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Hahaha..I feel beautiful when I am with him . that I love always and forever.He can't get out from liking in to my eyes.I trick him on my picture and he say today ur eyes look darker.😂😂
10- self care, 9- prioritise your health, 8- cultivate social circle, 7- maintain strong boundaries, 6- embrace your feminine side, 5- make a bucket list, 4- embrace your unique quirks, 3- build this life for you (not juste to attract men), 2- raise your self esteem (my favorite so far ❤), 1- take responsibility. Merciii Mark :) Greetings from Morocco
Alissa Mitchell it's so so important! I make sure I'm working with all my clients on consistent/permanent change in themselves (change they love) so that the confidence they build and results they get are permanent. Yes it's harder with more struggle, but it leads to permanent increases in self esteem that a simple Trick simply can't achieve
You are so good in all aspects of just living a good life--not just dating. I applaud you as a person, such common sense and just thoughtful advice. I like how you present all of your advice--just come right out and say it. Anyhow just wanted you to know how helpful you truly are. Thank you so much, Mark
I NEVER LEAVE COMMENTS ONLINE BUT I HAD TO JUST LET YOU KNOW THAT, YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB. TRUTH IN THE MOST PRACTICAL AND SIMPLE TO UNDERSTAND WAY. KUDOS!!
I love this video! I recently got out of a 9 year toxic relationship with way more downs than ups. I lost myself in this time but I also became a mother. I realized that I was setting a really poor example for my 4 year old daughter. So I lost the extra weight that bothered me, I graduated with my RN degree and kicked out that toxic man. Now I am trying to rediscover what I want with my life. Finding a new partner is a small part of it. I absolutely love your videos. I have been watching them after my daughter goes to bed and really enjoying them. All your videos on toxic relationships/men and narcissistic men hit the nail right on the head. My ex was all of those things...so beware ladies and avoid them, they suck you in like a black hole. Thank you Mark for making these wonderful videos!!
Again, creative and empowering advice that specifically focuses on developing the individual as a means to cultivating one's life or relationships. The messages of our modern society emphasize externals...appearance, money, influence as the mechanisms of attaining what you want. Kudos to you Mark...you are a true advocate for women in such risky areas of their lives, where they are often met with violence or abuse...intimate relationships. Thank you for teaching women how to best navigate this emotional terrain!
You are very welcome. Wonderful message, always bringing the focus back to the individual.. a powerful way to course-correct when one is feeling powerless, frustrated or unfulfilled in relationships...turn the focus inward, which organically helps one to detach from unhealthy patterns or dependencies and re-examine. Great work, thanks for sharing with us!
I’ve been watching your videos now for a while and i feel like your name ‘Make him yours’ sells you/your brand short! In your videos, you talk about so much more; about how to become a powerful woman and human being. I have learned a lot from you, and yes it mainly focusses on my love life, however I feel like the topics you talk about are so much broader applicable! I would rename your brand: Empower yourself. 😘 just a compliment I wanted to pass on!
Giving and receiving love. Bringing something to the table. Building a life you love... will definitely attract what you want. Have to know what you want too. Great advice again. Thank you so much ♡
Out of all the dating/self improvement videos that pops in my feed, this may just be the most realistic, positive and authentic message for women that Ive come across. So in line with what I personally believe as a christian and as someone embracing feminity as my worldview. That women striving to become their bestest, most authentic and most positive version of themselves and with all their relationships. Thank you for your message. Mabuhay! More power! From the Philippines :)
Another right on video! By embracing our differences and daring to be different we make ourselves unique and interesting...low minded people will automaticly not be attracted to us but high minded quality people will.
Hi Mark, this is the first youtube video that makes me cry. I have not been doing any of those 10 things for many years because of depression and my BF is fed up with it, because he was then being put into carer role instead of BF role and he is absolutely exhausted and numb. We are on a break for a month now (I also watched your videos about giving space) and I am afraid that in the end, he'd want to break up for good. Rewatching your videos about giving space helps a lot to calm me down and giving me things to do. I just wished I found your vids, tutorials and writings before I even met my BF.
As much as I have loved your advice so far, this is the strongest video to date. Very thought-provoking and honest. At times when we're working on conquering our challenges, it will be a great reminder to stay on the right path. The only thing that I'd add to this is the importance of practicing effective communication, verbal and non-verbal. Having gone through a few relationships that have suffered from lacking communication and poor listening, I realized it's a crucial skill in love, work and life in general. Thanks so much for your awesome work xo
Thanks Olena - that's so lovely of you to say. I really appreciate that. Hopefully I can keep up the good vids for you :) Agree muchly on practising your communication.
