Oh they care alright, they go through their own personal hell because they not only struggle to detach from you, they struggle to appease the very people they were talking to (family, friends) behind your back whilst still in the relationship. That comes from an ex who reached out again.
To be fair that's great feedback from them. Its very rarely a snap decision, which is why they tend to come across like they no longer care, almost overnight. That's just not the case most of the time., They do have to heal as well, they just started it earlier.
@@insafStar-fb3lq Fantastic. You feeling you deserve better means your self worth is increasing, so the meditation and affirmations are working. Make them lifetime habits and they will help your whole life improve 😊
She choose someone over you. The most personal crushing experience anyone can live through. Your ego and heart gets obliterated. You simply lose yourself and your soul leaves you because the pain is too much. I loved her completely.
@@blastprosful think you have summed up perfectly how it can feel mate. But, it doesnt mean you cant get over it. You can, and you will. Take it day by day and keep your head up pal 👍
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
@@ethandouro4334 i hope you do my friend, but might be healthier to not think that way, and focus on moving on from them. If it then happens, great, but if it doesnt then at least you're not still stuck 👍
Took me quite awhile to understand. Bi polar and narcissism. She had 1 daughter and we had 2 more girls over 6.5 years. Its been 15 years and recently i came to the conclusion I was lonely.
@@Carlosnl16 nothing is ever impossible, two people can still find their way back together. But its important for your own recovery that you accept its over and move forward on that basis
As comforting as some of these videos may be, please remember: These content creators are usually not doctors. They are not professionally trained in any way. Which means they are just relaying their opinions. So please don’t think their opinions are necessarily valuable. It’s no different from asking a friend or neighbor for medical advice when that person is an accountant. She isn’t qualified to give advice, only to share personal anecdotes.
@@AnnaLeeStubblefield im a professionally trained Life Coach, fully qualified and fully insured, never said im a doctor. In fact, ive refered many clients to professionally trained therapists if thats whats needed as i exercise clear boundaries within my work. Im a life coach with an online business, not a 'content creator', theres a difference. But appreciate your feedback 👍
Not exactly right, they do exit the relationship before coming forward and say it. But they are with you for this exntire period. So it is not the same journey of leaving, because the one left nehind have to go thru the same path WITHOUT the other person being available. It is a huge difference that every one ignores when explaining this.
@@corneliordache1037 its a very good point, but the premise of the video still stands. Clients often ask me why their ex seemed to move on so quickly, in most cases its because they started to come to terms with the breakup before it ended. Its not about comparing journey's, but just offering an explanation as to why they 'seem' to move on quicker.
@@andyoneill_lifecoach The video is very good, well explaining what is going on. My remark was only about one key difference in how this process of detaching works for both parties.
@@corneliordache1037 thanks appreciate it. And yes you are 100% right in that they have you available during their recovery, and you dont. Its a great point actually and you're right, its not spoken about enough. I may make a future video on that actually because its a really interesting point. Thanks for the input 😊
Oh they care alright, they go through their own personal hell because they not only struggle to detach from you, they struggle to appease the very people they were talking to (family, friends) behind your back whilst still in the relationship. That comes from an ex who reached out again.
To be fair that's great feedback from them. Its very rarely a snap decision, which is why they tend to come across like they no longer care, almost overnight. That's just not the case most of the time., They do have to heal as well, they just started it earlier.
Thank you sir. Still healing after 1year plus but your advice is bang on
@@Lorenzo23able thank you mate. Keep your head up and keep going pal 👍
Since I broke up I do meditation and positive affirmations everyday and strengthen me I feel I deserve better
@@insafStar-fb3lq Fantastic. You feeling you deserve better means your self worth is increasing, so the meditation and affirmations are working. Make them lifetime habits and they will help your whole life improve 😊
She choose someone over you.
The most personal crushing experience anyone can live through.
Your ego and heart gets obliterated. You simply lose yourself and your soul leaves you because the pain is too much. I loved her completely.
@@blastprosful think you have summed up perfectly how it can feel mate. But, it doesnt mean you cant get over it. You can, and you will. Take it day by day and keep your head up pal 👍
Move on and meet people quick
@arianamontenegro5528
Doesn't work that way.
Unfortunately
@@blastprosful why?
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
She moved on, but i want her back, we've been so much good, but broke up because of ONE single issue... I know we will come back ❤
@@ethandouro4334 i hope you do my friend, but might be healthier to not think that way, and focus on moving on from them. If it then happens, great, but if it doesnt then at least you're not still stuck 👍
Don’t 😊
I think you're right.
@@lokmanmerican6889 thanks mate 👍
Took me quite awhile to understand. Bi polar and narcissism. She had 1 daughter and we had 2 more girls over 6.5 years. Its been 15 years and recently i came to the conclusion I was lonely.
@@chevelle1967 its good to start getting those realisations. I hope you're doing ok now 👍
@@andyoneill_lifecoach doing better thanks, its been a long road
So if that happens, it's almost impossible that she comes back?
@@Carlosnl16 nothing is ever impossible, two people can still find their way back together. But its important for your own recovery that you accept its over and move forward on that basis
As comforting as some of these videos may be, please remember: These content creators are usually not doctors. They are not professionally trained in any way. Which means they are just relaying their opinions. So please don’t think their opinions are necessarily valuable. It’s no different from asking a friend or neighbor for medical advice when that person is an accountant. She isn’t qualified to give advice, only to share personal anecdotes.
@@AnnaLeeStubblefield im a professionally trained Life Coach, fully qualified and fully insured, never said im a doctor. In fact, ive refered many clients to professionally trained therapists if thats whats needed as i exercise clear boundaries within my work. Im a life coach with an online business, not a 'content creator', theres a difference. But appreciate your feedback 👍
Not exactly right, they do exit the relationship before coming forward and say it. But they are with you for this exntire period. So it is not the same journey of leaving, because the one left nehind have to go thru the same path WITHOUT the other person being available. It is a huge difference that every one ignores when explaining this.
@@corneliordache1037 its a very good point, but the premise of the video still stands. Clients often ask me why their ex seemed to move on so quickly, in most cases its because they started to come to terms with the breakup before it ended. Its not about comparing journey's, but just offering an explanation as to why they 'seem' to move on quicker.
@@andyoneill_lifecoach The video is very good, well explaining what is going on. My remark was only about one key difference in how this process of detaching works for both parties.
@@corneliordache1037 thanks appreciate it. And yes you are 100% right in that they have you available during their recovery, and you dont. Its a great point actually and you're right, its not spoken about enough. I may make a future video on that actually because its a really interesting point. Thanks for the input 😊