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my bf asked me to be his girlfriend before we even became physically intimate.. that’s what i admired most abt him. he respected me and didn’t force the physical aspect of the relationship. that’s why i chose him.💙☺️
I have been guilty in the past of rushing the bf benefits way too soon... so thankful I found your channel... otherwise I would've been non the wiser for future relationships. Thanks again Mark! :)
My dad once told me to never wait around for guys, make them chase...but my response was "that's not who I am, not going to start playing games being someone I'm not". It was more about me feeling comfortable than feeling anxious about going into unknown territory. No trust in whatever that was going to do for me. Totally missed the point he was trying to make. Ready to hear and recieve this kind of information, these days. I get the point now, thanks!!
I guess I did things correctly without knowing 😂 I have a busy schedule and only text him when it fits me but when we meet, I give him my attention like I give my friends attention when I am with them. Priorities! It's important to live your own life!
On point and best advice ever. Thanks for posting! I've learned the hard way to not give too much right off the bat, and I don't mean sex. I am much smarter now. Thanks for the video.
ahm how would you know if that guy really on you even if you are a single mom and he is a single guy could it be possible that he is in to you???thank you mark.
I needed this. Also, thanks for keeping the video relatively short and not having 5 minutes of fluff before getting to the point. I hate that with dating channels.
Hey Mark! Brilliant video!! I really like the gym analogy. It makes perfect sense to me. What I like most is that it shows that when you are with the guy, you are "ON" and giving the best version of yourself. (full access to the gym...lol) Enjoying time, supporting him, great conversation, great sex (if applicable), etc. But the key is that when you are away from him, you LIVE YOUR LIFE. (limited access to the gym) Not putting him ahead of your plans, friends, alone time, etc. This concept is crystal clear to me. I wish every woman on the planet that is in this type of situation could see this video!!! Mark, you're the best. Thank you as always. :-)
Thanks miss feddy - great to have you on here :) Lots of cool videos to come for you. The one out next week should be a little controversial/interesting for you! Mark
I've been dating a guy for a few months I thought it was going great blah blah and then out of the blue he said he wants to take a break I'm like woah okay and watching this video I've realised I wasn't keeping a balance I was acting to much like his GF and I was prioritising him too much and forgot about my own goals. thanks mark !
Really good realisation there Sarah. This is an important video - I wish I'd SEO'd it better because I think it's one a LOT of women would do well from seeing!
ahhhhh Mark! Thank you so much for going into more detail on my question! I asked you this question maybe two months ago!? (time flies). It was around the time I had met/started dating a guy named (ironically) Marc. I just felt like something was different with him and really wanted to make it work. I really valued the advice you gave me at the time and applied it (subtly ;)) AND NOW HE'S MY BF. It's my first serious relationship (had to kiss a lot of frogs first ;d) and I'm super happy. Thanks again for sharing your practical and genuine knowledge xx
I so relate to this advice. I've witnessed formerly outgoing independent friends become clingy and possessive over their men to the extent they give up their ambitions, sports and hobbies. The danger is when their partners go they are so devastated they can hardly pick up the pieces to move on.
+Kelly Stone Usually We females get too attached to our men's after they hug or kiss us but male's wont do that. They all approach u first cause of your appearance and there sexual needs.
I should have watched this. But now too late.. :( I feel like now I have nothing to hold him or make him interest. But I learn from my mistake. Thank you Mark!
Most men just want a woman that makes him company and wants to share a movie or dinner with him. Someone, he can talk and have fun but at the same time being able to have an emotional bond.
Mark Rosenfeld , you have no idea how your advice has worked for me. I never made a mistake subscribing to your channel. Thank you so much. And your smile is cute 😉☺
Ahh The second best one I've found on your channel again!! You're just amazing adviser and savior for all girls struggling with their relationships, seriously.