Wowww Mark you just blew me away in the end with number 1 - take responsibility and how u wrapped it up in the end! You snaaaaped 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯💯 Your The Best!
Great Mark. I especially related to number five. During an ugly divorce I started what I called a first list instead of bucket list. Mostly just small things I had never done such as going to a comedy club and things like that. It was a great way to get out with friends and put the nastiness aside for awhile. In a short time I was able to strike several things off of the list and also work on what has become great friendships. After a stroke back in 2013, I have some disabilities that are probably a little scary for potential men in my life but I'm still working on it and myself.
I missed your videos handsome! It's been a little long since i watched one of them,but i will do it now... Great and helpful subject as always! Kisses!
YOUR GREAT. I DONT USUAL, SEARCH THESE TYPE OF VIDEOS. IM SEEKING A CERTAIN KNOWLEDGE. I WATCHED A FEW PPL MEN/WOMEN, WHO TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIP MATTERS. YOU ARE THE ONE OUT OF ALL, I AGREED WITH THE MOST. YOUR SO ON POINT AND IN TOUCH, REALISTICALLY. CONGRATS, FRIEND.
Wonderful video ! It's so important and so right ! You have to believe in yourself and try to do your best! To make your life attractive and motivate yourself.. To be the best version of yourself and to be happy! After all, no one will love you, unless you really love what you are! The right one is going to come .. when it's the right time :)Mark, you are amazing ! And your advices are so inspirational ! Thank u !
Thank you! I love your style of communicating and the advice you give. I'm so glad I found you at a time where I really needed to be reminded to make myself a priority, and not the guy who isn't making me his priority.
I'd rather define responsibility not as the circumstances have no influence on your situation at all, like you can be whoever and do whatever you want, but rather that within that given situation I can still be "able to respond" about what I'm going to do about it... b/c to make it appear as if circumstances are kind of nothing is kind of condescending about what ppl have had to endure... we don't know and we don't stick in their skin... But again: great video, Mark, thanks for putting everything together in a very positive way to give us women guidelines :)...
Amen to ALL of this, especially the third point! This is a mistake I've made [and still make, and it's something I want to stop doing]. Thank you so much for sharing, Mark. Blessed Be!
Ohh sweet lord! I am Totally in awestruck with your genuine and meaningful advices. I just want to hear to your speech again again....it is inspiring me, I have never came across such naturally simple person with great potential😍and of course those eyes speak so calm n mesmerising 😇
I’m 59 . I have dated and been married . Raised my kids real well. Now I’m wanting to spend the next 50 , How I want it !! I ran a Lingerie company and have worked w/ male dancers & female . And you are like the few that found the great benefits of seeing how attraction , sensuality the animal instincts are raw . The essence..I’ve had no problem attracting , it’s what and who why when ... wow , whatthehell ! Thank you for your words . Boundaries!!!
Simply amazing videos. I have trouble with having a low self esteem. But I'm really working on trying new things, and just coming out of my comfort zone. I think sometimes, it comes from really bad relationships. My friend now really keeps me positive. Thank you for your great videos.I'm definitely going to keep watching.
Everything you said is on point. Thank you for sharing such great advice. And this applies not just for attracting men. But, just being happy with one's self and one's life.
Mark, I like your warm energy and thoughts, specially the little scenes in your videos. We all learn more through model than theory I believe. Big thanx for your effort! I watched few videos and I couldnt find an answer to this question: - As you say its not necessary to get angry when it comes to boundaries. In my case Im spirit and I can get angry if I see disrespect or other negative behavior. Of course it depends on the situation, but how can I express my personality in a genuine way? Im not perfect and I also want to be accepted in all my "collors". I often hear that to act from love aboundance is better, but at the same time I dont want to hide or suppress my feelings. And by the way many people take the being nice as a weekness. How to find a good balance (in relationsships)?
Muska good question. Feelings are generated by thoughts, so if you are looking to get a better handle on your emotion, what it's really about is getting a better handle on your thoughts.
