How to Find Yourself After Motherhood Ft. Megan Ashley | Impact Of Motherhood | S4 Ep. 1

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  • Welcome to the Season 4 Premiere of Moms Actually! Our season kicks off with Megan Ashley (​⁠@Immeganashley ) host of “In Totality with Megan Ashley” and former host of the “Know For Sure Pod”. In this episode we discuss why women lose their identity after marriage and how to find yourself after motherhood. We also take the opportunity to explore the impact of marriage in this episode.
    This episode provides a comprehensive overview of why women lose their identity after marriage and how to find yourself after motherhood..
    Some of the topics we will discuss are:
    - Postpartum depression
    - The myth of motherhood
    - Special Needs parenting
    - Starting Over and New Beginnings
    - How can you fully enjoy your single life?
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    This episode explores postpartum depression, the myth of motherhood, and how you can fully enjoy your single life.
    Join us in this insightful video as we tackle why women lose their identity after marriage and how to find yourself after motherhood. Also, discover the essential information on the impact of marriage and the impact of motherhood.
    Please share your thoughts in the comments below. We cannot wait to hear your perspectives on:
    - Postpartum depression
    - The myth of motherhood
    - How can you fully enjoy your single life?
    - How to move on after the loss of a marriage
    - how to move on after the loss of a frienship
    Thank you for being a part of this discussion on the #1 Talk Show for Moms
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  • @itssweeno
    @itssweeno 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Let me just say first time here .. and the way this has spoken to me, in this moment at this time… just is perfection. This was needed, as I’m going through the current season of finding myself again and still being the best mom I can be. As well as acknowledging the struggles I’ve felt, 10 years later, of being a young mom. I needed this validation in so many ways. So thank you ladies for this. *subscribes*

  • @christiancobbins3179
    @christiancobbins3179 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Motherhood is kingdom work

  • @shanagoodman86
    @shanagoodman86 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I don’t care what anyone says, I love Megan. She continues to be a blessing! She was obedient and did exactly what God told her to do. This is what she was called to do ❤

  • @natboss
    @natboss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    I came across your IG page and saw that Megan was a guest on your show. I immediately had to come to YT and be notified of this God lead conversation. I’m not a mom but as a woman who hopes for children in the future, I know I will benefit from this conversation… thank you!

    • @Christimony222
      @Christimony222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. SAME. My testimony exactly. Thank you.

  • @bemajor711
    @bemajor711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Self-care encompasses the mind, body, and soul. It's taking care of both the inside as well as the outside. It's hygiene, sleep, exercise, food choices, manicures, pedicures, massages, etc. All of these things require a level of continuance and upkeep.

  • @productgirl
    @productgirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love knowing that we moms are living the same lives 😅 it’s not just me/you. It’s all of us dears ❤❤❤

  • @brittneydagner5502
    @brittneydagner5502 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I am so excited for this episode. Watching Megan Evolve within the last two years has been a`mazing. Now, watching her publicly walk in her journey with God and walking in her God-given identity is even better. 💙

  • @lindseyharris4139
    @lindseyharris4139 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Jesus. I cried the majority of the time... didn't know I needed to release as much as I did. I too got pregnant at 19 now I'm 30. I relate so much... a lot of things I didn't realize I'd just covered up and forgot about but were unpacked during this episode. Single mom, working mom, guilt felt mom is me. You have gained a new subscriber! I clicked on because of Megan who I absolutely love ❤️ needed this episode ladies, thanks! 🙏🏾

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Here because of Megan. I really respect her as a woman of God. And, I love her as an articulate thinker/speaker/thought leader. And, I love any topic about motherhood - even though I’m not there yet. I take it as training. And, I appreciate you ladies for helping me through that process through this video. I haven’t watched it yet. It just started. But, I know I am going to grow significantly from these testimonies so I thank you in advance for being open and brave and faithful to your mission. May God continue to bless, cover, and provide unlimited fruit for all of your families, hearts, and finances - with a sound mind through it all.

  • @Healing_on_a_bluecouch_
    @Healing_on_a_bluecouch_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Megan always says the right things, I needed this conversation as a single mom of 2...thank you 💞

  • @marissamoore6033
    @marissamoore6033 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The part where meg started talking about her autistic son and their journey touched me so much, this episode was so good ❤

  • @lemogangmonnahela9091
    @lemogangmonnahela9091 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I just finished watching and I kept rewinding that's just how good it was. This was a perfect start to a new season, ya'll chose a remarkable guest to come on the podcast. Felt like I was in church and I am not even a mom nor married but really loved the conversation.

