You don't need a marriage to be happy. Given how often one ends in divorce because people were more married to the idea than that they tried to be a partner to each other, I think it's kinda sad that people keep rushing into it.
Onision IS jealous of Repsion, considering he is a narcissistic social path. As such Onision will be jealous of anyone who is still relevant while he is fading in relevancy. No one gives a shit about Onision anymore and good ridden. No one should.
Absolutely, divorce laws are outdated - they were designed for when women gave up their career to support their husbands and raise children as their employability would be drastically impacted. This is no longer relevant for most people.
Just because you have a prenup doesn't mean you're anticipating divorcing in two years any more than having a will means you're anticipating dying in two days. It's a proactive protective legal document.
you remind me so much of myself and exactly where i was at in my early 30's. i'm in my 40's now and i can tell you, it gets a lot better. you got this bro, 2025 is your year for sure
Okay so I'm just a boring old lady....married for 20yrs....but I don't claim to be an expert on anything. All I can say is this - I think focusing on yourself is a magnet for positive things. Sometimes relationships can be a little distracting....I'm excited for you - you're giving yourself the best gift ever and I'm stoked to be subscribed for the ride!! Happy 2025 to you and all of us who love you!
People often throw around terms like narcissist, bi polar, gas lighting, and more without fully understanding what those things really are. Hell, they even throw the word ab*se around if someone tells them something they don't like. I think you have a really good outlook on your life now and now is the time for you to heal and enjoy life. I don't think you're annoying at all and I'm glad you're looking inwards and making better choices. When you go on your trips, I hope you make a video on it. If not, that's okay, too.
@@Roxxie-The-Imp "I'm so OCD!" Likes the color of their clothes to match/compliment... "I must have ADHD." Is bored during an hour long lecture on philosophy. But nothing matches those, usually young girls, larping online as DID sufferers. There alters: "Im Raven, favorite color is black, I don't take shit. Buzz off" and "I'm Starfire, I love pink! Apologies for being so giggly today I'm just so excited to share with you guys today!
Actually I argue that a lot of people do you know what it means but they still want to be the victim while being hypocrites about it. And the rest of them just are too lazy to understand it and then they just throw it around to benefit them.
The problem isn’t marriage, the problem is you not recognizing bad people. Taking a year “off” sounds nice tho!! Hope you’ll re-discover yourself and come to peace with everything.
i think thats putting the blame on him (and others in similar relationships) a bit too much ... most of us dont "recognize" bad people immediately, most bad people arent outright bad either or jsut dont show it until later into a relationship. and then we get abused and gaslit into staying being made to think we are the problem. so sometimes even when you do recognize it youre conditioned to accept it.
@@edelleaa I can understand where you’re coming from, but that doesn’t really help him in the long run. Being better at protecting yourself from bad people, and being better at recognizing bad people is what’s gonna help him in the long run. Unfortunately, we live in a world where they’re simply are bad people with ulterior motives, and it’s up to you to be able to weep them out from people who actually give a danm about you.
I’ve been a silent watcher for years and I’m really excited for this chapter for you. Leave them women ALONE. Go find YOURSELF. I’m also 33 and single and I enjoy myself. Period. Off topic, your last relationship gave me really bad vibes and I could never really put my finger on it. I’ll keep other comments to myself other than this was a blessing in disguise for you.
the ADHD was STROOONG in this video LMAO hey man i hope your 2025 year is awesome and that the things you need and want line up exactly how you planned it cause it sounds like a lot of stuff just keeps throwing punches at you. Safe travels and i hope you find a path that only leads to further happiness.
I've been married for 32 years to my 1st love. I was 19, he was 18 and I think we've lasted this long partly because we basically grew up together. It's not always been easy, but we're best friends and we tackled adulthood as a team. Now we're grandparents and i can say that all the bullshit and tough times were worth it. I can't even imagine how hard it would be to have to date, holy shit!! Happy 2025 everyone; do your thing! Much love from Seattle 💚💙
I was single for 6 years by choice before I met my husband at 32. I'm 38 now and we've been married almost 3 years, we own a home in our dream location, and we're both happier than ever. Things don't always happen on a certain timeline! I truly never saw myself in a relationship again, but after 5 months of friendship I knew he was the one. It's corny and cliche but when you know you know and it really was like that for us.
It isn't unhealthy to feel good about yourself and take back your power and autonomy. It's okay to forgive people, it's okay to believe people who admit they've done something wrong and they want to do better. Sometimes they think they're going to do better, but fail to change. The hardest part about betrayal was never forgiving the person who hurt me, it was forgiving myself for being hurt and allowing myself to be taken advantage of- and I see so much of that in what you've said. Healing tells you that people aren't usually evil, just inherently flawed, and their shortcomings have nothing to do with you. But it isn't your responsibility to help them become better or fix them, it's your responsibility to take care of yourself and protect your peace, and I really, really hope you do. Have fun, BE SAFE, and take care.
I’m a Dental assistant who didn’t brush for a long time prior to school. Cavities on every tooth and all. And now I work with my doctor. Just know if you visit us not to be embarrassed or ashamed! We are not judging you and it’s often the first thing to go when mental health suffers. We we just want to help 😊 I wish someone would’ve told me that before I waited seven years to have work done due to my anxiety. I’m so proud of you for taking care of yourself!❤
I think 2025 will be the year. I got cheated on last year and I'm working on the divorce this year. I'm doing my best to focus on me and bettering myself. You should do the same. A relationship might come to you but you'll only be happy, if you're happy with yourself. Work on yourself bud, and you'll find happiness along the way. Enjoy the best life has to give.
30 years married and I got very ill in 2018 - I was hospitalized a lot that year. He literally put my stuff in storage and left me while I was in the hospital. It was very upsetting as I had completely dedicated my life to caring for him through sickness and financial gains and loss. It was devastating. I'm still working thru this today. 😢
Aa a married person, marriage should NOT be seen as a goal. It should just be seen as the next step. I lived with my wife 5 years before we got engaged. We stuck with each other through some of our worst and our best moments during those 5 years so marriage just felt like the next step. Everything leading up to the marriage is just as if not more important than the marriage itself. Things are a lot worse if you get married and find out you are not right for each other afterwards.