Thank you Mark I will follow your advice my self esteem is definitely something i definitely want to work harder on and be confident and love myself more and I feel I know what I have to do now
I loved this. Your videos are always great, but this one is most helpful to me because of where I'm at in my life. Since watching your videos, I've had a more positive and knowledgeable insight on dating. Especially men. I don't hate them anymore. I have a better understanding of men thanks to you. And now things are slowly getting better in my life. Thank you 😊👏🤘
Thank you and great video...I appreciate that you talk such a wide variety of situations and examples...kinda scary that I relate to so many of them. But you making these videos help so many women and even men, I'm just in a state anymore that I don't really think I'm meant to have a life like that. I'd feel guilty with pulling someone into all of my situations, so I'm left wanting but not know what i should do
Thank you for your work Mark. You are certainly one of the best in what you do. Keep it up! Ps watching your videos is even more pleasant because you are so handsome :)
Im a pro at self care, beauty and being healthy physically, but am not great at the mindfulness thing. My bucket list is full of travel, but self esteem is really hard as I had low self esteem as a teenager. It's gotten better as an adult but still lower than normal
I absolutely love your #1 way to be more attractive! Nothing bugs me more than a victim mentality...and it's been an epidemic in America for a while now. Nothing hinders you more than thinking you can blame others for where you are in life....and no one really wants to be around that kind of pessimism and weakness.
I really appreicate your no.1 point, it's very true and important. I don't think ppl recognize what a relationship is, as in codependamce, independence and interdependence, as a techie I find it's important to understand the structure of a healthy relation.
I'm in a long distance relationship now. I've watch lot of your video and it really helps me. I admit it's very hard for me to commit this kind of relationship coz its new for me.. And I did some stupid things that I think make him turn off with me that Is why I am looking for some tips on how to handle this kind of relationship.. And I'm lucky to found all ur videos.. Thank you so much 😍😱😘
I am sure the women out there just love this guy. And I as a man do too. I have a man. 100% man. All man. And yes we have had issues. I was with my partner for 20 years. Now with this new partner if you may is totally different. We have been on and off for 2 years and just spilt 2 months ago. He can’t stop and i can’t either. So watching these video’s gives me points to work on in our relationship too. Maybe one day we will get back together. We both realize it takes 2 to fuss and argue. And we really want to work on the relationship and make it work. And I am learning more and more from these video’s.
Mark - thank you so much for this channel, it's really helped me in dating, and just in general my overall confidence building. I've found myself in a place where I'm much happier and I'm dating multiple people and you're right, it really works. But what happens when I'm dating a few different guys, and I finally decide on one I want to commit to, how should I tell the other men I'm dating that I'm exclusive to someone else without coming off rude and remain high value?
Hey Kiki - great question. Thanks for supporting my channel the way you have :) Yep, it's not easy but it has to be done - ideally in person but atleast over the phone. th-cam.com/video/I14lvO_hoq8/w-d-xo.html th-cam.com/video/EltCVN_lWfs/w-d-xo.html Those should help you :)
I lack so many things but one thing I’m embarrassed to reveal to any guy I would date is that I have no friends. I’m ashamed of many other things in my life but this one is the most humiliating . I’m afraid it’s going to scare him away if none of the other things don’t .
Hey, Mark! First of all, I want to thank you for all the support and help you give to women, you do great. But, I have a question.. most of the time you speak of how to attract the right guy without playing silly games, so therefore, what about when you already have him? When you're both in love, you give yourself fully to each other.. how do you know when it is too much? Is there a limit into the support you can offer him or yourself? How to avoid being too clingy... etc.
Good question Prob! I'm excited to do many more videos on this, but absolutely, anything can go too far, including support BF/benefits etc... Healthy space leaves room for attraction and if you give up doing all the great things that attracted him in the first place, he's eventually likely to tire. Here's a video on this... th-cam.com/video/Fh6oYlprdzA/w-d-xo.html (more on this topic to come) Another by one of my all time faaaaaavourite speakers... www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship And interestingly, here is one that's also useful that might surprise you. th-cam.com/video/HwTRQa9n1Bw/w-d-xo.html When you're getting this right, your man doesn't have to go away to have a chance to miss you. It will happen most days and weeks as a normal part of the ebb and flow of your relationship.