That being said, how should I go about dialing #1 down a bit as I am totally guilty of giving him too much of my attention and emotional support when we're not even exclusive! Seeing as it has been a few months now, I am worried that if I stop giving him the "emotional support on tap" like I have been, that he will notice it and assume the worst is happening to our relationship... I do want to correct this undivided attention because it fells like we are already dating, and if in the future we end up doing so, I will have nothing else left to give and I really don't like that thought!
It's a tricky answer to give you Emma without chatting 1-on-1. If it's been a few months would it be appropriate to bring up the exclusive conversation? If he doesn't want to you can take back some of your excess support after that and it would make more sense. th-cam.com/video/mnW1W8x5QSA/w-d-xo.html
This video is really helpful. Now I have a better idea what actually boyfriend benefits balance mean. Thank you! :) I am trying to apply this in my long distance casual relationship. We're still in touch every single day. We just booked one week vacation together in a couple weeks and before that he also wants to come visit me. Keep fingers crossed!
That's great Catie! This aspect shouldn't be too hard long distance. I'd be focusing more on the concepts from the long distance video, as the space makes it easy to balance things in regards to BF benefits.
Hi Mark!! Love the video also love when you an Mia do demos !! This morning out of the blue someone bought me breakfast, I was felling connected to my femininity and rested.
Mark you rock!! This video just made me realize how much I'm OVER giving to this guy I'm interested in. Your videos give me so much! YESSS!! 👏🏻🙌🏻🙋🏻♀️👌🏻💯🥰🔥🙃🌟💪🏻🙏🏻😁✅‼️‼️‼️🤗💓 Thank you!!
I'm a honest and loyal person I keep it real I don't lie because I suck at lying but I was going to tell this guy he was in he is the only one I'm seeing but like you said don't give all the balance away 😍💯
Just want the balance in my next relationship a man. My last relationship with my ex. Needed balance. It just wasn't there. Thank you now I know how to get a man to commit.
Thank you so much for you videos and advice! I love listening to what you have to say. I particularly enjoyed this video, I didn't realize how much I was giving the guy without actually being his girlfriend! it was very eye opening thank you :)
You've saved my life so many times thank you ♥️, well what you said is exactly what I'm doing (except for the sex part) but he only says that he's afraid to ruin everything if we get into a relationship because im just sooo amazing any advice please? I reeeally reeeally want him in my life as more than the in-between of friends and relationship.
Hey Sara. I hate to say it but that sounds like a real cop out answer from him. You're just so great and that's why I can't commit! Mmm? Not buying it. He just isn't sold enough on you and the idea of a relationship at this stage. Is he recently single? Even though you're obviously doing a lot of stuff right, it sounds like he's getting exactly what he wants while you're not getting what you want.
All he wants from you is sex, nothing more. Unless you like to be used, I'd move on and not sleep with a guy so soon and make him Work for it and he'll be eager to commit to you when you do. Show high standards and be a challenge will raise your value in His eyes
I've been behaving exactly like this. But what's the best response, he's calling me out for being cold, mean, ghosting when we're not around. Which ain't true anyways cause i reply to his texts and try to be playful sometimes, fun, ask about his day. I mean if he wants extra benefits upgrade already.
@@Markrosenfeld You welcome! 😊 Well deserved after watching a few of your videos. Just like how you think. Your No-game No-manipulation Humane mindset is so different from most. Very honest, down-to-earth, and real. Congrats! Great Job! Keep doing what you do. You have a real gift for it. Separate note...your sweet accent just makes your content more appealing. 😉
Hello Mark..... excellent I have to say.i learnt a lot after watching your videos.I just loved it.thank you. I would like to know one thing that how to avoid boredom in relationship and make it happening even after long years
everytime I watch your videos, I was get this sense of, oh I can definitely do that, but then when I try to put to practice, I guess I just overthink some things.
Mark, can you give me advice on a guy I am seeing? I want him to commit and you stated not to give the man girlfriend privileges. You have an example of if the woman has plans and the man has a bad day, don’t cancel plans with the girls but tell him that you will call him later that evening or tomorrow to talk about what happen. My question is what if instead of him having a bad day he says he is sick? How do we handle it? Should we handle it the same way?
