ASKING MY BEST FRIEND TO BE BRIDESMAID
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- This was such a special day! I asked my best friend, Charlotte, to be my bridesmaid!
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Besides the BFF chat, I love your consciousness of her dress being low cut and blurring it! 💕😂🥺
Sorry to hear about Joe's job. I was really exited to see the India series. This pandemic has effected so many people in so many ways. I was supposed to get married in March but was delayed due to the current situation. All the best to both of you. Much Love from India.
I swear, as a frenchie follower who adores listening to your beautiful British accent, Charlotte and you laughing in Kensington gardens was the most British thing I ever listened to !!! XD
I mean ladies... Your laughters are as British as the Thames ! 😅
I’m catching up on your old videos which kinda makes me sad, but also answers a lot of questions. Onwards and upwards, Naomi. 2021 is your year
Wow, how uncertain life can be. I am watching this on the same day that I learned that they broke up only a few short weeks after this video.
I remember you showing your furniture getting hand made in India. Will you be getting it shipped to the UK? It was beautiful!
Please more wedding content ! I would love to know what and how you’re doing everything ! Would be inspiring for our own wedding one day 🎉 wish you all the best
I can only imagine how hard the reality of not going back to India is! Hopefully, one day another opportunity would come up! Also, do you or anyone by any chance remember where the spice rack is from? x
I love how quickly adaptable you are to any situation!! So inspiring honestly ❤️
Niomi your attitude is incredible! 💜 you’ve clearly had a turbulent year but you seem to he handling it all in stride. I truly hope that’s the case 💜 sending love
She is so positive and understanding all the time. I am such a nervous wreck.
It's so sad watching this now only a month ago. I hope you haven't broken up based on your recent video. You can tell here things have taken a toll. ♡
aleagria03 even I noticed :( I feel like the apartment just wasn’t for Niomi
@@GreySalt it was Joe's flat and Freddie was his roomate. Niomi and Freddie were good friends and pretty much family. You have no idea if Freddie was upset about the living arrangement and to suggest that is silly. No one ends an engagement because of a small thing like that. It seeks like you are oblivious.
Dawny K Settle down. She was not assuming all that.
I can only imagine how tough it must have been on you to see so many plans truncated by this unforseeable situation. I hope you and Joe are taking care of your mental health and soon enough feel at home again :)
And by the way, what is going to happen to both you and Joe's belongings in India + the new home? Is it all getting sold?
What a nice vlog! I love the shelves with spices. Kensington gardens are so nice! I used to go there very often when I was an au pair more than 20 years ago and I still consider London as the most amazing city in the world! 🥰 You and Charlotte have a lovely friendship. I wish you a fantastic summer with all the people you love 😘
I'm French and I love the way you say " Brigitte Bardot" , so cute! 😊
I’m so disappointed for you both, especially Joe because of the job xx I know whatever lies ahead, for you both, it will be another exciting adventure I’m sure 😘
Covid has thrown almost every family through a loop with changes of plans, moves, job situations, losses of loved ones, etc. You aren't alone! I'm sorry that it didn't work out the way you had planned. May there be something ifferent and wonderful waiting for you in your next chapter.
You've got that right alright ...UGH. Sigh....
I was so excited to see your India journey with Joe too! But I’m sure you will make moving back a good time too, excited to see the wedding now! Also Niomi, be careful when you film the views outside the window! It is very easy to find the location of the apartment based on that so be safe!!
The relationship you have with Joe is the sweetest thing, and it really inspires me to find someone that treats me right and loves me unconditionally. Seeing your relationship blossom, making wedding plans and being happy together makes me so happy too. I guess it gives me a sense of hope. Also the part with your best friend was such a precious moment too. Anyhow just wanted to send so much love & positive energy to Joe & you. Life is full of ups and downs but it's how we react to them that matters. Have a great week!! Love you guys!!
