as if some one has called up

    • @chandrikanair6677
      @chandrikanair6677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      and when he asks you just tell sorry i dont know you who are you

    • @yaaat.5720
      @yaaat.5720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dang girl 😂

    • @kirmando4305
      @kirmando4305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      easy to say but not easy to do

    • @laverne1121
      @laverne1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I do the same and just wait for him to talk to me first

  • @Heidys_autodetail
    @Heidys_autodetail 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    A man’s rejection is gods protection.

  • @jolietamichal
    @jolietamichal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    Ladies, stop trying to explain away a man's inaction towards you. If he's really interested, he'll contact you. If he's not, he will not contact you. Simple as that...it doesn't matter what is going on his life.

  • @silvinpancarina6644
    @silvinpancarina6644 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    i like how you say silent treatment as a method of control or punishment is abuse 👍 make people realize that they deserve better and have a mindset to move on and stop hoping for an abusive man

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1976

    If he ignores you - block and forget him.

    • @preetkaur-xj8yo
      @preetkaur-xj8yo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Already done 🙌

    • @LonjeMarie7
      @LonjeMarie7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I M A QYN I agree totally block disappear

    • @angelportrait9523
      @angelportrait9523 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I've been ghosted after 2 months. Time to block and forget him.

    • @angelportrait9523
      @angelportrait9523 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I wish I would have come across your videos sooner. You have great advice!!! Thank you Dr!!

    • @sara78130
      @sara78130 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I M A QYN hi yes u right I’m Block her 5 days I swear I’m so much happy ,, be coz she always ignore me before I’m tired

  • @zoeamerica4675
    @zoeamerica4675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Games are for kids. They truly are. Sadly, there’s so much of it out there until you meet who is right. If there’s ever a “rejection”, take it as God’s “protection”. God would not ever bring someone into your life that isn’t best! Allow God to lead.

  • @dianepayne9355
    @dianepayne9355 6 ปีที่แล้ว +424

    They are ignore you because they are not that interested in you, because they have a woman already they are just playing games to build their self of steam so walk away and drop him.He keeping you has a option.

    • @kimswitzerland3225
      @kimswitzerland3225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      so true :(

    • @SINNAMON997
      @SINNAMON997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are so wrong about men

    • @majedaaa_x
      @majedaaa_x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Diane Payne that’s not true. There are many reasons why.

    • @blossom6235
      @blossom6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes true more like a booty call

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ouch! What an asshole thing to do! Who are they?! Do they shit gold???!

  • @rachelmuwero2377
    @rachelmuwero2377 6 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    He started ignoring me and after a week i told him that I deserve the whole universe and I moved on . After a month, he came back begging me to get back with him . I told him to pick a finger 🤟🏾 . Glad that I’m single, no time for bs

    • @yolocharm
      @yolocharm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      love the pick a finger.

    • @drislady
      @drislady 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love it!!

    • @sexyladyakb
      @sexyladyakb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rachel Muwero always happens like this

    • @blossom6235
      @blossom6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      see i like what you did, telling him to pick a finger you a strong woman like me we walk away instead of putting up with that sort of shit.Rachel people like you are my hero

    • @tasmiamuhammad1039
      @tasmiamuhammad1039 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You go girl 👍

  • @kirstym2203
    @kirstym2203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    If someone’s ignoring you why the hell would you want to get him back
    Bye!

    • @whityunity4300
      @whityunity4300 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Someone that truly loves you will never ignore you nor keep u silent he would makes sure he or she hear from u if u are ok or not

    • @caitlindulas8281
      @caitlindulas8281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly..

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s like they had such a terrible past with bad communication skills. He or she can step up and change it takes real work !!! However if you’re , wanting to work things out and resolve issues. He or she cannot be a good candidate for a functional relationship.

    • @Joycelang2495
      @Joycelang2495 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kirsty M u funny god bless

    • @hello991122
      @hello991122 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      nwabuifybest ifybest yes

  • @busyazn
    @busyazn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    9:45 don't keep texting or calling
    10:20 no begging or pleading
    10:40 don't resort to insulting or name calling
    10:50 No hunting or haunting (driving by their place or their social websites)
    Don't concentrate on them.
    Focus on yourself. Giving the silent treatment is abusive.

    • @angelasmith4456
      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back forever

    • @angelasmith4456
      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhstApp him for heIp

    • @angelasmith4456
      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +,,2 3 4,,9 0 3,,0 0 8,,9 0 7 5,.

    • @Adelina24244
      @Adelina24244 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just called him out on his BS now I regret it

  • @oyahboo
    @oyahboo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    "HE'S NOT INTO YOU " I felt that.