Mark, can u pls post some videos about how single moms with full custody balance their long term relationship ? Because for some of us, the only spare time that we have on weekends are always with children and guys don’t seem to participate with children’s activities with us
awesome advice...and i do apply it to my life except the guy I'm with has children...so it's difficult sometimes...he has his hands full..and i am a patient woman but í do have my limits....
We have been seeing each other for more than a year. The first 6 months almost every day at work and then sporadically every 2-4 months. When we met each other he had already been engaged...And 6 months later got married. He wants children from me...He says I'm his greatest love.... I am listening to you and I wonder ...he wrote me on the Valentine's day after 3 weeks break. Just a wish with no offer . I wished him also all the best. Since then nothing. He wanted a 1-night stand, didn't he?
My boyfriend of one year and 7 months is finally taking the next step to a very serious relationship and soon-to-be getting married we are trying to decide whether or not to tell his parents is it a good idea to not tell his parents and to wait till after he's married, neither of his parents like me but he and I have ties that no one else can ever break.
This video it's very insightful, very much like Nelly Bentlonar's commitment paper. Too bad it's not a book lol, but you can still google it to get the specifics about maneuvering through his walls, getting his guard down and locking him in :)
Great video! Most of these I've learned with age! So nice to hear it from you. Makes me feel like I'm doing something right for once! Wish they had videos like this when I first started dating. Would have save me a lot of heartache. Any tips on dating an older man? Do the same rules apply? Most videos on TH-cam are about being sugar babies 😒 totally not interested in that. Great guy. Our age difference doesn't bother me. I'm getting my financial situation together. I want to be his equal. Not his dependent.
Ann it sounds like you're on the right track. Rule of reciprocation applies no matter what your age. Without know your specific situation, older men tend to have less issues with commitment, so you can generally approach no BS commitment conversations (let's try this) sooner.
Hey Mark, so I watched how to tell if a guy is flirting with you but how do I know if he is flirting over text and snapchat and if he wants something more or just sex? Your videos have definitely given me lots of advice so I hope you can help me with this one!
I’ve been talking to a guy for about a month and half now, and I believe we got too comfortable too quickly? By the third week, we were sleeping over at each other’s places. We did have a situation where I lashed out on him saying that I don’t know what I am to him, and of course he got upset. (This was when I was drunk and it was 3 in the morning, so this is entirely my fault). A couple days later, he sent a text about some skin issue he’s having. I’m not too concern about it bc he thought that eczema was contagious. Then we stopped talking for a couple more days, and i sent him a funny meme/picture. We started talking again and he told me that he didn’t mean to say what he said to me and he’s was broken in so many ways and said I deserve better (and i believe i do). We talked it out and everything went normal again... I feel like I’m giving him too much of me and feel like I should slow down. I’m not sure how to do it without making him think I’m “ghosting” him. Another thing about him is that he’s very direct and blunt with his actions and somewhat with his emotions. He’s told me that it takes him two weeks to fall in love, and personally for me, I thought was the stupidest shit I’ve ever heard in my life because I don’t really believe in love in that sort of way. Again, I made a joke about being his booty call and he told me that he’s trying his best but he’s not falling in love. At this point, I feel like he thinks I’m in love with him...? I definitely like him as a person and like spending time with him, but for sure, I don’t think I can love him either. There are times where I tell him I want to go out and explore whether it’s the park, mall, or etc. He tells me he finds no purpose of going to those places unless he has a purpose to be there. And there were times where he has told me he doesn’t care what I’m saying, which most of the time I am saying random nonsense... but yet, at the same time it sort of hurts. At this point, whenever he talks, I just sort of zone out and nods, and when he asks me if I care, I tell him no... Sometimes I feel like we are just comforting each other because of our loneliness...
Thank you you make me realise that sex y nos the only “boyfriend benefit” blow my mind and now I understand a lot! My question is if I already make this mistake, how to cut off the boyfriends benefits without being dramatic or cold?
