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Make Your Cheating Spouse Jealous (This NEVER FAILS)
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I agreed with this video until the end asking my spouse what do you see in an affair partner that you don’t see in me I want to save my family but I have enough self respect to not allow myself to degrade my value to that level
100% spot on. Her cheating is a symptom of, not the cause. The cause is the failure to provide the 5 pillars, thus causing her to seek emotional and physical fulfillment elsewhere.
My wife just got out of her rebound relationship and it crashed. I took the right steps without intervening and continued the process of growth. She is slowly showing attraction towards me because I have been maintaining the house, and spending my energy on our daughters. I do not know which avenue to approach. I made peace with the breakup/divorce, but I do picture a stronger relationship in the long term.
So you are keeping the door open right? I'm trying to do the same but my separation is still fresh
@@stevelamhang9547that’s the only option unfortunately. Once you find happiness with yourself, your life, friend and family, then she’ll realize that you don’t need her for your happiness. That positivity will radiate in due time.
Don't do it brother stay strong remember the hurt and imagine how bad it would be to happen twice
Never take her back
Ultimate betrayal, do not lower your standard. You are a man.
Dude while I agree with a lot of this material. I can’t see how supporting a partner through an affair is beneficial. Her subconscious is gonna say oh I did this thing and he took me back.. what stops her from doing it again.
We can sit here and say it’s our fault as we have ownership in our being words and actions that influenced her to pull away. Yet, there is still a difference between feeling this wanting this and doing this.
This is a value and morality problem.
If I a 36yr old man can be separated 18 months trying to work on myself and haven’t slept with a single person.. there’s no good reason for accepting someone doing this to me. It’s a lack of higher principals honor etc
This video started it all for me!! Now it's only up from here! Best coach ever❤
P.S. Im actually going through something similar but a friend asked how my relationship was going and after saying the facts (not great) I realized what I'd been doing outside of that situation. Graduated from med school, passed my boards in one try (EZCLAP), now I'm a licensed RN getting my first 6-figure job, I bought a Lexus RX 2 months ago, I have no financial obligations (kids, baby mama drama) or diseases (stds, nothing terminal), and I don't have stress. Like BRO WTF I'm totally winning. I don't know if she cheated during her distancing and lack of interest, but at this point, I don't even care anymore. Literally jumping in my car and driving is so fun now and I think about what anime I'm going to watch as opposed to what I used to do before (checking my phone and seeing no messages, replying right away, getting accusative..).
Now she's asking me questions: "Why are you up at this time?" "How come you didn't message me in the day?" 😂 I literally used to ask HER those questions! I'll leave it at that. Great video man.
I'm not in this situation but it sounds like in this circumstance ignoring them is the perfeft solution, because it sounds like they were the problem.
So in a nutshell, focus on filling in the imperfections that caused the partner to stray. IF they are willing to answer directly AT ALL what exactly were the traits that led them astray, you can use these to make yourself a better version of what they initially saw in you. "Not plagiarism, but rather stealing their powers and making it your own."
This new version of yourself is what takes so much focus and attention on YOU, that you have no time to wallow in despair, anger, or indifference. Naturally you become "anti-fragile" and thrive amongst the crap before you. Obviously, the partner will come crawling back or at least turn into a purple giraffe from jealousy/regret at this point because they fucked up.
Makes sense to me. Lemme know if my tl;dr missed anything! 😅
You got the general big picture WHAT TO DO right - now of course, the next step is the HOW TO DO IT (e.g. How to actually become anti-fragile, etc...).
@@GeoffreySetiawan But that's in another video! 😉
thank you as always for your insights Geoff, they are always so applicable to my own situation. These videos are always a great addition to the course.
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Hope your hand is okay, looks like a nasty bruise and scabbing.
Hand is all good. Got into MMA fighting recently. So much fun!
thanks geoff for your vids,ive been watching your videos lately..great content anyways..your vids makes me feel better and wanting to change myself for the better..keep up the great content geoff
Keep going my man. What specific layer or process are you focused on building now?
Excellent video!!!
asking what does this man have that I don’t is paradoxical itself. You may be coming from a place of wanting access and knowledge to apply and become more.
But as the receiver of this question it comes across as demonstration of low value and lack of confidence. “Tell me how to change so you like me” this will not work with most women.
So what everytime your partner starts to change her preferences or what she likes each decade you should change how you look talk and make love? This says way more about her than us. That’s a woman that will always be looking somewhere else and has an integrity issue.
Hey Geoffrey, I see a bunch of your videos and I can really relate to the topics and actually believe in your logic with the five pillars. Can I ask a questions? In various videos I see you workin on psychological and emotional safety, even goals alingment, but how about sexual passion. How can a man improve this pillar when the relationship starts to crumble? Long term relationships. Sorry if my english fail.
