My hope and prayer is for all of us to live our best life from here on, for healed hearts, to continue to learn and grow, to have new hopes and dreams to live for and to have our hearts' desires. It's an on-going process and it's a good journey. God bless you Andrew and everyone in here. Thank you.
I love reading the comments and knowing there are so many loving and articulate people out there. I am house bound due to age and arthritis so you are doing a good deed to share. I too am on the path. My love goes out to you all. I am 80 yrs old. I'm doing it and so can you.
Thank you Andrew! This is absolutely true. REMEMBER EVERYONE: A narcissist is a man or a woman who treats their relationships with others as if they were robbing a bank. Because in your case sadly - they literally were. Fortunately you can generate your own gold (life force) and replace what you were tricked out of. The fact that you were worth being robbed speaks volumes about your beauty. You will get through this! 👊🏼 Love you all
The ashes of a fire 🌳 bring the prettiest green in the entire forest. 🙏🏼 I expect to be growing and rising up like an oak… for a long time. I’m so thankful for time.
I look at the last decade as the most pivotal faze of not only the breaking down of myself, but the rebuilding of my mind and spirit in a stronger way. I am appreciative each day for this day and more time that many don't have.
@@sinceresong9907 I agree 💯 Sincere. I wake up each morning with renewed purpose and excitement to see where my day will take me. Understanding that each day is a God given gift exemplifies the fact that we continue to grow and heal. Have a blessed day. I had a lightbulb moment this morning that made me smile. There is so much good in all of our lives as we continue to move forward on the healing path. 🙏❤️🙏
@@christine11347 Totally..definitely signifys the stage of the healing journey . A healthy projection and relationship with one's surroundings and one's self. ♥ Well done 👏🏼 You behold all need to keep going forward in grace and faith.
The biggest awakening for me was taking back my own truth , something I had blindly allowed them to define for me for so many years ! It is always such a collosal shock when you finally realize that you have , in essence , been played by them for so long , you feel stupid and depressed . It is sad to think we gave ourselves so totally , to someone who is so divisive and manipulating . However it is NEVER too late to start again , the main thing is that you learn from your misplaced trust , and continue to grow and move forward . We won't always get things right , but our mistakes can be used as the stepping stones to a much brighter place ! 💪🙏🙏
Every day I still have to pinch myself to remember that they are actually gone ! We should never downplay the achievement , and also remember to give ourselves the occasional pat in the back to have come this far ! This self acknowledgement is so empowering and it also gives us the strength we need to cope with any future narc encounters ! One small step for an empath ,...one giant leap for empathic kind ! 💪💪😎
I have to dig so deep ....Years of abuse in relationships.....Had a relationship for 4 years ,She has gastric bypass and left me right after...Married my high school teammate.....Had another relationship where the woman has a child on me......And this recent relationship, all the years of hurt caught up with me.......I truly on the path of healing.... 🌹
It took 4 therapists for me. I'm on my 5th and FINALLY a therapist who gets narcissistic abuse and I've made some huge strides.🏃♀️ It's not easy to find the right help for what has happened to most of us... and yes, there were many dark times. But there's hope and light on the other side! Stay strong everyone and thank you Andrew for the validating comments!🙏🏻💪
Yes that's true they will tell me get over it you know it's not that easy it's been 8 years and I'm still having nightmare and I wake up with that feeling of rejection and all that hell that I went through
All I knew was most members of my family seemed jealous of me and hated me even though I was a nice and loving individual. When I discovered it was narcissism, it opened me up to a whole new life. I was sometimes even suicidal at the worst moments, but thankfully that's in the past now.
God bless you ❤ the narcisists care only about themselves. They are ultimately lonely and desperate. They will remain so unless they transcend their pain, look up to God and voluntarily bear their cross.
I was a teenager my friends would say what do your parents always treat you this way I didn't know it but I had a narcissistic mother involved in this situation now I have a husband and a daughter the same way I believe my son is married into it the way I have
It's a game changer when that veil finally comes off for people like me or you. But thankfully people like Andrew and many other wonderful channels on this topic--- plus comments like yours and many others--- are exposing this hidden abuse that's been going on all along. As as a result, toxic people are either being discarded from, or being minimized from my life. Like Andrew has said in many videos, "We now have the education to deal with this stuff! " Thank you for that, Andrew! I couldn't have done it better myself. Standing on the shoulders of giants who have been through it before has really helped me be my best self and my authentic self again as well. Now instead of just ruminating, I'm starting to see positive results of clearing the toxic clutter that used to take up certain areas of my life. I feel lighter on my feet and a bounce in my step (well, in the heterosexual way, hahaha.. as they say in Seinfeld, "Not that there's anything wrong with that!")
This is so true. Rising up out of the ashes is a beautiful thing. You can breathe again, enjoy life again, plan again. The door is open. Your door. And like you said Andrew, it takes time. NO CONTACT comes healing. Life is to be enjoyed, not feared with a narcissist.
That’s a beautiful image of when an abused empath opens the door of their monster house to a sea of other empaths standing outside & smiling/beckoning for the abused one to step out with them. :)
Because I experienced 57 years of narcissistic abuse I figured out it was far easier for me to research study & learn how to be my own therapist than to spend billable hours describing what I’d been through TO a therapist. The main thing to remember is to be humble & brutally honest about yourself to yourself. And remember it’s all about healing you and addressing your choices NOT about changing anyone else.🥰
The recent hoover ( after 20 years) for a couple of exchanges, instantly wired me up. Like taking a hit of a drug after long curing the addiction. I shut off communication ( no contact ) and still have to downshift. The person never changed.
Andrew, I can’t believe that you are less than two years out from your own narcissistic horror and you are already such an inspiration to so many others. It took me 20 years to finally become awake and it remains a struggle that gets better every day thanks to you. I think you must be one of those “super empaths” that I have been reading about and aspire to be. Your compassion and empathy for others is apparent with every word you say. Thanks so much for spending so much of your time to help others.
My trauma therapist helped me tremendously to gradually get out of the brain fog after I got out of the narcissistic relationship. I hope other people find a good trauma therapist to help with the healing journey. Trauma therapists are very knowledgeable and very helpful in recovery from a narcissistic relationship. We have to do the inner work day by day to recover. 🙏 ❤️
Oh my gosh, that about brought me to tears when you mentioned we opened the door, and all of "us" were there. "WE" were there; the people that didn't know. The people that tried so hard to navigate this. The people who can understand each other. I am working with a therapist who is a guru in their own right on this subject, and there are moments of complete understanding. There is so much relief that I don't have to explain endlessly. There are many compounding points of interest that made my situation with the narcissist more difficult, painful, and devastating. It definitely helps to speak with someone who is knowledgeable on the subject AND can help you process the experience so you can see and know better days. The "good" things are still possible. Still possible.