    • @jollynimble5389
      @jollynimble5389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yes youre right. Its a way for men who dont communicate well or arent sure how to breakup and would rather it just go away.

  • @lisajoye5721
    @lisajoye5721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Just recently been ghosted by a guy after a great start. He never replied to a message I sent. I have not sent another. I find it deeply disrespectful to selfishly disappear as if you have no feelings or investment in the connection. To just carelessly opt out by hoping ignoring you will get rid of you is not only childish but insensitive and frankly, cruel. Most men don't like confrontation, but there are ways to communicate without getting too defensive. However, I have chosen to ignore him too. At this point, I believe he is gone. I am heartbroken. I must chose to remove myself from this emotional bondage of "why?" We must value ourselves enough to consciously disconnect from negative situations. I am still learning on this journey of finding real happiness in a meaningful relationship. I pray my past and present misfortunes don't influence my hope for better.🌹

    • @tracieosteen5913
      @tracieosteen5913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's because people are not mentally grown up! They lack social skills...Phones Texts are a BIG problem!

    • @SuzannaKiraly
      @SuzannaKiraly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree. This has happened to me also. It's even harder when it comes from someone who seemed nice in person and you weren't expecting them to behave this way. But sadly, ghosting has become "normal" behavior and all kinds of people are doing it.

    • @lisajoye5721
      @lisajoye5721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@SuzannaKiraly You're right. It has become quite common. It seems noone is actively investing in building a relationship based on great chemistry and honesty.
      Seems like noone is dating anymore. Just a casual thing a short while, things going good...only to to end up ignoring each other. It's sad to see romance become so diluted.

    • @danaboyson4524
      @danaboyson4524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am going thru this just 3 days after he told me he wants to get to know me more and spend quality time together…I don’t understand. It’s very disrespectful. He’s being everything he said he wasn’t 😢

    • @lisajoye5721
      @lisajoye5721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@danaboyson4524 So sorry. 💔 It is hard. I will never understand why men seem to be into you, then just back away. I had a connection and mutual attraction with that guy, but undoubtedly he chose not to invest in it.

  • @saranghamnida8170
    @saranghamnida8170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Remember...what goes around comes around...love youself first before loving others....

    • @amyruger1549
      @amyruger1549 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really love the guy im friends w but im to the point i deserve better

  • @snoopy1390
    @snoopy1390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I love how quick he is to get right into the content instead of doing long tedious intros. Much better when it gets right to the point 👍🏼

  • @habibahattah8489
    @habibahattah8489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    It really hurt when you are been ignored for a reason you don't know.

    • @queenjasmine7250
      @queenjasmine7250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      😢😢😢 it really hurts

    • @ykpersson
      @ykpersson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      decide it is not worth figuring out way, swhoop moving on, minimum time wasted on sad guys.

    • @laraselters9185
      @laraselters9185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Soooo. I gave him all my love, money and attention and still he turned his back on me...😥🤷‍♂️😧😠😦😫😫🤔😣😯😮😮😭👏

    • @crazy_girl1808
      @crazy_girl1808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes i know its hard when being ghosted

    • @janicedupa4118
      @janicedupa4118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yuh! Ignoring without explanation. But, let us not complicate things, let's just ignore them too.

  • @peggyjoseph6465
    @peggyjoseph6465 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    If a guy ignores me.....I delete his number and Lord knows I can't remember anyone's number...bye Felicia!!!! Thank you next!!!!

    • @Nunyabuiznesss1111
      @Nunyabuiznesss1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      adarsh tiwari I like how she ignored your dumb irrelevant ass.

    • @NiTa-qf9fm
      @NiTa-qf9fm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But it's hard 😢

    • @luciefahy9989
      @luciefahy9989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too have a bad memory

    • @evelynabigania58
      @evelynabigania58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@adarshtiwari9058 no woman will respect an asshole also 😂😅🤣

    • @natashamarley5347
      @natashamarley5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adarshtiwari9058 you're a piece of shit, fuck off.

  • @reahalcantara8638
    @reahalcantara8638 6 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    If he ignores you let him and ignore him too and move on you'll see one day he will comeback to say hi again to you.

    • @miterbasar862
      @miterbasar862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Reah Alcantara so true.. Actually this happened to me.. But i ignored him.

    • @athenasakorafos5032
      @athenasakorafos5032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Be ready to say hello or goodbye. Being ignored without having a great and REAL reason is just too childish!

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gross I wouldn't want that! I am too self respecting for that!
      It's their loss if they don't want me or what I have to offer!

    • @athenasakorafos5032
      @athenasakorafos5032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sure, and if you’re in the mood .... then fine ..... get your needs met .... just keep him as an option.... bait another... time to start having many options .....

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh no... under HIS terms?!!