And now they broke up
I love these chilled vlog style videos. Also more recipes as they’ve always been my favourite, and some Joe and Fred content maybe? Whatever you’re comfortable with sharing of course 💕
You have been an inspiration to me during lockdown, I haven’t eaten meat since Easter and slowly starting my life as a vegan, my first visit to a vegan shop today, where they were super helpful, I have purchased your book, of course, which has become my bible! I have so far molasses, nutritional yeast flakes, yeast extract, cacao powder, I am coeliac, so naturally have gluten free oats etc, I don’t eat bread and have cooked with gluten free flour for years, looking for more natural vegan gluten free flour now, some introductions to becoming vegan would be perfect at this time. Welcome back to London and late congratulations on your engagement..take care...louise xx
That's so great!!
Sooo relate to what you were saying about the plan change being hard psychologically! I had been saving for years to go travelling and with my partner and do my yoga teacher training in Bali. We got to NZ and had to go into lockdown after 2 weeks and then had to make the difficult decision to fly home to the UK. Was so gutting because it had quit our jobs and had been planning for SO long! And spent so much of our savings on our flight back to the UK. But no one could have predicted this! And so so lucky that we and our families are healthy. But it’s still ok to feel the disappointment and frustration of huge plans being cancelled/changed. Hope you’re ok and being kind to yourself ❤️💕
Aww when you told your bestie!! Thats so special, what a beautiful wedding it will be! X x x x x x
Can't wait for all the wedding stuff...hopefully you'll be sharing a little or a lot of the whole wind up to the big day! 💙💜
Were you able to get your stuff back from your apartment in Mumbai!? 😮
Loved this video!! It's so nice to see you and Joe pushing through these confusing times together x super sweet and encouraging. Really hoping you guys get to have a sense of stability soon. Also YES recipe videos would be so nice! I've really been loving your cookbook and have made your banana bread recently and loved it!
the universe has a plan, everything happens for a reason. The place you are in right now is exactly where you are supposed to be. Even the whole craziness which is going on has a purpose, people just need to start seeing it.
I'm sorry but I find this so offensive, especially considering that I know so many people who lost their parents or husbands to COVID. I personally am fine with others having a religion/belief but also saying that to others who've lost their job/livelihood/loved ones is just mean. Things happen in a certain way because we have a society that is constructed on specific terms. It's not the universe who determines high BAME mortality because of COVID, it's structural issues.
Nice to see you again, I was surprised to see you without a mask on when you were out.........maybe you are ahead of us here in Toronto....we can’t get into anything without a mask on..........good to see you home and starting to get settled,I’m sorry to hear about Joe’s job, but at least you are all safe and healthy.........the world as we know it will never be the same and I think it’s fair to say we are all nervous about the new normal looks like........a day at a time Niomi , is probably the best way to handle it all.............glad you are home.....have a great week ........Donna in Toronto
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I think they are required to wear masks indoors (stores, other services), on public transport and such, but not outside, if you keep distance. At least that's how it is in most European countries at the moment, as far as I'm aware :)
You don't have to wear a mask outside in Toronto, just while you're indoors.
honestly ive not watched you for many, many years but i absolutely love this video!! your mindset and thought process is so like, lovely?
I am gutted for you both not returning to India. I was so looking forward to the decorating of the apartment that you have found already. Oh dear... look at me who's nobody here yet I feel empty suddenly for knowing you're not returning to India. I would have loved to follow it so keenly because I made a wrong decision of not joining my Italian husband who was assigned there in Bangalore for a year 10 years ago and I kept refusing to go. Sadly, I lost him now 6 years but that goes to show you that one should never take anything for granted. I was going to live India through you tbh. Weird as it may sound. Sorry to hear this news.
Thanks for being an amazing role model, Niomi!! ❤️🥰 You are an inspiration with your personality and lifestyle!
Thank you!
Charlotte's dress is STUNNING!!
I think life really took a toll on you guys but particularly on him. I could feel his energy change in your last videos, compared to the video where you guys announced to go to India.