Surviving narscistic abuse is a blessing. It's the choices we make after we close the door on the past and walk through the door of the present that really determines our future. My journey has been transformational physically, mentally and spiritually. I thank God everyday that I wake up full of gratitude and love for myself. I look at my second chance as an opportunity of a lifetime. I continue to better myself every day in every way and I will NEVER stop. As I was watching this video I kept thinking the ex narc could never handle the new me and that's a good thing. I am so different! I have so many new unique qualities about me that I absolutely love. I have come so far and I could not be any prouder. The path is not linear and it is long, but it is so worth it. I continue to seek new ways to better myself each day and the time and commitment continues to allow me to keep soaring to new heights. Sending prayers of healing and hope to this community. Believe in yourselves and know that better days are coming if you keep moving forward on the path. 🙏✨💪🕊️💛💯👏
@@EP61 I am so glad. Life is amazing. We just have to be open to living it. Having the best morning and your comment even made it even brighter. I encourage everyone to turn up the music, jam out and just celebrate all the blessings of the day. It truly pumps you up and gives you the energy needed to start the day off with a bang 🎉🎇🎆💛💪
This is the best channel on this subject. By far. The presenter really understands this illness. I was on the receiving end of this dilemma. Just coming out now. Getting my energy back slowly.
First class, thank you Andrew. The hyper vigilance i had during the narcissistic relationship was so debilitating and exhausting. The abuse is vile and wicked. The first few weeks out are crucifying but you do get there! I am progressing, improving daily but noticeably my energy levels are rising substantially - a revelation, work to do yet but god bless anyone who is going through this. 🙏💙🙏
@@livingforfree2 I’d love to tell you a time x you’ll just have to sit with it x educate yourself and try and keep to your routine x get up shower tidy up etc x get some small goals that are important to you behind you x please believe that it will get better in time and you might have awful days especially in the beginning as it is mind bending to realise there are people out there like this x hugs x
Another great video , Andrew ! To all those still struggling out there , perhaps post discard , all I can say is BABYSTEPS ! Its taken me a year and a half to find my true power and inner peace , and it feels great ! Don't get me wrong , it's a really long process , but you WILL get there , eventually ! There are times when you might feel lonely or at a loss , but this is only because the drama has gone , and what you are actually feeling is PEACE ! There is no shame in solitude , when you are truly free 💪😎😎
This is a really good video. Thank you. I've never found a therapist who could help me - they had NO IDEA what I'd been through, and didn't want to know. They usually end up blaming the victim or getting frustrated with you. Or worse, making you pretend you're fine so they therapist will feel better. They play on your codependent nature or the fact that you were brainwashed to rescue or need to please the narcissist too.
So crazy how low a narcissistic relationship takes you. The last 5 months have been the darkest days of my life, but I’ve gotten myself back everyday and enjoying MY life instead of being an extension of Satan’s. I’m getting better every day thank God!
Every drop of information you share I'm using to rebuild myself. I feel like I finally have a friend when I'm here on your channel. All of the people here are wonderful people. Thank you Andrew. For everything! 😊💜
I have to thank you for sharing these videos every single day. I’ve been binging your video entries for days now and I’m learning more about narcissists and empathy than I have ever in my life and I thought I had a good idea. You are a shining bright lantern leading so many people to become the same, who they are deep down inside that they’ve forgotten. We appreciate you and return the love you give us back to you ten fold! 💎♥️🤍♥️💎 Thank you Andrew. Your channel name does justice to what you’ve done for me, made me feel less alone. Blessings!
Thank you Andrew, you helped me in that, in about two months of your help. That process took actually two and half years. I started watching chanells, a woman from Belgrade ( Neda Ras, with her personal experience, her book and her smile ) helped at the beginning, rest of channels didn't help me ( english, german ). I needed persons with experiences and not psychologists. Your channel is absolutely the best, thank you forewer. 🌈
I can't believe it, Andrew. Here you are, thousands of miles away, and you've read my mind. 🥰I wore an invisible badge marked "devoured" for years. That's what it felt like. No therapy...too ashamed...and then I accidentally ran into the "N" word. Imagine my shock...the evil I knew so well had a name! Wow. And now I know where I am, who I am, and at last...where I'm going, thanks to your good teaching. I think this is my favorite video so far; better than a college lecture, for sure; good words to help us find our way back to sanity. Blessings on you! 😇🙏
Thank you Andrew for giving us all a platform to be able to release our frustrations. I have been with a narcissist from the beginning of my life. I never could even see my way out. I’m still working things out.
Tony for things to change she’ll have to want to change . Your going to exhaust yourself if your not already . If she doesn’t want to change you got to leave . Life’s short .
Thanks for caring, Andrew! 👍🏼 On-the-dot! 👍🏼 I find that the self-absorbed narcissistic individual is exhausting. Now, when I happen upon an exhausting individual I now know to do my best to avoid them. Focusing on my own tasks and activities is far more important and pleasant than dealing with the self-absorbed. 🙏 🎶 🕯 🎶 🙏
This is why I have a Phoenix tattoo, a reminder of rising from the ashes. It’s a very lonely process, but on some level the awakening is rewarding. Time may never completely heal the wounds, but I’m getting used to the scars. Small steps of progress … flashbacks are part of the work unfortunately for me, but so draining. It’s been a lifetime of x3 narcs over 50 years, mother, husband of 20 years & boyfriend of 7 years. Now it’s my turn to live! Thanks for your videos 🤗
The visual image you painted just now…wow. The door to the house of isolation and confusion opening to reveal this family of kindred spirits journeying together on a path of awareness and restoration. The value of community is incomprehensible. I can only say thank you, but it doesn’t seem enough. Thank you, kind and amazingly helpful teacher for those who escaped the house and those who struggle to not get lured back in. Andrew, the Universe has given you a noble task and you are a blessing.
I grew up in an African tribe and glad to have found Andrew's tribe as I heal with all of you; awakened from work setting relationship that combined procedural power with NPD control. Everything clicks now. I found new energy, went to the gym in 10 years !
Andrew I’m so excited for you because I can see that your ready to take on the world again , a brand new, stronger, informed, healthier, happier YOU . You did that . It’s nearly time to fly 🌸
We had no idea such evil exists. We worked so hard to enjoy a good happy time & believed in a good life together. The day we wake up, we have the lightbulb moment, is the day we find our way back to ourselves. With knowledge we get back on our feet & we realize that it is not us, who are off, but we were manipulated into a dark maze. Sadly the people who know the narcissist since a longer time, their family or so-called friends, knew from day one we were gonna be duped. They have seen that movie play many times. We do not have to play any.part in those lowbudget-lousy movies anymore. We can work to become the star in our own movie. Yep, lets become a shiny star again & twinkle happily ever after💫⭐💫
It’s been 2 years. I’m finally coming out of the fog. Your content has really helped. I knew nothing about narcissism before this last relationship. Now I’m fully outfitted in protective gear and well armed. Soldier on survivors! ❤️
I’m still drained and I’ve been out of it for 2 years but his drama continues through the court and can’t wait for it to be over! I keep a journal every day and I can’t believe what I missed he had me so brainwashed, and I know that they are masters of lying
With my ex drama was dragged out for me too. Financial drama. He owed me money and he got much pleasure in denying payments. I eventually got my money back via pressure from his employer. He helped me. My ex thought that he would get away with it.
When it is over you will feel so good. Hopefully that will be soon for you. I was treated so badly that I though I would die from hurt. I truly met Satan I wouldn’t wish a narcissist on anyone I feel now that I am a stronger person and I have learned the biggest lesson of my life. No contact. It’s the only way to go. Now he doesn’t exist.