  • @encarmanalang6531
    @encarmanalang6531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's really hard to ignore the man you love, hurting, but sometimes we must bear this to give ourselves some time to think

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      @adamsbillions4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @adamsbillions4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @adamsbillions4405
      @adamsbillions4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats!!!!!app!!!him!!.

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You dont love him u are just attached thats all

  • @bharathin7018
    @bharathin7018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I am facing this issue currently..but trying to come out of this..self respect is important for me..he is not the right person to deserve me in his life..

    • @josephinepangelinan5185
      @josephinepangelinan5185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wat if he cums from dnt noe where and chill a bit den go shower room and washes his dik before his body... Does it mean his doing sumtin behind my bck

    • @rubinaacceptthetruthpanes4391
      @rubinaacceptthetruthpanes4391 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

  • @swatimorajkar7618
    @swatimorajkar7618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Give time to yourself ladies!! It's OK to get ignored sometime. If you feel bored, engage yourself in your hobbies, or things that you always wanted to do. This way, you will invest your time in something good and he will learn that you are not over him and believe me, he Will start wondering why you don't bother him 😍 but if he's on cheating way, dump him before he does, that way the pain will be lesser compared to he declaring it to you. Do not rush into new relationship immediately to jealous him. Try to be more confident and achieve your dreams. Love yourself!! He's just a chapter in the book of your life. 😘

    • @mxkx203
      @mxkx203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @tinkertahe8718
      @tinkertahe8718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's really hard but im trying

    • @tinkertahe8718
      @tinkertahe8718 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@esmereldahanes5610 yes of course,thank you so much

    • @ykpersson
      @ykpersson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Being ignored and having time for our own things and hobbies kinda very different aspected.
      if a guy see contact as ’ bothering him’ yep move on no questions asked.

    • @adaezechioke8469
      @adaezechioke8469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts thanks. ... i am being the best chapter of myself now. Will continue to work hard and make it in life

  • @lafierakl7740
    @lafierakl7740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I dont chase anyone. If he ignores me, im gone. Period!

    • @itsmarzel7113
      @itsmarzel7113 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi.. Im maricel and i just ignored by my husband and he evenntold me that he dont love me anymore. I just deliver my baby biy 2 months ago the reason why i dont want to leave him because of my baby. What i will do?

    • @jazmincampos2912
      @jazmincampos2912 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsmarzel7113 what's ur.update did u leave

    • @itsmarzel7113
      @itsmarzel7113 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jazmincampos2912 hi. No im still wt him ignoring my heartbreaks everyday. Were not talking and mostly we just meet during bed time😢

    • @evi1aa
      @evi1aa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      marzel Fernandez hey, how are you doing now? Is everything well? I really hope everything worked out.

    • @itsmarzel7113
      @itsmarzel7113 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @steven mudipanu still suffering for my kids...

  • @nicholenungester8700
    @nicholenungester8700 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Being ignored hurts and makes me feel like I am not enough.

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      @jenniferadvearo9134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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      @jenniferadvearo9134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @fedeliaanderson9565
      @fedeliaanderson9565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this vedio is truly useful
      I really enjoyed watching it

    • @kathyagalidis8822
      @kathyagalidis8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are more than enough, never forget that.

  • @zubyahsaid9496
    @zubyahsaid9496 6 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    I don't entertain nonsense if u find me less important to you i can make u even lesser important to me.

  • @namusisiscovia5381
    @namusisiscovia5381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    If you ignore me,,,, I just walk away.
    It's called self respect.

    • @fc515
      @fc515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect

    • @iStorm-my5fp
      @iStorm-my5fp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Self respect is clearly something I lack

    • @annogunye1744
      @annogunye1744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if I can't just let go because I love this person so much

    • @mussaratm8965
      @mussaratm8965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And the relationship ends

    • @maxalberts2003
      @maxalberts2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annogunye1744 You'll end up in jail.

  • @taishacody8075
    @taishacody8075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    It hurts a lot... I know... I were tired of waking up in my sleep with tears in my eyes every morning...

  • @raniaibrahim222
    @raniaibrahim222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always put ur self first, don't chase anyone who is not chasing you, don't give ur love ur time for people who doesn't give you back the same

  • @Fransbelle
    @Fransbelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    Relationships are too stressful... boy I'm out!