  • @withgratitudexo
    @withgratitudexo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You have a new subscriber . As a special needs mom this is totally relatable, everything from questioning God to crying in the shower .I loved this conversation and will follow all thru girls on social media as well ❤

  • @Lifeasmayia
    @Lifeasmayia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a WAYYYYY to start Season 4!!!! I love this can’t wait until what’s next 🩷 great episode!!

  • @only1specialk
    @only1specialk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes this was good!!!

  • @ItsKendraP
    @ItsKendraP 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m a supporter of Megan’s and I’m so glad I found your channel. Her words are so golden, always. “As a wife I lost my last name, as a mother I lost my first name”. Mind blowing!! As of tomorrow, I will be given my maiden name back and I couldn’t be happier. I’ll always love “Ma”. 😍 Praying to meet more women such these. 🤍💐🙏🏾

  • @Asio_Faith
    @Asio_Faith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a WHOLESOME conversation thst every lady/mom needs to hear. Thank you ladies... Appreciated!!

  • @believeinyourcrown1127
    @believeinyourcrown1127 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was so good Queens ♥️🙏🏾

  • @cphaleiellc
    @cphaleiellc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Been supporting Moms Actually from the beginning. This was so good! Great way to start a new season. Can't wait to watch the next episodes.

  • @leosky2779
    @leosky2779 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you for the transparency, i needed this!

  • @Monique670
    @Monique670 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was so good !!!!!

  • @carissarobbins9609
    @carissarobbins9609 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THOROUGHLY enjoyed this! Needed this! Thank you ladies! 💕

  • @only1specialk
    @only1specialk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We needed this today thanks Megan thanks mom’s actually!!!

  • @jessicabullock2797
    @jessicabullock2797 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's the way the last 3 minutes rocked me! Megan!!! You better go head girl, omg. Tore me UP. Sobbing at my desk but receiving that word. THANK YOU SIS! 💗

  • @amberbug90
    @amberbug90 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Totally Good ‼️

  • @Restoration_ASMR
    @Restoration_ASMR 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this content. Thank you ladies, for creating it and looking good while you do it.

  • @dlfortune
    @dlfortune 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such a genuine and insightful conversation... I saw a clip in my timeline randomly and had to run over to see my girl Meg! Lots of love and blessings ladies 🖤

  • @LovelyLalaLuvnLife
    @LovelyLalaLuvnLife 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love this!! Love the energy all of you!! Beautiful Souls for sure!!!

  • @marquishajackson9062
    @marquishajackson9062 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whew! 😢my second time watching and I’m still in tears! I love this episode! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @JudyNieves
    @JudyNieves 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Megan !! Ugh I love her ! I clicked on the episode immediately!!

  • @jirahcosey
    @jirahcosey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Such a great conversation!!

  • @laquebra24
    @laquebra24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The whole pod was great and the last 3 minutes Megan has me in tears !

  • @AudaL
    @AudaL 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazinggggg episode

  • @MoAshlei
    @MoAshlei 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brought to tears at the end. I’m a new single mom & I’m loving the journey but it is hard. Thank you for the confirmation ladies! You all are doing great work through your platform. God bless.

  • @seraiahelaine19
    @seraiahelaine19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was very encouraging and empowering. Thank you so much ladies for sharing your hearts and minds with us. Excited to experience the rest of the season. 💕

  • @missdaniebee
    @missdaniebee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video was right on time! Thank you so much for showing up to your calling- all of you. Many points when tears were running down my face (in the laundromat) Putting this on my re-watch list! Thank you again🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @krystlenicole5416
    @krystlenicole5416 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was a beautiful conversation, so many gems and amens in this one!! Great job ladies! ❤

  • @kims4744
    @kims4744 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Create the balance” Jesus!!!!! I needed this like NOW!!!!!!

  • @CHARMONTANALEE
    @CHARMONTANALEE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode was much needed! It’s always great to hear Megan’s perspective on things! Needed to hear all of this in this current season! Thank you! 🤍🙌🏽

  • @lookandfeelgorgeous
    @lookandfeelgorgeous 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was great!

  • @user-vn3zf4ct9v
    @user-vn3zf4ct9v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely talking to me. I’m soooo all in for this answer. Such an awesome question.

