How to Find Yourself After Motherhood Ft. Megan Ashley | Impact Of Motherhood | S4 Ep. 1

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  • @itssweeno
    @itssweeno ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Let me just say first time here .. and the way this has spoken to me, in this moment at this time… just is perfection. This was needed, as I’m going through the current season of finding myself again and still being the best mom I can be. As well as acknowledging the struggles I’ve felt, 10 years later, of being a young mom. I needed this validation in so many ways. So thank you ladies for this. *subscribes*

  • @christiancobbins3179
    @christiancobbins3179 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Motherhood is kingdom work

  • @natboss
    @natboss ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I came across your IG page and saw that Megan was a guest on your show. I immediately had to come to YT and be notified of this God lead conversation. I’m not a mom but as a woman who hopes for children in the future, I know I will benefit from this conversation… thank you!

    • @Christimony222
      @Christimony222 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. SAME. My testimony exactly. Thank you.

  • @shanagoodman86
    @shanagoodman86 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I don’t care what anyone says, I love Megan. She continues to be a blessing! She was obedient and did exactly what God told her to do. This is what she was called to do ❤

  • @bemajor711
    @bemajor711 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Self-care encompasses the mind, body, and soul. It's taking care of both the inside as well as the outside. It's hygiene, sleep, exercise, food choices, manicures, pedicures, massages, etc. All of these things require a level of continuance and upkeep.

  • @MiaJohnson-x4m
    @MiaJohnson-x4m 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +172

    What helped me the most with raising my children was the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. It is honestly a game changer

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Here because of Megan. I really respect her as a woman of God. And, I love her as an articulate thinker/speaker/thought leader. And, I love any topic about motherhood - even though I’m not there yet. I take it as training. And, I appreciate you ladies for helping me through that process through this video. I haven’t watched it yet. It just started. But, I know I am going to grow significantly from these testimonies so I thank you in advance for being open and brave and faithful to your mission. May God continue to bless, cover, and provide unlimited fruit for all of your families, hearts, and finances - with a sound mind through it all.

  • @brittneydagner5502
    @brittneydagner5502 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I am so excited for this episode. Watching Megan Evolve within the last two years has been a`mazing. Now, watching her publicly walk in her journey with God and walking in her God-given identity is even better. 💙

  • @Healing_on_a_bluecouch_
    @Healing_on_a_bluecouch_ ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Megan always says the right things, I needed this conversation as a single mom of 2...thank you 💞

  • @lemogangmonnahela9091
    @lemogangmonnahela9091 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just finished watching and I kept rewinding that's just how good it was. This was a perfect start to a new season, ya'll chose a remarkable guest to come on the podcast. Felt like I was in church and I am not even a mom nor married but really loved the conversation.

  • @mjmmsm21
    @mjmmsm21 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The part where meg started talking about her autistic son and their journey touched me so much, this episode was so good ❤

  • @withgratitudexo
    @withgratitudexo ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You have a new subscriber . As a special needs mom this is totally relatable, everything from questioning God to crying in the shower .I loved this conversation and will follow all thru girls on social media as well ❤

  • @lindseyharris4139
    @lindseyharris4139 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Jesus. I cried the majority of the time... didn't know I needed to release as much as I did. I too got pregnant at 19 now I'm 30. I relate so much... a lot of things I didn't realize I'd just covered up and forgot about but were unpacked during this episode. Single mom, working mom, guilt felt mom is me. You have gained a new subscriber! I clicked on because of Megan who I absolutely love ❤️ needed this episode ladies, thanks! 🙏🏾

  • @productgirl
    @productgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love knowing that we moms are living the same lives 😅 it’s not just me/you. It’s all of us dears ❤❤❤

  • @Asio_Faith
    @Asio_Faith 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a WHOLESOME conversation thst every lady/mom needs to hear. Thank you ladies... Appreciated!!

  • @ItsKendraP
    @ItsKendraP ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m a supporter of Megan’s and I’m so glad I found your channel. Her words are so golden, always. “As a wife I lost my last name, as a mother I lost my first name”. Mind blowing!! As of tomorrow, I will be given my maiden name back and I couldn’t be happier. I’ll always love “Ma”. 😍 Praying to meet more women such these. 🤍💐🙏🏾

  • @MoAshlei
    @MoAshlei ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brought to tears at the end. I’m a new single mom & I’m loving the journey but it is hard. Thank you for the confirmation ladies! You all are doing great work through your platform. God bless.