    • @SupAModel100
      @SupAModel100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so gorgeous btw 🥰

    • @Fransbelle
      @Fransbelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SupAModel100 thanks love 💗

    • @danicadjukic2796
      @danicadjukic2796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We All need a lesson in Love Class 101 where is your self- worth Ladies We are worth ❤ more than being forgotten or put on the back burner so do the same to him and focus on you ❤ Click on me what about me you know me so me & God knows me too ! Let him go if you refuses to change ! D

    • @danicadjukic2796
      @danicadjukic2796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Let him go if he refuses to change ! D

    • @Edith.G.G.
      @Edith.G.G. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      x2 Sis

  • @nimoanderson9605
    @nimoanderson9605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    I’m way to cute to be ghosted, but still I’m sitting here and getting ghosted🤣

    • @lizc2023
      @lizc2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      N3zx3 Mwaah sameeeee

    • @cosmobelle2207
      @cosmobelle2207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😩🖐

    • @TheJaiNetwork
      @TheJaiNetwork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Nimo Anderson lol women thinks it’s all about looks but for a man looks don’t really matter. Looks only matter to a man for about the first 5 mins and then it’s about how compatible the two of you are. A man will sleep with anything but ppl fall in love with a connection.

    • @maskedtitan7126
      @maskedtitan7126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      No woman is too cute to get ghosted by a man. Men don't concentrate on looks only

    • @surigeez684
      @surigeez684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nimo Anderson it’s about your personality no one cares about your look accept yourself booboo

  • @hipnhappenin
    @hipnhappenin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    My ex was a master at this. Not only would he ignore me but he’d block me so I’d have absolutely no way to get in touch with him (we were long distance). I don’t wish that kind of pain or stress on my worst enemy.

    • @DianaAndrea983
      @DianaAndrea983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      hipnhappenin I know exactly what you mean. My CURRENT boyfriend is like this. We had a fight and he started ignoring me and I wrote and wrote and then he blocked me! Like wtf man.
      It’s always like this when something is wrong.

    • @akiramado9198
      @akiramado9198 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That honestly sounds abusive.

    • @ispywithmy3rdeye222
      @ispywithmy3rdeye222 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Im going thru it now long distance for past 6months n we been together 2yrs it sucks never knowing wat will be n all the wat ifs... its abusive emotionally

    • @marlynmorales8836
      @marlynmorales8836 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hipnhappenin 😂😂😂😂😂 me too

    • @maddiebilin
      @maddiebilin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same situation here :(

  • @teresafangon6414
    @teresafangon6414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If he ignores you, it means you are sooo lucky, why? you are so worthy to end up with the right guy or to the best one...just have patience and wait, keep on praying 🙏 Thank you Dr. Borello, for you are willing to teach and give us wisdom not to lose sight on high value😊

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      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WhstApp him for heIp

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      @angelasmith4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +,,2 3 4,,9 0 3,,0 0 8,,9 0 7 5,.

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      @scottjames5135 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @joycesmorales6469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to the powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly

  • @christopheragenor4336
    @christopheragenor4336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    If u ignored me, I’ll do the same to u and if u still doing it. I’ll block u period. I don’t have time to play games too old for that.

    • @DominiMex777
      @DominiMex777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AMEN!!!!

    • @meiawmeiaw9170
      @meiawmeiaw9170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Christine Agenor that’s how it should be I always ignore man who ignore me.

    • @evelynotani5308
      @evelynotani5308 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christine Agenor lol

    • @shaki36
      @shaki36 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 👍

  • @ContactoEcuador
    @ContactoEcuador 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It’s true it hurts to be ignored for no reason and I think is ok to grief but then move on. There are many man in this planet!!!!!

    • @rayofsunshine5551
      @rayofsunshine5551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But its not that simple. It takes time to work through the emotional pain and it leaves scars on your heart and in your mind that never fully go away which makes it hard going forward when trying to meet and date someone new.

  • @valeriemilanez5007
    @valeriemilanez5007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    a guy ALWAYS KNOWS what he wants , AND IF LIKES U ,ONE MINUTE, THEN CHANGES HIS MIND , THE NEXT ..theirs ONLY one thing for us girls to do , JUST MOVE ON...💔😢😔

  • @shells9386
    @shells9386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    No contact right back to realize you deserve better

  • @susannaantoine493
    @susannaantoine493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    I'm just tired of loving men and I'm not getting the love back in return

  • @sianmegginson8110
    @sianmegginson8110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    Being ignored feels like a rejection and hurts.

    • @paulbarnes9490
      @paulbarnes9490 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sian Megginson I thought you have to ignore as women are suffocated by too much attention.

    • @sianmegginson8110
      @sianmegginson8110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Women love the right attention when its genuine.

    • @iluvfigs4712
      @iluvfigs4712 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree! God Bless.

    • @milagrosrodriguez4136
      @milagrosrodriguez4136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hell yeah it hurts

    • @izabellaSands
      @izabellaSands 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there 2 years ago

  • @claudiaalmeida3171
    @claudiaalmeida3171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Lol that’s why I am single and don’t let people too close to my heart

    • @kimberlythomas9802
      @kimberlythomas9802 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Claudia, please find a balance at some point you may prevent someone who cares for you to question your feelings for them..each person deserves the right to make their own mistakes.