If you watch any fo my videos on the topic of intimacy & passion, what do I say?
Why do you think I say that this pillar should be thought about LAST?
Do you see how you need A TON of safety (of both forms)?
And if you do not, it would be impossible to communicate deeply about such a sensitive, vulnerable and potentially embarrassing topic like passion?
Do you see how safety is required for your partner to be able to feel safe enough to "fall" and "surrender" to the masculine (The key to attraction and passion)?
Do you see how it is crucial that you build admiration and goal alignment first?
Do you really think that you should be focusing on passion when you have a difficult time creating the lower (and relatively easier) pillars to build?
There's a reason why passion is addressed LAST.
@@GeoffreySetiawan yes, and I agree with you. It's not a question to skip to the last part, I honestly think you communicate and argue logically enough to admire the videos you make. Sorry to bother with the wrong question. Regards
I habe been wondering for a while. Does it matter how long your seperated before joining the program?
I dont want to get back with her... but I will learn all the lessons. Thank you Geoffrey! And congratulations, what a beautiful wedding!! ;D
Like I said, up to you how you want to use your growth. But make sure that your growth is real.
I’m commenting on this video since it’s your latest. Right now I’m really struggling to get back my girlfriend. We’ve been together for 2 years and 6 months. But then she broke up with me since she was fed up with me and everything to the point that just seeing me would make her face frown and she would get mad at my micro movements. She is 17 and 16 but we genuinely felt the true love there. Now she is very very interested in this guy who also seems to be very interested in him. It’s been 3 weeks since she broke up with me how can I fix everything? Because if I’d give her space she just gets closer with the guy and when I don’t give her space she just gets annoyed and repels even more from me. I am in a very hard time and am very desperate for your help. I hope that you’d see this comment and reply to it. Btw I’ve been watching your vids ever since we broke up and have seen quite some progress but yeah it seems certain that she’s gonna end up with the guy. What should I do?
Leave her and move on. You deserve a parnter who will love you. And she is deserving a partner which she love. She chose and did it sincerely. It happens, love can pass with time. So respect her decision, respect yourself and move on. Ofc it will not be easy and there will be months of thinking of her, trying to ressurect good old memories, but with time it'll be easier. Gym, hobbies, and dating can speed up your recovery.
Hi Goeffrey, i was wondering one thing. My wife and i are going thru a separation but we live in the same house. Im giving her space by doing smart contact only when absolutely needed and let her text me, but know sometimes she does not comes home for even days (which she never did) and while thats ok because we are separated and we are giving her each other space, my mind runs a 1k miles an hour, i really want to deal with this negative thoughts, as she never did anything for mw to think that she will cheat. Whats a good advice or what should i work on. Thanks so much
The same as always - Master the internal shifts (e.g. get rid of victim mindset, untether, build a thriving BPV, master antithetic thinking, identity shift, build your self-esteem)...
Master the frameworks...
Build the 5 pillars.
No shortcuts...No tactics...
Just become 10x irreplaceable, and you'll be fine.
Get distracted with all the useless tactics, you'll be wasting time and making your nightmare a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Thanks Geoffrey, I'll do my best and move forward, no shortcuts, do what's right and be hopeful on a hopeless situation. Thanks
But Jeff, the person she’s cheating with has definitely not given her 10x of the 5 pillars for her in the period she’s engaged in the cheating. Anyway there’s no logic to that behavior
So me and my gf is going through this stage of space we’re still in contact. But today i found out that she’s been staying all over town at different people houses including her ex when he’s not home. I’m not sure how to go about this. What should i do?
Leave.
I want to ask a ques Geoff, what if she sometimes replies my message but then ghosts me and doesn't want to talk about the deep things much with me . What am I missing , can u please tell .she told me one of two times from where she felt this way and after that she didnt talk with me much .
Did you even watch the video and learn anything from it? You're focused on the wrong things.
Like what Geoffrey said, you’re focusin with the wrong stuff. You’re still tethered to the outcome. What you need to do focus right now is to become better in the right ways, like what Geoffrey’s been saying all the time. And then when you gain that massive changes that matter, you could spot opportunity and create an opportunity to have that conversation with you.
@@vncntbrn are you going through the same situation as me , cuz I need someone to talk to about all this .
she is hot and cold or just one feet in and one feet out, she still in doubts. keeps becoming better for yourself
she dont want to talk deep things with you because of lacks of safety.
if i say is wrong, i'd appreciate if someone to correct me in advance
iam still long way to better but this i've learn so far.