I totally agree, she'll "friend zone" you if you ask her to hang out!....girls really don't know our intentions if we take them out...until you try to kiss her , and she asks WTF ARE YOU DOING!!...to save yourself embarrassment, money and time....ask her outright for a "date".....not hang out!....at least then you will know for sure!!
No, 99% of the time it will ruin everything unless you are a funny millionaire chad . You have to play these stupid games with girls, they feed on drama
@IVvOOvVI no communication and lack of commuiicsrion that is how misunderstandings and arguments occur, so no, "no communicationn" isn't good enough women have to step up, be able to communicate their feelings and thoughts. Men can't read minds nor can women.
Just text her hey I like you I can't get your Peachy Cake out of my mind . And say nothing else don't text again don't simply on her just leave the ball in her court let her stew and simmer even if it takes a week don't call or text
Not really. It depends on a scenario, guys like to rush things and girl maybe likes u a bit but isnt sure if she wants something serious with u and then u put pressure on her because she needs to make a decision to either date you or she needs to lose u and trust me in those situations when it happens too early you really cant make that decision and it puts u under so much pressure because u dont just wanna lose that person. Just show the interest trough your action.
@@raidends123 Well, what's the problem politely saying something like: "I'm not really sure what I actually want. I need some time to sort out my feelings." If the guy has a good head on his shoulders, and actually likes the girl - he'll wait. Not forever, but long enough. In the mean time - hang out. Get to know each other better. Otherwise, when's the good time to come out and say it? You grab a cup of coffee: guy waits, girl waits. Next time you go bowling: guy waits, girl waits. You go for a stroll in a park... When? Otherwise, if a girl can't handle this little "pressure", what's gonna happen when a guy comes home with: "Honey, I lost my job today. It's gonna take me a few months to find a new one." Toughen up bit by bit, so you won't get knocked out when life really hits you.
Depends on timing, if you have a rapport going with them and they know a little bit about you etc, then yes I agree. Unfortunately there are men who play video games in this world who will walk up to women they have never seen before and tell the lady they are into them. So yeah, agreed based on timing.
Problem is, Guys can like a woman fairly easy, even for little reasons. But she has options, lots of them in some cases. Why would she pick you over the other suitors? Just because you like her? She needs to have more reasons than that.
@@Radog99lol maybe when it comes to teenagers. I've been married now for 25 years. In my day, when I saw a woman and she got my attention, I usually started a conversation and if I got the impression that she was into me as well, I'd come right out and tell her "hey, I like you, we should go out some time." No drama, no games, no beating around the bush. Worked pretty well for me.
Seems like there's so much contradictory advice. If you're direct you scare her away. If you ask her to hang out and feel it out, you risk being friend-zoned.
@@owen3721 It has to do with personal boundaries. Personal boundaries are the place in our head where we can no longer apply our normal feelings or thinking to guarantee our safety. 'Pushing' a value onto someone, especially women who cannot set their own boundaries, will make them feel attacked and will cause confusion. As opposed to 'pulling along', where you present your values and they can hook into it if they like to. The problem with that part is that they believe its because that's you, authentically (something you're choosing to do, for YOU). That's what gets you into the friend zone. They simply assume your flirty behaviour is just you being warm and caring. Therefore, the only real advise I can give you is.. be yourself and don't play yourself. Don't create scenarios you otherwise wouldn't by yourself or with friends, because that means you'll not be yourself. There's one more thing to this; if she doesn't understand your intentions AND is not creating boundaries, it means she's stuck in her feminine nature. She's traumatised. Are you willing to date a girl who is broken inside, by doing only things you'd normally do without that girl? I don't think so. They'll keep dragging you down. It'll cost too much energy. Same with a guy who cannot let boundaries go. If you frantically hold yourself to standards and end up projecting it onto others, you're not nice and friendly. So again, be yourself and if you beleive that's not enough.. you got some self improvement to do, FOR YOU!
@@msc8382 I'm actually not in a bad place relationships-wise. I've got a "roster" as the lingo goes. But it's still not always easy to gauge how you should proceed, so this is good advice.
Yeah, I totally agree with you here. There was a guy who told me straight up that he likes me. He went like "I really like you and I want to pursue something with you". I just froze. I didn't know what to say. Whereas another guy asked me out on a date. I knew that he liked me right away. The date went so well, the vibes were vibing. I didn't even wana go home. Then we went on another date. We were talking everyday, texting and calling. Then one day I asked him to accompany me to run errands at the mall and we had such a great time. I was really starting to like him and he could see that through my actions. About after 2months of hanging out, talking and getting to know each other, he told me that he had developed feelings for me and he would like for us to be in a relationship. I agreed 😊 we've been together for 2yrs now and making plans of taking the next step in our relationship (having discussions about marriage). It's all about build up. Don't just tell a girl that you like her, you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.
Just tell her. She'll either say "yes, I felt the same way," or you'll have the greatest motivation to hit the gym and become the best version of yourself. It's a win/win situation, lol
No, this is bad advice. If you want to hang out with her, just ask. If she likes you, she'll keep saying yes. If you're wanting to get validation from her about her feelings for you, this comes across really badly, as being needy and insecure.
@@shahmirzahid7209 You don't have time to *not* talk about your feelings? 🤔 I'm not suggesting you do anything extra that will take more time. I'm just saying, skip the feelings talk. It literally will turn her off, and will undermine any chance you may have otherwise had.
It’s really a big city thing. I assume people in the Midwest don’t have this problem, since they get married young and settle down faster, and also all the players (male and women) move to bigger and more “lit” cities
Never in my life had a girl not being able to tell me if they like me back. Be honest guys, our lives are way too hard to be dealing with the games of women.
If she doesn't like you then that is good too. Move on with life and find another who will like you , instead of wasting time on a girl who wouldn't have liked you or Is always an indecisive mess and on the fence . I want a woman to tell me she likes me, and I'll tell her right away if I do too or not, where's the pressure in that? If she can't handle the smallest amount of pressure in the world then she won't stick with you when hard times come .
It’s really simple she either likes you or she doesn’t, even if it’s a maybe she will respond the same way as if she does. If she needs dinner and drinks to make the decision then it’s probably your bank balance that sealed the deal. Who wants and indecisive gold digger?