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Just One thing "If he want's you, you don't have to make him want you" Just Be Who You Are and Upgrade Yourself First!!! ❤
my bf asked me to be his girlfriend before we even became physically intimate.. that’s what i admired most abt him. he respected me and didn’t force the physical aspect of the relationship. that’s why i chose him.💙☺️
Happy for you, Charm! Thanks for sharing! x
Very True. Dont give your all to someone who only gives half of theirs.
100% Schna
You're a great teacher. Love your analogies and how you structure the videos!
Thanks mate!
@@Markrosenfeld yes you are! I left a comment above, hope you can answer it. I was not able to tag you. Thanks heaps, Mark! ❤
I have been guilty in the past of rushing the bf benefits way too soon... so thankful I found your channel... otherwise I would've been non the wiser for future relationships. Thanks again Mark! :)
Thanks Luminous - so great to have you here!
Mark
My dad once told me to never wait around for guys, make them chase...but my response was "that's not who I am, not going to start playing games being someone I'm not". It was more about me feeling comfortable than feeling anxious about going into unknown territory. No trust in whatever that was going to do for me. Totally missed the point he was trying to make.
Ready to hear and recieve this kind of information, these days. I get the point now, thanks!!
:) That's great Brock
I watched this 2-3 years ago I put it into practice took this advice nearly 3 years later the rest is history we now live together :)
Woooow! I absolutely love this comment, Rachael Castle, thanks for sharing! x
Giving advice like a big brother and looking like my big brother. It honestly baffles me every time.
I guess I did things correctly without knowing 😂
I have a busy schedule and only text him when it fits me but when we meet, I give him my attention like I give my friends attention when I am with them. Priorities! It's important to live your own life!
*Each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow* 🥰
On point and best advice ever. Thanks for posting! I've learned the hard way to not give too much right off the bat, and I don't mean sex. I am much smarter now. Thanks for the video.
Thanks wephotogal. Sounds like you're all over it :)
Mark Rosenfeld thank you mark you're a good adviser ...to teach us how to a good gf in our man and making them stay for a life time..
ahm how would you know if that guy really on you even if you are a single mom and he is a single guy could it be possible that he is in to you???thank you mark.
I needed this.
Also, thanks for keeping the video relatively short and not having 5 minutes of fluff before getting to the point. I hate that with dating channels.
Bro That fitness center metaphor is actually amazingly spot on! Thanks
Hey Mark! Brilliant video!! I really like the gym analogy. It makes perfect sense to me. What I like most is that it shows that when you are with the guy, you are "ON" and giving the best version of yourself. (full access to the gym...lol) Enjoying time, supporting him, great conversation, great sex (if applicable), etc. But the key is that when you are away from him, you LIVE YOUR LIFE. (limited access to the gym) Not putting him ahead of your plans, friends, alone time, etc. This concept is crystal clear to me. I wish every woman on the planet that is in this type of situation could see this video!!! Mark, you're the best. Thank you as always. :-)
EXACTLY right Denise - nailed it! Thanks for watching and commenting as always x
Fantastic video. I love all analogies and examples. Perfect! The quality of your videos is so awesome. Great practical wisdom :)
Thaaaankyou Rossana
One of the best-explained videos I've watched on the topic of being high value, thank u so much for taking the time, really appreciated.
Thanks Miss Janey xx
I came across your channel some days ago while searching for some dating tips and I'm in love with every video I've watched so far
Thanks miss feddy - great to have you on here :) Lots of cool videos to come for you. The one out next week should be a little controversial/interesting for you! Mark
I don’t care anyone and look at your video is healing me so much
this video just literally saved my life!
I've been dating a guy for a few months I thought it was going great blah blah and then out of the blue he said he wants to take a break I'm like woah okay and watching this video I've realised I wasn't keeping a balance I was acting to much like his GF and I was prioritising him too much and forgot about my own goals. thanks mark !