  • @laquebra24
    @laquebra24 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The whole pod was great and the last 3 minutes Megan has me in tears !

  • @JudyNieves
    @JudyNieves ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Megan !! Ugh I love her ! I clicked on the episode immediately!!

  • @df.solaceandskin
    @df.solaceandskin ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a genuine and insightful conversation... I saw a clip in my timeline randomly and had to run over to see my girl Meg! Lots of love and blessings ladies 🖤

  • @marquishajackson9062
    @marquishajackson9062 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whew! 😢my second time watching and I’m still in tears! I love this episode! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @jessicabullock2797
    @jessicabullock2797 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's the way the last 3 minutes rocked me! Megan!!! You better go head girl, omg. Tore me UP. Sobbing at my desk but receiving that word. THANK YOU SIS! 💗

  • @DonyavuaiPompy
    @DonyavuaiPompy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this I am going through with 2 children that have speech therapy and 2 very small children and I love how God is incorporated into this podcast

  • @yinksminks2346
    @yinksminks2346 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a gift to the world this message is. Ladies you are saving lives with this mesage. My God! This is one of the best messages about Motherhood I have ever heard. Megan you are a treasure of Wisdom. God will always be with you and your boys. I am proud of you. Three beautiful ladies with humility, wisdom and compassion for the world. God will greatly reward you ladies. Thank you for this messages. This has to viral for God's sake .❤

  • @cphaleiellc
    @cphaleiellc ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Been supporting Moms Actually from the beginning. This was so good! Great way to start a new season. Can't wait to watch the next episodes.

  • @only1specialk
    @only1specialk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We needed this today thanks Megan thanks mom’s actually!!!

  • @Lifeasmayia
    @Lifeasmayia ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a WAYYYYY to start Season 4!!!! I love this can’t wait until what’s next 🩷 great episode!!

  • @andreavfirst
    @andreavfirst 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ugh had to wipe my tears a couple of times. First time seeing you ladies, loved this episode. Megan is always spitting knowledge and I can identify with many things she say. I also think I am pretty self aware but it sometimes totally has "disadvantages". Nice one 🤩

  • @only1specialk
    @only1specialk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes this was good!!!

  • @ciarabrown-humes2623
    @ciarabrown-humes2623 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This has helped me

  • @krystlenicole5416
    @krystlenicole5416 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a beautiful conversation, so many gems and amens in this one!! Great job ladies! ❤

  • @missdaniebee
    @missdaniebee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was right on time! Thank you so much for showing up to your calling- all of you. Many points when tears were running down my face (in the laundromat) Putting this on my re-watch list! Thank you again🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @WomanofGod_1
    @WomanofGod_1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my first time watching this podcast and wow. I’m a single mom of 2 boys under 2. I had a meltdown earlier so I prayed about it and went about my day. But I kept feeling like God had something to say. Everything from being disobedient is why we’re broke etc to not using our time wisely. I heard all of it earlier. I’m watching this at 2am and this was his confirmation. Thank you 🙏🤍

  • @LovelyLalaLuvnLife
    @LovelyLalaLuvnLife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this!! Love the energy all of you!! Beautiful Souls for sure!!!

  • @AliyaWray
    @AliyaWray ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New Subbie!!! I absolutely loved this interview!! Super inspiring for us Moms. I am a fairly new Mom, 2 year old son, 1 year old girl. Getting back to yourself, chile!! Every time I think I’m getting half way back, I take it all back.
    I knew I always wanted kids, so rewarding, I love it. It’s tough though! Hearing stories like this, and other Moms always helps me!
    So thank you!
    Stay amazing, and blessed Mommies❤

  • @charmainedenise9699
    @charmainedenise9699 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a relatable convo omg! 😳 I got married a year ago and we had a second child 2 months and it feels like I’m losing it! I appreciate you ladies for being so transparent

  • @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870
    @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible mind-blowing real conversations ..i love the part where she mentioned that whatever negative effects we are experiencing mostly come from disobedience..we just want to do things our way.grateful for the wisdom and encouragement,i want to do better going forward as a child of God and then I know when my posture is right with him everything else gets sorted..its a ripple effect

  • @amberbug90
    @amberbug90 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Totally Good ‼️

  • @dymjackson713
    @dymjackson713 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whew that tablet story hit me hardddddd , god is so so real !

