My Roommate's Boyfriend Is Rude As Hell - You Can Sit With Us Ep. 117
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Lots of respect for just respecting Ariel’s privacy.
Agreed. That’s what SNL failed to realize. This very real scandal involved people not looking for any type of publicity what so ever. No need to drag it on
@@davidcohen9016 there was an snl skit about this? My God.... those poor kids.
@@earthstar7534 yep and a friend of ned’s had writer credits on the “skit”
@@OnlyGleeLover ughhhhhh yuck. I feel so horrible for the children. They're so young. They didn't even have a shot.
I mean I don't think anyone should speak on it
I love how much more vocal Maggie is this podcast is so underrated
I was thinking the same thing! She seemed to kinda take charge and open up more than normal!
Honestly I do not miss Ariels long winded stories and being the center of attention. She was not a good fit for the podcast and it feels so balanced now. Everyone can talk naturally.
@@whitneymiller5139 Why did you choose to reply this to my comment which had nothing to do with Ariel?
@@Poetic.rectum because without Ariel dominating things Maggie probably feels more inclined to speak up
@@whitneymiller5139 Ariel is the victim in this situation. Let's not hate on her just yet lol
Maggie’s evolution from complete secret to effortlessly introducing a podcast is honestly iconic.
I was nervous we had lost our weekly wine style chats and I was really disappointed. So excited to have my wonderful safe and comfy content here! 🖤🖤
@@ejm6122 Becky said they decided they *won't* be discussing it.
Miles stunned speechless by the Miles Nation shout out was so pure and great.
Here is the full clip :
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Thank you guys for not consuming your channel with the weight of Ned leaving the group. I love yall so much and am excited for what the channel and Zach, Eugene and Kieth individually are able to achieve. Wishing all of the try staff and families peace and happiness. ❤️
Okay but were you here for that low key ? Now we got to learn this was prerecorded.
@here is the full clip I keep falling for it
I think this will also give them more room to grow
@here is the full clip why would you spam ?
@@Foodomania Just report it and hope for the best. It's easier that way.
Had to "like" immediately when Becky drops the "always share your pay" advice!
Remember all, your boss is not your friend, even when they are. Advocate for yourself and others!
👏👏 this absolutely!! I work an entry level/minimum wage job and i feel like i've finally started making strides in developing a back bone lol i know how to do a lot outside of my actual job (and have recieved raises over the course of my time here 💖 luckily decent bosses at this location) and recently through some miscommunication had to do a very specific managerial job!!! I am not a supervisor or manager so i was pissed. I did get a raise out of it when i talked to my boss.
So stand your ground and know your worth!!
Reminds me when I asked my coworkers previous persons pay he tried so hard not to tell me his or others. I'm like,,, sir I'm not gonna get mad it'll just be a goal for me to get to in the future 🥴
I work for the state, so there’s a whole web site where you can look up what everyone makes (and can go back ~10 years). At first, I felt weird about it, but ultimately, I realized that it takes that element out of all equations.
Yes yea yea
I am a boss, and it's everyone's right to share those things. It's a BS policy to say you can't and even the old "it's rude to talk about money" is BS. It's all designed around people not finding out pay discrepancies, which means a business isn't executing fair pay.
As someone with chronic pain, it was so reassuring to hear Maggie's response. I fear that I'll never have a healthy long term relationship because of my disability so seeing someone talk about it with so much love and care legit made me tear up a tiny bit.
As someone who is also disabled, I can say for a fact that you absolutely will find someone who is patient and loves all of you. Keep being unapologetically you. (Seriously. Apologize to no one.) I know that's always easier said than done, but I believe in you. Sending much love 💕
As a happily married fellow spoonie, just wanted to chime in and say that it is absolutely possible to find a good partner. It may take a bit of searching, but never forget that you're worth the effort.
As a married spoonie it does take time to find a good partner. My husband is my caretaker too. It is possible to have a great relationship but it does take time. Your worth it! You will find someone who loves you for you and can accept your disabilities. Much much hugs to you my friend.
+1 I am a chronically ill and disabled person in healthy poly relationships, and am here to remind you that whatever you desire is valid and possible!