Excellent !! Thank U Andrew for sharing this much needed info. I see that narcs try to take our power away. They don't want us to be powerful..they want others to feel powerless and insecure, which is how they feel deep down. But they have a need to devour...always seeking in others what they lack. Today i saw a brochure that had big bold letters that read : YOU ARE IN CONTROL Peace & Namaste
Your videos, information, enlightenment & the epiphany about narcicism were the best things to come out of covid. Thanks Andrew, you're saving lives brother, God Bless you👏, from sunny kzn south africa
It took me 45 years not knowing the word narcisist but knew the toxic behaviour. I am a super empath and my nature is to give those creatures total silence. That worked well for me! Since listening to you Andrew and others, I am on the recovery path. I'm doing very well and watching Karma taking its course.
Also when we had couple counseling through the church that we were brought up in my husband would go up and say it's better now lately because I would conform but he didn't conform he just did the same old stuff and I had to bend over like a willow to make it right by him that's why he always said it's doing better now because of what they said they had no idea what would a minister know about narcissism thank you for being there for us you're very much of an enlightenment everything you say resonance with me completely you had an extreme encounter like I did I believe
The churches need to step up & realize that there are so many narcs in so many of the churches.... God does not expect anyone to serve a life sentence in a marriage or relationship when there is such horrible abuse involved...😔
Thank you for being my community I hope I can follow you always this is a blessing for you being there for people like you and I and others like I said everything you say resonates with me Andrew thank you very much for being there for all of us
Dear Andrew, thank you once more for your presence in my life and I'm sure many, many more lives on this channel. Your words are so sincere and true, sooo true!. You have helped me to understand what I have endured for so many years. I pray that Father God will give me the strength, courage, wisdom and guidance to go forward and live a peaceful, peaceful happy , fulfilled life. Father God bless you, your family and all of us who are determined to live the life we were born to live on this earth. Thank you.
Up until a month ago, I never had a name for this kind of behavior, and wow my life is changing once boundaries are being and is set. Being mindful of others, gray rocking and setting those boundaries is really the foundation of my healing processes.
Thank you as always Andrew for the time and care which you put into your videos. Although being in a Narsscasistic relationship is never a good thing I do believe, there has never been a better time to heal and overcome this because of the volume of information and help now available. It absolutely does take time to overcome abuse and there is no quick fix because of the volume of damage caused. Whilst in a romantic relationship with a narsscasist, my nuro pathways were taken to some unhealthy places and I would for example find solace in the silent treatments because it meant that I had a break from the hyperverbal communication and abuse. This by true definition is not solace and post narsscasistic relationship I needed to spend a lot of time alone in peace and quiet to figure out and assess the best way forward. Acceptance was for me the first crucial and logical step of many. May you always be blessed.
Andrew just looking at it now ! I rose up out of the Ashes ! I'm actually standing on my own , I don't need anyone to validate me but me !!! Thank you for all of the videos ,the examples , the insight , the encouragement to keep pushing and steadfast to our on beliefs and grace to know we are worthy of so much more !!! It's been a good day Andrew . Peace be with you ! 👏👌🙌💪🌹💯
I was with my Narc for 39 years. In the beginning I used to cry to think anybody would Love me & treat me so Good!! But that didn’t last long. I had 3 kids with him & with every one of them he treated me worse!! Time went on I got busy raising the kids, & since he was a truck driver I only had to put up with him on weekends which was bearable. He did call me a lot to see what I was up to. Anyway, he got sick, & then he only worked part time. That’s when the true misery started!!! I haven’t Loved him for at least 20 years, but the kids & grandkids made things tolerable . I wanted to leave but I was too scared, afraid of what he’d do if he caught me. I didn’t want to leave my kids at his mercy either.. Well, that’s how my life has gone until he got Cancer. I helped him through 1 bout of Cancer but since he didn’t quit smoking & do what the Drs. Said I kinda washed my hands of it. Then he got it 2 more times & the 3rd bout took him!! When they pronounced him dead, I felt relief & sorrow for wasting ALL those unhappy years!! My kids are mad at me because I’m not sitting here mourning their father. Granted, I’m not going out or anything, but I can finally breathe in peace!!! In fact, I used to refer to him as my Warden... Am I wrong to feel this way?
Wow! Your words are so inspiring. Thank you for being so genuine and good. Thank you for helping me on my path to healing and trying to love myself. Namaste ❤️
Thank you Andrew for your video. Looking back to last year I was so very fragile. The abuse I allowed myself to become conditioned to was all I knew for over 6 years. I really believed I could never move on without him. That was until I descovered this soulless coward was indeed cheating in me. It was such a blow to what was left of my self worth. But somehow Andrew I did dig deep down and found a tiny piece of dignity left inside me and by God was I holding on to it. Then I found out about Narcissistic Abuse and I began to educate myself on everything we have endured. I came across your videos last Summer Andrew and I just want you to know I would have never rose up from the ashes without your love and devotion to us all. God bless you Andrew. Lisa
Andrew this video was so spot on. It is like someone said ok now let me show you what hidden abuse looks like and shine the light on your relationship. Isolated, yelled at, demeaned, belittled and eventually physically attacked. Zero self esteem. No support, left to be laughed at as he triangulated me with other woman. No physical attention. One sick man. Thank God for your light, God and a good therapist. Not sure if I would be here!
Thank you, I’m at the dark night and you are helping me a lot 🙏 I feel I could die any moment, thank God I have him and a net of strong persons holding me… including you. Thank you so much… I hope for the day I rise again ❤
You always nail it, Andrew! 🔨🙌🎯 Thank you! It's been 5 months and I'm doing so much better lately. I will win! We will all will! Thanks so much for your videos! Namaste 🙏✨💖
Yes Andrew this is a personal journey for each and everyone of us. The process to healing begins when you take one step forward and leave the abusive relationship. Thank you for another encouraging video - we all journey together towards the same goal of healing from the abuse and like the phoenix, we too will rise up from the ashes awakening our innermost self, to freedom and peace, as God intended for us to be. It's painful but we are surrounded by God's protection and love i - we are not alone! God keep us strong and bless us all.