@@justinrivera1618 I weed out the gold diggers by offering coffee. If they say dinner and drinks would be better I ask straight out how much of it they are paying for. If they are interested they will either say yes to the coffee or they will say that they will pay for half of dinner and drinks. If they offer to pay half I’ll take them to dinner and pay for it but they can buy their own drinks after dinner
@@YooperHatesOhioState at the end of the day you worked it out, sometimes it’s just the heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes it takes a bit longer for the hearts logic to kick in
How to tell a woman you like her? I have been in the game for 30 years, the best way is to ask her if she is single, then you should follow up with some magic lines, works 100%
I am not even sure what this “high pressure” situation is for women from being told whether she’s liked or not.🤔🤷🏻♀️ This women’s “dating advice” is terrible; and I really hope that this is actually just a parody video.🤦🏻♀️😏
If you like the woman never ever ever, did I say ever accept the friend zone no platonic no friendship romance only tell her and walk away for good it'll make her think and maybe usually means no with women she'll come back oh, that's the only way you can wake her up, if that don't work keep moving on try not to get attached, or they'll just cut your heart out and kick it like a football and make a perfect goalie, friendzone is the endzone
Stop listening to her. Tell a girl how you feel after knowing her for a while. Tell her she doesnt have to answer right now and then go away, disappear for a while. Go make fun activities with friends and familiy, post on social media that you are fine and that you have fun and let her come back to you. Usually if all is good they come back after 3 weeks to one month and when she does, you are all set. GG
Why are you giving her that much time and energy, you told her how you feel, you ask her how she feel, and if she don't have the same feelings as you , you move on, you don't put your life on hold until a woman decides whether you are good enough for her or not, you treat her like she's a queen, that is why these American women are so arrogant
Alot of girls act oblivious to your intentions and end up using you as a foodie call. Then they get upset when you try to make a move and say your a terrible person for expecting anything else more than friendship. Dating in my generation 😞
This is spot on advice. The first time it needs to be casual and cool while making your intentions clear immediately. After the first time, I always state that “ You and I I should spend more time together. I really do enjoy it.” Believe me she will get the picture every time.
Maybe, but women are mostly too complicated for that. It ain’t worth your time. If men stopped being willing to date, women and vice versa, who do you think would crack first?
For that first you have to make sure she has feelings for you, then tell her you have feelings for her. IF you do it wrong and just tell a girl you have feelings for her (after know her for a week), chances are, she will not love you back. The advice is to show by actions and to read how she act toward you so now you know for sure.
@@carlosemiralonso7997 however, to develop that interaction you need some time, not a week as you said. However, how do you avoid getting friendzoned within that time?
@@felipeperaltalcine let me tell you what happened to me at work recently. I liked a girl, she's 31 and I'm 23. We sometimes saw each other and would talk a little, mostly about work related stuff and she knew my friends and was open to me and would always say hi how am I doing? We eventually started talking a lot more and getting to know each other but while we've been talking for weeks almost a month I paid closely to her body language and actions. She never got physical, played with her hair, or expose her chest you know simple things like that to tell if she likes me. Within two weeks that's how I knew she only talked to me as a friend and nothing else. The thing that sealed the deal was we both like Spider-Man and I was gonna invite her last week but we didn't talk at all so the following week she asked if I saw it and told her I did and I was gonna ask if you wanted to come watch it with me. She smiled and shook her head. Not in a rude way but more like nervous or funny idk lol, that's how I know I was just a friend without having to tell her my feelings. The thing is you have to catch on within 2 or 3 weeks, if she doesn't give you good body or direct communication that's shes into you and wants to spend time then that's how you know you're just a friend
@@felipeperaltalcine Most of the time you had to be a telling with your actions. Thats why i comment on this Louie, he thinks not all girls like people who interact this way. For me, being straight forward with a girl if the case for a BAR kiss or something like that, easy done. Now if you have some intentions of knowing the girl and/or marry, seeing more often, things can be hard to pull. So i dont see why not to use the "lead with your actions not your words" method. IS all specific to what you want and the way you "read" the room.
For my opinion, saying "I like you" is all u need. If she really likes u back, she'll say it back. If she gets indecisive, then alright, girl u missed your shot. I can start liking another girl. Maybe she will like me back without hesitation
yeah, I told my crush that I liked her and she wanted to clarify if it was as friends or more than that and I then said I had feelings for her and about 10 seconds later, she said that she feels the same way.
AWEFUL advice! If you want to ask a girl out for the love of God DO NOT say, “let’s hangout.” Any woman with standards sees this as either a red flag if she doesn’t know you well or a friendship if she does. Guys with INTENT stand out from the crowd. Meaning, a guy that says, “I would love to spend time with you at X event on Saturday at 8pm.” Then proceed to ask her out. The first one is not the masculine leading the feminine. The 2nd shows ownership over the fact you like her, and you want to make it known via actions and words.
Yess.. Exactly.. Stepping Ur Foots One By One On The Stairs.. There's No Need To Be Hurry On Jump On A Grl That's Shows U're Creepy In Manner.. Sometimes.. That Could Be A Red Flag If A Boy Doesn't Know How To Keep Patients In Initial Stages With The Grlz.. They Loose It
I did this exact thing with the girl I'm in a relationship with now. I just kept asking her to go out again after each date. After a few months she quit referring to me as her friend, and started calling me her boyfriend. We've been together for almost eight months now, started out talking almost a year ago. We've had conversations about a future together, and she's all in. Julia is right. My advice is don't sweat her guys, just let her know in your attitude that you take it or leave it, in a respectful way of course, meaning not desperate or clingy. If she wants to go out, cool, if not, check back with her in a few weeks or a month the next time something comes up that you wanna invite her to. Just be casual and non chalant in your tone and mannerism, but be direct.
Wish you both the best. In my experience, that type person it's always going to have you under her conditions and control the dynamics of the relationship. Until she decides its time to move on (on relationships they take 3 to 4 years, and marriage about 7 to 9 years to move on) good luck👍🏽
@@seekingfreedom9020 why? Getting turned down for a date doesn't automatically mean she's not interested. There could be circumstances that she's dealing with at the moment. Better to be casual and not in a rush. Trying to be in a hurry and looking desperate and needy isn't gonna work. She might have things going on and isn't available whenever you are. If she's someone you've been talking to and have an interest in, following up with her to see how she's doing is a good way to find out if she's available.
Women need to get used to responding according to a man’s actions. Don’t tell men to change their approach, change your response to his approach. Take an ounce of responsibility, Ladies.
@@BillysKiller7 exactly. She has to be direct, and expect me to be direct. If she wants to spend time with me, and build a relationship personally, I don’t think that’s too much of an ask.
I have never told a girl I think she’s pretty or anything and I’ve managed to be successful with women: I treat dating like sales. The one who care the least always has the upper hand. If a chick calls and cancels I just say cool. I don’t reschedule: if she’s really interested she will ask you to hangout; I’m never desperate. Desperation dries them up like nothing else: I never put forth more effort than they are showing me.