I relate so much to this. Seriously, you have no idea. Thank you for sharing Repzion! I also grew up in WA & spent my 20’s traveling and meeting new people, seeing new places, & enjoying my freedom with almost no responsibilities as much as possible. I have friends in Australia if you want or need a connection! lol, they’re even in tv/film/digital media production. So they could be a good connection for networking & TH-cam/content creation. I started watching you when I moved back to help take care of my mom after she was diagnosed with COPD & breast cancer. I stopped dating and focused on spending time taking care of her & making the most of the time we had left together. We moved to South Carolina after unsuccessfully looking to buy a house in Washington (around Tacoma) for 2 years. I lost her Sept 2023, but your content has been one of the few things that was constant in my life over the last 6 years. I guess I should just take the hit & pull the plug and try some dating apps, for the first time in my life, bc I’m all alone in South Carolina with no friends or family near me & I’m tired of randomly meeting people who have different ideas or expectations about what they want from a relationship. 😅 Anyways… just kinda rambling now, I guess. But so were you in this video! 😂 Happy 2025! Time to finally move forward from the craziness & loss of the past 5 years. 🎉
Daniel I care about you and your well being. I have been watching your videos since I was 13 years old, I'm 27 now. I relate to your feeling that a lot of people just aren't great. But you will find your special people and person eventually, so no don't rush into any relationship. I know the feeling of those that you are closest too seem to be the ones to change for the worst. Look after you and take care of yourself. I don't know if you will read this. I don't ever message on TH-cam in general, just watch unless it's a youtuber I genuinely care about. I'm sorry that you've been through so much garbage but just know that there are people out there who care for you more than you realize. And yes, you are the exact opposite of a narcissist. Happy new year
You're definitely not in the minority with the prenup requirement Daniel, it's been a requirement for me since I became an adult and even if You end up finding the person you won't find yourself leaving anyone for it's a good thing to have. On that note, good luck finding yourself again my dude, it's a process. Don't go out looking for anything, but don't close yourself off from meeting someone who meets all of the requirements you have for them in addition to putting in as much in a relationship as you would. This year is gonna be different for all of us. We take it by storm or die trying, but either way it will be a year of change.
Never thought I'd get married, until I met my "one." I swear, all the good things happen as soon as you arent looking and when you LEAST expect it! Take care man, continue to do nothing but your best:) 2025 will be your comeback!
I know you wont read this. But none the less wanted to explain why I thought marriage was important for me. So when I was with my husband (then boyfriend) we were living together he worked for The Boeing company. I ended up getting diagnosed with Cancer. We had so much trouble getting time off for him to help take me to chemo appointments, ect. I ended up in the hospital a few times for various things and it was hard to get him in the room or recovery room because he wasn't my husband. Hell, Boeing wanted to fire him because of how much time he took off and said "well if she isn't your wife there isn't much we can do". This was kind of our driving point, not the only reason... but one of them. With that said, it should be something you both feel is important to do and not something you feel society demands you to do.
yeah ive been 2 years single after being with somebody for 4.5 years. and honestly? really and truly? i've become a better person for it all around. for both myself AND my exes. i got to learn a lot about being single and what i don't want in others and what i can't let others deal with. having a year or two to yourself is going to feel blegh at first but youll soon realize everything feels comfortable and you can get a lot of inner work done. and once you go through that, youre gonna start naturally attracting those who can see youre secure in yourself!! so please, keep that in mind as you take a YOU YEAR!!!
My partner and I would be so happy to show you around our part of Aotearoa New Zealand if you do make it here! Hobbiton is in the North Island where we are based. Promise we aren't murderers (although I'm sure that's what they all say). If you do come here please be sure to check out the South Island as well, you'll find the best scenery ever and it will be a winter wonderland that time of year ❄️
Wellington is great if you want awesome arcades like Willis Lane, Daytona n more. I don't live there anymore, but even if I did, i, too, is not a Mur-derer. Auckland got Rainbows End, the amusement park (I highly recommend going to it at night) You got Spookers in. i think it's Karaka, I only been there once, and it was before I was old enough to do the cool walk through (it's a haunted attraction) I live in none of those places anymore haha ~ I miss all of those
I'd be all for travel vlogs, it's fun to see people explore and grow. ^^ If you want to go to Tokyo, I know a really cheap guest house, kinda capsule style, but less than $300 a month in central Tokyo is a steal.
I like to think that the concept and ingraining of "marriage" is because we are taught that we should want to get married and have children. That it is the normal thing to do and if you do not want or do that, then you are the outsider. So, we strive to be one with others. If you don't want to get married, don't, if you do, then do so. But, the important thing is for yourself to be happy and honest with your partner(s) if you do engage as they should be honest and happy with you as well. And, people change.
I think when you stop looking, stop putting so much emphasis on marriage. You'll find that somrone you deserve, somebody who wants what you want and it will all happen in its own time, i wish you all the best 💚
Also couldn’t agree more on the prenup thing and I work my ass off at a 9-5 living paycheck to paycheck. I don’t understand why, when people get divorced, alimony is even a thing anymore??? Like I’m a woman and (as an avid court watcher lol) see so many men getting screwed over because they have to pay thousands in alimony a MONTH; it blows my mind!
I'm a 28 year old single gay man in Las Vegas and let me tell you that I'm so beyond over dating or trying to find love. I have nobody on my radar or anything of that sort, but I just saw my idol Janet Jackson for the ninth time at her Resorts World residency and I met a drag queen I'd followed for a few years in person and they provided me an extra VIP front row seat to watch the show last minute and it was incredible. They don't live in Vegas but I seriously appreciated the generosity of that person and I'm beyond full of gratitude and that's the shit I'd much rather focus on than being on shitty dating apps or anywhere trying to find somebody that I will never find for the rest of my life. I'm much more happy being permanently single than trying to pine over people who wouldn't give me the time of day. Plus the majority of the LGBT+ community doesn't like fat, femme, drag queen gays anymore so that's pretty much my entire life.
You can be a total douche bag in relationships but still not be a narcissist. Something you could look into for future guiding in relationships are attachment styles. It definitely gives you a broader perspective on things. I think you do the right thing by not stressing about a partner and prioritizing yourself. The one will come by eventually, and then you'll be ready knowing your worth. You got this🥳
Prenups are great they set boundaries which all relationships have, lead to less messy divorces if it comes to that and promote clear communication with your partner. People look at prenups with such a shallow lens but its just a safe guard for everyone involved.
Yes! Come to New Zealand! You will love it so much i promise! I haven’t explored much of the South Island but i hear its beautiful so 100% recommend that. Waitomo caves, Hobbits and other bits around middle of North Island is for sure a must see (can recommend other spots there that i went to on holiday recently there if you reach out). Im sure you would have a place to rest your head if you end up around Masterton/Wellington at our house (pinky promise we aren’t murderers 😂) :)
I just finished a book about mountaineers and their partners, but these who are climbing mount everest, k2 etc. And one thing that made me sad is how their partners ALWAYS had a problem with their passion. Always. They expected them to sacrifice their years long hobby for them. One guy fell down the mountain, barely alive, spent 8 months in hospital and immediately after return to home his wife pushed him to have a kid cause it was obvious that he won't be back to climbing for next months. As much as I understand that relationship means both sides have something to give up I would never be able to do that. I used to that already. I hope all your plans will come true and will bring you lots of happiness
Most definitely the year honey!!! I finally got me a dresser and matching bed!!! I’m making a career change as well. Repzion my dear, you WILL have the best year of your life. Have a great year sweetie. It will come when it’s time. 😉
You know after watching this whole video. I think I'm going to take your advice rep and just focus on myself and make myself happy. I really don't really need a relationship to be happy because honestly I was just lonely to be honest I need a conquer that shitt starting this year. 💯 time to make some change
Just cause you determined you’re not a narcissist doesn’t mean your behaviors and actions weren’t problematic or harmful. Not that your partners were sunshine rainbows either. But careful that you don’t just shrug away that insensitivity as being fine just cause you’re autistic. I’m autistic/adhd too and I need to take careful consideration to not be insensitive. Having a mental disorder doesn’t give a free pass for hurting others. If they said you had these problems and previous relationships also say this- you gotta do that work on yourself or it will continue to be a problem shaping future relationships. This sounds manic, tbh.