Thank you so much Andrew😇. Your videos and being part of this community sharing with others that truly understand has been a starting point for me to to start recovering. Also doing the work as mentioned...thank you for your truthful insights everyday and to everybody on this channel. We are not alone!😊🤍
Your such a beautiful person for what you do, and listening to this has helped me realise how far I've come on this journey, but still dealing with this from someone else
Thank you Andrew we were never truly loved by the narc's the knowledge we have now it's making us grow and we are becoming stronger I love your insight we love you Andrew and thank you 💙
Prayers to everyone. Allergic to Drama. I do what is my nature! The Sun always shines and if u stay long enough u might get burned,,, as I have experienced. So you deal with it , brush away ashes and move on! Thank you, appreciate your message. God Bless
Thank you for this message today it’s amazing when your healing and you realize all of us are SPECIAL and we were “CHOSEN” for a reason🙏🏽 then I realize during my healing journey messages like yours today to come from nowhere or throughout the people in your life ❤️ U are a gift 🎁
You are great Andrew. I’m sure you are helping a lot if people. Glad I subscribed to your channel. I am healed took a while. Been watching videos on TH-cam for 3 years. It literally saved my life
Thank you, Andrew so much for clarifying so many terrifying tiring moments of absolute chaos created by manipulation of empty coward, evil destructive personality who tried to make me what he really is: worthless, tragic, lost manipulator. Thank you so much for saving me from hell of illusions & imaginary lies. In other words, thank you for saving my life! ❤️❤️❤️♾
Once again so correct Andrew and thank you for your time in the education you give us it’s a crazy path we all take with good intentions I’m so relieved that I wasn’t alone I would have gone insane my life has changed completely over the last few months all for the better with your help in understanding how the narcs operate total freedom from the abuse and it does take time time is they key but understanding also I’m nearly Wer I want to be it is hard to make that jump but also you feel better thanks again mate ✌🏽😎
I'm so glad I found your channel! I'm bouncing out of this in a couple of months once my finances finish clicking into place. It's funny, this journey. Last July when tsunami of narc craziness hit, I was just so confused, sad and just ruminating myself into circles alone, I needed some kind of hope. I went on TH-cam and watched some of Tyler Perry's inspirational speeches, which were a balm. Then, the strangest thing happened. I saw a from there a video of Dr. Ramani, which started validating and educating me on what the heck is going on. Then, like a folk dance where you move through the complicated dance, locking arms wi th a new partner that swings you to the next move, I locked arms with Les Carter, then another therapist and another over the months whole I was so stuck in my emotions. It seemed divinely guided. Each new discovery was what I needed to hear to heal a bit more in that time. Now, that I finally made that plan and started to execute it alone still but stronger, I've locked arms with your channel. Your matter-of-fact, calm forthright videos are perfect right now before for the first time since I got in this crumby relationship trap, I feel calm and forthright and just making that new life happen. These videos are giving me that validation of not waivering, not quitting, not making it insurmountable actions, just a to do list of stepping stones to freedom. I encourage anyone going through this stuff to take a sum total of an hour everyday to "Go to school" by watching a couple of these types of videos, write and release your thoughts in a journzl, visualize what you want your life to be, make a simple to do list of how to make it happen and just do one a daay. Anyhow, that's what I'm doing. You can do this!! Thank you for your terrific videos and helping hand. Namaste, Light worker!
I went to therapy for a while to try and figure out things and untangle my brain regarding the narcissist and to be honest it didn't help. What did help was finding a group of other people who had gone through the same thing and talking about our experiences and basically helping and supporting each other. This channel too has helped me more than the therapy did.
Thank for your love and your fabulous education and wisdom about what we have to deal with and how we can thrive. Best channel for empaths and co-dependents. Love from Munich, Germany
Thank u Andrew. This is so on point. I am a Scorpio and our symbols are the Phoenix and the Eagle we always rise from the ashes and soar and our flower is the Lotus blossom we always rise from the muck into a beautiful flower. I was so glad and relieved I left this by educating myself with you and others here on UTube. I am forever grateful ♥️🦂♏
One thing that really hurt was some guy on some clinical video on narcissism saying that weak minded people are very susceptible to narcissism. Like it was my fault. Made me sick. I don't watch his videos anymore. Thanks Andrew. Your videos seem to pop up just when I need to see them. So grateful. Namaste.
Narc is still moving pieces of the game against me, using times with my kids to set me a trap. I cant speak with anybody, cause no one comprehends me. Thats why im sharing here. If i speak to someone they will thought im nuts. Thanks for lending an eye to read me. Thanks Andrew. Be well everybody and dont let narcs ensnare you anymore.
Thank you Andrew. One of the best videos I’ve seen. I love it when you say “I understand “ because you can complain to therapists and friends/family, but only the true victims of narcissistic abuse understand. You get pulled in and tangled in the narcissist’s web. I have done the blocking and unblocking of my phone. I can relate to all of this. I’m stronger now but I have a long way to go. I don’t need tough love. I need the compassion I never got, but readily give to others. Your voice is very soothing. We need calm. It’s like a warm bath after a long hard stressful day. We need self-care and self-focus to recover.
They will geht their Karma Like Any other. I believe in Karma. Maybe they were our Karma cause we were too Kind and blind. But they will geht their Karma too.
Addiction counseling with a trauma counselor and EMDR people who are certified in EMDR will help you grieve through it safely. Seriously helped me Massively. it can get hairy but if you need a break say something. It all clicked just last week and wow just wow.
My hope and prayer is for all of us to live our best life from here on, for healed hearts, to continue to learn and grow, to have new hopes and dreams to live for and to have our hearts' desires. It's an on-going process and it's a good journey. God bless you Andrew and everyone in here. Thank you.
Welcome Donna..💯🙌☀️
God bless you Donna🤗
Absolutely Donna lovely comment ♥
God bless you
I love reading the comments and knowing there are so many loving and articulate people out there. I am house bound due to age and arthritis so you are doing a good deed to share. I too am on the path. My love goes out to you all. I am 80 yrs old. I'm doing it and so can you.
Thank you Andrew! This is absolutely true.
REMEMBER EVERYONE:
A narcissist is a man or a woman who treats their relationships with others as if they were robbing a bank. Because in your case sadly - they literally were.
Fortunately you can generate your own gold (life force) and replace what you were tricked out of. The fact that you were worth being robbed speaks volumes about your beauty.
You will get through this! 👊🏼 Love you all
Thank you for sharing this James..🙌💯🙏
I loved this analogy James! Thank you for sharing it!
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Hello James Steward - 😊
Your comment is priceless!!! Thank you so much for sharing with everyone this eye-opening and validating wisdom!!!
The ashes of a fire 🌳 bring the prettiest green in the entire forest. 🙏🏼 I expect to be growing and rising up like an oak… for a long time. I’m so thankful for time.
Beautiful insight 🙏🙌☀️
Time is such a gift. We have to choose wisely on how we spend it, so we can continue to make the most of it each day💛
I look at the last decade as the most pivotal faze of not only the breaking down of myself, but the rebuilding of my mind and spirit in a stronger way. I am appreciative each day for this day and more time that many don't have.
@@sinceresong9907 I agree 💯 Sincere. I wake up each morning with renewed purpose and excitement to see where my day will take me. Understanding that each day is a God given gift exemplifies the fact that we continue to grow and heal. Have a blessed day. I had a lightbulb moment this morning that made me smile. There is so much good in all of our lives as we continue to move forward on the healing path. 🙏❤️🙏
@@christine11347 Totally..definitely signifys the stage of the healing journey . A healthy projection and relationship with one's surroundings and one's self. ♥ Well done 👏🏼 You behold all need to keep going forward in grace and faith.
Thank you! Love & Light
The biggest awakening for me was taking back my own truth , something I had blindly allowed them to define for me for so many years ! It is always such a collosal shock when you finally realize that you have , in essence , been played by them for so long , you feel stupid and depressed . It is sad to think we gave ourselves so totally , to someone who is so divisive and manipulating . However it is NEVER too late to start again , the main thing is that you learn from your misplaced trust , and continue to grow and move forward . We won't always get things right , but our mistakes can be used as the stepping stones to a much brighter place ! 💪🙏🙏
Beautiful message 🙏💯🙌
Every day I still have to pinch myself to remember that they are actually gone ! We should never downplay the achievement , and also remember to give ourselves the occasional pat in the back to have come this far ! This self acknowledgement is so empowering and it also gives us the strength we need to cope with any future narc encounters ! One small step for an empath ,...one giant leap for empathic kind ! 💪💪😎
Beautiful message The Big H..🙏🙌🙌
I have to dig so deep ....Years of abuse in relationships.....Had a relationship for 4 years ,She has gastric bypass and left me right after...Married my high school teammate.....Had another relationship where the woman has a child on me......And this recent relationship, all the years of hurt caught up with me.......I truly on the path of healing.... 🌹
Hello everyone, have a wonderful day. We're getting stronger. Thank you Andrew.
