Ernesto Sirolli: Want to help someone? Shut up and listen!

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  • When most well-intentioned aid workers hear of a problem they think they can fix, they go to work. This, Ernesto Sirolli suggests, is naïve. In this funny and impassioned talk, he proposes that the first step is to listen to the people you're trying to help, and tap into their own entrepreneurial spirit. His advice on what works will help any entrepreneur.
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  • @noahfuckyourface
    @noahfuckyourface 9 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Just gave this guy a ride to the airport in my Lyft. Total genius.

    • @christianrietz5323
      @christianrietz5323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is a family friend of mine. He is absolutely brilliant and has great insight into things like this. Just a very intelligent guy

    • @johnbrennick8738
      @johnbrennick8738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome you got to meet him!

  • @maximilianbatz2070
    @maximilianbatz2070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    "If people do not wish to be helped, leave them alone." SO TRUE!!

  • @amateurart234
    @amateurart234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The moment Africa is left alone it started blooming; "don't walk infront of me I may not follow, don't walk behind me I may not lead, just walk beside me and be my friend"

    • @kadycolins980
      @kadycolins980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this man

    • @laorientalm2554
      @laorientalm2554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup. Try telling that to Bill Gates...

    • @vdmur7952
      @vdmur7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ^^^

    • @alphabazz1
      @alphabazz1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laorientalm2554 haahahah You killed me with your comment

  • @YTGhostCensorshipCanSuckMe
    @YTGhostCensorshipCanSuckMe 11 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I will remember this presentation forever. If only there were more people like this in the world.

    • @PDeRop
      @PDeRop 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are many. That is how the world moves forward.

    • @AIgeneratedpolls
      @AIgeneratedpolls 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you still remember it?

    • @benoyunu
      @benoyunu 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have watched over and over. Inch by inch.

  • @TroysLittleWorld
    @TroysLittleWorld 9 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I met this man today and was fortunate enough to spend half an hour talking with him and I must say he was an inspiration.

  • @TheDoubleBee
    @TheDoubleBee 11 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The passion with which this man is talking takes his already amazing point to an absolutely brilliant one.

  • @RobSpartanR16
    @RobSpartanR16 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    brilliant hes so right when i was volunteering in Africa i saw this phantomon also. I stepped out of the service of my project and started my own (I saw the projects which they were doing didnt help). I talked to people and asked them what was wrong in their lives and what would help to make it better. I helped a few people straight away after a month I had at least 20 people wanting my help. And I helped 6 people with their lives (business and personal). He's so right in this.

  • @6freddyb
    @6freddyb 11 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    He's striking at the core, see what the people want, not what we may think they need. Let them naturally arrive to a better way of life, arrive to answer on their own. I teach high school algebra, the greatest way for a person to learn is to allow them to find and provide just enough resources so the answer can be found without giving it up. Another one of the greatest ways to reach kids is hear what they want to do and help them achieve it, even if it has nothing to do the math.

  • @RiniHaerinnisya
    @RiniHaerinnisya 11 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This guy is brilliant, his humor has nailed the truth to my thoughts on what entrepreneur should be, how we can help people best, and the important of 'we' . I love this talks so much!!!!

  • @ubbewithabfc
    @ubbewithabfc 11 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Simply THE best TED Talk I've listened to yet.

  • @gladysceciliagordillo4339
    @gladysceciliagordillo4339 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow. Me impresiona sr. Sirolli. Como pone en perspectiva un realidad. La importancia de nosotros. Solos no llegamos lejos.

  • @raofthesun7558
    @raofthesun7558 8 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Just repaired his garage here in Cali, he is such an interesting man, told me to search him up on Ted talks and what do you know. He had Built an old English car from parts also, pretty cool.

