It’s nice to see someone who found their purpose in life. When that purpose involves helping people it makes it extra special. Susan, thank you for following your heart and using these rare skills in such a helpful way. Having this video library is a treasure for years to come.
LANCE!! Thank you for this beautiful comment. Huge appreciation. And you must know how much it means to me coming from a fine gentleman, such as yourself. And...Please give a big hug to your honey.!!
The thing that really bothers me when I'm rejected is not the rejection itself, per se, but the fact that they will eventually accept someone else for reasons that will seem completely arbitrary to me. I have a deep seated need for fairness so it just really eats at me.
Yes Susan. I dated a man I knew a few years and we started dating for a few months. Future faking, love bombing then, back peddled and ghosted. 👻. I was devastated! A 65 year old man, no less. ❤. Thanks for this video. Much love and appreciation. ❤
@lucyloo, yeah, age makes no difference for attachment styles when people haven't recognized and healed their core wounds. A hardcore DA remains a DA if they haven't worked on themselves.
Yep, been there. Very annoyed with these "Blue Pill F Boys" as I call them. Men in their mid 50s and soon to be 60 still faking wanting a relationship to play the field. Sir you're dying soon. Rethink the plan!
Wow, Lucy, that's astounding. 65 years old and he does not know how to participate in a relationship or even the ending of that relationship. Though I don't know the story, I have a feeling that your skill set scared him. That your ability to be in partnership, to be self-aware, to be able to have true communication blew his fuses. This is where I explained that somebody's capacity is so great that it's like putting the electrical outlet of a washing machine into the little outlet for an electric razor.
@@lucyloo7457 I knew it. I hadn't even read this comment, but I already sent that you were able to speak to him honestly. Do you realize how that freaks somebody out when they do not have the capacity to be real?
Should I leave my gf? Because she once told me she dreamed and missed her ex for few times who she broke up in 2009, people under your videos missing their exes indicate they still crave their exes, this is horrible
this doesn't fit me. I met men who liked my personality but they were not physically attracted to me and they valued beauty more than personality. i feel rejected. i know if i were beautiful they would have picked me
All right, let’s say that’s the reason. Do you really want a superficial man who can’t see your value and only wants a shell to play with? Do you think even the gorgeous person that they choose is going to get a high-quality partner? What if that person loses their looks, if they age which is going to happen… so the question is about conditional love. If you want unconditional love and somebody who loves you for yourself, I’d look at it differently. The people who rejected you should be rejected by you.
Let them be like that ... This condition is so me . But finally I found my person who loves me for me.. And at the end that is important . Wish you the best❤
It’s nice to see someone who found their purpose in life. When that purpose involves helping people it makes it extra special. Susan, thank you for following your heart and using these rare skills in such a helpful way. Having this video library is a treasure for years to come.
LANCE!! Thank you for this beautiful comment. Huge appreciation. And you must know how much it means to me coming from a fine gentleman, such as yourself. And...Please give a big hug to your honey.!!
The thing that really bothers me when I'm rejected is not the rejection itself, per se, but the fact that they will eventually accept someone else for reasons that will seem completely arbitrary to me. I have a deep seated need for fairness so it just really eats at me.
I've been rejected by people for the exact same reasons others appreciated me. It's about personal preference, not inherent value.
It's fantastic that you can see it for what it is. Many people cannot. And I congratulate you on this insight. Thank you for your commentary.
@@SusanWinter Thank you for your great content!
Yes Susan. I dated a man I knew a few years and we started dating for a few months. Future faking, love bombing then, back peddled and ghosted. 👻. I was devastated! A 65 year old man, no less. ❤. Thanks for this video. Much love and appreciation. ❤
@lucyloo, yeah, age makes no difference for attachment styles when people haven't recognized and healed their core wounds. A hardcore DA remains a DA if they haven't worked on themselves.
Yep, been there. Very annoyed with these "Blue Pill F Boys" as I call them. Men in their mid 50s and soon to be 60 still faking wanting a relationship to play the field. Sir you're dying soon. Rethink the plan!
Sick...
Sounds like an avoidant attachment style, it’s their pattern of strategy. Age has nothing to do with it unfortunately 🙏🏼🌺 It’s not you 🫶🏼
Wow, Lucy, that's astounding. 65 years old and he does not know how to participate in a relationship or even the ending of that relationship. Though I don't know the story, I have a feeling that your skill set scared him. That your ability to be in partnership, to be self-aware, to be able to have true communication blew his fuses. This is where I explained that somebody's capacity is so great that it's like putting the electrical outlet of a washing machine into the little outlet for an electric razor.
Breakups happens, just be kind
@@stacybrown7014 Agree. 👍🏻. I gave him an opportunity for an adult conversation, he was too cowardly to give me. Lesson learned.
Agreed
@@lucyloo7457 I knew it. I hadn't even read this comment, but I already sent that you were able to speak to him honestly. Do you realize how that freaks somebody out when they do not have the capacity to be real?
Fantastic advice. 😊
Thank you, Candice
I just reject the rejector
Aw it feels soo good 😊
Excellent Gregory!!
.... I should learn this video by heart.
Thank you Susan, for keep on saving my life.
Thank you Susan😊
Beach girl, great to see you here. And thanks for joining in the conversation.
Should I leave my gf? Because she once told me she dreamed and missed her ex for few times who she broke up in 2009, people under your videos missing their exes indicate they still crave their exes, this is horrible
I have been rejected for 35 years. It was me.
this doesn't fit me. I met men who liked my personality but they were not physically attracted to me and they valued beauty more than personality. i feel rejected. i know if i were beautiful they would have picked me
All right, let’s say that’s the reason. Do you really want a superficial man who can’t see your value and only wants a shell to play with? Do you think even the gorgeous person that they choose is going to get a high-quality partner? What if that person loses their looks, if they age which is going to happen… so the question is about conditional love. If you want unconditional love and somebody who loves you for yourself, I’d look at it differently. The people who rejected you should be rejected by you.
Let them be like that ...
This condition is so me .
But finally I found my person who loves me for me..
And at the end that is important .
Wish you the best❤
You’re not alone, I feel and thought about myself that way too.
Now I’m learning to be kinder to myself.
Hey Susan, make a video on the 4B movement
Thank you Susan❤
Hello Catherine. Thank you for the heart and I'm sending one right back to you.♥