Welcome Misa..💯🙌☀️
Hi Miss have a lovely day too ☮️🦋
It took 4 therapists for me. I'm on my 5th and FINALLY a therapist who gets narcissistic abuse and I've made some huge strides.🏃♀️ It's not easy to find the right help for what has happened to most of us... and yes, there were many dark times. But there's hope and light on the other side! Stay strong everyone and thank you Andrew for the validating comments!🙏🏻💪
Beautiful insight thank you K Max..🙌💯☀️🙏
Yes that's true they will tell me get over it you know it's not that easy it's been 8 years and I'm still having nightmare and I wake up with that feeling of rejection and all that hell that I went through
All I knew was most members of my family seemed jealous of me and hated me even though I was a nice and loving individual. When I discovered it was narcissism, it opened me up to a whole new life. I was sometimes even suicidal at the worst moments, but thankfully that's in the past now.
Beautiful empowerment 💯💯🙌
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone indeed 👍❤
@Love, Reading Town, UK you are so right, they do ultimately destroy themselves. Thank you for the nice comment, be blessed...
God bless you ❤ the narcisists care only about themselves. They are ultimately lonely and desperate. They will remain so unless they transcend their pain, look up to God and voluntarily bear their cross.
I was a teenager my friends would say what do your parents always treat you this way I didn't know it but I had a narcissistic mother involved in this situation now I have a husband and a daughter the same way I believe my son is married into it the way I have
It's a game changer when that veil finally comes off for people like me or you. But thankfully people like Andrew and many other wonderful channels on this topic--- plus comments like yours and many others--- are exposing this hidden abuse that's been going on all along. As as a result, toxic people are either being discarded from, or being minimized from my life. Like Andrew has said in many videos, "We now have the education to deal with this stuff! "
Thank you for that, Andrew! I couldn't have done it better myself.
Standing on the shoulders of giants who have been through it before has really helped me be my best self and my authentic self again as well.
Now instead of just ruminating, I'm starting to see positive results of clearing the toxic clutter that used to take up certain areas of my life. I feel lighter on my feet and a bounce in my step (well, in the heterosexual way, hahaha.. as they say in Seinfeld, "Not that there's anything wrong with that!")
They never loved you. They loved what you provided~you were just another transaction to them~TY Andrew
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This is so true. Rising up out of the ashes is a beautiful thing. You can breathe again, enjoy life again, plan again. The door is open. Your door. And like you said Andrew, it takes time. NO CONTACT comes healing. Life is to be enjoyed, not feared with a narcissist.
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That’s a beautiful image of when an abused empath opens the door of their monster house to a sea of other empaths standing outside & smiling/beckoning for the abused one to step out with them. :)
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Because I experienced 57 years of narcissistic abuse I figured out it was far easier for me to research study & learn how to be my own therapist than to spend billable hours describing what I’d been through TO a therapist. The main thing to remember is to be humble & brutally honest about yourself to yourself. And remember it’s all about healing you and addressing your choices NOT about changing anyone else.🥰
Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏☀️💯
Does anyone else just feel exhausted even though some time has passed
The recent hoover ( after 20 years) for a couple of exchanges, instantly wired me up. Like taking a hit of
a drug after long curing the addiction. I shut off communication ( no contact ) and still have to downshift.
The person never changed.
Andrew, I can’t believe that you are less than two years out from your own narcissistic horror and you are already such an inspiration to so many others. It took me 20 years to finally become awake and it remains a struggle that gets better every day thanks to you. I think you must be one of those “super empaths” that I have been reading about and aspire to be. Your compassion and empathy for others is apparent with every word you say. Thanks so much for spending so much of your time to help others.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful message Bruuce..🙌💯☀️🙏
My trauma therapist helped me tremendously to gradually get out of the brain fog after I got out of the narcissistic relationship. I hope other people find a good trauma therapist to help with the healing journey. Trauma therapists are very knowledgeable and very helpful in recovery from a narcissistic relationship. We have to do the inner work day by day to recover. 🙏 ❤️
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Oh my gosh, that about brought me to tears when you mentioned we opened the door, and all of "us" were there. "WE" were there; the people that didn't know. The people that tried so hard to navigate this. The people who can understand each other. I am working with a therapist who is a guru in their own right on this subject, and there are moments of complete understanding. There is so much relief that I don't have to explain endlessly. There are many compounding points of interest that made my situation with the narcissist more difficult, painful, and devastating. It definitely helps to speak with someone who is knowledgeable on the subject AND can help you process the experience so you can see and know better days. The "good" things are still possible. Still possible.
Beautiful message thank you AM MJ..☀️🙏🙌
Surviving narscistic abuse is a blessing. It's the choices we make after we close the door on the past and walk through the door of the present that really determines our future. My journey has been transformational physically, mentally and spiritually. I thank God everyday that I wake up full of gratitude and love for myself. I look at my second chance as an opportunity of a lifetime. I continue to better myself every day in every way and I will NEVER stop. As I was watching this video I kept thinking the ex narc could never handle the new me and that's a good thing. I am so different! I have so many new unique qualities about me that I absolutely love. I have come so far and I could not be any prouder. The path is not linear and it is long, but it is so worth it. I continue to seek new ways to better myself each day and the time and commitment continues to allow me to keep soaring to new heights. Sending prayers of healing and hope to this community. Believe in yourselves and know that better days are coming if you keep moving forward on the path. 🙏✨💪🕊️💛💯👏
Christine, your comment is so meaningful to me today. I read it twice. Thanks for these insightful words.
@@EP61 I am so glad. Life is amazing. We just have to be open to living it. Having the best morning and your comment even made it even brighter. I encourage everyone to turn up the music, jam out and just celebrate all the blessings of the day. It truly pumps you up and gives you the energy needed to start the day off with a bang 🎉🎇🎆💛💪
Thank you for sharing this message Christine 🙌💯☀️🙏
This is the best channel on this subject. By far. The presenter really understands this illness. I was on the receiving end of this dilemma. Just coming out now. Getting my energy back slowly.
Thank you for sharing this Mark..🙏💯🙌
First class, thank you Andrew. The hyper vigilance i had during the narcissistic relationship was so debilitating and exhausting. The abuse is vile and wicked. The first few weeks out are crucifying but you do get there! I am progressing, improving daily but noticeably my energy levels are rising substantially - a revelation, work to do yet but god bless anyone who is going through this. 🙏💙🙏
Thank you for sharing this Polly..🙌🙏🙏
How long did it take for u to overcome?
@@livingforfree2 I’d love to tell you a time x you’ll just have to sit with it x educate yourself and try and keep to your routine x get up shower tidy up etc x get some small goals that are important to you behind you x please believe that it will get better in time and you might have awful days especially in the beginning as it is mind bending to realise there are people out there like this x hugs x
Walking on egg shells constantly! More bad days than good. Really, just bread crumbs of occasionally reinforcement from the narc.
Another great video , Andrew ! To all those still struggling out there , perhaps post discard , all I can say is BABYSTEPS ! Its taken me a year and a half to find my true power and inner peace , and it feels great ! Don't get me wrong , it's a really long process , but you WILL get there , eventually ! There are times when you might feel lonely or at a loss , but this is only because the drama has gone , and what you are actually feeling is PEACE ! There is no shame in solitude , when you are truly free 💪😎😎
Fantastic empowering message of inspiration and healing ..💯🙌☀️🙏
Truth 🫂 🙏
This is a really good video. Thank you. I've never found a therapist who could help me - they had NO IDEA what I'd been through, and didn't want to know. They usually end up blaming the victim or getting frustrated with you. Or worse, making you pretend you're fine so they therapist will feel better. They play on your codependent nature or the fact that you were brainwashed to rescue or need to please the narcissist too.