“This creates a high pressure situation for the girl and they’ll have to make a hard decision if they like you are not” Are you capable of anything if not a simple decision😭
@Yeagerman9 If you know someone for a long time making a decision on whether or not you like someone isn't hard to do. If you barely know someone, it also isn't hard. I've been in a situation where a girl asked if I like her when I barely knew her. I just responded "sorry but no, I don't know you super well."
Don’t chase, that’s all there is to it…build yourself up, get fit, get smart, make a good honest living, and they will come to you…you approaching it like this will give her control of the relationship, which in turn will leave her having less respect for you then if she was the one who approached you
Sure. If the girl is 12 years old. Behave like a grown up and you will get one. Behave like a child trying to control relationships, you will get childish girls interested in you.
It's pretty simple - if she is attracted to You - she will allways say YES regardles of what about You ask her. If she is not attracted - she mostly say "mayby", "we will see", "I don't know", etc.
I don't understand how asking a woman out is "silent games." Just the act of asking her out makes it blatantly obvious to her that you're interested in her. Also, it's much less awkward and cheesy than saying, "I have a confession to make. I think I like you," which is not even a question, and the woman wouldn't even know how to respond to that.
when i like a girl i let them know by throwing random items at them and maybe calling them names. that way they dont feel the pressure to like me back.
Also, you should try dunking her hair in the inkwell and poking her in the back. After that, push her down when you're on the playground. Then she'll KNOW you like her.
Next time you want to purchase a car and you find a car that you really like, don’t tell the salesperson that you want it. Purchase what you don’t want, and then blame the dealership for not letting you have the car that you want. Next time you want a job offer that sounds very good, don’t say that you accept. Just tell them that you want to hang out in their waiting area. Next time you want pizza, call the pizza store and ask how much you have to order for delivery but don’t order anything. If you “female” backwards, it spells elamef which doesn’t make any sense, just like females.
It's fine girls. Just remember that thought when you think it's time to put a ring on that finger. If you can't commit from the start of a relationship, you don't have any right to ask for the big commitment later on.
If she doesn’t know where she stands, that isn’t necessarily bad. It’s OK to not be sure yet. Just because she doesn’t immediately like you back doesn’t mean things “ended badly”
If you looking to meet a genuine girl. From a guy point of view solid eye contact & smile you will be able to tell if she likes you or not. Make her laugh. Have good body language (stand up straight). Actually LISTEN to her stories. Show in your actions you like her. As trivial as it sounds BE YOURSELF, avoid any manipulation techniques. Don’t be afraid to tell her you like her in person especially over text or phone maybe not. Be afraid of not saying how you feel, being in a friendzone sucks.
The big mistake is not about saying it... It about timing. Usually they say it too quickly and look desperate and in a hurry. That is why they feel pushed pressured and akward
Yes, people need time to know each other. However, it usually happens that within that time, a friendship is built and many people don't see anything else beyond that. So, how would someone build a relationship looking for something else than friends, with the enough time and without telling the other person "I like you", hence, showing the intentions from the beginning, if that last thing is akward?
@@mrj4082 You should tell her calmly, and optimally don't say it out of nowhere. Don't try too hard though - it's hard to fake confidence, and even if it works you don't want to be pretending to be calm for your entire relationship.
@@mrj4082 I know it might be hard but I would say don't look for anyone in the first place. Might sound stupid but loving yourself is the first step of being attractive (and I'm not saying narcissistic)
If the girl can't handle direct, simple communication, then she's not ready for a relationship and you have your answer. Many women are always saying "why can't men communicate and be honest with their feelings?" Can't have it both ways.
Ask her out it goes one of two ways 1. She rejects you 2. She goes on a date Asking her to hangout 1. She says no 2. She says yes but forced her friends along 3. Gives her the option to talk to other men which lets her lead you on to getting heart broken because you didn’t just ask her out God society is so screwed up just be straight with everyone don’t beat around the bush
Just because I tell a woman, or girl, that I like her doesn't mean I want to be exclusive. It's actually a compliment because very few women impress me. Also, the more I get to know her may change my desire for her.
I do it like this to avoid asking questions “Hey lets get together here this week. Let me know your availability” That’s more assertive than asking “Do you want to hangout” like some platonic friend shit.
If you ask girl to hangout they don’t automatically know what that means… they start to question why, cuz that’s what girls do. Just be upfront and call it a day.
I don't think I ever told my now wife, "I like you" when I courted her... I let my body language do most of that communication... and just asked her if she was free for the weekend... 16 years and two kids later... we're still going strong😊
If she has to think about it, it’s because she is comparing you to all the other men she is stringing along. She is not worth your time. Even if she likes you the best, someone with more money might come along and she needs her options to be open.
Women are strange creatures. You can make out with them, cuddle with them, Netflix & chill, have sex with them, but the moment you tell people yall are dating, she's like wtf?! True story... a girl literally did this to me. "She was like, oh you never asked me to be your girlfriend." She got upset and was like, "I like you, I wanna keep hanging out with you and see how far things go, just think you are moving to fast." I was like 🤦.
Are you American ? Because I feel like this is the most American shit ever. In France it's straightforward lol. There's my girlfriend, before being my girlfriend, no making out, no sex, hardly no cuddle, but once we agreed on relationship, then we worked on that 😆
When I met my girlfriend I told her straight up you're not friend zoning me were either together or I'm moving on we've been together now for 6 yrs and still going strong. Women like assertiveness unless she's promiscuous then you need to stay away anyway.
that only if she has issues or doesn't like you in the first place. Imagine Brad Pitt asked her if she likes him - I bet she wouldn't feel "high pressured" nor need "time to overthink" that offer
Bruh either she likes you or she doesn't. If she's not sure, then she probably doesn't OR you're one of her many options. Be straightforward and accept whatever answer she gives you, otherwise she'll continue to keep you on the back burner until she makes up her mind. This is the only way to prevent yourself from getting stuck in the games that women play.
Yeah, this only works out for her. She can take what she wants from an eager but restrained suitor, and the moment she feels his intent to escalate, she can say “oh, I thought we were just hanging out; I’m not interested in you ‘that way’”. This is usually followed with the “you’re a great guy, but” cliché, which is a kick to the head as hard as the previous kick to the groin. Don’t be timid - tell her you’re attracted to her and stay on message, even if she rejects you. Anything less and you’re building a cozy little nest as a “sweet friend” who “any girl would be happy to be with”, except her and everyone she has ever known.
Nooo! Tell her you like her. Women appreciate honesty. If you beat around the bush you will lose that girl. If you want to say that you like her by not saying you like her you say, after the date, that you had fun during the date. She will know that you like her and still respect her boundaries, even though she never set them YET
"Do you wanna hang out?"