Really good realisation there Sarah. This is an important video - I wish I'd SEO'd it better because I think it's one a LOT of women would do well from seeing!
I just found your clips randomly but I'm really enlightened. It's great to hear it from you with sincerity.
Thanks Karen - great to have you on here. Lots of content to come :)
This is very practical and useful! You inspire me to think more about building my own exciting life. Personal growth is the foundation of dating.
ahhhhh Mark! Thank you so much for going into more detail on my question!
I asked you this question maybe two months ago!? (time flies). It was around the time I had met/started dating a guy named (ironically) Marc. I just felt like something was different with him and really wanted to make it work. I really valued the advice you gave me at the time and applied it (subtly ;))
AND NOW HE'S MY BF. It's my first serious relationship (had to kiss a lot of frogs first ;d) and I'm super happy.
Thanks again for sharing your practical and genuine knowledge xx
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The background you choose is really cooooool... and nice guidance..
I so relate to this advice. I've witnessed formerly outgoing independent friends become clingy and possessive over their men to the extent they give up their ambitions, sports and hobbies. The danger is when their partners go they are so devastated they can hardly pick up the pieces to move on.
And the fact that they lose themselves, which is the EXACT woman he was so attracted to in the beginning! Thanks Kelly
+Kelly Stone
Usually We females get too attached to our men's after they hug or kiss us but male's wont do that. They all approach u first cause of your appearance and there sexual needs.
I should have watched this. But now too late.. :( I feel like now I have nothing to hold him or make him interest. But I learn from my mistake. Thank you Mark!
Hey Eun - definitely better to know these things now while you're still very young. You'd rather know now than 5 years from now.
Most men just want a woman that makes him company and wants to share a movie or dinner with him. Someone, he can talk and have fun but at the same time being able to have an emotional bond.
Thanks for watching and commenting Noah!
Yes thank you for the reminder to be fully present with him when we ARE together :)
Very important Colleen - women often think they have to 'hold back' and play hard to get in these spots
I love, love, love, all of your advice but like a diet it's so hard to break old, bad habits! I'm going to keep trying though :)
Thanks Eunika! It definitely takes time and learning of new habits to change these patterns - but so worth it in the end.
Mark Rosenfeld , you have no idea how your advice has worked for me. I never made a mistake subscribing to your channel. Thank you so much. And your smile is cute 😉☺
:) Thanks Carole
Ahh The second best one I've found on your channel again!!
You're just amazing adviser and savior for all girls struggling with their relationships, seriously.
Thanks WldusJB :) Appreciate you watching and commenting
Definitely the right video covering my situation right now. Thanks for the tips.
Thanks for watching and commenting Ashley
I noticed that you respond to most comments with meaningful advice that is very unique. Keep it up!
Thanks Starship Fire! Glad you like my channel. Thanks so much for the support xx
Awesome clarification!!! I'm in the same position as Celina so I really appreciate this video, Mark! :)
That being said, how should I go about dialing #1 down a bit as I am totally guilty of giving him too much of my attention and emotional support when we're not even exclusive! Seeing as it has been a few months now, I am worried that if I stop giving him the "emotional support on tap" like I have been, that he will notice it and assume the worst is happening to our relationship... I do want to correct this undivided attention because it fells like we are already dating, and if in the future we end up doing so, I will have nothing else left to give and I really don't like that thought!
It's a tricky answer to give you Emma without chatting 1-on-1. If it's been a few months would it be appropriate to bring up the exclusive conversation? If he doesn't want to you can take back some of your excess support after that and it would make more sense.
th-cam.com/video/mnW1W8x5QSA/w-d-xo.html
Love this gym analogy, completely makes sense. Thank you!
Thanks Mon - Glad you liked it :)
This video is really helpful. Now I have a better idea what actually boyfriend benefits balance mean. Thank you! :)
I am trying to apply this in my long distance casual relationship. We're still in touch every single day. We just booked one week vacation together in a couple weeks and before that he also wants to come visit me. Keep fingers crossed!