I think it destroyed his ego, as it would have with any man. And those moments that are really low really challenge a relationship and are really scary to go through. However they let you see how strong your relationship is, and actually it's better to see that sooner than being stuck in an unhappy marriage
That said, I do see you being very much in love with him, willing to go to India with him before you were engaged, not knowing how your life and job will be, knowing no one. That time your roles were reversed you being the vulnerable one. And you handled it like a pro always being supportive of joe.
So honestly very shocked and disappointed if he couldnt see what a treasure he had. My guess is he cheated with a girl not successful who just admires him and gave him a big ego boost
Lots of love to you my dear.
Can u telll me what destroyed his ego? I dont wanna watch all the past videos lol
I second all of this. It's a pity of Joe really was living for this new job and India rather than niomi. Cause I really think if covid didn't happen they'd still be together... Genuinely wonder what castastrophic had happened to call off a marriage
@@charlotted1321 I think that too. Niomi said she was traumatized and shocked, so I think something on his behalf. I think we can all guess, it probably boosted his ego temporarily
This could actually be true.. men and their egos
I said exactly the same things as you when we moved to India for 3 years. We loved it and we loved the Indians so much. Maybe you will return in the future. X.
Indians love white people that's why..
Oh god... We loved the Indians... poor choice of words, people are people
OK. So we can't say Americans any more because people are people.
So happy to see a new video. You've had a lot to deal with, so understandably so. Loved the picnic with your chief brides maid. Apartment looks so cozy. Best to you both through these crazy times...Connie:-)
And now they are no more together 😢💔
so cute noooo
Thanks so much x
Where is Charlottes dress from? It is gorgeous!!
I'm not sure, but I would love to know too! I'll ask her xxx
I've just seen a very similar version on boohoo for around £18 on sale 😊
Just type in "Lace insert maxi dress" and it should come up 😊😊😊
Yes, it looks stunning!
Niomi Smart yess please do! I love it 🥰
7:42 short hair would suit you verry well Niomi! Loved the vlog x
I liked this video very much, hearing your updates and your honest feelings about everything. I'm in the same situation as you, I used to live in Jakarta because of my husband's job but now back in Osaka because of this pandemic. It's hard to just adjust to all these changes but hopefully we can see the bright side of things and be happy!
I started following you when you announced you were moving to Mumbai and loved the Mumbai content as I'm from here! Gonna miss seeing your Mumbai vlogs
Can you do a video with Charlotte on how SHE was introduced to/set up with Joe? 😂
Will def not happen😁
omg that's so embarrassing
@Anna Smith As intojuly said, they probably wouldn't do a video like that together because it would be awkward and embarrassing imo. At least that's how I would feel.
Her line about not planning your life too much in advance because it may not work out how you think it will is so poignant now that they’ve split. So sad. A new life in India and a future with Joe...all her plans ruined 😕
Shell be better off... a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bike
I'm sure your family was so thankful you retuned to the safety of the U.K. London suits you !!
This was such a lovely vlog! Wishing you all the best for this new chapter in London! xx
Loved this video A LOT. And i don't think at all that the content was not exiting. Just love a 'rambly'/'updatey' video of yours like this one!!!
Hey, at least we get more of Freddie now!!!
I am so sorry to hear that Joe’s job isn’t happening. But things happen and things change. It’s much better for you better in the UK. Something new and exciting will happen for you both. India is going through some challenging things right now due to the Pandemic. Every country is handling things differently. Family and your healths physical and mental are the most important! But you are LIVING through it all! We all live through these scary times. Resiliency!
Love you so so much 💕I’ve been following your journey for about 3 years and I love your relationship with Joe and literally you are gorgeous and amazing; your vlogs and videos/content is unbelievable❤️
I have missed these chatty, chill videos...no need to apologize for them being 'boring'!
Is Joe looking for a job now or is he still employed by his old company?