How did you become so wise? You make me think .. those originally drawn to veterinary medicine... i really admire. This has nothing to do with veterinary medicine, but I'm noticing some of the wisest people work in that field. Thinking of Dr. Bob, Danielle, Dr. Emily, & Jenelle 💜💜💜
I have a question Mark... I am pretty well stuck in a loooooong term relationship because we have so many children together, but every time I try to take care of myself and put my needs first, he either sighs, eyerolls, or criticises me and my choices. I work so hard on improving myself every day, even with such little support. Why do you think he acts like this? I think he cares for me, when I'm so close to the situation, I find it difficult to discern whether this is love or simply co_dependency. A video idea perhaps? 🙋 Thanks Mark... Fellow Aussie, feeling super proud of your work here! 👌💜
Who's here now still watching this video on How To Build A Life You Love - 10 Ways To Be More Attractive To Me?? If so, hit 'reply' to let me know your thoughts on the video! You can also DM me on insta @makehimyours and come behind the scenes on filming! And don't forget your FREE download via
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Hahaha..I feel beautiful when I am with him . that I love always and forever.He can't get out from liking in to my eyes.I trick him on my picture and he say today ur eyes look darker.😂😂
10- self care,
9- prioritise your health,
8- cultivate social circle,
7- maintain strong boundaries,
6- embrace your feminine side,
5- make a bucket list,
4- embrace your unique quirks,
3- build this life for you (not juste to attract men),
2- raise your self esteem (my favorite so far ❤),
1- take responsibility.
Merciii Mark :)
Greetings from Morocco
A woman who can follow these will be a treasure for herself and to others.I really appreciate the way you explained self esteem.thank you very much.
Thanks Mourmita - what a beautiful comment xx
I like this concept the most // making ur life better rather than trying to make people like u temporarily
Alissa Mitchell it's so so important! I make sure I'm working with all my clients on consistent/permanent change in themselves (change they love) so that the confidence they build and results they get are permanent. Yes it's harder with more struggle, but it leads to permanent increases in self esteem that a simple
Trick simply can't achieve
You are so good in all aspects of just living a good life--not just dating. I applaud you as a person, such common sense and just thoughtful advice. I like how you present all of your advice--just come right out and say it. Anyhow just wanted you to know how helpful you truly are. Thank you so much, Mark
Thankyou so much Dianne - that's absolutely lovely of you xx
I NEVER LEAVE COMMENTS ONLINE BUT I HAD TO JUST LET YOU KNOW THAT, YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB. TRUTH IN THE MOST PRACTICAL AND SIMPLE TO UNDERSTAND WAY. KUDOS!!
Thanks so much Leisi! I'm glad you appreciate my videos.
I actually watch his videos more to restore my faith in manhood than for any other reason
I love this video! I recently got out of a 9 year toxic relationship with way more downs than ups. I lost myself in this time but I also became a mother. I realized that I was setting a really poor example for my 4 year old daughter. So I lost the extra weight that bothered me, I graduated with my RN degree and kicked out that toxic man. Now I am trying to rediscover what I want with my life. Finding a new partner is a small part of it. I absolutely love your videos. I have been watching them after my daughter goes to bed and really enjoying them. All your videos on toxic relationships/men and narcissistic men hit the nail right on the head. My ex was all of those things...so beware ladies and avoid them, they suck you in like a black hole. Thank you Mark for making these wonderful videos!!
Again, creative and empowering advice that specifically focuses on developing the individual as a means to cultivating one's life or relationships. The messages of our modern society emphasize externals...appearance, money, influence as the mechanisms of attaining what you want. Kudos to you Mark...you are a true advocate for women in such risky areas of their lives, where they are often met with violence or abuse...intimate relationships. Thank you for teaching women how to best navigate this emotional terrain!
That's a beautiful comment... thankyou Ithaca
You are very welcome. Wonderful message, always bringing the focus back to the individual.. a powerful way to course-correct when one is feeling powerless, frustrated or unfulfilled in relationships...turn the focus inward, which organically helps one to detach from unhealthy patterns or dependencies and re-examine. Great work, thanks for sharing with us!
I’ve been watching your videos now for a while and i feel like your name ‘Make him yours’ sells you/your brand short! In your videos, you talk about so much more; about how to become a powerful woman and human being. I have learned a lot from you, and yes it mainly focusses on my love life, however I feel like the topics you talk about are so much broader applicable! I would rename your brand: Empower yourself. 😘 just a compliment I wanted to pass on!
Giving and receiving love. Bringing something to the table. Building a life you love... will definitely attract what you want. Have to know what you want too.
Great advice again.