  • @77777aol
    @77777aol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'Two ears, one mouth'. Listen twice as much as you talk. The essence of democracy is active listening; it is also an act of fundamental respect. If we talk first, with some agenda, our message is unlikely to hit home or get through. It is as if their cup is full and they will therefor hear nothing. If we listen first, with great intent, it is as if they are pouring out what is relevant to their needs, or troubles and so on and only then can we truly formulate a relevant response that can begin to be taken on board. The ideal is a symbiotic relationship. And when we talk, may it be from the heart. This is the essence of culture and soft power. Grazie Senior Ernesto - wonderful !

    • @77777aol
      @77777aol 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There is not only a Western view of the world. There is a Latin American view of the world; an Asian view of the world; an Arab view of the world and an AFRICAN view of the world . . . and so on.

  • @pagusmusic6254
    @pagusmusic6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He’s so insightful, his delivery is so passionate, I want to have a beer with him!

  • @thuanhoang9381
    @thuanhoang9381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There has never been any other TED talks that make me come back every now and then willingly like this one. It is really good.

  • @marygracemdg
    @marygracemdg 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    one of my favorite TED talks so far :)

  • @Bort17
    @Bort17 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this man oozes passion!! great presentation!!

  • @uncle_martin1131
    @uncle_martin1131 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful speech. Loved the gestures, loved the way he spoke. Love the whole talk.

  • @shawnabgoode
    @shawnabgoode 11 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love it when live and learn turns into live, learn and teach. Reminds me, in a small way, of when I visited Jamaica and I was offered watermelon. My friend said, "We call it WATA MELON." Had no idea we have them in Canada too. We don't often clue in on the best ways to teach each other easily. The first step of teaching IS learning. This presentation illustrates that beautifully.

  • @DanielRamBeats
    @DanielRamBeats 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow, I'd really like more talks or even a MOOC from this Ernesto.. amazing!

  • @lumirsarman6772
    @lumirsarman6772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolutely brilliant destilation of wisdom about helping

  • @michellecandela-jordan8256
    @michellecandela-jordan8256 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can listen to and watch this again and again - this man’s passion is catchy!!

  • @abdulkhadermujeeb5710
    @abdulkhadermujeeb5710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Speech given by this man is full of passion & I feel delightful to hear ernesto's experiences in Africa

  • @MARIAisdreaming
    @MARIAisdreaming 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Without a doubt, the best Ted Talk ever (y) Thank you Ernesto! I am listening way better now x

  • @vickyf12
    @vickyf12 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Excellent and absolutely enlightening!

  • @RowenaJane85
    @RowenaJane85 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Ernesto Sirolli. Incredible, beautiful.

  • @kaiqiyeo
    @kaiqiyeo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    So true. This guy speaks the truth. Such good advice!

  • @LeifurEir
    @LeifurEir 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel your pain. You are not alone. I know sometimes it's like you just need to lash out at anything just to get some kind of response but that's ok. You don't have to keep going like this. People respond to love as well, and they do so with love.
    I wish you all the best.

  • @a62243
    @a62243 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waw! A lot of passion. Thank you.

  • @RajamohanKG
    @RajamohanKG 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ernesto Sirolli ! Thanks you could reflect my mind in your dialogue....hats off !

  • @ZetLoewe
    @ZetLoewe 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mind blown!!! This is huge idea that most people don't seem to understand. Listening is key!

  • @ladyc6927
    @ladyc6927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so THANKFUL I got to see this! I assumed it would be boring and hard to follow, BUT he made it so FUN and ENJOYABLE! I laughed way too much and heard a great story, while "learning". THANK YOU!

  • @jerrylittlemars
    @jerrylittlemars 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    07:24 As an entrepreneur, I must say AMEN!

  • @buakawfan
    @buakawfan 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing insight... One of the best talks ever

  • @nitiecandy
    @nitiecandy 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, such an impassioned ,intelligent, articulate, and caring individual. I think I'm in love!

  • @ratholin
    @ratholin 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great lecture. This is the sort of thing that keeps me coming back to TED.

  • @dannytube8867
    @dannytube8867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This Speech is given by this man is full of truth wisdom passion & I feel delightful to hear ernesto's experiences in Africa.