  • @jirahcosey
    @jirahcosey ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a great conversation!!

  • @idylia8276
    @idylia8276 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow This is so good. I can totally relate as a mom of non-verbal daughter. 🙏🏾

  • @mrs.ashleysanders
    @mrs.ashleysanders 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my first time watching this podcast, and I love it already! I HAD TO SUBSCRIBE!!!!

  • @blesdmuvment
    @blesdmuvment ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this conversation! So good ❤❤ And I love how everyone is being real. It's refreshing.

  • @believeinyourcrown1127
    @believeinyourcrown1127 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so good Queens ♥️🙏🏾

  • @KimmieTrevie
    @KimmieTrevie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Create the balance” Jesus!!!!! I needed this like NOW!!!!!!

  • @kelechikalu6819
    @kelechikalu6819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was gold. I needed this so bad!!!!! So many gems! Loved the challenge to talk to your God and open your mind to accept and understand the answers. Also helped me want to appreciate my child and how much God trusted me to raise him. I loved this. Keep it coming

  • @51629jbgemu
    @51629jbgemu ปีที่แล้ว

    The way Megan is talking to god to deliver his message through her is the reason why I’m here on my beautiful journey. ❤ thank you for this episode. I see my sister as a mother so much clearer now. All of you are great women of god and great mothers. I see you. 😇

  • @AudaL
    @AudaL ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazinggggg episode

  • @carissarobbins9609
    @carissarobbins9609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THOROUGHLY enjoyed this! Needed this! Thank you ladies! 💕

  • @zoniqueoriginals
    @zoniqueoriginals 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    51:55 Thank you!

  • @mindyourspace1
    @mindyourspace1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let me just say I love your content and it has really inspired me to not give up on my podcast for mothers and just believe in myself. So thank you.

  • @chrisses99
    @chrisses99 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad i came across this video, so much of what was talked about was for me. But the last word Megan had for us, thank you! I really needed that more than ever! God bless you sis!

  • @giftytackie6734
    @giftytackie6734 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really blessed by this. Megan thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God to touch lives. God richly bless you all.

  • @benzalu
    @benzalu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Megan! Really helpful message and I admire her honesty in her journey with God ❤ Great episode!

  • @asiahicks7827
    @asiahicks7827 ปีที่แล้ว

    This definitely touched me. The part about wanting,trying and praying for her 1st and then having to deal with autism wheww😢 i pictured my daughter and she is exactly the image i had in mind. Autism changed how i thought mommy and me would end up. Its different and sometimes difficult but this checked me because i can do better.

  • @Jaz-t2l
    @Jaz-t2l ปีที่แล้ว

    God had this a sign , I don’t seem to understand the message quite yet but on my lunch break I opened YT and before I could even blink this video started playing and I love this and for some reason I feel a lot lighter because I myself have started my journey with GOD , I myself have and is going through a storm , completing various seasons all by the love of god and his strength. lol these podcast make so emotional I would be on camera crying my behind off because them WORDS WERE HITTING ❤ I’m so glad I came across this video and look forward to enjoying the rest

  • @CHARMONTANALEE
    @CHARMONTANALEE ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was much needed! It’s always great to hear Megan’s perspective on things! Needed to hear all of this in this current season! Thank you! 🤍🙌🏽

  • @breenotbry
    @breenotbry 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this Joy on Blair … #forwardcityfam checking in super great episode and love Meg too 💕🙏🏾 excited to learn about Morgan 💫

  • @TOSORIO-q8h
    @TOSORIO-q8h ปีที่แล้ว

    Definitely talking to me. I’m soooo all in for this answer. Such an awesome question.

  • @arikanesha
    @arikanesha 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was well timed! I appreciate you ladies and always Megan Ashley for just sharing her God given wisdom and knowledge on the very thing I have been struggling with. You guys hit on it all! Purpose, single moms, identity outside of motherhood. Motherhood is a journey and a sacrifice. But it is well worth it❤ You’ve gained a new subbie! I pray for you ladies journey and pray that God blesses you all and keeps his hands on y’all’s business🤍🤍

  • @TeairraMonaee
    @TeairraMonaee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this conversation, I needed to hear every word especially being a mother and a wife at the age I am ❤

  • @seraiahelaine19
    @seraiahelaine19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode was very encouraging and empowering. Thank you so much ladies for sharing your hearts and minds with us. Excited to experience the rest of the season. 💕

  • @RestorationTherapyCenter
    @RestorationTherapyCenter ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this content. Thank you ladies, for creating it and looking good while you do it.