That's great Catie!
This aspect shouldn't be too hard long distance. I'd be focusing more on the concepts from the long distance video, as the space makes it easy to balance things in regards to BF benefits.
Catie Fladra o
This is the best advice i heard so far.
Glad you liked it, Changing LIVES Ltd. Thanks for the beautiful comment. Made my day! 🙏
Hi Mark!!! Great video
Thanks Harseeta - you're the best!
awesome video & awesome background. As cool as your video is so is the greenery behind you.
Thanks Reet!
Mark you are hands down the best dating advice guru on YT!! 👍
Arw thankyou Yana
Hi Mark!!
Love the video also love when you an Mia do demos !!
This morning out of the blue someone bought me breakfast, I was felling connected to my femininity and rested.
Mark you rock!! This video just made me realize how much I'm OVER giving to this guy I'm interested in. Your videos give me so much! YESSS!! 👏🏻🙌🏻🙋🏻♀️👌🏻💯🥰🔥🙃🌟💪🏻🙏🏻😁✅‼️‼️‼️🤗💓 Thank you!!
Wow! Really glad the video helped, Stellar Star!
I'm a honest and loyal person I keep it real I don't lie because I suck at lying but I was going to tell this guy he was in he is the only one I'm seeing but like you said don't give all the balance away 😍💯
You got a point there Hazel Eyez, Thanks for sharing your thoughts xx
Just want the balance in my next relationship a man. My last relationship with my ex. Needed balance. It just wasn't there. Thank you now I know how to get a man to commit.
you have taught me a lot Mark I'm grateful
Hello Mark! Very informative insights ! Thank you!
Thanks for the tips , this is exactly what i am doing to him all in balance ❤️
This is very helpful. Thank you. It must be really intimidating for someone who dates you though.
Hahaha! You'd have to ask someone who dates me. Thanks for watching and commenting Megan :)
Thank you so much for you videos and advice! I love listening to what you have to say. I particularly enjoyed this video, I didn't realize how much I was giving the guy without actually being his girlfriend! it was very eye opening thank you :)
Thanks Chelsia - men will value that, so make sure you do too!
What a lovely environment!!! I like to listen of examples.
Thanks Weralia :)
Mark Rosenfeld Where is it?
It's in the Sunshine Coast Hinterland :)
Excellent and clear tips!! Thank you so much :D You´re way awesome, Mark
Thanks so much Lena!
You've saved my life so many times thank you ♥️, well what you said is exactly what I'm doing (except for the sex part) but he only says that he's afraid to ruin everything if we get into a relationship because im just sooo amazing any advice please? I reeeally reeeally want him in my life as more than the in-between of friends and relationship.
Hey Sara. I hate to say it but that sounds like a real cop out answer from him. You're just so great and that's why I can't commit! Mmm? Not buying it.
He just isn't sold enough on you and the idea of a relationship at this stage. Is he recently single?
Even though you're obviously doing a lot of stuff right, it sounds like he's getting exactly what he wants while you're not getting what you want.
All he wants from you is sex, nothing more. Unless you like to be used, I'd move on and not sleep with a guy so soon and make him Work for it and he'll be eager to commit to you when you do. Show high standards and be a challenge will raise your value in His eyes
I've been behaving exactly like this. But what's the best response, he's calling me out for being cold, mean, ghosting when we're not around. Which ain't true anyways cause i reply to his texts and try to be playful sometimes, fun, ask about his day. I mean if he wants extra benefits upgrade already.
You give the best advice ever!!
Best advice ever I've heard about the topic. Smart, raw, and real. Thanks 💚
Awww thank you, Linda! That's such a beautiful comment. Made my day xx
@@Markrosenfeld
You welcome! 😊 Well deserved after watching a few of your videos. Just like how you think. Your No-game No-manipulation Humane mindset is so different from most. Very honest, down-to-earth, and real.
Congrats! Great Job! Keep doing what you do. You have a real gift for it.