Ok so as ordained minister amongst everything else on my life(just one aspect of me)I advise anyone & everyone to get a prenup & I won’t agree to marry anyone who has a bad situation going on. That’s setting people up for failure if not danger. You are not in the wrong. And just so you know, you can always get married spiritually. Some add legal stipulations like who can be there in the hospital w/them. No you do not have to have a gov marriage. To me it’s just as valid. You have a ceremony & a celebration of love & commitment. Ministers like myself will do it. I have spiritual certificates for the partners & I honestly believe if someone loves you they will understand & be willing to compromise. I live in the same area as you technically and this becoming more & more popular
Australia Zoo is in the Sunshine Coast here in Queensland! I would recommend flying to Brisbane and renting a car if you plan to visit. 🥳 Our beautiful state often gets overlooked by international travellers, aside from the Gold Coast (a bit of a tourist trap)! I would also highly recommend travelling to Cairns and Port Douglas to see some of the most beautiful wildlife 🐊
I don't have any friends, and my family is the reason for a lot of my issues. Sharing on Reddit like on ADHD subreddit and Social Anxiety subreddit helps me a lot. Nothing beats seeing people go through similar things as you do. Some who made it to the other end offer good advice. TH-cam comments help, too. I watched you on and off for many years. I was really worried for you. I'm glad you had a more positive epiphany.
I'd love to see you upload some vlogs of your travels! My friend in australlia sends me pictures of his explorations over there and it is truly just a beautiful place, just make sure you don't run into any red kangaroos 🤣! I love your commentary but you have such a fun onscreen personality that makes it generally enjoyable to just hang and watch you no matter what the topic is, even if it's just rambling vids like this one. Glad you're still here uploading and talking to us 🙂
Sorry if I am overstepping a line with this comments but you completely writing off the concept of marriage because you got fucked over so much is actually extremely sad to me. It just looks to me like the product of years of disappointment and frustration and less like an epiphany (not to step on your toes, just my personal impression). Your talk about marriage holding yourself back shows how little you have actually experienced being loved truly and not just being taken advantage of. A good partnership and partner will open up possibilities for you not the other way around! Alone thinking that marriage will keep you from traveling is crazy to me, I don't even understand your reasoning. However, I think focusing on you and what makes you happy and doing those things is probably exactly the right thing. Being too focused on the concept of marriage often leads people into the arms of the wrong people. And also gaining some healthy self confidence might keep you from choosing the wrong people. The strongest couples I know found each other where they weren't looking and I think marriage in this culture may seem less popular through the media lense than it actually is. Maybe not close that chapter off completely, I'm sure you'll find someone who actually loves you and has your best intentions in mind and maybe then you can reevaluate.
I almost never comment on youtube videos, but I wanted to drop in and just say that you being so open and vulnerable is such a breath of fresh air. Protect your heart. You're one of the good ones. 2025 IS going to be your year.
I think it's healthy to realise you might be looking for marriage for the wrong reasons. Lots of young divorces seem to be mismatch of expectations, which could have been addressed if people spoke about things openly, but its kinda tabboo to do so because your "soul mate" should "just know" which is nuts, it's forcing someone to be a mind reader. Totally unfair to both parties.
Seeing my dad go through two divorces and get married 3 times and all the hard shit it brought upon me and my siblings and himself, really ruined my view of marriage. It’s all just socially constructed bullshit imo. I was with my ex for 8 years and we talked about getting married but neither of us believed in it. So we just celebrated our relationship and love for each other. Never needed to be on paper and that’s ok. If people really want to get married great. My siblings are all married with kids. But no one should feel like they have to.
Probably gonna parrot people here who have infinitely more age and experience on me so don’t mind me, never married, younger than most here. But my man, you’re one of the most upfront individuals around. You admit straight up to your human flaws, and you try your best to improve. You do it even when it can be difficult, but as you know, not everyone would bother to do the same. I’m glad to hear your revelation, glad to hear you’re doing well despite everything that’s happened. I more than respect and personally agree with your sentiments on marriage, but as someone who deep down desires that kind of companionship, I do hope you keep it in mind and don’t feel patronized at all when people say that, hey! Never say never! Focusing on yourself seems to be exactly what you need, get some personal fulfillment, create new memories and associations all your own, free from everything else. That’s the way, but I hope somewhere down the line in this life that things fall into place for you and you can find that companionship in someone who’s willing to meet you halfway or more. It can be exasperating to hear I know and I surely have no place here compared to others, but if marriage is something you seek, you have so much time my man. You’re never too old for many things, marriage included. I hope that it’s in the cards for you, and one day you have that moment where you really meet the one. As for now? I hope your year starts and remains strong, and you get to do a shit ton of cool new stuff. Take your time, because I promise you have plenty. Stay safe man, I hope that you don’t feel like you’re to blame for your circumstances the last few years, and I hope that none of these things ever make you lose your compassion or that ability to see the best in people, even if a lot of people were undeserving of that kindness.
I'm sorry to hear the experiences you have had. Please do not let that dishearten you from what you are looking for. As someone in a similar boat I can relate completely to your situation and find as a "good person" you try to see the best in others which means trust is given to the incorrect people. I hope that you find and build strong connections with worthy people - just know that you are not alone in this.
am i the only weirdo who is incredibly invested in his updates. my fav vids by far, what I care about for some reason is his personal life. I'm rooting for him. i remember his update about his ex, and things like that. hope he can travel this year and we get an update soon
I’ve been watching you for years and years and I have to say…watching this video actually made my chest hurt. Breaks my heart. I am very sorry you’ve gone through this. Many of us have too. Hurts bad. I’ve watched your last couple relationships come and go and I’ve seen the pain you’re going through and I know it doesn’t mean much but just know there are people like me and MANY others out here who have love and care for you from afar and you mean a lot to us and seeing you in pain hurts us just as badly. You have fun traveling the world you truly deserve it. Thank you for still putting out content even though it’s just for fun. Some of us still really look forward to your videos! Cheers to 2025 ❤
Being single for a while helped me clarify what I wanted for my life, which was beneficial when I did meet 'the one' so to speak. Those were a good few years, but I am happy with what I have now.