  • @iluASMRofficial
    @iluASMRofficial 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for the transparency, i needed this!

  • @QuatonyasLife
    @QuatonyasLife ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this podcast. I’m happy to see I’m not the only one doing mostly ALL these things 😭💞 I wanna do better!

  • @Monique670
    @Monique670 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so good !!!!!

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just here making time stamps of moments that hitttt me :
    9:06 , whewww !
    17:25
    32:30 💕 need to incorporate that more .
    44:30 valid question, do I really want it or do I want the benefits ?
    51:10 , needed to hear that !

  • @tlc0508
    @tlc0508 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Megan bought me here!!! Love her!

  • @SHANAI-
    @SHANAI- 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great conversation, I’m really grateful that God bought me here. This was a WORD all around. So much confirmation for me & enlightenment. Thank you for this.🙏🏽🤍

  • @sommerstylesboutique
    @sommerstylesboutique 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If it's one thing Megan Ashley is going to do is make you cry with her (big or small) testimonies!😂😂😂 #FellowPisces
    Great Podcast ladies! 1st time watching.😃🫶🏾

  • @lookandfeelgorgeous
    @lookandfeelgorgeous ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great!

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful ladies we can b focused on ourselves and our kids at the same time it’s bc what I had to learn

  • @renitablow1405
    @renitablow1405 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yessss bless them Meg 🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖

  • @fumiagbaje5351
    @fumiagbaje5351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving this

  • @kahlamekel7417
    @kahlamekel7417 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so good! New mom here ❤️

  • @NyokaWill
    @NyokaWill ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏾 amazing content

  • @geordayne
    @geordayne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was amazing!!!!❤

  • @HarmonyandHope7
    @HarmonyandHope7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is Blair’s dress from??😍😍🥰🥰🥰😍

  • @biajaviermusic
    @biajaviermusic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great episode y’all. Am I the only one that cried?! 😂😂❤️

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a man I enjoyed this video ❤ and I will share this with my mother friends

    • @MomsActually
      @MomsActually  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 🫶🏽

  • @LEXBODYARCH
    @LEXBODYARCH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ha!!! “You laugh…OH YOU NOT SICK NO MORE” 😭😭😭

  • @HarmonyandHope7
    @HarmonyandHope7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    9:04 9:06 Wow… this is real 🥹

  • @Alisha_Mariiee
    @Alisha_Mariiee ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You lose your first name hit me hard ! Never thought of that

  • @Brittttt97
    @Brittttt97 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love megan ❤❤❤❤

  • @benzbodyambassadors7206
    @benzbodyambassadors7206 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Village here 🛖🫶🏾🛖🫶🏾🛖

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am new here so pardon my asking. I couldn't help notice Blair's surname. Are you related to a Ghanaian or something?

  • @lighthouse9497
    @lighthouse9497 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ephisians 4: 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and shouting, yelling (clamour), and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

  • @nikirenneechambers
    @nikirenneechambers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙💙💙💙

  • @ShajiraYaniceli
    @ShajiraYaniceli 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU CAN'T ESCAPE YOU!!!!!
    YOU LOSE YOUR LAST NAME AND FIRST NAME, NOW WHO AM I???
    MEGAN, GIRL!!!!!

  • @TOSORIO-q8h
    @TOSORIO-q8h ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg Megan say it again. If I ask for help just give the help.

  • @zoniqueoriginals
    @zoniqueoriginals 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    44.27 OMG. Your child is not disobedient, you’re disobedient.

  • @BabeKay01
    @BabeKay01 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get keke sheard on here.

  • @queenvenus9128
    @queenvenus9128 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Going through a divorce doesn't give you wisdom, it gives you regret...be aware of false prophets

  • @stephanie.wiilliiams
    @stephanie.wiilliiams ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🤍 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love this!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Doseofmarisa
    @Doseofmarisa ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed this 🥹❤️

  • @chairaherrera2449
    @chairaherrera2449 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I had no idea how much I needed this 🗣️🫂😭🙏🏼

  • @dragonjass22
    @dragonjass22 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yall. read All The Joy You Can Stand by Debrena Gandy Jackson

  • @HarmonyandHope7
    @HarmonyandHope7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where is Blair’s dress from??😍😍🥰🥰🥰😍