Welcome 🙏 🙌☀️
So true Andrew! You have to call all your love and power back from the Narc and give it to yourself. Such a powerful moment. We are enough…. Namaste
Namaste 🙏
So crazy how low a narcissistic relationship takes you. The last 5 months have been the darkest days of my life, but I’ve gotten myself back everyday and enjoying MY life instead of being an extension of Satan’s. I’m getting better every day thank God!
Sending healing energy 🙌🙏💯
Thank You!
Welcome 🙏
Every drop of information you share I'm using to rebuild myself. I feel like I finally have a friend when I'm here on your channel. All of the people here are wonderful people. Thank you Andrew. For everything! 😊💜
Welcome 🙏 💯🙌
As long as we keep positive and keep moving forward we all are growing in the most High Way! 🙏♥️💃
Yes 💯🙏☀️
I have to thank you for sharing these videos every single day. I’ve been binging your video entries for days now and I’m learning more about narcissists and empathy than I have ever in my life and I thought I had a good idea.
You are a shining bright lantern leading so many people to become the same, who they are deep down inside that they’ve forgotten.
We appreciate you and return the love you give us back to you ten fold! 💎♥️🤍♥️💎
Thank you Andrew. Your channel name does justice to what you’ve done for me, made me feel less alone.
Blessings!
You’re definitely not alone🙏… yeah Andrews a shining star 🌟. Stay strong 💪
🙏Amen 💯
Welcome Cale..🙏🙌☀️
Thank you Andrew, you helped me in that, in about two months of your help. That process took actually two and half years. I started watching chanells, a woman from Belgrade ( Neda Ras, with her personal experience, her book and her smile ) helped at the beginning, rest of channels didn't help me ( english, german ). I needed persons with experiences and not psychologists. Your channel is absolutely the best, thank you forewer. 🌈
Welcome 🙏🙌☀️
I can't believe it, Andrew. Here you are, thousands of miles away, and you've read my mind. 🥰I wore an invisible badge marked "devoured" for years. That's what it felt like. No therapy...too ashamed...and then I accidentally ran into the "N" word. Imagine my shock...the evil I knew so well had a name! Wow. And now I know where I am, who I am, and at last...where I'm going, thanks to your good teaching. I think this is my favorite video so far; better than a college lecture, for sure; good words to help us find our way back to sanity. Blessings on you! 😇🙏
Thank you for sharing this Eloise 🙌🙌☀️
@Love, Reading Town, UK Thank you. That is so encouraging! 🥰
You really have a way with words. Your literally my therapist right now after leaving my narcissistic husband and I appreciate it! Thank you 😌🙏❤️✨♒
Welcome Crystal 💯🙌🙏💪
Thank you Andrew for giving us all a platform to be able to release our frustrations. I have been with a narcissist from the beginning of my life. I never could even see my way out. I’m still working things out.
TY Tony for precise comment
Continue on the path Tony 💯🙏☀️🙌
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Tony for things to change she’ll have to want to change . Your going to exhaust yourself if your not already . If she doesn’t want to change you got to leave . Life’s short .
Thanks for caring, Andrew! 👍🏼 On-the-dot! 👍🏼 I find that the self-absorbed narcissistic individual is exhausting. Now, when I happen upon an exhausting individual I now know to do my best to avoid them. Focusing on my own tasks and activities is far more important and pleasant than dealing with the self-absorbed.
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Welcome Karen..🙏💯☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🎶🙏🎶
Ok! I haven't said this until now. This video was RIGHT ON TIME! Thank you for your dedication!
Welcome 🙌💯☀️
This is why I have a Phoenix tattoo, a reminder of rising from the ashes. It’s a very lonely process, but on some level the awakening is rewarding. Time may never completely heal the wounds, but I’m getting used to the scars. Small steps of progress … flashbacks are part of the work unfortunately for me, but so draining. It’s been a lifetime of x3 narcs over 50 years, mother, husband of 20 years & boyfriend of 7 years. Now it’s my turn to live!
Thanks for your videos 🤗
Beautiful message thank you for sharing 💯🙏🙌💪
I have good days and bad days , I’m grateful for your advice Andrew 🙏🏻❤️
Welcome Y S..💯☀️🙌
The path is not linear. Feel it all good and bad. Keep moving forward on the path 💛
The visual image you painted just now…wow. The door to the house of isolation and confusion opening to reveal this family of kindred spirits journeying together on a path of awareness and restoration. The value of community is incomprehensible. I can only say thank you, but it doesn’t seem enough. Thank you, kind and amazingly helpful teacher for those who escaped the house and those who struggle to not get lured back in. Andrew, the Universe has given you a noble task and you are a blessing.
Welcome E P..🙏🙌☀️
Leaving all ashes behind!
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Thank you again Andrew ❤️ Listening to you helps us all. God bless you and all the other Listener's
Thank you Denise 💯🙌☀️
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It is true! I am singing and dancing again as I used to do as a young lady! Hallelujah!
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Thank you Andrew. I'm healing and growing. I'm so grateful for your page because I didn't even understand what narcissism was. Thank you
Welcome Debbie 🙏💯☀️
I grew up in an African tribe and glad to have found Andrew's tribe as I heal with all of you; awakened from work setting relationship that combined procedural power with NPD control. Everything clicks now. I found new energy, went to the gym in 10 years !
Exercise is so healing. I keep increasing mine daily and it's a good pain💪💪
Beautiful message kijeeli ☀️💯🙌😊
Andrew I’m so excited for you because I can see that your ready to take on the world again , a brand new, stronger, informed, healthier, happier YOU . You did that . It’s nearly time to fly 🌸
Thank you Lynn..🙌🙏☀️
You hit the nail on the head. I’m getting the minimal help from my therapist 🤦🏾♀️ Thank God for these videos.
Welcome Gee dee..🙌🙏☀️
We had no idea such evil exists. We worked so hard to enjoy a good happy time & believed in a good life together. The day we wake up, we have the lightbulb moment, is the day we find our way back to ourselves. With knowledge we get back on our feet & we realize that it is not us, who are off, but we were manipulated into a dark maze. Sadly the people who know the narcissist since a longer time, their family or so-called friends, knew from day one we were gonna be duped. They have seen that movie play many times. We do not have to play any.part in those lowbudget-lousy movies anymore. We can work to become the star in our own movie. Yep, lets become a shiny star again & twinkle happily ever after💫⭐💫
Thank you for sharing Carol 💯🙌🙏
It’s been 2 years. I’m finally coming out of the fog. Your content has really helped. I knew nothing about narcissism before this last relationship. Now I’m fully outfitted in protective gear and well armed. Soldier on survivors! ❤️
Beautiful 💯🙌☀️
I’m still drained and I’ve been out of it for 2 years but his drama continues through the court and can’t wait for it to be over! I keep a journal every day and I can’t believe what I missed he had me so brainwashed, and I know that they are masters of lying
Continue on the path 🙏🙌☀️
With my ex drama was dragged out for me too. Financial drama. He owed me money and he got much pleasure in denying payments. I eventually got my money back via pressure from his employer. He helped me. My ex thought that he would get away with it.
