Shame

In this episode, Hina and Uruje talk about shame in the South Asian Community. They discuss the different types of shame they grew up around and experienced themselves. They also go over common scenarios where shame comes up constantly.
0:00 INTRO
4:17 Glasses
9:46 Mental Health
22:42 Post-partum Depression
32:06 Fruit Shaming
34:18 Dating
47:32 Grey hair
52:33 Aunty Shaming
57:35 Looks in relationships
59:35 Kids & Marriage as you get older
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In my 4 years of marriage I have lost two babies and I was very depressed. Had panic attacks. I thought I will die or I might kill myself or my husband might leave me. I got paranoid went though all sorts of crazy mental breakdowns.
My whole family is educated and supportive. Went to therapy nothing helped. Stayed on medication didn’t help. Got me worse.
The only thing that got me out of it was namaz and Quran.
My belief in Allah got me out of it.
I read Quran with tafseer. I went to majalis. Listen to everything PBUH and his family went through.
Now nothing in the world can shake my tawakul.
So people who say religion can’t get you out of anything don’t know their Allah. Sorry to say…

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Thank you so much for this. I have been married for 11 years and my husband and I don’t want kids. Its so hard to find people in the SA community who understand that some people just don’t want kids. Also side point, love you ladies - share all your videos with my sister! ❤

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That grey hair thing ufff..
I have to face that criticism in every family gathering but yes i simply reply them with sarcastic smile on my face that I'm in love with my grey hair and I legit don't wanna change it ( mind ur own business was silent btw )

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Chasmish is used to make fun of people who wear glasses. Have heard this term my entire life because i wear glasses

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Temu is good for small things

[@SA-cb1fb]

Yes the glasses shame is real specially in rishta process. Like my mum literally mentioned it to my would be inlaws like one would mention a major illness. Iski nazr kamzor ha glasses pehnti ha
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They were like so what? 😅😅

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Imagine giving birth in a desi household just shy of 9 months of our totally arranged wedding😅
Oh i cannot forget the judgy eyes
Thankfully i can now laugh about it 19 yrs later

[@Belljar505]

I have a very expressive face and I have a huge habit of using hand gestures a lot when I talk and Oh God the amount of times my mother shamed me for this ... Still don't understand why this was a huge problem. Oh and lmao will never forget when I got told to not blink my eyes too much because girls shouldn't be like this?!?!?? What? ... Now that I think about it I could go on and on about the things I've been shamed about but then again that's every girl's life . A bitter reality.

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Nice ! The Latin culture is the same

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