Can hard relate to this. Fellow spoonie with multiple other things (trans, queer, parent, small city, etc) Ive found it really hard to even make friends. Hopefully one day we can both show support to others, like the other comments on your thread have for you 😊
Thanks for respecting Ariel's privacy. Please give her lots of support during these difficult times.
tell ariel that we’re in complete support of her and to take her time coming back!
In complete support of her knowing for years about all of the many affairs Ned has had and is having? This is so silly....
@@ariwilsonx if that's true it isn't our business. Her trust was broken regardless this time around. I had an ex cheat on me dozens of times and we'd always chat and I'd always give him another chance. At one point the straw broke the camels back and I finally left. But I didn't know about exactly how many relationships he had on the side. I had suspicions but not evidence. Ariel may have been in a similar situation. Still, not our business. Still very much deserving of our support.
@@ariwilsonx why are you commenting under EVERYONE🤡seems a little obsessive
@@SassyWinterFox Your comment is contradicting. It isn't our business, exactly, and we don't know if her trust was broken cause she could've been aware of it. But that doesn't matter cause its not our business. Imagine if they've been in an open relationship this whole time and his life just got ruined cause WE didn't know. Are yall gunna attack Ariel if she decides to stay with Ned? Let's see how this all plays out since we all think were entitled to every detail of their lives. Ya can't pick and choose what parts you're willing to dig in just to fit whatever narrative you wanna see. "It isn't our business...her trust was broken" We don't have a clue and it isn't our business.
@@ariwilsonx you’re a freak I’m sorry
My tip for supporting someone with chronic pain- be mentally prepared for your plans to change. That concert you were both looking forward to... it might not be the best thing for your partner to go if they're having a flare and so try not to make them feel even worse about having to cancel plans because of their condition. Try to have some back up plans in mind for those days when things don't quite go their way, this way you both can still have fun doing something together and they don't feel guilty for causing the change in plans
Agreed
This is such good advice! As someone with pain and with a husband who also suffers from chronic pain - it hits whenever it wants to and there is NOTHING we can do about it. Being flexible and understanding is the best advice.. we already feel shitty both physically as well as about cancelling plans, and trust me, we know it sucks too. But chronic pain rules the roost and we will have to cancel plans - no matter how excited we might have been about them.
Having good 'stay-at-home-and-chill' fallback options is *excellent* advice~!
This is such an important point. As someone who struggles with chronic pain, it is quite overwhelming and disappointing when plans have to change, especially when planned well in advance. For me, it sucks to have to plan / tentatively accept plans knowing they may not come to fruition, but I've gotten better about communicating my intentions of doing something and having a backup plan or simply stating that there's the possibility of a last minute change, depending on how I'm feeling. It is hard to express what I'm experiencing and exactly how it is affecting me to others who don't experience chronic pain, but they'll have less of an idea / understanding if I don't try.
Communication is definitely key here to allow room for support and flexibility when things aren't going so well.
this is so important, and also true for neurodiverent people who might simply be too burnt out to do plans without having sensory meltdowns (I have chronic pain and I'm autistic). have backup plans, and if they have trouble dealing with routine changes, discuss your backup plans so they will know what's going to happen
I'm actually relieved this isn't just more drama rehash. I just want them all to just be okay at this point.
Props for emphasizing the importance of talking about pay equity and asking your coworkers what they make. So important.
I cant even tell you how uncomfortable it is when a coworker asks me what I make. Excuse me I have worked 10+ years in my feild and someone who hasn't put in the experience or time better have to work for the level of pay same as I did.
@@kimp.dr.n2652 why do you feel uncomfortable though? they obviously know that not everyone makes the same amount- most people have a concept of seniority and experience. it’s not a judgement of you or your skill- it’s to get a better perspective on how the employer is paying its employees and whether they’re being paid fairly for their work.
thank you! I continuously tell my mom that it is FAIR to ask your coworkers. She is a manager and refuses to see what the other managers make and fears she is making less, and i tell her its okay to ask. It's fair. And the only reason we are scared to ask is cause men made a system like this so woman can be paid less and not know or fear to ask others.
@@loi5s not everyone phrases the question well and not everyone is comfortable disclosing what they earn. So, if you are going to ask about what your coworker makes. Take a few things into account: They're years of experience, time worked with company if you are working in the same position as them, and make sure to inform them its ok if they decline to share please. I realize that raises should be given when due, but this conversation can also cause work place animosity amongst coworkers. Just be careful how you approach it ok.
