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this episode was like a warm fuzzy blanket for me. thanks for what yall do!

We need those toto toilets!!!! Don't know how people are fine with dry toilet paper.

If the man was bad, cheating and abusing, the woman's life was hell with no power to stop it. The man had all the power. The woman was not a passenger princess but a maid, cook, nanny and sex worker. Traditional roles only work if the partners are genuinely good people and love eachother. And that is actually super rare and NOT the norm even today. Most partners HATE eachother!

Haahhahah😂😂😂😂

This sucks for people who don’t have good inlaws. But Alhamdulillah not all in laws are like this.

Well sometimes getting married early can be regretful too cause you don’t give yourself time

I FEEL YOU!!!!! Im an ambitious woman running my own company trying to scale it, etc. But somedays I wish that I could just be by a pool all day while my husband works and my only responsibility is in the home.

Apki ye friend ko maine kahen dekha hai . hoarders ki episode thi koi ???

I’m a black British Nigerian guy, so I’m not your target demographic 😂😂 but I gotta say, I’ve binged/listened to your videos while doing errands I really enjoy the episodes, you guys gotta great and energetic vibes and even though I obviously ain’t Asian, I can relate with some of the things you talk about in various episodes It’s interesting how different but really similar Nigerian & desi culture actually is Love from the UK 🇬🇧👊🏾

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Hum sharabi naheen hain😂❤

I feel like you spend to long discussing topics rather than going through the responses

The way my eye’s widened when you said “dhum-challi” I haven’t heard that for years 😂 love it 😂

Omg so true. When u call ur mother in law. There is no way they r going to greet u in a nice way. Thats the exact way they would greet " aj kaisay phone ker diya". All ur planning to say what u were going to say goes to the wall

My jaw literally dropped at the first comment u read about what s the worst thing ur in law said 😀😂 In laws can be really awful & cruel

What do you think about men who ask a woman the first time they are speaking if she knows how to cook?

I think another reason why it is so exhausting when it comes to women having to work as well, is because this system was built on patriarchy, for a man, to serve his needs. Men have 24 hr hormonal cycles whereas women don’t, the 9-5 hrs was made for a man not for a woman who also has to take care of her child during those hours or then put them into before and after care which is also so taxing. I just believe another reason why it is so difficult for women today is that we have progressed but societal regulations remain still very much catered towards men.

It might be because I’m a younger guy, but listening to your podcast is like listening to your bigger sisters.

Friends of Wafa >>>>>

The truck and rickshaw, and those shezan bottles 😍!!!!

You guys are awsome!!! keep it coming you guys are doing great

Uffff heart is filled with happiness. More videos like this in Urdu ❤

We don't know what kind of family he has

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Yea I would move away from family to prevent all of it and I hope they plan the weekend out if not it’s see you when I see you

Rule of Life (according to feminists) "It's Always Worse for Women".

Normal

I think that both have stressed that are different and both stresses can be just as stressful as the other and on the topic of a woman is expected to do all these things i will tell you most stress is self imposed not really from other people

lol it’s the same with jobs most people don’t even expect women to work you can’t ask for equal respect when you asked for the situation at hand

Recording all toxic people is useful. Helps you to really understand if its you or them.

the fact that you call your mother almost daily, sometimes twice a day hence you have built that relationship where u tell her easiliy if ur day is bad or u are just tired. But if u genuinly call your saas so less that when you do they actually take as a miracle or a shock that oh how is she calling in today? and typically if u have to like ask her for a favour like cook a meal or something thats not all bad on saas's end to feel a certain way, its bad from your end as well. See we are born with love for our parents, siblings etc. but we have to "create" love for relationships like these saas, susar, shohar, nand. its an over all that needs to change. Why would a women love you so much when u call her on monthly agendas and ask for favours only, who is ofcource not ur mother

thats just wrong, you portrey inlaws like they are just bad. Just like not all daughter in laws are evil trying to snatch the son away, there are so many mother in laws too who are nice and like genuinly nice people. Yes they cant be your MOM butt that doesnt mean for you to feel like they are just like your mother because u had a toxic mom. NO.

I love these tangent stories you do!!!

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Hey i hope ur mums in laws are wonderful women and u dont have tp 'tolerate' them . At the same time if they r not then i hope the meeage is received.😂😅

i'm not a mom but i've gone through this D: i love listening to you guys! I was born and raised in Pakistan and i still have a hard time fitting in here. Listening to you guys feel like chatting with friends <3

Yes true, make sure you don't do that to your daughter in law.

Yeah but most people on IG now promote fake lives

i just found your guys podcast and i am loving them funny thing happened with me im going theough a divorce process and in laws did also had a huge role so my mother in law use to give me taunts that ohh my son told me hes bringing in a less educated and less good looking girl when now at the end i found out he lied about his profession and hes has not even completed his undergrad i am an educator by profesion and a masters of education now i know why she use to put me down

Tag is pakram pakrai

The Bushra thing: It is a myth in Pakistan that if you name your third daughter Bushra, the fourth child will be a boy

Hey loves. Sorry i missed 3 episodes ❤️ but don’t think i‘m not watching your episodes. I started at Apple Podcast too. Soo dont think i fade away😂❤️😂❤️ love you guys♥️

I have a toxic in law situation And I'd like your advice or even just to hear me out and tell me if I'm crazy. How can I share my story?

Heyyy!! Been watching you two from insta for so long and this is the first time I have watched a TH-cam video of yours. Subscribed within the first 20 mins 🤌🏻 I just turned 19 btw.. and a few of my friends are already engaged. I just watched to like get an idea bout how it actually is out there 🥴 and dayum!! Some people dont know basic manners. Love for all the girls out there who are in situations that they can't get out of ❤ I genuinely hope it gets easier when time goes by.. Love your videos!! Hope to watch more ❤

How about 4 hours late because someone had to go to hair salon 😂

Lock your things

Simple..just call ur friend or whoever there is nearby to bring a bucket of water in that bathroom situation to flush..and for the Gps thing sometime the traffic is horrible like Dubai to sharja so the sound is much better to be on....the last was deodorant spray isn't good for health according to new research and try the rexona roll on instead ..or simply cut ur all spicy and junky foods becoz they smell bad whatever in sweat or washroom situation...and help me find out someone humourous type of shehzaadi like you both😜

How they taunt you and then goes like oh mai tu mazaq kr rhi thi hans rhy thy No woman i got what you meant The worst thing i can never ever forget… 1st night back from hospital with my first born and we were up all night. I had c section i was sitting in chair all night for my son and of-course he is new born and babies cry and we are trying to calm him and mother in law woke up in morning and saying this to my family who came over to help me “bacha ro ra tha or maa baap so rhy thy” i can never ever forget this. Really? If we were sleeping and baby was crying how come you did not come and continue to sleep in your room? Seriously so ridiculous. And when my bhabi said no they did not sleep all night and she was like haha i am just playing . Really?

Soo true ! A saas can never be a mother. Even though they always say aap meri beti jaisee ho. True colours show when an argument happens then the real saas comes out . Or when the real beaty is here then you see the special treatment she gets and all the sympathy that we don’t get on a daily basis even though we are the ones taking care of her and doing everything all our lives !

Love your sweatshirts!!!!!