Thank you so much ♡
Much love Sherene, thankyou for saying so xx
Out of all the dating/self improvement videos that pops in my feed, this may just be the most realistic, positive and authentic message for women that Ive come across. So in line with what I personally believe as a christian and as someone embracing feminity as my worldview. That women striving to become their bestest, most authentic and most positive version of themselves and with all their relationships.
Thank you for your message.
Mabuhay! More power!
From the Philippines :)
Another right on video! By embracing our differences and daring to be different we make ourselves unique and interesting...low minded people will automaticly not be attracted to us but high minded quality people will.
Agreed, Ana Kerner! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Amazing! You are inspiring woman around the world, I have seen many dating coaches but you are by far the best!
That's so lovely of you to say Lauren. Honestly I'm happy with them having the big followings while we're just over here doing our thang :)
Lauren Aldred I agree!!
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Lauren Aldred I
Lauren Aldred woman????
Hi Mark, this is the first youtube video that makes me cry. I have not been doing any of those 10 things for many years because of depression and my BF is fed up with it, because he was then being put into carer role instead of BF role and he is absolutely exhausted and numb.
We are on a break for a month now (I also watched your videos about giving space) and I am afraid that in the end, he'd want to break up for good. Rewatching your videos about giving space helps a lot to calm me down and giving me things to do.
I just wished I found your vids, tutorials and writings before I even met my BF.
As much as I have loved your advice so far, this is the strongest video to date. Very thought-provoking and honest. At times when we're working on conquering our challenges, it will be a great reminder to stay on the right path. The only thing that I'd add to this is the importance of practicing effective communication, verbal and non-verbal. Having gone through a few relationships that have suffered from lacking communication and poor listening, I realized it's a crucial skill in love, work and life in general.
Thanks so much for your awesome work xo
Thanks Olena - that's so lovely of you to say. I really appreciate that. Hopefully I can keep up the good vids for you :) Agree muchly on practising your communication.
Hey Mark, i love how you're coaching to build & love our lives for us, not just to get a guy.. Honestly its refreshing & thank you!!
Thank you Mark! I need to take responsibility of my life because I'm living a life I don't like since 2007.
Sounds like that's going to be really important for you moving forward Han x
You are on fire with these vids. Take care of yourself and thanks.
Thanks N P. Don't want to set the bar too high for myself haha so I'm sure I'll bring out a dud soon ;) Still, just enjoying the whole process
Wowww Mark you just blew me away in the end with number 1 - take responsibility and how u wrapped it up in the end! You snaaaaped 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯💯💯 Your The Best!
Great Mark.
I especially related to number five. During an ugly divorce I started what I called a first list instead of bucket list. Mostly just small things I had never done such as going to a comedy club and things like that. It was a great way to get out with friends and put the nastiness aside for awhile. In a short time I was able to strike several things off of the list and also work on what has become great friendships. After a stroke back in 2013, I have some disabilities that are probably a little scary for potential men in my life but I'm still working on it and myself.
Nice Lisa Verbosky! - glad you're empowering yourself and feeling happy where you're at xx
Wow, hands down a great list. I am coming from this place and feel like my whole perspective has shifted for the better. Thank you.
Thanks Photo gal - really pleased to hear
I missed your videos handsome!
It's been a little long since i watched one of them,but i will do it now...
Great and helpful subject as always!
Kisses!
Zomg Morticia I wondered what had happened to you!
YOUR GREAT. I DONT USUAL, SEARCH THESE TYPE OF VIDEOS. IM SEEKING A CERTAIN KNOWLEDGE. I WATCHED A FEW PPL MEN/WOMEN, WHO TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIP MATTERS. YOU ARE THE ONE OUT OF ALL, I AGREED WITH THE MOST. YOUR SO ON POINT AND IN TOUCH, REALISTICALLY. CONGRATS, FRIEND.
THANKS NITTY. i APPRECIATE THAT. LET'S NOT YELL AT EACH OTHER THOUGH SHALL WE? ;)
A life i love to have is just simple. I just wana be surrounded by people who will love me for who i am and what i am.
If you're vibing the energy off of that, men will certainly be attracted to it :)
Powerful ideas. Please do keep them coming . Knowledge is power.
Thank you
Wonderful video ! It's so important and so right ! You have to believe in yourself and try to do your best! To make your life attractive and motivate yourself.. To be the best version of yourself and to be happy! After all, no one will love you, unless you really love what you are! The right one is going to come .. when it's the right time :)Mark, you are amazing ! And your advices are so inspirational ! Thank u !