@@kimp.dr.n2652 of course it’s okay to decline to answer, i’m just pointing out that the only reason that question causes animosity is that corporate entities have led their employees to believe that their salaries should be kept incredibly private in order to facilitate the deceit of employees that they might not be paying well. it’s done on purpose, and by being open with other coworkers about pay it allows the employed body as a whole to stand up for their rights as a unified force rather than a collection of isolated individuals. but again, i agree, some people just don’t feel comfortable sharing, and that’s completely fine :)
has matt ever shared his skincare routine?? because WOW he is glowing.
‘I have the perfect plan. When they go petty you go pettier. If my roommate told me her boyfriend was coming over I would take my car and doublepark him in’ 😭. It’s like i heard myself speak.
Becky: “this one’s about boobies!”
Matt: “WOOOH!!!!” 💀💀💀
As a former 15 year old girl, go for it before everyone else who has a crush on him does. You already have a foot in the door because he interacts with you. Even if you ask him to go to the dance as friends. You’ll probably regret it if someone goes for it before you do.
Yea !! I definitely think she should go for it, it sounds like they like each other ☺️ and I'm sure their friends will be able to understand
Exactly!
I would love to hear Maggie and Zack talk more about being in a relationship where one person has a chronic illness. I think our world is still a very ablest society and as a chronically ill person I feel like that plays a lot into different types of relationships. I can remember a time where before I was sick I didn't think about the little things that could affect someone with a disability and wish our world would start normalizing differently abled bodies. Meeting new people and explaining my situation isn't what bothers me but the fact that later down the line they get frustrated when I can't go out or have to leave early because of my illness. Of course I feel our world is getting better each day but I feel there is still more we could do.
From the Boyfriend parking story, I would save that note, wait until he double parked one time, and then leave the exact same note for him.
I love the idea of playing the long game!
even though it was 100% her entitled selfs fault lol, right
The note was a bit aggressive but also park properly. I park far on purpose and somehow ppl still decide to park next to me with plenty of spaces avail. More context needed. I believe urinal rules need to apply to parking lot.
@@Gadg3t_01 Agree 100%!
@@Gadg3t_01 Of course OP was in the wrong for parking poorly, but the note was still rude.
My respect for Zach has grown so much from the way Maggie described him checking in with her and never resenting her for needing support from him despite his own struggles. ❤
I would totally be the one to talk shit about the incident in front of him to the roommate while pretending I didn't know it was him FOR SURE lmaooooooo
thissss bc also his reply will be telling abt who he actually is
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@@Luna-xb1rg yessss its like okii lets see how fake is this person gonna be. I would be holding back laughter if they just acted like they were on my side too cause that would be the fakest reaction possible and I would never have a ounce of trust for that person after. And when they left I would be tempted to tell the roomate, "tbh I'm pretty sure it was your partner who left the note xD"
I would of hung it on the fridge.
Instead of just parking safely next time?
Loved the advice about helping a partner who struggles with chronic illness! As someone with chronic pain, my partner also uses humor to diffuse grumpier days. (I have ankylosing spondylitis, and he always calls it my Ankylosaurus. Haha) One of the things my partner has done that has helped me the most is advocating for me with other people. When friends don't consider my disability when making plans, he will remind them that I can't do that and suggest an alternative or an adaption. I struggle in barstools, so he has requested moving to a different table on my behalf, and has taken some of the crap friends would normally give me for having to change plans. It is just such a relief to not always have to be the person who ruins plans, you know?
yeah I've been really touched when friends and family have considered my disability without making it the focus/drawing too much attention.
People don’t think about disabled people, if the person who parked next to you needed to use a wheelchair what if they couldn’t get out with your car over the line…. Obviously this isn’t the case with the first person but it’s something to think about.