When it is over you will feel so good. Hopefully that will be soon for you.
I was treated so badly that I though I would die from hurt. I truly met Satan
I wouldn’t wish a narcissist on anyone
I feel now that I am a stronger person and I have learned the biggest lesson of my life. No contact. It’s the only way to go. Now he doesn’t exist.
One day maybe we could have a narc free party 🎈
Thank you Andrew, you are my life line right now, you keep me focused, during m
My time of getting over this mess of Narcissist.
Welcome Virginia 🙌💯☀️
Excellent !! Thank U Andrew for sharing this much needed info. I see that narcs try
to take our power away. They don't want us to be powerful..they want others to feel
powerless and insecure, which is how they feel deep down. But they have a need
to devour...always seeking in others what they lack. Today i saw a brochure that
had big bold letters that read : YOU ARE IN CONTROL Peace & Namaste
Beautiful message Shyann 🙏💯🙌
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone indeed..thats what I felt..its a message. Think about that for a minute !! lol I took the brochure home :)
Your videos, information, enlightenment & the epiphany about narcicism were the best things to come out of covid. Thanks Andrew, you're saving lives brother, God Bless you👏, from sunny kzn south africa
Thank you 🙏☀️🇿🇦🙌
Thank you Andrew. I needed to hear this tonight. It's been a long long process for me. Some days are good, some days are bad like today.
Welcome Trudy ..☀️🙏🙌
It took me 45 years not knowing the word narcisist but knew the toxic behaviour. I am a super empath and my nature is to give those creatures total silence. That worked well for me! Since listening to you Andrew and others, I am on the recovery path. I'm doing very well and watching Karma taking its course.
Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌
Sooo needed to hear this thank you xx
Welcome 🙏
Also when we had couple counseling through the church that we were brought up in my husband would go up and say it's better now lately because I would conform but he didn't conform he just did the same old stuff and I had to bend over like a willow to make it right by him that's why he always said it's doing better now because of what they said they had no idea what would a minister know about narcissism thank you for being there for us you're very much of an enlightenment everything you say resonance with me completely you had an extreme encounter like I did I believe
Thank you for sharing this 🙌💯☀️
The churches need to step up & realize that there are so many narcs in so many of the churches.... God does not expect anyone to serve a life sentence in a marriage or relationship when there is such horrible abuse involved...😔
Thank you for your compassion and empathy, If you can help one person in a lifetime that will have made all the difference, best wishes to you.
Thank you Palma..🙏🙌☀️
Thank you for being my community I hope I can follow you always this is a blessing for you being there for people like you and I and others like I said everything you say resonates with me Andrew thank you very much for being there for all of us
Welcome Gail..🙌💯☀️
Dear Andrew, thank you once more for your presence in my life and I'm sure many, many more lives on this channel. Your words are so sincere and true, sooo true!. You have helped me to understand what I have endured for so many years.
I pray that Father God will give me the strength, courage, wisdom and guidance to go forward and live a peaceful, peaceful happy , fulfilled life. Father God bless you, your family and all of us who are determined to live the life we were born to live on this earth.
Thank you.
Up until a month ago, I never had a name for this kind of behavior, and wow my life is changing once boundaries are being and is set. Being mindful of others, gray rocking and setting those boundaries is really the foundation of my healing processes.
Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙏💯
Andy, thank you for everything what you are doing here!
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Thank you as always Andrew for the time and care which you put into your videos. Although being in a Narsscasistic relationship is never a good thing I do believe, there has never been a better time to heal and overcome this because of the volume of information and help now available. It absolutely does take time to overcome abuse and there is no quick fix because of the volume of damage caused. Whilst in a romantic relationship with a narsscasist, my nuro pathways were taken to some unhealthy places and I would for example find solace in the silent treatments because it meant that I had a break from the hyperverbal communication and abuse. This by true definition is not solace and post narsscasistic relationship I needed to spend a lot of time alone in peace and quiet to figure out and assess the best way forward. Acceptance was for me the first crucial and logical step of many.
May you always be blessed.
Welcome Jean.. thank you for sharing this insight 🙌💯☀️🙏
Andrew just looking at it now ! I rose up out of the Ashes ! I'm actually standing on my own , I don't need anyone to validate me but me !!! Thank you for all of the videos ,the examples , the insight , the encouragement to keep pushing and steadfast to our on beliefs and grace to know we are worthy of so much more !!! It's been a good day Andrew . Peace be with you ! 👏👌🙌💪🌹💯
Welcome Candida 🙏🙌🙌☀️
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 😊👌🌹🙏
Thank you Andrew!🦋
Welcome Pam..💯☀️🙏
I was with my Narc for 39 years. In the beginning I used to cry to think anybody would Love me & treat me so Good!! But that didn’t last long. I had 3 kids with him & with every one of them he treated me worse!! Time went on I got busy raising the kids, & since he was a truck driver I only had to put up with him on weekends which was bearable. He did call me a lot to see what I was up to. Anyway, he got sick, & then he only worked part time. That’s when the true misery started!!! I haven’t Loved him for at least 20 years, but the kids & grandkids made things tolerable . I wanted to leave but I was too scared, afraid of what he’d do if he caught me. I didn’t want to leave my kids at his mercy either.. Well, that’s how my life has gone until he got Cancer. I helped him through 1 bout of Cancer but since he didn’t quit smoking & do what the Drs. Said I kinda washed my hands of it. Then he got it 2 more times & the 3rd bout took him!! When they pronounced him dead, I felt relief & sorrow for wasting ALL those unhappy years!! My kids are mad at me because I’m not sitting here mourning their father. Granted, I’m not going out or anything, but I can finally breathe in peace!!! In fact, I used to refer to him as my Warden... Am I wrong to feel this way?
Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏🙌☀️🙏
Wow! Your words are so inspiring. Thank you for being so genuine and good. Thank you for helping me on my path to healing and trying to love myself. Namaste ❤️
Namaste 🙏
Thank you Andrew for your video. Looking back to last year I was so very fragile. The abuse I allowed myself to become conditioned to was all I knew for over 6 years. I really believed I could never move on without him. That was until I descovered this soulless coward was indeed cheating in me. It was such a blow to what was left of my self worth. But somehow Andrew I did dig deep down and found a tiny piece of dignity left inside me and by God was I holding on to it. Then I found out about Narcissistic Abuse and I began to educate myself on everything we have endured. I came across your videos last Summer Andrew and I just want you to know I would have never rose up from the ashes without your love and devotion to us all. God bless you Andrew. Lisa
Amazing empowerment and awareness.. thank you Lisa..💯🙌☀️🙏
Andrew this video was so spot on. It is like someone said ok now let me show you what hidden abuse looks like and shine the light on your relationship. Isolated, yelled at, demeaned, belittled and eventually physically attacked. Zero self esteem.
No support, left to be laughed at as he triangulated me with other woman. No physical attention. One sick man. Thank God for your light, God and a good therapist. Not sure if I would be here!
I know exactly how you feel, keep strong 💪 🙏🌸
Thank you for sharing this Lorraine 🙏💯☀️
i wish i would have known your channel 20 years ago !everthing you say is spot on!
thank you
hugs and kisses
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Thank you Heidi 🙌🙏💯
Thank you, I’m at the dark night and you are helping me a lot 🙏 I feel I could die any moment, thank God I have him and a net of strong persons holding me… including you. Thank you so much… I hope for the day I rise again ❤
Great information! Thank you!