That's such a lovely comment Vessy - thanks for posting it :)
Thank you! I love your style of communicating and the advice you give. I'm so glad I found you at a time where I really needed to be reminded to make myself a priority, and not the guy who isn't making me his priority.
I'd rather define responsibility not as the circumstances have no influence on your situation at all, like you can be whoever and do whatever you want, but rather that within that given situation I can still be "able to respond" about what I'm going to do about it... b/c to make it appear as if circumstances are kind of nothing is kind of condescending about what ppl have had to endure... we don't know and we don't stick in their skin...
But again: great video, Mark, thanks for putting everything together in a very positive way to give us women guidelines :)...
Thanks Mssummer :) Appreciate the thought out feedback
This is probably the most uplifting, helpful, insightful video I have seen in ages. Thank you so much!
Hii Mark!!! Great video... I love this video and all the advices...
Goodluck for your next video...
Thanks Harseeta - looking forward to bringing the next one out for you soon
Thank you. The more you teach me the more I understand:) its not complicated anymore.
My pleasure, Genevieve's travels! Really glad you're getting something from my content. Thanks so much! x
Fantastic - no. 1 is so true - I am working on me in all areas - thank you Mark x
That's great - thanks Heather :)
Amen to ALL of this, especially the third point! This is a mistake I've made [and still make, and it's something I want to stop doing]. Thank you so much for sharing, Mark. Blessed Be!
Ohh sweet lord! I am Totally in awestruck with your genuine and meaningful advices. I just want to hear to your speech again again....it is inspiring me, I have never came across such naturally simple person with great potential😍and of course those eyes speak so calm n mesmerising 😇
Thank you for helping believe in ones potential and encouraging to be a better person. Your videos are so inspiring.
Thanks Kat - very much appreciate that.
thank you, Mark. I wish someone could appear in your life, when you most need them, like you and your channel appeared in my feed. 💛
My pleasure Emili. Glad that you're enjoying the videos and hope you got something out of it. xx
I’m 59 . I have dated and been married . Raised my kids real well. Now I’m wanting to spend the next 50 , How I want it !! I ran a Lingerie company and have worked w/ male dancers & female . And you are like the few that found the great benefits of seeing how attraction , sensuality the animal instincts are raw . The essence..I’ve had no problem attracting , it’s what and who why when ... wow , whatthehell ! Thank you for your words . Boundaries!!!
I like this guy! Very positive.
Simply amazing videos. I have trouble with having a low self esteem. But I'm really working on trying new things, and just coming out of my comfort zone. I think sometimes, it comes from really bad relationships. My friend now really keeps me positive. Thank you for your great videos.I'm definitely going to keep watching.
WOW ..Simply Wow Rosen! I enjoy your all videos!!!You are the best..Lots of love you dear!!!! One day I surely meet you!stay beautiful and Blessed!
Arrw that's such a beautiful comment, Eliza. Thanks! Great to have you on the channel xx
Everything you said is on point. Thank you for sharing such great advice. And this applies not just for attracting men. But, just being happy with one's self and one's life.
Omg you have opened my eyes and are helping me tremendously thank you so much Mark.
Mark, I like your warm energy and thoughts, specially the little scenes in your videos. We all learn more through model than theory I believe. Big thanx for your effort!
I watched few videos and I couldnt find an answer to this question:
- As you say its not necessary to get angry when it comes to boundaries. In my case Im spirit and I can get angry if I see disrespect or other negative behavior. Of course it depends on the situation, but how can I express my personality in a genuine way? Im not perfect and I also want to be accepted in all my "collors". I often hear that to act from love aboundance is better, but at the same time I dont want to hide or suppress my feelings. And by the way many people take the being nice as a weekness. How to find a good balance (in relationsships)?
Muska good question. Feelings are generated by thoughts, so if you are looking to get a better handle on your emotion, what it's really about is getting a better handle on your thoughts.
Thank you Mark I will follow your advice my self esteem is definitely something i definitely want to work harder on and be confident and love myself more and I feel I know what I have to do now
You are the best dating coach ever
U motivate me & my dating life got better inspired by u.. Keep spreading positive stuffs..👍👏
I love all your advices Mark! Thank you so much ❤️
Thanks Lidia - so great to have you on my channel
Great advice as always Mark, especially 1 and 2.