Sending you so much love and strength dude. I’ve been watching you on and off for about 7 years now and even though I don’t agree with you politically, personally I agree with almost everything you say and even if I don’t I can understand where you’re coming from and recognize that you’re a good guy worthy of good things in life. Your special person will come along at the right time. You never want to force anything but finding a partner where you both truly support and value each other in your hard times and your wins is something everyone deserves. You’re a good guy and I definitely see this happening for you! Always a joy to see your positive growth continue over the years.
I’m so glad that you are taking your power back! You are a good guy, a great creator, and you deserve happiness D. Can’t wait to see those vlogs friend. ❤❤❤
very happy for you rep! been subscribed for god knows how long. seeing you commit to yourself and your happiness is very inspiring and im glad you have a yt channel where you can say this.
I thought marriage wasn't for me, but I met the one after several failed relationships. We lived together for 3 years and got married. I'm so happy I did. In the past I was a fixer, a people pleaser, and was constantly bending over backwards for these dudes just for them to discard me and or cheat on me. What I learned was I'm not responsible for anyone's happiness. These crappy relationships highlighted my self worth. I allowed so much abuse and crap from these guys I would never tolerate now. When I met my husband and started dating him, I was waiting for him to drop the act over time but he didn't need me to do to fix him or make him happy, it all came naturally.Things were more simple, peaceful, no crazy dramas. BTW being a little selfish isn't bad it will give you clarity on what you want to do, improve your well being, make you even more loving and generous, and value yourself more. This is what I learned thus far. Good luck on your travels.
Phew, I'm just glad you're not with... *that* person anymore. I think its good for you to focus on yourself for now. Stopping to actively look for love seems to be the key to success, at least with the people I know. Good luck to you, always. 🍀
So happy to hear this all from you. I get the feeling that you are going to find what you have been looking for once YOU find how to make you happy. Have a blast, be safe, cuz your smart, never sell yourself short.
ive been subscribed to you for years but this is the first time ive seen one of your videos on homepage in a long time, i didnt know you even still made videos. damn algorithm
There is this concept in human psychology called backward law which basically means that the moment you stop looking for something, wanting something, being desperate for something, etc... it's more likely to happen. I guess it mostly comes back to acceptance of the current situation. Appreciating what you have but also looking at all the cards that life has given you and figure out where you can realistically go from the point you are at. And you are always able to go somewhere. P.S. I'm an AuDHDer as well and the numbers of times I've wondered if I am a narcissist... Eventually when I was getting my autism evaluation, I had this huge personality test and I know I have no personalisty disorders appart from being high on anxiety scales. So at least I don't have to wonder anymore. But then again, given how neurodivergence is hereditary I start to wonder if my parents are narcissistic or just undiagnosed neuroatypical and that is why their marriage blew up and also why my childhood was so emotionally unstable.
I know someone just like that, sometimes they can seem insensitive but if you really know them you can tell they just care too much, you just have to wait till you meet the person that can actually see and understand that about you. Good luck on your endevours sir.
Maybe there is no specific right person for anyone, because if you stop to really think about it, it could lead to two issues. One of them could be where that person could die before you might ever meet them or they might live in another country or state where you never meet them because you live too far away for them where the chances would be nearly impossible for such a meet up, and then you might have to wait until after you and them are both dead to meet up in some afterlife for such a meet up. The other issue could be where even if you meet with them, the implication is that it would take away your freedom for anything to work out well or desirable between you and anyone else other than that person. So maybe instead of there being the so-called right person, maybe it's the right type of person, where out of 1,000 members of the opposite sex, around 8 or 9 of them would fit that mold, if that makes sense.
Narcissists love to tell you you’re the narcissist. #PROJECTING #gaslighting Bless you, Daniel. So proud of your growth and new found perspectives and self love. 💜 get it all in 2025! It’s indeed the year. Much much love, friend. So excited for you.
When i got divorced I wrote off the concept of marriage cuz u was hurt and didn't want to get hurt again. But 5 years later I did find the right guy and we've been married over 5 years now and it was the best decision I ever made. But it also came at the time when it was meant to. So please don't strike off marriage 100% because maybe in the far future you find someone you want to be married to.
Dude marriage is totally worth it when it's with the right person.
Yeah, but fixating on the idea of getting married isn't a good way to go about things.
yah and buying a lotto ticket is worth it if you find the right one... lol
meh.
You don't need a marriage to be happy. Given how often one ends in divorce because people were more married to the idea than that they tried to be a partner to each other, I think it's kinda sad that people keep rushing into it.
its not worth it for a MAN
I hope Onision is jealous of you 🎉
I'm pretty sure he is lol
Onision IS jealous of Repsion, considering he is a narcissistic social path. As such Onision will be jealous of anyone who is still relevant while he is fading in relevancy.
No one gives a shit about Onision anymore and good ridden. No one should.
Prenups are NOT too much for ask for!
Absolutely, divorce laws are outdated - they were designed for when women gave up their career to support their husbands and raise children as their employability would be drastically impacted. This is no longer relevant for most people.
Amen, ive seen ppl fuck each other over with alimony IRL, it is not worth it to risk lol.
Prenups are basically useless considering they're just thrown out most of the time
Just because you have a prenup doesn't mean you're anticipating divorcing in two years any more than having a will means you're anticipating dying in two days. It's a proactive protective legal document.
you remind me so much of myself and exactly where i was at in my early 30's. i'm in my 40's now and i can tell you, it gets a lot better. you got this bro, 2025 is your year for sure
Damn straight.
Thank you for this comment, currently in my early 30s feeling damn hopeless ❤
Agree
@@meganlpruitt hated my 30s, prefer my 40s
Okay so I'm just a boring old lady....married for 20yrs....but I don't claim to be an expert on anything. All I can say is this - I think focusing on yourself is a magnet for positive things. Sometimes relationships can be a little distracting....I'm excited for you - you're giving yourself the best gift ever and I'm stoked to be subscribed for the ride!! Happy 2025 to you and all of us who love you!
People often throw around terms like narcissist, bi polar, gas lighting, and more without fully understanding what those things really are. Hell, they even throw the word ab*se around if someone tells them something they don't like. I think you have a really good outlook on your life now and now is the time for you to heal and enjoy life. I don't think you're annoying at all and I'm glad you're looking inwards and making better choices. When you go on your trips, I hope you make a video on it. If not, that's okay, too.
soo many people misuse therapy terms and it's genuinely really harmful tbh
@ Exactly. It’s a slap on the face to those of us with those very real mental disorders.
@@Roxxie-The-Imp "I'm so OCD!" Likes the color of their clothes to match/compliment...
"I must have ADHD." Is bored during an hour long lecture on philosophy.