  • @AliyaWray
    @AliyaWray 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New Subbie!!! I absolutely loved this interview!! Super inspiring for us Moms. I am a fairly new Mom, 2 year old son, 1 year old girl. Getting back to yourself, chile!! Every time I think I’m getting half way back, I take it all back.
    I knew I always wanted kids, so rewarding, I love it. It’s tough though! Hearing stories like this, and other Moms always helps me!
    So thank you!
    Stay amazing, and blessed Mommies❤

  • @chrisses99
    @chrisses99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So glad i came across this video, so much of what was talked about was for me. But the last word Megan had for us, thank you! I really needed that more than ever! God bless you sis!

  • @kelechikalu6819
    @kelechikalu6819 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was gold. I needed this so bad!!!!! So many gems! Loved the challenge to talk to your God and open your mind to accept and understand the answers. Also helped me want to appreciate my child and how much God trusted me to raise him. I loved this. Keep it coming

  • @yinksminks2346
    @yinksminks2346 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a gift to the world this message is. Ladies you are saving lives with this mesage. My God! This is one of the best messages about Motherhood I have ever heard. Megan you are a treasure of Wisdom. God will always be with you and your boys. I am proud of you. Three beautiful ladies with humility, wisdom and compassion for the world. God will greatly reward you ladies. Thank you for this messages. This has to viral for God's sake .❤

  • @asiahicks7827
    @asiahicks7827 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This definitely touched me. The part about wanting,trying and praying for her 1st and then having to deal with autism wheww😢 i pictured my daughter and she is exactly the image i had in mind. Autism changed how i thought mommy and me would end up. Its different and sometimes difficult but this checked me because i can do better.

  • @geordayne
    @geordayne 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was amazing!!!!❤

  • @fumiagbaje5351
    @fumiagbaje5351 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving this

  • @andreavfirst
    @andreavfirst 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ugh had to wipe my tears a couple of times. First time seeing you ladies, loved this episode. Megan is always spitting knowledge and I can identify with many things she say. I also think I am pretty self aware but it sometimes totally has "disadvantages". Nice one 🤩

  • @arikanesha
    @arikanesha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was well timed! I appreciate you ladies and always Megan Ashley for just sharing her God given wisdom and knowledge on the very thing I have been struggling with. You guys hit on it all! Purpose, single moms, identity outside of motherhood. Motherhood is a journey and a sacrifice. But it is well worth it❤ You’ve gained a new subbie! I pray for you ladies journey and pray that God blesses you all and keeps his hands on y’all’s business🤍🤍

  • @thebryanak
    @thebryanak 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this Joy on Blair … #forwardcityfam checking in super great episode and love Meg too 💕🙏🏾 excited to learn about Morgan 💫

  • @QuatonyasLife
    @QuatonyasLife 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this podcast. I’m happy to see I’m not the only one doing mostly ALL these things 😭💞 I wanna do better!

  • @journeywithqueen
    @journeywithqueen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let me just say I love your content and it has really inspired me to not give up on my podcast for mothers and just believe in myself. So thank you.

  • @WomanofGod_1
    @WomanofGod_1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my first time watching this podcast and wow. I’m a single mom of 2 boys under 2. I had a meltdown earlier so I prayed about it and went about my day. But I kept feeling like God had something to say. Everything from being disobedient is why we’re broke etc to not using our time wisely. I heard all of it earlier. I’m watching this at 2am and this was his confirmation. Thank you 🙏🤍

  • @TeairraMonaee
    @TeairraMonaee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this conversation, I needed to hear every word especially being a mother and a wife at the age I am ❤

  • @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870
    @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Incredible mind-blowing real conversations ..i love the part where she mentioned that whatever negative effects we are experiencing mostly come from disobedience..we just want to do things our way.grateful for the wisdom and encouragement,i want to do better going forward as a child of God and then I know when my posture is right with him everything else gets sorted..its a ripple effect

  • @ciarabrown-humes2623
    @ciarabrown-humes2623 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This has helped me

  • @user-bb3bv3dc9d
    @user-bb3bv3dc9d 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God had this a sign , I don’t seem to understand the message quite yet but on my lunch break I opened YT and before I could even blink this video started playing and I love this and for some reason I feel a lot lighter because I myself have started my journey with GOD , I myself have and is going through a storm , completing various seasons all by the love of god and his strength. lol these podcast make so emotional I would be on camera crying my behind off because them WORDS WERE HITTING ❤ I’m so glad I came across this video and look forward to enjoying the rest

  • @charmainedenise9699
    @charmainedenise9699 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a relatable convo omg! 😳 I got married a year ago and we had a second child 2 months and it feels like I’m losing it! I appreciate you ladies for being so transparent

  • @giftytackie6734
    @giftytackie6734 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really blessed by this. Megan thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God to touch lives. God richly bless you all.