Thanks Kay - appreciate that a lot :)
I'm so so grateful I found your channel! 💜 Thank you again Mark!
hello Rosen! I am in love with your tips...WOW...go with the good job.Take Care.
Arw thanks Eliza! What a lovely message xx
I loved this. Your videos are always great, but this one is most helpful to me because of where I'm at in my life. Since watching your videos, I've had a more positive and knowledgeable insight on dating. Especially men. I don't hate them anymore. I have a better understanding of men thanks to you. And now things are slowly getting better in my life. Thank you 😊👏🤘
That's great Brianna - thanks for watching and commenting!
Great advice. There are quite a few things I need to work on here. thanks Mark
Thanks Pam :)
Thank you Mark, this video is really amazing and it's all about self love XXx
Thank you and great video...I appreciate that you talk such a wide variety of situations and examples...kinda scary that I relate to so many of them. But you making these videos help so many women and even men, I'm just in a state anymore that I don't really think I'm meant to have a life like that. I'd feel guilty with pulling someone into all of my situations, so I'm left wanting but not know what i should do
This is the first time that I commented on a video. Love this video! God bless
I like this video a lot. Thank you Mark!!
Thank you mark such a wonderfull thoughts..its gives me more strenght how be positive all the time despite of distance from my partner and family..😊
so glad you! made a channel great bucket list achievement Mark as always a great video!
Thanks Sarah - glad I did too and great to have you on here
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Thank you for your work Mark. You are certainly one of the best in what you do. Keep it up! Ps watching your videos is even more pleasant because you are so handsome :)
thanks for sharing this tips that will make us a better person.. more power to you and God bless 😊
Thanks Edna really appreciate you saying that. Thanks for watching and enjoying my channel :)
Great video Mark!!! Very inspiring.
Thanks Leslie
Im a pro at self care, beauty and being healthy physically, but am not great at the mindfulness thing. My bucket list is full of travel, but self esteem is really hard as I had low self esteem as a teenager. It's gotten better as an adult but still lower than normal
Thank you, Mark! I am binge watching your videos 😀
Yuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuus thankyou Ludas love a good binge watch
I absolutely love your #1 way to be more attractive! Nothing bugs me more than a victim mentality...and it's been an epidemic in America for a while now. Nothing hinders you more than thinking you can blame others for where you are in life....and no one really wants to be around that kind of pessimism and weakness.
Ahh couldn't agree more Shauna. I LOVE what Mark Manson said about this. "Often, it's not your fault, but it IS your responsibility".
Thank you mark so helpful very well said ... 😚
Mark I am learning so much from you... you talk about health ...but what if you do have some health problems
great videos and advices mark.,thank you.
Thankyou Lezah xx
I looooove your videos a lot. Thanks for your hard work . I wish i can meet you someday !
Excellent video! You're great!
Thank you Mark! Adriana BCN
Thankyou Adri!
U always give such a helpful advice!!!!! Love u !!!
Thanks Ira :)
You are so awesome Mark Thankyou so
such a great topic, keep going, mark！
Great tips as always,could you perhaps do a video on making new friends when you're in you're 30s?
I agree all. Dignity is very important
Thanks Hoa! Come join me in our Facebook group (if you have Facebook). Appreciate you watching!
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Mark x
just subscribed and have been watching your videos all night!! def doing some of these w my man tomorrow :))) thank ya boo❤️
Much love Madison - so good to hear my little channel has helped you out :)
I really appreicate your no.1 point, it's very true and important. I don't think ppl recognize what a relationship is, as in codependamce, independence and interdependence, as a techie I find it's important to understand the structure of a healthy relation.
Thanks Jillianne - couldn't agree more. That's great that your teaching messages like this to your students
This is social media, where ppl share information. I don't have students, I'm just an intellectual.
Your the best coach and I love to watch and listen all your videos 😍😘it gives more knowledge on every woman , really inspiring. 💁❤👍👏
Arw, such a lovely comment! really appreciate it Mel Grace. Thanks so much for watching and commenting xx
I'm in a long distance relationship now. I've watch lot of your video and it really helps me. I admit it's very hard for me to commit this kind of relationship coz its new for me.. And I did some stupid things that I think make him turn off with me that Is why I am looking for some tips on how to handle this kind of relationship.. And I'm lucky to found all ur videos.. Thank you so much 😍😱😘
So motivational, love your videos 💚💚
Thaaaaaankyou Mehedi - much love to you. Thanks for supporting what I do. Mark x
Great video Mark.. I am back, and lets dating again.