But nothing matches those, usually young girls, larping online as DID sufferers. There alters: "Im Raven, favorite color is black, I don't take shit. Buzz off" and "I'm Starfire, I love pink! Apologies for being so giggly today I'm just so excited to share with you guys today!
Actually I argue that a lot of people do you know what it means but they still want to be the victim while being hypocrites about it. And the rest of them just are too lazy to understand it and then they just throw it around to benefit them.
My toxic ex boyfriend called me toxic for having an opinion he didn’t like.
The problem isn’t marriage, the problem is you not recognizing bad people. Taking a year “off” sounds nice tho!! Hope you’ll re-discover yourself and come to peace with everything.
i think thats putting the blame on him (and others in similar relationships) a bit too much ... most of us dont "recognize" bad people immediately, most bad people arent outright bad either or jsut dont show it until later into a relationship. and then we get abused and gaslit into staying being made to think we are the problem. so sometimes even when you do recognize it youre conditioned to accept it.
@@edelleaa I can understand where you’re coming from, but that doesn’t really help him in the long run. Being better at protecting yourself from bad people, and being better at recognizing bad people is what’s gonna help him in the long run. Unfortunately, we live in a world where they’re simply are bad people with ulterior motives, and it’s up to you to be able to weep them out from people who actually give a danm about you.
I’ve been a silent watcher for years and I’m really excited for this chapter for you. Leave them women ALONE. Go find YOURSELF. I’m also 33 and single and I enjoy myself. Period. Off topic, your last relationship gave me really bad vibes and I could never really put my finger on it. I’ll keep other comments to myself other than this was a blessing in disguise for you.
the ADHD was STROOONG in this video LMAO
hey man i hope your 2025 year is awesome and that the things you need and want line up exactly how you planned it cause it sounds like a lot of stuff just keeps throwing punches at you. Safe travels and i hope you find a path that only leads to further happiness.
ADHD here, it was like looking into a mirror.
Some days are worse than others!
I've been married for 32 years to my 1st love. I was 19, he was 18 and I think we've lasted this long partly because we basically grew up together. It's not always been easy, but we're best friends and we tackled adulthood as a team. Now we're grandparents and i can say that all the bullshit and tough times were worth it. I can't even imagine how hard it would be to have to date, holy shit!! Happy 2025 everyone; do your thing! Much love from Seattle 💚💙
Aww that's so lovely, I hope you have many more happy years together ❤️
I was single for 6 years by choice before I met my husband at 32. I'm 38 now and we've been married almost 3 years, we own a home in our dream location, and we're both happier than ever. Things don't always happen on a certain timeline! I truly never saw myself in a relationship again, but after 5 months of friendship I knew he was the one. It's corny and cliche but when you know you know and it really was like that for us.
I hope this happens for me 🙏
It isn't unhealthy to feel good about yourself and take back your power and autonomy. It's okay to forgive people, it's okay to believe people who admit they've done something wrong and they want to do better. Sometimes they think they're going to do better, but fail to change. The hardest part about betrayal was never forgiving the person who hurt me, it was forgiving myself for being hurt and allowing myself to be taken advantage of- and I see so much of that in what you've said.
Healing tells you that people aren't usually evil, just inherently flawed, and their shortcomings have nothing to do with you. But it isn't your responsibility to help them become better or fix them, it's your responsibility to take care of yourself and protect your peace, and I really, really hope you do.
Have fun, BE SAFE, and take care.
I'm enjoying seeing this more uneditted side of you. It's refreshing
I finally started brushing my teeth lately :)
good job, internet stranger! Trust me, it's important and your teeth will thank ya
Proud of you!!
Omg me too! High five 🙌🏻
👏congrats, keep going one step at a time
I’m a Dental assistant who didn’t brush for a long time prior to school. Cavities on every tooth and all. And now I work with my doctor. Just know if you visit us not to be embarrassed or ashamed! We are not judging you and it’s often the first thing to go when mental health suffers. We we just want to help 😊
I wish someone would’ve told me that before I waited seven years to have work done due to my anxiety.
I’m so proud of you for taking care of yourself!❤
You're a good man, you didn't deserve whatever happened to you.
You can have rings and promises without being married. It's the way I preferred it with my late partner.
I think 2025 will be the year. I got cheated on last year and I'm working on the divorce this year. I'm doing my best to focus on me and bettering myself. You should do the same. A relationship might come to you but you'll only be happy, if you're happy with yourself. Work on yourself bud, and you'll find happiness along the way. Enjoy the best life has to give.
Hope nothing but the best for you, glad you're out of that situation, things will get better❤️
30 years married and I got very ill in 2018 - I was hospitalized a lot that year. He literally put my stuff in storage and left me while I was in the hospital. It was very upsetting as I had completely dedicated my life to caring for him through sickness and financial gains and loss. It was devastating. I'm still working thru this today. 😢
That is like one of my worst fears. Holy shit I’m so sorry that happened to you.
Spitting truths imo and im 52and lived a bit. Get out, try anything you feel comfotable with, be safe, be free, be happy. ❤
I am so glad you're embracing this positive outlook for the new year after everything you've been through. I am rooting for you!
Aa a married person, marriage should NOT be seen as a goal. It should just be seen as the next step. I lived with my wife 5 years before we got engaged. We stuck with each other through some of our worst and our best moments during those 5 years so marriage just felt like the next step. Everything leading up to the marriage is just as if not more important than the marriage itself. Things are a lot worse if you get married and find out you are not right for each other afterwards.
I relate so much to this. Seriously, you have no idea. Thank you for sharing Repzion!
I also grew up in WA & spent my 20’s traveling and meeting new people, seeing new places, & enjoying my freedom with almost no responsibilities as much as possible. I have friends in Australia if you want or need a connection! lol, they’re even in tv/film/digital media production. So they could be a good connection for networking & TH-cam/content creation.
I started watching you when I moved back to help take care of my mom after she was diagnosed with COPD & breast cancer. I stopped dating and focused on spending time taking care of her & making the most of the time we had left together. We moved to South Carolina after unsuccessfully looking to buy a house in Washington (around Tacoma) for 2 years. I lost her Sept 2023, but your content has been one of the few things that was constant in my life over the last 6 years.