  • @51629jbgemu
    @51629jbgemu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The way Megan is talking to god to deliver his message through her is the reason why I’m here on my beautiful journey. ❤ thank you for this episode. I see my sister as a mother so much clearer now. All of you are great women of god and great mothers. I see you. 😇

  • @benzalu
    @benzalu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Megan! Really helpful message and I admire her honesty in her journey with God ❤ Great episode!

  • @thefitmamma
    @thefitmamma 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this conversation! So good ❤❤ And I love how everyone is being real. It's refreshing.

  • @tlc0508
    @tlc0508 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Megan bought me here!!! Love her!

  • @kahlamekel7417
    @kahlamekel7417 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so good! New mom here ❤️

  • @CheersBenchesTV
    @CheersBenchesTV 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏾 amazing content

  • @biajaviermusic
    @biajaviermusic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great episode y’all. Am I the only one that cried?! 😂😂❤️

  • @idylia8276
    @idylia8276 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow This is so good. I can totally relate as a mom of non-verbal daughter. 🙏🏾

  • @renitablow1405
    @renitablow1405 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yessss bless them Meg 🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖🛖

  • @sommerstylesboutique
    @sommerstylesboutique 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If it's one thing Megan Ashley is going to do is make you cry with her (big or small) testimonies!😂😂😂 #FellowPisces
    Great Podcast ladies! 1st time watching.😃🫶🏾

  • @queenkeesh8660
    @queenkeesh8660 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful ladies we can b focused on ourselves and our kids at the same time it’s bc what I had to learn

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a man I enjoyed this video ❤ and I will share this with my mother friends

    • @MomsActually
      @MomsActually  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 🫶🏽

  • @LEXBODYARCH
    @LEXBODYARCH 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ha!!! “You laugh…OH YOU NOT SICK NO MORE” 😭😭😭

  • @Alisha_Mariiee
    @Alisha_Mariiee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You lose your first name hit me hard ! Never thought of that

  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just here making time stamps of moments that hitttt me :
    9:06 , whewww !
    17:25
    32:30 💕 need to incorporate that more .
    44:30 valid question, do I really want it or do I want the benefits ?
    51:10 , needed to hear that !

  • @user-xy8sx1wl8s
    @user-xy8sx1wl8s 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love megan ❤❤❤❤

  • @benzbodyambassadors7206
    @benzbodyambassadors7206 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Village here 🛖🫶🏾🛖🫶🏾🛖

  • @nikirenneechambers
    @nikirenneechambers 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙💙💙💙

  • @lighthouse9497
    @lighthouse9497 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ephisians 4: 31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and shouting, yelling (clamour), and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: and be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

  • @ShajiraYaniceli
    @ShajiraYaniceli 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    YOU CAN'T ESCAPE YOU!!!!!
    YOU LOSE YOUR LAST NAME AND FIRST NAME, NOW WHO AM I???
    MEGAN, GIRL!!!!!

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am new here so pardon my asking. I couldn't help notice Blair's surname. Are you related to a Ghanaian or something?

  • @user-vn3zf4ct9v
    @user-vn3zf4ct9v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg Megan say it again. If I ask for help just give the help.

  • @BabeKay01
    @BabeKay01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get keke sheard on here.

  • @queenvenus9128
    @queenvenus9128 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Going through a divorce doesn't give you wisdom, it gives you regret...be aware of false prophets

  • @SHANAI-
    @SHANAI- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great conversation, I’m really grateful that God bought me here. This was a WORD all around. So much confirmation for me & enlightenment. Thank you for this.🙏🏽🤍

  • @stephaniewilliams2222
    @stephaniewilliams2222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🤍 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 love this!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Doseofmarisa
    @Doseofmarisa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this 🥹❤️

  • @chairaherrera2449
    @chairaherrera2449 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! I had no idea how much I needed this 🗣️🫂😭🙏🏼

  • @dragonjass24
    @dragonjass24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yall. read All The Joy You Can Stand by Debrena Gandy Jackson