Welcome 🙏
Warning to others: I encountered at least one therapist who WAS a narcissist. It became very clear very fast. Trust your gut!🙏
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You always nail it, Andrew! 🔨🙌🎯 Thank you! It's been 5 months and I'm doing so much better lately. I will win! We will all will! Thanks so much for your videos! Namaste 🙏✨💖
We all do win by closing one door and walking through another. It takes a lot of courage but we are all up for the challenge. Stay blessed💛
Welcome Jett..🙌🙏💯
Yes Andrew this is a personal journey for each and everyone of us. The process to healing begins when you take one step forward and leave the abusive relationship. Thank you for another encouraging video - we all journey together towards the same goal of healing from the abuse and like the phoenix, we too will rise up from the ashes awakening our innermost self, to freedom and peace, as God intended for us to be. It's painful but we are surrounded by God's protection and love i - we are not alone! God keep us strong and bless us all.
To live a free life is to lead a great life. Never settle for anything less💛
Thank you Angela ☀️💯🙏
Thank you so much Andrew😇. Your videos and being part of this community sharing with others that truly understand has been a starting point for me to to start recovering. Also doing the work as mentioned...thank you for your truthful insights everyday and to everybody on this channel. We are not alone!😊🤍
Beautiful Penny 🙏☀️💯
Your such a beautiful person for what you do, and listening to this has helped me realise how far I've come on this journey, but still dealing with this from someone else
Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯☀️
Thank you Andrew we were never truly loved by the narc's the knowledge we have now it's making us grow and we are becoming stronger I love your insight we love you Andrew and thank you 💙
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Welcome Leandra 🙏💯☀️
Prayers to everyone. Allergic to Drama. I do what is my nature! The Sun always shines and if u stay long enough u might get burned,,, as I have experienced. So you deal with it , brush away ashes and move on! Thank you, appreciate your message. God Bless
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Thank you for this message today it’s amazing when your healing and you realize all of us are SPECIAL and we were “CHOSEN” for a reason🙏🏽 then I realize during my healing journey messages like yours today to come from nowhere or throughout the people in your life ❤️ U are a gift 🎁
Thank you Samantha 🙌💯☀️😊
You are great Andrew. I’m sure you are helping a lot if people. Glad I subscribed to your channel. I am healed took a while. Been watching videos on TH-cam for 3 years. It literally saved my life
Thank you Michelle 🙏🙌💯
Thank you, Andrew so much for clarifying so many terrifying tiring moments of absolute chaos created by manipulation of empty coward, evil destructive personality who tried to make me what he really is: worthless, tragic, lost manipulator.
Thank you so much for saving me from hell of illusions & imaginary lies. In other words, thank you for saving my life! ❤️❤️❤️♾
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The damage- was there never ever wrong. Thx for your channel.🤗
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Once again so correct Andrew and thank you for your time in the education you give us it’s a crazy path we all take with good intentions I’m so relieved that I wasn’t alone I would have gone insane my life has changed completely over the last few months all for the better with your help in understanding how the narcs operate total freedom from the abuse and it does take time time is they key but understanding also I’m nearly Wer I want to be it is hard to make that jump but also you feel better thanks again mate ✌🏽😎
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I'm so glad I found your channel! I'm bouncing out of this in a couple of months once my finances finish clicking into place. It's funny, this journey. Last July when tsunami of narc craziness hit, I was just so confused, sad and just ruminating myself into circles alone, I needed some kind of hope. I went on TH-cam and watched some of Tyler Perry's inspirational speeches, which were a balm. Then, the strangest thing happened. I saw a from there a video of Dr. Ramani, which started validating and educating me on what the heck is going on. Then, like a folk dance where you move through the complicated dance, locking arms wi th a new partner that swings you to the next move, I locked arms with Les Carter, then another therapist and another over the months whole I was so stuck in my emotions. It seemed divinely guided. Each new discovery was what I needed to hear to heal a bit more in that time. Now, that I finally made that plan and started to execute it alone still but stronger, I've locked arms with your channel. Your matter-of-fact, calm forthright videos are perfect right now before for the first time since I got in this crumby relationship trap, I feel calm and forthright and just making that new life happen. These videos are giving me that validation of not waivering, not quitting, not making it insurmountable actions, just a to do list of stepping stones to freedom.
I encourage anyone going through this stuff to take a sum total of an hour everyday to "Go to school" by watching a couple of these types of videos, write and release your thoughts in a journzl, visualize what you want your life to be, make a simple to do list of how to make it happen and just do one a daay. Anyhow, that's what I'm doing. You can do this!!
Thank you for your terrific videos and helping hand. Namaste, Light worker!
Welcome Mary..🙌💯🙏
I went to therapy for a while to try and figure out things and untangle my brain regarding the narcissist and to be honest it didn't help. What did help was finding a group of other people who had gone through the same thing and talking about our experiences and basically helping and supporting each other. This channel too has helped me more than the therapy did.
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Every word from your mouth is true. Thank you for the selflessness in speaking our truth.
Thank for your love and your fabulous education and wisdom about what we have to deal with and how we can thrive. Best channel for empaths and co-dependents.
Love from Munich, Germany
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Love listening to you….Namaste Andrew..
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Thank u Andrew. This is so on point. I am a Scorpio and our symbols are the Phoenix and the Eagle we always rise from the ashes and soar and our flower is the Lotus blossom we always rise from the muck into a beautiful flower. I was so glad and relieved I left this by educating myself with you and others here on UTube. I am forever grateful ♥️🦂♏
Beautiful Pamela 🙏💯🙌
One thing that really hurt was some guy on some clinical video on narcissism saying that weak minded people are very susceptible to narcissism. Like it was my fault. Made me sick. I don't watch his videos anymore. Thanks Andrew. Your videos seem to pop up just when I need to see them. So grateful. Namaste.
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Narc is still moving pieces of the game against me, using times with my kids to set me a trap. I cant speak with anybody, cause no one comprehends me. Thats why im sharing here. If i speak to someone they will thought im nuts. Thanks for lending an eye to read me. Thanks Andrew. Be well everybody and dont let narcs ensnare you anymore.
Sending hugs, it’s trying not to let her see it’s bothering you, why she’s doing it, kids will pick all this up, when there old enough, they’ll see🙏
Sending you healing energy and strength Frank..💪🙌☀️
Thank you Andrew. One of the best videos I’ve seen. I love it when you say “I understand “ because you can complain to therapists and friends/family, but only the true victims of narcissistic abuse understand. You get pulled in and tangled in the narcissist’s web. I have done the blocking and unblocking of my phone. I can relate to all of this. I’m stronger now but I have a long way to go. I don’t need tough love. I need the compassion I never got, but readily give to others. Your voice is very soothing. We need calm. It’s like a warm bath after a long hard stressful day. We need self-care and self-focus to recover.
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They will geht their Karma Like Any other. I believe in Karma. Maybe they were our Karma cause we were too Kind and blind. But they will geht their Karma too.
Great words.
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Saving lives.thank you
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Addiction counseling with a trauma counselor and EMDR people who are certified in EMDR will help you grieve through it safely. Seriously helped me Massively. it can get hairy but if you need a break say something. It all clicked just last week and wow just wow.
Thank you Andrew. It is the path to go. God bless you.
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You speak the truth Sir❗️💯👈🏼🙏🏽🙌🏼💁🏻♀️
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