    • @rrrrrr5573
      @rrrrrr5573 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Claudia Almeida me too,

    • @aprilrevans5612
      @aprilrevans5612 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds bitter be careful sweetie

    • @rayofsunshine5551
      @rayofsunshine5551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same

    • @DaughterofaKing20275
      @DaughterofaKing20275 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Claudia Almeida same here

  • @elianacordobasepulveda6887
    @elianacordobasepulveda6887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I liked the fact you went through several situations. Dealing with the silent treatment is terrible, but the key is to be in one piece and un breakable, knowing that at the end it doesn’t really matters. The right person will be in our lives, why waste too much energy on someone that is not that person. Learn, but don’t break your head.

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      @尔丹尼-t8c 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @尔丹尼-t8c
      @尔丹尼-t8c 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's app him

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  • @rhedperez5850
    @rhedperez5850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I ignored him yesterday and let him go just now.. It's hurt but I deserve peace.

    • @Edith.G.G.
      @Edith.G.G. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly. We deserve peace

  • @jto9202
    @jto9202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I’ve watched too many Steve Harvey shows. He will say, that if a man ignores you, he’s not interested. So move on to the next guy. No need to waste your time.

    • @lizmuriithi5660
      @lizmuriithi5660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What if he is married

    • @Fiiii4567
      @Fiiii4567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lizmuriithi5660 forget him.

  • @pureveg6801
    @pureveg6801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +593

    Be calm and just believe in God.

    • @toriavera2481
      @toriavera2481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen

    • @jagdpanzer6689
      @jagdpanzer6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @dianefarley37
      @dianefarley37 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen! God loves you and will never ignore you!! 💝💝💒💒

    • @denisecoates6161
      @denisecoates6161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AMEN! 🙌🏻

    • @paulroadley3906
      @paulroadley3906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah God is in control he will find me a woman I'm single

  • @beaflores0908
    @beaflores0908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sometimes giving each other a break is good after all if he really is into you, he will definitely reach out to you.
    Thank you Antonio for the great advice!

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      @adamsbillions4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @adamsbillions4405 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @ghanwashahid9405
      @ghanwashahid9405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Reaching out after ghosting and ignoring doesn't mean he wants you. It means he's just using you for his boredom and time pass

  • @dodijames6801
    @dodijames6801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    If he ignores you, he simply isn't into you. Drop him and move along, Men will chase you if they want you.Keep your self respect and don't even bother with him...

  • @inesvazquez5564
    @inesvazquez5564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Too bad all parties involved can't just be honest and up front about what they want or don't want and how they're feeling.

    • @allo4333
      @allo4333 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Completely agree with you on that. It’s being mature adults!

    • @rayofsunshine5551
      @rayofsunshine5551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @scott sanger They definetly want mature honest men.

    • @nefertitimarzouk4051
      @nefertitimarzouk4051 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree

    • @aevenegnotyalc3568
      @aevenegnotyalc3568 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts🎭this ain't high school 🎲sick Game

  • @mdmmalou
    @mdmmalou 6 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    When someone ignores you please dont ignore the redflag!

    • @petrabandulet
      @petrabandulet 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yessss ,huge redflag ...
      Also huge turn off ...

    • @mariowilson9536
      @mariowilson9536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text +447495039516

  • @rootakari2319
    @rootakari2319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Is it okay to move on after an argument and he starts ignoring you, knowing how it hurts you? Can someone actually ignore the one they love for any reason?

  • @eshjane
    @eshjane 5 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    He's just not into you. Leave him alone!!!

    • @ssss614
      @ssss614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pocahontas not easy 😪

    • @kimcandyy9038
      @kimcandyy9038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😒

    • @lalawanna8290
      @lalawanna8290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100 true

    • @lalawanna8290
      @lalawanna8290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When a man is into you he will constantly be nagging you and begging for your attention any man who's really into a woman will chase her end of story

    • @lalawanna8290
      @lalawanna8290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Men are naturally wired to chase women and they love the chase so when he's ignoring you he just does not want you that's it.

  • @natachafabiene9586
    @natachafabiene9586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    You just ignore him back. It works

    • @karenmelissa1947
      @karenmelissa1947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yeah I did it and he was asking why do you disappear?

    • @eve2116
      @eve2116 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right? He ignored me and I did the same when he came back... then, he said that I’m revengeful! 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @millice100
    @millice100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    It hurt to be ignored, when you try your best to make the relationship.