I guess I should just take the hit & pull the plug and try some dating apps, for the first time in my life, bc I’m all alone in South Carolina with no friends or family near me & I’m tired of randomly meeting people who have different ideas or expectations about what they want from a relationship. 😅
Anyways… just kinda rambling now, I guess. But so were you in this video! 😂
Happy 2025! Time to finally move forward from the craziness & loss of the past 5 years. 🎉
Daniel I care about you and your well being. I have been watching your videos since I was 13 years old, I'm 27 now. I relate to your feeling that a lot of people just aren't great. But you will find your special people and person eventually, so no don't rush into any relationship. I know the feeling of those that you are closest too seem to be the ones to change for the worst. Look after you and take care of yourself. I don't know if you will read this. I don't ever message on TH-cam in general, just watch unless it's a youtuber I genuinely care about. I'm sorry that you've been through so much garbage but just know that there are people out there who care for you more than you realize. And yes, you are the exact opposite of a narcissist. Happy new year
You're definitely not in the minority with the prenup requirement Daniel, it's been a requirement for me since I became an adult and even if You end up finding the person you won't find yourself leaving anyone for it's a good thing to have. On that note, good luck finding yourself again my dude, it's a process. Don't go out looking for anything, but don't close yourself off from meeting someone who meets all of the requirements you have for them in addition to putting in as much in a relationship as you would. This year is gonna be different for all of us. We take it by storm or die trying, but either way it will be a year of change.
Never thought I'd get married, until I met my "one." I swear, all the good things happen as soon as you arent looking and when you LEAST expect it! Take care man, continue to do nothing but your best:) 2025 will be your comeback!
U rock! 😁
P. S. Marriage is punishment for shoplifting in some countries! Lol
My dad always said buy cheap buy twice.
I know you wont read this. But none the less wanted to explain why I thought marriage was important for me. So when I was with my husband (then boyfriend) we were living together he worked for The Boeing company. I ended up getting diagnosed with Cancer. We had so much trouble getting time off for him to help take me to chemo appointments, ect. I ended up in the hospital a few times for various things and it was hard to get him in the room or recovery room because he wasn't my husband. Hell, Boeing wanted to fire him because of how much time he took off and said "well if she isn't your wife there isn't much we can do". This was kind of our driving point, not the only reason... but one of them. With that said, it should be something you both feel is important to do and not something you feel society demands you to do.
yeah ive been 2 years single after being with somebody for 4.5 years. and honestly? really and truly? i've become a better person for it all around. for both myself AND my exes. i got to learn a lot about being single and what i don't want in others and what i can't let others deal with. having a year or two to yourself is going to feel blegh at first but youll soon realize everything feels comfortable and you can get a lot of inner work done. and once you go through that, youre gonna start naturally attracting those who can see youre secure in yourself!! so please, keep that in mind as you take a YOU YEAR!!!
also you talk like how i talk irl xD the rambling rambler
Ditto, man. Ditto. To all of this. Let's do this damned thing.
Pre nup! It’s worrying that you’ve swung from one extreme to the exact opposite. Just work on yourself and don’t write off marriage.
IN AUSTRALIA HERE! and in QLD which is the state that Australia zoo is in! (the area is amazing). It's amazing to see grow and be happy.
My partner and I would be so happy to show you around our part of Aotearoa New Zealand if you do make it here! Hobbiton is in the North Island where we are based. Promise we aren't murderers (although I'm sure that's what they all say). If you do come here please be sure to check out the South Island as well, you'll find the best scenery ever and it will be a winter wonderland that time of year ❄️
We're in the south island about 20 minutes from where they filmed the battle scenes I think it was?? Anyway hit me up too 👋🏼
Oh and we're not merderers either 😜🤣
Wellington is great if you want awesome arcades like Willis Lane, Daytona n more. I don't live there anymore, but even if I did, i, too, is not a Mur-derer.
Auckland got Rainbows End, the amusement park (I highly recommend going to it at night)
You got Spookers in. i think it's Karaka, I only been there once, and it was before I was old enough to do the cool walk through (it's a haunted attraction)
I live in none of those places anymore haha ~ I miss all of those
Aye same! ❤
I'd be all for travel vlogs, it's fun to see people explore and grow. ^^ If you want to go to Tokyo, I know a really cheap guest house, kinda capsule style, but less than $300 a month in central Tokyo is a steal.
the right one will come along when you are not looking is a saying that's often said, must be a reason for it
Im from Brisbane Australia! I have my driving test tomorrow (I’m 27 dw) so hopefully if I get my license I can offer to show you around Brisbane!
Don't go in marriage thinking of divorce. Also, an agreement contract isn't bad. Enjoy life while you can.😊
I like to think that the concept and ingraining of "marriage" is because we are taught that we should want to get married and have children. That it is the normal thing to do and if you do not want or do that, then you are the outsider. So, we strive to be one with others.
If you don't want to get married, don't, if you do, then do so. But, the important thing is for yourself to be happy and honest with your partner(s) if you do engage as they should be honest and happy with you as well. And, people change.
I think when you stop looking, stop putting so much emphasis on marriage. You'll find that somrone you deserve, somebody who wants what you want and it will all happen in its own time, i wish you all the best 💚
Also couldn’t agree more on the prenup thing and I work my ass off at a 9-5 living paycheck to paycheck. I don’t understand why, when people get divorced, alimony is even a thing anymore??? Like I’m a woman and (as an avid court watcher lol) see so many men getting screwed over because they have to pay thousands in alimony a MONTH; it blows my mind!
"I earned it, I worked for it, it's mine".
It’ll be winter here in Australia then. And our winters are super mild. So sunny all day and cool at night. Pretty much perfect.
I'm a 28 year old single gay man in Las Vegas and let me tell you that I'm so beyond over dating or trying to find love. I have nobody on my radar or anything of that sort, but I just saw my idol Janet Jackson for the ninth time at her Resorts World residency and I met a drag queen I'd followed for a few years in person and they provided me an extra VIP front row seat to watch the show last minute and it was incredible. They don't live in Vegas but I seriously appreciated the generosity of that person and I'm beyond full of gratitude and that's the shit I'd much rather focus on than being on shitty dating apps or anywhere trying to find somebody that I will never find for the rest of my life. I'm much more happy being permanently single than trying to pine over people who wouldn't give me the time of day. Plus the majority of the LGBT+ community doesn't like fat, femme, drag queen gays anymore so that's pretty much my entire life.
The best bit of advice anyone ever gave me was "if they won't sign a prenup, they're only in it for your money" and I stick by that.
Happy new year 🎉
You can be a total douche bag in relationships but still not be a narcissist. Something you could look into for future guiding in relationships are attachment styles. It definitely gives you a broader perspective on things.
I think you do the right thing by not stressing about a partner and prioritizing yourself. The one will come by eventually, and then you'll be ready knowing your worth. You got this🥳
kudos to you man, i’m trying to make 2025 my best year in a long time too. fingers crossed for everybody
Prenups are great they set boundaries which all relationships have, lead to less messy divorces if it comes to that and promote clear communication with your partner. People look at prenups with such a shallow lens but its just a safe guard for everyone involved.
Yes! Come to New Zealand! You will love it so much i promise! I haven’t explored much of the South Island but i hear its beautiful so 100% recommend that. Waitomo caves, Hobbits and other bits around middle of North Island is for sure a must see (can recommend other spots there that i went to on holiday recently there if you reach out). Im sure you would have a place to rest your head if you end up around Masterton/Wellington at our house (pinky promise we aren’t murderers 😂) :)
This is the best update ever! Let's go 2025 Repzion!