  • @JOHNINCOLUMBUS
    @JOHNINCOLUMBUS 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learn to listen, and listen to learn....a lesson I learned a long time ago...very good TALK Mr. Sirolli. Thanks for sharing.

  • @KarmaKutie1
    @KarmaKutie1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Ernesto: Many thanks for sharing your passionate wisdom!
    As an Anthropologist...I could not have stated it better. Yes:Sir -
    Sign me up please, my vision is yours! I know in my heart, mind, and Soul that ~ "LISTENING IS AN ACTIVE VERB" ~ We can do it!

  • @naomiprins5199
    @naomiprins5199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's good advice: To listen first and to respond to those who want help, not those who didn't ask for it. Thanks for a great talk!

  • @renaldoschutte8065
    @renaldoschutte8065 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have told the hippo story to so many people in the last couple of years, eye-opening in how much we can learn if we can listen. Awesome presentation.

  • @afsarrahaman
    @afsarrahaman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiration,Beautiful speech

  • @maddalenaloggia1605
    @maddalenaloggia1605 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant !!! What an inspiration ! The BEST TED TALK I have listened to yet. Grazie Ernesto.

  • @surajdhakal6454
    @surajdhakal6454 9 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Inspiration overflowing ! Simply Awesome !!!!!!

  • @DavidAkinin1
    @DavidAkinin1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    8 years working in africa for me. And this is still one of the most enjoyable speeches I have heard

  • @SillyMonkeyMan08
    @SillyMonkeyMan08 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome, gotta watch this. Just listen. Best advice ever.

  • @tamalweathers1014
    @tamalweathers1014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could have meet him myself everything he say is so true if people don't help leave them alone .

  • @dezidee89
    @dezidee89 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    loved it. he seems like a great man and very broad-minded! loved the new york story!

  • @mayaayam9361
    @mayaayam9361 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His talk was great and interesing, I didn't want him to stop!

  • @akdo89
    @akdo89 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY! HE IS so omg.. This is Amazing. makes me even want to learn Italian!

  • @hasnaingillani2587
    @hasnaingillani2587 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why don't we have more people like him?!

  • @elzanewillemse238
    @elzanewillemse238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inspirational presentation most valuable lesson learned shut up and listen entrepreneurship learned at its best capturing the passion the energy and imagination of your own people this video has so much inspiration most of us needs.

  • @vertigohashem
    @vertigohashem 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful, educative and passionate.
    Thx Sirolli

  • @SydneyCarton88
    @SydneyCarton88 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    10:30 - 10:45 music to my ears

  • @PedanticNo1
    @PedanticNo1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "My god, the hippos . . .!!!"
    lol.

  • @carmenperezfernandez1141
    @carmenperezfernandez1141 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maravilloso. Hacen falta actitudes maduras y humildes com esta. Que cunda y se difunda.

  • @blueyoshiblue
    @blueyoshiblue 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Doing a masters thesis that involves NGOs heavily. While this talk is not 100% on topic for my research, i found several ideas that are congruent with what i have already researched, and a few new ideas that open up additional questions for me to look at. I thoroughly enjoyed this talk, and am very thankful for Dr. Sirolli and TED talks for presenting this material.

  • @sheilaculhanebrower6959
    @sheilaculhanebrower6959 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just listen to this guy in my college class!

  • @phuongtranlan9945
    @phuongtranlan9945 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am a freshman in an university of Viet Nam. I have learned digital thinking and I knows the important of empathy someone and the presentation have me so much. Thanks TED and gestures

  • @gab2012able
    @gab2012able 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good point, for who has an equanimous mind and experience, not only knowledge, to comprehend what this excellent speaker is saying.

  • @peggysullivan4504
    @peggysullivan4504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely loved this Talk

  • @silviojacovelli663
    @silviojacovelli663 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Conferenza fantastica, saper ascoltare il tuo cliente, sembra che non impariamo mai. 👏👏👏

  • @nemzeh
    @nemzeh 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This talk is bloody brilliant.