You're right. The parking girl was the asshole. She felt entitled to park shitty and inconvenience others and then felt like she had the right to be upset when someone gets mad at her selfish behavior. You have no idea how much you may have put that person out or what else happened to them that day. A call out note is not an asshole thing to do when it's literally only pointing out the truth
It actually happens. There was an elderly woman who parked before me and I saw her get out she needed more space for her to get out, we were at physical therapy and she had a cane and just not very able-bodied go get out without a lot of space..it is fine because she needs it and wasn't going to tell her to repark because it wasn't that big of a deal in the scheme of things. It took her a fair amount of time to park and get our safely ..and I just had to park more wonky because she was partly in my space as well..this was at a physical therapy parking lot and we got the last spaces..she left before I got out of my therapy..her spot open but someone put that card on my car..just sighed and chuckled..douche..no understanding or conceptualize why someone could be parked that way.. I have a basic car with dents..not trying to protect it.. anyways..it can a ripple effect..just we need more empathy
@@wizardjokes I mean, that is more than just a you should park better note. They're both assholes here.
And you seem to forget that there are plenty of spaces especially for disabled people. Plus, if she only was a little over the line then just move your car a little? You can still stand in your lines and move enough not to kiss the other car next to you.
Or, if there are other spaces left, park there. Its not that hard. Granted, she could have parked better but if she was in a rush, I get why she wouldnt for only beeing over the line a little
I'm not disabled enough to need a chair, but do have Vertigo, and need help getting around from my husband from time to time. So need room to open the car door, and have room for my husband to assist me.
Just imagining Becky sneaking into someones room to hide a can opener under their pillow is sending me.
i love how maggie and zach both intro their respective podcasts and cohosts so well, theyre both adorable
Miles' exclamation at Rainie's "high value male" comment SCREAMS sibling energy
The fact that high school crushes seem less high stakes as an adult is even more reason to be bold. Later on your life you won’t remember everything, but you’ll probably remember that time you told a guy straight up how you felt.
Bonus: if it fails you’ll have a great story for later 😂 Fails make great party stories.
As a fellow cat obsessed girly with 2 cats the boundaries Becky suggested is so good!! It’s your child don’t let anyone claim your fur baby 👏🏻👏🏻
Have 5 cats and a dog and I totally agree
Absolutely, she is willing to take all responsibility for the baby, it is *her* pet.
That pay story. When I was younger I was working at a fast food place and we suddenly got a lot of new hires and found out they were all started a couple dollars more than the rest of us were making and the rest of us who had been there over a year complained and everyone who didn’t get promoted from that discussion only got a 15 cent raise 💀
WOWWWWWW! That's so insulting and insane! wow! The Labour Board would lose their mind
@@ariwilsonx it was super frustrating and discouraging. Welcome to working in the states lol🙃
Was it McDonald's?
Miles eyes and mouth open wide when Rainie was talking about watching the guy around the room 😆 I just love Miles face reactions to anything that Rainie is saying
Man, that pay situation with Becky is such a slap in the face. Be transparent with what you earn. It’s important to know you’re being paid fairly and can advocate for a raise as needed.
As a chronic pain/illness sufferer, the last part of this pod really got to me. I ended up sending it to my partner with time stamps just hoping he gets something out of it too.
Lots of love to all of you, thanks for keeping us all going. 💕
You guys are my "happy place" podcast!! Glad you're back! ❤️
Maggie is the kind of partner I actively pray for. As someone who lives with chronic pain she gives me hope that there are people in the world that are ready and willing to be supportive and loving partners.
14:01 Thank you Becky for saying this. This was very commonly said by management at my old job and it made the younger staff very nervous to talk about it. But once we started discussing it, we realized how unevenly we were getting paid, especially the people that had been there longer. It wasn't fair and in our case didn't make us resent each other at all, jut realize the inequity.
If she’s not coming back I understand but I sure am gonna miss Ariel. Thank you guys for being classy and not giving into people asking for gossip. ❤️ Love from Holland
The horrible situation that shall not be named brought me back to the Try-Verse and I’m so so happy that it did. I watched the try guys growing up and as a 22 year old, this feels like coming back home :) thanks to everyone at 2nd try LLC so much for the amazing content !! Wishing you all the best !
5 minutes in and already feeling semi back to normal, at least some semblance of normal (this was my comfort pod). Thank you guys 💜💜💜
Here is the full clip : raw footage
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I adore Miles and am so thrilled we get to see more of him as his career with the Try channel continues to expand.
I feel the need to say this, I really hope Ariel is okay. I've been through what she is going through, and I just keep feeling the same hurt and sadness for her and she truly is an amazing person. I don't know if she will see this but if by chance she does, I really hope to see your smile and joy again and I miss everything about listening to you on this pod. Even if you chose to not come back, I wish only beautiful things for you in everything you do. ❤️
I love how Maggie loves and cares for Zach and their relationship
Like watching a flower bloom in the warm sunlight
He got himself a good caregiver.