I just finished a book about mountaineers and their partners, but these who are climbing mount everest, k2 etc. And one thing that made me sad is how their partners ALWAYS had a problem with their passion. Always. They expected them to sacrifice their years long hobby for them. One guy fell down the mountain, barely alive, spent 8 months in hospital and immediately after return to home his wife pushed him to have a kid cause it was obvious that he won't be back to climbing for next months. As much as I understand that relationship means both sides have something to give up I would never be able to do that. I used to that already. I hope all your plans will come true and will bring you lots of happiness
Most definitely the year honey!!! I finally got me a dresser and matching bed!!! I’m making a career change as well. Repzion my dear, you WILL have the best year of your life. Have a great year sweetie. It will come when it’s time. 😉
You know after watching this whole video. I think I'm going to take your advice rep and just focus on myself and make myself happy. I really don't really need a relationship to be happy because honestly I was just lonely to be honest I need a conquer that shitt starting this year. 💯 time to make some change
Just cause you determined you’re not a narcissist doesn’t mean your behaviors and actions weren’t problematic or harmful. Not that your partners were sunshine rainbows either. But careful that you don’t just shrug away that insensitivity as being fine just cause you’re autistic. I’m autistic/adhd too and I need to take careful consideration to not be insensitive. Having a mental disorder doesn’t give a free pass for hurting others. If they said you had these problems and previous relationships also say this- you gotta do that work on yourself or it will continue to be a problem shaping future relationships.
This sounds manic, tbh.
Ok so as ordained minister amongst everything else on my life(just one aspect of me)I advise anyone & everyone to get a prenup & I won’t agree to marry anyone who has a bad situation going on. That’s setting people up for failure if not danger. You are not in the wrong. And just so you know, you can always get married spiritually. Some add legal stipulations like who can be there in the hospital w/them. No you do not have to have a gov marriage. To me it’s just as valid. You have a ceremony & a celebration of love & commitment. Ministers like myself will do it. I have spiritual certificates for the partners & I honestly believe if someone loves you they will understand & be willing to compromise. I live in the same area as you technically and this becoming more & more popular
Australia Zoo is in the Sunshine Coast here in Queensland! I would recommend flying to Brisbane and renting a car if you plan to visit. 🥳
Our beautiful state often gets overlooked by international travellers, aside from the Gold Coast (a bit of a tourist trap)! I would also highly recommend travelling to Cairns and Port Douglas to see some of the most beautiful wildlife 🐊
Lmaooo i actually love this for you. Have fun and dont let anyone make you feel bad. ♥️
This was refreshing and unfortunately relatable.
Wishing you a happy 2025 brother.
I don't have any friends, and my family is the reason for a lot of my issues. Sharing on Reddit like on ADHD subreddit and Social Anxiety subreddit helps me a lot. Nothing beats seeing people go through similar things as you do. Some who made it to the other end offer good advice. TH-cam comments help, too.
I watched you on and off for many years. I was really worried for you. I'm glad you had a more positive epiphany.
im glad you decided to stay on youtube, and that you have plans for the next year and excited for it. hopefully everything you want will go as planned
How is it that the most genuine people have to go through so much shit before they realise that they, too, matter?
I'd love to see you upload some vlogs of your travels! My friend in australlia sends me pictures of his explorations over there and it is truly just a beautiful place, just make sure you don't run into any red kangaroos 🤣! I love your commentary but you have such a fun onscreen personality that makes it generally enjoyable to just hang and watch you no matter what the topic is, even if it's just rambling vids like this one. Glad you're still here uploading and talking to us 🙂
Sorry if I am overstepping a line with this comments but you completely writing off the concept of marriage because you got fucked over so much is actually extremely sad to me. It just looks to me like the product of years of disappointment and frustration and less like an epiphany (not to step on your toes, just my personal impression). Your talk about marriage holding yourself back shows how little you have actually experienced being loved truly and not just being taken advantage of. A good partnership and partner will open up possibilities for you not the other way around! Alone thinking that marriage will keep you from traveling is crazy to me, I don't even understand your reasoning.
However, I think focusing on you and what makes you happy and doing those things is probably exactly the right thing. Being too focused on the concept of marriage often leads people into the arms of the wrong people. And also gaining some healthy self confidence might keep you from choosing the wrong people. The strongest couples I know found each other where they weren't looking and I think marriage in this culture may seem less popular through the media lense than it actually is. Maybe not close that chapter off completely, I'm sure you'll find someone who actually loves you and has your best intentions in mind and maybe then you can reevaluate.
I almost never comment on youtube videos, but I wanted to drop in and just say that you being so open and vulnerable is such a breath of fresh air. Protect your heart. You're one of the good ones. 2025 IS going to be your year.
I'm so proud of you! I've been watching for a few years and I'm glad that you allowed yourself to have this mental freedom
Wow. I really like how REAL this was. I really appreciate the authenticity of this podcaster.
I think it's healthy to realise you might be looking for marriage for the wrong reasons. Lots of young divorces seem to be mismatch of expectations, which could have been addressed if people spoke about things openly, but its kinda tabboo to do so because your "soul mate" should "just know" which is nuts, it's forcing someone to be a mind reader. Totally unfair to both parties.
Seeing my dad go through two divorces and get married 3 times and all the hard shit it brought upon me and my siblings and himself, really ruined my view of marriage. It’s all just socially constructed bullshit imo. I was with my ex for 8 years and we talked about getting married but neither of us believed in it. So we just celebrated our relationship and love for each other. Never needed to be on paper and that’s ok. If people really want to get married great. My siblings are all married with kids. But no one should feel like they have to.
Probably gonna parrot people here who have infinitely more age and experience on me so don’t mind me, never married, younger than most here. But my man, you’re one of the most upfront individuals around. You admit straight up to your human flaws, and you try your best to improve. You do it even when it can be difficult, but as you know, not everyone would bother to do the same. I’m glad to hear your revelation, glad to hear you’re doing well despite everything that’s happened. I more than respect and personally agree with your sentiments on marriage, but as someone who deep down desires that kind of companionship, I do hope you keep it in mind and don’t feel patronized at all when people say that, hey! Never say never! Focusing on yourself seems to be exactly what you need, get some personal fulfillment, create new memories and associations all your own, free from everything else. That’s the way, but I hope somewhere down the line in this life that things fall into place for you and you can find that companionship in someone who’s willing to meet you halfway or more. It can be exasperating to hear I know and I surely have no place here compared to others, but if marriage is something you seek, you have so much time my man. You’re never too old for many things, marriage included. I hope that it’s in the cards for you, and one day you have that moment where you really meet the one. As for now? I hope your year starts and remains strong, and you get to do a shit ton of cool new stuff. Take your time, because I promise you have plenty. Stay safe man, I hope that you don’t feel like you’re to blame for your circumstances the last few years, and I hope that none of these things ever make you lose your compassion or that ability to see the best in people, even if a lot of people were undeserving of that kindness.