"Sure! Who else is coming?"
Crap.
Exactly. I ask women out. Not ask if they wanna hang out.
I totally agree, she'll "friend zone" you if you ask her to hang out!....girls really don't know our intentions if we take them out...until you try to kiss her , and she asks WTF ARE YOU DOING!!...to save yourself embarrassment, money and time....ask her outright for a "date".....not hang out!....at least then you will know for sure!!
That's why you say ; "would you like to go on a date" or "how does a date sound? I'll pick you up at 6/7" or something?
Yeah, I made that mistake and the result was bad
Atleast try it bud, maybe could work lmao
Be straight up. Tell her you like her. If she rejects, move the hell on. Saves time and energy that way.
Lmk how that works out for you. Because nope, a girl needs time to build up her attraction to you. The videos advice is spot on
@@Dad_of_War "build up attraction"; either it's there or it's not, honestly
@@KingRandor82 there's initial attraction, then actual desire, the latter takes time
but that’s not what the video said
No, 99% of the time it will ruin everything unless you are a funny millionaire chad . You have to play these stupid games with girls, they feed on drama
“WHY can’t men just be HONEST and communicate?!?”
Also women ☕️
They get 10 guys a day saying they like them. You need to set yourself apart.
Nah bro just are stupid
Shes spitting fax and tryna help yuall niggas and u mad?
@@Thomas-wm7qf getting their name wrong helps set you apart real quick. Don''t try that with just anyone, lots of girls, it's unforgivable.
They probably mean in a relationship. She's taking about before hand.
If she needs to "decide" if she likes you or not, the answer is that she doesnt.
Sometimes they’re just confused
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Then you have your answer.
@FATMAN162x why would they be confused
@@JustMeAndYourMother cause they don't like you.
@@therealkitdiengdohofficial521 exactly
It's so nice of you to teach men that not communicating is the way to go.
Heyyyy I like u
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Right? Like I feel like men already know how to do this, which is not to communicate through emotions.
@IVvOOvVI no communication and lack of commuiicsrion that is how misunderstandings and arguments occur, so no, "no communicationn" isn't good enough women have to step up, be able to communicate their feelings and thoughts. Men can't read minds nor can women.
but they are communicating by asking to hang out. what exactly did she say in the video that you think is wrong?
@@Dad_of_WarAsking to hang out doesn't mean anything romantically.
This is how she gets 10 dates out of you while she’s just “figuring out her feelings for you”
Funny how when theyre "still deciding they like you" they have no problem deciding to make the man pay for everything 🤦🏽♂️
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Just text her hey I like you I can't get your Peachy Cake out of my mind . And say nothing else don't text again don't simply on her just leave the ball in her court let her stew and simmer even if it takes a week don't call or text
So cosmetic,,this is like the stone age,😂,,
If telling someone you like puts them in a "high pressure " situation, that person is not right for you to be with.
Not really. It depends on a scenario, guys like to rush things and girl maybe likes u a bit but isnt sure if she wants something serious with u and then u put pressure on her because she needs to make a decision to either date you or she needs to lose u and trust me in those situations when it happens too early you really cant make that decision and it puts u under so much pressure because u dont just wanna lose that person. Just show the interest trough your action.
@@raidends123 Well, what's the problem politely saying something like: "I'm not really sure what I actually want. I need some time to sort out my feelings." If the guy has a good head on his shoulders, and actually likes the girl - he'll wait. Not forever, but long enough. In the mean time - hang out. Get to know each other better. Otherwise, when's the good time to come out and say it? You grab a cup of coffee: guy waits, girl waits. Next time you go bowling: guy waits, girl waits. You go for a stroll in a park... When?
Otherwise, if a girl can't handle this little "pressure", what's gonna happen when a guy comes home with: "Honey, I lost my job today. It's gonna take me a few months to find a new one." Toughen up bit by bit, so you won't get knocked out when life really hits you.
Unfortunately that’s what society has become.
Depends on timing, if you have a rapport going with them and they know a little bit about you etc, then yes I agree. Unfortunately there are men who play video games in this world who will walk up to women they have never seen before and tell the lady they are into them. So yeah, agreed based on timing.
Problem is, Guys can like a woman fairly easy, even for little reasons.
But she has options, lots of them in some cases. Why would she pick you over the other suitors? Just because you like her? She needs to have more reasons than that.
They don't know what they want. NEVER listen to em.
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Should woman vote? 😂😂😂😂
“Don’t tell her you like her”
“I hate you… piece of shit”
Take notes guys.
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The day I need to ask a fish for fishing advice, I'll go hungry.
Lmao and then you wonder why you don’t get laid 😂
She's actually correct.
@@Radog99lol maybe when it comes to teenagers.
I've been married now for 25 years.
In my day, when I saw a woman and she got my attention, I usually started a conversation and if I got the impression that she was into me as well, I'd come right out and tell her "hey, I like you, we should go out some time."
No drama, no games, no beating around the bush.
Worked pretty well for me.
@@TheNightshotBR I still do the same thing now, the old school method never fails, you know straight away if they have any interest at all
@@TheNightshotBR That's how it was 25 years ago.
“Why can’t men be more assertive”
Because aftet working 80 hrs a week with assertion, men need too sleep
,,Small dick energy" 🤓
@@doktor3196Lmaooo dAMN 60-70hrs u on another level
All men try to be assertive, but women always go for the guys who aren’t even interested in the women
@BattleArenaLeague haha. I used to do 12 x 7 days and then 7 days off. So not quite 80 every week. But some dudes actually go that crazy.
When I younger I learned to just ignore women and not care anything about what they say and it worked like a charm.
I'm a female and I'm really young 11lol and u r encouraging me to stay away from this boy he bullies me and ignores me thxsss😂❤.
This is how you get friend zoned or stuck in a situationship.
Seems like there's so much contradictory advice. If you're direct you scare her away. If you ask her to hang out and feel it out, you risk being friend-zoned.
@@owen3721better stop dealing with such women's who are confused n dont know what to do
@@owen3721 It has to do with personal boundaries. Personal boundaries are the place in our head where we can no longer apply our normal feelings or thinking to guarantee our safety.
'Pushing' a value onto someone, especially women who cannot set their own boundaries, will make them feel attacked and will cause confusion.
As opposed to 'pulling along', where you present your values and they can hook into it if they like to. The problem with that part is that they believe its because that's you, authentically (something you're choosing to do, for YOU). That's what gets you into the friend zone. They simply assume your flirty behaviour is just you being warm and caring.
Therefore, the only real advise I can give you is.. be yourself and don't play yourself. Don't create scenarios you otherwise wouldn't by yourself or with friends, because that means you'll not be yourself.