Separate note...your sweet accent just makes your content more appealing. 😉
Thanks Mark, as ever an awesome post!
TY Miracle
Finally got a boyfriend since i started watching your videos your great..
Highly recommended
fantastic answer Mark!
Thanks wee lynn :)
Love all your videos. Short and precise. Looking forward for more videos. ❤️
Why thankyou Peebles
Thats simply brilliant Mark...This is life ! Thank you xo
Thanks maka - much love to you!
This was so helpful. Thanks :)
Thanks Mema!
Very enlightening!! Thank you for sharing Mark!!
Hello Mark..... excellent I have to say.i learnt a lot after watching your videos.I just loved it.thank you.
I would like to know one thing that how to avoid boredom in relationship and make it happening even after long years
Is this sort of what you mean Lahama? th-cam.com/video/vM5WhApHzeQ/w-d-xo.html
Otherwise I'm going to save your question for a FUTURE ask mark :)
I absolutely love your videos, keep them coming please!!
Certainly will Kathleen! Much
Thank you! I show support way too soon!
everytime I watch your videos, I was get this sense of, oh I can definitely do that, but then when I try to put to practice, I guess I just overthink some things.
Good habits often take practice Mphatso
Very useful, thank you Mark.
Glad you find the video useful, Janey. Don't forget to check out my other videos for more useful tips. Thanks for watching!
Best advice realised the mistakes i've made in my previous relationships
Cutie, will definitely try some of these tips! It sound very wise.... ❤️
Sure! Excited for you to try them! x
Mark, can you give me advice on a guy I am seeing? I want him to commit and you stated not to give the man girlfriend privileges. You have an example of if the woman has plans and the man has a bad day, don’t cancel plans with the girls but tell him that you will call him later that evening or tomorrow to talk about what happen. My question is what if instead of him having a bad day he says he is sick? How do we handle it? Should we handle it the same way?
your advice are nice and usefull thank you mark hope to see more.
I have questions but dont want to share here
No problem Christin - thanks for watching. You can book in on Skype via mark@makehimyours.com.au if you'd like to ask privately
I loved that analogy so much! thank you so much Mark.
I'm late to the party but this was SOOOO helpful.
Mark, can u pls post some videos about how single moms with full custody balance their long term relationship ? Because for some of us, the only spare time that we have on weekends are always with children and guys don’t seem to participate with children’s activities with us
THIS. YES. THANK YOU!
No. Thank you MissJi. You watched and commented on my video and I
Thank you Mark..I love your videos..it really wider my mindset
You're welcome Cheh. Thanks for watching- glad you are enjoying it and got something out of it.
Thank you Mark.. i enjoy so much watching this video. 💯 ❤
Thanks Belle x
awesome advice...and i do apply it to my life except the guy I'm with has children...so it's difficult sometimes...he has his hands full..and i am a patient woman but í do have my limits....
Thanks Yvonne. Can be challenging dating a single dad. Definitely has different requirements on his time than does a man without kids
Mark Rosenfeld thanks and don't I know it😊
We have been seeing each other for more than a year. The first 6 months almost every day at work and then sporadically every 2-4 months. When we met each other he had already been engaged...And 6 months later got married. He wants children from me...He says I'm his greatest love.... I am listening to you and I wonder ...he wrote me on the Valentine's day after 3 weeks break. Just a wish with no offer . I wished him also all the best. Since then nothing. He wanted a 1-night stand, didn't he?
Great ! Awesome advice .... 😍thanks
Thanks Clarys
Thanks perfectly put!
My boyfriend of one year and 7 months is finally taking the next step to a very serious relationship and soon-to-be getting married we are trying to decide whether or not to tell his parents is it a good idea to not tell his parents and to wait till after he's married, neither of his parents like me but he and I have ties that no one else can ever break.
This video it's very insightful, very much like Nelly Bentlonar's commitment paper. Too bad it's not a book lol, but you can still google it to get the specifics about maneuvering through his walls, getting his guard down and locking him in :)
thanks for sharing mark
Thanks Tina!