I'm sorry to hear the experiences you have had. Please do not let that dishearten you from what you are looking for. As someone in a similar boat I can relate completely to your situation and find as a "good person" you try to see the best in others which means trust is given to the incorrect people. I hope that you find and build strong connections with worthy people - just know that you are not alone in this.
am i the only weirdo who is incredibly invested in his updates. my fav vids by far, what I care about for some reason is his personal life. I'm rooting for him. i remember his update about his ex, and things like that. hope he can travel this year and we get an update soon
I’ve been watching you for years and years and I have to say…watching this video actually made my chest hurt. Breaks my heart. I am very sorry you’ve gone through this. Many of us have too. Hurts bad. I’ve watched your last couple relationships come and go and I’ve seen the pain you’re going through and I know it doesn’t mean much but just know there are people like me and MANY others out here who have love and care for you from afar and you mean a lot to us and seeing you in pain hurts us just as badly. You have fun traveling the world you truly deserve it. Thank you for still putting out content even though it’s just for fun. Some of us still really look forward to your videos! Cheers to 2025 ❤
Love your content, stay strong ❤
Being single for a while helped me clarify what I wanted for my life, which was beneficial when I did meet 'the one' so to speak. Those were a good few years, but I am happy with what I have now.
Sending you so much love and strength dude. I’ve been watching you on and off for about 7 years now and even though I don’t agree with you politically, personally I agree with almost everything you say and even if I don’t I can understand where you’re coming from and recognize that you’re a good guy worthy of good things in life. Your special person will come along at the right time. You never want to force anything but finding a partner where you both truly support and value each other in your hard times and your wins is something everyone deserves. You’re a good guy and I definitely see this happening for you! Always a joy to see your positive growth continue over the years.
I’m so glad that you are taking your power back! You are a good guy, a great creator, and you deserve happiness D. Can’t wait to see those vlogs friend. ❤❤❤
very happy for you rep! been subscribed for god knows how long. seeing you commit to yourself and your happiness is very inspiring and im glad you have a yt channel where you can say this.
I thought marriage wasn't for me, but I met the one after several failed relationships. We lived together for 3 years and got married. I'm so happy I did. In the past I was a fixer, a people pleaser, and was constantly bending over backwards for these dudes just for them to discard me and or cheat on me. What I learned was I'm not responsible for anyone's happiness. These crappy relationships highlighted my self worth. I allowed so much abuse and crap from these guys I would never tolerate now. When I met my husband and started dating him, I was waiting for him to drop the act over time but he didn't need me to do to fix him or make him happy, it all came naturally.Things were more simple, peaceful, no crazy dramas. BTW being a little selfish isn't bad it will give you clarity on what you want to do, improve your well being, make you even more loving and generous, and value yourself more. This is what I learned thus far. Good luck on your travels.
This is where Repzion finds the love of his life in Australia and moves there 🤭
I do have a weakness for aussies accents hahaha
As someone who has been watching your videos for more years than I can count, watching you grow into the man you are now, I'm so proud of you!
Never enter marriage without a prenup. If anyone has an issue with that, byeee.
Repsion, you cheeky bastard.
Use the bed next time and spare the couch ;)
Also, couch breaking down, is a good icebreaker when you meet people.
Phew, I'm just glad you're not with... *that* person anymore. I think its good for you to focus on yourself for now. Stopping to actively look for love seems to be the key to success, at least with the people I know. Good luck to you, always. 🍀
So happy to hear this all from you. I get the feeling that you are going to find what you have been looking for once YOU find how to make you happy. Have a blast, be safe, cuz your smart, never sell yourself short.
I’m so proud of you!
1. Dude, I am SO excited for your travel vlogs
2. I believe everyone should have a prenup that works for their relationship, 1000%
Get married just not legally. You're going to find the one right when you stop looking, watch
i love seeing you like this ❤ i look forward to seeing you grow!
“I’m not expecting to grow flowers in the desert, but I can live and breathe and see the sun in wintertime” - Big Country ❤
ive been subscribed to you for years but this is the first time ive seen one of your videos on homepage in a long time, i didnt know you even still made videos. damn algorithm
Happy to hear you sounding positive hope its a good year!
There is this concept in human psychology called backward law which basically means that the moment you stop looking for something, wanting something, being desperate for something, etc... it's more likely to happen. I guess it mostly comes back to acceptance of the current situation. Appreciating what you have but also looking at all the cards that life has given you and figure out where you can realistically go from the point you are at. And you are always able to go somewhere.
P.S. I'm an AuDHDer as well and the numbers of times I've wondered if I am a narcissist... Eventually when I was getting my autism evaluation, I had this huge personality test and I know I have no personalisty disorders appart from being high on anxiety scales. So at least I don't have to wonder anymore. But then again, given how neurodivergence is hereditary I start to wonder if my parents are narcissistic or just undiagnosed neuroatypical and that is why their marriage blew up and also why my childhood was so emotionally unstable.
I know someone just like that, sometimes they can seem insensitive but if you really know them you can tell they just care too much, you just have to wait till you meet the person that can actually see and understand that about you. Good luck on your endevours sir.
Buy furniture second hand. Saves so much money
PREACH! 28 and went through something that brought me to a similar mindset in 2024. Time to live for ourselves for a while.
Maybe there is no specific right person for anyone, because if you stop to really think about it, it could lead to two issues. One of them could be where that person could die before you might ever meet them or they might live in another country or state where you never meet them because you live too far away for them where the chances would be nearly impossible for such a meet up, and then you might have to wait until after you and them are both dead to meet up in some afterlife for such a meet up. The other issue could be where even if you meet with them, the implication is that it would take away your freedom for anything to work out well or desirable between you and anyone else other than that person.
So maybe instead of there being the so-called right person, maybe it's the right type of person, where out of 1,000 members of the opposite sex, around 8 or 9 of them would fit that mold, if that makes sense.
Very excited to see your new content and travellings! Enjoy life to the fullest for you, time to put yourself first 😊
Narcissists love to tell you you’re the narcissist. #PROJECTING #gaslighting Bless you, Daniel. So proud of your growth and new found perspectives and self love. 💜 get it all in 2025! It’s indeed the year. Much much love, friend. So excited for you.
When i got divorced I wrote off the concept of marriage cuz u was hurt and didn't want to get hurt again. But 5 years later I did find the right guy and we've been married over 5 years now and it was the best decision I ever made. But it also came at the time when it was meant to. So please don't strike off marriage 100% because maybe in the far future you find someone you want to be married to.
youll do great man, just remember; if your more concerned than the person it concerns, you shouldnt be.