Loved this vlog. A challenging year for all of us, it really does show that sometimes life doesn’t work out quite how we expect it to! You always remain positive and pass those vibes on 😊 xx
So sorry to hear all of that has happened to you and about Joes job. You’ve really made the most of a bad situation and have a lot to be proud of 🥰
Please make a video with tips on how to start/get back into a fitness routine 🙏
When it's your time to start a family you and Joe should use the name India , its beautiful and it has a meaning for you both xx
Will there be more wedding content? ♥️
So sorry to hear about India, I could see how excited you and Joe were for that next chapter, hopefully once life goes back to normal you will be able to get back out there❤️It must be strange to have been in that mentality of settling in out there to suddenly having to change mindsets to being back home. Hope you are both adjusting ok❤️On the upside, what a lovely moment between you and Charlotte and you both look gorgeous❤️
This video was so sweet. It made me excited to see my girlfriends again. My country (the U.S.) isn't handling the COVID situation very well, but I'm hoping to see one of my best friends next weekend. It'll be the first time since New Year's Eve!
Still in disbelief that this is all gone.. and they really seemed happy. I hope they didn't throw away all this away due to lockdown stress, it's something none of us saw coming. I dread to think that if they stayed in India and Joe had his job they'd still be together. Best case scenario they find their way back to each other.
I, too, thought about how different things might be if COVID hadn't hit and they had never left India. Never know what life has in store as this video was only weeks before the break up.
Completely completely understand your disappointment with having to cancel your move! Me and my partner were meant to move abroad because I got a new job - but we ended up coming home after being their for the shortest amount of time. Left all our stuff in the other flat and borders were closed. Now we are unemployed and looking to start life again in London. It’s a weird time knowing it’s the right decision but that the plan didn’t work out and the adventure didn’t work out. However, onwards and upwards! Xx
I totally feel you about the India experience :(( I’m on a gap year atm and was 6 days into my 6 month trip in south east Asia when lockdown hit - it sucks but glad to see you’re enjoying London! & so cute with the way you asked Charlotte 😌✨
The newfound independence will do you so well Niomi. I hated seeing you so drained in this vlog. Let's ALL leave 2020 behind, shall we?
Don't apologise for your content, it was great, I think everyone feels like they are a bit stale.. all around the world.. you are always lovely to watch ♥️♥️♥️ 🇦🇺🐨
more cooking content pleaase and maybe a Q&A(?) love you lots x
Perfect, thanks for the suggestions!
So happy to see you back. Can't wait for new London vlogs❤
what happened to all your belongings in mumbai?! love you xx
Where is Charlotte's dress from? Both of your dresses are beautiful!! Would love to have a link to her dress and yours (as I can't find it on the website you linked)? Thanks x
Ahhhhh still so excited about your engagement and your wedding next year 💜
You are Joe are so sweet together :) Nice to see you all living together with his brother. I am doing the same thing with my fiance and sister!
Congratulations to both of you! Such a beautiful couple!
Can’t wait for you guys to buy your own house! Maybe somewhere in the countryside not too far from London.
What's happened to your house in London?(the one you lived in before moving to India) xx
We moved out of it in January just before we left (we were renting). All of our furniture is in storage until we find a home together.
Covid19 is definitely an asskicker. However, I do believe that when things don't work out, something better will come round. I haven't seen my boyfriend since January this year cos of borders being closed. Just hope this will all be over soon!
Just saw your comment. Haven't seen my bf either for almost five months. We live in two European different countries and seeing each other now for two weeks was great but now numbers are rising again. Lots of strength!
I agree with what you say chelsie because I have been seeing my boyfriend but socially distanced. But the last time I saw mine was in March. This year hasn't been a very nice year with this silly coronavirus but we have to think that next year there won't be any pandemics. I also think that now the people who live in Bradford will be so happy now that they can see people again. Because I know some people that live in Bradford. My boyfriend's brother and his old girlfriend live in Bradford. And this weekend my boyfriend and his mum could look after his nephew as my boyfriend's brother could bring his son to see his uncle and his grandma. Stay safe. My name is Emily btw. = by the way. xx
Day in the life in London - now everything is getting back to normal!! inc cafes :) please!!
Where are the spice racks and the shelving unit from please? I love them 😍 New adventure lies ahead for you both I'm sure x
Aw you asking your friend was so cute 💕
would love to see vlogs, cooking videos, diy's, weeding planning!