  • @lavidamoon9889
    @lavidamoon9889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Be smart, be wise and stop the game he is playing by NO CONTACT . Self respect is the most important here

  • @cocobeautyfrombarbados7911
    @cocobeautyfrombarbados7911 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I just block him because he is not making enough effort to communicate with me

  • @EntrepreneursBusinessandServic
    @EntrepreneursBusinessandServic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    If the other person does not want to be you, manifest in finding someone who does. There are others out there who do want you. Why chase someone who is not coming back to you.

    • @sheilahunter6232
      @sheilahunter6232 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christina Vinci - that is not how the brain works.

    • @EntrepreneursBusinessandServic
      @EntrepreneursBusinessandServic 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sheila Hunter How does the brain work? Be realistic and do not act like some psycho woman.

    • @smitakulkarni7894
      @smitakulkarni7894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If a person ignores u ,wait n think for a moment have u really hurt him badly due to some behavior, talk to him and try to understand him n the reason behind it, if the answer is No, then u need to move forward in life than being hurt again n again, that person doesn't deserve ur love, don't compromise with ur self esteem n be taken for granted all the time.

  • @ethelmeadows8984
    @ethelmeadows8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    This is a huge red flag. S major sign of emotional abuse

    • @ethelmeadows8984
      @ethelmeadows8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have been emotionally abused for a long time
      I had to go through counseling

    • @ethelmeadows8984
      @ethelmeadows8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AntonioBorrello Yes k want to make a point though, emotional abuse takes a long time to get over it not completely

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thereis no such thing as 'emotional abuse'

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Redfather Yes it is !

    • @muthiakharisma
      @muthiakharisma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you please tell my bf ? I’m tired of crying over him for months 😭

  • @tracyhowell2781
    @tracyhowell2781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Im very observant. So if im getting ignored I just move on. That's my sign they don't want to be bothered.

  • @anneakitz6241
    @anneakitz6241 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    yes,its really hurt when you ignore by someone you really love

  • @draziesaari
    @draziesaari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I never gave 100% of my true love to any guys, maybe 70-60% - so I have some ample spaces, energies or motivation for the the readiness in handling failure, frustration or heart break

  • @QueenJuliana89
    @QueenJuliana89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just broke up with a boyfriend who did too much ignoring.. If someone can bring themselves to actually ignore you, and it’s their personality, it’s just going to get worse.

    • @elizabethsmarth6022
      @elizabethsmarth6022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is a man that can make him come and he will never misbehave anymore
      Contact him on WhatsApp +2349030188023

  • @kristydagostino6841
    @kristydagostino6841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    Why does everything have to be a game

    • @trapsource_goddess
      @trapsource_goddess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kristy Dagostino yup can’t be yourself lol

    • @deeruler1688
      @deeruler1688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      And hon it doesn’t get better the older ya get! These men play games till they physically can’t! 🙄

    • @margaretchristian7215
      @margaretchristian7215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Because now days we have a bigger playground. Like the Facebook and messenger and if you want more privacy , What’s App.? Besides people are liars with less morals.

    • @aimeeharris7474
      @aimeeharris7474 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You tell me??

    • @julietbinitie6537
      @julietbinitie6537 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I taya oh😢

  • @MyDarling572
    @MyDarling572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    In my experience, no texting or no reply beyond 1 week means #5 : he is just Not into you anymore. He is busy texting another girl. You have been replaced. How I handled it? I did nothing. He eventually sent a romantic message after almost a month. I replied politely but i did Not reciprocate the romantic words. He never texted me again.

    • @allakaplan4022
      @allakaplan4022 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you very much this video help a lot in my relationship

    • @svasianfilipiname6603
      @svasianfilipiname6603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You shouldn't even have replied. After he ghosted you, you should have acted like he was dead!

    • @alimabaca3637
      @alimabaca3637 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      But, it is an attraction.

    • @nroque4251
      @nroque4251 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@svasianfilipiname6603 Yes you are right, you shouldn't reply him

  • @sheripeterson2298
    @sheripeterson2298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I need to let go... I can't keep dwelling on someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're so right it does hurt. Thanks Antonio

  • @nancyssonni8365
    @nancyssonni8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hear you Sir....If he ignores you, ignore him back

  • @laurapeters6647
    @laurapeters6647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If he ignores you move on and make your life better work on your self the best revenge is to be better than he is

  • @janetferguson1864
    @janetferguson1864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think that I'm being ignored because my guy challenged my self respect. Ladies, never give up your personal power. That is how you get taken not only for granted, but how he thinks that you are always going to be there for him no matter how he treats you. Some things you should ask your guy for and other things you should DEMAND!!! So, if he is ignoring you---you pay more attention to yourself.💯

  • @HULovingLife
    @HULovingLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've endured the silent treatment by a Narcissist on and off for 5 years, but have decided that I need to love myself more and to move on. Narcs do this as punishment to try and get you back in line I have learned. Thanks for this video! 🤗

  • @sandrabethany8918
    @sandrabethany8918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great advice that can guide you through a break-up; despite, how much you care about the person.