There's one more thing to this; if she doesn't understand your intentions AND is not creating boundaries, it means she's stuck in her feminine nature. She's traumatised. Are you willing to date a girl who is broken inside, by doing only things you'd normally do without that girl? I don't think so. They'll keep dragging you down. It'll cost too much energy. Same with a guy who cannot let boundaries go. If you frantically hold yourself to standards and end up projecting it onto others, you're not nice and friendly.
So again, be yourself and if you beleive that's not enough.. you got some self improvement to do, FOR YOU!
@@msc8382 I'm actually not in a bad place relationships-wise. I've got a "roster" as the lingo goes. But it's still not always easy to gauge how you should proceed, so this is good advice.
Bedroom lover or friendzoned orbiter, a woman's gotta have options.
Being straight forward and telling her I like her has worked best for me so far.
I told her I liked talking to her, she blushed.
@@NightRider0101 ok nigga
Yeah true, not because someone is in front of a camera means the person has all the knowledge or is a guru. Had to learn the hard way.😅
If we hangout a lot and if I ask her that I like her and if she has to decide or if it puts her in pressure. I’ll make it easy and just leave.
Liam is probably looking like Henry Cavill
Yeah, I totally agree with you here. There was a guy who told me straight up that he likes me. He went like "I really like you and I want to pursue something with you". I just froze. I didn't know what to say. Whereas another guy asked me out on a date. I knew that he liked me right away. The date went so well, the vibes were vibing. I didn't even wana go home. Then we went on another date. We were talking everyday, texting and calling. Then one day I asked him to accompany me to run errands at the mall and we had such a great time. I was really starting to like him and he could see that through my actions. About after 2months of hanging out, talking and getting to know each other, he told me that he had developed feelings for me and he would like for us to be in a relationship. I agreed 😊 we've been together for 2yrs now and making plans of taking the next step in our relationship (having discussions about marriage). It's all about build up. Don't just tell a girl that you like her, you have to show her. Actions speak louder than words.
He still had to tell you he liked you if he never did yall wouldn’t be in a relationship and yall would’ve most likely fizzled out lol.
@@Aboguaboga yes he did. After showing me. That's the point. He showed me first
Happy for you guys.
If making a decision that you like someone is "high pressure " trust me that's the girl you don't want...
Every social commitment is a high pressure event for 99% of women..
It has little to do with their attitude and a lot to do with survival bias.
True
Do you mean if I get nervous to tell her how I feel she isn’t for me??
@@synthesiatutorials3081 yes. Now go play video games by yourself.
@@synthesiatutorials3081no. He meant a girl that can't decide is a red flag
Rule number one:
Never take any dating advice from a woman
Especially since every girl has their own views on how guys should ask them out
No, don’t take dating advice from someone that isn’t an actual coach. I’ve had coaching from Apollonia Ponti and now I can attract most women easily.
@@joeljohnson4465 rule number 2: don't take advice from a fucking dating coach or pick up artist 😭😭
@@joeljohnson4465highly doubt that😂
Its quite simple first get to know them and if you actually like them and have been friends for a while just ask her if she feels the same
If she likes you back, she won’t think about the answer for too long
If you have to play mind games with a girl she ain't worth it. Not how adults should behave
@@Nathan-ry3yu Exactly. These will be the exact same women who complain that men aren't open about their feelings.
Just tell her. She'll either say "yes, I felt the same way," or you'll have the greatest motivation to hit the gym and become the best version of yourself. It's a win/win situation, lol
No, this is bad advice. If you want to hang out with her, just ask. If she likes you, she'll keep saying yes. If you're wanting to get validation from her about her feelings for you, this comes across really badly, as being needy and insecure.
@@eugene9852unfortunatly i dont have time
@@shahmirzahid7209 You don't have time to *not* talk about your feelings? 🤔 I'm not suggesting you do anything extra that will take more time. I'm just saying, skip the feelings talk. It literally will turn her off, and will undermine any chance you may have otherwise had.
@@shahmirzahid7209you definitely have time…you could be working 13 hours a day and still have time quit making excuses
And they wonder why men are getting their passports and going elsewhere
You think this doesn’t equate to girl brain overseas you’re wrong lol
It’s really a big city thing. I assume people in the Midwest don’t have this problem, since they get married young and settle down faster, and also all the players (male and women) move to bigger and more “lit” cities
This is why I’d rather say I’m gay than hang out with a girl
@@therealspeedwagon1451 ouch bro, that's brutal
@@amariajade255it takes money to buy plane tickets
What high pressure??? I'm saying: "I like you". And she is like: "Oh, no!! High pressure!!" No. It's too hard. I'm staying alone.
How to get friend-zoned speedrun
Should we be taking advice from something that can be recycled
Thats why you need to get laid with them, that way if you're friendzoned at least you'll still have benefits
Ohhhhhh
@@collisWestnahhh💀
@@collisWest😂😂😂
This is the perfect example of why you don't have to take dating advice from a woman
Never in my life had a girl not being able to tell me if they like me back. Be honest guys, our lives are way too hard to be dealing with the games of women.
If she doesn't like you then that is good too.
Move on with life and find another who will like you , instead of wasting time on a girl who wouldn't have liked you or Is always an indecisive mess and on the fence .
I want a woman to tell me she likes me, and I'll tell her right away if I do too or not, where's the pressure in that? If she can't handle the smallest amount of pressure in the world then she won't stick with you when hard times come .
It’s really simple she either likes you or she doesn’t, even if it’s a maybe she will respond the same way as if she does. If she needs dinner and drinks to make the decision then it’s probably your bank balance that sealed the deal. Who wants and indecisive gold digger?
You do know you can take girls on dates where you don’t have to spend a lot of money if any at all.
That first paragraph is so true. I suffered that and waited too long to tell myself I should just stop trying on this person
@@justinrivera1618 I weed out the gold diggers by offering coffee. If they say dinner and drinks would be better I ask straight out how much of it they are paying for.
If they are interested they will either say yes to the coffee or they will say that they will pay for half of dinner and drinks. If they offer to pay half I’ll take them to dinner and pay for it but they can buy their own drinks after dinner
@@YooperHatesOhioState at the end of the day you worked it out, sometimes it’s just the heart wants what the heart wants, and sometimes it takes a bit longer for the hearts logic to kick in
Don't tell a girlfriend or woman you like her, can you see why us men get confused 😢😂😂.
It's just weird how female brain works 😊
It doesn't work.