I was about to ask if you were going back to India and then you answered it all. So sorry to hear about joes job, I hope he find something else soon x
My husband is currently in the USAF and we were due to move to Japan. Literally the week after we got our plane tickets, booked our movers, took our cars back home (thank God we didn’t sell them), spent our whole savings to visit family for the last (or what we thought) two months with our families before we moved for three years overseas they cancelled it. Lol so I get it girl! ❤️ There’s a reason for everything whether we know why or not!
Would love to see a What I Eat in a Day - it's been so long!
I NEED to know where that long sleeve maxi dress is from!!!
Such a cute vlog! Can’t wait to see the planning of the wedding! Niomi, could you make a video with some tips on transitioning to a plant based diet in a non-vegetarian household? Would love to hear your thoughts 💭 Lots of love from Bulgaria 🇧🇬❤️
Thanks for the suggestion!
she's so sweet awww
Hard to believe this was a mere 5 weeks ago. Hasn't aged well
when did she announce the break up?
@@ChellyPigguy that's what I want to know too!
@@sarakhandan I believe its in the video "spending the day with my Mother" something like that :)
I like this move to London, it suits Niomi better. The Niomi who lives in the countryside in Berkshire was good, like she was always out walking for hours in the fresh air, her feet in Wellington boots that were covered in mud, and she was always picking fresh fruit like her organic strawberries. But the London city girl Niomi is like completely different, like she speaks quicker and sharper, she has a more bustling vibe, and to top it all off she drinks alcohol in the middle of the morning in broad daylight! Also not going to lie, this video almost made me want to run out and buy a 100 glass jars and some rustic labels to hand write the names of spices and to display my ingredients in the charming way Niomi had them organized on her kitchen rack. Also, not gonna lie, this video made me vow to myself I will never wear a white lace- style Robert Zimmerman style dress when I am out and about in Kesington park, I do not want to accidentally flash anyone, and i am a man! Also when your friend oohed and ahhed over the bridesmaid proposal, it was so dramatic, I almost thought Niomi had gotten down on one knee with a diamond ring and asked her to marry her, but it was all very dramatic and emotional and oh so good for television!!! The way Niomi asked her was so sneaky and oh so good and oh so clever, but not gonna lie, if I had been asked in that way, me being so dense/thick, I would have initially reacted by asking why was there a random piece of paper attached to my glass?!?!
It’s my birthday today ❤️ such a good video ❣️
Happy birthday to you 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂
Happy Birthday !! Best wishes 🤗
Happy birthday!!
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday!
Niomi, your content has been amazing during the whole lockdown. It is very sad indeed how this pandemic has impacted the world! I’m sure whatever life has planned, it is amazing !
Would love a video about body consciousness. What do you do to feel good in your body? What do you think about the image that Social Media platforms create about female bodies? Would love to hear your thoughts on that. You always seem so confident and happy with your body. Lots of love from Germany :)
How come you’re moving in with Joe’s brother?
Wedding planning vlogs?
omg Niomi, such a cute picnic! What else are your go to picnic snacks? Need some inspo
Where is Charlotte's dress from? It is beautiful. Fab vid xx
Will you be house hunting or looking for a new flat? I can’t imagine that living with your brother in law would be ideal. You all need privacy and want your own decor.
It’s joes flat
I'm mad she had to organise all those herbs and spices for nothing 😒
Soooo sweeet😊😊❤😗.
Sooo excited and cant wait for the wedding😁😁❤
Thanks! So excited x
Finally, welcome back!
Hi. Please can you tell me where the shelves are from that you are using as shoe storage? Thank you so much xx
I've been waiting for the new video!😍 I'm enjoying your positive, relaxing, calming, kindhearted videos always! I hope you have the same thing for you!😌
I wish you all the best niomi you're an amazing woman love you 😍😍 and so sorry to hear about Joe's job
I feel you're not your self in this zlog. I'm sure you had alot going on. Whatever path you Choose I'm sure it will be a positive one xx
Your friend is adorable!
I made your coconut pancakes as I watched this :)