  • @BlackgirlJane
    @BlackgirlJane 6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    My relationship ended with being ignored. We went from talking every day by phone or text to my calls and text being ignored. He finally sent a message saying he thinks I want something he doesn't out of the relationship and he wants us to be cool. I didn't respond. He then calls 4 days later and left a lengthy voicemail saying he doesn't want to hurt me or get hurt. That, he apologizes for being rude and disrespectful. That he cares about me, has feelings for me, loves me but he wants us to be cool. I called to get clarity. He said we should do what we want to do. The next day he texted asking if I wanted to come over. I didn't respond. I see nothing but B.S. What game is this?

    • @russellshainerodriguez4302
      @russellshainerodriguez4302 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hilo doc Antonio ..im always following the tips u talking about...hehe I fixed a date a stranger man I meet in fb ,he's my friend followers then my friend making live in fb so he saw me in that vedio and he asked my phone number at the day he took my number he's searching where I'm located so we meet each other in first day but sad to say no time for talking or for dating he's so handsome and nice man I ever seen,we continue talking by what's app in imo until my second offday come but before that we fixed a date in hotel but sad to say nothing happens between us he using drugs in can't even control hisself then I run away from that date I broke the date because I feel hurting myself to see who he is actually we developing love deeper by communicating phone calls and texts but we both love each other the date is very nice preparation he bring some surprising to me like bracelet and watch but we don't make love at hotel and he blocked me that day till now it's more than weeks didn't talk in phone ...😔😔😔 what's the fault of me did I make wrong or not actually that day o spent 4hours in hotel but he's body is out of control because of drugs he takes ...that's why I feel scared

    • @rayofsunshine5551
      @rayofsunshine5551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@flyandshy00 Exactly, users. But you have to be smart and use your head and don't let them, demand respect! If you show them with actions you don't put up with childish games and not letting them use you, you teach them your worth and you have high standards and don't except anything less.

    • @crysta220
      @crysta220 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Sounds like he's insecure and manipulative. He just wants you when he does and not when you want him. I got rid of the guy who tried this with me. I don't respond to any of his messages. Funny thing is he saw it coming months ago.

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sounds like what happened to me. Theres someone else or he was after sex. Sounds like a sex thing considering he told you he thought you were after somerhing he couldnt provide. Then he is too inmature for a relationship.

    • @aevenegnotyalc3568
      @aevenegnotyalc3568 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @scott sanger 😜🎭😎😂😋

  • @simplymarilyn5295
    @simplymarilyn5295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Once you ignore him...."the chase is on!"

    • @dianneciresi6324
      @dianneciresi6324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not if you've been ghosted & they lost interest & u figured out he didn't like kids and want to be a part of ur family & meet them in due time..

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      DIANNE CIRESI
      This may shock you but men aren’t looking to date single moms, especially the high value men

    • @aliciabee2781
      @aliciabee2781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😍😍😍😍😍😍😍love that.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheShowOff2I this may shock you but high value men arent cowards. & If hes still dating w/ in his range that prob just means theres something off about him if he isnt a parent. Its always good times when ppl talk about single moms. Funny how barely single dads hardly ever get talked about. Clearly ppl must have kids independently.

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ahhwe-any7434
      High Value men aren’t cowards??
      Dating a single mom is NOT a sign of bravery or maturity.
      Women WITHOUT Kids is what men ACTUALLY want but are too scared to say so.

  • @theresaeduardo2669
    @theresaeduardo2669 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My husband hates confrontation & difficult feelings...therefore he avoids difficult situations. Makes conflict resolution very hard. You’re spot on!

    • @onaiwufaith6640
      @onaiwufaith6640 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel what most guy want is sex
      Trust me, that why I am not interested in relationship before marriage, I will wait for the right one

  • @LivingOrganismFromMarsAndVenus
    @LivingOrganismFromMarsAndVenus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    After being ignored for few days I sent msg asking: hey is everything alright with you? I haven't heard from you for last few days. He: yes I'm fine, have been really busy. Sorry. Days are passing and the same ignoring game goes on. Me: hey, what's up?. You seem really busy lately. I hope everything is ok. He: yes, sorry, really busy days. And this goes on for weeks. Finally blocked him.