  • @Mya_water
    @Mya_water 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent talk and excellent delivery

  • @WildCoastHorseTrails
    @WildCoastHorseTrails 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant - thank you

  • @Ray-fp3op
    @Ray-fp3op 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Speech is amazing!

  • @sstr90
    @sstr90 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice point... agreed totaly.

  • @FlashBang91
    @FlashBang91 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    amazing ted talk, loved it

  • @carolkossy2013
    @carolkossy2013 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a talk, this guy wow wow!

  • @UlisesSirit
    @UlisesSirit 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very inspiring and motivational speech...

  • @vallibrig
    @vallibrig 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing.

  • @EmanP223
    @EmanP223 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best thing I've heard in a very long time.

  • @pierre1050
    @pierre1050 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Ernesto Sirolli.

  • @Rebelliate
    @Rebelliate 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Easily one of the most effective and realistic TED speeches I have ever listened.

  • @asrod
    @asrod 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! I'm blown away

  • @tix333
    @tix333 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr Ernesto Sirolli Thank you for this talk. And TED .... well, you know you're awsome

  • @Dano-Tube
    @Dano-Tube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a speech! Ernesto Sirolli "Ripples from the Zambezi"

  • @DinaAhmed
    @DinaAhmed 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    amazing talk from an amazing man !

  • @VPivonka
    @VPivonka 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! I mean - this is so great speech! Thank You!

  • @vdmur7952
    @vdmur7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great man!

  • @InterfaithSharing
    @InterfaithSharing 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very important video for all those working with other cultures.

  • @sudeepvd
    @sudeepvd 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    good observation..

  • @JOHNNYLAW514
    @JOHNNYLAW514 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really liked this guy.

  • @tdredz2
    @tdredz2 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great talk no kidding.

  • @windokeluanda
    @windokeluanda 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great talk! Another one! ☺

  • @BigTough
    @BigTough 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think the point is that highly educated people go into these communities presuming to know exactly what the problem is and how to fix it, thus the speech on how to put aside those presumptions and listen first, then act, not to act and then listen later. But also to listen to those who are willing to make a lasting change, like an entrepreneur. Ernesto isn't saying that everyone already doesn't know this, he's highlighting that it's obvious some people do not.

  • @AnuragJain99
    @AnuragJain99 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really Awesome......!!!

  • @idils9838
    @idils9838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the best thing I've heard

  • @KarmaWatersSailing
    @KarmaWatersSailing ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ernesto I started 3 business in Africa (I am African) buying the failed NGOs equipment that the locals sold me when the NGOs left. Made an absolute killing. You are so right when you say no one listens. We just watched and waited then went in and purchased all the first world donated goods.

  • @Dudemar0
    @Dudemar0 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a great public speaker

  • @coecovideo
    @coecovideo 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, great man, great speech!

  • @mudmodular
    @mudmodular 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful. Truthful. Honest. Loved every minute. Thank U Ernesto Sirolli for your insight and wisdom. #ShutUpandListen

  • @HigherPlanes
    @HigherPlanes 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Right on!

  • @greenaben4719
    @greenaben4719 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this presentation, and I like your sens of humour, thanks to share this experience, we need to hear from you what experience you had in other coutries you mentionned.

  • @barbaracavalcante6774
    @barbaracavalcante6774 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing!!

  • @moey1181
    @moey1181 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspirational easy to relate

  • @SachinTube_
    @SachinTube_ 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant!!

  • @nguyentuandangkhoi
    @nguyentuandangkhoi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good talk!

  • @addisualamirewbiadgie1016
    @addisualamirewbiadgie1016 9 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It is really amazing to listen your inspiring message! As you said we need to listen the local people ; insiders perspective should be given weight to make development work sustainable. But this does not mean that modern knowledge is unnecessary. We need to make a balance in between.

  • @entertain_myself
    @entertain_myself ปีที่แล้ว

    The passion that the man has for his own personal growth is the most important thing. And we help them find the knowledge cuz nobody can succeed alone. #9 TED