They don't have common sense
It works only when they are manipulating the conditions and the relationship
If you got lots of money you can tell her whatever you want
How to tell a woman you like her? I have been in the game for 30 years, the best way is to ask her if she is single, then you should follow up with some magic lines, works 100%
I dated too many girls. Now I have a broken heart. As a girl myself. If you stay honest and open to me. That's all I need.
Feel sad for you.
Should've dated a guy.
@@kenblue1065 I was abused by my past exes so nah
My ex bfs)
If my honesty puts her in a “high pressure” situation, I’ll alleviate that immediately by walking away
I am not even sure what this “high pressure” situation is for women from being told whether she’s liked or not.🤔🤷🏻♀️ This women’s “dating advice” is terrible; and I really hope that this is actually just a parody video.🤦🏻♀️😏
If "high pressure situation" is being told someone likes her then she's a big soft weenie of a person
@@metal.queen88 this women sprouts most of the time nonsense
She's not decisive enough to choose wether she likes you or not but then you're the one who has the problem 😂😂
Finally a woman who can communicate clearly.
Translation: Here are the keys to the "Friend Zone"
Not if you're a Chad or Stacey.
@@przemysawpawlinski5536lol incel 🫵🤡
Hit the nail right on the head, the friend zone is the endzone
If you like the woman never ever ever, did I say ever accept the friend zone no platonic no friendship romance only tell her and walk away for good it'll make her think and maybe usually means no with women she'll come back oh, that's the only way you can wake her up, if that don't work keep moving on try not to get attached, or they'll just cut your heart out and kick it like a football and make a perfect goalie, friendzone is the endzone
Women: I wanna be paid as much as men
Also women: I don't want to be put in high pressure situations nor make important timely decisions
😆😂🤣
Well played...
That's really the reason why most of CEOs are MEN.
That's what I'm sayin tho 😂😂😂 she's like how EASY can I make my life.. Bitch is like 35 going on 15..
I see this as an absolute win
Then how do they pull off childbirth and motherhood?!
If she ain’t able too say she likes me back, than she ain’t that interested lol
Stop listening to her. Tell a girl how you feel after knowing her for a while. Tell her she doesnt have to answer right now and then go away, disappear for a while. Go make fun activities with friends and familiy, post on social media that you are fine and that you have fun and let her come back to you. Usually if all is good they come back after 3 weeks to one month and when she does, you are all set. GG
This chick doesn't know crap
So just don't be yourself? Lol
You a gamer!
Why are you giving her that much time and energy, you told her how you feel, you ask her how she feel, and if she don't have the same feelings as you , you move on, you don't put your life on hold until a woman decides whether you are good enough for her or not, you treat her like she's a queen, that is why these American women are so arrogant
Exactly. Thirsttrap her left and right. Women are confused with no pressure. Better to put her on the spot amd move on than to waste time.
Alot of girls act oblivious to your intentions and end up using you as a foodie call.
Then they get upset when you try to make a move and say your a terrible person for expecting anything else more than friendship.
Dating in my generation 😞
Exactly what I said. This advice is dumb af
This is spot on advice. The first time it needs to be casual and cool while making your intentions clear immediately. After the first time, I always state that “ You and I I should spend more time together. I really do enjoy it.” Believe me she will get the picture every time.
“I like you. Let’s go on a date.” That gets the point across and she can say yes or no. Easy.
Maybe, but women are mostly too complicated for that. It ain’t worth your time. If men stopped being willing to date, women and vice versa, who do you think would crack first?
In East Asian cultures you have to tell them you like them, or they'll endlessly hang out with you as a friend reading no signals at all..
Thats how it is here in america.. to put it bluntly thats how men are all over. This is a female giving advice to men on shit she barely comprehends
Exactly! 😂
I value my time and energy. I’ll be direct with a women. If she’s not interested I’ll simply move on.
Not all women are like this, there are women that like men that are straight forward and honest. Thats how my wife is.
For that first you have to make sure she has feelings for you, then tell her you have feelings for her. IF you do it wrong and just tell a girl you have feelings for her (after know her for a week), chances are, she will not love you back.
The advice is to show by actions and to read how she act toward you so now you know for sure.
@@carlosemiralonso7997 however, to develop that interaction you need some time, not a week as you said. However, how do you avoid getting friendzoned within that time?
@@felipeperaltalcine let me tell you what happened to me at work recently. I liked a girl, she's 31 and I'm 23. We sometimes saw each other and would talk a little, mostly about work related stuff and she knew my friends and was open to me and would always say hi how am I doing? We eventually started talking a lot more and getting to know each other but while we've been talking for weeks almost a month I paid closely to her body language and actions. She never got physical, played with her hair, or expose her chest you know simple things like that to tell if she likes me. Within two weeks that's how I knew she only talked to me as a friend and nothing else. The thing that sealed the deal was we both like Spider-Man and I was gonna invite her last week but we didn't talk at all so the following week she asked if I saw it and told her I did and I was gonna ask if you wanted to come watch it with me. She smiled and shook her head. Not in a rude way but more like nervous or funny idk lol, that's how I know I was just a friend without having to tell her my feelings. The thing is you have to catch on within 2 or 3 weeks, if she doesn't give you good body or direct communication that's shes into you and wants to spend time then that's how you know you're just a friend
@@felipeperaltalcine Most of the time you had to be a telling with your actions. Thats why i comment on this Louie, he thinks not all girls like people who interact this way. For me, being straight forward with a girl if the case for a BAR kiss or something like that, easy done. Now if you have some intentions of knowing the girl and/or marry, seeing more often, things can be hard to pull. So i dont see why not to use the "lead with your actions not your words" method. IS all specific to what you want and the way you "read" the room.
@@carlosemiralonso7997 that makes it more abstract, like what kind of actions?
For my opinion, saying "I like you" is all u need. If she really likes u back, she'll say it back. If she gets indecisive, then alright, girl u missed your shot. I can start liking another girl. Maybe she will like me back without hesitation
yeah, I told my crush that I liked her and she wanted to clarify if it was as friends or more than that and I then said I had feelings for her and about 10 seconds later, she said that she feels the same way.
@@airtiger4577🧢
Do not listen, just tell you like her. If they are feeling pressured then she is not the one for you.
Life's FULL of 'high pressure situations'. Don't avoid them. Make them work, or move on.
My guy!
You are very wise my friend 🗿
W advice
“Don’t ask a deer how to hunt deer you ask the hunter.”
Cuz deer don't wanna be hunted and also they can't talk
@@non-playablecharacter4703 No shit, Sherlock!