So excited to see this pop up - Tuesday mornings used to suck but you all make it so much more tolerable!
everything Raine says sHOCKS miles to his core i am LIVING
For the chronic pain question: My found family has a lot of chronic pain amongst us. We manage that line of not being overbearing/parent-y by making sure we remind each other “I am here with you for whatever you need” and then I personally tend to tack on “Hey I’m doing X, is there anything I can do for/get you while I’m doing that?” Because then it’s just a favor. Asking what they need, or if you can do a certain thing for them is a good balance usually. I’m also a mom friend though and often give folks the reminders of “Hey, you call your doctor’s office yet after you mentioned it last week? You need that refill soon.”
I was literally waiting for a podcast to come out, I love this podcast way to much for it to go away😭❤️
Someone once left a note on my car for perceived poor parking. The best part? It was typed and printed with some kind of "training turtle" on it with some stupid pun about my parking. This person.... had the time and level of petty.... to have a printed stash of these notes in their car. That's a whole new level.
I have seen pre-printed notepads like this in Germany, just not somebody actually using them yet
@@sugarcakey ugh I wish I could say it was a purchased notepad. But I remember the cuts weren't even- it was cut by hand.
Sending love to ariel and the babies. Would love to see her back if she wants to come back .
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I'm not really a podcast person, but this is always a delight.
Never expected y’all to discuss the ongoing issue, I think it’s very wonderful that you’re not talking about it. I hope Ariel is doing as well as possible right now, we’re all thinking of her ❤️
I love that Maggie is getting more and more vocal!
Much love to all of you ❤️❤️ I hope you all heal from this experience
Thank you for the opening remark concerning what will not be discussed on this video. Glad to see these people.
Can't watch rn but very excited to do so later! Sending all my love to you throughout everything that's happening and I hope you have a wonderful day ❤️
When Matt says previous people parking can affect your own, that's true, but the poster did say when she got there the lot was empty. So she wasn't affected by any other parked cars.
Becky brought that up after he said it
Sending you all so much love, support, and comfort. You are all absolutely incredible individuals and I love hearing your perspectives!
It’s good to have some wholesome content. You got my support, I hope these continue.
Thank you for continuing the podcast I was worried. I love listening to your content its very uplifting.
I'm so happy you're back 😭❤ good on you for respecting Ariel's privacy
So glad to see ya back! This was such a delight, as always! Sending love to everyone!
This episode makes me miss the excitement of crushes in high school. No high like talking to your crush high 🤣
Thank you to you and your team for still taking time to still put out drama-free content for us to enjoy. Thank you for creating a safe and supportive space in all your content. May all of you find strength, unity, wisdom, and hope for the future througout this difficult chapter.
I'm sorry for what everybody is going through and thank you for having respect towards the situation (I mean I never doubted you guys wouldn't) I just hope everybody is doing okay because I can't imagine how difficult this is for EVERYbody. Sending you all love and I am SO here for this episode!! 💓💗❤️❣️
Becky, the 15 year old did NOT need to hear they *may* have a Carrie moment 😂😂
Aw you know what!? I heard about this podcast because of this whole situation but I have just realized it’s so so welcoming, comforting yet so so cool; I love it! 💕
I love this podcast! Glad to see you are respecting Ariel's privacy- I come to these podcasts to unwind and feel like I am listening to friends! I do hope Ariel is OK and that she comes back if she would like to in the future.
Thank you for this episode! Much needed ❤
As someone with chronic illnesses and pain, I REALLY super duper appreciate this episode.
I often don’t think about telling the people in my family what is wrong. But they can definitely tell. I appreciate when they ask in a way that isn’t pittying. I need to remember to be open about what I’m experiencing and what my symptoms currently are. But it can be so overwhelming sometimes to express what’s hurting, because the hurting is already so all consuming.
However, I know it helps. And I appreciate the compassion.
It helps us chronics a lot when our loved ones actually research and understand better what our conditions are. And it’s helpful to know when they don’t have the capacity to help, or need help.
Just be open and authentic.
Don’t know if that made any sense or was coherent 😅🤪
I appreciate you!!