    • @dolldoll3789
      @dolldoll3789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You shouldn’t block him .just leave me.dont text him even for months.he will comeback ,I had that experience before

    • @sonnaejames4366
      @sonnaejames4366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So, the man i was dating never, ever have time to talk to me. He is always busy or foe the entire day nothing. If i texted him hours later before he respond. He will tell me i will call you back, i am talking to sister, mother, brother, warching the news etc. And this is every day. I had enough and blocked him. It was a hard thing to do but communication was non existent so i blocked his ass

    • @oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873
      @oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like him a lot and he keeps ignoring me, the relationship is on his terms but when I get in touch with him he says everything is fine

    • @naisolanellius9849
      @naisolanellius9849 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dolldoll3789 so when he comes back surely I take him back? 😭😂Nooooooo I wont

    • @dolldoll3789
      @dolldoll3789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@naisolanellius9849 when he comes back don’t rush after him !!!let him feel what you felt when he left that’s all!!!girls we need to be strong and teach those men how to respect women!!!silence is enough!!

  • @athenasakorafos5032
    @athenasakorafos5032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    They have many girlfriends. Time to accept that and walk the other way!! I’m always so astounded to realize that ppl can continue to lie day after day for years! Then my eyes were opened-Politics, the best liars in the world!! “The Political Playboy!!”

  • @cumali6187
    @cumali6187 6 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Sounds like we WOMEN always needs to please men.....excuse me !!!

    • @anasteciamosekaphofu2903
      @anasteciamosekaphofu2903 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not really dear

    • @anitaphillip8772
      @anitaphillip8772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you speak a book. that's what society wants. the women have to make sure they do everything right while the men do whatever they so desire. inspite, there are a lot of good men out there but just had to find. we should let all our experiences teach us a lesson so when the right one do come along we would know that he is for real.

    • @SINNAMON997
      @SINNAMON997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anitaphillip8772 are you kidding me? Men do whatever they want are out of you're FRICKING head? Women get away with pretty much anything yet a man with a FALSE rape accusation can lose his job his reputation and so much more

    • @alimabaca3637
      @alimabaca3637 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, I don't. I learned to listen to my feelings. My feelings have to yell at me most of the time.

    • @sansadrake4133
      @sansadrake4133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SINNAMON997 No ones talking about rape here. Get with the context. This is about dating an relationships and men do whatever the hell they want to do time and time again. Women should not even give men another thought after these behaviours are displayed.

  • @normahenry2184
    @normahenry2184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I agree don't call no text him.

  • @alienprincessyuu5026
    @alienprincessyuu5026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When a man ignore us it means his busy entertaining himself with work or other woman 😂😂 harsh true ...I got over a long time n with few crushes I m used to it ...as days goes Ur heart goes fr hurt to numb ...u start to ignore them too ...just get your own goals and do the things u like ....💗seriously man don't even care to explain ..they hate questions n explain...but when u doing the same to them their response is big time

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      @powellmarkpowell1659 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @powellmarkpowell1659 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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      @unadigold1496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @yaninacabrera131
    @yaninacabrera131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    Don’t send that text or call, YOU ARE MORE THAN THAT! 😊

    • @carolinareaper8089
      @carolinareaper8089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yanina Cabrera thank you girl! I was hesitating but my common sense is more on brain that heart side !!!

    • @yaninacabrera131
      @yaninacabrera131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Carolina Reaper Learn how to do stuff by yourself and learn how to love yourself first. Make dinner by yourself, go to the movie theater and watch that movie. Hang out with your girls. Cry if you need to and eat ice cream. 😊

    • @ghjk2591
      @ghjk2591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 😊🌸

    • @esmereldahanes5610
      @esmereldahanes5610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      can we hav lady talk

    • @holzdamolz
      @holzdamolz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @tracyfrimpong1947
    @tracyfrimpong1947 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i was being ignored by someone I really cared about. and it looks like I did everything you said and the video and I'm perfectly fine without him now. Dr. Antonio keep up the good work.

  • @yasmineee702
    @yasmineee702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    "Godly women don't have to advertise. They just be. Their trust is in the Lord. The anointing makes them beautiful. It attracts and demands attention and respect all on it's own. It will catch the eye of any man who can recognize the true spirit of God. It is rare for a man to come at her disrespectfully because the God in her radiates like the bright sun. It says I am a woman of God. A princess. A daughter of the King of kings. Her very presence and spirit demands the best and nothing less. She is not desperate for anything, and her emotions are checked by the Holy Spirit. Her heart is in the hands of God, and God will not give it to a man who is unworthy of his daughters love"

  • @philistiangwatu1950
    @philistiangwatu1950 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Being ignored can be very frustrating but its always best to accept the bitter truth and move one. No need to plead and beg cuz you will look desperate and he might take that opportunity to hurt yoU more. Thanks so much for the advice.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.*