@@sepehradonis6959 lol
Some of them play dumb when they aren’t interested and will pretend to think you just wanted to be friends
AWEFUL advice! If you want to ask a girl out for the love of God DO NOT say, “let’s hangout.” Any woman with standards sees this as either a red flag if she doesn’t know you well or a friendship if she does. Guys with INTENT stand out from the crowd. Meaning, a guy that says, “I would love to spend time with you at X event on Saturday at 8pm.” Then proceed to ask her out. The first one is not the masculine leading the feminine. The 2nd shows ownership over the fact you like her, and you want to make it known via actions and words.
That makes sense with no pressure on her, it's just her decision
Yess.. Exactly.. Stepping Ur Foots One By One On The Stairs.. There's No Need To Be Hurry On Jump On A Grl That's Shows U're Creepy In Manner..
Sometimes.. That Could Be A Red Flag If A Boy Doesn't Know How To Keep Patients In Initial Stages With The Grlz.. They Loose It
I’m pretty sure being straight forward with someone about how you feel about them worked for a lot more people than you think.
He:"I really like you!"
She:"OMG, high Pressure!"
He: says nothing
She:"You never talk about Emotions!"
😂
If that is a "high pressure" situation, you play life on easy mode.
That's why most women are useless for a relationship. But whose fault is it? Most of men, because of his simping attitude
I did this exact thing with the girl I'm in a relationship with now. I just kept asking her to go out again after each date. After a few months she quit referring to me as her friend, and started calling me her boyfriend. We've been together for almost eight months now, started out talking almost a year ago. We've had conversations about a future together, and she's all in. Julia is right. My advice is don't sweat her guys, just let her know in your attitude that you take it or leave it, in a respectful way of course, meaning not desperate or clingy. If she wants to go out, cool, if not, check back with her in a few weeks or a month the next time something comes up that you wanna invite her to. Just be casual and non chalant in your tone and mannerism, but be direct.
Lol, for everyone of you there are 100 guys being strung along.
This is how you do it, but a lot of people don’t want to play the long game. Not realizing they don’t have a choice sometimes.
Wish you both the best. In my experience, that type person it's always going to have you under her conditions and control the dynamics of the relationship. Until she decides its time to move on (on relationships they take 3 to 4 years, and marriage about 7 to 9 years to move on) good luck👍🏽
If she doesn't want to go out with you I would not recommend checking back in a month to see if she would like to go out with you 😂😂😂
@@seekingfreedom9020 why? Getting turned down for a date doesn't automatically mean she's not interested. There could be circumstances that she's dealing with at the moment. Better to be casual and not in a rush. Trying to be in a hurry and looking desperate and needy isn't gonna work. She might have things going on and isn't available whenever you are. If she's someone you've been talking to and have an interest in, following up with her to see how she's doing is a good way to find out if she's available.
Millions of women are coming
across the boarder every year
and all the " Chads " are jumping for joy ❤ . . . 😊
this is the type of advice that eats up your wallet and get nothing for it
Go play basketball at a public court or something like that
@@johnhamilton2189 I prefer fishing and mountain hiking
Waste of time too
If she can't make such simple decision as "I like him or not"... RUN!
You poor soul. You maybe need to think about it a little harder. 😂
@@RampidWarthogStudios $tfu Virgin💀
@@supremeshadow50 you can’t even type right kid. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Women are more attracted to men who’s feelings for them are unclear.”
-Coach Corey Wayne
That guy knows women better than. 97% of the men here. Lol
If expressing my feelings makes her feel "pressured," she is not equipped to be by my side.
But...but...men need to show their feelings and emotions more!
Women need to get used to responding according to a man’s actions. Don’t tell men to change their approach, change your response to his approach. Take an ounce of responsibility, Ladies.
Me: "Yo wanna hang out?"
Her: Sure! Also I am sorry who are you again? I added you to my contacts as 'free meal'.
Can’t we just act like adults without complicating things like that? Damn
If you like her, tell her
Init
I did and I got a year subscription gym 🫡
Her loss brother, keep your head up.
@@BillysKiller7 exactly. She has to be direct, and expect me to be direct. If she wants to spend time with me, and build a relationship personally, I don’t think that’s too much of an ask.
I feel like if a guy that I knew were to say “hey, I like you.” I would be flattered. I don’t think it’d be high pressure for me at least.
I have never told a girl I think she’s pretty or anything and I’ve managed to be successful with women: I treat dating like sales. The one who care the least always has the upper hand. If a chick calls and cancels I just say cool. I don’t reschedule: if she’s really interested she will ask you to hangout; I’m never desperate. Desperation dries them up like nothing else: I never put forth more effort than they are showing me.
“This creates a high pressure situation for the girl and they’ll have to make a hard decision if they like you are not”
Are you capable of anything if not a simple decision😭
Imagine making a decision if you like someone or not when you two barely know each other 🤦♂️
Such a stupid thing to do
@Yeagerman9 If you know someone for a long time making a decision on whether or not you like someone isn't hard to do.
If you barely know someone, it also isn't hard. I've been in a situation where a girl asked if I like her when I barely knew her. I just responded "sorry but no, I don't know you super well."
They can't even decide where to eat, much less anything else.
@@Yeagerman9if you barely know them, just say it, "i think we should know each other better before."
No. Women ☕
"My best friend just took me out,could never ask for a better FRIEND,he's like a BROTHER to me"
Exactly bro das how it always ends up. Ion know what this girl is on 💀
Approach them directly, court them indirectly… makes perfect sense.
If that's a high pressure situation and she has to now decide if she likes you... She doesn't like you.
Don’t chase, that’s all there is to it…build yourself up, get fit, get smart, make a good honest living, and they will come to you…you approaching it like this will give her control of the relationship, which in turn will leave her having less respect for you then if she was the one who approached you
Sure. If the girl is 12 years old. Behave like a grown up and you will get one. Behave like a child trying to control relationships, you will get childish girls interested in you.
It's pretty simple - if she is attracted to You - she will allways say YES regardles of what about You ask her. If she is not attracted - she mostly say "mayby", "we will see", "I don't know", etc.
back to the silent games, love it..
Bahaha!
Been there top often
I don't understand how asking a woman out is "silent games." Just the act of asking her out makes it blatantly obvious to her that you're interested in her. Also, it's much less awkward and cheesy than saying, "I have a confession to make. I think I like you," which is not even a question, and the woman wouldn't even know how to respond to that.
when i like a girl i let them know by throwing random items at them and maybe calling them names. that way they dont feel the pressure to like me back.
Also, you should try dunking her hair in the inkwell and poking her in the back. After that, push her down when you're on the playground. Then she'll KNOW you like her.
@@JoeMCool they love wedgies and getting their hair pulled out
Now that I think of it, your damn right i literally done this many times and it worked.
Does waxxing their hair work as well?
@@lekoraxx5406 gum works even better
Don’t ask a fish for fishing advice, ask a fisherman.