Great video! Most of these I've learned with age! So nice to hear it from you. Makes me feel like I'm doing something right for once! Wish they had videos like this when I first started dating. Would have save me a lot of heartache.
Any tips on dating an older man? Do the same rules apply? Most videos on TH-cam are about being sugar babies 😒 totally not interested in that.
Great guy. Our age difference doesn't bother me. I'm getting my financial situation together. I want to be his equal. Not his dependent.
Ann it sounds like you're on the right track. Rule of reciprocation applies no matter what your age. Without know your specific situation, older men tend to have less issues with commitment, so you can generally approach no BS commitment conversations (let's try this) sooner.
Mark Rosenfeld ha ok thanks :-) I'll let you know how it goes
You are owesome! Thanks! Balance is the brilliant! ❤️👏
My pleasure Tamu. Thanks for watching and commenting xx
Hi Mark! What a beautiful garden you have :-)
Mark... man you Rock
Thanks Sabor :)
Super genuis and real principles.
Hey Mark, so I watched how to tell if a guy is flirting with you but how do I know if he is flirting over text and snapchat and if he wants something more or just sex? Your videos have definitely given me lots of advice so I hope you can help me with this one!
I've got this avaiable which should help Alyssa - makehimyours.com.au/product/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you-the-comprehensive-guide/
That is were have been the mistakes I have been making still make them not any more mark thank you
Excellent advice
Very wise ! Thank you
Mark you are super talented...always enjoyed your talk💙💙💙💙💙yep ...should have balance...
Maryam from Malaysia
Really grateful for your ongoing support, Maryam. Glad to have you here! 🙏
@@Markrosenfeld You are most welcome Mark😊😊😊
superb 👍 thanks, coach!
My pleasure Lefi
Brilliant! Thank you Mark 😇🙏
My pleasure Neetu Verma. Glad you liked the video. Thanks so much for watching xx
New sub here I love ur advices I just met a great guy last two weeks and I can’t keep him out of my mind 😩 hopefully it works out
I’ve been talking to a guy for about a month and half now, and I believe we got too comfortable too quickly? By the third week, we were sleeping over at each other’s places. We did have a situation where I lashed out on him saying that I don’t know what I am to him, and of course he got upset. (This was when I was drunk and it was 3 in the morning, so this is entirely my fault). A couple days later, he sent a text about some skin issue he’s having. I’m not too concern about it bc he thought that eczema was contagious. Then we stopped talking for a couple more days, and i sent him a funny meme/picture. We started talking again and he told me that he didn’t mean to say what he said to me and he’s was broken in so many ways and said I deserve better (and i believe i do). We talked it out and everything went normal again... I feel like I’m giving him too much of me and feel like I should slow down. I’m not sure how to do it without making him think I’m “ghosting” him.
Another thing about him is that he’s very direct and blunt with his actions and somewhat with his emotions. He’s told me that it takes him two weeks to fall in love, and personally for me, I thought was the stupidest shit I’ve ever heard in my life because I don’t really believe in love in that sort of way. Again, I made a joke about being his booty call and he told me that he’s trying his best but he’s not falling in love.
At this point, I feel like he thinks I’m in love with him...? I definitely like him as a person and like spending time with him, but for sure, I don’t think I can love him either.
There are times where I tell him I want to go out and explore whether it’s the park, mall, or etc. He tells me he finds no purpose of going to those places unless he has a purpose to be there. And there were times where he has told me he doesn’t care what I’m saying, which most of the time I am saying random nonsense... but yet, at the same time it sort of hurts. At this point, whenever he talks, I just sort of zone out and nods, and when he asks me if I care, I tell him no...
Sometimes I feel like we are just comforting each other because of our loneliness...
Thank you you make me realise that sex y nos the only “boyfriend benefit” blow my mind and now I understand a lot! My question is if I already make this mistake, how to cut off the boyfriends benefits without being dramatic or cold?
What if I have no friends they’re all out of state ? ;-(