I loved hearing Maggie talk about how to communicate with your partner that deals with chronic pain. My partner deals with that and honestly I have a hard time when I feel like I do more than my 50% and it can be overwhelming. It helped being reminded that I don't understand what he's going through and its important to communicate 😅 we need to be verbal about what we are feeling. Thanks Maggie!
So I had a bad day and didn’t know what to do with myself until I started listening to this and just want to thank you guys for being you. It helps me through the afternoon.
Hope you’re all doing well. This is one of of my favorite podcasts.
Honestly, I needed this energy today. I was kinda nervous about what topic it would be about. But it was entertaining and relaxing as always!
You all have such a nice way of reading the questions.
"High Value Male, and Smoochie Sisters" 🤣🤣🤣
so happy to see you guys again!!! i wish the whole ycswu crew all the best :c
the chronic pain question and discussion was really great- definitely not something that everyone has experience with and I think the advice Maggie gave was great for folks with partners and friends with chronic issues.
Please continue including Mathews dog because it made my day. What a little cutie
So glad you are back. Love this podcast so much!
I haven't clicked on a video as quick as now. Glad to hear yall 💜
Nothing but love for the team, partners, and remaining guys ❤️
i’m glad they aren’t talking about the situation however these are the exact three people i would want to hear from
I liked Matt’s answer, let him stew over whose car he left it on and the fact that he did that to someone he knows. Still should have moved the car when you saw it was over the line given what a small lot it was. It’s funny he didn’t recognize the letter writers car (when she recognized his).
love you all!! sending hugs love and peace to everyone at YCSWU thank you all for being so sweet and funny
Sending heaps of love and hugs to you all, especially Ariel. We're all here for you Ariel and love you!!
I love you guys!!! I’m so happy you’re protecting Ariel’s privacy. I pray she can come back one day but I know she needs time for healing 😭💕
I really appreciate how respectful everyone is on the situation as well as focusing on bringing more positive focused content
happy to see a new episode ❤️
As someone with a lot of chronic illnesses/pain, I really appreciate Maggie's input. Sometimes I feel like a huge burden on my partner (not due to any of his actions, just the burnout that comes with it). I often feel like I can't bring as much to the table as someone able bodied. I'm so glad to see someone who is so supportive and loving. Thank you for sharing such great advice. ❤️
I'm just getting into podcasts. Gotta say, this is such a comforting space! I look forward to going through the other eps. Take care 💚
try Mile's Perfect Person pod too! Absolutely hilarious 🤗
I especially love listing to you all because I am not a confrontational person at all, so seeing how you all would handle these types of situations helps me a lot to stand up for myself. So thank you for being my older siblings
It's "Miles looking directly into the camera while moving the mic AGAIN so Rainie can be heard," for me 😂
YAY YOU GUYS ARE BACK!!!!!!! I WAS HOPING WE DIDNT LOSE THIS!!!! THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU!!!
Anytime they let Miles & Rainy chime in to any of the podcasts I love it! Everyone on the team (in front of and behind the scenes) you all are so great! Sorry for being so much in the lime light recently but we love & support y'all!
Chronic pain person here! I appreciate the open dialogue about pain. It can be really rough on a relationship, but staying transparent about it helps. Advocate for your own and each other’s needs. Facebook groups can be a huge help.
Like others I also really liked Maggie’s feedback. In this case I’m the one with chronic illness and it’s hard to read how my partner is feeling or what their experience may be like cause pain/illness can make you very self-focused. Appreciate this view.
with the chronic pain thing regarding setting up your home/space: what I notice with myself (and I'm very bad at setting up my stuff the way I need it) is that to keep things clean and tidy the stuff i'm using at needs to belong in a place where I don't have to squat with my knees. otherwise the mess will grow.
Love how wholesome these episodes are!!
I think one of my favorite things about this podcast has been watching Maggie and Becks become so confident in hosting. Even Matt who had a natural charisma has come so far its so cool as longtime viewer.
I've never watched an episode of this pod but I've really enjoyed this! Definitely going to make these a part of my day :,)
LOVE Maggie and Zach so much, you guys are absolutely wonderful and I love how supportive you both are of each other.
I also really appreciate how much respect you guys are having for Ariel. Definitely will miss her and hope to see her around again, but I like that this wasn't a gossip session.