Wow, you're right my man. I reasoned that as well.
Next time you want to purchase a car and you find a car that you really like, don’t tell the salesperson that you want it. Purchase what you don’t want, and then blame the dealership for not letting you have the car that you want.
Next time you want a job offer that sounds very good, don’t say that you accept. Just tell them that you want to hang out in their waiting area.
Next time you want pizza, call the pizza store and ask how much you have to order for delivery but don’t order anything.
If you “female” backwards, it spells elamef which doesn’t make any sense, just like females.
It's fine girls. Just remember that thought when you think it's time to put a ring on that finger.
If you can't commit from the start of a relationship, you don't have any right to ask for the big commitment later on.
If she doesn’t know where she stands, that isn’t necessarily bad. It’s OK to not be sure yet. Just because she doesn’t immediately like you back doesn’t mean things “ended badly”
If you looking to meet a genuine girl.
From a guy point of view solid eye contact & smile you will be able to tell if she likes you or not.
Make her laugh.
Have good body language (stand up straight).
Actually LISTEN to her stories.
Show in your actions you like her.
As trivial as it sounds BE YOURSELF, avoid any manipulation techniques.
Don’t be afraid to tell her you like her in person especially over text or phone maybe not.
Be afraid of not saying how you feel, being in a friendzone sucks.
You don't ask the fish how to catch fish ... you ask the fisherman.
Yeah and the fish dont wait for the bait to be thrown or something like that 😂😅
I’ve learned it’s better not to chase each other it just needs to happen right there in the moment
solid advice to be honest
The big mistake is not about saying it... It about timing. Usually they say it too quickly and look desperate and in a hurry. That is why they feel pushed pressured and akward
Yes, people need time to know each other. However, it usually happens that within that time, a friendship is built and many people don't see anything else beyond that. So, how would someone build a relationship looking for something else than friends, with the enough time and without telling the other person "I like you", hence, showing the intentions from the beginning, if that last thing is akward?
How do suggest doing it to not look desperate?
@@mrj4082 You should tell her calmly, and optimally don't say it out of nowhere. Don't try too hard though - it's hard to fake confidence, and even if it works you don't want to be pretending to be calm for your entire relationship.
@@mrj4082 I know it might be hard but I would say don't look for anyone in the first place. Might sound stupid but loving yourself is the first step of being attractive (and I'm not saying narcissistic)
If the girl can't handle direct, simple communication, then she's not ready for a relationship and you have your answer. Many women are always saying "why can't men communicate and be honest with their feelings?" Can't have it both ways.
“How to tell a girl you have feelings for her”
“You don’t”
fax
Ask her out it goes one of two ways
1. She rejects you
2. She goes on a date
Asking her to hangout
1. She says no
2. She says yes but forced her friends along
3. Gives her the option to talk to other men which lets her lead you on to getting heart broken because you didn’t just ask her out
God society is so screwed up just be straight with everyone don’t beat around the bush
Just because I tell a woman, or girl, that I like her doesn't mean I want to be exclusive. It's actually a compliment because very few women impress me. Also, the more I get to know her may change my desire for her.
I do it like this to avoid asking questions
“Hey lets get together here this week. Let me know your availability”
That’s more assertive than asking “Do you want to hangout” like some platonic friend shit.
😂
Remember: Actions speak louder than words
True, watch a womans actions not her words. Her words are meaningless
Truth, crazy how psychology rules us
The girl's hungry and doesn't want to pay for food, yeah why not.
“Want to hang out?”
“No”
I didn’t work.
The best way is to avoid them at all cause run as fast as you can away from them this is the best advice for men.
If you ask girl to hangout they don’t automatically know what that means… they start to question why, cuz that’s what girls do. Just be upfront and call it a day.
I don't think I ever told my now wife, "I like you" when I courted her... I let my body language do most of that communication... and just asked her if she was free for the weekend... 16 years and two kids later... we're still going strong😊
If she has to think about it, it’s because she is comparing you to all the other men she is stringing along. She is not worth your time. Even if she likes you the best, someone with more money might come along and she needs her options to be open.
Women are strange creatures. You can make out with them, cuddle with them, Netflix & chill, have sex with them, but the moment you tell people yall are dating, she's like wtf?! True story... a girl literally did this to me. "She was like, oh you never asked me to be your girlfriend." She got upset and was like, "I like you, I wanna keep hanging out with you and see how far things go, just think you are moving to fast." I was like 🤦.
Dude you know how many men would want a relationship like that with all the “benefits” with no commitment? Just ride it out! 😂
Are you American ? Because I feel like this is the most American shit ever.
In France it's straightforward lol. There's my girlfriend, before being my girlfriend, no making out, no sex, hardly no cuddle, but once we agreed on relationship, then we worked on that 😆
@@Achillionabley’all Europeans gotta leave us alone, we didn’t do shit since the Boston Tea Party 😭😭
@@MorJelly Well actually you did, you people pushed the alphabet gang over here.
@@popisolation ain’t our fault damn
When I met my girlfriend I told her straight up you're not friend zoning me were either together or I'm moving on we've been together now for 6 yrs and still going strong. Women like assertiveness unless she's promiscuous then you need to stay away anyway.
that only if she has issues or doesn't like you in the first place. Imagine Brad Pitt asked her if she likes him - I bet she wouldn't feel "high pressured" nor need "time to overthink" that offer
"How to become a miserable single older women - Part 1"
Bruh either she likes you or she doesn't. If she's not sure, then she probably doesn't OR you're one of her many options. Be straightforward and accept whatever answer she gives you, otherwise she'll continue to keep you on the back burner until she makes up her mind. This is the only way to prevent yourself from getting stuck in the games that women play.
Yeah, this only works out for her. She can take what she wants from an eager but restrained suitor, and the moment she feels his intent to escalate, she can say “oh, I thought we were just hanging out; I’m not interested in you ‘that way’”. This is usually followed with the “you’re a great guy, but” cliché, which is a kick to the head as hard as the previous kick to the groin. Don’t be timid - tell her you’re attracted to her and stay on message, even if she rejects you. Anything less and you’re building a cozy little nest as a “sweet friend” who “any girl would be happy to be with”, except her and everyone she has ever known.
Short version. Actions speaks louder than words
Nooo! Tell her you like her. Women appreciate honesty. If you beat around the bush you will lose that girl. If you want to say that you like her by not saying you like her you say, after the date, that you had fun during the date. She will know that you like her and still respect her boundaries, even though she never set them YET
Solution: don’t listen to this woman and don’t date anyone 👌
Especially if her vids are motly the click bait style showing her tits.
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high pressure situation 😂
You have to admit, this is brilliant...