Thank you for all your video mark.
Thank you for this video Mark, definitely true guidance...❤️
Great to hear that, Lourdes Kraetschmann. Happy to help! 😊
Really healing advice. Beautiful
Mark thank you so much❤️
I am sure the women out there just love this guy. And I as a man do too. I have a man. 100% man. All man. And yes we have had issues. I was with my partner for 20 years. Now with this new partner if you may is totally different. We have been on and off for 2 years and just spilt 2 months ago. He can’t stop and i can’t either. So watching these video’s gives me points to work on in our relationship too. Maybe one day we will get back together. We both realize it takes 2 to fuss and argue. And we really want to work on the relationship and make it work. And I am learning more and more from these video’s.
ure the best . I see other coach too but when me see ur video , ill attach for it.
Mark - thank you so much for this channel, it's really helped me in dating, and just in general my overall confidence building. I've found myself in a place where I'm much happier and I'm dating multiple people and you're right, it really works. But what happens when I'm dating a few different guys, and I finally decide on one I want to commit to, how should I tell the other men I'm dating that I'm exclusive to someone else without coming off rude and remain high value?
Hey Kiki - great question. Thanks for supporting my channel the way you have :) Yep, it's not easy but it has to be done - ideally in person but atleast over the phone.
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Those should help you :)
I lack so many things but one thing I’m embarrassed to reveal to any guy I would date is that I have no friends. I’m ashamed of many other things in my life but this one is the most humiliating . I’m afraid it’s going to scare him away if none of the other things don’t .
Good point about quiet enforcement of boundaries, but how would you address if someone then considers that "passive aggressive"?
Your videos are just on point! 💯 love them! ❤
Thanks La Nana x
Loved Your Video, Thank You.
Thanks Catherine
I love this ❤️ thank you Mark, I learn a lot.
Thanks Thananphorn - really glad you liked it!
Hey, Mark! First of all, I want to thank you for all the support and help you give to women, you do great. But, I have a question.. most of the time you speak of how to attract the right guy without playing silly games, so therefore, what about when you already have him? When you're both in love, you give yourself fully to each other.. how do you know when it is too much? Is there a limit into the support you can offer him or yourself? How to avoid being too clingy... etc.
Good question Prob! I'm excited to do many more videos on this, but absolutely, anything can go too far, including support BF/benefits etc... Healthy space leaves room for attraction and if you give up doing all the great things that attracted him in the first place, he's eventually likely to tire.
Here's a video on this...
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(more on this topic to come)
Another by one of my all time faaaaaavourite speakers...
www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship
And interestingly, here is one that's also useful that might surprise you.
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When you're getting this right, your man doesn't have to go away to have a chance to miss you. It will happen most days and weeks as a normal part of the ebb and flow of your relationship.
Thank you! I will be looking into all of them.
I love you 😊 you're awesome!!! Thank you, exactly what I need to hear. 🤔Motivated!!!!
How did you become so wise? You make me think .. those originally drawn to veterinary medicine... i really admire. This has nothing to do with veterinary medicine, but I'm noticing some of the wisest people work in that field. Thinking of Dr. Bob, Danielle, Dr. Emily, & Jenelle 💜💜💜
1:08 the way he says number niiiine
I have a question Mark... I am pretty well stuck in a loooooong term relationship because we have so many children together, but every time I try to take care of myself and put my needs first, he either sighs, eyerolls, or criticises me and my choices. I work so hard on improving myself every day, even with such little support. Why do you think he acts like this? I think he cares for me, when I'm so close to the situation, I find it difficult to discern whether this is love or simply co_dependency. A video idea perhaps? 🙋 Thanks Mark... Fellow Aussie, feeling super proud of your work here! 👌💜
I'll put this in Ask Mark Miss M - though I'm not sure when because I'm overloaded with questions. Thankyou though!
Thanks for all your sharing.
This is great!!! thanks mark
Thanks Ashley
that so great, mark you are helping us much thank u mrk
Thanks Nagham - I loved this vid and had a lot of fun filming it, so glad to hear you enjoyed it
i needed this advice! Thank you!
Cheers Sha - real glad you enjoyed it x
Wow Mark keeep on its so interesting I love you Vids ''x''s